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Has War Made Peace? | Maria Omer | TEDxYouth@Harlow


[Applause]

[Applause] imagine having a legitimate fear of how

imagine having a legitimate fear of how

imagine having a legitimate fear of how people might deceive you just because

people might deceive you just because

people might deceive you just because your identity hello my name is Maria

your identity hello my name is Maria

your identity hello my name is Maria Omer I’m sixteen years of age and I’ve

Omer I’m sixteen years of age and I’ve

Omer I’m sixteen years of age and I’ve been living in different countries and

been living in different countries and

been living in different countries and I’ve been going to international schools

I’ve been going to international schools

I’ve been going to international schools all around the world

all around the world

all around the world so far I’ve lived in Sweden and here in

so far I’ve lived in Sweden and here in

so far I’ve lived in Sweden and here in England I’ll get back to that in a bit

England I’ll get back to that in a bit

England I’ll get back to that in a bit something I’ve noticed about living in

something I’ve noticed about living in

something I’ve noticed about living in different places is the way in which we

different places is the way in which we

different places is the way in which we tend to show a particular attitude to

tend to show a particular attitude to

tend to show a particular attitude to something that we view in other words

something that we view in other words

something that we view in other words perspective but in particular the way in

perspective but in particular the way in

perspective but in particular the way in which we perceive Arabs or Muslims in

which we perceive Arabs or Muslims in

which we perceive Arabs or Muslims in general so here’s a wonderful picture of

general so here’s a wonderful picture of

general so here’s a wonderful picture of me my class in Sweden in 2007 and let

me my class in Sweden in 2007 and let

me my class in Sweden in 2007 and let you guys have a guess of which one of

you guys have a guess of which one of

you guys have a guess of which one of these students I am hint I’m the only

these students I am hint I’m the only

these students I am hint I’m the only brown one there Tania

brown one there Tania

brown one there Tania so this is the little version of me and

so this is the little version of me and

so this is the little version of me and I’m guessing you would already guessed

I’m guessing you would already guessed

I’m guessing you would already guessed that but just the way in which you find

that but just the way in which you find

that but just the way in which you find it easy to find to find out who I was in

it easy to find to find out who I was in

it easy to find to find out who I was in the crowd the way in which you scanned

the crowd the way in which you scanned

the crowd the way in which you scanned your eyes through the screen and picked

your eyes through the screen and picked

your eyes through the screen and picked me out that’s how easy it is for airport

me out that’s how easy it is for airport

me out that’s how easy it is for airport security to notice me as well now others

security to notice me as well now others

security to notice me as well now others might see me as an outcast to society

might see me as an outcast to society

might see me as an outcast to society yes I did stand-up from the crowd when I

yes I did stand-up from the crowd when I

yes I did stand-up from the crowd when I was 6 years old and I still do but did

was 6 years old and I still do but did

was 6 years old and I still do but did stand out from the crowd in a cheesy

stand out from the crowd in a cheesy

stand out from the crowd in a cheesy obnoxious term the quote way no but in a

obnoxious term the quote way no but in a

obnoxious term the quote way no but in a scary way

scary way

scary way now I had a different perspective to

now I had a different perspective to

now I had a different perspective to being different I thought it meant being

being different I thought it meant being

being different I thought it meant being unique and special but not have someone

unique and special but not have someone

unique and special but not have someone that we should fear not someone that we

that we should fear not someone that we

that we should fear not someone that we should circumspect 24/7 but was this all

should circumspect 24/7 but was this all

should circumspect 24/7 but was this all because I was Arab now let’s talk about

because I was Arab now let’s talk about

because I was Arab now let’s talk about being Arab in fact let’s talk about the

being Arab in fact let’s talk about the

being Arab in fact let’s talk about the media’s perspective about Arabs and how

media’s perspective about Arabs and how

media’s perspective about Arabs and how it completely defines the way in which I

it completely defines the way in which I

it completely defines the way in which I see my own culture some of you guys

see my own culture some of you guys

see my own culture some of you guys might be familiar with some of these

might be familiar with some of these

might be familiar with some of these stereotypes because they’re constantly

stereotypes because they’re constantly

stereotypes because they’re constantly portrayed in movies on social media all

portrayed in movies on social media all

portrayed in movies on social media all across the news one how our men are seen

across the news one how our men are seen

across the news one how our men are seen as barbaric crazy and intolerant

as barbaric crazy and intolerant

as barbaric crazy and intolerant – how every Arab lives in the desert

yeah and three and this is my favorite

yeah and three and this is my favorite one how every Arab woman is an oppressed

one how every Arab woman is an oppressed

one how every Arab woman is an oppressed failed exotic belly dancer now let me

failed exotic belly dancer now let me

failed exotic belly dancer now let me give you some geography and history

give you some geography and history

give you some geography and history lessons first as you can see there are

lessons first as you can see there are

lessons first as you can see there are 23 official Arabic speaking countries

23 official Arabic speaking countries

23 official Arabic speaking countries they distributed all across the Middle

they distributed all across the Middle

they distributed all across the Middle East and North Africa so there’s no way

East and North Africa so there’s no way

East and North Africa so there’s no way that we all live in the desert unless

that we all live in the desert unless

that we all live in the desert unless you live in North Africa then I can’t

you live in North Africa then I can’t

you live in North Africa then I can’t speak for you also make sure you thank

speak for you also make sure you thank

speak for you also make sure you thank us next time you have a sip of your

us next time you have a sip of your

us next time you have a sip of your delicious coffee because remember that

delicious coffee because remember that

delicious coffee because remember that you originated first from yemen and ira

you originated first from yemen and ira

you originated first from yemen and ira country oh how you looking forward for

country oh how you looking forward for

country oh how you looking forward for an answer from you new university keep

an answer from you new university keep

an answer from you new university keep it in mind that establish of the first

it in mind that establish of the first

it in mind that establish of the first university in the world was a moroccan

university in the world was a moroccan

university in the world was a moroccan woman around 9th century now these are

woman around 9th century now these are

woman around 9th century now these are some amazing inventions and there is

some amazing inventions and there is

some amazing inventions and there is also the musical notation the first

also the musical notation the first

also the musical notation the first musical notations ever made were arabic

musical notations ever made were arabic

musical notations ever made were arabic and that formed today’s modern music you

and that formed today’s modern music you

and that formed today’s modern music you know these are some great inventions

know these are some great inventions

know these are some great inventions apart from algebra that’s something we

apart from algebra that’s something we

apart from algebra that’s something we have to apologize for I’m sorry

so moving on to a modern day topic an

so moving on to a modern day topic an issue that is dear to my heart and it’s

issue that is dear to my heart and it’s

issue that is dear to my heart and it’s a sensitive and deep topic to every Arab

a sensitive and deep topic to every Arab

a sensitive and deep topic to every Arab and that is the Syrian refugee crisis

and that is the Syrian refugee crisis

and that is the Syrian refugee crisis and war now Arabs have experienced war

and war now Arabs have experienced war

and war now Arabs have experienced war for a long time in fact we’re known for

for a long time in fact we’re known for

for a long time in fact we’re known for this it’s been going on for decades in

this it’s been going on for decades in

this it’s been going on for decades in Palestine Iraq Syria Libya Tunisia Egypt

Palestine Iraq Syria Libya Tunisia Egypt

Palestine Iraq Syria Libya Tunisia Egypt Lebanon it’s just been going on since

Lebanon it’s just been going on since

Lebanon it’s just been going on since forever more for me

forever more for me

forever more for me see now I use the picture of Syrians

see now I use the picture of Syrians

see now I use the picture of Syrians children smiling because I thought that

children smiling because I thought that

children smiling because I thought that me objectifying their pain isn’t gonna

me objectifying their pain isn’t gonna

me objectifying their pain isn’t gonna help anyway because they go into the

help anyway because they go into the

help anyway because they go into the currently going through a really hard

currently going through a really hard

currently going through a really hard time especially in Syria so so the

time especially in Syria so so the

time especially in Syria so so the Syrian refugee crisis is one of the

Syrian refugee crisis is one of the

Syrian refugee crisis is one of the biggest problems in the world and

biggest problems in the world and

biggest problems in the world and biggest problems in politics and it’s

biggest problems in politics and it’s

biggest problems in politics and it’s the most discussed issue in politics

the most discussed issue in politics

the most discussed issue in politics actually I thought from Donald Trump now

actually I thought from Donald Trump now

actually I thought from Donald Trump now questions my appear regarding the Syrian

questions my appear regarding the Syrian

questions my appear regarding the Syrian refugee crisis such as why are they here

refugee crisis such as why are they here

refugee crisis such as why are they here crowding our countries

crowding our countries

crowding our countries hopefully what okay this is why in fact

hopefully what okay this is why in fact

hopefully what okay this is why in fact this is one of the first pictures that

this is one of the first pictures that

this is one of the first pictures that showed up as soon as I googled my own

showed up as soon as I googled my own

showed up as soon as I googled my own country but what if our safety feels

country but what if our safety feels

country but what if our safety feels threatened if they come to our country

threatened if they come to our country

threatened if they come to our country tell us about it see you know in which

tell us about it see you know in which

tell us about it see you know in which you know in the way in which you can’t

you know in the way in which you can’t

you know in the way in which you can’t order food through your phone without

order food through your phone without

order food through your phone without having to rehearse the lines or make

having to rehearse the lines or make

having to rehearse the lines or make sure you don’t see something anything

sure you don’t see something anything

sure you don’t see something anything like we don’t say anything wrong

like we don’t say anything wrong

like we don’t say anything wrong that’s exactly how every error field as

that’s exactly how every error field as

that’s exactly how every error field as soon as we step out of the house how we

soon as we step out of the house how we

soon as we step out of the house how we look how he presents herself or how we

look how he presents herself or how we

look how he presents herself or how we speak in fact I had doubts about today’s

speak in fact I had doubts about today’s

speak in fact I had doubts about today’s presentation are feared on how you might

presentation are feared on how you might

presentation are feared on how you might view me after but then I realized that I

view me after but then I realized that I

view me after but then I realized that I have a voice I have a voice I should be

have a voice I have a voice I should be

have a voice I have a voice I should be standing up for the unheard and I have

standing up for the unheard and I have

standing up for the unheard and I have every right to be standing up for my

every right to be standing up for my

every right to be standing up for my country and my culture so us as the new

country and my culture so us as the new

country and my culture so us as the new generation we have a lot of power and we

generation we have a lot of power and we

generation we have a lot of power and we could be standing up against xenophobia

could be standing up against xenophobia

could be standing up against xenophobia racism and stereotypes so I asked all of

racism and stereotypes so I asked all of

racism and stereotypes so I asked all of us to stand in unity this is one famous

us to stand in unity this is one famous

us to stand in unity this is one famous Arabic quote that goes and remember

Arabic quote that goes and remember

Arabic quote that goes and remember well healin so for tomorrow Lucifer

well healin so for tomorrow Lucifer

well healin so for tomorrow Lucifer which translates to and finally the

which translates to and finally the

which translates to and finally the storm will pass this is a quote that’s

storm will pass this is a quote that’s

storm will pass this is a quote that’s deep and very special to my heart it’s a

deep and very special to my heart it’s a

deep and very special to my heart it’s a it’s a quote that’s in every Arabs heart

it’s a quote that’s in every Arabs heart

it’s a quote that’s in every Arabs heart and I hope it will remain in your hearts

and I hope it will remain in your hearts

and I hope it will remain in your hearts thank you very much

thank you very much

thank you very much [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] well turn that career hook I haven’t had

well turn that career hook I haven’t had

well turn that career hook I haven’t had a hug fantastic thank you listen you

a hug fantastic thank you listen you

a hug fantastic thank you listen you know when you just for when you’re

know when you just for when you’re

know when you just for when you’re talking about that kind of immediate

talking about that kind of immediate

talking about that kind of immediate response one thing I know that when I

response one thing I know that when I

response one thing I know that when I walk into room people notice I’m female

walk into room people notice I’m female

walk into room people notice I’m female they also think I look a bit like

they also think I look a bit like

they also think I look a bit like Beyonce I’m sure then you get the frame

Beyonce I’m sure then you get the frame

Beyonce I’m sure then you get the frame and they notice that I’m maybe you know

and they notice that I’m maybe you know

and they notice that I’m maybe you know I’m brown but they notice that I’ve got

I’m brown but they notice that I’ve got

I’m brown but they notice that I’ve got a bit of a Midlands accent which clearly

a bit of a Midlands accent which clearly

a bit of a Midlands accent which clearly means I own a whip it and I’m from the

means I own a whip it and I’m from the

means I own a whip it and I’m from the north but on out what I’ve worked out is

north but on out what I’ve worked out is

north but on out what I’ve worked out is that I I used to get very anxious about

that I I used to get very anxious about

that I I used to get very anxious about that and one website I can’t be

that and one website I can’t be

that and one website I can’t be everybody’s assumption so I’ll just do

everybody’s assumption so I’ll just do

everybody’s assumption so I’ll just do me and then I’ll get on with that but

me and then I’ll get on with that but

me and then I’ll get on with that but what I’m aware of is that that goes

what I’m aware of is that that goes

what I’m aware of is that that goes against what people assume and then

against what people assume and then

against what people assume and then there sometimes get a bit of a problem

there sometimes get a bit of a problem

there sometimes get a bit of a problem where they’re thinking something and I’m

where they’re thinking something and I’m

where they’re thinking something and I’m being a different way how do you cope

being a different way how do you cope

being a different way how do you cope with that how do you cope with people

with that how do you cope with people

with that how do you cope with people making these assumptions and you know

making these assumptions and you know

making these assumptions and you know how do you kind of overcome them in

how do you kind of overcome them in

how do you kind of overcome them in relationships well first of all I don’t

relationships well first of all I don’t

relationships well first of all I don’t let it get to me because you know I am a

let it get to me because you know I am a

let it get to me because you know I am a woman I am a Muslim I am an Arab there

woman I am a Muslim I am an Arab there

woman I am a Muslim I am an Arab there are some you know difficulties I

are some you know difficulties I

are some you know difficulties I experienced in my life and I’ve

experienced in my life and I’ve

experienced in my life and I’ve experienced ever since I was a kid but I

experienced ever since I was a kid but I

experienced ever since I was a kid but I don’t first thing that you have to know

don’t first thing that you have to know

don’t first thing that you have to know is don’t let these things get to you

is don’t let these things get to you

is don’t let these things get to you because whatever the meanness is about

because whatever the meanness is about

because whatever the meanness is about you will never betray how we really are

you will never betray how we really are

you will never betray how we really are yeah and you know you talked about at

yeah and you know you talked about at

yeah and you know you talked about at airports that really kind of stuck with

airports that really kind of stuck with

airports that really kind of stuck with me because I you know I take for granted

me because I you know I take for granted

me because I you know I take for granted that I can just walk I’m just getting a

that I can just walk I’m just getting a

that I can just walk I’m just getting a plane and fly where I like I can just

plane and fly where I like I can just

plane and fly where I like I can just get on and walk through and get back and

get on and walk through and get back and

get on and walk through and get back and come off it’s not the same experience

come off it’s not the same experience

come off it’s not the same experience for some people and there’s things about

for some people and there’s things about

for some people and there’s things about you that you know make people’s eye sore

you that you know make people’s eye sore

you that you know make people’s eye sore do you get that anywhere else is that

do you get that anywhere else is that

do you get that anywhere else is that just airports or is that something

just airports or is that something

just airports or is that something that’s in your daily life it’s

that’s in your daily life it’s

that’s in your daily life it’s definitely my daily life but once again

definitely my daily life but once again

definitely my daily life but once again I don’t let it affect me as much because

I don’t let it affect me as much because

I don’t let it affect me as much because I know there are much more than just you

I know there are much more than just you

I know there are much more than just you know people’s views and that’s why I

know people’s views and that’s why I

know people’s views and that’s why I asked everyone to to don’t just don’t

asked everyone to to don’t just don’t

asked everyone to to don’t just don’t look into what the media says because

look into what the media says because

look into what the media says because you know talk to someone from the

you know talk to someone from the

you know talk to someone from the community don’t take notes from the

community don’t take notes from the

community don’t take notes from the media because they love to twist things

media because they love to twist things

media because they love to twist things around about Muslims about black people

around about Muslims about black people

around about Muslims about black people about gays or any oppressed minorities

about gays or any oppressed minorities

about gays or any oppressed minorities they love to make us seem bad in a way

they love to make us seem bad in a way

they love to make us seem bad in a way yeah just don’t take notes so I think we

yeah just don’t take notes so I think we

yeah just don’t take notes so I think we should all just hang out with you

should all just hang out with you

should all just hang out with you and then we can say well my friend Maria

and then we can say well my friend Maria

and then we can say well my friend Maria says thank you for inspiring

says thank you for inspiring

says thank you for inspiring you’ve been courageous and thank you for

you’ve been courageous and thank you for

you’ve been courageous and thank you for being awesome Maria you’re a star Maria

being awesome Maria you’re a star Maria

being awesome Maria you’re a star Maria everybody

everybody

everybody [Applause]

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