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The Word “No” and a Lifetime of Opportunity | Addison Baker | TEDxYouth@ISA


I have spent my 17 years moving from

I have spent my 17 years moving from country to country city to city st.

country to country city to city st.

country to country city to city st. Louis Oklahoma Houston Aberdeen cologne

Louis Oklahoma Houston Aberdeen cologne

Louis Oklahoma Houston Aberdeen cologne düsseldorf and now Amsterdam I always

düsseldorf and now Amsterdam I always

düsseldorf and now Amsterdam I always think about the fact that 10 years ago

think about the fact that 10 years ago

think about the fact that 10 years ago today this much migration within such a

today this much migration within such a

today this much migration within such a short period of time would have been a

short period of time would have been a

short period of time would have been a rarity but in today’s modern world and

rarity but in today’s modern world and

rarity but in today’s modern world and its growing diversity this type MyType

its growing diversity this type MyType

its growing diversity this type MyType of internationalism is becoming

of internationalism is becoming

of internationalism is becoming increasingly common hence I stand before

increasingly common hence I stand before

increasingly common hence I stand before you all today an international crowd at

you all today an international crowd at

you all today an international crowd at an international school when I was

an international school when I was

an international school when I was invited to come speaker today I had many

invited to come speaker today I had many

invited to come speaker today I had many options of what I could talk to you

options of what I could talk to you

options of what I could talk to you about I’m not a professional I have no

about I’m not a professional I have no

about I’m not a professional I have no degrees and unfortunately I’m not a

degrees and unfortunately I’m not a

degrees and unfortunately I’m not a child genius

child genius

child genius so what do I talk about I came to the

so what do I talk about I came to the

so what do I talk about I came to the conclusion that I can only really speak

conclusion that I can only really speak

conclusion that I can only really speak about what I know and what I know is my

about what I know and what I know is my

about what I know and what I know is my own life and my own human experience

own life and my own human experience

own life and my own human experience which has been moving and flipping my

which has been moving and flipping my

which has been moving and flipping my life upside down as I already said I’m

life upside down as I already said I’m

life upside down as I already said I’m an international individual I’m also an

an international individual I’m also an

an international individual I’m also an avid member of the Model United Nations

avid member of the Model United Nations

avid member of the Model United Nations and have devoted the large part of the

and have devoted the large part of the

and have devoted the large part of the last four years of my life

last four years of my life

last four years of my life to debate and political legal studies I

to debate and political legal studies I

to debate and political legal studies I am also a huge believer in humanitarian

am also a huge believer in humanitarian

am also a huge believer in humanitarian rights which initially stemmed from that

rights which initially stemmed from that

rights which initially stemmed from that M UN debate culture but I communicate

M UN debate culture but I communicate

M UN debate culture but I communicate those beliefs through social media

those beliefs through social media

those beliefs through social media platforms deeming it as human rights

platforms deeming it as human rights

platforms deeming it as human rights advocacy so from all of this what do I

advocacy so from all of this what do I

advocacy so from all of this what do I talk about I made the decision that I

talk about I made the decision that I

talk about I made the decision that I would talk about the words yes and no

would talk about the words yes and no

would talk about the words yes and no and how to cultivate a lifetime of

and how to cultivate a lifetime of

and how to cultivate a lifetime of opportunity 2005 was the first year of

opportunity 2005 was the first year of

opportunity 2005 was the first year of many in my life that encompassed

many in my life that encompassed

many in my life that encompassed complete and absolute change change

complete and absolute change change

complete and absolute change change meaning residency culture school friends

meaning residency culture school friends

meaning residency culture school friends and the list goes on we moved from

and the list goes on we moved from

and the list goes on we moved from Houston to Scotland my family along with

Houston to Scotland my family along with

Houston to Scotland my family along with hundreds of other American expats under

hundreds of other American expats under

hundreds of other American expats under the influence of oil companies

the influence of oil companies

the influence of oil companies employment and relocation we lived and

employment and relocation we lived and

employment and relocation we lived and socialized within a set bubble of

socialized within a set bubble of

socialized within a set bubble of American expats all in the exact same

American expats all in the exact same

American expats all in the exact same living situation as our

living situation as our

living situation as our which meant that although we lived here

which meant that although we lived here

which meant that although we lived here in Aberdeen we were continuously

in Aberdeen we were continuously

in Aberdeen we were continuously surrounded by our own nationality and I

surrounded by our own nationality and I

surrounded by our own nationality and I see that all around the world today

see that all around the world today

see that all around the world today wherever I live and it’s an incredibly

wherever I live and it’s an incredibly

wherever I live and it’s an incredibly difficult thing and I’ll tell you why

difficult thing and I’ll tell you why

difficult thing and I’ll tell you why it’s a missed opportunity for

it’s a missed opportunity for

it’s a missed opportunity for integration and the development of a new

integration and the development of a new

integration and the development of a new variety of international two years after

variety of international two years after

variety of international two years after moving to Scotland – my parents divorced

moving to Scotland – my parents divorced

moving to Scotland – my parents divorced and it was a divorce of arguments and

and it was a divorce of arguments and

and it was a divorce of arguments and tears my world not only changed forever

tears my world not only changed forever

tears my world not only changed forever but it completely flipped on its axis

but it completely flipped on its axis

but it completely flipped on its axis the world that I had known in the life

the world that I had known in the life

the world that I had known in the life that I thought that I was going to lead

that I thought that I was going to lead

that I thought that I was going to lead a normal life disappeared and there went

a normal life disappeared and there went

a normal life disappeared and there went all of the opportunities that I thought

all of the opportunities that I thought

all of the opportunities that I thought I was going to have we all had to start

I was going to have we all had to start

I was going to have we all had to start from scratch in my family but my mother

from scratch in my family but my mother

from scratch in my family but my mother had to start from scratch before me or

had to start from scratch before me or

had to start from scratch before me or my brother she had to find a job and she

my brother she had to find a job and she

my brother she had to find a job and she became an international school teacher

became an international school teacher

became an international school teacher here in Aberdeen at the International

here in Aberdeen at the International

here in Aberdeen at the International School of Aberdeen my seven-year-old

School of Aberdeen my seven-year-old

School of Aberdeen my seven-year-old bubble my little seven year old world

bubble my little seven year old world

bubble my little seven year old world changed forever within the space of two

changed forever within the space of two

changed forever within the space of two years I learned that not only were

years I learned that not only were

years I learned that not only were castles actually real but I learned what

castles actually real but I learned what

castles actually real but I learned what marital separation meant and I learned

marital separation meant and I learned

marital separation meant and I learned that my father would be moving to

that my father would be moving to

that my father would be moving to Jakarta Indonesia suddenly my world my

Jakarta Indonesia suddenly my world my

Jakarta Indonesia suddenly my world my tiny seed of a life went from being that

tiny seed of a life went from being that

tiny seed of a life went from being that tiny seed of a life to being an entire

tiny seed of a life to being an entire

tiny seed of a life to being an entire forest everything became huge and

forest everything became huge and

forest everything became huge and everything became terrifying an

everything became terrifying an

everything became terrifying an all-encompassing dark dense forest and

all-encompassing dark dense forest and

all-encompassing dark dense forest and with that pop the expat bubble that we

with that pop the expat bubble that we

with that pop the expat bubble that we had been a part of burst and dissipated

had been a part of burst and dissipated

had been a part of burst and dissipated and completely ceased to exist we were

and completely ceased to exist we were

and completely ceased to exist we were no longer a member of the oil community

no longer a member of the oil community

no longer a member of the oil community and so like my parents marriage it faded

and so like my parents marriage it faded

and so like my parents marriage it faded and without even realizing it my mother

and without even realizing it my mother

and without even realizing it my mother my brother and I became integrated into

my brother and I became integrated into

my brother and I became integrated into the world and culture around us

the world and culture around us

the world and culture around us and we fell in love with Scotland and we

and we fell in love with Scotland and we

and we fell in love with Scotland and we fell in love with the world around us we

fell in love with the world around us we

fell in love with the world around us we dug our feet into the soil of that dense

dug our feet into the soil of that dense

dug our feet into the soil of that dense dark scary wood and we began to grow a

dark scary wood and we began to grow a

dark scary wood and we began to grow a new opportunity as I said my mother

new opportunity as I said my mother

new opportunity as I said my mother became an international schoolteacher

became an international schoolteacher

became an international schoolteacher and wants her contract us up here she

and wants her contract us up here she

and wants her contract us up here she received a job in Germany and so that’s

received a job in Germany and so that’s

received a job in Germany and so that’s what we did we moved we repotted our

what we did we moved we repotted our

what we did we moved we repotted our plant and uprooted ourselves so let’s

plant and uprooted ourselves so let’s

plant and uprooted ourselves so let’s talk about divorce for a second divorce

talk about divorce for a second divorce

talk about divorce for a second divorce and I will tell you now and many others

and I will tell you now and many others

and I will tell you now and many others who go through a broken household will

who go through a broken household will

who go through a broken household will tell you the same is a nasty nasty thing

tell you the same is a nasty nasty thing

tell you the same is a nasty nasty thing and it brings out qualities in the

and it brings out qualities in the

and it brings out qualities in the people that you love and in yourself

people that you love and in yourself

people that you love and in yourself that you never knew existed and forces

that you never knew existed and forces

that you never knew existed and forces those characteristics to become their

those characteristics to become their

those characteristics to become their primary traits at least temporarily it’s

primary traits at least temporarily it’s

primary traits at least temporarily it’s like a survival instinct and it really

like a survival instinct and it really

like a survival instinct and it really does take stomach it was easy and

does take stomach it was easy and

does take stomach it was easy and immediate and human to feel and think at

immediate and human to feel and think at

immediate and human to feel and think at the time that my parents divorcing was

the time that my parents divorcing was

the time that my parents divorcing was an end and ending to all opportunities

an end and ending to all opportunities

an end and ending to all opportunities and to everything that I thought that

and to everything that I thought that

and to everything that I thought that was going to happen all preconceived

was going to happen all preconceived

was going to happen all preconceived notions of a normal life it was easy to

notions of a normal life it was easy to

notions of a normal life it was easy to give up and to see it as a terrifying

give up and to see it as a terrifying

give up and to see it as a terrifying low that would only result in a plateau

low that would only result in a plateau

low that would only result in a plateau at an equal low but my household

at an equal low but my household

at an equal low but my household breaking is the biggest opportunity of

breaking is the biggest opportunity of

breaking is the biggest opportunity of my life and I know that that sounds

my life and I know that that sounds

my life and I know that that sounds really bizarre but bear with me I told

really bizarre but bear with me I told

really bizarre but bear with me I told you a list of things that came from my

you a list of things that came from my

you a list of things that came from my parents divorcing the ex pop bubble

parents divorcing the ex pop bubble

parents divorcing the ex pop bubble bursting my father moving to Jakarta my

bursting my father moving to Jakarta my

bursting my father moving to Jakarta my mom becoming an international

mom becoming an international

mom becoming an international schoolteacher and us moving to Germany

schoolteacher and us moving to Germany

schoolteacher and us moving to Germany divorce as gut-wrenching as it is

divorce as gut-wrenching as it is

divorce as gut-wrenching as it is engendered all of these things the

engendered all of these things the

engendered all of these things the digging in of our roots and the

digging in of our roots and the

digging in of our roots and the integration into the Scottish community

integration into the Scottish community

integration into the Scottish community means that we still have friends here

means that we still have friends here

means that we still have friends here today who are family it means that

today who are family it means that

today who are family it means that Scotland had to become

Scotland had to become

Scotland had to become home to us in a way that very few other

home to us in a way that very few other

home to us in a way that very few other places has been divorced the

places has been divorced the

places has been divorced the opportunities sprouted my mom’s career

opportunities sprouted my mom’s career

opportunities sprouted my mom’s career in international teaching and thus

in international teaching and thus

in international teaching and thus sprouting mine as an international

sprouting mine as an international

sprouting mine as an international student by moving us to Germany do you

student by moving us to Germany do you

student by moving us to Germany do you see what I mean it if my parents would

see what I mean it if my parents would

see what I mean it if my parents would have stayed together none of these

have stayed together none of these

have stayed together none of these things would have ever happened and so

things would have ever happened and so

things would have ever happened and so when my parents divorced and we moved to

when my parents divorced and we moved to

when my parents divorced and we moved to Germany it’s the first time in my life

Germany it’s the first time in my life

Germany it’s the first time in my life that I can remember thinking to myself

that I can remember thinking to myself

that I can remember thinking to myself just keep going so let’s pause for a

just keep going so let’s pause for a

just keep going so let’s pause for a second if I look back on my life and if

second if I look back on my life and if

second if I look back on my life and if you all take a second right now to do

you all take a second right now to do

you all take a second right now to do the same there is one thing that is true

the same there is one thing that is true

the same there is one thing that is true for all turning points or outstanding

for all turning points or outstanding

for all turning points or outstanding moments in our lives at the time of that

moments in our lives at the time of that

moments in our lives at the time of that outstanding moment or turning point it

outstanding moment or turning point it

outstanding moment or turning point it is never clear what will come from it

is never clear what will come from it

is never clear what will come from it but luckily hindsight is 20/20 and we

but luckily hindsight is 20/20 and we

but luckily hindsight is 20/20 and we can always look back on our lives face

can always look back on our lives face

can always look back on our lives face our lives progression and see what led

our lives progression and see what led

our lives progression and see what led to what how you got from A to Z even if

to what how you got from A to Z even if

to what how you got from A to Z even if you had to stop at the entire alphabet

you had to stop at the entire alphabet

you had to stop at the entire alphabet in between from seedling to orchard so

in between from seedling to orchard so

in between from seedling to orchard so we repotted our plan and we moved to

we repotted our plan and we moved to

we repotted our plan and we moved to Germany and the school was awful

Germany and the school was awful

Germany and the school was awful it was terrible we entered there really

it was terrible we entered there really

it was terrible we entered there really enthusiastic

enthusiastic

enthusiastic but the honestly the experience we

but the honestly the experience we

but the honestly the experience we regretted we regretted moving there

regretted we regretted moving there

regretted we regretted moving there instantly the education was embarrassing

instantly the education was embarrassing

instantly the education was embarrassing and the social community was even more

and the social community was even more

and the social community was even more so although it was an international

so although it was an international

so although it was an international school classes were taught predominantly

school classes were taught predominantly

school classes were taught predominantly almost exclusively in German with no

almost exclusively in German with no

almost exclusively in German with no option of English so I had roughly 8

option of English so I had roughly 8

option of English so I had roughly 8 hours of German per week and my mother

hours of German per week and my mother

hours of German per week and my mother was depressed my brother was depressed I

was depressed my brother was depressed I

was depressed my brother was depressed I was depressed as anyone would be after

was depressed as anyone would be after

was depressed as anyone would be after coming out of a gut-wrenching divorce

coming out of a gut-wrenching divorce

coming out of a gut-wrenching divorce and entering into a gut-wrenching job in

and entering into a gut-wrenching job in

and entering into a gut-wrenching job in school and so it got to a point where we

school and so it got to a point where we

school and so it got to a point where we thought what do we do and we got out of

thought what do we do and we got out of

thought what do we do and we got out of it

it

it my mother worked and worked and worked

my mother worked and worked and worked

my mother worked and worked and worked to get us into a new situation from the

to get us into a new situation from the

to get us into a new situation from the one that we were in into a new school in

one that we were in into a new school in

one that we were in into a new school in a better school

a better school

a better school and you know what that’s what happened

and you know what that’s what happened

and you know what that’s what happened we went to a new school and so new

we went to a new school and so new

we went to a new school and so new opportunity my mother was now the head

opportunity my mother was now the head

opportunity my mother was now the head of the science department at this new

of the science department at this new

of the science department at this new school in Dusseldorf and I was now

school in Dusseldorf and I was now

school in Dusseldorf and I was now fluent in German from that eight hours

fluent in German from that eight hours

fluent in German from that eight hours of German lessons per week at this

of German lessons per week at this

of German lessons per week at this school I was bullied constantly and for

school I was bullied constantly and for

school I was bullied constantly and for honestly perplexing reasons for my

honestly perplexing reasons for my

honestly perplexing reasons for my fashion choices my household income and

fashion choices my household income and

fashion choices my household income and for my aptitude being the new American

for my aptitude being the new American

for my aptitude being the new American student from a divorced household in a

student from a divorced household in a

student from a divorced household in a class of exclusively incredibly wealthy

class of exclusively incredibly wealthy

class of exclusively incredibly wealthy German kids there was an instant

German kids there was an instant

German kids there was an instant disconnect manifested between myself and

disconnect manifested between myself and

disconnect manifested between myself and them and I tried really really hard like

them and I tried really really hard like

them and I tried really really hard like a middle schooler does to be what I

a middle schooler does to be what I

a middle schooler does to be what I thought I was supposed to be and what

thought I was supposed to be and what

thought I was supposed to be and what they wanted me to be but I was different

they wanted me to be but I was different

they wanted me to be but I was different the bullying hit a peak at the end of my

the bullying hit a peak at the end of my

the bullying hit a peak at the end of my eighth grade year when I arrived at

eighth grade year when I arrived at

eighth grade year when I arrived at school in the morning and I approached

school in the morning and I approached

school in the morning and I approached my classmates near the lockers and they

my classmates near the lockers and they

my classmates near the lockers and they all turned their backs to me they all

all turned their backs to me they all

all turned their backs to me they all ignored me I was frozen out by literally

ignored me I was frozen out by literally

ignored me I was frozen out by literally every 143 students complete silence and

every 143 students complete silence and

every 143 students complete silence and this is the first time in my life that I

this is the first time in my life that I

this is the first time in my life that I consciously recognized and seized an

consciously recognized and seized an

consciously recognized and seized an opportunity so when they bullied me from

opportunity so when they bullied me from

opportunity so when they bullied me from my clothing I changed my perspective to

my clothing I changed my perspective to

my clothing I changed my perspective to see their criticism as an opportunity

see their criticism as an opportunity

see their criticism as an opportunity for true individuality and I became a

for true individuality and I became a

for true individuality and I became a kid with a unique sense of style when

kid with a unique sense of style when

kid with a unique sense of style when they called me the poor kid I paid them

they called me the poor kid I paid them

they called me the poor kid I paid them absolutely no attention because I knew

absolutely no attention because I knew

absolutely no attention because I knew that I was proud about the fact that my

that I was proud about the fact that my

that I was proud about the fact that my mother worked in the education sector

mother worked in the education sector

mother worked in the education sector and frankly I thought our apartment was

and frankly I thought our apartment was

and frankly I thought our apartment was cozy when they made fun of me for being

cozy when they made fun of me for being

cozy when they made fun of me for being smart I began to tutor other students

smart I began to tutor other students

smart I began to tutor other students and I joined the student council in

and I joined the student council in

and I joined the student council in order to develop a voice and of

order to develop a voice and of

order to develop a voice and of I became a student advocate and I put

I became a student advocate and I put

I became a student advocate and I put myself in a position of power and that

myself in a position of power and that

myself in a position of power and that has led to me becoming student council

has led to me becoming student council

has led to me becoming student council president at every school I’ve attended

president at every school I’ve attended

president at every school I’ve attended since so what I’m trying to say here is

since so what I’m trying to say here is

since so what I’m trying to say here is that I tried to make my little world a

that I tried to make my little world a

that I tried to make my little world a better one I saw the world around me and

better one I saw the world around me and

better one I saw the world around me and the situation that I was in and I did my

the situation that I was in and I did my

the situation that I was in and I did my best to make it as like beneficial for

best to make it as like beneficial for

best to make it as like beneficial for me as it could be the dried up wilted

me as it could be the dried up wilted

me as it could be the dried up wilted sapling that had been created from our

sapling that had been created from our

sapling that had been created from our horrible experience at the school before

horrible experience at the school before

horrible experience at the school before blossomed and flowered and life got

blossomed and flowered and life got

blossomed and flowered and life got better next my mother got remarried and

better next my mother got remarried and

better next my mother got remarried and we moved to the Netherlands where my

we moved to the Netherlands where my

we moved to the Netherlands where my half-sister was born and I entered this

half-sister was born and I entered this

half-sister was born and I entered this new country community in school with the

new country community in school with the

new country community in school with the tall perspective that I was going to

tall perspective that I was going to

tall perspective that I was going to relish in every opportunity that I could

relish in every opportunity that I could

relish in every opportunity that I could and I was going to lead my fullest and

and I was going to lead my fullest and

and I was going to lead my fullest and most beneficial lifetime I now have

most beneficial lifetime I now have

most beneficial lifetime I now have friends from every corner of the globe I

friends from every corner of the globe I

friends from every corner of the globe I quickly learned Dutch and I’ve traveled

quickly learned Dutch and I’ve traveled

quickly learned Dutch and I’ve traveled the country for a debate opportunity

the country for a debate opportunity

the country for a debate opportunity opportunity opportunity and I seized all

opportunity opportunity and I seized all

opportunity opportunity and I seized all three and when I say that I intended to

three and when I say that I intended to

three and when I say that I intended to lead my fullest and most fruitful

lead my fullest and most fruitful

lead my fullest and most fruitful lifetime I don’t mean to say that I was

lifetime I don’t mean to say that I was

lifetime I don’t mean to say that I was going to get a tattoo and go skydiving

going to get a tattoo and go skydiving

going to get a tattoo and go skydiving and maybe backpack around Europe for a

and maybe backpack around Europe for a

and maybe backpack around Europe for a few months I meant that I was going to

few months I meant that I was going to

few months I meant that I was going to put into place what I learned and what I

put into place what I learned and what I

put into place what I learned and what I had learned is that seizing opportunity

had learned is that seizing opportunity

had learned is that seizing opportunity breeds opportunity if you open one door

breeds opportunity if you open one door

breeds opportunity if you open one door it opens another ten if a door is

it opens another ten if a door is

it opens another ten if a door is slammed shut take a deep breath turn

slammed shut take a deep breath turn

slammed shut take a deep breath turn around and there’s another one waiting

around and there’s another one waiting

around and there’s another one waiting all you have to know is how to see it

all you have to know is how to see it

all you have to know is how to see it and if you can’t see it it will remain

and if you can’t see it it will remain

and if you can’t see it it will remain shut but if you can set success if you

shut but if you can set success if you

shut but if you can set success if you can successfully see all of your nose as

can successfully see all of your nose as

can successfully see all of your nose as yeses and hear your nose as yeses that

yeses and hear your nose as yeses that

yeses and hear your nose as yeses that door that opportunity will open I see

door that opportunity will open I see

door that opportunity will open I see is planted and that is your life an

is planted and that is your life an

is planted and that is your life an experiential path and this is true for

experiential path and this is true for

experiential path and this is true for everyone this is true for all of you at

everyone this is true for all of you at

everyone this is true for all of you at some point that seat is planted and it

some point that seat is planted and it

some point that seat is planted and it begins to grow and at one point or

begins to grow and at one point or

begins to grow and at one point or another in all of our lives in all of us

another in all of our lives in all of us

another in all of our lives in all of us something happens that male ‘evil or

something happens that male ‘evil or

something happens that male ‘evil or step on that plant but if you can

step on that plant but if you can

step on that plant but if you can successfully change your thinking to

successfully change your thinking to

successfully change your thinking to recognize that that seed that foundation

recognize that that seed that foundation

recognize that that seed that foundation that was planted is still there then you

that was planted is still there then you

that was planted is still there then you can successfully regrow yourself and

can successfully regrow yourself and

can successfully regrow yourself and continue to build on yourself as a

continue to build on yourself as a

continue to build on yourself as a person and on your opportunities and

person and on your opportunities and

person and on your opportunities and slowly you grow upwards and outwards in

slowly you grow upwards and outwards in

slowly you grow upwards and outwards in a trunk is formed a steady and sturdy

a trunk is formed a steady and sturdy

a trunk is formed a steady and sturdy foundation of who you are and once you

foundation of who you are and once you

foundation of who you are and once you take a step in a new direction when you

take a step in a new direction when you

take a step in a new direction when you seize a new opportunity a branch is

seize a new opportunity a branch is

seize a new opportunity a branch is formed and that branch will grow

formed and that branch will grow

formed and that branch will grow outwards and upwards but it will stop at

outwards and upwards but it will stop at

outwards and upwards but it will stop at some point halted an opportunity only

some point halted an opportunity only

some point halted an opportunity only carries you so far until it stops but

carries you so far until it stops but

carries you so far until it stops but once you take a new opportunity and

once you take a new opportunity and

once you take a new opportunity and gendered from that first one a new

gendered from that first one a new

gendered from that first one a new branch can continue to grow I will be

branch can continue to grow I will be

branch can continue to grow I will be graduating in a few short months and

graduating in a few short months and

graduating in a few short months and I’ve applied to to five top UK

I’ve applied to to five top UK

I’ve applied to to five top UK universities three of which I’ve been

universities three of which I’ve been

universities three of which I’ve been accepted to and received offers from

accepted to and received offers from

accepted to and received offers from instead of focusing on the two notes

instead of focusing on the two notes

instead of focusing on the two notes that I received I have consciously

that I received I have consciously

that I received I have consciously chosen to focus on the three yesses to

chosen to focus on the three yesses to

chosen to focus on the three yesses to contribute to my overall lifetime of

contribute to my overall lifetime of

contribute to my overall lifetime of opportunity we all at some point in our

opportunity we all at some point in our

opportunity we all at some point in our lives faced some sort of strain on or

lives faced some sort of strain on or

lives faced some sort of strain on or threat to our human experience losing a

threat to our human experience losing a

threat to our human experience losing a job illness or divorce but if you can

job illness or divorce but if you can

job illness or divorce but if you can successfully change your thinking as I

successfully change your thinking as I

successfully change your thinking as I explained the way that I have today you

explained the way that I have today you

explained the way that I have today you can overcome it and you can continue to

can overcome it and you can continue to

can overcome it and you can continue to grow so whatever it is that you each

grow so whatever it is that you each

grow so whatever it is that you each individually have escaped today by

individually have escaped today by

individually have escaped today by walking into this auditorium and giving

walking into this auditorium and giving

walking into this auditorium and giving a piece of your precious time to me

a piece of your precious time to me

a piece of your precious time to me leave here today and think of a

leave here today and think of a

leave here today and think of a seven-year-old girl who has just

seven-year-old girl who has just

seven-year-old girl who has just discovered that her parents are going to

discovered that her parents are going to

discovered that her parents are going to split up and flip your situation turn

split up and flip your situation turn

split up and flip your situation turn all of your nose into

all of your nose into

all of your nose into yes and cultivate your own lifetime of

yes and cultivate your own lifetime of

yes and cultivate your own lifetime of opportunity thank you

opportunity thank you

opportunity thank you [Applause]

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