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Willpower & focus (and cucumber sandwiches) | Marie Van den Broeck | TEDxFlandersWomen


I could evening ladies and gentlemen

I could evening ladies and gentlemen thank you very much for having me

thank you very much for having me

thank you very much for having me tonight I remember when I was in the

tonight I remember when I was in the

tonight I remember when I was in the audience

audience

audience / TEDx events and there was this girl on

/ TEDx events and there was this girl on

/ TEDx events and there was this girl on stage same age as me

stage same age as me

stage same age as me and she was giving this amazing talk and

and she was giving this amazing talk and

and she was giving this amazing talk and I thought wow one day I want to stand

I thought wow one day I want to stand

I thought wow one day I want to stand there as well one day I want to share

there as well one day I want to share

there as well one day I want to share and aspire people just like her now

and aspire people just like her now

and aspire people just like her now don’t get me wrong I never intended to

don’t get me wrong I never intended to

don’t get me wrong I never intended to give a TEDx talk but I did intend to

give a TEDx talk but I did intend to

give a TEDx talk but I did intend to achieve something that was worth sharing

achieve something that was worth sharing

achieve something that was worth sharing and inspiring people now for the first

and inspiring people now for the first

and inspiring people now for the first time I’m standing here and as you can

time I’m standing here and as you can

time I’m standing here and as you can see if you really want something you can

see if you really want something you can

see if you really want something you can achieve it with the right amount of

achieve it with the right amount of

achieve it with the right amount of willpower and focus and that’s what I’ll

willpower and focus and that’s what I’ll

willpower and focus and that’s what I’ll be talking about today willpower and

be talking about today willpower and

be talking about today willpower and focus now I’m Mary Mary Valen Brooke I’m

focus now I’m Mary Mary Valen Brooke I’m

focus now I’m Mary Mary Valen Brooke I’m 24 years old and last year I found my

24 years old and last year I found my

24 years old and last year I found my company my Adam now with my Adam we

company my Adam now with my Adam we

company my Adam now with my Adam we pimped crutches and wheelchairs not only

pimped crutches and wheelchairs not only

pimped crutches and wheelchairs not only to make them look better but also to

to make them look better but also to

to make them look better but also to make them more comfortable and that we

make them more comfortable and that we

make them more comfortable and that we do by designing Universal add-ons that

do by designing Universal add-ons that

do by designing Universal add-ons that fit onto any crutch or any wheelchair

fit onto any crutch or any wheelchair

fit onto any crutch or any wheelchair that might sound a bit complex but when

that might sound a bit complex but when

that might sound a bit complex but when I show you my first product you’ll see

I show you my first product you’ll see

I show you my first product you’ll see it’s quite simple now this is my sleeve

it’s quite simple now this is my sleeve

it’s quite simple now this is my sleeve so just sleeves not the crutches and the

so just sleeves not the crutches and the

so just sleeves not the crutches and the my sleeves they saw the two biggest

my sleeves they saw the two biggest

my sleeves they saw the two biggest frustrations of users of crutches which

frustrations of users of crutches which

frustrations of users of crutches which is one the saw hands really saw hands

is one the saw hands really saw hands

is one the saw hands really saw hands and to the falling and clumsy crutches

and to the falling and clumsy crutches

and to the falling and clumsy crutches now how did I solve that well for the

now how did I solve that well for the

now how did I solve that well for the saw hands we integrated the gel patch

saw hands we integrated the gel patch

saw hands we integrated the gel patch and this gel patch divides the pressure

and this gel patch divides the pressure

and this gel patch divides the pressure points of your hands equally so don’t

points of your hands equally so don’t

points of your hands equally so don’t have to worry for any blisters anymore

have to worry for any blisters anymore

have to worry for any blisters anymore so how did we solve the falling crutches

so how did we solve the falling crutches

so how did we solve the falling crutches well we also integrated little magnets

well we also integrated little magnets

well we also integrated little magnets on top in here which makes sure that

on top in here which makes sure that

on top in here which makes sure that your curtain the crutches can be divided

your curtain the crutches can be divided

your curtain the crutches can be divided like this and you can just easily free

like this and you can just easily free

like this and you can just easily free your hands or you can just put them away

your hands or you can just put them away

your hands or you can just put them away so you don’t need them anymore

so you don’t need them anymore

so you don’t need them anymore and they won’t fall simple as

and they won’t fall simple as

and they won’t fall simple as that now do you know what the first

that now do you know what the first

that now do you know what the first thing is that people say when they see

thing is that people say when they see

thing is that people say when they see the my sleeves why didn’t I think of

the my sleeves why didn’t I think of

the my sleeves why didn’t I think of that well I’ll tell you why when I was

that well I’ll tell you why when I was

that well I’ll tell you why when I was nine years old I remember me sitting at

nine years old I remember me sitting at

nine years old I remember me sitting at the kitchen table with my six year older

the kitchen table with my six year older

the kitchen table with my six year older sister and I was preparing my favorite

sister and I was preparing my favorite

sister and I was preparing my favorite lunch which was a sandwich which with

lunch which was a sandwich which with

lunch which was a sandwich which with some cheese some cucumber and a little

some cheese some cucumber and a little

some cheese some cucumber and a little bit of mayo

bit of mayo

bit of mayo now as a child I was a bit frustrated

now as a child I was a bit frustrated

now as a child I was a bit frustrated because I really loved cucumber but my

because I really loved cucumber but my

because I really loved cucumber but my bread was rectangular and my cucumber

bread was rectangular and my cucumber

bread was rectangular and my cucumber slices were round so I had many empty

slices were round so I had many empty

slices were round so I had many empty gaps like this now I asked myself how

gaps like this now I asked myself how

gaps like this now I asked myself how can I solve that well I just focused for

can I solve that well I just focused for

can I solve that well I just focused for a moment and I took my first two slices

a moment and I took my first two slices

a moment and I took my first two slices and put them on my bread like this and

and put them on my bread like this and

and put them on my bread like this and then I took my next two slices and

then I took my next two slices and

then I took my next two slices and before putting them on my bread I first

before putting them on my bread I first

before putting them on my bread I first took a bite out of both of them and then

took a bite out of both of them and then

took a bite out of both of them and then I puzzled them into the other ones like

I puzzled them into the other ones like

I puzzled them into the other ones like this and of course because I really

this and of course because I really

this and of course because I really really love cucumber I added two more

really love cucumber I added two more

really love cucumber I added two more like this and like that my initial goal

like this and like that my initial goal

like this and like that my initial goal was solved I wanted to fill those empty

was solved I wanted to fill those empty

was solved I wanted to fill those empty gaps with more cucumber so it’s happy it

gaps with more cucumber so it’s happy it

gaps with more cucumber so it’s happy it worked

worked

worked and I’ll tell you did some secrets today

and I’ll tell you did some secrets today

and I’ll tell you did some secrets today I’m 24 and I still eat my sandwich like

I’m 24 and I still eat my sandwich like

I’m 24 and I still eat my sandwich like this and I assure you every time I pass

this and I assure you every time I pass

this and I assure you every time I pass all my little pieces of cucumber into

all my little pieces of cucumber into

all my little pieces of cucumber into the other ones I get this little feeling

the other ones I get this little feeling

the other ones I get this little feeling of joy every time again so it really

of joy every time again so it really

of joy every time again so it really recommends you trying this sometimes now

recommends you trying this sometimes now

recommends you trying this sometimes now my sister got used to me doing this but

my sister got used to me doing this but

my sister got used to me doing this but the way I ate my sandwich she just

the way I ate my sandwich she just

the way I ate my sandwich she just couldn’t believe as you know I really

couldn’t believe as you know I really

couldn’t believe as you know I really love cucumber so when I’m eating my

love cucumber so when I’m eating my

love cucumber so when I’m eating my sandwich and my slice is keep falling

sandwich and my slice is keep falling

sandwich and my slice is keep falling out I didn’t really like that

out I didn’t really like that

out I didn’t really like that so I’m sure you’ll recognize this image

so I’m sure you’ll recognize this image

so I’m sure you’ll recognize this image so what did I do i again focus for a

so what did I do i again focus for a

so what did I do i again focus for a moment and I thought how could I stop

moment and I thought how could I stop

moment and I thought how could I stop those slices from falling out and then I

those slices from falling out and then I

those slices from falling out and then I had it I just simply turned my sandwich

had it I just simply turned my sandwich

had it I just simply turned my sandwich around like this so for me this was a

around like this so for me this was a

around like this so for me this was a logical way of eating but according to

logical way of eating but according to

logical way of eating but according to my sister it was weird and you know what

my sister it was weird and you know what

my sister it was weird and you know what she was right

she was right

she was right it is weird I’d actually never ever seen

it is weird I’d actually never ever seen

it is weird I’d actually never ever seen anyone do that before and that’s what’s

anyone do that before and that’s what’s

anyone do that before and that’s what’s wrong we shouldn’t blindly follow what

wrong we shouldn’t blindly follow what

wrong we shouldn’t blindly follow what other people do we should ask questions

other people do we should ask questions

other people do we should ask questions why are we doing the things that we do

why are we doing the things that we do

why are we doing the things that we do in the way that we do can’t they be done

in the way that we do can’t they be done

in the way that we do can’t they be done another way that might be more efficient

another way that might be more efficient

another way that might be more efficient the answer often is yes so why don’t we

the answer often is yes so why don’t we

the answer often is yes so why don’t we think like that because we think in

think like that because we think in

think like that because we think in boxes now that’s something we instantly

boxes now that’s something we instantly

boxes now that’s something we instantly do the moments we meet or even see

do the moments we meet or even see

do the moments we meet or even see someone we instantly put them in certain

someone we instantly put them in certain

someone we instantly put them in certain boxes and I’ll show you the moment I

boxes and I’ll show you the moment I

boxes and I’ll show you the moment I walked on this stage tonight you’ve put

walked on this stage tonight you’ve put

walked on this stage tonight you’ve put me at least two boxes the first female

me at least two boxes the first female

me at least two boxes the first female now that’s something we are programmed

now that’s something we are programmed

now that’s something we are programmed to do we instantly decide whether

to do we instantly decide whether

to do we instantly decide whether someone is male or female even though

someone is male or female even though

someone is male or female even though it’s not relevant at all so why do we do

it’s not relevant at all so why do we do

it’s not relevant at all so why do we do that because if we have to describe

that because if we have to describe

that because if we have to describe someone and we don’t know whether he’s a

someone and we don’t know whether he’s a

someone and we don’t know whether he’s a male or female how should we dress them

male or female how should we dress them

male or female how should we dress them is it a she or he the fact that we don’t

is it a she or he the fact that we don’t

is it a she or he the fact that we don’t know makes us feel insecure and that’s

know makes us feel insecure and that’s

know makes us feel insecure and that’s why we do that now the second box you’ve

why we do that now the second box you’ve

why we do that now the second box you’ve probably put me in is young as some

probably put me in is young as some

probably put me in is young as some define young as energetic and motivated

define young as energetic and motivated

define young as energetic and motivated creative but others define young as an

creative but others define young as an

creative but others define young as an experienced not very wise and depending

experienced not very wise and depending

experienced not very wise and depending on what definition that you gave that

on what definition that you gave that

on what definition that you gave that box you interpret the things that I say

box you interpret the things that I say

box you interpret the things that I say very differently now you’ve put me in

very differently now you’ve put me in

very differently now you’ve put me in two boxes that’s alright I won’t blame

two boxes that’s alright I won’t blame

two boxes that’s alright I won’t blame you but you should know that you put

you but you should know that you put

you but you should know that you put yourself in boxes too and that’s a shame

yourself in boxes too and that’s a shame

yourself in boxes too and that’s a shame a few months ago I was doing my user

a few months ago I was doing my user

a few months ago I was doing my user tests within my sleeve

tests within my sleeve

tests within my sleeve and people had to really mount a sleeve

and people had to really mount a sleeve

and people had to really mount a sleeve onto their crutch and I discovered that

onto their crutch and I discovered that

onto their crutch and I discovered that some people though most people had

some people though most people had

some people though most people had already put himself in the clumsy box so

already put himself in the clumsy box so

already put himself in the clumsy box so they wouldn’t even try they’d rather ask

they wouldn’t even try they’d rather ask

they wouldn’t even try they’d rather ask someone else to do it for them than to

someone else to do it for them than to

someone else to do it for them than to even try so I said no I encouraged them

even try so I said no I encouraged them

even try so I said no I encouraged them to really focus take a moment and focus

to really focus take a moment and focus

to really focus take a moment and focus on that problem you know what they could

on that problem you know what they could

on that problem you know what they could do it you only limit yourself by putting

do it you only limit yourself by putting

do it you only limit yourself by putting yourself in those boxes just imagine

yourself in those boxes just imagine

yourself in those boxes just imagine what you could do if you could be any

what you could do if you could be any

what you could do if you could be any box you want if you could build bridges

box you want if you could build bridges

box you want if you could build bridges to any box you want now I’ve invented

to any box you want now I’ve invented

to any box you want now I’ve invented the my sleeve but to be fair you don’t

the my sleeve but to be fair you don’t

the my sleeve but to be fair you don’t have to be an engineer to do that we all

have to be an engineer to do that we all

have to be an engineer to do that we all know what a gel pad does and we all know

know what a gel pad does and we all know

know what a gel pad does and we all know what a magnet does you just have to put

what a magnet does you just have to put

what a magnet does you just have to put those things together anyone can do it

those things together anyone can do it

those things together anyone can do it if you only have the willpower and focus

if you only have the willpower and focus

if you only have the willpower and focus to do it now next time when you eat your

to do it now next time when you eat your

to do it now next time when you eat your bread with cucumber think of me think of

bread with cucumber think of me think of

bread with cucumber think of me think of how easily a little change can solve a

how easily a little change can solve a

how easily a little change can solve a big problem for me building bridges is

big problem for me building bridges is

big problem for me building bridges is about learning it is about pushing your

about learning it is about pushing your

about learning it is about pushing your own boundaries and you only need two

own boundaries and you only need two

own boundaries and you only need two main ingredients to do that willpower

main ingredients to do that willpower

main ingredients to do that willpower and focus now before I go I’d like to

and focus now before I go I’d like to

and focus now before I go I’d like to give you a little challenge just pick

give you a little challenge just pick

give you a little challenge just pick any problem that frustrates you every

any problem that frustrates you every

any problem that frustrates you every day in your kitchen at your desk in your

day in your kitchen at your desk in your

day in your kitchen at your desk in your house and just focus for a moment on

house and just focus for a moment on

house and just focus for a moment on that problem do together with your

that problem do together with your

that problem do together with your children your partner or even alone

children your partner or even alone

children your partner or even alone just focus ask yourself the right

just focus ask yourself the right

just focus ask yourself the right questions and you’ll see a smart

questions and you’ll see a smart

questions and you’ll see a smart solution is never far away

solution is never far away

solution is never far away I am Marie and for me you can forget all

I am Marie and for me you can forget all

I am Marie and for me you can forget all I’ve said tonight but I would like you

I’ve said tonight but I would like you

I’ve said tonight but I would like you to remember two words one will power and

to remember two words one will power and

to remember two words one will power and to focus thank you very much

to focus thank you very much

to focus thank you very much [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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