big picture little picture so I find without repair that’s one of the biggest
without repair that’s one of the biggest
without repair that’s one of the biggest challenges is managing the big picture
challenges is managing the big picture
challenges is managing the big picture the dream where you want to go with a
the dream where you want to go with a
the dream where you want to go with a little picture of actually executing and
little picture of actually executing and
little picture of actually executing and I find too many entrepreneurs are either
I find too many entrepreneurs are either
I find too many entrepreneurs are either one or the other right you’re the
one or the other right you’re the
one or the other right you’re the dreamer you’re the big picture of guy or
dreamer you’re the big picture of guy or
dreamer you’re the big picture of guy or girl you know where you want to go you
girl you know where you want to go you
girl you know where you want to go you know you know how you want to change the
know you know how you want to change the
know you know how you want to change the world but you spend so much time
world but you spend so much time
world but you spend so much time dreaming and thinking and not actually
dreaming and thinking and not actually
dreaming and thinking and not actually executed in doing that you don’t get
executed in doing that you don’t get
executed in doing that you don’t get stuff done I didn’t have the other
stuff done I didn’t have the other
stuff done I didn’t have the other people who just work work work they’re
people who just work work work they’re
people who just work work work they’re constantly executing but they feel kind
constantly executing but they feel kind
constantly executing but they feel kind of lost it feel like their work doesn’t
of lost it feel like their work doesn’t
of lost it feel like their work doesn’t have meaning because they’re missing the
have meaning because they’re missing the
have meaning because they’re missing the big picture and you got it you gotta
big picture and you got it you gotta
big picture and you got it you gotta balance both right you gotta have the
balance both right you gotta have the
balance both right you gotta have the big picture of where you want to go and
big picture of where you want to go and
big picture of where you want to go and then actually execute against it to
then actually execute against it to
then actually execute against it to build something meaningful and important
build something meaningful and important
build something meaningful and important and the way I do it is I’ll usually
and the way I do it is I’ll usually
and the way I do it is I’ll usually segment that out to different days I’ll
segment that out to different days I’ll
segment that out to different days I’ll have a day where I’ll be thinking big
have a day where I’ll be thinking big
have a day where I’ll be thinking big picture planning where I want to go the
picture planning where I want to go the
picture planning where I want to go the impact I want to have and then that’ll
impact I want to have and then that’ll
impact I want to have and then that’ll last me for a while of actually
last me for a while of actually
last me for a while of actually executing right now in the next couple
executing right now in the next couple
executing right now in the next couple of weeks or even a couple months
of weeks or even a couple months
of weeks or even a couple months executing against that big vision that I
executing against that big vision that I
executing against that big vision that I have and so how I apply it to my book is
have and so how I apply it to my book is
have and so how I apply it to my book is when I first created the book and
when I first created the book and
when I first created the book and thinking about it like what’s the impact
thinking about it like what’s the impact
thinking about it like what’s the impact I want to have right what am I gonna
I want to have right what am I gonna
I want to have right what am I gonna call the book what’s the change I want
call the book what’s the change I want
call the book what’s the change I want to make in people’s lives how am I gonna
to make in people’s lives how am I gonna
to make in people’s lives how am I gonna lay up the chapters how am I gonna lay
lay up the chapters how am I gonna lay
lay up the chapters how am I gonna lay out each page that flows well from the
out each page that flows well from the
out each page that flows well from the next and then I got to the little
next and then I got to the little
next and then I got to the little picture of actually writing the book
picture of actually writing the book
picture of actually writing the book right not just come with an idea for the
right not just come with an idea for the
right not just come with an idea for the book but actually executing against and
book but actually executing against and
book but actually executing against and this has been a how many months I’ve
this has been a how many months I’ve
this has been a how many months I’ve been writing it I don’t know it’s been a
been writing it I don’t know it’s been a
been writing it I don’t know it’s been a while but it’s exciting because you need
while but it’s exciting because you need
while but it’s exciting because you need to have that big picture for what the
to have that big picture for what the
to have that big picture for what the big book is gonna be and then the actual
big book is gonna be and then the actual
big book is gonna be and then the actual execution against it on a weekly basis
execution against it on a weekly basis
execution against it on a weekly basis creating the content so today is that
creating the content so today is that
creating the content so today is that book running day I just got back from
book running day I just got back from
book running day I just got back from vacation it’s minus seven degrees
vacation it’s minus seven degrees
vacation it’s minus seven degrees outside so I’m gonna I’m gonna stay home
outside so I’m gonna I’m gonna stay home
outside so I’m gonna I’m gonna stay home and just huddle in and and create the
and just huddle in and and create the
and just huddle in and and create the book usually I’m making as Vedas walk
book usually I’m making as Vedas walk
book usually I’m making as Vedas walk into Whole Foods where I work on the
into Whole Foods where I work on the
into Whole Foods where I work on the book and today I’m excited as the book
book and today I’m excited as the book
book and today I’m excited as the book is pretty much done hooray hooray pretty
is pretty much done hooray hooray pretty
is pretty much done hooray hooray pretty much done I’m really excited about that
much done I’m really excited about that
much done I’m really excited about that and today what I’m doing is going
and today what I’m doing is going
and today what I’m doing is going through all the copy and just making
through all the copy and just making
through all the copy and just making sure that it flows making sure that it’s
sure that it flows making sure that it’s
sure that it flows making sure that it’s a big picture day today
a big picture day today
a big picture day today making sure that all the little picture
making sure that all the little picture
making sure that all the little picture days that I had although the execution
days that I had although the execution
days that I had although the execution right
right
right one page at a time at a time at a time
one page at a time at a time at a time
one page at a time at a time at a time now all flows well together right I’ve
now all flows well together right I’ve
now all flows well together right I’ve completed the project now gotta step up
completed the project now gotta step up
completed the project now gotta step up and make sure that everything flows well
and make sure that everything flows well
and make sure that everything flows well together and so it’s an exciting day for
together and so it’s an exciting day for
together and so it’s an exciting day for me and I’m also really hopeful that you
me and I’m also really hopeful that you
me and I’m also really hopeful that you guys can take that knowledge and apply
guys can take that knowledge and apply
guys can take that knowledge and apply it to your business where you have some
it to your business where you have some
it to your business where you have some days you’re thinking big picture and
days you’re thinking big picture and
days you’re thinking big picture and planning and since it’s New Year it’s a
planning and since it’s New Year it’s a
planning and since it’s New Year it’s a good time to playing think about where
good time to playing think about where
good time to playing think about where you want to go I didn’t actually spend
you want to go I didn’t actually spend
you want to go I didn’t actually spend the time executing against that plan
the time executing against that plan
the time executing against that plan until you feel maybe you know maybe you
until you feel maybe you know maybe you
until you feel maybe you know maybe you feel a little bit lost maybe you feel
feel a little bit lost maybe you feel
feel a little bit lost maybe you feel like you need to revisit the big picture
like you need to revisit the big picture
like you need to revisit the big picture again but just don’t get stuck on one
again but just don’t get stuck on one
again but just don’t get stuck on one mode and not do the other don’t get so
mode and not do the other don’t get so
mode and not do the other don’t get so stuck on the big picture you don’t
stuck on the big picture you don’t
stuck on the big picture you don’t execute and get so stuck on execution
execute and get so stuck on execution
execute and get so stuck on execution that you lose your way of where you’re
that you lose your way of where you’re
that you lose your way of where you’re trying to go and build a company so you
trying to go and build a company so you
trying to go and build a company so you get to your questions first stop rishi
get to your questions first stop rishi
get to your questions first stop rishi capti be there entrepreneurs and their
capti be there entrepreneurs and their
capti be there entrepreneurs and their entrepreneur personalities do you think
entrepreneur personalities do you think
entrepreneur personalities do you think aspiring entrepreneurs people who want
aspiring entrepreneurs people who want
aspiring entrepreneurs people who want to entertain like say Mark Cuban or
to entertain like say Mark Cuban or
to entertain like say Mark Cuban or those sharks on Shark Tank true pursue
those sharks on Shark Tank true pursue
those sharks on Shark Tank true pursue entrepreneurship differently than an
entrepreneurship differently than an
entrepreneurship differently than an entrepreneur who doesn’t care for show
entrepreneur who doesn’t care for show
entrepreneur who doesn’t care for show biz Thanks it’s a great question and I
biz Thanks it’s a great question and I
biz Thanks it’s a great question and I think Mark Cuban specifically has been
think Mark Cuban specifically has been
think Mark Cuban specifically has been an interesting one because he’s always
an interesting one because he’s always
an interesting one because he’s always had that Flair he had this show called
had that Flair he had this show called
had that Flair he had this show called the benefactor which I watched but
the benefactor which I watched but
the benefactor which I watched but didn’t last very long he did even make
didn’t last very long he did even make
didn’t last very long he did even make it through its first season and it’s
it through its first season and it’s
it through its first season and it’s interesting to see now that he is a star
interesting to see now that he is a star
interesting to see now that he is a star of shark tank and it also kind of shows
of shark tank and it also kind of shows
of shark tank and it also kind of shows that if you stick with it long enough
that if you stick with it long enough
that if you stick with it long enough your first attempts may fail they may
your first attempts may fail they may
your first attempts may fail they may not work a lot people might have their
not work a lot people might have their
not work a lot people might have their first TV show and it fails and like I’m
first TV show and it fails and like I’m
first TV show and it fails and like I’m not doing that again
not doing that again
not doing that again but Cuban kept on at it years later and
but Cuban kept on at it years later and
but Cuban kept on at it years later and I was on shark tank and it’s hitting it
I was on shark tank and it’s hitting it
I was on shark tank and it’s hitting it large and so I love that little just
large and so I love that little just
large and so I love that little just that little story as a lesson to
that little story as a lesson to
that little story as a lesson to persevere and keep going but in terms of
persevere and keep going but in terms of
persevere and keep going but in terms of the type of entreprenuer I think it’s
the type of entreprenuer I think it’s
the type of entreprenuer I think it’s easy to look at the guys who are the big
easy to look at the guys who are the big
easy to look at the guys who are the big personalities to look at the Mark
personalities to look at the Mark
personalities to look at the Mark Cuban’s look at the Richard Branson to
Cuban’s look at the Richard Branson to
Cuban’s look at the Richard Branson to look at the Donald Trump to look at the
look at the Donald Trump to look at the
look at the Donald Trump to look at the Steve Jobs look at the guys who are
Steve Jobs look at the guys who are
Steve Jobs look at the guys who are noisy the guys who are allowed the guys
noisy the guys who are allowed the guys
noisy the guys who are allowed the guys who have strong power of the full
who have strong power of the full
who have strong power of the full opinions and wanna be at the front and
opinions and wanna be at the front and
opinions and wanna be at the front and you look at them and say well I need to
you look at them and say well I need to
you look at them and say well I need to be like that to be successful where
be like that to be successful where
be like that to be successful where that’s not the case
that’s not the case
that’s not the case what you need to do is is be like you
what you need to do is is be like you
what you need to do is is be like you right you need to be the best version of
right you need to be the best version of
right you need to be the best version of yourself and that may mean being a
yourself and that may mean being a
yourself and that may mean being a personality if you are outgoing if you
personality if you are outgoing if you
personality if you are outgoing if you like being on video if you like you know
like being on video if you like you know
like being on video if you like you know you you you turn up when you’re in front
you you you turn up when you’re in front
you you you turn up when you’re in front of an audience or
of an audience or
of an audience or the camera is on you then you should go
the camera is on you then you should go
the camera is on you then you should go we’ll all in on that right you should
we’ll all in on that right you should
we’ll all in on that right you should try to do more of that because it’s your
try to do more of that because it’s your
try to do more of that because it’s your greatest asset and so you look at Cuban
greatest asset and so you look at Cuban
greatest asset and so you look at Cuban and chump and Branson and those guys do
and chump and Branson and those guys do
and chump and Branson and those guys do well because they’ve gone all-in on
well because they’ve gone all-in on
well because they’ve gone all-in on their strengths but there’s a lot of
their strengths but there’s a lot of
their strengths but there’s a lot of people who are highly systems
people who are highly systems
people who are highly systems entrepreneurs we’ve never heard of look
entrepreneurs we’ve never heard of look
entrepreneurs we’ve never heard of look at the the Forbes billionaires list and
at the the Forbes billionaires list and
at the the Forbes billionaires list and see how many people do actually
see how many people do actually
see how many people do actually recognize their name you don’t have to
recognize their name you don’t have to
recognize their name you don’t have to be a personality to be able to be
be a personality to be able to be
be a personality to be able to be successful I think if you try to be a
successful I think if you try to be a
successful I think if you try to be a personality but you’re not interested in
personality but you’re not interested in
personality but you’re not interested in it if you think that that’s what you
it if you think that that’s what you
it if you think that that’s what you have to be to be a successful
have to be to be a successful
have to be to be a successful entrepreneur then you’re gonna fail
entrepreneur then you’re gonna fail
entrepreneur then you’re gonna fail where if it’s something that you’re
where if it’s something that you’re
where if it’s something that you’re genuinely interested in excited and
genuinely interested in excited and
genuinely interested in excited and passionate about then you should do
passionate about then you should do
passionate about then you should do because that’s what makes you come alive
because that’s what makes you come alive
because that’s what makes you come alive and that’s probably a strength of yours
and that’s probably a strength of yours
and that’s probably a strength of yours so it’s really betting on your strengths
so it’s really betting on your strengths
so it’s really betting on your strengths understanding what you’re good at
understanding what you’re good at
understanding what you’re good at understanding what you want to learn and
understanding what you want to learn and
understanding what you want to learn and be the best in the world that and if
be the best in the world that and if
be the best in the world that and if that happens to be personality great go
that happens to be personality great go
that happens to be personality great go for it but if that’s not a world that
for it but if that’s not a world that
for it but if that’s not a world that you want to get into then don’t feel
you want to get into then don’t feel
you want to get into then don’t feel like you have to there are tons of ways
like you have to there are tons of ways
like you have to there are tons of ways to staying and the best one for you is
to staying and the best one for you is
to staying and the best one for you is the one that leverages your strengths
the one that leverages your strengths
the one that leverages your strengths and passion the most
and passion the most
and passion the most next up fanny M why do you only wear
next up fanny M why do you only wear
next up fanny M why do you only wear black clothes fanny as you can clearly
black clothes fanny as you can clearly
black clothes fanny as you can clearly see there are white drawstrings on this
see there are white drawstrings on this
see there are white drawstrings on this sweater next up antwuan great video
sweater next up antwuan great video
sweater next up antwuan great video again Evan Thank You Antoine about your
again Evan Thank You Antoine about your
again Evan Thank You Antoine about your book do you already know if you’ll be
book do you already know if you’ll be
book do you already know if you’ll be translated into different languages I’m
translated into different languages I’m
translated into different languages I’m not sure I haven’t even really asked a
not sure I haven’t even really asked a
not sure I haven’t even really asked a question to the publisher yet right now
question to the publisher yet right now
question to the publisher yet right now I am just in book writing mode and
I am just in book writing mode and
I am just in book writing mode and editing mode and getting something that
editing mode and getting something that
editing mode and getting something that I can give off to the publisher this
I can give off to the publisher this
I can give off to the publisher this week I have a call with them about
week I have a call with them about
week I have a call with them about marketing what we’re gonna do to get it
marketing what we’re gonna do to get it
marketing what we’re gonna do to get it out there and get spread the word
out there and get spread the word
out there and get spread the word believe that’s Thursday I want to say
believe that’s Thursday I want to say
believe that’s Thursday I want to say anyway all of these conversations will
anyway all of these conversations will
anyway all of these conversations will be happening about languages about
be happening about languages about
be happening about languages about audiobooks and all you guys have been
audiobooks and all you guys have been
audiobooks and all you guys have been asking about that about the tour we’re
asking about that about the tour we’re
asking about that about the tour we’re gonna be stopping and so as soon as I
gonna be stopping and so as soon as I
gonna be stopping and so as soon as I have info I promise I’m gonna share it I
have info I promise I’m gonna share it I
have info I promise I’m gonna share it I appreciate the question and the love and
appreciate the question and the love and
appreciate the question and the love and I hope so let me know what language you
I hope so let me know what language you
I hope so let me know what language you wanted in and we’ll see what I can do
wanted in and we’ll see what I can do
wanted in and we’ll see what I can do next up Peter are you ever mad down you
next up Peter are you ever mad down you
next up Peter are you ever mad down you always look so excited and happy of
always look so excited and happy of
always look so excited and happy of course I’m mad of course I’m down
course I’m mad of course I’m down
course I’m mad of course I’m down there’s a lot of things that bother me
there’s a lot of things that bother me
there’s a lot of things that bother me probably top the list is wasting time I
probably top the list is wasting time I
probably top the list is wasting time I hate wasting time I hate feeling like
hate wasting time I hate feeling like
hate wasting time I hate feeling like you know I Drive somewhere or fly
you know I Drive somewhere or fly
you know I Drive somewhere or fly somewhere and it wasn’t a good use of my
somewhere and it wasn’t a good use of my
somewhere and it wasn’t a good use of my time
time
time you know I ten
you know I ten
you know I ten to not let it stick although there’s
to not let it stick although there’s
to not let it stick although there’s something in me that for good or bad I
something in me that for good or bad I
something in me that for good or bad I just I forget about it I lock out a lot
just I forget about it I lock out a lot
just I forget about it I lock out a lot of the negative things that have
of the negative things that have
of the negative things that have happened in my life I try not to let
happened in my life I try not to let
happened in my life I try not to let things impact me too much and maybe it’s
things impact me too much and maybe it’s
things impact me too much and maybe it’s because I’m all about belief I just I’m
because I’m all about belief I just I’m
because I’m all about belief I just I’m optimistic I’m happy in general but I
optimistic I’m happy in general but I
optimistic I’m happy in general but I don’t wake up every day super excited
don’t wake up every day super excited
don’t wake up every day super excited you know there are days that obviously
you know there are days that obviously
you know there are days that obviously that that I’m a door on down but I tend
that that I’m a door on down but I tend
that that I’m a door on down but I tend not to live there for too long I don’t
not to live there for too long I don’t
not to live there for too long I don’t know why you know maybe if I had a dumb
know why you know maybe if I had a dumb
know why you know maybe if I had a dumb deep with self analysis or how-to had
deep with self analysis or how-to had
deep with self analysis or how-to had some psychology done on me to kind of
some psychology done on me to kind of
some psychology done on me to kind of ask me some questions I might be able to
ask me some questions I might be able to
ask me some questions I might be able to figure it out I think she’s my
figure it out I think she’s my
figure it out I think she’s my personality and my value system I have
personality and my value system I have
personality and my value system I have beliefs that I always think that
beliefs that I always think that
beliefs that I always think that something positive is coming down so yes
something positive is coming down so yes
something positive is coming down so yes of course
of course
of course I get mad and I get angry and upset and
I get mad and I get angry and upset and
I get mad and I get angry and upset and I get down but it tends not the lasts
I get down but it tends not the lasts
I get down but it tends not the lasts too long
too long
too long next up Frances very inspiring advice
next up Frances very inspiring advice
next up Frances very inspiring advice Thank You Frances there are many ideas
Thank You Frances there are many ideas
Thank You Frances there are many ideas that I’ve researched and taking action
that I’ve researched and taking action
that I’ve researched and taking action on yet many people my environment do not
on yet many people my environment do not
on yet many people my environment do not have the same interest you have any
have the same interest you have any
have the same interest you have any advice on how to network with other
advice on how to network with other
advice on how to network with other entrepreneurs around the area I’ve many
entrepreneurs around the area I’ve many
entrepreneurs around the area I’ve many ideas that I know will make money after
ideas that I know will make money after
ideas that I know will make money after exhausting hours of research but do not
exhausting hours of research but do not
exhausting hours of research but do not know anyone with the same interest
know anyone with the same interest
know anyone with the same interest desires to learn more really tough and
desires to learn more really tough and
desires to learn more really tough and great question your environment is so
great question your environment is so
great question your environment is so important that people around you are so
important that people around you are so
important that people around you are so important you can’t do this big thing
important you can’t do this big thing
important you can’t do this big thing that you’re trying to do on your own you
that you’re trying to do on your own you
that you’re trying to do on your own you need help and if you don’t already have
need help and if you don’t already have
need help and if you don’t already have the network around you then part of your
the network around you then part of your
the network around you then part of your job is to start to build it I would
job is to start to build it I would
job is to start to build it I would start looking in two places one online
start looking in two places one online
start looking in two places one online communities I’ve made an insane number
communities I’ve made an insane number
communities I’ve made an insane number of connections online through my youtube
of connections online through my youtube
of connections online through my youtube channel to Twitter people that I’ve
channel to Twitter people that I’ve
channel to Twitter people that I’ve never met I’ve hired people that I’ve
never met I’ve hired people that I’ve
never met I’ve hired people that I’ve never met I’ve worked on partnership
never met I’ve worked on partnership
never met I’ve worked on partnership deals with people that I’ve never met
deals with people that I’ve never met
deals with people that I’ve never met face to face and it’s never been easier
face to face and it’s never been easier
face to face and it’s never been easier to find communities of people who are
to find communities of people who are
to find communities of people who are like-minded and can potentially work
like-minded and can potentially work
like-minded and can potentially work with you on a project second is I’d be
with you on a project second is I’d be
with you on a project second is I’d be looking at local communities I’d be
looking at local communities I’d be
looking at local communities I’d be looking at whatever you’re interested in
looking at whatever you’re interested in
looking at whatever you’re interested in doing whatever if you’re trying to
doing whatever if you’re trying to
doing whatever if you’re trying to program something if you’re interested
program something if you’re interested
program something if you’re interested in marketing you’re interested in self
in marketing you’re interested in self
in marketing you’re interested in self tracking you know there there are meetup
tracking you know there there are meetup
tracking you know there there are meetup groups there are programs or workshops
groups there are programs or workshops
groups there are programs or workshops there are seminars that you should get
there are seminars that you should get
there are seminars that you should get involved in right
involved in right
involved in right you should be at these events at the
you should be at these events at the
you should be at these events at the conference’s at the speaking gigs
conference’s at the speaking gigs
conference’s at the speaking gigs eventually I’d love to see you doing the
eventually I’d love to see you doing the
eventually I’d love to see you doing the speaking right that’s not to where I get
speaking right that’s not to where I get
speaking right that’s not to where I get a lot of my connections now is from
a lot of my connections now is from
a lot of my connections now is from doing talks at events and people come up
doing talks at events and people come up
doing talks at events and people come up and find the afterwards to want to do
and find the afterwards to want to do
and find the afterwards to want to do something together partly it’s because
something together partly it’s because
something together partly it’s because I’m not the most outgoing person
I’m not the most outgoing person
I’m not the most outgoing person naturally I’m not the guy at those
naturally I’m not the guy at those
naturally I’m not the guy at those networking events shaking hands and
networking events shaking hands and
networking events shaking hands and talking to people so I create a
talking to people so I create a
talking to people so I create a situation where people come to me and
situation where people come to me and
situation where people come to me and that’s by being a speaker at these
that’s by being a speaker at these
that’s by being a speaker at these events so I would seek out events that
events so I would seek out events that
events so I would seek out events that are interesting to you I would seek out
are interesting to you I would seek out
are interesting to you I would seek out conferences and programs where you look
conferences and programs where you look
conferences and programs where you look at the topic and like oh I want to learn
at the topic and like oh I want to learn
at the topic and like oh I want to learn more about that and then you’re gonna
more about that and then you’re gonna
more about that and then you’re gonna find people at those events who feel the
find people at those events who feel the
find people at those events who feel the same way and that starts the bond that
same way and that starts the bond that
same way and that starts the bond that starts the connection I think if you’re
starts the connection I think if you’re
starts the connection I think if you’re a sole goal of going to an event this I
a sole goal of going to an event this I
a sole goal of going to an event this I need to meet somebody here that’s gonna
need to meet somebody here that’s gonna
need to meet somebody here that’s gonna be my business partner you probably give
be my business partner you probably give
be my business partner you probably give them get frustrated and not have a lot
them get frustrated and not have a lot
them get frustrated and not have a lot of luck where if you are generally
of luck where if you are generally
of luck where if you are generally interested in that topic that’s being
interested in that topic that’s being
interested in that topic that’s being covered and you want to go to learn
covered and you want to go to learn
covered and you want to go to learn you’ll probably meet other people who
you’ll probably meet other people who
you’ll probably meet other people who are in the same boat who funny enough
are in the same boat who funny enough
are in the same boat who funny enough then become your partners and become
then become your partners and become
then become your partners and become great contacts for you for your business
great contacts for you for your business
great contacts for you for your business so just start seek out events
so just start seek out events
so just start seek out events conferences organizations online and
conferences organizations online and
conferences organizations online and then offline communities as well to
then offline communities as well to
then offline communities as well to start building up some connections good
start building up some connections good
start building up some connections good luck next up margwa I have a question in
luck next up margwa I have a question in
luck next up margwa I have a question in a brief I have a good job that I like
a brief I have a good job that I like
a brief I have a good job that I like with a good salary but my family isn’t
with a good salary but my family isn’t
with a good salary but my family isn’t supporting me at all I mean some of my
supporting me at all I mean some of my
supporting me at all I mean some of my family members that I have to deal with
family members that I have to deal with
family members that I have to deal with daily are making fun of me and treat me
daily are making fun of me and treat me
daily are making fun of me and treat me in a very bad way I can’t even describe
in a very bad way I can’t even describe
in a very bad way I can’t even describe it
it
it what kind of do to succeed and be much
what kind of do to succeed and be much
what kind of do to succeed and be much better financially and to feel better
better financially and to feel better
better financially and to feel better that really sucks
that really sucks
that really sucks not having people in your in your
not having people in your in your
not having people in your in your environment that support you is is
environment that support you is is
environment that support you is is really bad and especially when it’s
really bad and especially when it’s
really bad and especially when it’s family and when they’re making fun of
family and when they’re making fun of
family and when they’re making fun of you I’m not a family counselor and so I
you I’m not a family counselor and so I
you I’m not a family counselor and so I mean I have the greatest advice for you
mean I have the greatest advice for you
mean I have the greatest advice for you I think a couple things one you need to
I think a couple things one you need to
I think a couple things one you need to first figure out you know are you living
first figure out you know are you living
first figure out you know are you living your version of your life or somebody
your version of your life or somebody
your version of your life or somebody else’s version of your life are you
else’s version of your life are you
else’s version of your life are you living the life that you want to live or
living the life that you want to live or
living the life that you want to live or you live in the life that your your
you live in the life that your your
you live in the life that your your family wants you to live and it’s an
family wants you to live and it’s an
family wants you to live and it’s an important distinction and once you
important distinction and once you
important distinction and once you realize this applies to all haters all
realize this applies to all haters all
realize this applies to all haters all people who doubt you all people who
people who doubt you all people who
people who doubt you all people who laugh at you all people who try to give
laugh at you all people who try to give
laugh at you all people who try to give you wisdom that you don’t appreciate our
you wisdom that you don’t appreciate our
you wisdom that you don’t appreciate our life is that person
life is that person
life is that person have they done what you want to do have
have they done what you want to do have
have they done what you want to do have they accomplished something that you
they accomplished something that you
they accomplished something that you want to accomplish if they haven’t and
want to accomplish if they haven’t and
want to accomplish if they haven’t and if think I’ve nowhere close to it then
if think I’ve nowhere close to it then
if think I’ve nowhere close to it then they’re not in a position to judge you
they’re not in a position to judge you
they’re not in a position to judge you you shouldn’t be listening to them and
you shouldn’t be listening to them and
you shouldn’t be listening to them and that trigger for me helped where people
that trigger for me helped where people
that trigger for me helped where people who are making fun of me or people who
who are making fun of me or people who
who are making fun of me or people who telling me that on what I’m doing is
telling me that on what I’m doing is
telling me that on what I’m doing is crazy or stupid have they done anything
crazy or stupid have they done anything
crazy or stupid have they done anything big have they done anything close to
big have they done anything close to
big have they done anything close to what I’m trying to do and if not then
what I’m trying to do and if not then
what I’m trying to do and if not then why am i listening to them why do their
why am i listening to them why do their
why am i listening to them why do their opinions matter to me second thing is if
opinions matter to me second thing is if
opinions matter to me second thing is if you’re dealing with bullies of people
you’re dealing with bullies of people
you’re dealing with bullies of people making fun of you just as a general rule
making fun of you just as a general rule
making fun of you just as a general rule they thrive off of the reaction right
they thrive off of the reaction right
they thrive off of the reaction right like kids who don’t get enough attention
like kids who don’t get enough attention
like kids who don’t get enough attention from their parents will then start
from their parents will then start
from their parents will then start breaking things and acting out because
breaking things and acting out because
breaking things and acting out because they want attention because negative
they want attention because negative
they want attention because negative attention is better than no attention
attention is better than no attention
attention is better than no attention the worst is being ignored and so part
the worst is being ignored and so part
the worst is being ignored and so part of it for you maybe just ignoring that
of it for you maybe just ignoring that
of it for you maybe just ignoring that part of it may just be not reacting
part of it may just be not reacting
part of it may just be not reacting because they want the negative reaction
because they want the negative reaction
because they want the negative reaction because they want you to freak out
because they want you to freak out
because they want you to freak out because they want you to feel bad
because they want you to feel bad
because they want you to feel bad because they want you to cry because
because they want you to cry because
because they want you to cry because they want you to whatever it is right
they want you to whatever it is right
they want you to whatever it is right and if you don’t give them that
and if you don’t give them that
and if you don’t give them that satisfaction if you just ignore them and
satisfaction if you just ignore them and
satisfaction if you just ignore them and you don’t let it get to you then they’re
you don’t let it get to you then they’re
you don’t let it get to you then they’re less likely to do it again they’ll find
less likely to do it again they’ll find
less likely to do it again they’ll find another outlet to find somebody else to
another outlet to find somebody else to
another outlet to find somebody else to pick on so find some other way to get
pick on so find some other way to get
pick on so find some other way to get attention it’s another option and then
attention it’s another option and then
attention it’s another option and then the third thing on this is I’m a firm
the third thing on this is I’m a firm
the third thing on this is I’m a firm believer that you train people how to
believer that you train people how to
believer that you train people how to treat you if you let people walk all
treat you if you let people walk all
treat you if you let people walk all over you then they will where if you put
over you then they will where if you put
over you then they will where if you put up the fences and you have high
up the fences and you have high
up the fences and you have high standards and they’re less likely to and
standards and they’re less likely to and
standards and they’re less likely to and I reminded of a story of Nelson Mandela
I reminded of a story of Nelson Mandela
I reminded of a story of Nelson Mandela was when he went to prison he made the
was when he went to prison he made the
was when he went to prison he made the prison guards call him Sir think it was
prison guards call him Sir think it was
prison guards call him Sir think it was Sir with some honorific title and how do
Sir with some honorific title and how do
Sir with some honorific title and how do you do that he’s a prisoner right he’s a
you do that he’s a prisoner right he’s a
you do that he’s a prisoner right he’s a prisoner and and his guards were forced
prisoner and and his guards were forced
prisoner and and his guards were forced to call him Sir and he did it because
to call him Sir and he did it because
to call him Sir and he did it because he’s he carries himself in a certain way
he’s he carries himself in a certain way
he’s he carries himself in a certain way he doesn’t let people walk all over him
he doesn’t let people walk all over him
he doesn’t let people walk all over him he doesn’t let people mistreat him and
he doesn’t let people mistreat him and
he doesn’t let people mistreat him and so you need to raise your standards you
so you need to raise your standards you
so you need to raise your standards you need to raise your stance of what’s
need to raise your stance of what’s
need to raise your stance of what’s acceptable and what’s no longer
acceptable and what’s no longer
acceptable and what’s no longer acceptable and not staying for and
acceptable and not staying for and
acceptable and not staying for and however you fight back and stand up for
however you fight back and stand up for
however you fight back and stand up for yourself letting people know there’s
yourself letting people know there’s
yourself letting people know there’s anybody who’s mistreating you in your
anybody who’s mistreating you in your
anybody who’s mistreating you in your life anybody you
life anybody you
life anybody you them do that you have let them talk to
them do that you have let them talk to
them do that you have let them talk to you that way treat you that way and
you that way treat you that way and
you that way treat you that way and until you raise your stains of what is
until you raise your stains of what is
until you raise your stains of what is acceptable then it’s gonna be hard for
acceptable then it’s gonna be hard for
acceptable then it’s gonna be hard for things to change for you last stop jamak
things to change for you last stop jamak
things to change for you last stop jamak you late excellent talk I often ask
you late excellent talk I often ask
you late excellent talk I often ask myself there’s practicing my guitar cell
myself there’s practicing my guitar cell
myself there’s practicing my guitar cell hours a day count towards my business of
hours a day count towards my business of
hours a day count towards my business of performing a play at a number of times a
performing a play at a number of times a
performing a play at a number of times a week and that is a priority so in any
week and that is a priority so in any
week and that is a priority so in any business you know you want to get better
business you know you want to get better
business you know you want to get better something you gotta practice practice
something you gotta practice practice
something you gotta practice practice practice practice practice practice
practice practice practice practice
practice practice practice practice practice I’ve covered that before a lot
practice I’ve covered that before a lot
practice I’ve covered that before a lot on the channel I think if you want to be
on the channel I think if you want to be
on the channel I think if you want to be a performer then yes your skills that as
a performer then yes your skills that as
a performer then yes your skills that as a guitarist will definitely help you
a guitarist will definitely help you
a guitarist will definitely help you want to be able to play songs inside you
want to be able to play songs inside you
want to be able to play songs inside you don’t have to worry about trying to
don’t have to worry about trying to
don’t have to worry about trying to memorize what what chords you’re gonna
memorize what what chords you’re gonna
memorize what what chords you’re gonna play and it’s definitely a part of the
play and it’s definitely a part of the
play and it’s definitely a part of the game but I think it’s also only a part
game but I think it’s also only a part
game but I think it’s also only a part of the game because being a performer
of the game because being a performer
of the game because being a performer isn’t just about playing the notes it’s
isn’t just about playing the notes it’s
isn’t just about playing the notes it’s about one not being nervous as in front
about one not being nervous as in front
about one not being nervous as in front of a big crowd it’s actually be able to
of a big crowd it’s actually be able to
of a big crowd it’s actually be able to deliver on all the practices that you’ve
deliver on all the practices that you’ve
deliver on all the practices that you’ve done when you’re in front of a big
done when you’re in front of a big
done when you’re in front of a big audience is about entertaining people
audience is about entertaining people
audience is about entertaining people it’s about having a message it’s about
it’s about having a message it’s about
it’s about having a message it’s about practicing you know what are you gonna
practicing you know what are you gonna
practicing you know what are you gonna say when you get up on stage and so I
say when you get up on stage and so I
say when you get up on stage and so I think the more you can make your
think the more you can make your
think the more you can make your practice sessions feel like it’s a real
practice sessions feel like it’s a real
practice sessions feel like it’s a real event so as an example for public
event so as an example for public
event so as an example for public speakers for me before before we get up
speakers for me before before we get up
speakers for me before before we get up on stage I would practice a taco
on stage I would practice a taco
on stage I would practice a taco practice it at home I would imagine that
practice it at home I would imagine that
practice it at home I would imagine that I am talking to an audience I imagine
I am talking to an audience I imagine
I am talking to an audience I imagine how we’re gonna come on stage I imagine
how we’re gonna come on stage I imagine
how we’re gonna come on stage I imagine what’s the first thing I’m going to do
what’s the first thing I’m going to do
what’s the first thing I’m going to do how am I gonna use my arms and body
how am I gonna use my arms and body
how am I gonna use my arms and body language so it’s not just practicing to
language so it’s not just practicing to
language so it’s not just practicing to memorize in a speech it’s the entire
memorize in a speech it’s the entire
memorize in a speech it’s the entire delivery it’s the performance and so I
delivery it’s the performance and so I
delivery it’s the performance and so I think you should practice that as well
think you should practice that as well
think you should practice that as well and so yes you want to practice your
and so yes you want to practice your
and so yes you want to practice your chords and practice your songs and get
chords and practice your songs and get
chords and practice your songs and get really good at the skill of playing the
really good at the skill of playing the
really good at the skill of playing the guitar but if you want to be a performer
guitar but if you want to be a performer
guitar but if you want to be a performer then practice being a performer so the
then practice being a performer so the
then practice being a performer so the more you can get gigs great free gigs
more you can get gigs great free gigs
more you can get gigs great free gigs unpaid gigs volunteer gigs whatever just
unpaid gigs volunteer gigs whatever just
unpaid gigs volunteer gigs whatever just to get the practice and exposure
to get the practice and exposure
to get the practice and exposure experience for you start building up a
experience for you start building up a
experience for you start building up a following and to build that muscle and
following and to build that muscle and
following and to build that muscle and then when you aren’t practicing at home
then when you aren’t practicing at home
then when you aren’t practicing at home I’d also say try to imagine that you’re
I’d also say try to imagine that you’re
I’d also say try to imagine that you’re performing in front of an audience you
performing in front of an audience you
performing in front of an audience you are performing at Madison Square Garden
are performing at Madison Square Garden
are performing at Madison Square Garden you know there’s 40,000 people listening
you know there’s 40,000 people listening
you know there’s 40,000 people listening to you what are you gonna do is you walk
to you what are you gonna do is you walk
to you what are you gonna do is you walk onstage what’s the first thing you’re
onstage what’s the first thing you’re
onstage what’s the first thing you’re gonna say
gonna say
gonna say you’re gonna hold your guitar are you
you’re gonna hold your guitar are you
you’re gonna hold your guitar are you standing up or sitting down you know how
standing up or sitting down you know how
standing up or sitting down you know how you’re going to carry yourself is there
you’re going to carry yourself is there
you’re going to carry yourself is there a message that you want to share with
a message that you want to share with
a message that you want to share with the world besides just the tunes that
the world besides just the tunes that
the world besides just the tunes that are coming out right all of that stuff
are coming out right all of that stuff
are coming out right all of that stuff is important and the more you practice
is important and the more you practice
is important and the more you practice it and the more you visualize it the
it and the more you visualize it the
it and the more you visualize it the more real it becomes and then when that
more real it becomes and then when that
more real it becomes and then when that moment happens and it does come you’re
moment happens and it does come you’re
moment happens and it does come you’re ready for it and you don’t choke and so
ready for it and you don’t choke and so
ready for it and you don’t choke and so I love that you’re practicing keep on
I love that you’re practicing keep on
I love that you’re practicing keep on doing it I just kind of raised the game
doing it I just kind of raised the game
doing it I just kind of raised the game now to practice the bigger picture stuff
now to practice the bigger picture stuff
now to practice the bigger picture stuff and not just a guitar the guitar is
and not just a guitar the guitar is
and not just a guitar the guitar is important but it’s part of the game so
important but it’s part of the game so
important but it’s part of the game so thank you guys so much for watching I am
thank you guys so much for watching I am
thank you guys so much for watching I am off to do my book I’m super excited
off to do my book I’m super excited
off to do my book I’m super excited about it if you guys have a question for
about it if you guys have a question for
about it if you guys have a question for me that you want in the next video
me that you want in the next video
me that you want in the next video either about my book about the book
either about my book about the book
either about my book about the book writing process or about something that
writing process or about something that
writing process or about something that we’ve covered on today’s episode leave
we’ve covered on today’s episode leave
we’ve covered on today’s episode leave in the comments below and I’ll have me
in the comments below and I’ll have me
in the comments below and I’ll have me the next video thank you so much for
the next video thank you so much for
the next video thank you so much for watching and continue to believe and
watching and continue to believe and
watching and continue to believe and I’ll see you soon
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