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How To Overcome the Fear of Rejection When Selling – Ask Evan


00:00:07hi I’m Evan Carmichael and welcome to

00:00:10another edition of ask Evan in this

00:00:13video I’m going to answer a question for

00:00:14one of our readers soul blab blasts how

00:00:17do you overcome them for your projection

00:00:18while selling so I’m going to share with

00:00:20you a couple strategies that i use and

00:00:22hopefully you can learn from that and

00:00:24put its use in your business as well the

00:00:26first is you have to know that the

00:00:28product or service that you have is

00:00:29actually going to be helpful and useful

00:00:31for the person you’re talking to and

00:00:33that may seem like common sense but a

00:00:35lot of times you know you may not

00:00:37actually believe in your product or

00:00:38service that much and it’s then harder

00:00:40to be convincing and make a good sales

00:00:42case when you’re talking to your your

00:00:44prospect for me most of the sales I do

00:00:47are pretty standard you know I’m in the

00:00:49groove and it’s pretty comfortable but

00:00:52every now and then as I’m growing my

00:00:54business I’ll get more and more

00:00:55corporate interest and bigger deals that

00:00:57are coming to me and every time I’m on

00:00:59the phone with a client that could be

00:01:01you know my new biggest deal yet a

00:01:02little bit of nervousness and load of

00:01:04excitement and I’ll always calm down by

00:01:07reminding myself that what I’m offering

00:01:09them is really really going to help them

00:01:11and that’s what I focus on so I’m not

00:01:12focused on you know trying to be nervous

00:01:14or trying to really sell them I’m just

00:01:16trying to help them out as much as I can

00:01:18the second thing is try to be a resource

00:01:21and sometimes you don’t get the sale and

00:01:24you give customers away so one of the

00:01:27things that i’ll sell is a mastermind

00:01:28group and that’s a group where we’ll

00:01:30connect entrepreneurs together every

00:01:32month and we talk about our businesses

00:01:33and try to help each other out and

00:01:34that’s a paid membership that i’ll make

00:01:36some money from and what I’m talking

00:01:39about that group it’s never a hard sale

00:01:41it’s more trying to find out about the

00:01:43challenges of my you know prospect is

00:01:45going through and seeing if it’s going

00:01:46to be a good fit for me or not and a

00:01:48good fit for them as well and most of

00:01:50the time it is but sometimes it may not

00:01:53be what they’re looking for and in that

00:01:54case I’ll pass them on to somebody else

00:01:56that might be a better fit so this

00:01:59example sometimes I’ve passed people

00:02:00onto a business coach where they may be

00:02:02needed a little bit more intense system

00:02:04to work with so working with

00:02:06cisco she makes sense instead of joining

00:02:07a peer groups that we have the classmen

00:02:10group so if you’re open and honest and

00:02:12you know that you’re you know trying to

00:02:14help them out as much as possible I find

00:02:16that really eases the fear of going into

00:02:20that initial meeting the last strategy

00:02:23that I use is something called negative

00:02:24reverse selling and that’s when if you

00:02:28think about when somebody tries to sell

00:02:29you understand you got apply this by

00:02:31this by this you’re likely reaction is

00:02:33going to be on up buying that you’re

00:02:34going to back boy so the approach it you

00:02:37want to take is the opposite and if

00:02:39sometimes we go negative on it people

00:02:41have even see the one to take the

00:02:42opposite view and go positive so a

00:02:44couple quick examples I’m doing a

00:02:47presentation so if we’re talking about

00:02:48the masses my groups for example I might

00:02:50say oddly don’t talk about all the

00:02:52different benefits of it and then at the

00:02:54end say something like it does that make

00:02:55sense to you or is this coming out of

00:02:57left field and usually they’ll say

00:02:59something like oh no make sense great

00:03:01that’s dope it’s exactly what I wanted

00:03:03and so if I going a little bit negative

00:03:04it makes them go positive or if I said

00:03:07at the end you’re just the best thing

00:03:08ever you really need to buy it they’re

00:03:10probably going to take the more

00:03:11defensive stance so people like wine the

00:03:14opposite of what you’re doing another

00:03:16example so I’m selling to a bigger

00:03:18corporate client I might say something

00:03:19like you know we’ve been able to help

00:03:21out a lot of different corporations but

00:03:23it only really works we can only help if

00:03:25you’re targeting the entrepreneur

00:03:26community if you’re not targeting

00:03:28entrepreneurs and you know I don’t think

00:03:29we’re going to be able to help you

00:03:30that’s the truth you know somebody’s

00:03:32trying to target managers at banks or a

00:03:35different target audience I’m not going

00:03:37to really be able to help them target

00:03:39entrepreneurs I can and by saying

00:03:41sequence like that they always come

00:03:42backs no no we’re targeting

00:03:43entrepreneurs this is our market exactly

00:03:45we’re looking forward to learning a

00:03:46little bit more about what you do and so

00:03:48gets emceeing yes and gets them involved

00:03:50and by me going negative it also reduces

00:03:52the fear of them say no so I hope that

00:03:55helped some of those strategies might be

00:03:57useful for you if you guys liked the

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