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shame a waste of space shame a waste of

shame a waste of space shame a waste of air shame waste a question but firstly I

air shame waste a question but firstly I

air shame waste a question but firstly I would like you all to close your eyes

would like you all to close your eyes

would like you all to close your eyes don’t be afraid close your eyes my

don’t be afraid close your eyes my

don’t be afraid close your eyes my question you is and I want you to

question you is and I want you to

question you is and I want you to imagine this my question is when have

imagine this my question is when have

imagine this my question is when have you ever created something when have you

you ever created something when have you

you ever created something when have you ever created something keep your eyes

ever created something keep your eyes

ever created something keep your eyes closed now when I’ve asked this question

closed now when I’ve asked this question

closed now when I’ve asked this question in the past I once had someone say oh

in the past I once had someone say oh

in the past I once had someone say oh when I was six years old I created a

when I was six years old I created a

when I was six years old I created a drawing and I had someone else once say

drawing and I had someone else once say

drawing and I had someone else once say oh when I was in high school I created a

oh when I was in high school I created a

oh when I was in high school I created a painting great I said great and then I

painting great I said great and then I

painting great I said great and then I once even had someone go into explicit

once even had someone go into explicit

once even had someone go into explicit detail about how they formulate the

detail about how they formulate the

detail about how they formulate the perfect butterscotch cookie crumble

perfect butterscotch cookie crumble

perfect butterscotch cookie crumble biscuit with vanilla ice cream

biscuit with vanilla ice cream

biscuit with vanilla ice cream rainbow-colored low-fat sprinkles and

rainbow-colored low-fat sprinkles and

rainbow-colored low-fat sprinkles and what did I say to this person well I

what did I say to this person well I

what did I say to this person well I said now I’m hungry keep your eyes

said now I’m hungry keep your eyes

said now I’m hungry keep your eyes closed when I’ve asked this question

closed when I’ve asked this question

closed when I’ve asked this question people have answered with a physical

people have answered with a physical

people have answered with a physical object of some sort the drawing the

object of some sort the drawing the

object of some sort the drawing the paintings the cookies physical objects

paintings the cookies physical objects

paintings the cookies physical objects now I want you all to open your eyes

now I want you all to open your eyes

now I want you all to open your eyes there is something that you have all

there is something that you have all

there is something that you have all created something that you’re all going

created something that you’re all going

created something that you’re all going to create and something that you are

to create and something that you are

to create and something that you are creating right now you are all creating

creating right now you are all creating

creating right now you are all creating change now whether that changes in

change now whether that changes in

change now whether that changes in yourself whether that changes in others

yourself whether that changes in others

yourself whether that changes in others or whether that changes in your

or whether that changes in your

or whether that changes in your environments you were all creating

environments you were all creating

environments you were all creating change I like to call it the three

change I like to call it the three

change I like to call it the three of controlling change the self

of controlling change the self

of controlling change the self environments in others wastes shame a

environments in others wastes shame a

environments in others wastes shame a waste of space

waste of space

waste of space shame a waste of air shame waste that is

shame a waste of air shame waste that is

shame a waste of air shame waste that is what I was called shame that is what I

what I was called shame that is what I

what I was called shame that is what I felt namaste my name is Jodi Dante

felt namaste my name is Jodi Dante

felt namaste my name is Jodi Dante Malloy verdict Lucy lagu happy here I’m

Malloy verdict Lucy lagu happy here I’m

Malloy verdict Lucy lagu happy here I’m 23 years old and I was born in Australia

23 years old and I was born in Australia

23 years old and I was born in Australia at the kangaroos I’m here today to talk

at the kangaroos I’m here today to talk

at the kangaroos I’m here today to talk to you about my theory of the three C’s

to you about my theory of the three C’s

to you about my theory of the three C’s and how this theory changed my life the

and how this theory changed my life the

and how this theory changed my life the three C’s of courage change and control

three C’s of courage change and control

three C’s of courage change and control and how this links into my three circles

and how this links into my three circles

and how this links into my three circles of controlling change the self

of controlling change the self

of controlling change the self environments and others but first to

environments and others but first to

environments and others but first to give you sex I would like to share my

give you sex I would like to share my

give you sex I would like to share my story with you all as I mentioned I’m

story with you all as I mentioned I’m

story with you all as I mentioned I’m from the land of the kangaroos what I

from the land of the kangaroos what I

from the land of the kangaroos what I haven’t mentioned yet is that I’ve lived

haven’t mentioned yet is that I’ve lived

haven’t mentioned yet is that I’ve lived in 16 different homes throughout my life

in 16 different homes throughout my life

in 16 different homes throughout my life and 15 of those homes before high school

and 15 of those homes before high school

and 15 of those homes before high school now due to financial difficulty

now due to financial difficulty

now due to financial difficulty I had to consistently move I packed up

I had to consistently move I packed up

I had to consistently move I packed up my belongings with my family and we had

my belongings with my family and we had

my belongings with my family and we had to move from one place to another and

to move from one place to another and

to move from one place to another and then the owner of that house had one to

then the owner of that house had one to

then the owner of that house had one to sell the house

sell the house

sell the house and we have to pack up some belongings

and we have to pack up some belongings

and we have to pack up some belongings into boxes again I’ve moved once again

into boxes again I’ve moved once again

into boxes again I’ve moved once again and then the same thing would happen so

and then the same thing would happen so

and then the same thing would happen so if the pack up our lives into boxes

if the pack up our lives into boxes

if the pack up our lives into boxes again and move once more and then it

again and move once more and then it

again and move once more and then it hurt for a better future we’ve moved far

hurt for a better future we’ve moved far

hurt for a better future we’ve moved far away and that wouldn’t work out so we’d

away and that wouldn’t work out so we’d

away and that wouldn’t work out so we’d have to move all the way back for a

have to move all the way back for a

have to move all the way back for a child growing up this stable foundation

child growing up this stable foundation

child growing up this stable foundation is constant moving between different

is constant moving between different

is constant moving between different states meant that I never fully gained a

states meant that I never fully gained a

states meant that I never fully gained a sense of my ID I was born in Queensland

sense of my ID I was born in Queensland

sense of my ID I was born in Queensland and I moved down to Tasmania and move

and I moved down to Tasmania and move

and I moved down to Tasmania and move back up the Queensland I moved down it

back up the Queensland I moved down it

back up the Queensland I moved down it has mania again we’ve got up to

has mania again we’ve got up to

has mania again we’ve got up to Queensland moved around Queensland move

Queensland moved around Queensland move

Queensland moved around Queensland move down and above Melbourne and then to

down and above Melbourne and then to

down and above Melbourne and then to Ballarat where I started my university

Ballarat where I started my university

Ballarat where I started my university this constant changing environments

this constant changing environments

this constant changing environments that I had no control over led to my

that I had no control over led to my

that I had no control over led to my confidence being very unsettled but the

confidence being very unsettled but the

confidence being very unsettled but the hardest move was to a new high school

hardest move was to a new high school

hardest move was to a new high school where I unfortunately underwent bullying

where I unfortunately underwent bullying

where I unfortunately underwent bullying I was called a waste of space I was

I was called a waste of space I was

I was called a waste of space I was called a waste of air I had once been

called a waste of air I had once been

called a waste of air I had once been spat on and being told the world would

spat on and being told the world would

spat on and being told the world would be better off without me

be better off without me

be better off without me I felt very disempowered but I kept

I felt very disempowered but I kept

I felt very disempowered but I kept pushing on I was called names made fun

pushing on I was called names made fun

pushing on I was called names made fun of bullied because I was of mixed

of bullied because I was of mixed

of bullied because I was of mixed background because I was of mixed race

background because I was of mixed race

background because I was of mixed race my parents were born overseas I was told

my parents were born overseas I was told

my parents were born overseas I was told that I should go back to my own country

that I should go back to my own country

that I should go back to my own country that I don’t belong in Australia that no

that I don’t belong in Australia that no

that I don’t belong in Australia that no one wants me there I started to develop

one wants me there I started to develop

one wants me there I started to develop a shame a shame was I waste this shame

a shame a shame was I waste this shame

a shame a shame was I waste this shame grew and grew until one day my best

grew and grew until one day my best

grew and grew until one day my best friend came up to me and she didn’t say

friend came up to me and she didn’t say

friend came up to me and she didn’t say it in a rude way but she came up to me

it in a rude way but she came up to me

it in a rude way but she came up to me and she asked me Jody are you of mixed

and she asked me Jody are you of mixed

and she asked me Jody are you of mixed race and I said without hesitation no I

race and I said without hesitation no I

race and I said without hesitation no I said I’m Australian my parents are

said I’m Australian my parents are

said I’m Australian my parents are Australian and we are all Australian I

Australian and we are all Australian I

Australian and we are all Australian I completely denied my multicultural

completely denied my multicultural

completely denied my multicultural heritage my identity issues got so bad

heritage my identity issues got so bad

heritage my identity issues got so bad that eventually I didn’t want people to

that eventually I didn’t want people to

that eventually I didn’t want people to meet my own mother who is of Chinese

meet my own mother who is of Chinese

meet my own mother who is of Chinese heritage I didn’t want people to meet my

heritage I didn’t want people to meet my

heritage I didn’t want people to meet my own beautiful and loving mother that’s

own beautiful and loving mother that’s

own beautiful and loving mother that’s that was the lowest point for me but

that was the lowest point for me but

that was the lowest point for me but then I moved to the University of

then I moved to the University of

then I moved to the University of Ballarat in Victoria Australia and yes

Ballarat in Victoria Australia and yes

Ballarat in Victoria Australia and yes once again I had moved so I wouldn’t

once again I had moved so I wouldn’t

once again I had moved so I wouldn’t know anyone I was unsure I had lots of

know anyone I was unsure I had lots of

know anyone I was unsure I had lots of questions but when I walked I told

questions but when I walked I told

questions but when I walked I told myself something I promised myself

myself something I promised myself

myself something I promised myself something as I walked through the doors

something as I walked through the doors

something as I walked through the doors about uni I promised myself that I would

about uni I promised myself that I would

about uni I promised myself that I would have the courage to change just like

have the courage to change just like

have the courage to change just like when you all closed your eyes you felt

when you all closed your eyes you felt

when you all closed your eyes you felt unsure you didn’t know what question I

unsure you didn’t know what question I

unsure you didn’t know what question I was going to ask you so therefore you

was going to ask you so therefore you

was going to ask you so therefore you had questions and that’s just it

had questions and that’s just it

had questions and that’s just it sometimes in life you don’t know what’s

sometimes in life you don’t know what’s

sometimes in life you don’t know what’s going to happen

going to happen

going to happen you’re going to feel like you’re in the

you’re going to feel like you’re in the

you’re going to feel like you’re in the dark like your eyes are closed but all

dark like your eyes are closed but all

dark like your eyes are closed but all you have to do is to open your eyes and

you have to do is to open your eyes and

you have to do is to open your eyes and to realize the opportunities for change

to realize the opportunities for change

to realize the opportunities for change there are opportunities for change all

there are opportunities for change all

there are opportunities for change all the way you just have to have the

the way you just have to have the

the way you just have to have the courage to see it and not just the

courage to see it and not just the

courage to see it and not just the courage to see it for the courage to act

courage to see it for the courage to act

courage to see it for the courage to act upon it and it is this word courage

upon it and it is this word courage

upon it and it is this word courage which is the first of my three C’s the

which is the first of my three C’s the

which is the first of my three C’s the three C’s that changed my life you first

three C’s that changed my life you first

three C’s that changed my life you first need to have the courage to create

need to have the courage to create

need to have the courage to create change and to then gain control of your

change and to then gain control of your

change and to then gain control of your life so when I said at the University of

life so when I said at the University of

life so when I said at the University of Ballarat yes I was unsure but I promised

Ballarat yes I was unsure but I promised

Ballarat yes I was unsure but I promised myself that I would have the courage to

myself that I would have the courage to

myself that I would have the courage to change so I started to look out for

change so I started to look out for

change so I started to look out for opportunities to volunteer my time and I

opportunities to volunteer my time and I

opportunities to volunteer my time and I started to volunteer for countless

started to volunteer for countless

started to volunteer for countless organizations and initiatives and

organizations and initiatives and

organizations and initiatives and eventually I thought to volunteer for an

eventually I thought to volunteer for an

eventually I thought to volunteer for an organization called the am program where

organization called the am program where

organization called the am program where I was able to mentor Indigenous

I was able to mentor Indigenous

I was able to mentor Indigenous Australians about their Aboriginal

Australians about their Aboriginal

Australians about their Aboriginal identity two years

identity two years

identity two years after helping these indigenous students

after helping these indigenous students

after helping these indigenous students become proud of who they were two years

become proud of who they were two years

become proud of who they were two years of making these indigenous students

of making these indigenous students

of making these indigenous students proud of their Aboriginal identity I

proud of their Aboriginal identity I

proud of their Aboriginal identity I then realised something I had developed

then realised something I had developed

then realised something I had developed the courage to create change in others

the courage to create change in others

the courage to create change in others but then I asked myself if I’ve been

but then I asked myself if I’ve been

but then I asked myself if I’ve been helping these students become proud of

helping these students become proud of

helping these students become proud of their identity why am I not proud of my

their identity why am I not proud of my

their identity why am I not proud of my own life at this stage I had gained the

own life at this stage I had gained the

own life at this stage I had gained the courage to create change in others but I

courage to create change in others but I

courage to create change in others but I hadn’t yet gained the courage to create

hadn’t yet gained the courage to create

hadn’t yet gained the courage to create change in myself or to know where my

change in myself or to know where my

change in myself or to know where my true environment should be so after this

true environment should be so after this

true environment should be so after this one question why am I not proud of my

one question why am I not proud of my

one question why am I not proud of my own identity everything

own identity everything

own identity everything Brene brown speaks about the power of

Brene brown speaks about the power of

Brene brown speaks about the power of vulnerability in one of her TED talks

vulnerability in one of her TED talks

vulnerability in one of her TED talks and it is true I decided to enter a

and it is true I decided to enter a

and it is true I decided to enter a competition to become vulnerable to

competition to become vulnerable to

competition to become vulnerable to share my story of bullying this

share my story of bullying this

share my story of bullying this competition was about the community and

competition was about the community and

competition was about the community and how I’ve helped the community and how

how I’ve helped the community and how

how I’ve helped the community and how the community has helped me I entered

the community has helped me I entered

the community has helped me I entered this competition and I shared my story

this competition and I shared my story

this competition and I shared my story on social media about my identity issues

on social media about my identity issues

on social media about my identity issues I became vulnerable and the reaction was

I became vulnerable and the reaction was

I became vulnerable and the reaction was overwhelmingly positive I was receiving

overwhelmingly positive I was receiving

overwhelmingly positive I was receiving in boxes

in boxes

in boxes messages and even phone calls of

messages and even phone calls of

messages and even phone calls of encouragement I ended up winning that

encouragement I ended up winning that

encouragement I ended up winning that competition and then the turning point

competition and then the turning point

competition and then the turning point of opportunities presented itself a

of opportunities presented itself a

of opportunities presented itself a young lady who had volunteered with me

young lady who had volunteered with me

young lady who had volunteered with me six months prior then approached me and

six months prior then approached me and

six months prior then approached me and she asked me Judy have you ever

she asked me Judy have you ever

she asked me Judy have you ever considered volunteering overseas in

considered volunteering overseas in

considered volunteering overseas in Nepal no I had never considered

Nepal no I had never considered

Nepal no I had never considered volunteering overseas and I had identity

volunteering overseas and I had identity

volunteering overseas and I had identity issues but now I was open to the

issues but now I was open to the

issues but now I was open to the opportunity I took the opportunity to

opportunity I took the opportunity to

opportunity I took the opportunity to change my environment I went to Nepal

change my environment I went to Nepal

change my environment I went to Nepal there are moments in life but you find

there are moments in life but you find

there are moments in life but you find true identity true happiness true

true identity true happiness true

true identity true happiness true belonging and true reason and mine was

belonging and true reason and mine was

belonging and true reason and mine was coming to Nepal for the first time when

coming to Nepal for the first time when

coming to Nepal for the first time when I walked down that hill holding the

I walked down that hill holding the

I walked down that hill holding the hands of the young children I had taught

hands of the young children I had taught

hands of the young children I had taught all day at a low socio-economic region

all day at a low socio-economic region

all day at a low socio-economic region of Nepal walk down that hill and walk to

of Nepal walk down that hill and walk to

of Nepal walk down that hill and walk to their parents home was was literally a

their parents home was was literally a

their parents home was was literally a little mud huts matter of bamboo and mud

little mud huts matter of bamboo and mud

little mud huts matter of bamboo and mud and the parents on the ground knelt

and the parents on the ground knelt

and the parents on the ground knelt cooking with the little money they had

cooking with the little money they had

cooking with the little money they had for their family and a small broken pot

for their family and a small broken pot

for their family and a small broken pot on the ground when I saw them their

on the ground when I saw them their

on the ground when I saw them their faces lighted up and they offered me

faces lighted up and they offered me

faces lighted up and they offered me food and tea even though they had so

food and tea even though they had so

food and tea even though they had so little it was in that moment that I

little it was in that moment that I

little it was in that moment that I realized I had nothing to worry about

realized I had nothing to worry about

realized I had nothing to worry about that I was so lucky

that I was so lucky

that I was so lucky that I should not feel shame that one

that I should not feel shame that one

that I should not feel shame that one life is worth something I can use my

life is worth something I can use my

life is worth something I can use my international connections and my

international connections and my

international connections and my heritage to help people around the world

heritage to help people around the world

heritage to help people around the world and to help people in Nepal at this

and to help people in Nepal at this

and to help people in Nepal at this stage I had developed the courage to

stage I had developed the courage to

stage I had developed the courage to create change in others through

create change in others through

create change in others through volunteering I then gained the courage

volunteering I then gained the courage

volunteering I then gained the courage to create change in my environment by

to create change in my environment by

to create change in my environment by coming to Nepal and it was only then in

coming to Nepal and it was only then in

coming to Nepal and it was only then in control in creating change within myself

control in creating change within myself

control in creating change within myself and now is if a thankful heart and a

and now is if a thankful heart and a

and now is if a thankful heart and a soul full of gratitude that I wore my

soul full of gratitude that I wore my

soul full of gratitude that I wore my passion in 2016 as you know a

passion in 2016 as you know a

passion in 2016 as you know a devastating earthquake in Nepal some 90%

devastating earthquake in Nepal some 90%

devastating earthquake in Nepal some 90% of their housing and some others lost

of their housing and some others lost

of their housing and some others lost everything families lost loved ones

everything families lost loved ones

everything families lost loved ones villages lost houses and her

villages lost houses and her

villages lost houses and her and some people lost everything but her

and some people lost everything but her

and some people lost everything but her this will happen on the 25th of April

this will happen on the 25th of April

this will happen on the 25th of April which happened to be coincidentally on

which happened to be coincidentally on

which happened to be coincidentally on my birthday I was devastated I didn’t

my birthday I was devastated I didn’t

my birthday I was devastated I didn’t sleep for days I was receiving personal

sleep for days I was receiving personal

sleep for days I was receiving personal messages pictures stories from people I

messages pictures stories from people I

messages pictures stories from people I had connected with in Nepal I was

had connected with in Nepal I was

had connected with in Nepal I was heartbroken on the third night of not

heartbroken on the third night of not

heartbroken on the third night of not sleeping properly my beautiful family

sleeping properly my beautiful family

sleeping properly my beautiful family came up to me and they said Jodi you

came up to me and they said Jodi you

came up to me and they said Jodi you need to help Nepal and I reflected I was

need to help Nepal and I reflected I was

need to help Nepal and I reflected I was born on the day you had the earthquakes

born on the day you had the earthquakes

born on the day you had the earthquakes and it made me realize that maybe I was

and it made me realize that maybe I was

and it made me realize that maybe I was born to do about this so I stayed up

born to do about this so I stayed up

born to do about this so I stayed up until 1:00 a.m. in the morning

until 1:00 a.m. in the morning

until 1:00 a.m. in the morning researching what can I do to help Nepal

researching what can I do to help Nepal

researching what can I do to help Nepal what can I do to help Nepal and I the

what can I do to help Nepal and I the

what can I do to help Nepal and I the very next day having two meetings of

very next day having two meetings of

very next day having two meetings of influential members of the university

influential members of the university

influential members of the university staff within five days we fundraise over

staff within five days we fundraise over

staff within five days we fundraise over $500 within a week up we fundraise

$500 within a week up we fundraise

$500 within a week up we fundraise another $1,000 which in seven months we

another $1,000 which in seven months we

another $1,000 which in seven months we fundraise 11,000 dollars and now I am

fundraise 11,000 dollars and now I am

fundraise 11,000 dollars and now I am proud to say that I am the founder and

proud to say that I am the founder and

proud to say that I am the founder and program director of my own

program director of my own

program director of my own not-for-profit charity called the help

not-for-profit charity called the help

not-for-profit charity called the help Nepal appeal I have an incredible game

Nepal appeal I have an incredible game

Nepal appeal I have an incredible game that are helping people around Nepal

that are helping people around Nepal

that are helping people around Nepal individuals families and communities

individuals families and communities

individuals families and communities through education construction

through education construction

through education construction empowerment and change we use social

empowerment and change we use social

empowerment and change we use social media to connect people internationally

media to connect people internationally

media to connect people internationally as well as nationally to work as a team

as well as nationally to work as a team

as well as nationally to work as a team and to help in rural areas of the pool

and to help in rural areas of the pool

and to help in rural areas of the pool that really need the help and as you

that really need the help and as you

that really need the help and as you know maybe I used value of mine it was

know maybe I used value of mine it was

know maybe I used value of mine it was one of the first things that allowed me

one of the first things that allowed me

one of the first things that allowed me to open up my identity issues so so far

to open up my identity issues so so far

to open up my identity issues so so far might I have helped thousands of Nepali

might I have helped thousands of Nepali

might I have helped thousands of Nepali people in regions such as Kowski tomjohn

people in regions such as Kowski tomjohn

people in regions such as Kowski tomjohn cadre and local to Kathmandu districts

cadre and local to Kathmandu districts

cadre and local to Kathmandu districts we focus on empowering others to make

we focus on empowering others to make

we focus on empowering others to make other people independent and not

other people independent and not

other people independent and not dependent on our help done this through

dependent on our help done this through

dependent on our help done this through some programs such as plantation

some programs such as plantation

some programs such as plantation programs bringing communities through

programs bringing communities through

programs bringing communities through special needs programs and one of our

special needs programs and one of our

special needs programs and one of our car great lunch programs raised

car great lunch programs raised

car great lunch programs raised attendance rates in school from 40 to 60

attendance rates in school from 40 to 60

attendance rates in school from 40 to 60 percent to 80 to 100 attention

percent to 80 to 100 attention

percent to 80 to 100 attention hundred percent attendance as human

hundred percent attendance as human

hundred percent attendance as human beings it is our to follow and to not

beings it is our to follow and to not

beings it is our to follow and to not let the words of negative people hold us

let the words of negative people hold us

let the words of negative people hold us down but you to let the words of

down but you to let the words of

down but you to let the words of negative people to fuel us to one to

negative people to fuel us to one to

negative people to fuel us to one to take control to one to change and to

take control to one to change and to

take control to one to change and to make a positive difference according to

make a positive difference according to

make a positive difference according to no blink calm 2016 a 2014 UCLA

no blink calm 2016 a 2014 UCLA

no blink calm 2016 a 2014 UCLA psychology studies showed that seventeen

psychology studies showed that seventeen

psychology studies showed that seventeen point six percent of teens have

point six percent of teens have

point six percent of teens have witnessed bullying in their schools and

witnessed bullying in their schools and

witnessed bullying in their schools and a hundred and sixty thousand people

a hundred and sixty thousand people

a hundred and sixty thousand people according to know bullying calm skip

according to know bullying calm skip

according to know bullying calm skip school due to bullying and one in 10

school due to bullying and one in 10

school due to bullying and one in 10 students reportedly drop out of school

students reportedly drop out of school

students reportedly drop out of school because of repeated bullying I want all

because of repeated bullying I want all

because of repeated bullying I want all of the people who’ve been put down

of the people who’ve been put down

of the people who’ve been put down bullied all of those who feel shame in

bullied all of those who feel shame in

bullied all of those who feel shame in some way or just that you who feel for

some way or just that you who feel for

some way or just that you who feel for all of your life I want you to know that

all of your life I want you to know that

all of your life I want you to know that you do have the power to make positive

you do have the power to make positive

you do have the power to make positive change that you do have the power to

change that you do have the power to

change that you do have the power to take control of your life there is a

take control of your life there is a

take control of your life there is a movie called I origins written and

movie called I origins written and

movie called I origins written and directed by Michael Cahill I arjen’s is

directed by Michael Cahill I arjen’s is

directed by Michael Cahill I arjen’s is about a couple a man who is a scientist

about a couple a man who is a scientist

about a couple a man who is a scientist and who thinks extremely logically and a

and who thinks extremely logically and a

and who thinks extremely logically and a woman who believes in other forces in

woman who believes in other forces in

woman who believes in other forces in the world and this scientist doesn’t

the world and this scientist doesn’t

the world and this scientist doesn’t want to believe in anything he can’t

want to believe in anything he can’t

want to believe in anything he can’t change this way of thought so this

change this way of thought so this

change this way of thought so this simple woman turns to the scientist and

simple woman turns to the scientist and

simple woman turns to the scientist and says I want you to look down at the worm

says I want you to look down at the worm

says I want you to look down at the worm you’ve been using as a subject so the

you’ve been using as a subject so the

you’ve been using as a subject so the man looks down at the worm the scientist

man looks down at the worm the scientist

man looks down at the worm the scientist looks down at the worm they’d been using

looks down at the worm they’d been using

looks down at the worm they’d been using as a subject and the woman says this

as a subject and the woman says this

as a subject and the woman says this work rhymes this worm cannot see the

work rhymes this worm cannot see the

work rhymes this worm cannot see the light that is surrounding it – this worm

light that is surrounding it – this worm

light that is surrounding it – this worm light does not exist but even though –

light does not exist but even though –

light does not exist but even though – this worm light does not exist even

this worm light does not exist even

this worm light does not exist even though – this worm this force does not

though – this worm this force does not

though – this worm this force does not exist light is completely surrounding

exist light is completely surrounding

exist light is completely surrounding the worm maybe there are things in our

the worm maybe there are things in our

the worm maybe there are things in our world that we cannot see but are

world that we cannot see but are

world that we cannot see but are complete anding us

complete anding us

complete anding us how about that we cannot see and sort of

how about that we cannot see and sort of

how about that we cannot see and sort of see the things clearly we need to

see the things clearly we need to

see the things clearly we need to unities for change maybe it’s simply

unities for change maybe it’s simply

unities for change maybe it’s simply living in the moment realizing how you

living in the moment realizing how you

living in the moment realizing how you can help someone don’t underestimate the

can help someone don’t underestimate the

can help someone don’t underestimate the power of a smile or opening a door for

power of a smile or opening a door for

power of a smile or opening a door for someone or picking up someone’s

someone or picking up someone’s

someone or picking up someone’s belongings when they drop it maybe it’s

belongings when they drop it maybe it’s

belongings when they drop it maybe it’s not having your eyes closed but opening

not having your eyes closed but opening

not having your eyes closed but opening your eyes in realizing the opportunities

your eyes in realizing the opportunities

your eyes in realizing the opportunities for change maybe it’s finally dressing

for change maybe it’s finally dressing

for change maybe it’s finally dressing the way that best matches you or

the way that best matches you or

the way that best matches you or deciding to reflect about the world and

deciding to reflect about the world and

deciding to reflect about the world and realizing you have the potential to take

realizing you have the potential to take

realizing you have the potential to take ownership and to make a change of the

ownership and to make a change of the

ownership and to make a change of the issues within it maybe it’s starting a

issues within it maybe it’s starting a

issues within it maybe it’s starting a family or maybe it’s finally leaving

family or maybe it’s finally leaving

family or maybe it’s finally leaving that unsatisfying job environment and

that unsatisfying job environment and

that unsatisfying job environment and pursuing a career that no one believed

pursuing a career that no one believed

pursuing a career that no one believed you could do maybe it’s proving the

you could do maybe it’s proving the

you could do maybe it’s proving the bullies wrong in order to gain control

bullies wrong in order to gain control

bullies wrong in order to gain control of your life you first need to lose

of your life you first need to lose

of your life you first need to lose control to take a leap of faith as the

control to take a leap of faith as the

control to take a leap of faith as the cliche goes and to then realize the

cliche goes and to then realize the

cliche goes and to then realize the opportunities of full change I had no

opportunities of full change I had no

opportunities of full change I had no idea what was going to happen when I

idea what was going to happen when I

idea what was going to happen when I entered that competition maybe I’d be

entered that competition maybe I’d be

entered that competition maybe I’d be made fun of more I also had no idea what

made fun of more I also had no idea what

made fun of more I also had no idea what experiences awaited me in Nepal but I

experiences awaited me in Nepal but I

experiences awaited me in Nepal but I let go of control I lived in the moment

let go of control I lived in the moment

let go of control I lived in the moment and I pushed my boundaries and it was in

and I pushed my boundaries and it was in

and I pushed my boundaries and it was in the unknown that I found my passion it

the unknown that I found my passion it

the unknown that I found my passion it was when I pushed my boundaries and let

was when I pushed my boundaries and let

was when I pushed my boundaries and let go of control that I truly gained

go of control that I truly gained

go of control that I truly gained control of my life

control of my life

control of my life and now it is my mission to share my

and now it is my mission to share my

and now it is my mission to share my story to share my theory of the three

story to share my theory of the three

story to share my theory of the three seas and to allow the help Nepal appeal

seas and to allow the help Nepal appeal

seas and to allow the help Nepal appeal to help others to find their identity

to help others to find their identity

to help others to find their identity their confidence their strength and to

their confidence their strength and to

their confidence their strength and to fuel their passions I seek to mentor

fuel their passions I seek to mentor

fuel their passions I seek to mentor others help others and to live for

others help others and to live for

others help others and to live for others the help Nepal appeal allows

others the help Nepal appeal allows

others the help Nepal appeal allows people to realize they have the

people to realize they have the

people to realize they have the potential to create change in their

potential to create change in their

potential to create change in their environment to create transient others

environment to create transient others

environment to create transient others and most importantly to create change in

and most importantly to create change in

and most importantly to create change in themselves it is my dream to do the help

themselves it is my dream to do the help

themselves it is my dream to do the help Nepal appeal full-time one day to be by

Nepal appeal full-time one day to be by

Nepal appeal full-time one day to be by individuals or the sponsor charity

individuals or the sponsor charity

individuals or the sponsor charity working at effective grassroot levels

working at effective grassroot levels

working at effective grassroot levels and it’s my team in my own absolutely to

and it’s my team in my own absolutely to

and it’s my team in my own absolutely to raise our Facebook lights our Instagram

raise our Facebook lights our Instagram

raise our Facebook lights our Instagram followers and to bring more traffic to

followers and to bring more traffic to

followers and to bring more traffic to our website so that

our website so that

our website so that can spread more awareness our

can spread more awareness our

can spread more awareness our non-for-profit transparency about our

non-for-profit transparency about our

non-for-profit transparency about our ability to bring ideas to life and about

ability to bring ideas to life and about

ability to bring ideas to life and about our empowering programs oh and in

our empowering programs oh and in

our empowering programs oh and in regards to my identity issues well I’m

regards to my identity issues well I’m

regards to my identity issues well I’m now proud to say that I’m half Dutch

now proud to say that I’m half Dutch

now proud to say that I’m half Dutch half Chinese born in Australia living in

half Chinese born in Australia living in

half Chinese born in Australia living in the UK travelling through Europe

the UK travelling through Europe

the UK travelling through Europe learning about the world and passionate

learning about the world and passionate

learning about the world and passionate about Nepal

so here who here wants to take control

so here who here wants to take control of their life who here wants to take

of their life who here wants to take

of their life who here wants to take control of their life wonderful if it is

control of their life wonderful if it is

control of their life wonderful if it is my passion to share about the three C’s

my passion to share about the three C’s

my passion to share about the three C’s I want you all to reflect about yourself

I want you all to reflect about yourself

I want you all to reflect about yourself your environment and others have the

your environment and others have the

your environment and others have the courage to create change and take

courage to create change and take

courage to create change and take control of your life having a real

control of your life having a real

control of your life having a real collage irrational pocha

collage irrational pocha

collage irrational pocha we should live brothers Danny Brad thank

we should live brothers Danny Brad thank

we should live brothers Danny Brad thank you

you

you [Applause]

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