[Music] we were on route 64 in northern New
we were on route 64 in northern New
we were on route 64 in northern New Mexico just outside of Cimarron Valley
Mexico just outside of Cimarron Valley
Mexico just outside of Cimarron Valley when we saw them hulking horned
when we saw them hulking horned
when we saw them hulking horned billowing heavy breaths into the chilled
billowing heavy breaths into the chilled
billowing heavy breaths into the chilled December air buffalo Mallory and I
December air buffalo Mallory and I
December air buffalo Mallory and I exclaimed in the otherwise quiet car she
exclaimed in the otherwise quiet car she
exclaimed in the otherwise quiet car she pulled a u-turn on the deserted country
pulled a u-turn on the deserted country
pulled a u-turn on the deserted country road we got out of the car and
road we got out of the car and
road we got out of the car and approached them in Native American
approached them in Native American
approached them in Native American culture the buffalo stands as a symbol
culture the buffalo stands as a symbol
culture the buffalo stands as a symbol of self-sacrifice
of self-sacrifice
of self-sacrifice it gives everything it has its flesh for
it gives everything it has its flesh for
it gives everything it has its flesh for food its hide for clothing and shelter
food its hide for clothing and shelter
food its hide for clothing and shelter it gives all that it has and in doing so
it gives all that it has and in doing so
it gives all that it has and in doing so makes life possible for the people as I
makes life possible for the people as I
makes life possible for the people as I stood there watching the herd my boots
stood there watching the herd my boots
stood there watching the herd my boots cracking through the frozen grass a
cracking through the frozen grass a
cracking through the frozen grass a single female buffalo emerged from the
single female buffalo emerged from the
single female buffalo emerged from the herd and came towards me I stared dark
herd and came towards me I stared dark
herd and came towards me I stared dark eye to dark eye with her here I was
eye to dark eye with her here I was
eye to dark eye with her here I was broken a shadow of myself and there she
broken a shadow of myself and there she
broken a shadow of myself and there she was untamed with strength untold in that
was untamed with strength untold in that
was untamed with strength untold in that moment an otherworldly gray seemed to
moment an otherworldly gray seemed to
moment an otherworldly gray seemed to encircle us we spoke of ineffable things
encircle us we spoke of ineffable things
encircle us we spoke of ineffable things of grief and gratitude and what it is to
of grief and gratitude and what it is to
of grief and gratitude and what it is to give all of oneself we’re here at the
give all of oneself we’re here at the
give all of oneself we’re here at the Yale TEDx conference where the theme is
Yale TEDx conference where the theme is
Yale TEDx conference where the theme is uncharted my uncharted territory comes
uncharted my uncharted territory comes
uncharted my uncharted territory comes in relation to the limits of our sanity
in relation to the limits of our sanity
in relation to the limits of our sanity in the face of successive trauma
in the face of successive trauma
in the face of successive trauma and our ability to transcend that trauma
and our ability to transcend that trauma
and our ability to transcend that trauma via a practice I call radical
via a practice I call radical
via a practice I call radical authenticity what is radical
authenticity what is radical
authenticity what is radical authenticity for me it was a reckoning
authenticity for me it was a reckoning
authenticity for me it was a reckoning a facing of everything that I’d tried to
a facing of everything that I’d tried to
a facing of everything that I’d tried to repress about myself or hide or change
how I came to be standing in front of a
how I came to be standing in front of a herd of buffalo on a deserted country
herd of buffalo on a deserted country
herd of buffalo on a deserted country road in northern New Mexico and how I
road in northern New Mexico and how I
road in northern New Mexico and how I came to this philosophy is a very long
came to this philosophy is a very long
came to this philosophy is a very long story I’m gonna do my best to try to
story I’m gonna do my best to try to
story I’m gonna do my best to try to tell it here my early life was not easy
tell it here my early life was not easy
tell it here my early life was not easy I could go blow-for-blow and tell you
I could go blow-for-blow and tell you
I could go blow-for-blow and tell you everything that happened and make this a
everything that happened and make this a
everything that happened and make this a very depressing TED talk but we’re
very depressing TED talk but we’re
very depressing TED talk but we’re already kind of walking that line so
already kind of walking that line so
already kind of walking that line so we’re just going to establish that it
we’re just going to establish that it
we’re just going to establish that it was bad and move forward flash-forward
was bad and move forward flash-forward
was bad and move forward flash-forward to my early 30s where things were bad
to my early 30s where things were bad
to my early 30s where things were bad but getting better until at the age of
but getting better until at the age of
but getting better until at the age of 31
31
31 I had to undergo a year of invasive
I had to undergo a year of invasive
I had to undergo a year of invasive testings
testings
testings and surgeries to be diagnosed with late
and surgeries to be diagnosed with late
and surgeries to be diagnosed with late stage endometriosis a year after that I
stage endometriosis a year after that I
stage endometriosis a year after that I suffered a traumatic fall wrecked my leg
suffered a traumatic fall wrecked my leg
suffered a traumatic fall wrecked my leg broke it in three places dislocated the
broke it in three places dislocated the
broke it in three places dislocated the ankle had to have reconstructive surgery
ankle had to have reconstructive surgery
ankle had to have reconstructive surgery to put it back together again
to put it back together again
to put it back together again I’d spend the next year or learning how
I’d spend the next year or learning how
I’d spend the next year or learning how to walk and then as if that wasn’t
to walk and then as if that wasn’t
to walk and then as if that wasn’t enough a year after that I would suffer
enough a year after that I would suffer
enough a year after that I would suffer the miscarriage of twins when the
the miscarriage of twins when the
the miscarriage of twins when the miscarriage happened my mind tried to
miscarriage happened my mind tried to
miscarriage happened my mind tried to process things the way I’d always had up
process things the way I’d always had up
process things the way I’d always had up until that point when something bad
until that point when something bad
until that point when something bad happened I did what most of us do to get
happened I did what most of us do to get
happened I did what most of us do to get through these things I put my head down
through these things I put my head down
through these things I put my head down told myself I was okay and pushed
told myself I was okay and pushed
told myself I was okay and pushed through it I dealt with the logistics of
through it I dealt with the logistics of
through it I dealt with the logistics of what was happening but I didn’t deal
what was happening but I didn’t deal
what was happening but I didn’t deal with how I felt about what was happening
with how I felt about what was happening
with how I felt about what was happening some would argue that this is how we get
some would argue that this is how we get
some would argue that this is how we get through things we have to set aside our
through things we have to set aside our
through things we have to set aside our feelings and just plow through it and I
feelings and just plow through it and I
feelings and just plow through it and I would agree with them to some degree but
would agree with them to some degree but
would agree with them to some degree but we always have to
we always have to
we always have to round back to our feelings I learned
round back to our feelings I learned
round back to our feelings I learned this the hard way
this the hard way
this the hard way a momentary coping mechanism became a
a momentary coping mechanism became a
a momentary coping mechanism became a 25-year toxic habit creating an entire
25-year toxic habit creating an entire
25-year toxic habit creating an entire reservoir of repressed emotion within me
when the miscarriage happened my mind as
when the miscarriage happened my mind as I said did what it always does
I said did what it always does
I said did what it always does it tried to repress only instead of
it tried to repress only instead of
it tried to repress only instead of repressing how I felt about what was
repressing how I felt about what was
repressing how I felt about what was happening I tried to repress the entire
happening I tried to repress the entire
happening I tried to repress the entire event it didn’t happen
event it didn’t happen
event it didn’t happen I didn’t go to the doctor I didn’t tell
I didn’t go to the doctor I didn’t tell
I didn’t go to the doctor I didn’t tell my family nothing in the weeks after the
my family nothing in the weeks after the
my family nothing in the weeks after the miscarriage I started to unravel let’s
miscarriage I started to unravel let’s
miscarriage I started to unravel let’s face it we can bury something within
face it we can bury something within
face it we can bury something within ourselves but deep down we still know
ourselves but deep down we still know
ourselves but deep down we still know it’s there one night I was out having
it’s there one night I was out having
it’s there one night I was out having dinner with my friend Mallory I’d only
dinner with my friend Mallory I’d only
dinner with my friend Mallory I’d only known her about two months when in a
known her about two months when in a
known her about two months when in a vodka fueled confession I told her that
vodka fueled confession I told her that
vodka fueled confession I told her that I had had a miscarriage a few weeks
I had had a miscarriage a few weeks
I had had a miscarriage a few weeks before almost the moment I said the
before almost the moment I said the
before almost the moment I said the words I started to unravel we got the
words I started to unravel we got the
words I started to unravel we got the check we left the restaurant we went to
check we left the restaurant we went to
check we left the restaurant we went to my nearby office I just signed the lease
my nearby office I just signed the lease
my nearby office I just signed the lease there was no furniture the room was bare
there was no furniture the room was bare
there was no furniture the room was bare I curled up in the middle of the floor
I curled up in the middle of the floor
I curled up in the middle of the floor and just was undone there had been 20
and just was undone there had been 20
and just was undone there had been 20 years of things happening one after the
years of things happening one after the
years of things happening one after the next after the next and I just couldn’t
next after the next and I just couldn’t
next after the next and I just couldn’t take it anymore
take it anymore
take it anymore I came into a frame of mine where I just
I came into a frame of mine where I just
I came into a frame of mine where I just wanted the suffering to end and the only
wanted the suffering to end and the only
wanted the suffering to end and the only way I could see it ending was by my own
way I could see it ending was by my own
way I could see it ending was by my own hand I honestly don’t know what would
hand I honestly don’t know what would
hand I honestly don’t know what would have happened that night had Mallory not
have happened that night had Mallory not
have happened that night had Mallory not been there she stayed with me the entire
been there she stayed with me the entire
been there she stayed with me the entire night
night
night and held me together in a moment when I
and held me together in a moment when I
and held me together in a moment when I couldn’t hold myself together after that
couldn’t hold myself together after that
couldn’t hold myself together after that night I did what most of us do to
night I did what most of us do to
night I did what most of us do to overcome these things I went to therapy
overcome these things I went to therapy
overcome these things I went to therapy in an effort to process what had
in an effort to process what had
in an effort to process what had happened let it go and move forward
happened let it go and move forward
happened let it go and move forward I was only in therapy a few weeks when
I was only in therapy a few weeks when
I was only in therapy a few weeks when the formal diagnosis of depression PTSD
the formal diagnosis of depression PTSD
the formal diagnosis of depression PTSD and mild dissociative disorder was given
and mild dissociative disorder was given
and mild dissociative disorder was given to me I was referred to a trauma
to me I was referred to a trauma
to me I was referred to a trauma specialist for intensive therapy long
specialist for intensive therapy long
specialist for intensive therapy long story short the therapy didn’t work a
story short the therapy didn’t work a
story short the therapy didn’t work a few weeks in I started having episodes
few weeks in I started having episodes
few weeks in I started having episodes all the repressed emotion was coming up
all the repressed emotion was coming up
all the repressed emotion was coming up in these episodes I would go from Full
in these episodes I would go from Full
in these episodes I would go from Full Tilt rage to fight-or-flight
Tilt rage to fight-or-flight
Tilt rage to fight-or-flight to crashing back down into the bleakest
to crashing back down into the bleakest
to crashing back down into the bleakest despair and cycle back again these
despair and cycle back again these
despair and cycle back again these episodes happened on a bi-weekly basis
episodes happened on a bi-weekly basis
episodes happened on a bi-weekly basis for over a year when I told my therapist
for over a year when I told my therapist
for over a year when I told my therapist what was happening she said it’ll get
what was happening she said it’ll get
what was happening she said it’ll get worse before it gets better stick with
worse before it gets better stick with
worse before it gets better stick with it you will be able to let go you will
it you will be able to let go you will
it you will be able to let go you will be able to heal wanting to heal wanting
be able to heal wanting to heal wanting
be able to heal wanting to heal wanting to let go I stuck with it and the
to let go I stuck with it and the
to let go I stuck with it and the episodes only increased in frequency
episodes only increased in frequency
episodes only increased in frequency finally I felt I had no choice but to
finally I felt I had no choice but to
finally I felt I had no choice but to suspend the sessions around about this
suspend the sessions around about this
suspend the sessions around about this time I was sitting out on Mallory’s deck
time I was sitting out on Mallory’s deck
time I was sitting out on Mallory’s deck watching the Connecticut River flow by
watching the Connecticut River flow by
watching the Connecticut River flow by when she came to me and said we have 10
when she came to me and said we have 10
when she came to me and said we have 10 days off at Christmas why don’t we go
days off at Christmas why don’t we go
days off at Christmas why don’t we go west it’s been years since I’ve been to
west it’s been years since I’ve been to
west it’s been years since I’ve been to Arizona
Arizona
Arizona I remember replying you want to drive to
I remember replying you want to drive to
I remember replying you want to drive to Arizona
Arizona
Arizona isn’t that like 2,500 miles one way
isn’t that like 2,500 miles one way
isn’t that like 2,500 miles one way it’ll take days to which she said you’ve
it’ll take days to which she said you’ve
it’ll take days to which she said you’ve always wanted to see mountains you’ve
always wanted to see mountains you’ve
always wanted to see mountains you’ve always wanted to go west I still wasn’t
always wanted to go west I still wasn’t
always wanted to go west I still wasn’t feeling it
feeling it
feeling it and then she played dirty or writers we
and then she played dirty or writers we
and then she played dirty or writers we need new experiences how could I argue
need new experiences how could I argue
need new experiences how could I argue with that and so it was that I came to
with that and so it was that I came to
with that and so it was that I came to be on a deserted country road in
be on a deserted country road in
be on a deserted country road in northern New Mexico standing in front of
northern New Mexico standing in front of
northern New Mexico standing in front of a herd of wild buffalo after spending
a herd of wild buffalo after spending
a herd of wild buffalo after spending time with the Buffalo we pushed south to
time with the Buffalo we pushed south to
time with the Buffalo we pushed south to Taos where we were to stay with two of
Taos where we were to stay with two of
Taos where we were to stay with two of Mallory’s old friends going into mark
Mallory’s old friends going into mark
Mallory’s old friends going into mark and Sara’s house there was just
and Sara’s house there was just
and Sara’s house there was just something simple and true about their
something simple and true about their
something simple and true about their house and they themselves it was a
house and they themselves it was a
house and they themselves it was a single floor Adobe structure the wood
single floor Adobe structure the wood
single floor Adobe structure the wood beams were still visible on the ceiling
beams were still visible on the ceiling
beams were still visible on the ceiling there were wide red clay tile floors and
there were wide red clay tile floors and
there were wide red clay tile floors and a small wood stove heating the whole
a small wood stove heating the whole
a small wood stove heating the whole house there was just something honest
house there was just something honest
house there was just something honest about their way of life and it bound
about their way of life and it bound
about their way of life and it bound like a bandage around my soul that night
like a bandage around my soul that night
like a bandage around my soul that night I was to sleep in Marc’s music room mark
I was to sleep in Marc’s music room mark
I was to sleep in Marc’s music room mark like Malorie is a singer-songwriter only
like Malorie is a singer-songwriter only
like Malorie is a singer-songwriter only I couldn’t sleep I stared up through the
I couldn’t sleep I stared up through the
I couldn’t sleep I stared up through the darkness at the ceiling I felt filled
darkness at the ceiling I felt filled
darkness at the ceiling I felt filled with images and memories that I would
with images and memories that I would
with images and memories that I would have had made with my children had they
have had made with my children had they
have had made with my children had they been born I’ve been running away I’d
been born I’ve been running away I’d
been born I’ve been running away I’d admit to the medical event of the
admit to the medical event of the
admit to the medical event of the miscarriage but I had never taken the
miscarriage but I had never taken the
miscarriage but I had never taken the time to let in the full loss and grief
time to let in the full loss and grief
time to let in the full loss and grief for that life not lived but that night I
for that life not lived but that night I
for that life not lived but that night I let the images come and like a real they
let the images come and like a real they
let the images come and like a real they played in my mind the doctor putting
played in my mind the doctor putting
played in my mind the doctor putting them in my arms the nights reading aloud
them in my arms the nights reading aloud
them in my arms the nights reading aloud to them in bed all the firsts
teenage fights and mended fences college
teenage fights and mended fences college acceptance letters marriages and finally
acceptance letters marriages and finally
acceptance letters marriages and finally them placing my grandchildren in my arms
the way of of images were seated and I
the way of of images were seated and I saw the whole night when I got up the
saw the whole night when I got up the
saw the whole night when I got up the next morning I felt oddly rested i sat
next morning I felt oddly rested i sat
next morning I felt oddly rested i sat in the living room listening to Marc and
in the living room listening to Marc and
in the living room listening to Marc and Mallory playing on their guitars in the
Mallory playing on their guitars in the
Mallory playing on their guitars in the warm room reverberating with music the
warm room reverberating with music the
warm room reverberating with music the sango de Cristo Mountains were in the
sango de Cristo Mountains were in the
sango de Cristo Mountains were in the window just beyond I had a heavy mug of
window just beyond I had a heavy mug of
window just beyond I had a heavy mug of coffee and my journal open in front of
coffee and my journal open in front of
coffee and my journal open in front of me I felt something beginning after
me I felt something beginning after
me I felt something beginning after years of things ending eventually we
years of things ending eventually we
years of things ending eventually we came home and I took all of my journal
came home and I took all of my journal
came home and I took all of my journal entries and cobbled them together into
entries and cobbled them together into
entries and cobbled them together into an essay that I presented for course I
an essay that I presented for course I
an essay that I presented for course I was taking at Harvard an advance
was taking at Harvard an advance
was taking at Harvard an advance narrative nonfiction after I presented
narrative nonfiction after I presented
narrative nonfiction after I presented the paper something very interesting
the paper something very interesting
the paper something very interesting happen all of my classmates started
happen all of my classmates started
happen all of my classmates started coming up to me privately telling me of
coming up to me privately telling me of
coming up to me privately telling me of their stories of depression or near
their stories of depression or near
their stories of depression or near suicide or mental illness it was as
suicide or mental illness it was as
suicide or mental illness it was as though my admitting that I wasn’t okay
though my admitting that I wasn’t okay
though my admitting that I wasn’t okay gave them permission to admit that they
gave them permission to admit that they
gave them permission to admit that they weren’t okay later
weren’t okay later
weren’t okay later I told Mallory of my plan to take the
I told Mallory of my plan to take the
I told Mallory of my plan to take the essay and publish it in a book and she
essay and publish it in a book and she
essay and publish it in a book and she said why are you going to share that
said why are you going to share that
said why are you going to share that much of yourself with people I had
much of yourself with people I had
much of yourself with people I had always been a private person at the
always been a private person at the
always been a private person at the tender age of 26 when I got my first
tender age of 26 when I got my first
tender age of 26 when I got my first book deal I decided to write under my
book deal I decided to write under my
book deal I decided to write under my initials LM browning because I thought
initials LM browning because I thought
initials LM browning because I thought in doing so I would magically be
in doing so I would magically be
in doing so I would magically be anonymous
anonymous
anonymous and that’s what I wanted little did I
and that’s what I wanted little did I
and that’s what I wanted little did I know that I would go on to write
know that I would go on to write
know that I would go on to write personal essays in which I share
personal essays in which I share
personal essays in which I share infinitely more personal details with
infinitely more personal details with
infinitely more personal details with the reader than my name so here I was
the reader than my name so here I was
the reader than my name so here I was poised to share my most vulnerable
poised to share my most vulnerable
poised to share my most vulnerable moment with the world
moment with the world
moment with the world why share this much of myself because
why share this much of myself because
why share this much of myself because I’m finished with denial because I’m
I’m finished with denial because I’m
I’m finished with denial because I’m willing to admit that I’m broken we’re
willing to admit that I’m broken we’re
willing to admit that I’m broken we’re all broken and right now we’re all
all broken and right now we’re all
all broken and right now we’re all isolated within that brokenness the cure
isolated within that brokenness the cure
isolated within that brokenness the cure for my breakdown the cure for our
for my breakdown the cure for our
for my breakdown the cure for our isolation is radical authenticity we
isolation is radical authenticity we
isolation is radical authenticity we can’t reach one another so long is that
can’t reach one another so long is that
can’t reach one another so long is that we’re pretending that we’re okay we’re
we’re pretending that we’re okay we’re
we’re pretending that we’re okay we’re not always okay
when I first started talking about it
when I first started talking about it with people I shared my story with my
with people I shared my story with my
with people I shared my story with my friends and when I did so I learned
friends and when I did so I learned
friends and when I did so I learned details about them that I never knew
details about them that I never knew
details about them that I never knew I’ve known some of them for 10 15 years
I’ve known some of them for 10 15 years
I’ve known some of them for 10 15 years and I didn’t know that they suffered
and I didn’t know that they suffered
and I didn’t know that they suffered from depression because they had just
from depression because they had just
from depression because they had just felt they needed to pretend imagine what
felt they needed to pretend imagine what
felt they needed to pretend imagine what could be changed in our society if we
could be changed in our society if we
could be changed in our society if we were able to rid ourselves of the
were able to rid ourselves of the
were able to rid ourselves of the terrible notion that we are alone it’s
terrible notion that we are alone it’s
terrible notion that we are alone it’s when we’re in those dark times and we
when we’re in those dark times and we
when we’re in those dark times and we believe things won’t change and that
believe things won’t change and that
believe things won’t change and that we’re alone
we’re alone
we’re alone the truly terrible and irreversible
the truly terrible and irreversible
the truly terrible and irreversible things happen when I went through
things happen when I went through
things happen when I went through everything that I did there were those
everything that I did there were those
everything that I did there were those people that watched everything happen
people that watched everything happen
people that watched everything happen and they came up to me and said this
and they came up to me and said this
and they came up to me and said this must have been meant to be because
must have been meant to be because
must have been meant to be because something good came from every bad thing
something good came from every bad thing
something good came from every bad thing that happened to you
that happened to you
that happened to you as though God or the divine were trying
as though God or the divine were trying
as though God or the divine were trying to teach me something through pain I’m
to teach me something through pain I’m
to teach me something through pain I’m affronted by this notion because it robs
affronted by this notion because it robs
affronted by this notion because it robs me of my achievement of transcendence we
me of my achievement of transcendence we
me of my achievement of transcendence we don’t learn anything from suffering if
don’t learn anything from suffering if
don’t learn anything from suffering if we did we would be an enlightened
we did we would be an enlightened
we did we would be an enlightened society and we’re not we learn from
society and we’re not we learn from
society and we’re not we learn from suffering if and only if we are able to
suffering if and only if we are able to
suffering if and only if we are able to take the bad things that happen to us
take the bad things that happen to us
take the bad things that happen to us and transcend it into something
and transcend it into something
and transcend it into something meaningful I’ve come to believe that we
meaningful I’ve come to believe that we
meaningful I’ve come to believe that we all go through different things in our
all go through different things in our
all go through different things in our life but we all cross the same emotional
life but we all cross the same emotional
life but we all cross the same emotional terrain we all feel the same depression
terrain we all feel the same depression
terrain we all feel the same depression the same hopelessness the same isolation
the same hopelessness the same isolation
the same hopelessness the same isolation and healing fruit things would be
and healing fruit things would be
and healing fruit things would be infinitely easier if we knew that we
infinitely easier if we knew that we
infinitely easier if we knew that we were not alone if we were able to be
were not alone if we were able to be
were not alone if we were able to be authentic with one another and authentic
authentic with one another and authentic
authentic with one another and authentic with ourselves in the end what is
with ourselves in the end what is
with ourselves in the end what is radical authenticity this is radical
radical authenticity this is radical
radical authenticity this is radical authenticity two years ago I couldn’t
authenticity two years ago I couldn’t
authenticity two years ago I couldn’t say these words out loud without having
say these words out loud without having
say these words out loud without having a breakdown and now I’m standing in
a breakdown and now I’m standing in
a breakdown and now I’m standing in front of all of you saying it out loud
front of all of you saying it out loud
front of all of you saying it out loud and yeah for the first five minutes of
and yeah for the first five minutes of
and yeah for the first five minutes of this talk my heart pounded because I’m
this talk my heart pounded because I’m
this talk my heart pounded because I’m saying things that I don’t want to tell
saying things that I don’t want to tell
saying things that I don’t want to tell myself and I’m telling you things that I
myself and I’m telling you things that I
myself and I’m telling you things that I would rather hide in the end why share
would rather hide in the end why share
would rather hide in the end why share this much of myself because you can’t
this much of myself because you can’t
this much of myself because you can’t change what has happened to you you
change what has happened to you you
change what has happened to you you can’t hide it you can’t spin it you
can’t hide it you can’t spin it you
can’t hide it you can’t spin it you can’t let it go all you can do is own it
can’t let it go all you can do is own it
can’t let it go all you can do is own it own your journey you don’t have to give
own your journey you don’t have to give
own your journey you don’t have to give a TED talk or write a book to be
a TED talk or write a book to be
a TED talk or write a book to be radically authentic you just have to
radically authentic you just have to
radically authentic you just have to stop pretending so talk to one another
stop pretending so talk to one another
stop pretending so talk to one another don’t pretend that you’re okay if you’re
don’t pretend that you’re okay if you’re
don’t pretend that you’re okay if you’re not owned your journey be radically
not owned your journey be radically
not owned your journey be radically authentic thank you
authentic thank you
authentic thank you [Applause]
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