how do we do to love each other then
stopped but it’s my tests but that
falls well because in sign language
can not do one without the other one
asked me but how do we stop
but it’s hurt but in fact
it’s the three at once in the language of
signs
but I think in real life
it’s the same and then beyond
I believe that to succeed go to
beyond that this water of yours the
road
long time takes us each time a
a little further you have to dare to cross
why am I talking to you about that
today because it’s forty
three years of applied research a
certainly the most interesting trip
and useful I’ve ever done and who
bring me today to tell you that the
well the most valuable I have is
precisely my ability to love and the
good news is that this ability
it is learned there are not those who
are born with and those who come down and
that my granny is like marketing
but but we can do it well and
we can do it badly and it can even
hurt
then learn how to build relationships
quality is gold in bar
believes we are not powerful enough
and if there was something to cultivate
it’s this one when I was 14 years old
received from its author this sticker he
I have never left elsewhere
found one before coming here
declaration of rights to love
when I read that first I told myself
wow dream is one day I come to
do that and suddenly I thought
someone wrote it is that it is
possible
so I decide to believe it I got
also says I decide to be entitled
even me who had been a little
damaged to know how to love or
injured but that a little a lot
and then third thing that I got
said I want to understand how do we do
a stop since I’ve never stopped
then search not just between a
man a woman between two women between
two men but with all humans
in general how do we do that I
believe that when we succeed that we
either in marketing in a
association or somewhere else have friends and
then today the hut to scratch the
hut to scratch a small association
of street in my neighborhood I met
for the first time there are some
years now installed on the
sidewalk a small wooden hut
painted house of all colors
when I met them for the
first time she was held by
gervais a big black a little strong
like that to the air with a heart of gold and
who knew very well how to
make room for everyone whether
wherever they come from
and that was enough to hook my
heart is me who have always had to
heart to put diversity in my
life already at least to die less
stupid because the reality is
always complex and well I started
to attend the hut me too as
these isolated people of the neighborhood
like the people here are some
to see some roots and in
transition – from home as he can
to be in a neighborhood of the station
did I like at the cabin
scratch those two things the little sentence
that you read earlier about a
accustomed to the cabin that says when we
not scratch we can not know
Well, I think it’s true for
all never be content with
appearances in my case and in
what concerns you
as far as we are concerned
worth scratching a little behind
we discover nuggets of the coup
as this gentleman again with
lumberjack manes and who one day of the
christmas party at the cabin we
make crepe paper flowers
as you have never seen
scratching behind appearances
and then at the end of this holiday of
Christmas and well without doubt these are the most
beautiful Christmas holidays that I spend
for some time now and well
I go home to my house with
my children who are going to school are at
hot and good it’s not so simple
to be at parity pass doses and
even since my place to pass me
this christmas party with someone who
he has a story to sleep outside on
should with someone who has nothing left
with someone who has nobody around
him for limoux and this ability to
to be deeply connected to human
to human whatever the statuses
whatever our place is and
to be there together it’s a
pro pleasure
we should have more often and
this ability here again she
is grown then there are some passages
obliged for that I’m talking about
cross one is not enough to have
boots of seven leagues simple is the
first person to meet these self
and I had to go through
it’s good because
meet
we have the most raw material
infinite that exist renewable
Free
hyper-efficient available all the
time and at everyone
everything is there and everything is right it’s my
sensitivity is your sensitivity
relearn to feel learn something
thing that I without understanding some
thing of what I tend and act then
two received ideas against who me
regularly revolt the first
it is that there would be emotions
negative
all emotions are important
saleh it’s like in the little game where
when we are small we say you burn
cold killer says here if we are told
that you burn it lacks information when
even one can search long before
to arrive at the right place
so we need other indications
although it is traces of anger
afraid of sadness all these indications
are just the one we need for
go towards satisfying enough
our needs and there and the pleasure we
call it pleasure in humans
but in fact it’s homeostasis
it’s all living organism is
programmed to satisfy enough
his basic needs so no
of negative emotions they are all
good to take and as for it takes
the turn of an emotion that would be 10
sad or even violent whether for
oneself for others it is not
a feeling
it’s a defense mechanism it’s
not the same thing
here and we defense mechanisms
we all have a kind of short circuit
and it comes from far away in general
this is coming from far away in
general so even that we need
to be able this shaded area or
vulnerability we have to be
able to respect it
because behind there is a flower in
crepe paper and look at it
fondly
there are only like that that we
deliver the training you need
to be able to do differently and
finally something useful for
actually feed the loop the
first idea received okay
first revolt everything is good in
the second idea emotion we can not
change
so that makes me despair
I heard people tell me at 14
threat we can not change
what a good excuse what a good excuse
to not move the lines and
its obviously first because the
second meeting to do is you
and me that you are my spouse to my
neighbor my boss whose collaborators the
baker you and me already there from the
diversity there already it starts to
we one to annoy a little I think that
you’ve already filled in like a
car with your companion or companion
does not have the same way
now I let it do it more
simple here but just now
I let do
so the second meeting is between
his passes and suddenly you or me has
however and all me and what is
crazy I measure these last sam
still amazes when I see that it
it’s only when I’m all
and I do not let go
by the way quite quiet at the
border for the other to be
however
and so when both have succeeded
that there is something else that happens what
I would never have invented alone
and she would have never invented anything
alone and it’s even better than what we
could have imagined
so welcome to real life but in
better
it’s a bit of augmented reality
see the diversity assumed here
only to meet like that that’s
bravery
so the first thing you need to
equip you with your sensitivity and
the second thing is not so much
the sense of effort besides I did not
never very much the teachers know it those
who had me in class know it sense of
the effort is never my thing by
against I like it when it works
and I like people and when I draw
somebody’s bus well I decided to
do not let go so easily
and suddenly I take care of in my
flip flops the energy to have the courage
to go to contact
I’m sure here and months later
than a minute ago when stone was leaving
in the wings
I wanted to touch the hand so that they
I feel close to and then he had
turned his back on ben it was too late
alright when you have something
good a compliment like that you
remember that you do not say it’s missing
to the universe ceased to be lost for
the universe and then of course we all
things that are left us across
tension something
we have not been busy because
no time because it’s not so
important because it’s not worth it
well when it sticks in it
that there is still something to do
and then it could well finish
to get in the way of my health at
through our relationship put to
distance
to meet meet then already
once we know how to do it better
in better practical phase it is decided
it weaves so we can meet
there it gets complicated including there all
the links there because there is the link there
then after there is the connection between the
people all who care for
clips of collective human system
is not it tedx well we know that
this is going to have to deal with everyone
and take care of the entre and that if we know
do it well the result is still
beyond expectations
why it gets complicated when
we become a collective because in fact
we are all with a question we come
to the world with but what is my place
already found my place in the family
even if she is very small
support find my place even in my
group of friends in my job in my
business in my a jump from trouble to
find my place and as soon as I’m scared
for my place you as soon as it’s not
sure to have things get so crisis
when we know that in everyone in a
group dares to take its place deals with the
between so that everyone can and the
real permission to take his place
then there is a kind of magic thing
is happening that is there is room
for everyone
it’s from this intelligence there to the
emotional relationship but also
this kind of leap into the void does not
not have a pre-established plan at the start
to say if we put on what alas that
everyone takes his limits his handicaps
it’s not possible that’s the
complementarity will inevitably
something good and that’s a
sacred letting go on our desire to
control know to the advanced and that’s
valid in how I develop my
business strategy
how am I driving the hut to scratch
how do you make room for
each and for the rest leave-do
the universe and although there is three things
never artificial intelligence
could do it another place to know
know but it is learned is our good
the most valuable while growing the
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