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“Get COMFORTABLE With FAILURE!” – Ryan Holiday (@RyanHoliday) – Top 10 Rules


I’m competing with my job often on the

I’m competing with my job often on the other side of what you’re afraid of that

other side of what you’re afraid of that

other side of what you’re afraid of that you experience really great things it’s

you experience really great things it’s

you experience really great things it’s so hard to to say no to stuff I think

so hard to to say no to stuff I think

so hard to to say no to stuff I think you always want to be challenging

you always want to be challenging

you always want to be challenging yourself and pushing yourself in the

yourself and pushing yourself in the

yourself and pushing yourself in the work that you do because that’s how you

work that you do because that’s how you

work that you do because that’s how you experience those situations what’s the

experience those situations what’s the

experience those situations what’s the impediment to action advance is actually

impediment to action advance is actually

impediment to action advance is actually what stands in the way it comes away I

what stands in the way it comes away I

what stands in the way it comes away I try to think about this in my own life

try to think about this in my own life

try to think about this in my own life hello believe nation its Evan my one

hello believe nation its Evan my one

hello believe nation its Evan my one word is believe and I believe in people

word is believe and I believe in people

word is believe and I believe in people more than they believe in themselves and

more than they believe in themselves and

more than they believe in themselves and my sincere hope is that if you see in

my sincere hope is that if you see in

my sincere hope is that if you see in yourself what I see in you you’ll be

yourself what I see in you you’ll be

yourself what I see in you you’ll be able to change the planet so to help you

able to change the planet so to help you

able to change the planet so to help you on your journey today we’re going to

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his top ten rules for success volume 2

his top ten rules for success volume 2 rule number 8 is my personal favorite

rule number 8 is my personal favorite

rule number 8 is my personal favorite and I’d love to know which one you guys

and I’d love to know which one you guys

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I would rather challenge myself in my

I would rather challenge myself in my career than challenge myself on a

career than challenge myself on a

career than challenge myself on a rollercoaster which is totally pointless

rollercoaster which is totally pointless

rollercoaster which is totally pointless and I would rather like for instance I

and I would rather like for instance I

and I would rather like for instance I love running

love running

love running I run almost every single day but I

I run almost every single day but I

I run almost every single day but I don’t do any races I don’t feel the need

don’t do any races I don’t feel the need

don’t do any races I don’t feel the need to have artificial competition in my

to have artificial competition in my

to have artificial competition in my life like I’m competing with my job do

life like I’m competing with my job do

life like I’m competing with my job do you know I was like I’m trying to write

you know I was like I’m trying to write

you know I was like I’m trying to write the best I’m trying to challenge myself

the best I’m trying to challenge myself

the best I’m trying to challenge myself with my writing running for me is

with my writing running for me is

with my writing running for me is something I enjoy and to me that the

something I enjoy and to me that the

something I enjoy and to me that the challenge is like oh can I do it every

challenge is like oh can I do it every

challenge is like oh can I do it every day not like did I beat 200 other people

day not like did I beat 200 other people

day not like did I beat 200 other people who I barely hear about well I think the

who I barely hear about well I think the

who I barely hear about well I think the point for the one thing that you’ve

point for the one thing that you’ve

point for the one thing that you’ve added is like I think sometimes we have

added is like I think sometimes we have

added is like I think sometimes we have like these artificial expectations that

like these artificial expectations that

like these artificial expectations that are necessary yes right you’re like hey

are necessary yes right you’re like hey

are necessary yes right you’re like hey I don’t run because I enjoy running yeah

I don’t run because I enjoy running yeah

I don’t run because I enjoy running yeah I’m not trying to be competitive and

I’m not trying to be competitive and

I’m not trying to be competitive and I’ve been for your writing like you are

I’ve been for your writing like you are

I’ve been for your writing like you are competitive but with yourself I think it

competitive but with yourself I think it

competitive but with yourself I think it being present and enjoying what happened

being present and enjoying what happened

being present and enjoying what happened is is is important I guess what I’m

is is is important I guess what I’m

is is is important I guess what I’m saying is like like yesterday I ran I

saying is like like yesterday I ran I

saying is like like yesterday I ran I did an hour and it was you know 92 or 93

did an hour and it was you know 92 or 93

did an hour and it was you know 92 or 93 degrees outside

degrees outside

degrees outside it was hot right like and and but I

it was hot right like and and but I

it was hot right like and and but I didn’t say like hey do I is this gonna

didn’t say like hey do I is this gonna

didn’t say like hey do I is this gonna be enjoyable or not I said look this is

be enjoyable or not I said look this is

be enjoyable or not I said look this is what I do and come hell or high water

what I do and come hell or high water

what I do and come hell or high water I’m gonna do it you know and and and and

I’m gonna do it you know and and and and

I’m gonna do it you know and and and and it was enjoy I got it wasn’t enjoyable

it was enjoy I got it wasn’t enjoyable

it was enjoy I got it wasn’t enjoyable at first but I but I pushed through that

at first but I but I pushed through that

at first but I but I pushed through that it’s like on the other side of that

it’s like on the other side of that

it’s like on the other side of that resistance is often that thing and so I

resistance is often that thing and so I

resistance is often that thing and so I think that’s the problem with people who

think that’s the problem with people who

think that’s the problem with people who are like you know I’ll just sort of go

are like you know I’ll just sort of go

are like you know I’ll just sort of go with the flow I’ll take it as it happens

with the flow I’ll take it as it happens

with the flow I’ll take it as it happens that can work but you know it’s often on

that can work but you know it’s often on

that can work but you know it’s often on the other side of what you’re afraid of

the other side of what you’re afraid of

the other side of what you’re afraid of that you experience really great things

that you experience really great things

that you experience really great things and you have to have the power to push

and you have to have the power to push

and you have to have the power to push through that why do you feel the most

through that why do you feel the most

through that why do you feel the most satisfied doing and where do what do you

satisfied doing and where do what do you

satisfied doing and where do what do you feel the most sort of fulfilled or

feel the most sort of fulfilled or

feel the most sort of fulfilled or creative doing and then that’s got to be

creative doing and then that’s got to be

creative doing and then that’s got to be the sort of gift that you protect at all

the sort of gift that you protect at all

the sort of gift that you protect at all times and then you’ve got to find beyond

times and then you’ve got to find beyond

times and then you’ve got to find beyond the other things that you’re either good

the other things that you’re either good

the other things that you’re either good at and but you don’t want to be doing or

at and but you don’t want to be doing or

at and but you don’t want to be doing or you’re really bad

you’re really bad

you’re really bad take a lot of your time and you’ve got

take a lot of your time and you’ve got

take a lot of your time and you’ve got to being able to delegate and find

to being able to delegate and find

to being able to delegate and find services or companies or other people

services or companies or other people

services or companies or other people that you can hire to help you with those

that you can hire to help you with those

that you can hire to help you with those things and like that that’s really

things and like that that’s really

things and like that that’s really that’s always been something I’ve

that’s always been something I’ve

that’s always been something I’ve struggled with and I think is a sort of

struggled with and I think is a sort of

struggled with and I think is a sort of perennial struggle of any kind of

perennial struggle of any kind of

perennial struggle of any kind of leadership or entrepreneurship how do

leadership or entrepreneurship how do

leadership or entrepreneurship how do you how do you build the organization or

you how do you build the organization or

you how do you build the organization or the structure that you need so so you

the structure that you need so so you

the structure that you need so so you can continue to do what you need to do

can continue to do what you need to do

can continue to do what you need to do as the as the boss or as the main

as the as the boss or as the main

as the as the boss or as the main creative force and you’ve got to be able

creative force and you’ve got to be able

creative force and you’ve got to be able to to continually evaluate your own

to to continually evaluate your own

to to continually evaluate your own performance in that sense and say like

performance in that sense and say like

performance in that sense and say like look you know this is what I’m really

look you know this is what I’m really

look you know this is what I’m really good at this is what I’m not good at

good at this is what I’m not good at

good at this is what I’m not good at here’s someone who’s better at it than

here’s someone who’s better at it than

here’s someone who’s better at it than me I’m I’m considering it an investment

me I’m I’m considering it an investment

me I’m I’m considering it an investment to hire that person or to to bring on

to hire that person or to to bring on

to hire that person or to to bring on that service provider and and and I’m

that service provider and and and I’m

that service provider and and and I’m doing it so I can continue to be as good

doing it so I can continue to be as good

doing it so I can continue to be as good as I need to be at at my my sort of core

as I need to be at at my my sort of core

as I need to be at at my my sort of core thing it’s 8 a.m. like I gotta get to

thing it’s 8 a.m. like I gotta get to

thing it’s 8 a.m. like I gotta get to the office and I was like why like why

the office and I was like why like why

the office and I was like why like why do I have to get like I I always wanted

do I have to get like I I always wanted

do I have to get like I I always wanted to be a writer I accomplished this thing

to be a writer I accomplished this thing

to be a writer I accomplished this thing I could make a living being a writer I

I could make a living being a writer I

I could make a living being a writer I have a home like I haven’t been there in

have a home like I haven’t been there in

have a home like I haven’t been there in weeks like why am I here and and I was

weeks like why am I here and and I was

weeks like why am I here and and I was like I was here because like I just said

like I was here because like I just said

like I was here because like I just said yes I didn’t think about like I mean I

yes I didn’t think about like I mean I

yes I didn’t think about like I mean I didn’t actually weigh like the pros and

didn’t actually weigh like the pros and

didn’t actually weigh like the pros and cons of this scenario and again it’s

cons of this scenario and again it’s

cons of this scenario and again it’s like sometimes you got to do it you

like sometimes you got to do it you

like sometimes you got to do it you don’t want to do to figure out what you

don’t want to do to figure out what you

don’t want to do to figure out what you want to do but it was like I I’d sort of

want to do but it was like I I’d sort of

want to do but it was like I I’d sort of distance myself from a lot of things and

distance myself from a lot of things and

distance myself from a lot of things and I’ve gotten it got my life in a good

I’ve gotten it got my life in a good

I’ve gotten it got my life in a good place and then someone called me and

place and then someone called me and

place and then someone called me and offered me money on the phone and I said

offered me money on the phone and I said

offered me money on the phone and I said yes because it’s so hard to say it like

yes because it’s so hard to say it like

yes because it’s so hard to say it like it’s so hard to to say notice stuff like

it’s so hard to to say notice stuff like

it’s so hard to to say notice stuff like especially if you’re like I do it’s so

especially if you’re like I do it’s so

especially if you’re like I do it’s so hard to say like I want to do this but I

hard to say like I want to do this but I

hard to say like I want to do this but I also want to do that I have to choose

also want to do that I have to choose

also want to do that I have to choose that’s easy to say like I’m gonna try to

that’s easy to say like I’m gonna try to

that’s easy to say like I’m gonna try to do both at the same time and I said yes

do both at the same time and I said yes

do both at the same time and I said yes to both like I don’t I don’t think I’ve

to both like I don’t I don’t think I’ve

to both like I don’t I don’t think I’ve ever like quit anything like I’ve just

ever like quit anything like I’ve just

ever like quit anything like I’ve just added new stuff right and so for me

added new stuff right and so for me

added new stuff right and so for me that’s certain

that’s certain

that’s certain has added up over time to an

has added up over time to an

has added up over time to an unsustainable load we all wake up the

unsustainable load we all wake up the

unsustainable load we all wake up the same every day we both wake up and

same every day we both wake up and

same every day we both wake up and things don’t go the way we’re like

things don’t go the way we’re like

things don’t go the way we’re like there’s not just the University when

there’s not just the University when

there’s not just the University when you’re younger but there’s also the

you’re younger but there’s also the

you’re younger but there’s also the day-to-day reality it’s like you run a

day-to-day reality it’s like you run a

day-to-day reality it’s like you run a business and I run a business and you

business and I run a business and you

business and I run a business and you know this this you have a problem with

know this this you have a problem with

know this this you have a problem with your accounting software and then you

your accounting software and then you

your accounting software and then you are having problems with with Skype this

are having problems with with Skype this

are having problems with with Skype this morning right like there’s also those

morning right like there’s also those

morning right like there’s also those minor situations and how you choose to

minor situations and how you choose to

minor situations and how you choose to deal with them determines whether you’re

deal with them determines whether you’re

deal with them determines whether you’re gonna have a good day or a bad day just

gonna have a good day or a bad day just

gonna have a good day or a bad day just in the same way that other situations

in the same way that other situations

in the same way that other situations determine whether you’re gonna have a

determine whether you’re gonna have a

determine whether you’re gonna have a good life or a bad life and how you

good life or a bad life and how you

good life or a bad life and how you choose to respond like if you if you

choose to respond like if you if you

choose to respond like if you if you know Skype wasn’t working and if you

know Skype wasn’t working and if you

know Skype wasn’t working and if you said like if you got mad you know if you

said like if you got mad you know if you

said like if you got mad you know if you decided that this was horrible if you

decided that this was horrible if you

decided that this was horrible if you got really frustrated it might not only

got really frustrated it might not only

got really frustrated it might not only would that mess with your attitude but

would that mess with your attitude but

would that mess with your attitude but then it doesn’t help you with the

then it doesn’t help you with the

then it doesn’t help you with the situation that you then have to deal

situation that you then have to deal

situation that you then have to deal with which is okay how am I gonna find a

with which is okay how am I gonna find a

with which is okay how am I gonna find a solution and how am I gonna do this

solution and how am I gonna do this

solution and how am I gonna do this interview and how am I gonna get the

interview and how am I gonna get the

interview and how am I gonna get the best out of it like I’m giving a talk

best out of it like I’m giving a talk

best out of it like I’m giving a talk right let’s say I’m giving a talk in

right let’s say I’m giving a talk in

right let’s say I’m giving a talk in from an audience I don’t control the

from an audience I don’t control the

from an audience I don’t control the audience I don’t control you know the

audience I don’t control you know the

audience I don’t control you know the weather I don’t control any of these

weather I don’t control any of these

weather I don’t control any of these things but I do control what I bring to

things but I do control what I bring to

things but I do control what I bring to that situation so I want to focus the

that situation so I want to focus the

that situation so I want to focus the entirety of my energy on doing the best

entirety of my energy on doing the best

entirety of my energy on doing the best possible job and salvaging the most out

possible job and salvaging the most out

possible job and salvaging the most out of gear I think the big problem that

of gear I think the big problem that

of gear I think the big problem that many people have is they don’t know

many people have is they don’t know

many people have is they don’t know what’s important to them and so they end

what’s important to them and so they end

what’s important to them and so they end up getting distracted by things that

up getting distracted by things that

up getting distracted by things that other people are doing or things that

other people are doing or things that

other people are doing or things that other people are trying to do to them

other people are trying to do to them

other people are trying to do to them right and so like I like we’re talking

right and so like I like we’re talking

right and so like I like we’re talking about with my business early on I’m

about with my business early on I’m

about with my business early on I’m thinking okay this is the way that

thinking okay this is the way that

thinking okay this is the way that you’re supposed to do things because

you’re supposed to do things because

you’re supposed to do things because this is how everyone else runs their

this is how everyone else runs their

this is how everyone else runs their business what I didn’t stop to do is

business what I didn’t stop to do is

business what I didn’t stop to do is think what kind of business do I want

think what kind of business do I want

think what kind of business do I want and what kind of life am i trying to

and what kind of life am i trying to

and what kind of life am i trying to have and when I was actually able to

have and when I was actually able to

have and when I was actually able to have that conversation I was able to cut

have that conversation I was able to cut

have that conversation I was able to cut out a bunch of extraneous things it

out a bunch of extraneous things it

out a bunch of extraneous things it makes the most sense for my personal

makes the most sense for my personal

makes the most sense for my personal happiness of my personal success to try

happiness of my personal success to try

happiness of my personal success to try to make as much money as possible for

to make as much money as possible for

to make as much money as possible for his least amount of time commitment as

his least amount of time commitment as

his least amount of time commitment as possible so I can write as much as poss

possible so I can write as much as poss

possible so I can write as much as poss well versus trying to you know make as

well versus trying to you know make as

well versus trying to you know make as much money as possible however possible

much money as possible however possible

much money as possible however possible right right and so sometimes you got to

right right and so sometimes you got to

right right and so sometimes you got to do the wrong thing too like you got to

do the wrong thing too like you got to

do the wrong thing too like you got to touch the stove and go like this is

touch the stove and go like this is

touch the stove and go like this is really hot I don’t want to do this ever

really hot I don’t want to do this ever

really hot I don’t want to do this ever again right and so it’s sort of pivoted

again right and so it’s sort of pivoted

again right and so it’s sort of pivoted you know my business and it would like

you know my business and it would like

you know my business and it would like they say like you know it’s not a

they say like you know it’s not a

they say like you know it’s not a principal till it cost you money like we

principal till it cost you money like we

principal till it cost you money like we had it’s one of the other partners went

had it’s one of the other partners went

had it’s one of the other partners went off started a different company in his

off started a different company in his

off started a different company in his made you know it’s done very well for

made you know it’s done very well for

made you know it’s done very well for himself and you know we’ve we’ve passed

himself and you know we’ve we’ve passed

himself and you know we’ve we’ve passed on a lot of projects that went on to do

on a lot of projects that went on to do

on a lot of projects that went on to do like pretty well and so like you you see

like pretty well and so like you you see

like pretty well and so like you you see like there’s a cost so like having the

like there’s a cost so like having the

like there’s a cost so like having the life you want there’s a cost right and

life you want there’s a cost right and

life you want there’s a cost right and you gotta be ready to pay that cost and

you gotta be ready to pay that cost and

you gotta be ready to pay that cost and the worst thing you can do is try to

the worst thing you can do is try to

the worst thing you can do is try to have like try to have your cake and eat

have like try to have your cake and eat

have like try to have your cake and eat it too right to try to have the life you

it too right to try to have the life you

it too right to try to have the life you want about doing the things you don’t it

want about doing the things you don’t it

want about doing the things you don’t it just doesn’t work I think you always

just doesn’t work I think you always

just doesn’t work I think you always want to be challenging yourself and

want to be challenging yourself and

want to be challenging yourself and pushing yourself in the work that you do

pushing yourself in the work that you do

pushing yourself in the work that you do because that’s how you experience those

because that’s how you experience those

because that’s how you experience those situations you know it’s very easy once

situations you know it’s very easy once

situations you know it’s very easy once you get to a certain point to be to sort

you get to a certain point to be to sort

you get to a certain point to be to sort of find your comfort zone and stay in it

of find your comfort zone and stay in it

of find your comfort zone and stay in it and not be challenged that’s not to say

and not be challenged that’s not to say

and not be challenged that’s not to say that life won’t visit challenges upon

that life won’t visit challenges upon

that life won’t visit challenges upon you but you’re gonna experience right um

you but you’re gonna experience right um

you but you’re gonna experience right um but I think exercising and working out

but I think exercising and working out

but I think exercising and working out is a great metaphor for this like I I

is a great metaphor for this like I I

is a great metaphor for this like I I try to run every single day and I like I

try to run every single day and I like I

try to run every single day and I like I don’t care what the weather is

don’t care what the weather is

don’t care what the weather is I don’t care how I’m feeling it’s

I don’t care how I’m feeling it’s

I don’t care how I’m feeling it’s something I’m gonna subject myself to

something I’m gonna subject myself to

something I’m gonna subject myself to and force myself to and you know often

and force myself to and you know often

and force myself to and you know often I’ll find like I run in the afternoons

I’ll find like I run in the afternoons

I’ll find like I run in the afternoons for instance and I’ll find that I’ll be

for instance and I’ll find that I’ll be

for instance and I’ll find that I’ll be tired that the day won’t have gone very

tired that the day won’t have gone very

tired that the day won’t have gone very well you know that maybe I wasn’t

well you know that maybe I wasn’t

well you know that maybe I wasn’t feeling great um but that hour that I’m

feeling great um but that hour that I’m

feeling great um but that hour that I’m out there sweating when I when I come

out there sweating when I when I come

out there sweating when I when I come back I’m ready to go again I’ve been

back I’m ready to go again I’ve been

back I’m ready to go again I’ve been recharged and fun I think being able to

recharged and fun I think being able to

recharged and fun I think being able to find that hey I do better when I’m

find that hey I do better when I’m

find that hey I do better when I’m challenged is a great thing to teach

challenged is a great thing to teach

challenged is a great thing to teach yourself and and and and the other thing

yourself and and and and the other thing

yourself and and and and the other thing Tim Ferriss told me this he was saying

Tim Ferriss told me this he was saying

Tim Ferriss told me this he was saying you know if you work out every single

you know if you work out every single

you know if you work out every single day

day

day you have a guaranteed win every single

you have a guaranteed win every single

you have a guaranteed win every single day so your company might be declaring

day so your company might be declaring

day so your company might be declaring bankruptcy but you you set a new PR

bankruptcy but you you set a new PR

bankruptcy but you you set a new PR or you know you have you you know you

or you know you have you you know you

or you know you have you you know you got a great rush of endorphins you’ll at

got a great rush of endorphins you’ll at

got a great rush of endorphins you’ll at least be able to tell yourself like hey

least be able to tell yourself like hey

least be able to tell yourself like hey that went well and that’s something that

that went well and that’s something that

that went well and that’s something that that the reason I seek out that hardship

that the reason I seek out that hardship

that the reason I seek out that hardship every day is that it’s a hardship that

every day is that it’s a hardship that

every day is that it’s a hardship that I’m sort of guaranteed to overcome as a

I’m sort of guaranteed to overcome as a

I’m sort of guaranteed to overcome as a creative what the critics think of your

creative what the critics think of your

creative what the critics think of your work what the audience thinks of your

work what the audience thinks of your

work what the audience thinks of your work what gatekeepers or lists or a

work what gatekeepers or lists or a

work what gatekeepers or lists or a category you know curators think of your

category you know curators think of your

category you know curators think of your work these are the things that are

work these are the things that are

work these are the things that are outside of your control and you have to

outside of your control and you have to

outside of your control and you have to remind yourself of that and and as a

remind yourself of that and and as a

remind yourself of that and and as a creative if you go into what you’re

creative if you go into what you’re

creative if you go into what you’re doing and you say I’m only gonna be

doing and you say I’m only gonna be

doing and you say I’m only gonna be happy if this external thing happens

happy if this external thing happens

happy if this external thing happens right I’m only gonna be happy if if it’s

right I’m only gonna be happy if if it’s

right I’m only gonna be happy if if it’s published by this publisher if I’m only

published by this publisher if I’m only

published by this publisher if I’m only gonna be happy if it wins this award

gonna be happy if it wins this award

gonna be happy if it wins this award it’s only gonna be happy if I make this

it’s only gonna be happy if I make this

it’s only gonna be happy if I make this amount of money these are recipes for

amount of money these are recipes for

amount of money these are recipes for misery because you’ve now put your

misery because you’ve now put your

misery because you’ve now put your happiness in the hands of someone else

happiness in the hands of someone else

happiness in the hands of someone else someone who is indifferent to you

someone who is indifferent to you

someone who is indifferent to you someone you don’t control your you make

someone you don’t control your you make

someone you don’t control your you make of it don’t lose myself you make a

of it don’t lose myself you make a

of it don’t lose myself you make a business decision or a choice and it

business decision or a choice and it

business decision or a choice and it turns out to be a mistake you were

turns out to be a mistake you were

turns out to be a mistake you were totally wrong you can you can see that

totally wrong you can you can see that

totally wrong you can you can see that as a mistake and you can get down on

as a mistake and you can get down on

as a mistake and you can get down on yourself where you can see it as a

yourself where you can see it as a

yourself where you can see it as a chance to get comfortable with failure

chance to get comfortable with failure

chance to get comfortable with failure because failure is a part of life where

because failure is a part of life where

because failure is a part of life where a scientist doesn’t get upset when a

a scientist doesn’t get upset when a

a scientist doesn’t get upset when a hypothesis that they had turns out to be

hypothesis that they had turns out to be

hypothesis that they had turns out to be wrong because it that’s what they do

wrong because it that’s what they do

wrong because it that’s what they do that’s the whole point they’re learning

that’s the whole point they’re learning

that’s the whole point they’re learning each time they do something wrong or a

each time they do something wrong or a

each time they do something wrong or a computer I’m sure as college students a

computer I’m sure as college students a

computer I’m sure as college students a lot of you get this as well here you

lot of you get this as well here you

lot of you get this as well here you spend weeks and weeks working on paper

spend weeks and weeks working on paper

spend weeks and weeks working on paper and the computer deletes it right a

and the computer deletes it right a

and the computer deletes it right a glitch erases the work that you’ve had

glitch erases the work that you’ve had

glitch erases the work that you’ve had so you can go set you can do with what I

so you can go set you can do with what I

so you can go set you can do with what I did the last time this happened to me

did the last time this happened to me

did the last time this happened to me was you get so upset and you kick a

was you get so upset and you kick a

was you get so upset and you kick a trash can across the room and it makes a

trash can across the room and it makes a

trash can across the room and it makes a huge dent in the wall or you can see

huge dent in the wall or you can see

huge dent in the wall or you can see this as a chance to to start over you

this as a chance to to start over you

this as a chance to to start over you can see is a chance to now that you’ve

can see is a chance to now that you’ve

can see is a chance to now that you’ve been through it once to do it again and

been through it once to do it again and

been through it once to do it again and ultimately produce a piece of

ultimately produce a piece of

ultimately produce a piece of this a higher quality than maybe you

this a higher quality than maybe you

this a higher quality than maybe you originally intended to return it you can

originally intended to return it you can

originally intended to return it you can you can use it the chance to actually

you can use it the chance to actually

you can use it the chance to actually raise your standard rather than then

raise your standard rather than then

raise your standard rather than then simply model through what’s the

simply model through what’s the

simply model through what’s the impediment to action advances actually

impediment to action advances actually

impediment to action advances actually what stands in the way becomes the way I

what stands in the way becomes the way I

what stands in the way becomes the way I try to think about this in my own life

try to think about this in my own life

try to think about this in my own life whenever I’m facing any kind of

whenever I’m facing any kind of

whenever I’m facing any kind of situation and I’ve yet to find one that

situation and I’ve yet to find one that

situation and I’ve yet to find one that is it made better from this attitude

is it made better from this attitude

is it made better from this attitude that isn’t made better by seeing each

that isn’t made better by seeing each

that isn’t made better by seeing each and every obstacle as a chance to

and every obstacle as a chance to

and every obstacle as a chance to practice excellence and it’s in its in a

practice excellence and it’s in its in a

practice excellence and it’s in its in a new form and you know I think today we

new form and you know I think today we

new form and you know I think today we all face our own problems there’s tough

all face our own problems there’s tough

all face our own problems there’s tough economic times we have a political

economic times we have a political

economic times we have a political situation that’s a you know we all face

situation that’s a you know we all face

situation that’s a you know we all face individual obstacles as a daily basis

individual obstacles as a daily basis

individual obstacles as a daily basis and we culturally face obstacles but we

and we culturally face obstacles but we

and we culturally face obstacles but we have a chance to see those things like

have a chance to see those things like

have a chance to see those things like vase on them which is to not only not

vase on them which is to not only not

vase on them which is to not only not see them as bad but to see them as as

see them as bad but to see them as as

see them as bad but to see them as as opportunities as as chances to improve

opportunities as as chances to improve

opportunities as as chances to improve or to practice something that perhaps we

or to practice something that perhaps we

or to practice something that perhaps we we otherwise wouldn’t have practiced

thank you guys so much for watching I

thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because Garrett de asked

made this video because Garrett de asked

made this video because Garrett de asked me to if there’s someone you like me to

me to if there’s someone you like me to

me to if there’s someone you like me to profile in their future top ten please

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vote on who we should do next I also

vote on who we should do next I also want to give a quick shredder to dave

want to give a quick shredder to dave

want to give a quick shredder to dave Lucas from the misfit entrepreneur Dave

Lucas from the misfit entrepreneur Dave

Lucas from the misfit entrepreneur Dave thank you so much for breaking up a copy

thank you so much for breaking up a copy

thank you so much for breaking up a copy of my book your one word and taking that

of my book your one word and taking that

of my book your one word and taking that awesome picture of you with the book at

awesome picture of you with the book at

awesome picture of you with the book at the beach makes me jealous kind of want

the beach makes me jealous kind of want

the beach makes me jealous kind of want to be there it makes it really good

to be there it makes it really good

to be there it makes it really good Beach reading so thank you so much for

Beach reading so thank you so much for

Beach reading so thank you so much for the support and posting it and I’m so

the support and posting it and I’m so

the support and posting it and I’m so glad that you enjoyed the book thank you

glad that you enjoyed the book thank you

glad that you enjoyed the book thank you guys again for watching

guys again for watching

guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you can too need

I believe in you I hope you can too need

I believe in you I hope you can too need to believe in yourself and whatever your

to believe in yourself and whatever your

to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon

one word is much love I’ll see you soon

one word is much love I’ll see you soon [Music]

let’s focus on what benefits are

let’s focus on what benefits are inherent in any situation and let’s not

inherent in any situation and let’s not

inherent in any situation and let’s not focus on what we’ve been deprived on

focus on what we’ve been deprived on

focus on what we’ve been deprived on because we can’t what we control only

because we can’t what we control only

because we can’t what we control only that attitude right and so we might as

that attitude right and so we might as

that attitude right and so we might as well give ourselves the attitude that

well give ourselves the attitude that

well give ourselves the attitude that pushes us forward that makes us feel

pushes us forward that makes us feel

pushes us forward that makes us feel that that seizes on what we are

that that seizes on what we are

that that seizes on what we are empowered to do and not dwell on what

empowered to do and not dwell on what

empowered to do and not dwell on what we’ve been deprived of or or what is

we’ve been deprived of or or what is

we’ve been deprived of or or what is holding us back I do think it’s

holding us back I do think it’s

holding us back I do think it’s interesting how we sort of expect like

interesting how we sort of expect like

interesting how we sort of expect like my a few months ago I got injured and I

my a few months ago I got injured and I

my a few months ago I got injured and I couldn’t work out for like about a week

couldn’t work out for like about a week

couldn’t work out for like about a week or so and it was like why did I think

or so and it was like why did I think

or so and it was like why did I think that I could go my whole life without

that I could go my whole life without

that I could go my whole life without being like why did I think that I would

being like why did I think that I would

being like why did I think that I would never be injured right why did I think

never be injured right why did I think

never be injured right why did I think it would I would all it with every time

it would I would all it with every time

it would I would all it with every time I roll my ankle it would turn out to be

I roll my ankle it would turn out to be

I roll my ankle it would turn out to be nothing do you know what I mean

nothing do you know what I mean

nothing do you know what I mean sometimes it turns out to be something

sometimes it turns out to be something

sometimes it turns out to be something and and and the more we can the more we

and and and the more we can the more we

and and and the more we can the more we can tell ourselves that these are

can tell ourselves that these are

can tell ourselves that these are realities of life the less devastated

realities of life the less devastated

realities of life the less devastated will be when they happen and the more

will be when they happen and the more

will be when they happen and the more quickly we can bounce back from them do

quickly we can bounce back from them do

quickly we can bounce back from them do you know what I mean like if that if

you know what I mean like if that if

you know what I mean like if that if someone does something rude or you know

someone does something rude or you know

someone does something rude or you know screwed up to you and your why did this

screwed up to you and your why did this

screwed up to you and your why did this happen this is so unfair how could they

happen this is so unfair how could they

happen this is so unfair how could they do this to me and all you’re doing is

do this to me and all you’re doing is

do this to me and all you’re doing is wallowing in self-pity

wallowing in self-pity

wallowing in self-pity you know that’s precious energy that

you know that’s precious energy that

you know that’s precious energy that you’re not spending towards your you

you’re not spending towards your you

you’re not spending towards your you know your reply towards your response or

know your reply towards your response or

know your reply towards your response or what you’re gonna do instead

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