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How To Be More ASSERTIVE – #BelieveLife


good morning believe nation its Evan my

good morning believe nation its Evan my one word is believe I believe in you and

one word is believe I believe in you and

one word is believe I believe in you and I want to see that thing you’ve got

I want to see that thing you’ve got

I want to see that thing you’ve got inside you explode out into the universe

inside you explode out into the universe

inside you explode out into the universe to have a big impact and so to help you

to have a big impact and so to help you

to have a big impact and so to help you on your journey today we’re gonna learn

on your journey today we’re gonna learn

on your journey today we’re gonna learn how to be more assertive rule number one

how to be more assertive rule number one

how to be more assertive rule number one is my personal favorite and I’d love to

is my personal favorite and I’d love to

is my personal favorite and I’d love to know which one you guys like the best

know which one you guys like the best

know which one you guys like the best and as always guys as you’re watching if

and as always guys as you’re watching if

and as always guys as you’re watching if you hear something that really resonates

you hear something that really resonates

you hear something that really resonates with you please leave it down the

with you please leave it down the

with you please leave it down the comments below and put quotes around it

comments below and put quotes around it

comments below and put quotes around it so other people can be inspired and when

so other people can be inspired and when

so other people can be inspired and when you write it down it’s much more likely

you write it down it’s much more likely

you write it down it’s much more likely to stick with yourself as well

to stick with yourself as well

to stick with yourself as well enjoy

enjoy

enjoy [Music]

where’s Kathleen hi Kathleen I want to

where’s Kathleen hi Kathleen I want to say my question and inspired by my

say my question and inspired by my

say my question and inspired by my wireless provider so I’ve been I’m not

wireless provider so I’ve been I’m not

wireless provider so I’ve been I’m not the only one I’ve had a lot of problems

the only one I’ve had a lot of problems

the only one I’ve had a lot of problems with my wireless provider and when I go

with my wireless provider and when I go

with my wireless provider and when I go in and I am sweet as sugar yeah and kind

in and I am sweet as sugar yeah and kind

in and I am sweet as sugar yeah and kind I am told well would you like to redo

I am told well would you like to redo

I am told well would you like to redo your contract and buy another phone

your contract and buy another phone

your contract and buy another phone because there’s nothing we can do for

because there’s nothing we can do for

because there’s nothing we can do for you when I let’s just call it become

you when I let’s just call it become

you when I let’s just call it become more assertive about my position I am

more assertive about my position I am

more assertive about my position I am rewarded with overnight shipping a new

rewarded with overnight shipping a new

rewarded with overnight shipping a new phone and a lot of other things so by

phone and a lot of other things so by

phone and a lot of other things so by going to a very negative place I think I

going to a very negative place I think I

going to a very negative place I think I am rewarded when I go and unpleasant and

am rewarded when I go and unpleasant and

am rewarded when I go and unpleasant and kind and the sweet wonderful person that

kind and the sweet wonderful person that

kind and the sweet wonderful person that I said that I am inside that is

I said that I am inside that is

I said that I am inside that is negatively reinforced by them kind of

negatively reinforced by them kind of

negatively reinforced by them kind of brushing me off assertion is not

brushing me off assertion is not

brushing me off assertion is not negative being assertive is not being

negative being assertive is not being

negative being assertive is not being negative there’s a difference between

negative there’s a difference between

negative there’s a difference between the intention of being negative and the

the intention of being negative and the

the intention of being negative and the intention of being assertive so it’s

intention of being assertive so it’s

intention of being assertive so it’s difficult for them to deal with me

difficult for them to deal with me

difficult for them to deal with me because I don’t just roll over and go

because I don’t just roll over and go

because I don’t just roll over and go away because I am very insistent upon

away because I am very insistent upon

away because I am very insistent upon what I consider an acceptable so okay

what I consider an acceptable so okay

what I consider an acceptable so okay well that’s not negative karma spiritual

well that’s not negative karma spiritual

well that’s not negative karma spiritual journey is standing on your own two feet

journey is standing on your own two feet

journey is standing on your own two feet I felt the same way when you said when

I felt the same way when you said when

I felt the same way when you said when I’m assertive sometimes I get that the

I’m assertive sometimes I get that the

I’m assertive sometimes I get that the very things that I’m standing up for

very things that I’m standing up for

very things that I’m standing up for what’s wrong with that if you do it with

what’s wrong with that if you do it with

what’s wrong with that if you do it with love and truth its truth and this is

love and truth its truth and this is

love and truth its truth and this is true for me that really doesn’t work for

true for me that really doesn’t work for

true for me that really doesn’t work for me that’s very inconvenient for me it

me that’s very inconvenient for me it

me that’s very inconvenient for me it doesn’t seem fair based on the contract

doesn’t seem fair based on the contract

doesn’t seem fair based on the contract I signed I really think we can do better

I signed I really think we can do better

I signed I really think we can do better here beautiful

here beautiful

here beautiful [Music]

I’ve always taught people if you want to

I’ve always taught people if you want to change your mind or your motion the

change your mind or your motion the

change your mind or your motion the fastest way is a radical change in your

fastest way is a radical change in your

fastest way is a radical change in your body I’ve taught for decades that trying

body I’ve taught for decades that trying

body I’ve taught for decades that trying to do that in your head to be more

to do that in your head to be more

to do that in your head to be more assertive it’s hard cuz your brains like

assertive it’s hard cuz your brains like

assertive it’s hard cuz your brains like hell yeah but what if this what if that

hell yeah but what if this what if that

hell yeah but what if this what if that and Who am I to do this and the mind

and Who am I to do this and the mind

and Who am I to do this and the mind plays these games if you see someone

plays these games if you see someone

plays these games if you see someone who’s depressed without me telling you

who’s depressed without me telling you

who’s depressed without me telling you anything you could tell me that what

anything you could tell me that what

anything you could tell me that what person has a physiology to them a way of

person has a physiology to them a way of

person has a physiology to them a way of using their body what’s their posture

using their body what’s their posture

using their body what’s their posture like slumped where’s their head down are

like slumped where’s their head down are

like slumped where’s their head down are they breathing full or shallow you know

they breathing full or shallow you know

they breathing full or shallow you know shallow do they talk really loud and

shallow do they talk really loud and

shallow do they talk really loud and fast or more quiet and more hesitant in

fast or more quiet and more hesitant in

fast or more quiet and more hesitant in order for us to feel any emotion anger

order for us to feel any emotion anger

order for us to feel any emotion anger frustration uncertainty excitement we

frustration uncertainty excitement we

frustration uncertainty excitement we have to use our body a certain one

have to use our body a certain one

have to use our body a certain one emotion comes from emotion so most of us

emotion comes from emotion so most of us

emotion comes from emotion so most of us have habits of using our body our breath

have habits of using our body our breath

have habits of using our body our breath our movement our facial muscles we have

our movement our facial muscles we have

our movement our facial muscles we have 80 different muscles interface

80 different muscles interface

80 different muscles interface eight-zero 80 for most people this is

eight-zero 80 for most people this is

eight-zero 80 for most people this is the largest area of unemployment in the

the largest area of unemployment in the

the largest area of unemployment in the country if you want to change your life

country if you want to change your life

country if you want to change your life and you want to be more assertive get

and you want to be more assertive get

and you want to be more assertive get around more assertive people and model

around more assertive people and model

around more assertive people and model them take on their posture move it seems

them take on their posture move it seems

them take on their posture move it seems artificial and boy

artificial and boy

artificial and boy stand with your hands on your hips

stand with your hands on your hips

stand with your hands on your hips standing straight up as if you stand

standing straight up as if you stand

standing straight up as if you stand that way for two minutes like Superman

that way for two minutes like Superman

that way for two minutes like Superman Wonder Woman within two minutes the

Wonder Woman within two minutes the

Wonder Woman within two minutes the testosterone in you male or female

testosterone in you male or female

testosterone in you male or female increases an average of 20% and the

increases an average of 20% and the

increases an average of 20% and the cortisol which is the stress hormone

cortisol which is the stress hormone

cortisol which is the stress hormone that stresses you out drops 15% in two

that stresses you out drops 15% in two

that stresses you out drops 15% in two minutes and all you’re doing is standing

minutes and all you’re doing is standing

minutes and all you’re doing is standing like this and you’re one-third more

like this and you’re one-third more

like this and you’re one-third more likely to take action be more assertive

likely to take action be more assertive

likely to take action be more assertive do something you normally wouldn’t do I

do something you normally wouldn’t do I

do something you normally wouldn’t do I have a ritual where even if you and my

have a ritual where even if you and my

have a ritual where even if you and my closest friend I have boundaries

closest friend I have boundaries

closest friend I have boundaries so just because it’s my company it

so just because it’s my company it

so just because it’s my company it doesn’t mean I can take calls all day

doesn’t mean I can take calls all day

doesn’t mean I can take calls all day right I have boundaries so you can’t

right I have boundaries so you can’t

right I have boundaries so you can’t call me in a certain time why I’m

call me in a certain time why I’m

call me in a certain time why I’m working so I’m gonna phone all day and

working so I’m gonna phone all day and

working so I’m gonna phone all day and I’m saying this to entrepreneurs because

I’m saying this to entrepreneurs because

I’m saying this to entrepreneurs because one of the gaps and we’ll talk about

one of the gaps and we’ll talk about

one of the gaps and we’ll talk about this later in the show but you got to

this later in the show but you got to

this later in the show but you got to find a gap and one of the gaps with

find a gap and one of the gaps with

find a gap and one of the gaps with entrepreneurs is that they feel like

entrepreneurs is that they feel like

entrepreneurs is that they feel like because they own their day they can

because they own their day they can

because they own their day they can spend it like they want you cannot spend

spend it like they want you cannot spend

spend it like they want you cannot spend it like you want to you saw you were

it like you want to you saw you were

it like you want to you saw you were working for

working for

working for IBM are you working for four where are

IBM are you working for four where are

IBM are you working for four where are you working for you could be on the

you working for you could be on the

you working for you could be on the phone all day I had a major corporation

phone all day I had a major corporation

phone all day I had a major corporation talking on the pole so so why do you

talking on the pole so so why do you

talking on the pole so so why do you allow yourself to talk on the phone is

allow yourself to talk on the phone is

allow yourself to talk on the phone is your business my fact is your you should

your business my fact is your you should

your business my fact is your you should probably you should make sure there’s no

probably you should make sure there’s no

probably you should make sure there’s no phone calls board oh that’s your

phone calls board oh that’s your

phone calls board oh that’s your business so one of my rituals is when

business so one of my rituals is when

business so one of my rituals is when high kicks party there are no

high kicks party there are no

high kicks party there are no interruptions when I get started I don’t

interruptions when I get started I don’t

interruptions when I get started I don’t care if it’s my wife my children they

care if it’s my wife my children they

care if it’s my wife my children they know that from a certain time train

know that from a certain time train

know that from a certain time train I’m going all in and I can’t go all in

I’m going all in and I can’t go all in

I’m going all in and I can’t go all in ants on the phone I can’t go all in and

ants on the phone I can’t go all in and

ants on the phone I can’t go all in and watchin TV in the strike head I can’t go

watchin TV in the strike head I can’t go

watchin TV in the strike head I can’t go in with the distraction and so some

in with the distraction and so some

in with the distraction and so some entrepreneurs like why I blown up

entrepreneurs like why I blown up

entrepreneurs like why I blown up because you don’t you’re not in

because you don’t you’re not in

because you don’t you’re not in abstraction you don’t have that that

abstraction you don’t have that that

abstraction you don’t have that that that moment of your day

that moment of your day

that moment of your day I don’t care there’s two hours four

I don’t care there’s two hours four

I don’t care there’s two hours four hours where you shut in try your world

hours where you shut in try your world

hours where you shut in try your world out no Twitter no Facebook no you know

out no Twitter no Facebook no you know

out no Twitter no Facebook no you know that no Instagram

that no Instagram

that no Instagram we love that in Sudama so we’re just the

we love that in Sudama so we’re just the

we love that in Sudama so we’re just the two hours I’m going in and once I come

two hours I’m going in and once I come

two hours I’m going in and once I come out then we can do Instagram not be

out then we can do Instagram not be

out then we can do Instagram not be honest your content probably would be

honest your content probably would be

honest your content probably would be stronger if you had that that time of

stronger if you had that that time of

stronger if you had that that time of isolation of solitude where you give

isolation of solitude where you give

isolation of solitude where you give yourself a chance to think you give

yourself a chance to think you give

yourself a chance to think you give yourself a chance to go in and when you

yourself a chance to go in and when you

yourself a chance to go in and when you go in you go 120 percent so yeah I like

go in you go 120 percent so yeah I like

go in you go 120 percent so yeah I like that you need to find your voice and

that you need to find your voice and

that you need to find your voice and this is something that is incredibly

this is something that is incredibly

this is something that is incredibly difficult to do if you’re not used to it

difficult to do if you’re not used to it

difficult to do if you’re not used to it you know I see some people that you know

you know I see some people that you know

you know I see some people that you know even some kids that are like screaming

even some kids that are like screaming

even some kids that are like screaming at their mom and dad I’m just thinking

at their mom and dad I’m just thinking

at their mom and dad I’m just thinking myself man that’s incredible

myself man that’s incredible

myself man that’s incredible not that it’s right or not that it’s

not that it’s right or not that it’s

not that it’s right or not that it’s good they really should be more

good they really should be more

good they really should be more respectable respectable they should be

respectable respectable they should be

respectable respectable they should be more respectable and respectful but the

more respectable and respectful but the

more respectable and respectful but the deal is the fact that they will stand up

deal is the fact that they will stand up

deal is the fact that they will stand up for themselves in that capacity and that

for themselves in that capacity and that

for themselves in that capacity and that intensely is mind-blowing to me find

intensely is mind-blowing to me find

intensely is mind-blowing to me find your voice use I statements instead of

your voice use I statements instead of

your voice use I statements instead of you statements

you statements

you statements this way you can express what you want

this way you can express what you want

this way you can express what you want without being accusatory to it what

without being accusatory to it what

without being accusatory to it what follows is the wrong way to tell your

follows is the wrong way to tell your

follows is the wrong way to tell your roommate to do the dishes you never do

roommate to do the dishes you never do

roommate to do the dishes you never do the dishes there’s a pile of them in

the dishes there’s a pile of them in

the dishes there’s a pile of them in this thing right now and it’s old enough

this thing right now and it’s old enough

this thing right now and it’s old enough to be carbon-dated here’s the right way

to be carbon-dated here’s the right way

to be carbon-dated here’s the right way I feel like I’ve been doing more than my

I feel like I’ve been doing more than my

I feel like I’ve been doing more than my fair share of the dishes lately I’m

fair share of the dishes lately I’m

fair share of the dishes lately I’m pretty tired when I get home from work

pretty tired when I get home from work

pretty tired when I get home from work could you help me out see you expressed

could you help me out see you expressed

could you help me out see you expressed your frustration without sounding like a

your frustration without sounding like a

your frustration without sounding like a nag the assertive dis goldmine what is

nag the assertive dis goldmine what is

nag the assertive dis goldmine what is it I truly want to start moving towards

it I truly want to start moving towards

it I truly want to start moving towards it on a consistent basis before we know

it on a consistent basis before we know

it on a consistent basis before we know the whole plan often you know a lot of

the whole plan often you know a lot of

the whole plan often you know a lot of people think that you’re you know your

people think that you’re you know your

people think that you’re you know your decision is your destiny and sometimes

decision is your destiny and sometimes

decision is your destiny and sometimes I’m like I don’t know about that a lot

I’m like I don’t know about that a lot

I’m like I don’t know about that a lot of people decide to lose weight a lot of

of people decide to lose weight a lot of

of people decide to lose weight a lot of people decide to be a loving spouse a

people decide to be a loving spouse a

people decide to be a loving spouse a lot of people decide to do something

lot of people decide to do something

lot of people decide to do something good but they don’t it’s discipline

good but they don’t it’s discipline

good but they don’t it’s discipline action that is your destiny right and

action that is your destiny right and

action that is your destiny right and often some of the best decisions in your

often some of the best decisions in your

often some of the best decisions in your life come after you have momentum at

life come after you have momentum at

life come after you have momentum at something and then you’ve gained some

something and then you’ve gained some

something and then you’ve gained some more perspective right but a lot of us

more perspective right but a lot of us

more perspective right but a lot of us are waiting for the perfect plan the

are waiting for the perfect plan the

are waiting for the perfect plan the perfect time the perfect person the

perfect time the perfect person the

perfect time the perfect person the perfect thing to pursue our goals or our

perfect thing to pursue our goals or our

perfect thing to pursue our goals or our dreams and is that waiting that often

dreams and is that waiting that often

dreams and is that waiting that often dampens our confidence because we’re

dampens our confidence because we’re

dampens our confidence because we’re where we’re at the external we’re sorta

where we’re at the external we’re sorta

where we’re at the external we’re sorta at the whim of the world a little bit

at the whim of the world a little bit

at the whim of the world a little bit maybe we get lucky maybe that person

maybe we get lucky maybe that person

maybe we get lucky maybe that person comes in maybe the funding comes through

comes in maybe the funding comes through

comes in maybe the funding comes through whatever it is we have to instead say

whatever it is we have to instead say

whatever it is we have to instead say what can I do to begin this

what can I do to begin this

what can I do to begin this what could I do now to begin because

what could I do now to begin because

what could I do now to begin because even if you begin and you’re not sure

even if you begin and you’re not sure

even if you begin and you’re not sure you don’t have to hold a whole path

you don’t have to hold a whole path

you don’t have to hold a whole path right sometimes the whole stairway is

right sometimes the whole stairway is

right sometimes the whole stairway is not looming until you take that first

not looming until you take that first

not looming until you take that first step as we learn from Martin Luther King

step as we learn from Martin Luther King

step as we learn from Martin Luther King right it’s like what is that for it

right it’s like what is that for it

right it’s like what is that for it sometimes it’s that first step and then

sometimes it’s that first step and then

sometimes it’s that first step and then the staircase emerges then we can see

the staircase emerges then we can see

the staircase emerges then we can see and so for yourself as soon as you take

and so for yourself as soon as you take

and so for yourself as soon as you take that first step that says in your mind

that first step that says in your mind

that first step that says in your mind hey you know what I took a step good for

hey you know what I took a step good for

hey you know what I took a step good for me and then you start making better and

me and then you start making better and

me and then you start making better and better decisions because you’re able to

better decisions because you’re able to

better decisions because you’re able to see more often you don’t know where

see more often you don’t know where

see more often you don’t know where you’re going in life until you start

you’re going in life until you start

you’re going in life until you start jogging towards something it still is

jogging towards something it still is

jogging towards something it still is run in place run somewhere but as soon

run in place run somewhere but as soon

run in place run somewhere but as soon as you run you start things open up to

as you run you start things open up to

as you run you start things open up to say oh look at this look at this look at

say oh look at this look at this look at

say oh look at this look at this look at this people haven’t say I wish I had

this people haven’t say I wish I had

this people haven’t say I wish I had more vision for my life Brendan it’s

more vision for my life Brendan it’s

more vision for my life Brendan it’s hard to have vision for your life you’ve

hard to have vision for your life you’ve

hard to have vision for your life you’ve never seen anything get outside of the

never seen anything get outside of the

never seen anything get outside of the house turn off the TV turn off the

house turn off the TV turn off the

house turn off the TV turn off the computer go see the world a little bit

computer go see the world a little bit

computer go see the world a little bit do gain a little more vision and with

do gain a little more vision and with

do gain a little more vision and with more vision and momentum towards the

more vision and momentum towards the

more vision and momentum towards the things you want you will have more

things you want you will have more

things you want you will have more confidence

thank you guys so much for watching I

thank you guys so much for watching I hope you enjoyed I love to know what do

hope you enjoyed I love to know what do

hope you enjoyed I love to know what do you think of this video what did you

you think of this video what did you

you think of this video what did you take home that you were going to

take home that you were going to

take home that you were going to immediately apply somehow into your life

immediately apply somehow into your life

immediately apply somehow into your life for your business please leave it down

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the comments below I would love to hear

the comments below I would love to hear from you I also want to give a quick

from you I also want to give a quick

from you I also want to give a quick Charlotte – Kelly Quinton from you and

Charlotte – Kelly Quinton from you and

Charlotte – Kelly Quinton from you and Kelly Q comm Kelly thank you so much for

Kelly Q comm Kelly thank you so much for

Kelly Q comm Kelly thank you so much for picking up ten copies of my book and

picking up ten copies of my book and

picking up ten copies of my book and sharing it with your friends giving them

sharing it with your friends giving them

sharing it with your friends giving them out as gifts

out as gifts

out as gifts I really really appreciate all your

I really really appreciate all your

I really really appreciate all your support I’m so glad you enjoyed the read

support I’m so glad you enjoyed the read

support I’m so glad you enjoyed the read thank you guys again for watching have

thank you guys again for watching have

thank you guys again for watching have an amazing day I believe in you hoping

an amazing day I believe in you hoping

an amazing day I believe in you hoping continue to believe in yourself and

continue to believe in yourself and

continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll

whatever your one word is much love I’ll

whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon

until you’re at a place in your

until you’re at a place in your confidence development where you feel

confidence development where you feel

confidence development where you feel pretty good about yourself and know the

pretty good about yourself and know the

pretty good about yourself and know the value that you bring you’re never going

value that you bring you’re never going

value that you bring you’re never going to be able to be assertive because

to be able to be assertive because

to be able to be assertive because assertiveness and asserting yourself

assertiveness and asserting yourself

assertiveness and asserting yourself does require a degree of risk and most

does require a degree of risk and most

does require a degree of risk and most of us are totally risk adverse but with

of us are totally risk adverse but with

of us are totally risk adverse but with confidence and assertiveness they go

confidence and assertiveness they go

confidence and assertiveness they go hand in hand be simple honest and direct

hand in hand be simple honest and direct

hand in hand be simple honest and direct don’t be passive-aggressive or coy it’s

don’t be passive-aggressive or coy it’s

don’t be passive-aggressive or coy it’s annoying if a waiter brings you a kale

annoying if a waiter brings you a kale

annoying if a waiter brings you a kale salad and you ordered a cheeseburger

salad and you ordered a cheeseburger

salad and you ordered a cheeseburger don’t wait until the end of the meal to

don’t wait until the end of the meal to

don’t wait until the end of the meal to under tip have them send it back if

under tip have them send it back if

under tip have them send it back if you’re honest and direct

you’re honest and direct

you’re honest and direct rather than Watley and underhanded

rather than Watley and underhanded

rather than Watley and underhanded things are more likely to work out in

things are more likely to work out in

things are more likely to work out in your favor at the very least you’ve done

your favor at the very least you’ve done

your favor at the very least you’ve done yourself a favor by making your needs

yourself a favor by making your needs

yourself a favor by making your needs known person has struggled with

known person has struggled with

known person has struggled with assertiveness myself I was always kind

assertiveness myself I was always kind

assertiveness myself I was always kind of meek in the way that that I would

of meek in the way that that I would

of meek in the way that that I would interact with people and I still am to a

interact with people and I still am to a

interact with people and I still am to a certain degree I’ve worked on it a lot

certain degree I’ve worked on it a lot

certain degree I’ve worked on it a lot but this kind of meekness really holds

but this kind of meekness really holds

but this kind of meekness really holds you back because a lot of times you’ll

you back because a lot of times you’ll

you back because a lot of times you’ll want something simple and you won’t be

want something simple and you won’t be

want something simple and you won’t be able to get it simply because you give

able to get it simply because you give

able to get it simply because you give up before your message has been

up before your message has been

up before your message has been delivered and sometimes your message has

delivered and sometimes your message has

delivered and sometimes your message has to be repeated and repeated and repeated

to be repeated and repeated and repeated

to be repeated and repeated and repeated persistently until you get what you want

persistently until you get what you want

persistently until you get what you want it can be just a very simple thing like

it can be just a very simple thing like

it can be just a very simple thing like maybe you go to a hotel and they don’t

maybe you go to a hotel and they don’t

maybe you go to a hotel and they don’t have your room for some reason they sold

have your room for some reason they sold

have your room for some reason they sold your room to somebody else and now you

your room to somebody else and now you

your room to somebody else and now you need to you need a room for the night so

need to you need a room for the night so

need to you need a room for the night so basically what can you do well you can

basically what can you do well you can

basically what can you do well you can just accept it as it is maybe ask them

just accept it as it is maybe ask them

just accept it as it is maybe ask them about why they screwed up your

about why they screwed up your

about why they screwed up your reservation then accept it or you can be

reservation then accept it or you can be

reservation then accept it or you can be assertive you can be persistent you can

assertive you can be persistent you can

assertive you can be persistent you can get the manager to come out you can get

get the manager to come out you can get

get the manager to come out you can get his manager to come out you can kind of

his manager to come out you can kind of

his manager to come out you can kind of pummel away at the problem until maybe

pummel away at the problem until maybe

pummel away at the problem until maybe some something clicks and something

some something clicks and something

some something clicks and something happens and you’d be surprised how how

happens and you’d be surprised how how

happens and you’d be surprised how how often something like that where you’re

often something like that where you’re

often something like that where you’re being assertive and being assertive

being assertive and being assertive

being assertive and being assertive sometimes just some sort of spontaneous

sometimes just some sort of spontaneous

sometimes just some sort of spontaneous solution presents itself whereas if you

solution presents itself whereas if you

solution presents itself whereas if you were meek then you would have just been

were meek then you would have just been

were meek then you would have just been hit he would have taken that hit and you

hit he would have taken that hit and you

hit he would have taken that hit and you wouldn’t have ultimately gotten what you

wouldn’t have ultimately gotten what you

wouldn’t have ultimately gotten what you wanted out of the situation

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