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doesn’t religious on hate bullies of monterrico is until go to the moon

monterrico is until go to the moon

monterrico is until go to the moon adieu kimochi ng comfortable with my

adieu kimochi ng comfortable with my

adieu kimochi ng comfortable with my lessons Watney only sediba young

lessons Watney only sediba young

lessons Watney only sediba young protection of the unknown

protection of the unknown

protection of the unknown he won’t fear tortures anymore

he won’t fear tortures anymore

he won’t fear tortures anymore also in crayon not her reality but was

also in crayon not her reality but was

also in crayon not her reality but was actually my little sister talking her

actually my little sister talking her

actually my little sister talking her name is Surya she’s 13 years old and she

name is Surya she’s 13 years old and she

name is Surya she’s 13 years old and she managed to put simple words on what the

managed to put simple words on what the

managed to put simple words on what the world really needs and it’s not fluffy

world really needs and it’s not fluffy

world really needs and it’s not fluffy idealism this is a real need I remember

idealism this is a real need I remember

idealism this is a real need I remember myself when I was 13 years old that was

myself when I was 13 years old that was

myself when I was 13 years old that was the time where I was the most insecure

the time where I was the most insecure

the time where I was the most insecure growing up in Norway I felt like I

growing up in Norway I felt like I

growing up in Norway I felt like I didn’t really belong and I felt like I

didn’t really belong and I felt like I

didn’t really belong and I felt like I didn’t fit in anywhere and with the

didn’t fit in anywhere and with the

didn’t fit in anywhere and with the group of kids that I was growing up with

group of kids that I was growing up with

group of kids that I was growing up with I was bullied and that made me feel like

I was bullied and that made me feel like

I was bullied and that made me feel like no matter how much I tried I wasn’t good

no matter how much I tried I wasn’t good

no matter how much I tried I wasn’t good enough and then I would go to ads and

enough and then I would go to ads and

enough and then I would go to ads and magazines to compare myself and I was

magazines to compare myself and I was

magazines to compare myself and I was horrible and imagine in my time we

horrible and imagine in my time we

horrible and imagine in my time we didn’t even have social media so

didn’t even have social media so

didn’t even have social media so thinking of the pressure that exists

thinking of the pressure that exists

thinking of the pressure that exists today and thinking of the cyberbullying

today and thinking of the cyberbullying

today and thinking of the cyberbullying I know is happening my heart really goes

I know is happening my heart really goes

I know is happening my heart really goes out to anyone that is experiencing that

out to anyone that is experiencing that

out to anyone that is experiencing that in the world at the moment there are

in the world at the moment there are

in the world at the moment there are more than 7 billion people more than

more than 7 billion people more than

more than 7 billion people more than half of them are under 30 actually one

half of them are under 30 actually one

half of them are under 30 actually one in four between 15 and 29 it makes a

in four between 15 and 29 it makes a

in four between 15 and 29 it makes a total of eight point one point eight

total of eight point one point eight

total of eight point one point eight billion people there has never been as

billion people there has never been as

billion people there has never been as many young people on the planet and this

many young people on the planet and this

many young people on the planet and this opens an amazing window of opportunity

opens an amazing window of opportunity

opens an amazing window of opportunity actually 90% of these young people live

actually 90% of these young people live

actually 90% of these young people live in the

in the

in the in countries and the potential for

in countries and the potential for

in countries and the potential for economic and social progress is amazing

economic and social progress is amazing

economic and social progress is amazing however we need to secure that kids and

however we need to secure that kids and

however we need to secure that kids and teenagers get the best shot at a decent

teenagers get the best shot at a decent

teenagers get the best shot at a decent life those years are the most formative

life those years are the most formative

life those years are the most formative most decisive most vulnerable years

most decisive most vulnerable years

most decisive most vulnerable years education has one of the biggest impacts

education has one of the biggest impacts

education has one of the biggest impacts on young people’s lives and the numbers

on young people’s lives and the numbers

on young people’s lives and the numbers are alarming because not many get

are alarming because not many get

are alarming because not many get through secondary school and the

through secondary school and the

through secondary school and the relevance and quality of the education

relevance and quality of the education

relevance and quality of the education also varies a lot 75 million young

also varies a lot 75 million young

also varies a lot 75 million young people are unemployed at the moment

people are unemployed at the moment

people are unemployed at the moment around the world and speaking of economy

around the world and speaking of economy

around the world and speaking of economy we’ve entered this fourth Industrial

we’ve entered this fourth Industrial

we’ve entered this fourth Industrial Revolution also called the tech

Revolution also called the tech

Revolution also called the tech revolution and we’re hearing all these

revolution and we’re hearing all these

revolution and we’re hearing all these stories about how half of the dog market

stories about how half of the dog market

stories about how half of the dog market will be taken over by robots and that

will be taken over by robots and that

will be taken over by robots and that one-third of the jobs that will be

one-third of the jobs that will be

one-third of the jobs that will be available don’t even exist right now so

available don’t even exist right now so

available don’t even exist right now so this means that use is gonna undergo

this means that use is gonna undergo

this means that use is gonna undergo rapid change and we need to prepare for

rapid change and we need to prepare for

rapid change and we need to prepare for this change we truly are at the defining

this change we truly are at the defining

this change we truly are at the defining moment in history when it comes to

moment in history when it comes to

moment in history when it comes to protecting people protecting the

protecting people protecting the

protecting people protecting the environment and also having a good

environment and also having a good

environment and also having a good economy remember what my little sister

economy remember what my little sister

economy remember what my little sister said in the beginning

said in the beginning

said in the beginning well world leaders actually agree with

well world leaders actually agree with

well world leaders actually agree with her in 2015 they were all gathered at

her in 2015 they were all gathered at

her in 2015 they were all gathered at the UN and they came together with a

the UN and they came together with a

the UN and they came together with a common plan for the planet for 2030 with

common plan for the planet for 2030 with

common plan for the planet for 2030 with 17 goals for sustainable development and

17 goals for sustainable development and

17 goals for sustainable development and they agreed that we are going to solve

they agreed that we are going to solve

they agreed that we are going to solve things like gender equality education

things like gender equality education

things like gender equality education health poverty and many more and it’s

health poverty and many more and it’s

health poverty and many more and it’s great it’s great that we’re committed to

great it’s great that we’re committed to

great it’s great that we’re committed to these goals but the huge gap between the

these goals but the huge gap between the

these goals but the huge gap between the reality that we’re in and what we wish

reality that we’re in and what we wish

reality that we’re in and what we wish for says it all

for says it all

for says it all and if we’re gonna have any

and if we’re gonna have any

and if we’re gonna have any chance at getting to these goals there

chance at getting to these goals there

chance at getting to these goals there needs to be a shift in power right now

needs to be a shift in power right now

needs to be a shift in power right now we rely on institutions on politics on

we rely on institutions on politics on

we rely on institutions on politics on corporations on organizations and that’s

corporations on organizations and that’s

corporations on organizations and that’s great we need their involvement but the

great we need their involvement but the

great we need their involvement but the bigger shift we need is that you

bigger shift we need is that you

bigger shift we need is that you understand how much power you have to

understand how much power you have to

understand how much power you have to change things if I go back to what I was

change things if I go back to what I was

change things if I go back to what I was telling you about my story when I was

telling you about my story when I was

telling you about my story when I was growing up I left out an element that

growing up I left out an element that

growing up I left out an element that was very important and that’s the fact

was very important and that’s the fact

was very important and that’s the fact that I was lucky to have my parents for

that I was lucky to have my parents for

that I was lucky to have my parents for instance and a very special teacher that

instance and a very special teacher that

instance and a very special teacher that saw me and validated me and believed in

saw me and validated me and believed in

saw me and validated me and believed in me and that helped me get through

me and that helped me get through

me and that helped me get through secondary school it helped me understand

secondary school it helped me understand

secondary school it helped me understand that I could have an impact and it made

that I could have an impact and it made

that I could have an impact and it made me go for my dreams and I believe that

me go for my dreams and I believe that

me go for my dreams and I believe that this doesn’t only apply to me this

this doesn’t only apply to me this

this doesn’t only apply to me this applies to all of you and this is one of

applies to all of you and this is one of

applies to all of you and this is one of the reasons why I started something

the reasons why I started something

the reasons why I started something called inter bridge which educates young

called inter bridge which educates young

called inter bridge which educates young people to solve social issues and then

people to solve social issues and then

people to solve social issues and then we call them impact agents and what I’m

we call them impact agents and what I’m

we call them impact agents and what I’m saying now is that you don’t need to be

saying now is that you don’t need to be

saying now is that you don’t need to be an entrepreneur you don’t necessarily

an entrepreneur you don’t necessarily

an entrepreneur you don’t necessarily need to be a politician to have social

need to be a politician to have social

need to be a politician to have social change is that you need to understand

change is that you need to understand

change is that you need to understand how much impact you actually have on

how much impact you actually have on

how much impact you actually have on yourself on your surroundings and in

yourself on your surroundings and in

yourself on your surroundings and in society by everyday choices the food you

society by everyday choices the food you

society by everyday choices the food you eat the clothes you wear the energy you

eat the clothes you wear the energy you

eat the clothes you wear the energy you use and maybe perhaps who you’re gonna

use and maybe perhaps who you’re gonna

use and maybe perhaps who you’re gonna vote for and the thing is that there is

vote for and the thing is that there is

vote for and the thing is that there is magic that happens when young people are

magic that happens when young people are

magic that happens when young people are offered this self-awareness when we work

offered this self-awareness when we work

offered this self-awareness when we work with youth we have this one premise and

with youth we have this one premise and

with youth we have this one premise and it’s that they need to want to be active

it’s that they need to want to be active

it’s that they need to want to be active locally but we put them together

locally but we put them together

locally but we put them together and we make sure that they’re very

and we make sure that they’re very

and we make sure that they’re very different we make sure that they’re from

different we make sure that they’re from

different we make sure that they’re from different geographical parts that they

different geographical parts that they

different geographical parts that they have different socioeconomic backgrounds

have different socioeconomic backgrounds

have different socioeconomic backgrounds and perhaps also different cultural

and perhaps also different cultural

and perhaps also different cultural backgrounds and what they keep on

backgrounds and what they keep on

backgrounds and what they keep on telling us is

telling us is

telling us is that they learn from each other and they

that they learn from each other and they

that they learn from each other and they are so happy to meet people that usually

are so happy to meet people that usually

are so happy to meet people that usually they wouldn’t meet and this create

they wouldn’t meet and this create

they wouldn’t meet and this create changes and I want to share some

changes and I want to share some

changes and I want to share some examples with you we had this one

examples with you we had this one

examples with you we had this one session on social media and how it’s

session on social media and how it’s

session on social media and how it’s important to put on a filter

important to put on a filter

important to put on a filter when you’re on social media and this

when you’re on social media and this

when you’re on social media and this young boy 13 year old said at the end of

young boy 13 year old said at the end of

young boy 13 year old said at the end of the session that he finally was going to

the session that he finally was going to

the session that he finally was going to promised himself that he wasn’t going to

promised himself that he wasn’t going to

promised himself that he wasn’t going to put so much effort on trying to get

put so much effort on trying to get

put so much effort on trying to get muscles at 13 and that he wanted to just

muscles at 13 and that he wanted to just

muscles at 13 and that he wanted to just accept himself for who he was and I

accept himself for who he was and I

accept himself for who he was and I think that this is really important

think that this is really important

think that this is really important because it’s where it starts I’m also

because it’s where it starts I’m also

because it’s where it starts I’m also really touched by the story of Aisha

really touched by the story of Aisha

really touched by the story of Aisha that is 16 years old she started off

that is 16 years old she started off

that is 16 years old she started off being very very shy and throughout she

being very very shy and throughout she

being very very shy and throughout she started gaining confidence and ended up

started gaining confidence and ended up

started gaining confidence and ended up being in a City Hall telling

being in a City Hall telling

being in a City Hall telling decision-makers what she thought was

decision-makers what she thought was

decision-makers what she thought was right for her city and now she’s a

right for her city and now she’s a

right for her city and now she’s a student leader and she writes her

student leader and she writes her

student leader and she writes her opinions on national newspaper I’m also

opinions on national newspaper I’m also

opinions on national newspaper I’m also really humbled by the story of the

really humbled by the story of the

really humbled by the story of the friendship between Emily that is 18 year

friendship between Emily that is 18 year

friendship between Emily that is 18 year old and Ally that 16 year old Emily is a

old and Ally that 16 year old Emily is a

old and Ally that 16 year old Emily is a vegan girl and Ally comes from a

vegan girl and Ally comes from a

vegan girl and Ally comes from a Pakistani family and they have meat as

Pakistani family and they have meat as

Pakistani family and they have meat as part of their diet conversations between

part of their diet conversations between

part of their diet conversations between the two made Ali realize certain aspects

the two made Ali realize certain aspects

the two made Ali realize certain aspects about the meat industry so he started

about the meat industry so he started

about the meat industry so he started looking more into it and he became

looking more into it and he became

looking more into it and he became really environmentally engaged he went

really environmentally engaged he went

really environmentally engaged he went back to his mom had a serious talk and

back to his mom had a serious talk and

back to his mom had a serious talk and asked her to have meat free days the mom

asked her to have meat free days the mom

asked her to have meat free days the mom agreed and the mom has also talked to

agreed and the mom has also talked to

agreed and the mom has also talked to other moms and this is how this

other moms and this is how this

other moms and this is how this friendship sparked social change it also

friendship sparked social change it also

friendship sparked social change it also means that you are the ones that

means that you are the ones that

means that you are the ones that actually can do something to solve the

actually can do something to solve the

actually can do something to solve the issues like I said before the world is

issues like I said before the world is

issues like I said before the world is undergoing a shift we’re moving from

undergoing a shift we’re moving from

undergoing a shift we’re moving from non-sustainable non-inclusive towards

non-sustainable non-inclusive towards

non-sustainable non-inclusive towards sustainable and inclusive and with the

sustainable and inclusive and with the

sustainable and inclusive and with the rapid changes that are happening I

rapid changes that are happening I

rapid changes that are happening I believe that

believe that

believe that youth is the most important resource

youth is the most important resource

youth is the most important resource that we have your opinions and insights

that we have your opinions and insights

that we have your opinions and insights are actually needed I see this in my

are actually needed I see this in my

are actually needed I see this in my work with with public sector and private

work with with public sector and private

work with with public sector and private sector they are wondering what is the

sector they are wondering what is the

sector they are wondering what is the youth thinking what what are they about

youth thinking what what are they about

youth thinking what what are they about what do they want and I’m going to

what do they want and I’m going to

what do they want and I’m going to confess something my best advisors are

confess something my best advisors are

confess something my best advisors are the young people the impact agents in

the young people the impact agents in

the young people the impact agents in interpret I have a fail final final

interpret I have a fail final final

interpret I have a fail final final message for you which is that whatever

message for you which is that whatever

message for you which is that whatever you’re going through right now doesn’t

you’re going through right now doesn’t

you’re going through right now doesn’t define you forever

define you forever

define you forever believe me and you have immense

believe me and you have immense

believe me and you have immense potential so I hope you can activate it

potential so I hope you can activate it

potential so I hope you can activate it and you aren’t just the future you are

and you aren’t just the future you are

and you aren’t just the future you are the present you’re shaping it every day

the present you’re shaping it every day

the present you’re shaping it every day with your choices and you’re creating

with your choices and you’re creating

with your choices and you’re creating our common future every day locally and

our common future every day locally and

our common future every day locally and globally you matter youth matters thank

globally you matter youth matters thank

globally you matter youth matters thank you

you

you [Applause]

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