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Don’t give yourself BOUNDARIES – Idris Elba (@idriselba) – #Entspresso


good morning believe nation today’s

good morning believe nation today’s message is don’t give yourself

message is don’t give yourself

message is don’t give yourself boundaries over you Idris Elba I mean

boundaries over you Idris Elba I mean

boundaries over you Idris Elba I mean it’s important not to give yourself

it’s important not to give yourself

it’s important not to give yourself boundaries which we can do quite easily

boundaries which we can do quite easily

boundaries which we can do quite easily okay people talk about aiming for the

okay people talk about aiming for the

okay people talk about aiming for the skies

skies

skies sometimes even aiming for the skies is

sometimes even aiming for the skies is

sometimes even aiming for the skies is intimidating just don’t give yourself

intimidating just don’t give yourself

intimidating just don’t give yourself boundaries your sky and my sky might be

boundaries your sky and my sky might be

boundaries your sky and my sky might be different you know I mean but neither of

different you know I mean but neither of

different you know I mean but neither of us would touch the sky if we give

us would touch the sky if we give

us would touch the sky if we give ourselves boundaries you know I mean

ourselves boundaries you know I mean

ourselves boundaries you know I mean whatever your sky is whatever your

whatever your sky is whatever your

whatever your sky is whatever your biggest dream is I might have already

biggest dream is I might have already

biggest dream is I might have already touched that you know so in other words

touched that you know so in other words

touched that you know so in other words what sky where does the sky end I’d

what sky where does the sky end I’d

what sky where does the sky end I’d rather people go you know what I’m not

rather people go you know what I’m not

rather people go you know what I’m not gonna restrict myself to the guy and I

gonna restrict myself to the guy and I

gonna restrict myself to the guy and I can only do this so I can only do that

can only do this so I can only do that

can only do this so I can only do that oh I have to do it this way all I have

oh I have to do it this way all I have

oh I have to do it this way all I have to do it that way I think it’s important

to do it that way I think it’s important

to do it that way I think it’s important that people just go and lose the

that people just go and lose the

that people just go and lose the boundaries lose the conformity and just

boundaries lose the conformity and just

boundaries lose the conformity and just go for it I think the biggest thing that

go for it I think the biggest thing that

go for it I think the biggest thing that holds people back holds you back are the

holds people back holds you back are the

holds people back holds you back are the limited beliefs that you have for

limited beliefs that you have for

limited beliefs that you have for yourself the boundaries that you set for

yourself the boundaries that you set for

yourself the boundaries that you set for yourself the the box that you create for

yourself the the box that you create for

yourself the the box that you create for yourselves a lot of entrepreneurs think

yourselves a lot of entrepreneurs think

yourselves a lot of entrepreneurs think I know I’m not inside the box right I

I know I’m not inside the box right I

I know I’m not inside the box right I left that big job at that safe company

left that big job at that safe company

left that big job at that safe company because I didn’t want to be told what to

because I didn’t want to be told what to

because I didn’t want to be told what to do or I didn’t want to live inside a box

do or I didn’t want to live inside a box

do or I didn’t want to live inside a box but then you come and you start your own

but then you come and you start your own

but then you come and you start your own business and you create your own box

business and you create your own box

business and you create your own box right if you know you don’t have a boss

right if you know you don’t have a boss

right if you know you don’t have a boss telling you what to do you’ve created

telling you what to do you’ve created

telling you what to do you’ve created this own box and the walls are the

this own box and the walls are the

this own box and the walls are the limiting beliefs you have and we all

limiting beliefs you have and we all

limiting beliefs you have and we all have them and we all need to break free

have them and we all need to break free

have them and we all need to break free of them I mean when I was first getting

of them I mean when I was first getting

of them I mean when I was first getting started the first you know the first

started the first you know the first

started the first you know the first boundaries I had were I’m too young to

boundaries I had were I’m too young to

boundaries I had were I’m too young to do this nobody’s gonna listen to me I

do this nobody’s gonna listen to me I

do this nobody’s gonna listen to me I can’t sell this to people who are three

can’t sell this to people who are three

can’t sell this to people who are three times my age and so I didn’t want to

times my age and so I didn’t want to

times my age and so I didn’t want to meet anybody face to face didn’t want to

meet anybody face to face didn’t want to

meet anybody face to face didn’t want to have phone calls then as I grew I

have phone calls then as I grew I

have phone calls then as I grew I thought no I don’t want to do

thought no I don’t want to do

thought no I don’t want to do presentations I’m too nervous I was

presentations I’m too nervous I was

presentations I’m too nervous I was gonna want to hear my story when I was

gonna want to hear my story when I was

gonna want to hear my story when I was doing interviews like well why would

doing interviews like well why would

doing interviews like well why would they want to hear my message when I was

they want to hear my message when I was

they want to hear my message when I was talking to big companies or what do I

talking to big companies or what do I

talking to big companies or what do I have to offer a huge company like

have to offer a huge company like

have to offer a huge company like Microsoft why would they want to listen

Microsoft why would they want to listen

Microsoft why would they want to listen to

to

to me and it was only by breaking through

me and it was only by breaking through

me and it was only by breaking through those boundaries that I was able to

those boundaries that I was able to

those boundaries that I was able to achieve more success I was able to

achieve more success I was able to

achieve more success I was able to actually achieve my goals and I realized

actually achieve my goals and I realized

actually achieve my goals and I realized nobody’s actually creating those

nobody’s actually creating those

nobody’s actually creating those boundaries that myself those other

boundaries that myself those other

boundaries that myself those other people all the cameras can I provide

people all the cameras can I provide

people all the cameras can I provide value to them right and and I could and

value to them right and and I could and

value to them right and and I could and when I realized that and sometimes those

when I realized that and sometimes those

when I realized that and sometimes those boundaries were were holding me to act

boundaries were were holding me to act

boundaries were were holding me to act for a couple months sometimes a couple

for a couple months sometimes a couple

for a couple months sometimes a couple years some of them I still have you know

years some of them I still have you know

years some of them I still have you know every time I realize it that’s the step

every time I realize it that’s the step

every time I realize it that’s the step to be able to break free and I think you

to be able to break free and I think you

to be able to break free and I think you know if you have so many boundaries so

know if you have so many boundaries so

know if you have so many boundaries so many restrictions on yourself the way to

many restrictions on yourself the way to

many restrictions on yourself the way to get started is when you find yourself

get started is when you find yourself

get started is when you find yourself telling yourself a story constantly like

telling yourself a story constantly like

telling yourself a story constantly like I can’t do this because that’s usually a

I can’t do this because that’s usually a

I can’t do this because that’s usually a trigger that you want to try to make

trigger that you want to try to make

trigger that you want to try to make that a trigger where it’s is that

that a trigger where it’s is that

that a trigger where it’s is that actually real right is that just in my

actually real right is that just in my

actually real right is that just in my head or is that something that actually

head or is that something that actually

head or is that something that actually exists and often it’s just a story

exists and often it’s just a story

exists and often it’s just a story you’re telling yourself and we’re really

you’re telling yourself and we’re really

you’re telling yourself and we’re really smart we’re really capable of lying to

smart we’re really capable of lying to

smart we’re really capable of lying to ourselves and convincing ourselves that

ourselves and convincing ourselves that

ourselves and convincing ourselves that we can’t do something because of X Y Z

we can’t do something because of X Y Z

we can’t do something because of X Y Z and so what I want you to do is start

and so what I want you to do is start

and so what I want you to do is start getting used to breaking those

getting used to breaking those

getting used to breaking those boundaries start recognizing awareness

boundaries start recognizing awareness

boundaries start recognizing awareness is the first step having the awareness

is the first step having the awareness

is the first step having the awareness that you’re holding yourself back in

that you’re holding yourself back in

that you’re holding yourself back in this moment if you can do that in a

this moment if you can do that in a

this moment if you can do that in a moment and not later because later is

moment and not later because later is

moment and not later because later is the regret right leaders who regret

the regret right leaders who regret

the regret right leaders who regret where you think about oh I should have

where you think about oh I should have

where you think about oh I should have done this why don’t I do that that was

done this why don’t I do that that was

done this why don’t I do that that was so stupid I was too scared I really and

so stupid I was too scared I really and

so stupid I was too scared I really and you lived your life with regret if you

you lived your life with regret if you

you lived your life with regret if you can catch it in the moment and then try

can catch it in the moment and then try

can catch it in the moment and then try to do something about it one small step

to do something about it one small step

to do something about it one small step towards saying yes to doing it even

towards saying yes to doing it even

towards saying yes to doing it even though it’s scary even though it’s

though it’s scary even though it’s

though it’s scary even though it’s nerve-wracking even though you may fail

nerve-wracking even though you may fail

nerve-wracking even though you may fail doing it if you can consistently do that

doing it if you can consistently do that

doing it if you can consistently do that and get in the habit of catching

and get in the habit of catching

and get in the habit of catching yourself then you’ll expand your box and

yourself then you’ll expand your box and

yourself then you’ll expand your box and hopefully break through the boundaries

hopefully break through the boundaries

hopefully break through the boundaries and achieve the goals that you want to

and achieve the goals that you want to

and achieve the goals that you want to achieve so the question of the day today

achieve so the question of the day today

achieve so the question of the day today is what are the boundaries that you’ve

is what are the boundaries that you’ve

is what are the boundaries that you’ve set for yourself that are holding you

set for yourself that are holding you

set for yourself that are holding you back going deep leaving the comments

back going deep leaving the comments

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below I’m going to join in the discussion

I’m going to join in the discussion

I’m going to join in the discussion thank you so much for watching have an

thank you so much for watching have an

thank you so much for watching have an amazing day continue to believe and I’ll

amazing day continue to believe and I’ll

amazing day continue to believe and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for

see you again tomorrow morning for

see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso

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