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You’re Different? Speak up! | Jordan Reeves | TEDxYouth@BlueSlidePark


hi my name is Jordan Reeves and I’m 11

hi my name is Jordan Reeves and I’m 11 years old and I’m from Columbia Missouri

years old and I’m from Columbia Missouri

years old and I’m from Columbia Missouri and I was born with the left arm that

and I was born with the left arm that

and I was born with the left arm that stuffs just above the elbow but that

stuffs just above the elbow but that

stuffs just above the elbow but that hasn’t stopped me from doing anything

hasn’t stopped me from doing anything

hasn’t stopped me from doing anything and usually when I meet people I’ll

and usually when I meet people I’ll

and usually when I meet people I’ll usually hide my arm behind my back or if

usually hide my arm behind my back or if

usually hide my arm behind my back or if I’m sitting down at a table I’ll hide it

I’m sitting down at a table I’ll hide it

I’m sitting down at a table I’ll hide it underneath the table and that’s so

underneath the table and that’s so

underneath the table and that’s so people don’t judge me off of my

people don’t judge me off of my

people don’t judge me off of my difference and they judge me off of my

difference and they judge me off of my

difference and they judge me off of my personality and I wish that we could

personality and I wish that we could

personality and I wish that we could change that and not have to have me hide

change that and not have to have me hide

change that and not have to have me hide my arm and this talk has a little bit to

my arm and this talk has a little bit to

my arm and this talk has a little bit to do with dolls and I know there’s a

do with dolls and I know there’s a

do with dolls and I know there’s a couple of you thinking really I came to

couple of you thinking really I came to

couple of you thinking really I came to a talk about dolls but trust me it’s

a talk about dolls but trust me it’s

a talk about dolls but trust me it’s more than just about dolls and to get to

more than just about dolls and to get to

more than just about dolls and to get to that part I’m gonna tell you some of the

that part I’m gonna tell you some of the

that part I’m gonna tell you some of the eggs some of the reactions that I get

eggs some of the reactions that I get

eggs some of the reactions that I get when people see my arm and some of them

when people see my arm and some of them

when people see my arm and some of them not so great ways are intense staring

not so great ways are intense staring

not so great ways are intense staring where you cannot get the eyes off of the

where you cannot get the eyes off of the

where you cannot get the eyes off of the arm me and my mom were in Boston and we

arm me and my mom were in Boston and we

arm me and my mom were in Boston and we were eating up like this open table

were eating up like this open table

were eating up like this open table place so anyone can set at it and a mom

place so anyone can set at it and a mom

place so anyone can set at it and a mom daughter and son sat across from us and

daughter and son sat across from us and

daughter and son sat across from us and immediately their eyes just attached to

immediately their eyes just attached to

immediately their eyes just attached to my arm and it got to the point where I

my arm and it got to the point where I

my arm and it got to the point where I just slipped it into my purse and they

just slipped it into my purse and they

just slipped it into my purse and they still kept on staring it was super

still kept on staring it was super

still kept on staring it was super creepy and then there’s a super scared

creepy and then there’s a super scared

creepy and then there’s a super scared person so I’m gonna act this one out oh

person so I’m gonna act this one out oh

person so I’m gonna act this one out oh my gosh your arm it’s like not doing

my gosh your arm it’s like not doing

my gosh your arm it’s like not doing right there do you see her arm oh my

right there do you see her arm oh my

right there do you see her arm oh my gosh and then there’s a super grabby

gosh and then there’s a super grabby

gosh and then there’s a super grabby person where they will just grab your

person where they will just grab your

person where they will just grab your arm and touch it I mean personal space

arm and touch it I mean personal space

arm and touch it I mean personal space and those are some of the ways that I

and those are some of the ways that I

and those are some of the ways that I don’t like so much and then some of the

don’t like so much and then some of the

don’t like so much and then some of the good ways are when they try to relate to

good ways are when they try to relate to

good ways are when they try to relate to me oh my gosh my teachers friends

me oh my gosh my teachers friends

me oh my gosh my teachers friends granddaughter she’s missing a finger so

granddaughter she’s missing a finger so

granddaughter she’s missing a finger so I get you talk to me and then there’s

I get you talk to me and then there’s

I get you talk to me and then there’s just the ploy intro when are they just

just the ploy intro when are they just

just the ploy intro when are they just introduce themselves and ask what

introduce themselves and ask what

introduce themselves and ask what happened to my arm oh of course you

happened to my arm oh of course you

happened to my arm oh of course you could just be my twin best friends that

could just be my twin best friends that

could just be my twin best friends that I grew up with and one of my thoughts is

I grew up with and one of my thoughts is

I grew up with and one of my thoughts is what if I could walk on to a playground

what if I could walk on to a playground

what if I could walk on to a playground let’s say and everyone just see me as

let’s say and everyone just see me as

let’s say and everyone just see me as one a crazy kid just playing and I feel

one a crazy kid just playing and I feel

one a crazy kid just playing and I feel like this has a lot to do with the

like this has a lot to do with the

like this has a lot to do with the talked to that I’m talking about today

talked to that I’m talking about today

talked to that I’m talking about today and when I was little my mom got me and

and when I was little my mom got me and

and when I was little my mom got me and my American Girl doll matching outfit

my American Girl doll matching outfit

my American Girl doll matching outfit and I was like oh my gosh you guys are

and I was like oh my gosh you guys are

and I was like oh my gosh you guys are matching how cute I’m like I think I

matching how cute I’m like I think I

matching how cute I’m like I think I know what mashing means so if we’re

know what mashing means so if we’re

know what mashing means so if we’re matching why doesn’t it have an arm like

matching why doesn’t it have an arm like

matching why doesn’t it have an arm like me and my mom was like oh so last year I

me and my mom was like oh so last year I

me and my mom was like oh so last year I started a petition for American Girl to

started a petition for American Girl to

started a petition for American Girl to offer limb different options in their

offer limb different options in their

offer limb different options in their dolls and it has 25,000 signatures and

dolls and it has 25,000 signatures and

dolls and it has 25,000 signatures and American Girl does know about it and

American Girl does know about it and

American Girl does know about it and they said maybe I mean we want it to be

they said maybe I mean we want it to be

they said maybe I mean we want it to be in a yes but it’s still better than a no

in a yes but it’s still better than a no

in a yes but it’s still better than a no and so we do have some companies out

and so we do have some companies out

and so we do have some companies out there that are making women different

there that are making women different

there that are making women different options and toys like a step ahead

options and toys like a step ahead

options and toys like a step ahead prosthetics where you can send in your

prosthetics where you can send in your

prosthetics where you can send in your American Girl doll too and they will

American Girl doll too and they will

American Girl doll too and they will make it match your body and American

make it match your body and American

make it match your body and American Girl has a line called truly me where

Girl has a line called truly me where

Girl has a line called truly me where they have dolls that you can make look

they have dolls that you can make look

they have dolls that you can make look like you so they have let’s say you’re

like you so they have let’s say you’re

like you so they have let’s say you’re going through chemo you can get the hair

going through chemo you can get the hair

going through chemo you can get the hair on your doll off or if you have glasses

on your doll off or if you have glasses

on your doll off or if you have glasses you can

you can

you can glasses rattle or if you broke your leg

glasses rattle or if you broke your leg

glasses rattle or if you broke your leg you can get crutches and so much more

you can get crutches and so much more

you can get crutches and so much more and I think they should offer limb

and I think they should offer limb

and I think they should offer limb different options too and then there’s a

different options too and then there’s a

different options too and then there’s a doll like me where this really cool lady

doll like me where this really cool lady

doll like me where this really cool lady makes homemade dolls to match any

makes homemade dolls to match any

makes homemade dolls to match any difference

difference

difference it’s just cool yeah and then there’s a

it’s just cool yeah and then there’s a

it’s just cool yeah and then there’s a Vermont Teddy Bear company in Vermont

Vermont Teddy Bear company in Vermont

Vermont Teddy Bear company in Vermont who knew and they make limb different

who knew and they make limb different

who knew and they make limb different teddy bears and I thought there’s a

teddy bears and I thought there’s a

teddy bears and I thought there’s a couple of you thinking why American girl

couple of you thinking why American girl

couple of you thinking why American girl that’s like such a big company well the

that’s like such a big company well the

that’s like such a big company well the reason why is I don’t really want the

reason why is I don’t really want the

reason why is I don’t really want the doll just for me to have a limb

doll just for me to have a limb

doll just for me to have a limb different doll that looks like me I want

different doll that looks like me I want

different doll that looks like me I want it so more kids know what what

it so more kids know what what

it so more kids know what what differences are because my guess is that

differences are because my guess is that

differences are because my guess is that most of you didn’t know what a limb

most of you didn’t know what a limb

most of you didn’t know what a limb difference was before you came and saw

difference was before you came and saw

difference was before you came and saw me and I think that it it would be

me and I think that it it would be

me and I think that it it would be really cool if a kid was able to let’s

really cool if a kid was able to let’s

really cool if a kid was able to let’s say walk on into their toy store and saw

say walk on into their toy store and saw

say walk on into their toy store and saw limb different toys everywhere and I

limb different toys everywhere and I

limb different toys everywhere and I feel like this is a really good way for

feel like this is a really good way for

feel like this is a really good way for more kids to get to know the differences

more kids to get to know the differences

more kids to get to know the differences in our society and I’ve been talking a

in our society and I’ve been talking a

in our society and I’ve been talking a lot on stages and on the internet to get

lot on stages and on the internet to get

lot on stages and on the internet to get my word about out about limb differences

my word about out about limb differences

my word about out about limb differences and I go to this really cool camp some

and I go to this really cool camp some

and I go to this really cool camp some I’ve been going since I was really

I’ve been going since I was really

I’ve been going since I was really little and fundraising for it

little and fundraising for it

little and fundraising for it it’s called camp no limits and it’s for

it’s called camp no limits and it’s for

it’s called camp no limits and it’s for kids with limb differences and they get

kids with limb differences and they get

kids with limb differences and they get to go and meet more kids and relate to

to go and meet more kids and relate to

to go and meet more kids and relate to them and make friends and get inspired

them and make friends and get inspired

them and make friends and get inspired by the mentors and mentor and trainer II

by the mentors and mentor and trainer II

by the mentors and mentor and trainer II and I’ve been talking more about this so

and I’ve been talking more about this so

and I’ve been talking more about this so more kids get the chance to go to this

more kids get the chance to go to this

more kids get the chance to go to this camp and this year I got invited to go

camp and this year I got invited to go

camp and this year I got invited to go on the Rachael Ray Show

on the Rachael Ray Show

on the Rachael Ray Show and the shark tank crew was also on it

and the shark tank crew was also on it

and the shark tank crew was also on it and I got to show what I created and I

and I got to show what I created and I

and I got to show what I created and I created a prosthetic arm that shoots

created a prosthetic arm that shoots

created a prosthetic arm that shoots glitter

so this is compressed air and it shoots

so this is compressed air and it shoots out air through this – and it goes this

out air through this – and it goes this

out air through this – and it goes this thing right here is fiddled with glitter

thing right here is fiddled with glitter

thing right here is fiddled with glitter and so when I press this button right

and so when I press this button right

and so when I press this button right here it will shoot out and the star

here it will shoot out and the star

here it will shoot out and the star thing is to lock it and unlock it and I

thing is to lock it and unlock it and I

thing is to lock it and unlock it and I think it’s unlocked hopefully so I’m

think it’s unlocked hopefully so I’m

think it’s unlocked hopefully so I’m gonna show a little example yeah I made

gonna show a little example yeah I made

gonna show a little example yeah I made sure not to shoot too much cuz I have to

sure not to shoot too much cuz I have to

sure not to shoot too much cuz I have to clean that up and that was a really cool

clean that up and that was a really cool

clean that up and that was a really cool experience so that I could show that you

experience so that I could show that you

experience so that I could show that you can build on to your difference to make

can build on to your difference to make

can build on to your difference to make it awesome not like it wasn’t already

it awesome not like it wasn’t already

it awesome not like it wasn’t already awesome and that’s when I sort of

awesome and that’s when I sort of

awesome and that’s when I sort of started blowing up on social media

started blowing up on social media

started blowing up on social media and it’s definitely given me more of a

and it’s definitely given me more of a

and it’s definitely given me more of a chance to talk on stages like this and

chance to talk on stages like this and

chance to talk on stages like this and me and my mom started a non-profit

me and my mom started a non-profit

me and my mom started a non-profit called born just right for kids with

called born just right for kids with

called born just right for kids with differences of any sort to build onto

differences of any sort to build onto

differences of any sort to build onto their difference to make whatever they

their difference to make whatever they

their difference to make whatever they want because kids know what they want

want because kids know what they want

want because kids know what they want and most people try to do it for them

and most people try to do it for them

and most people try to do it for them but I feel like it’s important that they

but I feel like it’s important that they

but I feel like it’s important that they do it for themselves and this year we

do it for themselves and this year we

do it for themselves and this year we had an event in Boston and it was only

had an event in Boston and it was only

had an event in Boston and it was only upper limb oil upper and lower limb

upper limb oil upper and lower limb

upper limb oil upper and lower limb differences but we want to spread to all

differences but we want to spread to all

differences but we want to spread to all differences and I have three tips one is

differences and I have three tips one is

differences and I have three tips one is to be yourself because you being you is

to be yourself because you being you is

to be yourself because you being you is the best you that you can be I know

the best you that you can be I know

the best you that you can be I know that’s a lot of use and then to speak up

that’s a lot of use and then to speak up

that’s a lot of use and then to speak up because what you have to say is really

because what you have to say is really

because what you have to say is really important and it can change your

important and it can change your

important and it can change your community and such an amazing

community and such an amazing

community and such an amazing and to use your differences for good

and to use your differences for good

and to use your differences for good because your differences are amazing and

because your differences are amazing and

because your differences are amazing and you never know what amazing things you

you never know what amazing things you

you never know what amazing things you can do with them

can do with them

can do with them thank you

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