good morning belief nation today we’re going to talk about five ways you can
going to talk about five ways you can
going to talk about five ways you can overcome your fears now if there’s one
overcome your fears now if there’s one
overcome your fears now if there’s one area that I see stopping so many people
area that I see stopping so many people
area that I see stopping so many people from living their dream from fulfilling
from living their dream from fulfilling
from living their dream from fulfilling the potential that they were born to
the potential that they were born to
the potential that they were born to fulfill it is getting over the fear of
fulfill it is getting over the fear of
fulfill it is getting over the fear of failure so how do you do that how do you
failure so how do you do that how do you
failure so how do you do that how do you take that fear and whip it out by the
take that fear and whip it out by the
take that fear and whip it out by the roots and throw it away so it never
roots and throw it away so it never
roots and throw it away so it never bothers you again you start to
bothers you again you start to
bothers you again you start to understand what fear of failure actually
understand what fear of failure actually
understand what fear of failure actually is because for many people all it is is
is because for many people all it is is
is because for many people all it is is being sucker-punched by the good opinion
being sucker-punched by the good opinion
being sucker-punched by the good opinion of other people caring about what they
of other people caring about what they
of other people caring about what they think you know how I’m often that keeps
think you know how I’m often that keeps
think you know how I’m often that keeps us down do you know how much of a life
us down do you know how much of a life
us down do you know how much of a life is wasted caring about what we think
is wasted caring about what we think
is wasted caring about what we think other people are thinking I mean yeah
other people are thinking I mean yeah
other people are thinking I mean yeah and the reality is this you start as the
and the reality is this you start as the
and the reality is this you start as the the number one a list actor in your
the number one a list actor in your
the number one a list actor in your movie called your life do you not which
movie called your life do you not which
movie called your life do you not which means that everybody else is either a
means that everybody else is either a
means that everybody else is either a supporting cast or a film extra in the
supporting cast or a film extra in the
supporting cast or a film extra in the movie of your life correct but what does
movie of your life correct but what does
movie of your life correct but what does that really mean we walk around thinking
that really mean we walk around thinking
that really mean we walk around thinking people look at us as the star in our
people look at us as the star in our
people look at us as the star in our movie but they don’t everybody else is
movie but they don’t everybody else is
movie but they don’t everybody else is living the same dream though they’re
living the same dream though they’re
living the same dream though they’re walking around in the star of their own
walking around in the star of their own
walking around in the star of their own movie and we’re just a filmmaker in
movie and we’re just a filmmaker in
movie and we’re just a filmmaker in their movie so if we stop taking the
their movie so if we stop taking the
their movie so if we stop taking the actions that we think will lead towards
actions that we think will lead towards
actions that we think will lead towards success because we think we’re worried
success because we think we’re worried
success because we think we’re worried about what the good opinion of other
about what the good opinion of other
about what the good opinion of other people will do to us I got news for you
people will do to us I got news for you
people will do to us I got news for you so listen carefully I don’t get on my
so listen carefully I don’t get on my
so listen carefully I don’t get on my soapbox about many things but I’m
soapbox about many things but I’m
soapbox about many things but I’m getting on it about this guy’s yeah
getting on it about this guy’s yeah
getting on it about this guy’s yeah nobody cares enough about you to bother
nobody cares enough about you to bother
nobody cares enough about you to bother to give an opinion because they’re too
to give an opinion because they’re too
to give an opinion because they’re too busy being worried about what they think
busy being worried about what they think
busy being worried about what they think you’re thinking of them failure failure
you’re thinking of them failure failure
you’re thinking of them failure failure is not taking the step failure is not
is not taking the step failure is not
is not taking the step failure is not picking up the battle swinging it at
picking up the battle swinging it at
picking up the battle swinging it at life failure is getting to the end of
life failure is getting to the end of
life failure is getting to the end of this game and regretting what we didn’t
this game and regretting what we didn’t
this game and regretting what we didn’t do
do
do it’s about saying whatever failures
it’s about saying whatever failures
it’s about saying whatever failures lying on your deathbed thinking oh well
lying on your deathbed thinking oh well
lying on your deathbed thinking oh well if I only I could go back and do fill in
if I only I could go back and do fill in
if I only I could go back and do fill in the blank you know something to me
the blank you know something to me
the blank you know something to me fairly isn’t falling down it’s staying
fairly isn’t falling down it’s staying
fairly isn’t falling down it’s staying down when you fall it you have to fail
down when you fall it you have to fail
down when you fall it you have to fail by the definition of all I didn’t
by the definition of all I didn’t
by the definition of all I didn’t succeed in order so you can succeed
succeed in order so you can succeed
succeed in order so you can succeed that’s what life is about it’s not about
that’s what life is about it’s not about
that’s what life is about it’s not about taking it with you at the end it’s not
taking it with you at the end it’s not
taking it with you at the end it’s not about scorekeeping I probably failed
about scorekeeping I probably failed
about scorekeeping I probably failed more times than I’ve won but I keep my
more times than I’ve won but I keep my
more times than I’ve won but I keep my average number of tries high and you
average number of tries high and you
average number of tries high and you know what happens guess what you tap
know what happens guess what you tap
know what happens guess what you tap into the lesson of history that most
into the lesson of history that most
into the lesson of history that most people ignore and that is this is the
people ignore and that is this is the
people ignore and that is this is the paradox of history that those that risk
paradox of history that those that risk
paradox of history that those that risk the least in life usually end up with
the least in life usually end up with
the least in life usually end up with the least in life and just because that
the least in life and just because that
the least in life and just because that brain won’t tell us that when we have to
brain won’t tell us that when we have to
brain won’t tell us that when we have to pay a mortgage on Friday doesn’t mean it
pay a mortgage on Friday doesn’t mean it
pay a mortgage on Friday doesn’t mean it isn’t true
isn’t true
isn’t true so get up and get in the game who you
so get up and get in the game who you
so get up and get in the game who you are right now watching this is as a
are right now watching this is as a
are right now watching this is as a result of your failures not your
result of your failures not your
result of your failures not your successes it is when we’re testing when
successes it is when we’re testing when
successes it is when we’re testing when the storm is ripping the branches off a
the storm is ripping the branches off a
the storm is ripping the branches off a tree you know when the rain clouds are
tree you know when the rain clouds are
tree you know when the rain clouds are there and we think we’ve got nothing
there and we think we’ve got nothing
there and we think we’ve got nothing left
left
left that’s who we are at our best when we
that’s who we are at our best when we
that’s who we are at our best when we show up when we test it the strongest
show up when we test it the strongest
show up when we test it the strongest trees grow in the strongest winds not in
trees grow in the strongest winds not in
trees grow in the strongest winds not in the best soil so next time you have an
the best soil so next time you have an
the best soil so next time you have an opportunity next time you start a
opportunity next time you start a
opportunity next time you start a question whether you should step forward
question whether you should step forward
question whether you should step forward or not or will it be a white square on
or not or will it be a white square on
or not or will it be a white square on the chess board or a dark square who
the chess board or a dark square who
the chess board or a dark square who cares get in the game swing the bat be
cares get in the game swing the bat be
cares get in the game swing the bat be all you can be
all you can be
all you can be get up and if anybody says oh you’re
get up and if anybody says oh you’re
get up and if anybody says oh you’re doing that or oh you did that all look
doing that or oh you did that all look
doing that or oh you did that all look at you failed no this they’re failing in
at you failed no this they’re failing in
at you failed no this they’re failing in their judgment of you not in your
their judgment of you not in your
their judgment of you not in your ability to pick up the baton swing it
ability to pick up the baton swing it
ability to pick up the baton swing it again that’s the person you were born to
again that’s the person you were born to
again that’s the person you were born to be my friends right that’s the person
be my friends right that’s the person
be my friends right that’s the person who you are you were born a miracle you
who you are you were born a miracle you
who you are you were born a miracle you are good enough you don’t need me to
are good enough you don’t need me to
are good enough you don’t need me to tell you that you already are get out
tell you that you already are get out
tell you that you already are get out there get in the game
there get in the game
there get in the game go embrace it and if you fall over pick
go embrace it and if you fall over pick
go embrace it and if you fall over pick yourself up swing the bat again and
yourself up swing the bat again and
yourself up swing the bat again and let’s go play this game of life
yes courage can be developed absolutely
yes courage can be developed absolutely and there are things that will help you
and there are things that will help you
and there are things that will help you to do that by putting yourself in
to do that by putting yourself in
to do that by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations sometimes life
uncomfortable situations sometimes life
uncomfortable situations sometimes life will force you to become courageous and
will force you to become courageous and
will force you to become courageous and so it’s there that most of us don’t
so it’s there that most of us don’t
so it’s there that most of us don’t develop our courage muscle case in point
develop our courage muscle case in point
develop our courage muscle case in point that I’ve had the challenge and I’m
that I’ve had the challenge and I’m
that I’ve had the challenge and I’m watching my languaging of dealing with
watching my languaging of dealing with
watching my languaging of dealing with the fear of claustrophobia of being
the fear of claustrophobia of being
the fear of claustrophobia of being closed in and I had to have an MRI and
closed in and I had to have an MRI and
closed in and I had to have an MRI and so I’ve never had one before so the
so I’ve never had one before so the
so I’ve never had one before so the first time I cave they had about four or
first time I cave they had about four or
first time I cave they had about four or five females of the rule that said are
five females of the rule that said are
five females of the rule that said are you afraid when they open the door I
you afraid when they open the door I
you afraid when they open the door I looked at though I was doing but I
looked at though I was doing but I
looked at though I was doing but I develop my courage but the first time
develop my courage but the first time
develop my courage but the first time they closed the door
they closed the door
they closed the door that’s not dogging is the hair let me
that’s not dogging is the hair let me
that’s not dogging is the hair let me out let me out and then I had to call a
out let me out and then I had to call a
out let me out and then I had to call a friend of mine to calm me down and he
friend of mine to calm me down and he
friend of mine to calm me down and he said les he said cancer is a thief let
said les he said cancer is a thief let
said les he said cancer is a thief let them find it before it becomes a
them find it before it becomes a
them find it before it becomes a murderer he said focus on the outcome
murderer he said focus on the outcome
murderer he said focus on the outcome not on the process and so the way that I
not on the process and so the way that I
not on the process and so the way that I handle fear is I don’t focus on what is
handle fear is I don’t focus on what is
handle fear is I don’t focus on what is it that’s terrorizing me I focus on what
it that’s terrorizing me I focus on what
it that’s terrorizing me I focus on what is it I want to accomplish and I see
is it I want to accomplish and I see
is it I want to accomplish and I see myself achieving the victory I see
myself achieving the victory I see
myself achieving the victory I see myself living from the dream living from
myself living from the dream living from
myself living from the dream living from that place that I’m reaching for in my
that place that I’m reaching for in my
that place that I’m reaching for in my mind
mind
mind Einstein said the imagination is a
Einstein said the imagination is a
Einstein said the imagination is a preview of what’s to come and so we can
preview of what’s to come and so we can
preview of what’s to come and so we can bypass the things that will cause us to
bypass the things that will cause us to
bypass the things that will cause us to be afraid by looking at and being
be afraid by looking at and being
be afraid by looking at and being focused singly on the things that we’re
focused singly on the things that we’re
focused singly on the things that we’re going for the fastest way to get over
going for the fastest way to get over
going for the fastest way to get over your fears I give you two different
your fears I give you two different
your fears I give you two different approaches one is find something you’re
approaches one is find something you’re
approaches one is find something you’re more scared of than your fear because
more scared of than your fear because
more scared of than your fear because some people are afraid of public
some people are afraid of public
some people are afraid of public speaking or afraid of doing anything but
speaking or afraid of doing anything but
speaking or afraid of doing anything but they’re more afraid of disappointing
they’re more afraid of disappointing
they’re more afraid of disappointing their children you know they’re more
their children you know they’re more
their children you know they’re more afraid of missing out on the opportunity
afraid of missing out on the opportunity
afraid of missing out on the opportunity they’re more afraid of not living the
they’re more afraid of not living the
they’re more afraid of not living the life they want when I was a kid I would
life they want when I was a kid I would
life they want when I was a kid I would do this little thing for myself and I’d
do this little thing for myself and I’d
do this little thing for myself and I’d dunk throughout my life called the
dunk throughout my life called the
dunk throughout my life called the rocking chair test someone taught it to
rocking chair test someone taught it to
rocking chair test someone taught it to me
me
me it was years ago I read in a book or
it was years ago I read in a book or
it was years ago I read in a book or something and it was the idea that if
something and it was the idea that if
something and it was the idea that if you’re trying to find out what you’re
you’re trying to find out what you’re
you’re trying to find out what you’re gonna do something wrong you’re scared
gonna do something wrong you’re scared
gonna do something wrong you’re scared to death
to death
to death imagine you’re 80 years old and you
imagine you’re 80 years old and you
imagine you’re 80 years old and you didn’t do it and how do you feel and if
didn’t do it and how do you feel and if
didn’t do it and how do you feel and if it doesn’t bother you don’t do it
it doesn’t bother you don’t do it
it doesn’t bother you don’t do it what if you think like like skydiving or
what if you think like like skydiving or
what if you think like like skydiving or you know I’m a helicopter pilot you know
you know I’m a helicopter pilot you know
you know I’m a helicopter pilot you know I don’t have time I have energy but if I
I don’t have time I have energy but if I
I don’t have time I have energy but if I fought at 80 years old I could have been
fought at 80 years old I could have been
fought at 80 years old I could have been flying and taking people down on the
flying and taking people down on the
flying and taking people down on the water and doing all this crazy and I
water and doing all this crazy and I
water and doing all this crazy and I missed out on that so you can either
missed out on that so you can either
missed out on that so you can either find you know what if you like to miss
find you know what if you like to miss
find you know what if you like to miss out on your dream or what something I’m
out on your dream or what something I’m
out on your dream or what something I’m more afraid of than your fear or we’ll
more afraid of than your fear or we’ll
more afraid of than your fear or we’ll all play through our fears and we want
all play through our fears and we want
all play through our fears and we want something bad enough right you know it’s
something bad enough right you know it’s
something bad enough right you know it’s like I don’t care what it is I saw man
like I don’t care what it is I saw man
like I don’t care what it is I saw man the other day I’ve known for years and
the other day I’ve known for years and
the other day I’ve known for years and he lost 80 pounds of meze in the 70s and
he lost 80 pounds of meze in the 70s and
he lost 80 pounds of meze in the 70s and I said what made you finally lose the
I said what made you finally lose the
I said what made you finally lose the way no you know you taught for years he
way no you know you taught for years he
way no you know you taught for years he said I really finally wanted it okay so
said I really finally wanted it okay so
said I really finally wanted it okay so let’s really want okay so let’s come up
let’s really want okay so let’s come up
let’s really want okay so let’s come up with some chips so one tip is you have
with some chips so one tip is you have
with some chips so one tip is you have to really want it well and one tip is to
to really want it well and one tip is to
to really want it well and one tip is to passionately figure out right the why I
passionately figure out right the why I
passionately figure out right the why I believe me believe in that reasons come
believe me believe in that reasons come
believe me believe in that reasons come first answers come second uh-huh if you
first answers come second uh-huh if you
first answers come second uh-huh if you get a strong enough Y you can figure out
get a strong enough Y you can figure out
get a strong enough Y you can figure out how to do anything but it’s a Y that’s
how to do anything but it’s a Y that’s
how to do anything but it’s a Y that’s gonna drive you so I’d sit down and say
gonna drive you so I’d sit down and say
gonna drive you so I’d sit down and say why is this a must for me not
why is this a must for me not
why is this a must for me not you’re defining your fears instead of
you’re defining your fears instead of
you’re defining your fears instead of your goals I think this is actually more
your goals I think this is actually more
your goals I think this is actually more important so take out a piece of paper
important so take out a piece of paper
important so take out a piece of paper divide it into three vertical columns
divide it into three vertical columns
divide it into three vertical columns first column is all the things that
first column is all the things that
first column is all the things that could go wrong in excruciating detail if
could go wrong in excruciating detail if
could go wrong in excruciating detail if you quit your job or made that big
you quit your job or made that big
you quit your job or made that big decision started that company whatever
decision started that company whatever
decision started that company whatever the middle column all the things you
the middle column all the things you
the middle column all the things you could do to mitigate those risks to
could do to mitigate those risks to
could do to mitigate those risks to decrease the likelihood of all those bad
decrease the likelihood of all those bad
decrease the likelihood of all those bad things happening and then the last
things happening and then the last
things happening and then the last column is what you could do to get back
column is what you could do to get back
column is what you could do to get back to where you are now if those things
to where you are now if those things
to where you are now if those things happen and I think once people actually
happen and I think once people actually
happen and I think once people actually define with extreme clarity what they’re
define with extreme clarity what they’re
define with extreme clarity what they’re afraid of they realize none of them are
afraid of they realize none of them are
afraid of they realize none of them are permanent almost all of them are
permanent almost all of them are
permanent almost all of them are reversible and then they can take big
reversible and then they can take big
reversible and then they can take big steps
steps
steps Tremayne this idea of fear of success is
Tremayne this idea of fear of success is
Tremayne this idea of fear of success is actually really fear of failure nobody
actually really fear of failure nobody
actually really fear of failure nobody is afraid to succeed if I said to you
is afraid to succeed if I said to you
is afraid to succeed if I said to you how would you like to make a whole lot
how would you like to make a whole lot
how would you like to make a whole lot of money easily and guaranteed win the
of money easily and guaranteed win the
of money easily and guaranteed win the lottery mmm week receive an inheritance
lottery mmm week receive an inheritance
lottery mmm week receive an inheritance nobody’s afraid of that what we’re
nobody’s afraid of that what we’re
nobody’s afraid of that what we’re afraid of
afraid of
afraid of is we’re afraid of failing in the
is we’re afraid of failing in the
is we’re afraid of failing in the attempt to be successful and this comes
attempt to be successful and this comes
attempt to be successful and this comes about mostly from destructive criticism
about mostly from destructive criticism
about mostly from destructive criticism in childhood we get a lot of destructive
in childhood we get a lot of destructive
in childhood we get a lot of destructive criticism we
criticism we
criticism we builds up this feeling of I can’t or I’m
builds up this feeling of I can’t or I’m
builds up this feeling of I can’t or I’m not good enough so the way that you
not good enough so the way that you
not good enough so the way that you counter this fear of failure fear of
counter this fear of failure fear of
counter this fear of failure fear of success any fear that’s holding you back
success any fear that’s holding you back
success any fear that’s holding you back is you counter it with the opposite
is you counter it with the opposite
is you counter it with the opposite words and the opposite magic words in
words and the opposite magic words in
words and the opposite magic words in every language are the words I can do it
every language are the words I can do it
every language are the words I can do it I can do it I can do it whenever you
I can do it I can do it whenever you
I can do it I can do it whenever you think of anything that causes you any
think of anything that causes you any
think of anything that causes you any concern just say to yourself I can do it
concern just say to yourself I can do it
concern just say to yourself I can do it I can do that I can do anything I can do
I can do that I can do anything I can do
I can do that I can do anything I can do anything I put my mind to I’ve raised
anything I put my mind to I’ve raised
anything I put my mind to I’ve raised all four of my children by repeating
all four of my children by repeating
all four of my children by repeating this to them over and over again for 20
this to them over and over again for 20
this to them over and over again for 20 years you can do it you can do it you
years you can do it you can do it you
years you can do it you can do it you can do anything you put your mind to
can do anything you put your mind to
can do anything you put your mind to those are the magic words that
those are the magic words that
those are the magic words that eventually undercut and erode and wash
eventually undercut and erode and wash
eventually undercut and erode and wash away any fear that may be holding you
away any fear that may be holding you
away any fear that may be holding you back where every milestone while you
back where every milestone while you
back where every milestone while you might be excited about the milestone
might be excited about the milestone
might be excited about the milestone there’s a part of the milestone that you
there’s a part of the milestone that you
there’s a part of the milestone that you don’t want to face are you hearing me
don’t want to face are you hearing me
don’t want to face are you hearing me and listen to me I knocked out the
and listen to me I knocked out the
and listen to me I knocked out the courseware boom got it done in order ET
courseware boom got it done in order ET
courseware boom got it done in order ET why did it take you two years ET after
why did it take you two years ET after
why did it take you two years ET after you finished your coursework why did it
you finished your coursework why did it
you finished your coursework why did it take you two years to get started with
take you two years to get started with
take you two years to get started with the dissertation I’m gonna be 100 with
the dissertation I’m gonna be 100 with
the dissertation I’m gonna be 100 with you there one look not all the course
you there one look not all the course
you there one look not all the course work out but when I finally got to the
work out but when I finally got to the
work out but when I finally got to the dissertation I had to get to that demon
dissertation I had to get to that demon
dissertation I had to get to that demon I had to deal with it I had to face it
I had to deal with it I had to face it
I had to deal with it I had to face it face what we’re not talking about
face what we’re not talking about
face what we’re not talking about elementary school middle school high
elementary school middle school high
elementary school middle school high school I’ve had a professor or to tell
school I’ve had a professor or to tell
school I’ve had a professor or to tell me in college that you will never get
me in college that you will never get
me in college that you will never get your dissertation that that that while
your dissertation that that that while
your dissertation that that that while your writing has improved but in terms
your writing has improved but in terms
your writing has improved but in terms of your analysis like you are not
of your analysis like you are not
of your analysis like you are not critical enough to do a dissertation are
critical enough to do a dissertation are
critical enough to do a dissertation are you hear what I’m telling you we’re
you hear what I’m telling you we’re
you hear what I’m telling you we’re talking about look math I love math
talking about look math I love math
talking about look math I love math coming up why it is what it is so please
coming up why it is what it is so please
coming up why it is what it is so please excuse my dear Aunt Sally like it is
excuse my dear Aunt Sally like it is
excuse my dear Aunt Sally like it is what it is right it’s not subjective
what it is right it’s not subjective
what it is right it’s not subjective writing is subjective I’ve had teachers
writing is subjective I’ve had teachers
writing is subjective I’ve had teachers to look at my work at it and and
to look at my work at it and and
to look at my work at it and and shrimping in the park and the fear to
shrimping in the park and the fear to
shrimping in the park and the fear to fear what the fear of rejections
fear what the fear of rejections
fear what the fear of rejections right this is if my teachers were so
right this is if my teachers were so
right this is if my teachers were so subjective I put my whole heart into it
subjective I put my whole heart into it
subjective I put my whole heart into it I put everything I can put and they tell
I put everything I can put and they tell
I put everything I can put and they tell me edit it again
me edit it again
me edit it again a revision after revision and it after
a revision after revision and it after
a revision after revision and it after are you hear what I’m telling you I had
are you hear what I’m telling you I had
are you hear what I’m telling you I had to deal with the fact that writing has
to deal with the fact that writing has
to deal with the fact that writing has never really been my strong suit
never really been my strong suit
never really been my strong suit and even though I’ve worked hard and I
and even though I’ve worked hard and I
and even though I’ve worked hard and I put in hours and hours in the back of my
put in hours and hours in the back of my
put in hours and hours in the back of my mind I in the back of my mind I could
mind I in the back of my mind I could
mind I in the back of my mind I could hear the teacher say ichi you don’t have
hear the teacher say ichi you don’t have
hear the teacher say ichi you don’t have what it takes to get a dissertation I’m
what it takes to get a dissertation I’m
what it takes to get a dissertation I’m a grown man dealing with that fear I’m a
a grown man dealing with that fear I’m a
a grown man dealing with that fear I’m a grown man I’m dealing with the rejection
grown man I’m dealing with the rejection
grown man I’m dealing with the rejection of getting all that read I all that read
of getting all that read I all that read
of getting all that read I all that read on my paper of having to do it over and
on my paper of having to do it over and
on my paper of having to do it over and over and over and over and come on come
over and over and over and come on come
over and over and over and come on come on somebody fills me you feel like
on somebody fills me you feel like
on somebody fills me you feel like you’ll do a hundred and twenty percent
you’ll do a hundred and twenty percent
you’ll do a hundred and twenty percent you’ll give everything you have and it
you’ll give everything you have and it
you’ll give everything you have and it still won’t be enough I feel you I was
still won’t be enough I feel you I was
still won’t be enough I feel you I was there a positive milestone is what if I
there a positive milestone is what if I
there a positive milestone is what if I give everything and it ain’t enough what
give everything and it ain’t enough what
give everything and it ain’t enough what if I put my whole heart my whole mind my
if I put my whole heart my whole mind my
if I put my whole heart my whole mind my whole soul into it
whole soul into it
whole soul into it ichi and it’s not enough what about
ichi and it’s not enough what about
ichi and it’s not enough what about doing and i fail and so i feel you so
doing and i fail and so i feel you so
doing and i fail and so i feel you so you just like you’re not gonna do it at
you just like you’re not gonna do it at
you just like you’re not gonna do it at all because you’d rather not do it and
all because you’d rather not do it and
all because you’d rather not do it and find out the truth and I’m telling you
find out the truth and I’m telling you
find out the truth and I’m telling you got to do this favor
got to do this favor
got to do this favor you got a fake show here and you guys do
you got a fake show here and you guys do
you got a fake show here and you guys do it anyway your way et had to face his
it anyway your way et had to face his
it anyway your way et had to face his fear that’s right yup I know you see
fear that’s right yup I know you see
fear that’s right yup I know you see Ichi be smoke and you right I am be
Ichi be smoke and you right I am be
Ichi be smoke and you right I am be smoke but it don’t mean be smart without
smoke but it don’t mean be smart without
smoke but it don’t mean be smart without fear and don’t mean be smart without a
fear and don’t mean be smart without a
fear and don’t mean be smart without a little anxiety
little anxiety
little anxiety it don’t mean be smoke and I’m just 120
it don’t mean be smoke and I’m just 120
it don’t mean be smoke and I’m just 120 percent sure no I have to live by faith
percent sure no I have to live by faith
percent sure no I have to live by faith – and I made up in my mind
– and I made up in my mind
– and I made up in my mind Ichi you gotta go after eat look I
Ichi you gotta go after eat look I
Ichi you gotta go after eat look I finished my coursework it took me two
finished my coursework it took me two
finished my coursework it took me two years why cuz it took me two years to
years why cuz it took me two years to
years why cuz it took me two years to get over the fear it took me two years
get over the fear it took me two years
get over the fear it took me two years to get over the anxiety it took me two
to get over the anxiety it took me two
to get over the anxiety it took me two years to finally say gonna live here I
years to finally say gonna live here I
years to finally say gonna live here I come Goliath you might be taller than me
come Goliath you might be taller than me
come Goliath you might be taller than me you might be bigger than me you might be
you might be bigger than me you might be
you might be bigger than me you might be stronger than me but I’m coming and I’d
stronger than me but I’m coming and I’d
stronger than me but I’m coming and I’d rather die trying
rather die trying
rather die trying I’d rather die going after this
I’d rather die going after this
I’d rather die going after this dissertation I’d rather give everything
dissertation I’d rather give everything
dissertation I’d rather give everything our guy I’d rather give a year I’d
our guy I’d rather give a year I’d
our guy I’d rather give a year I’d rather put it in work and fail you
rather put it in work and fail you
rather put it in work and fail you cannot try it off you know when you get
cannot try it off you know when you get
cannot try it off you know when you get old in life things get taken from
old in life things get taken from
old in life things get taken from that’s that’s that’s part of life but
that’s that’s that’s part of life but
that’s that’s that’s part of life but you only learn that when you start
you only learn that when you start
you only learn that when you start losing stuff you’ll find out life’s is
losing stuff you’ll find out life’s is
losing stuff you’ll find out life’s is game edges the margin for error is so
game edges the margin for error is so
game edges the margin for error is so small I mean one half a step too late or
small I mean one half a step too late or
small I mean one half a step too late or too early and you don’t quite make it
too early and you don’t quite make it
too early and you don’t quite make it one half second too slow too fast you
one half second too slow too fast you
one half second too slow too fast you don’t quite catch it the inches we need
don’t quite catch it the inches we need
don’t quite catch it the inches we need are everywhere around us it’s your boy
are everywhere around us it’s your boy
are everywhere around us it’s your boy Ichi man it’s your boy Ichi you say look
Ichi man it’s your boy Ichi you say look
Ichi man it’s your boy Ichi you say look look some of y’all you feelin me you got
look some of y’all you feelin me you got
look some of y’all you feelin me you got to get past this part and once you get
to get past this part and once you get
to get past this part and once you get past this part we’re in the clear so
past this part we’re in the clear so
past this part we’re in the clear so remember if it was easy everybody would
remember if it was easy everybody would
remember if it was easy everybody would do it it’s not gonna be easy but it’s
do it it’s not gonna be easy but it’s
do it it’s not gonna be easy but it’s doable it’s doable so do me a huge favor
doable it’s doable so do me a huge favor
doable it’s doable so do me a huge favor try so that you can make the rest of
try so that you can make the rest of
try so that you can make the rest of your life the best of your life and not
your life the best of your life and not
your life the best of your life and not get stuck at this point in your life but
get stuck at this point in your life but
get stuck at this point in your life but get past this point because on the other
get past this point because on the other
get past this point because on the other side of that fear and the other side of
side of that fear and the other side of
side of that fear and the other side of that anxiety and the other side that
that anxiety and the other side that
that anxiety and the other side that doubt thank you so much for watching I
doubt thank you so much for watching I
doubt thank you so much for watching I hope you guys enjoyed I made this video
hope you guys enjoyed I made this video
hope you guys enjoyed I made this video because Sandell asked me to so visit
because Sandell asked me to so visit
because Sandell asked me to so visit topic that you want me to cover in the
topic that you want me to cover in the
topic that you want me to cover in the next edition of believe life leave it in
next edition of believe life leave it in
next edition of believe life leave it in the comments below and I’ll see what I
the comments below and I’ll see what I
the comments below and I’ll see what I can do
can do
can do I’d also love to know which of the clips
I’d also love to know which of the clips
I’d also love to know which of the clips that you saw had the most impact on you
that you saw had the most impact on you
that you saw had the most impact on you and why leave it in the comments and
and why leave it in the comments and
and why leave it in the comments and I’ll join in the discussion thank you so
I’ll join in the discussion thank you so
I’ll join in the discussion thank you so much for watching
much for watching
much for watching have an amazing day continue to believe
have an amazing day continue to believe
have an amazing day continue to believe and I’ll see you soon
fill your calendar up my trick I play
fill your calendar up my trick I play with myself not to deal with fear is I
with myself not to deal with fear is I
with myself not to deal with fear is I feel my calendar I pack it so tight I’m
feel my calendar I pack it so tight I’m
feel my calendar I pack it so tight I’m literally starving fear because fear
literally starving fear because fear
literally starving fear because fear needs time
needs time
needs time if you Jam your calendar no white space
if you Jam your calendar no white space
if you Jam your calendar no white space on a calendar you’ll starve fear fear
on a calendar you’ll starve fear fear
on a calendar you’ll starve fear fear lives on time the first step is finding
lives on time the first step is finding
lives on time the first step is finding out where that fear comes from it starts
out where that fear comes from it starts
out where that fear comes from it starts as we heard last week with a young with
as we heard last week with a young with
as we heard last week with a young with the story that you’re telling yourself
the story that you’re telling yourself
the story that you’re telling yourself I’ve said it before we become what we
I’ve said it before we become what we
I’ve said it before we become what we believe you don’t come what become what
believe you don’t come what become what
believe you don’t come what become what you wish for or what you want you become
you wish for or what you want you become
you wish for or what you want you become what you really believe in your heart
what you really believe in your heart
what you really believe in your heart you deserve and you’re worthy of that’s
you deserve and you’re worthy of that’s
you deserve and you’re worthy of that’s the reason I’ve been able I believe to
the reason I’ve been able I believe to
the reason I’ve been able I believe to accomplish what I have in the world it’s
accomplish what I have in the world it’s
accomplish what I have in the world it’s because I did not believe what I was
because I did not believe what I was
because I did not believe what I was told about being poor and black and
told about being poor and black and
told about being poor and black and female in Mississippi
I actually believed in a higher power in
I actually believed in a higher power in a greater consciousness I called it God
a greater consciousness I called it God
a greater consciousness I called it God and I was able to link my belief align
and I was able to link my belief align
and I was able to link my belief align my beliefs with that power that was
my beliefs with that power that was
my beliefs with that power that was greater than myself and to allow that to
greater than myself and to allow that to
greater than myself and to allow that to be the current that I flowed through my
be the current that I flowed through my
be the current that I flowed through my life so the stories we tell ourselves
life so the stories we tell ourselves
life so the stories we tell ourselves that’s a story I told myself when I
that’s a story I told myself when I
that’s a story I told myself when I heard that I was God’s child I took it I
heard that I was God’s child I took it I
heard that I was God’s child I took it I took it and believed it I’m God’s child
took it and believed it I’m God’s child
took it and believed it I’m God’s child that means I can do anything but toy
that means I can do anything but toy
that means I can do anything but toy stories that we tell ourselves can make
stories that we tell ourselves can make
stories that we tell ourselves can make or break our lives no matter who you are
or break our lives no matter who you are
or break our lives no matter who you are now fear is going to be a player in your
now fear is going to be a player in your
now fear is going to be a player in your life but you get to decide how much you
life but you get to decide how much you
life but you get to decide how much you can spend your whole life imagining
can spend your whole life imagining
can spend your whole life imagining ghosts worrying about the pathway to the
ghosts worrying about the pathway to the
ghosts worrying about the pathway to the future but all there will ever be is
future but all there will ever be is
future but all there will ever be is what’s happening here in the decisions
what’s happening here in the decisions
what’s happening here in the decisions we make in this moment which are based
we make in this moment which are based
we make in this moment which are based in either love or fear so many of us
in either love or fear so many of us
in either love or fear so many of us choose our path out of fear disguised as
choose our path out of fear disguised as
choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality
what we really want seems impossibly out
what we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculous to expect so we
of reach and ridiculous to expect so we
of reach and ridiculous to expect so we never dare to ask the universe for it
never dare to ask the universe for it
never dare to ask the universe for it I’m saying I’m the proof that you can
I’m saying I’m the proof that you can
I’m saying I’m the proof that you can ask the universe for it
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