cliched imperative of well wishers today parents teachers relatives friends none
parents teachers relatives friends none
parents teachers relatives friends none to spare but I an introvert I’m annoyed
to spare but I an introvert I’m annoyed
to spare but I an introvert I’m annoyed by this
by this
by this neverthless I know that these people
neverthless I know that these people
neverthless I know that these people care about me they care my future and
care about me they care my future and
care about me they care my future and don’t want my ways to be a hindrance on
don’t want my ways to be a hindrance on
don’t want my ways to be a hindrance on my way to success but in our society
my way to success but in our society
my way to success but in our society today
today
today mentors are misinterpreted and this
mentors are misinterpreted and this
mentors are misinterpreted and this happens because a lot of us don’t fully
happens because a lot of us don’t fully
happens because a lot of us don’t fully grasp the concept of introversion
grasp the concept of introversion
grasp the concept of introversion introversion is not a phase in someone’s
introversion is not a phase in someone’s
introversion is not a phase in someone’s life that he has to grow out of
introversion is a personality trait of
introversion is a personality trait of an introvert it’s a clear-cut block
an introvert it’s a clear-cut block
an introvert it’s a clear-cut block among others that helps build his
among others that helps build his
among others that helps build his character and introversion and
character and introversion and
character and introversion and extraversion on the other end of the
extraversion on the other end of the
extraversion on the other end of the spectrum are not to be considered as
spectrum are not to be considered as
spectrum are not to be considered as good about treats it does not work like
good about treats it does not work like
good about treats it does not work like this because they’re just they just
this because they’re just they just
this because they’re just they just define how a person thinks but
define how a person thinks but
define how a person thinks but introversion is depicted in a negative
introversion is depicted in a negative
introversion is depicted in a negative light it’s treated almost like a
light it’s treated almost like a
light it’s treated almost like a character flaw today so much so that
character flaw today so much so that
character flaw today so much so that even our own education system is biased
even our own education system is biased
even our own education system is biased small children are told from an early
small children are told from an early
small children are told from an early age to participate more in class be more
age to participate more in class be more
age to participate more in class be more outgoing and make friends as soon as
outgoing and make friends as soon as
outgoing and make friends as soon as possible even if it goes against their
possible even if it goes against their
possible even if it goes against their personality and trying to change that
personality and trying to change that
personality and trying to change that makes them insecure these children will
makes them insecure these children will
makes them insecure these children will live the rest of their lives trying to
live the rest of their lives trying to
live the rest of their lives trying to blend in with a crowd
blend in with a crowd
blend in with a crowd fearing the limelight for the
fearing the limelight for the
fearing the limelight for the flaws in their personality it may point
flaws in their personality it may point
flaws in their personality it may point out and that’s why we need to change
out and that’s why we need to change
out and that’s why we need to change such a mentality in a groundbreaking
such a mentality in a groundbreaking
such a mentality in a groundbreaking book on the science of introversion
book on the science of introversion
book on the science of introversion quite the power of introverts in a world
quite the power of introverts in a world
quite the power of introverts in a world that can’t stop talking author Susan
that can’t stop talking author Susan
that can’t stop talking author Susan Cain mentions a few people
Cain mentions a few people
Cain mentions a few people Albert Einstein Sir Isaac Newton WB
Albert Einstein Sir Isaac Newton WB
Albert Einstein Sir Isaac Newton WB Yeats Frederic Chopin
Yeats Frederic Chopin
Yeats Frederic Chopin JK Rowling surprisingly all entrants and
JK Rowling surprisingly all entrants and
JK Rowling surprisingly all entrants and this does not mean and these people were
this does not mean and these people were
this does not mean and these people were shy or reticent and generally excuse
shy or reticent and generally excuse
shy or reticent and generally excuse themselves from the public introversion
themselves from the public introversion
themselves from the public introversion is often associated with words it has no
is often associated with words it has no
is often associated with words it has no relation to whatsoever words like shy or
relation to whatsoever words like shy or
relation to whatsoever words like shy or antisocial or reticent let me give you
antisocial or reticent let me give you
antisocial or reticent let me give you an example introversion and shyness are
an example introversion and shyness are
an example introversion and shyness are two different things
two different things
two different things shyness refers to the temporary feeling
shyness refers to the temporary feeling
shyness refers to the temporary feeling of awkwardness a person has around your
of awkwardness a person has around your
of awkwardness a person has around your surroundings well as her introversion
surroundings well as her introversion
surroundings well as her introversion also sophia trembling of the introverts
also sophia trembling of the introverts
also sophia trembling of the introverts way as an interesting definition an
way as an interesting definition an
way as an interesting definition an introvert an introvert is merely someone
introvert an introvert is merely someone
introvert an introvert is merely someone who gains energy from solitude while an
who gains energy from solitude while an
who gains energy from solitude while an extrovert gains energy from interaction
extrovert gains energy from interaction
extrovert gains energy from interaction now note that this this does not mean
now note that this this does not mean
now note that this this does not mean that introverts hate interaction humans
that introverts hate interaction humans
that introverts hate interaction humans need other humans to survive there is a
need other humans to survive there is a
need other humans to survive there is a basic belief system in us that tells us
basic belief system in us that tells us
basic belief system in us that tells us that we will always have each other for
that we will always have each other for
that we will always have each other for support when everything else fails and
support when everything else fails and
support when everything else fails and this primal instinct to depend on each
this primal instinct to depend on each
this primal instinct to depend on each other has not made itself unavailable
other has not made itself unavailable
other has not made itself unavailable and entrance but how many of us would
and entrance but how many of us would
and entrance but how many of us would have been surprised by this definition
have been surprised by this definition
have been surprised by this definition because our perception of introversion
because our perception of introversion
because our perception of introversion was not what we thought it was why does
was not what we thought it was why does
was not what we thought it was why does this happen
this happen
this happen imagine a room full of people and
imagine a room full of people and
imagine a room full of people and imagine you are on a monitor the gray
imagine you are on a monitor the gray
imagine you are on a monitor the gray dots in this diagram represent these
dots in this diagram represent these
dots in this diagram represent these people and the now appearing blue dots
people and the now appearing blue dots
people and the now appearing blue dots represent interaction notice that almost
represent interaction notice that almost
represent interaction notice that almost the whole room has turned blue except
the whole room has turned blue except
the whole room has turned blue except for that red dot in my example that
for that red dot in my example that
for that red dot in my example that person is an introvert that person is
person is an introvert that person is
person is an introvert that person is standing in a corner alone not because
standing in a corner alone not because
standing in a corner alone not because he does not like to talk to other humans
he does not like to talk to other humans
he does not like to talk to other humans because he’s uncomfortable with the
because he’s uncomfortable with the
because he’s uncomfortable with the large number of people that’s present
large number of people that’s present
large number of people that’s present once again think of yourself there
once again think of yourself there
once again think of yourself there what would you perceive of a state of
what would you perceive of a state of
what would you perceive of a state of mind in the majority of cases you’d
mind in the majority of cases you’d
mind in the majority of cases you’d label alone or perhaps some of those
label alone or perhaps some of those
label alone or perhaps some of those naturally averse to talking with our
naturally averse to talking with our
naturally averse to talking with our humans and generally prefers his own
humans and generally prefers his own
humans and generally prefers his own company the wrong perspective does the
company the wrong perspective does the
company the wrong perspective does the damage you see the problem starts when
damage you see the problem starts when
damage you see the problem starts when we when we start perceiving something
we when we start perceiving something
we when we start perceiving something solely from our point of view which is
solely from our point of view which is
solely from our point of view which is fine until we let our opinions shadow
fine until we let our opinions shadow
fine until we let our opinions shadow facts but we also allow our perceptions
facts but we also allow our perceptions
facts but we also allow our perceptions to be influenced by the mindsets of the
to be influenced by the mindsets of the
to be influenced by the mindsets of the people around us in such situations we
people around us in such situations we
people around us in such situations we just follow the crowd and believe what
just follow the crowd and believe what
just follow the crowd and believe what is already believed and this sort of
is already believed and this sort of
is already believed and this sort of scenario is extremely dangerous because
scenario is extremely dangerous because
scenario is extremely dangerous because then there’s no scope for individuality
then there’s no scope for individuality
then there’s no scope for individuality there’s no scope for innovation and
there’s no scope for innovation and
there’s no scope for innovation and expanding your horizons to accommodate
expanding your horizons to accommodate
expanding your horizons to accommodate your idea
your idea
your idea remember that we as a human civilization
remember that we as a human civilization
remember that we as a human civilization would not have reached this point of
would not have reached this point of
would not have reached this point of advancement if our predecessors had not
advancement if our predecessors had not
advancement if our predecessors had not reverb death per their perspectives over
reverb death per their perspectives over
reverb death per their perspectives over time so here’s what we must do we must
time so here’s what we must do we must
time so here’s what we must do we must learn rather remember the question
learn rather remember the question
learn rather remember the question question everything around you question
question everything around you question
question everything around you question your core principles question the social
your core principles question the social
your core principles question the social norms you have been a part of since you
norms you have been a part of since you
norms you have been a part of since you were born and find out if you believe in
were born and find out if you believe in
were born and find out if you believe in them as a result of your perspective or
them as a result of your perspective or
them as a result of your perspective or because you were subconsciously don’t to
because you were subconsciously don’t to
because you were subconsciously don’t to do so by our surroundings and change
do so by our surroundings and change
do so by our surroundings and change your perspective accordingly because in
your perspective accordingly because in
your perspective accordingly because in the words of Marianne Williamson America
the words of Marianne Williamson America
the words of Marianne Williamson America is a shift in perception from fear to
is a shift in perception from fear to
is a shift in perception from fear to love from a belief in what is not real
love from a belief in what is not real
love from a belief in what is not real to faith in a purchase and remember you
to faith in a purchase and remember you
to faith in a purchase and remember you don’t have to need your shell in fact
don’t have to need your shell in fact
don’t have to need your shell in fact own your shell and make it
own your shell and make it
own your shell and make it indistinguishable from the rest of your
indistinguishable from the rest of your
indistinguishable from the rest of your personality because in the end it is a
personality because in the end it is a
personality because in the end it is a part of who you are thank you
part of who you are thank you
part of who you are thank you [Applause]
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