Once upon a time there was a little brook and
this little brook flowed very funny
through the area was happy in his
Life
and one day came this little brook
on the edge of a huge one
desert and the small stream already had
heard that it is dangerous for
small streams in deserts
but somehow he had that feeling
he has to flow in this desert and
somehow he knew there even
no other way
so the little brook took all his courage
together and flowed but in deserts
it is incredibly hot and after one
time began the little brook to
dry up and the little brook
but evaporated by the evaporation
the small stream rose high in the clouds
and the clouds gathered and drew
across the desert and raining into the
sea
so the small stream was part of the sea
and one day he lay down completely
happy in the waves and thought
I have mine so often in my life
changed and yet would have changed
I never thought that I was in truth
part of something so much bigger
like the sea and we all change in
so often our existence form our life
and I think we are all in ours
already live on such a
desert came
the first time I like such
desert came I was ten years
old
It was a beautiful day I had
a beautiful childhood and I was
with my two brothers and in my
father in the swimming pool and maybe
can you still remember it when
one small
Something totally cool has been experienced
that’s what his parents wanted
tell and we will be home
I drove and I was so much
Happy to draw my mother from it
and I can remember that
I started up the stairs to
our apartment and in our apartment
there were huge droves
and I remember being the one
opened the door and left in the
corridor hang a huge mirror
that mirror found the golden frame
that was the mirror of mine
Mom and I remember this
moment I run up and the door
open and in the audience and the
mirror is gone and that was the day as
At that time my mother moved out and
my parents got divorced
My mother is in hamburg at the time
pulled and we are in at that time
Holzminden remained
and what happens in me right now
maybe it knows one or the other
others of you sometimes submit
moment in your life maybe only
one second a word an experience the
something changed in you
You know it’s something at the moment
changed in you and I can
remember that I was then as me
was ten years old
this heer than this little one
made children’s hearts to me because I
I thought at the time
the world is a dangerous place
and here we can get hurt and
has a very long journey for me
followed by the small brook until I
eventually found myself again
have and the theme here today with this
pot is new understanding and me
would like to talk about how
important it is in the course of life a
new understanding of oneself
develop a new self-image
develop a new look on yourself
to have yourself and above all things up
the own story and the things the
We tell each other because the problem is
when we are in this desert we are
in deficiency in this desert, we fight
in this desert we have the feeling
it is somehow never enough there are
not enough the world is not
enough and this lack turns completely
sometimes it is different
emotional lack
sometimes it’s monetary shortage
sometimes it is a lack of time
sometimes there is a lack of health
but I think we all know that
we in some way already
have been in such a desert and me
would like to stage with you today four
or four steps I share
since then in my life and gone
who made it possible for me today
Looking back on my life fuller
gratitude and to be fulfilled
all things in the relationships too
the people I love and
especially to my mother and the
first level is the unconscious
incompetence that is the moment where we are in
the desert are and suddenly only
desert we think design this
desert and we have perfect
forget that first of all, this one
small brooks were
and second, that we are in reality
belong to the sea
and the bad part of the unconscious
incompetence is that we all that
forgot that we have ours
have forgotten that essence
you forget our creative power
have you in a shortage
Consciousness is that we are all the time
the feeling we need
something from the outside what finally us
full again does anything from the outside
what we feel because we feel
that we have such a bottomless pit
are where no matter how I do my clean here
somehow it just never feels like it
real and what is very very loud because
those of this unconscious incompetence
are a voice in our head and
I call this voice bullshit sm 98.8
kiss fm 98.8 is a definite frick
which has almost permanent radio in the desert
and which company 98.8 it is this
Agree the whole time you say you are
not enough you can not do enough
others can do that better
that goes wrong has never worked
because everything shit anyway
what happened so far why should it
Maybe now he knows
one or the other, they agree
sometimes just consistently through
consistently point and then comes the second
stage and the second level is the
conscious incompetence and that is now
the moment where it gets really exciting
because in the conscious incompetence
happening now that for some
Maybe it’s because you are
something is higher because you
something is or because you are
really out of something inside
Remember that there is a possibility
yourself and your story you
you tell me differently
consider
suddenly you remember that
somebody sometime scores more
and that there is somehow in the way
must come to this more and that
this desert can not be everything
what is waiting for you in this life and
but now something very happens
exciting at this point because at the
conscious incompetence comes to a close
inner conflict because we all know each other
also somehow this in us and agree
this is a very exciting phenomenon like
Everyone has such a voice in us
finds somehow in the desert quite cool
because in the desert is that beautiful
somehow all the others are to blame
that we can not get it baked in
we can blame the desert full of allegations
We are all in the desert
to blame others and in the
somehow we never have to desert
really have to come into action there
we can not change anything there we can
just say yes it says pointed that was
always how it always gets like that
and that’s why it has to be easy now
stay here and if now one
agree is perhaps says so hey
is there a little more what
is waiting for you and maybe there is
the possibility of yourself in one
to see another light
and suddenly this part will be in you
wake up intuitively know that there
agrees with this part that we all have
He knows that we are actually more
and not desert and at this point
It’s just important in everything
to be aware that this is
It is normal for the ego to start
fight
in the moment where we want to free ourselves
in the moment where we want to free ourselves
from this story of this
actual bullshit story the
we’ll talk about it here
how are these stories small?
and we do not believe it
lets what we actually able to do
if the worst in the desert
is that we are our creative power small
hold
not believe that here because we
the things really can create
we would like to create
and the most beautiful is the third one
level and the third level is the
conscious competence and in the conscious
competence now finds the city as the
small brook has started to evaporate
and it has become the clouds
if we suddenly start a new one
perspective on ourselves and on ours
to develop life and there is here
Three tools that actually make my life
have saved
the first tool is meditation
because what makes meditation are two
That ‘s one thing
It finally brings you into the present
because most of the stress we have
most of the doubts we have
we because we are all the time
either in the past are with
our attention or in the
future but we are rarely really in the
here and now
but all our creative power is ours
all life is all that is is now and
We all have this moment sometime
lost in our lives and meditation
that’s exactly what brings you finally
back in this moment and that
else that makes meditation allowed
just like the clouds suddenly one
to have another look at you
allows you to suddenly realize that
You do not have that voice in your head
you’re not bullshit fm up
because most people have that
forget the
Most people really think of them
be that voice in your head that
are you not and once really too
understand you’re not the voice in
you are not in your head and unite
this bullish fm voice in your head
but that’s one you agree
At some point you have accepted them
you at some point taken in for you
have as truth and meditation is
this powerful instrument we did
Everyone has a step back
can go and just watch
what can bullshit fm 98.8 the whole
tell time and just listen
I can hear and say something
actually pulling all the time says
always in the head and that ‘s the first and
most important step around something really im
live to change that you stop
to think everything what you believe the
to believe everything what you think god
and the second does the second thing
is incredibly important and what my life
Real change has been forgiveness
and I have this beautiful one
sentence belongs to me unbelievable
touched and this sentence was too
forgive means any hope
to give up a better past
because what we do all the time if we do
always in the past we are
try somehow undo there
something to change because we
just not ready what was to
accept
and to be allowed to grow as we do
Everyone knows that we are against you
ihp exerts pressure on you and
forgiveness is this beautiful view
to themselves and to the lives of these
possibility to be able to choose new and
Above all, forgiveness has these
force that you finally get your power
get back as long as you’re in the reproach
against you against anyone else in
your life or against each
Life itself is so long you have
no more control over
your own life as long as you say
you are to blame for it as it is for me today
that means there’s the power
about how I am and forgive
means
finally let go to forgive
actually means like the little one
Bach to evaporate and let go
what you are carrying this suitcase with you all the time
carry us around and this suitcase
finally let it stop you in the
can be fulfilled here and now and
above all things about the one fulfilled
to create the future and I believe that
most important is above all things too
a self-assured point
forgive
that someday, for example, bullshit fm
believed that someday
stopped believing in yourself
because we all have the chance at any time
We choose in reality
want to be and the third tool is
Gratitude and gratitude is what it is
It enables us in an absolute
state of abundance when we come in
gratitude can not be a defect
exist and that gratitude before
Doing all that is the magic of
Gratitude is that’s yours
transformed past into wisdom
because in the moment where you on all yours
experience and I say consciously
all your experience above all things
on the experience that broke the heart
to have
the experiences that take you to the desert
the experiences have brought you where you
that stopped you or the life
to believe in this experience
can look back in gratitude
you become wisdom in the experience
Find
and you will find something in it which you
grows and we have earlier
already connecting the dots belongs to this
always go after
but we all have here in this room
now just a past behind
us and the moment you get fuller
gratitude to come look
you automatically in the fourth stage and
the fourth level is the unconscious
competence and unconscious competence
is this moment where you become more
That’s the moment where you really are
with every fiber of his body in it
remember in reality until
that you are the sea and that too
The sea has always been united
that you have always been in abundance
you are and that you are lacking
someday brought in your life
just one perspective was one
history was you up to here
but they did not tell you anymore
you work and of course it is
so even if we are more
does not mean that it is not anymore
somehow bullshit fm there is it
not that everything is suddenly up and running
It does not mean that you will never return
to come into a desert is the good thing
once you really get back to the more
you can find much faster
out of the desert because you are the way
I know and I would like to see you today
give a question with or just one
you might think in the
next days just for you
can say that is what was
if there is another possibility
to see yourself
what if it was a different kind and
Wise you give your story
Can tell what if you were
start again in the light
see that you really are because
sometimes a word is enough for a thought
an experience at the moment that you are
Remember that you are the sea
and art is in it then
to stay in this sea and in it
swim
and I firmly believe that in everyone
from us the strength and the wisdom lies
to create a life that ends
a golden trace of love compassion
and joy throughout the universe
Thank you
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