Should you DETOUR from your dream? – #AskEvan

should you detour from your dream I’m

should you detour from your dream I’m going to answer that question in today’s

going to answer that question in today’s

going to answer that question in today’s episode of ask Evan so recent gotta ask

episode of ask Evan so recent gotta ask

episode of ask Evan so recent gotta ask another question from one of my YouTube

another question from one of my YouTube

another question from one of my YouTube audience love you guys Vanessa who wrote

audience love you guys Vanessa who wrote

audience love you guys Vanessa who wrote in the say hi haven’t just found out

in the say hi haven’t just found out

in the say hi haven’t just found out about you and your videos and I’m loving

about you and your videos and I’m loving

about you and your videos and I’m loving it great job thanks Vanessa now I have a

it great job thanks Vanessa now I have a

it great job thanks Vanessa now I have a question about hard times that I’ve been

question about hard times that I’ve been

question about hard times that I’ve been facing lately how do you know if a

facing lately how do you know if a

facing lately how do you know if a detour if it’s part of the process of

detour if it’s part of the process of

detour if it’s part of the process of reaching your dream or a path you

reaching your dream or a path you

reaching your dream or a path you shouldn’t take because it’s not related

shouldn’t take because it’s not related

shouldn’t take because it’s not related to the process of reaching your dreams

to the process of reaching your dreams

to the process of reaching your dreams you see I’ve already did what you just

you see I’ve already did what you just

you see I’ve already did what you just said not to do I’ve spent all my money

said not to do I’ve spent all my money

said not to do I’ve spent all my money and put my full-time efforts in to

and put my full-time efforts in to

and put my full-time efforts in to create an online business and it didn’t

create an online business and it didn’t

create an online business and it didn’t work now my situation is worse ever no

work now my situation is worse ever no

work now my situation is worse ever no money left literally debts living with

money left literally debts living with

money left literally debts living with my mom and then your stock but you can’t

my mom and then your stock but you can’t

my mom and then your stock but you can’t give up I think like that but I tend to

give up I think like that but I tend to

give up I think like that but I tend to procrastinate and say I’m not giving up

procrastinate and say I’m not giving up

procrastinate and say I’m not giving up I’m not going to do it later now I need

I’m not going to do it later now I need

I’m not going to do it later now I need a job and it’s true we need to make a

a job and it’s true we need to make a

a job and it’s true we need to make a living even while working towards our

living even while working towards our

living even while working towards our dreams pay the bill survive and so on

dreams pay the bill survive and so on

dreams pay the bill survive and so on but taking a job now that’s not my dream

but taking a job now that’s not my dream

but taking a job now that’s not my dream job seems like a detour to me so should

job seems like a detour to me so should

job seems like a detour to me so should i do it could the d to be a part of the

i do it could the d to be a part of the

i do it could the d to be a part of the way or not because i also know that i

way or not because i also know that i

way or not because i also know that i won’t be happy anymore with anything

won’t be happy anymore with anything

won’t be happy anymore with anything less than what i want so Vanessa I’m

less than what i want so Vanessa I’m

less than what i want so Vanessa I’m feeling your pain I’m feeling the

feeling your pain I’m feeling the

feeling your pain I’m feeling the sacrifice that you went into your

sacrifice that you went into your

sacrifice that you went into your business and I’m going to give you three

business and I’m going to give you three

business and I’m going to give you three strategies to help you stay on path

strategies to help you stay on path

strategies to help you stay on path number one is follow your flow the most

number one is follow your flow the most

number one is follow your flow the most important bit of advice I can give you i

important bit of advice I can give you i

important bit of advice I can give you i think is to follow your flow and if

think is to follow your flow and if

think is to follow your flow and if there’s something that you really love

there’s something that you really love

there’s something that you really love doing something that you’re being pulled

doing something that you’re being pulled

doing something that you’re being pulled towards trying then you got to go for

towards trying then you got to go for

towards trying then you got to go for even if it doesn’t make any sense right

even if it doesn’t make any sense right

even if it doesn’t make any sense right now following your flow will help make

now following your flow will help make

now following your flow will help make sure that you’re always excited by your

sure that you’re always excited by your

sure that you’re always excited by your business always happy with what you’re

business always happy with what you’re

business always happy with what you’re doing and always leads you to creating

doing and always leads you to creating

doing and always leads you to creating something of importance every time I

something of importance every time I

something of importance every time I follow my flow in trying wanting to try

follow my flow in trying wanting to try

follow my flow in trying wanting to try something new it’s always led to

something new it’s always led to

something new it’s always led to something either great or at least

something either great or at least

something either great or at least something that I now don’t have any

something that I now don’t have any

something that I now don’t have any regrets doing so one example is making

regrets doing so one example is making

regrets doing so one example is making this YouTube channel right I thought hey

this YouTube channel right I thought hey

this YouTube channel right I thought hey I’m going to make you to channel i’m

I’m going to make you to channel i’m

I’m going to make you to channel i’m curious about i’m going to follow my

curious about i’m going to follow my

curious about i’m going to follow my flow and go into it and now it’s become

flow and go into it and now it’s become

flow and go into it and now it’s become a major part of what i’m doing and

a major part of what i’m doing and

a major part of what i’m doing and there’s an other projects that I’ve

there’s an other projects that I’ve

there’s an other projects that I’ve tried and I didn’t love and I dropped

tried and I didn’t love and I dropped

tried and I didn’t love and I dropped them but now I don’t live with regret

them but now I don’t live with regret

them but now I don’t live with regret knowing that I didn’t give it my all to

knowing that I didn’t give it my all to

knowing that I didn’t give it my all to at least try and know if

at least try and know if

at least try and know if got an answer or not so follow your flow

got an answer or not so follow your flow

got an answer or not so follow your flow number two is work to learn the reason

number two is work to learn the reason

number two is work to learn the reason to get a job most people think is just

to get a job most people think is just

to get a job most people think is just to make money and yes you have to pay

to make money and yes you have to pay

to make money and yes you have to pay your bills you have to pay your rent you

your bills you have to pay your rent you

your bills you have to pay your rent you want to be able to move out of your

want to be able to move out of your

want to be able to move out of your house and not live with your mom anymore

house and not live with your mom anymore

house and not live with your mom anymore and I get that and it’s hard and you’re

and I get that and it’s hard and you’re

and I get that and it’s hard and you’re struggling and that can be okay to go

struggling and that can be okay to go

struggling and that can be okay to go get a job but the reason to get a job is

get a job but the reason to get a job is

get a job but the reason to get a job is to learn you work to learn you want to

to learn you work to learn you want to

to learn you work to learn you want to work at a business where ideally you can

work at a business where ideally you can

work at a business where ideally you can learn how to be a better entrepreneur

learn how to be a better entrepreneur

learn how to be a better entrepreneur don’t just get a job flipping burgers

don’t just get a job flipping burgers

don’t just get a job flipping burgers just to make some money go get a job

just to make some money go get a job

just to make some money go get a job where you’re going to learn something

where you’re going to learn something

where you’re going to learn something from somebody and ideally what I try to

from somebody and ideally what I try to

from somebody and ideally what I try to do is find a company that has 10

do is find a company that has 10

do is find a company that has 10 employees or less somebody doing exactly

employees or less somebody doing exactly

employees or less somebody doing exactly what you want to do and go off for the

what you want to do and go off for the

what you want to do and go off for the work for them and get as close to the

work for them and get as close to the

work for them and get as close to the entrepreneur founder as possible and

entrepreneur founder as possible and

entrepreneur founder as possible and take on as many responsibilities as

take on as many responsibilities as

take on as many responsibilities as possible not just doing what you were

possible not just doing what you were

possible not just doing what you were hired to do try to get as close to the

hired to do try to get as close to the

hired to do try to get as close to the entrepreneur founders possible and take

entrepreneur founders possible and take

entrepreneur founders possible and take on as many responsibilities as you can

on as many responsibilities as you can

on as many responsibilities as you can because that’s going to teach you how to

because that’s going to teach you how to

because that’s going to teach you how to run a successful business so that when

run a successful business so that when

run a successful business so that when you go when you launch your business

you go when you launch your business

you go when you launch your business again you have more Skills and this way

again you have more Skills and this way

again you have more Skills and this way you’re getting paid to do it right

you’re getting paid to do it right

you’re getting paid to do it right you’re getting paid to make mistakes

you’re getting paid to make mistakes

you’re getting paid to make mistakes you’re getting paid to learn you’re

you’re getting paid to learn you’re

you’re getting paid to learn you’re getting paid to understand how your

getting paid to understand how your

getting paid to understand how your industry works and make contacts and

industry works and make contacts and

industry works and make contacts and it’s a fantastic way to do it while not

it’s a fantastic way to do it while not

it’s a fantastic way to do it while not risking everything like you did the

risking everything like you did the

risking everything like you did the first time around right so go get a job

first time around right so go get a job

first time around right so go get a job if you need to get a job that’s totally

if you need to get a job that’s totally

if you need to get a job that’s totally okay I’m not the guy who says go all in

okay I’m not the guy who says go all in

okay I’m not the guy who says go all in and start your business and burn all

and start your business and burn all

and start your business and burn all your savings because then you end up in

your savings because then you end up in

your savings because then you end up in the situation that you’re in now so good

the situation that you’re in now so good

the situation that you’re in now so good get it go get a job but don’t see that

get it go get a job but don’t see that

get it go get a job but don’t see that as a detour use that job as an

as a detour use that job as an

as a detour use that job as an opportunity to learn and to grow and

opportunity to learn and to grow and

opportunity to learn and to grow and understand how your industry works and

understand how your industry works and

understand how your industry works and number three is don’t let your dream die

number three is don’t let your dream die

number three is don’t let your dream die you know if this is a big dream of yours

you know if this is a big dream of yours

you know if this is a big dream of yours to start your own business as online

to start your own business as online

to start your own business as online company or whatever it is that you want

company or whatever it is that you want

company or whatever it is that you want to start up don’t let it die start on

to start up don’t let it die start on

to start up don’t let it die start on the side start part-time yes you go and

the side start part-time yes you go and

the side start part-time yes you go and get this job and you’re making some

get this job and you’re making some

get this job and you’re making some money and you’re able to move out of

money and you’re able to move out of

money and you’re able to move out of your mom’s house but don’t let that hold

your mom’s house but don’t let that hold

your mom’s house but don’t let that hold you back from saying well I tried my

you back from saying well I tried my

you back from saying well I tried my business and it didn’t work out start

business and it didn’t work out start

business and it didn’t work out start part-time that’s totally okay right but

part-time that’s totally okay right but

part-time that’s totally okay right but make sure you’re dedicating some time to

make sure you’re dedicating some time to

make sure you’re dedicating some time to it because a lot of entrepreneurs after

it because a lot of entrepreneurs after

it because a lot of entrepreneurs after they try the first time they say I’m not

they try the first time they say I’m not

they try the first time they say I’m not preneur I’m never going to make this

preneur I’m never going to make this

preneur I’m never going to make this work I don’t know how to do this and

work I don’t know how to do this and

work I don’t know how to do this and they let their dream die right there on

they let their dream die right there on

they let their dream die right there on the table and the funny fact is most

the table and the funny fact is most

the table and the funny fact is most entrepreneurs they don’t make it the

entrepreneurs they don’t make it the

entrepreneurs they don’t make it the first time around they’ve had a lot of

first time around they’ve had a lot of

first time around they’ve had a lot of failures before they find the idea and

failures before they find the idea and

failures before they find the idea and they have the experience it helps hit

they have the experience it helps hit

they have the experience it helps hit them you know into the big links with a

them you know into the big links with a

them you know into the big links with a home run so spend time every day on your

home run so spend time every day on your

home run so spend time every day on your business at least half an hour every

business at least half an hour every

business at least half an hour every single day no excuses half an hour at

single day no excuses half an hour at

single day no excuses half an hour at least bare minimum every day focusing on

least bare minimum every day focusing on

least bare minimum every day focusing on your dream to keeping it alive and as

your dream to keeping it alive and as

your dream to keeping it alive and as you start making some progress in making

you start making some progress in making

you start making some progress in making some money with your business ideal you

some money with your business ideal you

some money with your business ideal you quit your job to the point where you

quit your job to the point where you

quit your job to the point where you feel like I’m not learn anything new at

feel like I’m not learn anything new at

feel like I’m not learn anything new at my job anymore and I’m making enough

my job anymore and I’m making enough

my job anymore and I’m making enough money from my own business now to

money from my own business now to

money from my own business now to support myself maybe not live a huge

support myself maybe not live a huge

support myself maybe not live a huge life of luxury and you know buy new cars

life of luxury and you know buy new cars

life of luxury and you know buy new cars and get a big house but enough to

and get a big house but enough to

and get a big house but enough to support yourself so you know you’re not

support yourself so you know you’re not

support yourself so you know you’re not gonna have to go back and move in with

gonna have to go back and move in with

gonna have to go back and move in with your mom again so remember follow your

your mom again so remember follow your

your mom again so remember follow your flow work to learn and don’t let your

flow work to learn and don’t let your

flow work to learn and don’t let your dream die thank you so much for watching

dream die thank you so much for watching

dream die thank you so much for watching I love to know how you guys have handled

I love to know how you guys have handled

I love to know how you guys have handled that situation share your your your

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that situation share your your your deepest story of failure i guess in the

deepest story of failure i guess in the

deepest story of failure i guess in the comments below and how you overcame it

comments below and how you overcame it

comments below and how you overcame it i’m going to join in the discussion and

i’m going to join in the discussion and

i’m going to join in the discussion and i look forward to hearing from you thank

i look forward to hearing from you thank

i look forward to hearing from you thank you guys so much for watching continue

you guys so much for watching continue

you guys so much for watching continue to believe and i’ll see you soon oh and

to believe and i’ll see you soon oh and

to believe and i’ll see you soon oh and don’t forget if you have a question that

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