and
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I was not five years old when the police
burst into the room where he was
playing like every day and I know what
It took imprisoning him as who imprisons
an offender
we can imagine the face of terror and such
It is a surprise of those who in that
moment they were playing with him and
also the feeling of paralysis or
of impotence that they must have felt
the teachers in charge
jano shouted desperately I want
for my mom I want for my mom
I want with my mom
I said I want with my mom
the criterion was of such magnitude that
the police had to change the order
that the judge had taught that it was
deliver it to your grandmother’s house
father with whom jano did not have
absolutely no link and what
they had to take to a small room
guard in a hospital as soon as
He came running out the valeria
report that appears in the file
he said aja did not have to compensate
a 5-year-old boy had
unbalanced by what they were
doing when valeria comes warned
by other moms in the garden
the judge who gave the order puts her
own body and prevents Valeria from
hug jano who is still crying
asking for that up here we have two
scenarios that should be
incompatible
jano five years kindergarten
delinquent police
valeria is accused of preventing the
contact of jano with his dad and
predispose it against you can
really some judge
some judge working in the field
of the family to assume that in this way
it solves a problem my work as
journalist our work as
journalists, I am the coordinator of the network
international of journalists with vision
of gender in Argentina so
permanently receive in our
emails in our newsrooms
stories like the one I just had them
count arrive in desperate requests for
help all the people that we
they contact they have the illusion and sometimes
so if we spread the story it goes
to stop being a number in a
file and they will be able to leave the
labyrinth in which they have gotten them but
especially they are afraid they have a lot
fear of what can happen with their
daughters and sons
all complaints made one
many complaints against their former partners
husbands couples ex-husbands by
situations of violence
none of them has confidence in the
Justice
and they are right they know that the times
very delinquent of the courts never
coincide with the times of pain
human even when it comes to the
childhood but also know that in a
trice
whistleblowers can be converted
in suspects the victims can be
become victimizers because the
judicial system will say if the only
proof that you have your own word or the
story of his daughters and sons that I
I found out they are serial reporters
that the allegations are false
when we try to investigate and know
how many are the files how many
lojanos how many
if the girls kidnapped by the
justice there is no silence statistics
maybe for the state
we are only recognized as victims
when we are corpse in 1985 in states
united richard gardner invents a
disease alienation syndrome
parental sap and you put uses for this
name three strong words
syndrome and with this it gives an air of
alienation scientist and there he plays
the heart of any human society
which is the fear of madness and parental and
in this way it is disguised that 95%
of the people accused of generating this
disease are women mothers
she is also called malicious mothers
that maliciously the rod in the
brain this is textual of these poor
creatures that will then repeat as
parrots that repeat invented stories
inoculated by their mothers in this way
girls and boys stop being
subjects of law because then already the
Justice
a priori he will say that they lie
it is important to say that from 1985 until
here never even an association of
psychology and psychiatry no
university nor the world organization
of health have validated
scientifically the invention the syndrome
of parental alienation does not have any
type of real scientific consensus
However the judicial system will
love to use it and it does it through
of your representative
men and women who should have the
conviction that a father is a father
in the holy family whose image should
be defended no matter what it is
they have done it is called patriarchy
the pope leaves does not have 42 complaints for
violence
one of them relates that shaking
jano took his shoulder out of place no longer
would have by then about three years
I insist on this story in history
leave not because it’s the story copied from
many other stories in the country in the
region in europe where this instrument
legal has an objective that is
punish the insubordinate we have
then an illness invented a
remedy to cure the disease and a
only objective to discipline the
women mothers who no longer want or not
can continue to hold silent is so
easy to believe that women are lying
that’s what stereotypes say we do not exaggerate
we are a little crazy and lovelorn us
we are accustomed to being called feminazis
and we know practically nothing of the
Tight pressures and threats
that suffer the professionals that
accompany these cases in some cases
psychologists have had to
bank some causes invented with
which intimidate them in relation to
them out enrollment especially in
particular if the reported males
they are powerful
Andrea has three children
at 13 and took them to the gendarmerie
the smallest and the largest
they were in his house in the middle he was in
the school
the youngest nacho played with his
bottle that wood that Andrea insisted
that he had to leave his partner
Augustine could not avoid being taken away
Andrea was chained in the courts of
Lomas de Zamora
it took almost four years until he could
to embrace two of her children again
alone without equipment without interference
Marcela died as a result of a
terminal cancer without being able to embrace
half men because the judge’s order
He left late and the plane on which the
papa came to jasmine to where
marcela was dying
he also arrived late
sometimes I think that when jasmine is
larger to be able to search the
newspapers of the time was going to find
to her mom who asked for her until her
last breath
and when I say last breath it’s not
metaphorical here in córdoba
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hilda morals in the year 2015
he made a complaint but the system
Cordovan the justice system of
córdoba considered that his son víctor
I had to stay with the man
reported to his father he was five years old
victorio when they took him now
five weeks ago that if the dalai lama
the grandmother the maternal family does not know
nothing can not see them have no news
they agree that yes who knew them
before and they met victor before
the baby is a spoil of what was
when the children are silent when
girls do not talk draw they make symptoms
they have nightmares they go back to pee
and poop and are terrified that the bad
We come to seek and take him and
bad is not the bogeyman bad
is not the cuckoo the bad is the dad to
who have seen hit and scream more than
once
the crime is perfect the crime is
perfect if you also have a law that
endorses the exercise of cruelty
we have a law that is the law of
contact impediment
the law 24 thousand 270 criminal law that says that
who ask for the contact will be sanctioned
who prevents contact with him does not
cohabitant where in the law says
who wants to prevent contact could
be functioning as a barrier to
protection against what he knows is a
real risk where in the body of
the law says he wants to prevent the
contact could be simply
fulfilling the mandate of the convention
of the rights of the girl
the child and the teenager who says that
the child subject of right and that must
be taken into account and that child is
saying I do not want to go I’m afraid
what is the proportionality between
crime and punishment
hear is not at home with his family
maternal
however justice of killing
still does not see what’s next without looking at it
without hearing what they say I do not want to go
I do not want to be with that grandmother
I not fed me when I cried
because I missed my mom they told me
that then if I kept crying I did not
I was going to see more does not look at justice and
equipment
those drawings before and after the
experience
nobody comes out unscathed from an experience of
these characteristics every child every
girl says her truth
somehow we look for another way
we do not pretend it happens
up the volume to the voice of Jano by
complaint do not speak nacho tomás jasmine and
also francisco and victorio that
they still could not go back to their homes
I’m here because I have the conviction
that if we stop looking for another
side we can do as a society
crime is no longer perfect
if we pay attention to what happens
the teachers who are always close
moms and dads that accompany the
schooling and who listen suspect they see
listen to the stories of the boys
the health system that receives those
creatures whispering
short but tell what happens to them
when they find someone who looks at them
listen to them and believe them
we have the possibility to generate networks
of solidarity where we start to
convince us that children do not
they lie
it is important to think that if we achieve it
we will be eradicating one of the
more cruel machista violence
after the femicide but also
exercising the citizenship that we
corresponds
we strengthen real democracy
achi cando the impunity of justice
that I wanted far away to protect and
protect links the law wrongly with
human rights
if we start listening and believing if
we stop accepting that women
can wash brains that we accompany
women mothers who report if the
state complies with its own laws
we can make the crime stop being
perfect
if we achieve it if between all and all
as a society we achieve it we will achieve
that never again would any Jano
take the police
let’s get that no male
violent say I do it because I love it
because who loves does not harm and violence
macho
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