on facebook on private messenger who me
proposes to participate in such an x then
I did not know I did not know
that it meant tedx so well
Sure I’ve been to see my brother William
I called my brother, I told him
what is what what is it
a teddy that means what’s good my
brother he knows a lot of things so
I’m wondering
he sees the message and he tells me but if
of course you have to go there you have to
try you have to participate
will be proud to the cook is ok I have him
answered but first you explain to me what
what is a tedx so he showed me
different videos of his lectures
and the further I went the more I was at the
once impressed my anxieties and I
did not know if I had to answer because
that I did not know if I was able
to participate
so I hesitated and then well here is this
evening here I am
so thanks
in our family we are four
moms my bread and my dad my big
brother and me I am the only one in
France where every night and since
I’m small every night at the moment
the meal when we have dinner with family
often my dad always makes me a
few jokes but make jokes
of hearing then what is it
means jokes in trend
ie it’s word games these
two words that will be reasoned together
that they are going to do yes reseaunance but
it’s young beautiful and often I
put 10 minutes to understand
ok what was the joke good then
often I asked my father but
why are you making me
jokes of yesteryear in these jokes
of hearing he answered me because
you have to grow up and you will move on
in the hearing world so it takes
that you own your rice the culture of
Hearing life ok okay but you do
always his jokes why why
it
because you’re growing up and indeed you’re going
live you’re going to have an adult life a
active life you’ll work you’ll be in
business and so obviously you’ll be
in the middle of the lake of the hearing world
you must not be that you are
lost in the hearing culture
So here is the reason for
which every night he made me a
joke no longer hearing I grew up more
I understood things and I was good
yes here in hearing culture
discovered it and today I voc
quietly of the culture of
deaf people to culture in
agreement there once we were in
trip we are by car
and then I see at a gas station
we stop at a gas station and
I look around me and I see I
see the word diesel and I think I’m
reminds of that makes me think of a
comedian a famous actor who
is called vinh diesel and I stand
maybe we can make a play on words
with that then since it makes me
think
so I ask my father I say is
what you could do a word game
with his okay trying to find with
diesel and diesel wine
I ‘m trying to think more about this
what could we do well
if I had the idea that we could even
impossible and my father in two minutes
he found he said bass here at
gérard have made see see what
see he told me ben you what are you
as gasoil as essence divined from
diesel and that’s it and had the guessing down
Diesel living diesel ok we were there
in two minutes but play but I have
still not very well understood this
that was funny ah yes I understand the
system but it’s a word game but
it does not really make sense to me so
it’s true that the way
to apprehend humor where culture
end deaf and hearing it’s a bit
different true I tell you it’s not the
hardly ask me to do a
sore joke that that’s for sure
you will break your head
the same way as me for finally
find something funny so
it’s not worth it do not ask me
maybe you tell yourself but then
with these differences in culture and not
there is a culture difference between
deaf and hearing and maybe you
you ask if suddenly deaf and
Hearing people can communicate together
I answer you of course
obviously but it depends
situation it depends on the people
also so to communicate there are three
solutions
the first the performers you
can call an interpreter for
administrative appointment you have a
make it important for you to meet in
these cases there you call on a
interpreter like there tonight and a
interpreter that’s it and it’s a chance
but of course for the life of all
days we will go through an interpreter if
we have a friend we will not have a
performer next to self hall
enough I already have my really on the
back I’m not going in addition the collar is a
perform every day after that it’s
there are applications that exist for
that we can communicate for example it
exists the application to 20 which translates
in vocal a written text that goes the
voice translate so by
example when we are in a meeting
if a meeting situation and all the
world is talking at the same time I can not
follow the time to see who’s talking I
can not I then in these cases
the application will translate the exchanges
in text and I will be able to read them
if I speak and it is not understood
in these cases I type the text that will
be transmitted by voice
the application of a pass them this
that I wrote in a vocal way
that’s a possibility and in the 3rd a
solution there is also the news
technologies that allow us to
communicate when so I saw that by
relative to the family pay that i have
did so I was doing the role of quentin
and after following this movie there are some
people who recognized me here at the
once in a while and once I was in
the Metro
there was a woman who sat in
face of me who spent his time to me
look a little strange way
I asked what she wanted
no more put that aside and I have them
seen coming out of his bag a
ipad tablet and a pen and she has
started writing on his tablet
for I watched her do without knowing
ray and then she raised the tablet
and that’s it and I was really
pleasantly surprised is surprised and
impressed because I think that
effect I had never met two
deaf people and she found
this solution there even though she
did not know him the
sign language as far as it is concerned
allowed to communicate with me I was
very touched by this testimony there and
if she had decided to speak despite
everything do not forget in metro there is
noise I’m sure I would not have
understood and I will be missed
This beautiful exchange ale these little people
what she does that so here you are
understand that there is always
different solutions can appeal
to an interpreter
we can find something me if I
do not want to call an interpreter
if I want to flirt with someone I can not
it depends on the situations if I see
for example a beautiful girl an agreement
1 I see a beautiful girl who makes me
really and that I want to flirt with her
I will not go out in a cell phone
take out the havas application that will speak
at my not possible ok or so I can
have an interpreter next to me
who will repeat everything I’m going
get out of two pretty that would not be
cool for the drag it would not be cool
unless I decide to flirt
the interpreter mans there is something else
good game in the street I already have
noticed that when it’s late losses
as people cross people
who have other disabilities people in
wheelchair or blind and all good
hearing people they are still
do not be afraid approach and then that’s it
communication is done and seems to be done
quite easy way me I
always ask why when it’s
in front of me
people panic and 10 years old but no
no it’s okay I’ll ask for some
something to someone else I do not know
why there is this reaction then
you’ll be more precise it’s me
arrived once thrown on the street I
I was walking there is a person
hearing who came to see me and who
so show me his plan and they
were lost
he said yes so that’s where I
would like to go there but he had the
returned head I did not see so
I think about it I asked him to
return to face me for
that I can understand it I
tell him I’m deaf I do not have
understood what you could repeat
and I will read on your lips and a
blow he said to marc it’s good it’s
good it’s good he’s gone and I was
a little disappointed I told myself this is
pity why there is always this
rejection reaction
like what now my god is a
deaf how I spoke I do not know
how I want and take myself and who
leave while it’s not the same
thing with other forms of disability
the communication is done there is less this
feeling of fear and all that is
as if we had a wall as if when
you see there is a wall and the
communication would not be possible
so it’s not your fault or
okay it’s not the fault of the
Hearing you are not the only ones
responsible and guilty it’s not this
that I mean the feeling and the
rejection reactions of fear are also
it is also in the deaf who have
afraid of communication so I
remember a situation was a
football match with jumps in toys
we were a team of deaf people and then
there is a person a hearing friend who
come and who wants to ask a question and
who says they are asking us if he can
participate and play and participate in
football match and expresses itself by speaking
so is that said no no wait
olala I will not be able to communicate
as we answer him and who called
another reliable source that they knew
speak by saying is what you can
come to help me like that you’ll
talk for what I have to tell him and
everything and I’m not it’s the same
I was a little disappointed why there is
not this effort
this simple effort this will to
communicate live
here it is enough just me I can read
on the lips I can communicate on
can communicate directly without
go through a third as I was
since very young, my parents
always said you have to learn to
to talk you have to try
that you try to learn to speak they
never told me it was
mandatory
it was a council told me this is
better for your active life for david more
late okay ok I listened to this board
when I was little I did not know too much
what did it mean to speak
that I speak but that means what by
the ja yes ok good agreement Bin I
to finally learn I feel a little bit of
side
then the time has passed and I have put myself
to learn to speak to understand this
that it was the words I ended up
understand what that meant
it was the possibility to use his
voice say words create sentences
the associates so that he has a
coherent structure and where and when
I understood the system I was
really impressed i found handsome
I had and I liked my voice I
found it was beautiful to talk
so road maybe you tell yourself
but the sign language is pretty
maybe you say the same thing you
you say but language leasing these
balms to me I tell myself the same too
with the voice is beautiful and speak it is
beautiful and when I started to
learn to speak and understand that
that was it I became addicted I
talked to everyone I talked
everywhere I became a real talkative
especially with the people I know
well with my loved ones there is at the
hearing community and community
on me I can go I can come
were coming to your community
Hearing as I can guide you
in my common deaf tea and I
can go from one to the other without
problem
I understood now how
that’s what makes the culture hearing
what makes the culture deaf what
are the peculiarities of each and
I can mop and yes from one to
the other without problem
I do not have a little bit of
hair the page to take the time
what it takes for me to understand
that I tell Roman never pay
as we were intact a day that is
possible
thanks thanks
thanks thanks
so I wanted to tell you something
I wanted to thank you very much for
for everything you brought me
everything you gave me as
I discovered a lot of things about
me a lot of things that I did not know
not so and that I will not have
discovered elsewhere than here so that
it was a chance I would like to say
also thanks to my brother also to a
friend hashmi forgiveness hashmi a friend of mine
who did the drawings especially there who
have been screened I thank them
a lot
thank you very much thank you
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