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Why We Play Games | Jon Dallas | TEDxBaDinh


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[Music] this is the real secret of life

this is the real secret of life

this is the real secret of life to be completely engaged in the

to be completely engaged in the

to be completely engaged in the here-and-now and instead of calling it

here-and-now and instead of calling it

here-and-now and instead of calling it work realize it’s play Alan Watts life

work realize it’s play Alan Watts life

work realize it’s play Alan Watts life is a game this is a mindset it has been

is a game this is a mindset it has been

is a game this is a mindset it has been a fundamental teaching of countless

a fundamental teaching of countless

a fundamental teaching of countless philosophers and artists poets spiritual

philosophers and artists poets spiritual

philosophers and artists poets spiritual leaders politicians and I don’t doubt

leaders politicians and I don’t doubt

leaders politicians and I don’t doubt for a second that many of us here at

for a second that many of us here at

for a second that many of us here at some point or another have shared the

some point or another have shared the

some point or another have shared the same attitude towards life life is a

same attitude towards life life is a

same attitude towards life life is a game but what exactly do we mean by this

game but what exactly do we mean by this

game but what exactly do we mean by this but the term game has actually been

but the term game has actually been

but the term game has actually been under pretty serious philosophical

under pretty serious philosophical

under pretty serious philosophical debate for hundreds of years I know that

debate for hundreds of years I know that

debate for hundreds of years I know that we all probably have an idea about what

we all probably have an idea about what

we all probably have an idea about what games are but the more we investigate it

games are but the more we investigate it

games are but the more we investigate it the more we see just how elusive a

the more we see just how elusive a

the more we see just how elusive a definition of this term can be let us

definition of this term can be let us

definition of this term can be let us start by thinking of all the different

start by thinking of all the different

start by thinking of all the different ways we tend to use the term game there

ways we tend to use the term game there

ways we tend to use the term game there are of course traditional games that

are of course traditional games that

are of course traditional games that we’re all familiar with like Monopoly

we’re all familiar with like Monopoly

we’re all familiar with like Monopoly and chess there are also games for

and chess there are also games for

and chess there are also games for education there are simulation games

education there are simulation games

education there are simulation games games for change games for health life

games for change games for health life

games for change games for health life games there are augmented reality games

games there are augmented reality games

games there are augmented reality games alternate reality games we sometimes

alternate reality games we sometimes

alternate reality games we sometimes call the system a game you know you just

call the system a game you know you just

call the system a game you know you just have to suck it up and play the game

have to suck it up and play the game

have to suck it up and play the game what exactly do we mean by this Winston

what exactly do we mean by this Winston

what exactly do we mean by this Winston Churchill actually frequently referred

Churchill actually frequently referred

Churchill actually frequently referred to war as a game what did he mean

to war as a game what did he mean

to war as a game what did he mean there’s the entire study of game theory

there’s the entire study of game theory

there’s the entire study of game theory which has very little to do with games

which has very little to do with games

which has very little to do with games in the traditional sense and much more

in the traditional sense and much more

in the traditional sense and much more to do with rather serious issues like

to do with rather serious issues like

to do with rather serious issues like international diplomacy economics and

international diplomacy economics and

international diplomacy economics and war when we try and think about the

war when we try and think about the

war when we try and think about the common thread linking together all of

common thread linking together all of

common thread linking together all of these seemingly disparate activities

these seemingly disparate activities

these seemingly disparate activities it’s actually pretty difficult to

it’s actually pretty difficult to

it’s actually pretty difficult to identify because not all games take

identify because not all games take

identify because not all games take place on a field or on a board or on a

place on a field or on a board or on a

place on a field or on a board or on a table not all games use dice or cards or

table not all games use dice or cards or

table not all games use dice or cards or tokens games don’t all involve chance

tokens games don’t all involve chance

tokens games don’t all involve chance they don’t all require us to have skill

they don’t all require us to have skill

they don’t all require us to have skill games aren’t even all competitive we

games aren’t even all competitive we

games aren’t even all competitive we often think of this

often think of this

often think of this we think of games but actually there’s

we think of games but actually there’s

we think of games but actually there’s an entire branch of games called

an entire branch of games called

an entire branch of games called cooperative games we probably played

cooperative games we probably played

cooperative games we probably played charades or maybe Dungeons & Dragons and

charades or maybe Dungeons & Dragons and

charades or maybe Dungeons & Dragons and we know that some games have no winner

we know that some games have no winner

we know that some games have no winner have no loser but everyone is working

have no loser but everyone is working

have no loser but everyone is working together towards some common goal so no

together towards some common goal so no

together towards some common goal so no not all games are competitive not all

not all games are competitive not all

not all games are competitive not all games are even fun and there’s an entire

games are even fun and there’s an entire

games are even fun and there’s an entire field of games called games that aren’t

field of games called games that aren’t

field of games called games that aren’t fun which use the power of gameplay to

fun which use the power of gameplay to

fun which use the power of gameplay to explore ideas like mmm sexual harassment

explore ideas like mmm sexual harassment

explore ideas like mmm sexual harassment and infant mortality in fact when we say

and infant mortality in fact when we say

and infant mortality in fact when we say put your game face on we don’t mean to

put your game face on we don’t mean to

put your game face on we don’t mean to have more fun we need to have less fun

have more fun we need to have less fun

have more fun we need to have less fun to take the game more seriously so if

to take the game more seriously so if

to take the game more seriously so if games are not all fun if games are not

games are not all fun if games are not

games are not all fun if games are not all competitive what do we mean when we

all competitive what do we mean when we

all competitive what do we mean when we use the term game what elements are

use the term game what elements are

use the term game what elements are common to all games well maybe we could

common to all games well maybe we could

common to all games well maybe we could start here how about rules and an

start here how about rules and an

start here how about rules and an objective could we save it all games

objective could we save it all games

objective could we save it all games involve rules and an objective yeah okay

involve rules and an objective yeah okay

involve rules and an objective yeah okay so maybe at its simplest point we could

so maybe at its simplest point we could

so maybe at its simplest point we could say that a game is a set of rules

say that a game is a set of rules

say that a game is a set of rules defining the process of attaining and

defining the process of attaining and

defining the process of attaining and objective okay okay okay

objective okay okay okay

objective okay okay okay but um but we actually know that almost

but um but we actually know that almost

but um but we actually know that almost all of the activities we engage in

all of the activities we engage in

all of the activities we engage in everyday involve rules and objectives

everyday involve rules and objectives

everyday involve rules and objectives you know driving to work and following

you know driving to work and following

you know driving to work and following the rules of the road way baking a cake

the rules of the road way baking a cake

the rules of the road way baking a cake and following the recipe so what is it

and following the recipe so what is it

and following the recipe so what is it really that sets games apart from every

really that sets games apart from every

really that sets games apart from every other part of our life

other part of our life

other part of our life put simply what separates games from

put simply what separates games from

put simply what separates games from everything else is that the objective of

everything else is that the objective of

everything else is that the objective of a game is considered to be unimportant

a game is considered to be unimportant

a game is considered to be unimportant it’s considered to be immaterial inert

it’s considered to be immaterial inert

it’s considered to be immaterial inert outside of the game world isn’t it funny

outside of the game world isn’t it funny

outside of the game world isn’t it funny that we pretend we pretend that it

that we pretend we pretend that it

that we pretend we pretend that it really matters how many pins we knock

really matters how many pins we knock

really matters how many pins we knock down when we’re bowling or how close to

down when we’re bowling or how close to

down when we’re bowling or how close to the bullseye we’re able to get in a game

the bullseye we’re able to get in a game

the bullseye we’re able to get in a game of darts this objective is taken very

of darts this objective is taken very

of darts this objective is taken very seriously within the game world but is

seriously within the game world but is

seriously within the game world but is considered to be unimportant outside of

considered to be unimportant outside of

considered to be unimportant outside of the game world that’s a little closer

the game world that’s a little closer

the game world that’s a little closer okay uh but we actually know that there

okay uh but we actually know that there

okay uh but we actually know that there are many games that do substantially

are many games that do substantially

are many games that do substantially affect the real world I mean think about

affect the real world I mean think about

affect the real world I mean think about games that are used in educational

games that are used in educational

games that are used in educational settings they engage the students so

settings they engage the students so

settings they engage the students so much more and these do substantially

much more and these do substantially

much more and these do substantially affect the real world think about the

affect the real world think about the

affect the real world think about the simulation games that are used by

simulation games that are used by

simulation games that are used by soldiers or airline pilots or mmm

soldiers or airline pilots or mmm

soldiers or airline pilots or mmm surgeons these games significantly

surgeons these games significantly

surgeons these games significantly impact the real world there have been

impact the real world there have been

impact the real world there have been dozens of other Ted and TEDx talks given

dozens of other Ted and TEDx talks given

dozens of other Ted and TEDx talks given on the power of games to help cultivate

on the power of games to help cultivate

on the power of games to help cultivate creativity to help teach team-building

creativity to help teach team-building

creativity to help teach team-building skills and leadership and one TED talker

skills and leadership and one TED talker

skills and leadership and one TED talker argued to help bring about world peace

argued to help bring about world peace

argued to help bring about world peace so it’s not really fair to say that a

so it’s not really fair to say that a

so it’s not really fair to say that a game doesn’t affect reality this seems a

game doesn’t affect reality this seems a

game doesn’t affect reality this seems a bit like a paradox that the game’s

bit like a paradox that the game’s

bit like a paradox that the game’s objective is unimportant but the game

objective is unimportant but the game

objective is unimportant but the game itself is important right it doesn’t

itself is important right it doesn’t

itself is important right it doesn’t really matter if you can discard your

really matter if you can discard your

really matter if you can discard your hand first but it is important that

hand first but it is important that

hand first but it is important that we’re bonding with our friends that were

we’re bonding with our friends that were

we’re bonding with our friends that were relaxing this is the real-world benefit

relaxing this is the real-world benefit

relaxing this is the real-world benefit and you see here this paradox this is

and you see here this paradox this is

and you see here this paradox this is the fundamental reason why games are so

the fundamental reason why games are so

the fundamental reason why games are so misunderstood and why a definition of

misunderstood and why a definition of

misunderstood and why a definition of game is so elusive you see in games we

game is so elusive you see in games we

game is so elusive you see in games we actually find two different kinds of

actually find two different kinds of

actually find two different kinds of objectives most activities have one

objectives most activities have one

objectives most activities have one objective in games we find – in games we

objective in games we find – in games we

objective in games we find – in games we see the game world objective now this

see the game world objective now this

see the game world objective now this subjective is stated very clearly as the

subjective is stated very clearly as the

subjective is stated very clearly as the way you win the game something like yeah

way you win the game something like yeah

way you win the game something like yeah discard in your hand or crossing the

discard in your hand or crossing the

discard in your hand or crossing the finish line first

finish line first

finish line first during your opponent’s king we know that

during your opponent’s king we know that

during your opponent’s king we know that in the game world it’s taken very

in the game world it’s taken very

in the game world it’s taken very seriously but outside of the game world

seriously but outside of the game world

seriously but outside of the game world it doesn’t really matter and we use all

it doesn’t really matter and we use all

it doesn’t really matter and we use all of our intellectual strategy all of our

of our intellectual strategy all of our

of our intellectual strategy all of our intellectual strength all of our

intellectual strength all of our

intellectual strength all of our physical strength to reach this goal as

physical strength to reach this goal as

physical strength to reach this goal as quickly as efficiently and as directly

quickly as efficiently and as directly

quickly as efficiently and as directly as possible

as possible

as possible now contrast this with the second

now contrast this with the second

now contrast this with the second objective in games we find the

objective in games we find the

objective in games we find the real-world objective now this objective

real-world objective now this objective

real-world objective now this objective is actually not found in the rulebook it

is actually not found in the rulebook it

is actually not found in the rulebook it is not how you win the game something

is not how you win the game something

is not how you win the game something like having fun with your friends or

like having fun with your friends or

like having fun with your friends or bonding with them or relaxing or

bonding with them or relaxing or

bonding with them or relaxing or educating yourself about some topic this

educating yourself about some topic this

educating yourself about some topic this is not how you win the game

is not how you win the game

is not how you win the game it’s not required to win it’s not

it’s not required to win it’s not

it’s not required to win it’s not considered within the game worlds but it

considered within the game worlds but it

considered within the game worlds but it is considered to be important outside of

is considered to be important outside of

is considered to be important outside of the game world and is in fact the reason

the game world and is in fact the reason

the game world and is in fact the reason we play so we can say then that a game

we play so we can say then that a game

we play so we can say then that a game is a set of rules defining the process

is a set of rules defining the process

is a set of rules defining the process of attaining and objective that this

of attaining and objective that this

of attaining and objective that this objective is considered to be very

objective is considered to be very

objective is considered to be very important within the game world but is

important within the game world but is

important within the game world but is considered ultimately unimportant

considered ultimately unimportant

considered ultimately unimportant outside of the game world and this

outside of the game world and this

outside of the game world and this process indirectly yields unspoken

process indirectly yields unspoken

process indirectly yields unspoken real-world benefits okay so this

real-world benefits okay so this

real-world benefits okay so this objective this definition this actually

objective this definition this actually

objective this definition this actually takes into account all of the many

takes into account all of the many

takes into account all of the many varied ways we tend to use the term game

varied ways we tend to use the term game

varied ways we tend to use the term game but the question I’m really left with

but the question I’m really left with

but the question I’m really left with here is why what why do we do this why

here is why what why do we do this why

here is why what why do we do this why do we take this indirect route if we

do we take this indirect route if we

do we take this indirect route if we want to bond with our friends if we want

want to bond with our friends if we want

want to bond with our friends if we want to educate ourselves why not pursue

to educate ourselves why not pursue

to educate ourselves why not pursue these real-world goals directly why do

these real-world goals directly why do

these real-world goals directly why do we take this indirect route and the

we take this indirect route and the

we take this indirect route and the reason is something called the law of

reason is something called the law of

reason is something called the law of reversed

reversed

reversed effort you’ve probably experienced this

effort you’ve probably experienced this

effort you’ve probably experienced this in your own life before that sometimes

in your own life before that sometimes

in your own life before that sometimes the harder and more diligently we work

the harder and more diligently we work

the harder and more diligently we work towards some objective the less likely

towards some objective the less likely

towards some objective the less likely we are to achieve it think of sleep for

we are to achieve it think of sleep for

we are to achieve it think of sleep for instance if you’re lying in bed and

instance if you’re lying in bed and

instance if you’re lying in bed and you’re thinking I have to fall asleep I

you’re thinking I have to fall asleep I

you’re thinking I have to fall asleep I have to fall asleep I have to fall

have to fall asleep I have to fall

have to fall asleep I have to fall asleep you’re probably not going to fall

asleep you’re probably not going to fall

asleep you’re probably not going to fall asleep

asleep

asleep it’s much more effective for us to

it’s much more effective for us to

it’s much more effective for us to remove our focus from falling asleep

remove our focus from falling asleep

remove our focus from falling asleep remove that objective and put our focus

remove that objective and put our focus

remove that objective and put our focus on some other objectives some other

on some other objectives some other

on some other objectives some other process counting invisible sheep in our

process counting invisible sheep in our

process counting invisible sheep in our head or counting our breath right we

head or counting our breath right we

head or counting our breath right we could say the same of happiness if we

could say the same of happiness if we

could say the same of happiness if we try and force ourselves to be happy

try and force ourselves to be happy

try and force ourselves to be happy we’re gonna feel kind of miserable on

we’re gonna feel kind of miserable on

we’re gonna feel kind of miserable on the inside the same goes with fun if you

the inside the same goes with fun if you

the inside the same goes with fun if you try and force yourself to have fun even

try and force yourself to have fun even

try and force yourself to have fun even when playing a game if you’re forcing

when playing a game if you’re forcing

when playing a game if you’re forcing the fun on someone else the less fun

the fun on someone else the less fun

the fun on someone else the less fun you’re going to have the less fun other

you’re going to have the less fun other

you’re going to have the less fun other people are going to have creativity

people are going to have creativity

people are going to have creativity works in the same way if you force

works in the same way if you force

works in the same way if you force creativity you’ll end up with writer’s

creativity you’ll end up with writer’s

creativity you’ll end up with writer’s block we could say the same of

block we could say the same of

block we could say the same of friendship and finding romantic partners

friendship and finding romantic partners

friendship and finding romantic partners if you sit them down and say hi let me

if you sit them down and say hi let me

if you sit them down and say hi let me tell you everything about myself and you

tell you everything about myself and you

tell you everything about myself and you tell me everything about yourself and

tell me everything about yourself and

tell me everything about yourself and we’ll become friends it’s a little

we’ll become friends it’s a little

we’ll become friends it’s a little creepy right it’s much more effective if

creepy right it’s much more effective if

creepy right it’s much more effective if we involve ourselves in some other

we involve ourselves in some other

we involve ourselves in some other process we don’t even mention the fact

process we don’t even mention the fact

process we don’t even mention the fact that we’re trying to make friends that

that we’re trying to make friends that

that we’re trying to make friends that will scare them off we involve ourselves

will scare them off we involve ourselves

will scare them off we involve ourselves in some other process like fishing or

in some other process like fishing or

in some other process like fishing or bowling or playing cards or eating

bowling or playing cards or eating

bowling or playing cards or eating dinner or drinking alcohol we do

dinner or drinking alcohol we do

dinner or drinking alcohol we do something else and along the way

something else and along the way

something else and along the way indirectly we end up making friends or

indirectly we end up making friends or

indirectly we end up making friends or we end up finding a partner we could say

we end up finding a partner we could say

we end up finding a partner we could say the same thing about getting an erection

the same thing about getting an erection

the same thing about getting an erection that the more we try and force an

that the more we try and force an

that the more we try and force an erection the more leads to dysfunction

erection the more leads to dysfunction

erection the more leads to dysfunction and also if we’re lying in bed and

and also if we’re lying in bed and

and also if we’re lying in bed and thinking oh I have to orgasm I have to

thinking oh I have to orgasm I have to

thinking oh I have to orgasm I have to orgasm it’s probably not going to happen

orgasm it’s probably not going to happen

orgasm it’s probably not going to happen we need to remove our focus away from

we need to remove our focus away from

we need to remove our focus away from the erection away from the orgasm and on

the erection away from the orgasm and on

the erection away from the orgasm and on to some other process some other

to some other process some other

to some other process some other objective like our partner or some

objective like our partner or some

objective like our partner or some fantasy we have playing in our mind or

fantasy we have playing in our mind or

fantasy we have playing in our mind or some roleplay we’re in the middle of so

some roleplay we’re in the middle of so

some roleplay we’re in the middle of so we could say put it all together that a

we could say put it all together that a

we could say put it all together that a game is a set of rules defining the

game is a set of rules defining the

game is a set of rules defining the process of attaining an objective that

process of attaining an objective that

process of attaining an objective that this objective is considered to be

this objective is considered to be

this objective is considered to be important in the game world that we kind

important in the game world that we kind

important in the game world that we kind of pretend it’s important but we know

of pretend it’s important but we know

of pretend it’s important but we know that in the real world it is unimportant

that in the real world it is unimportant

that in the real world it is unimportant we can say that this process indirectly

we can say that this process indirectly

we can say that this process indirectly yields unspoken real

yields unspoken real

yields unspoken real benefits like friendship like relaxation

benefits like friendship like relaxation

benefits like friendship like relaxation like fun like education and that these

like fun like education and that these

like fun like education and that these games are played primarily to overcome

games are played primarily to overcome

games are played primarily to overcome the difficulties and consequences of

the difficulties and consequences of

the difficulties and consequences of pursuing certain real-world goals

pursuing certain real-world goals

pursuing certain real-world goals directly if we try to have fun if and

directly if we try to have fun if and

directly if we try to have fun if and try and educate ourselves to directly

try and educate ourselves to directly

try and educate ourselves to directly it’ll get scared off okay so this

it’ll get scared off okay so this

it’ll get scared off okay so this definition now lets us know what the

definition now lets us know what the

definition now lets us know what the great poets and sages meant when they

great poets and sages meant when they

great poets and sages meant when they told us to play life as a game well what

told us to play life as a game well what

told us to play life as a game well what would it mean to play life is a game

would it mean to play life is a game

would it mean to play life is a game first it would mean that ultimately the

first it would mean that ultimately the

first it would mean that ultimately the difference between a game and a non game

difference between a game and a non game

difference between a game and a non game has much more to do with a mindset than

has much more to do with a mindset than

has much more to do with a mindset than the actual activity and we can begin to

the actual activity and we can begin to

the actual activity and we can begin to cultivate this mindset first by

cultivate this mindset first by

cultivate this mindset first by recognizing that the objective of our

recognizing that the objective of our

recognizing that the objective of our life and the objective of the activities

life and the objective of the activities

life and the objective of the activities that make up our life are ultimately

that make up our life are ultimately

that make up our life are ultimately inconsequential outside of this game

inconsequential outside of this game

inconsequential outside of this game world I don’t think that anyone would

world I don’t think that anyone would

world I don’t think that anyone would disagree here it doesn’t really matter

disagree here it doesn’t really matter

disagree here it doesn’t really matter how much money you make or how big your

how much money you make or how big your

how much money you make or how big your house is it doesn’t really matter what

house is it doesn’t really matter what

house is it doesn’t really matter what your job is or how successful you are it

your job is or how successful you are it

your job is or how successful you are it doesn’t really matter the effect that

doesn’t really matter the effect that

doesn’t really matter the effect that you have on this little game world of

you have on this little game world of

you have on this little game world of ours the play life is a game would also

ours the play life is a game would also

ours the play life is a game would also mean to accept that the rules in this

mean to accept that the rules in this

mean to accept that the rules in this game world are equally inconsequential

game world are equally inconsequential

game world are equally inconsequential that it doesn’t really matter if you use

that it doesn’t really matter if you use

that it doesn’t really matter if you use an Oxford comma it doesn’t really matter

an Oxford comma it doesn’t really matter

an Oxford comma it doesn’t really matter if you comb your hair or if you tuck in

if you comb your hair or if you tuck in

if you comb your hair or if you tuck in your shirt if you brush your teeth at

your shirt if you brush your teeth at

your shirt if you brush your teeth at night it doesn’t really matter if you

night it doesn’t really matter if you

night it doesn’t really matter if you obey the law the laws of this little

obey the law the laws of this little

obey the law the laws of this little game world were in let me be clear here

game world were in let me be clear here

game world were in let me be clear here though the great sages and poets they

though the great sages and poets they

though the great sages and poets they were not advising Anarchy they were not

were not advising Anarchy they were not

were not advising Anarchy they were not telling us to see life is a game and

telling us to see life is a game and

telling us to see life is a game and then to throw away the game to quit to

then to throw away the game to quit to

then to throw away the game to quit to be a spoil sport for everyone else and

be a spoil sport for everyone else and

be a spoil sport for everyone else and to knock the Monopoly board over No

to knock the Monopoly board over No

to knock the Monopoly board over No they advised us to be fully engaged in

they advised us to be fully engaged in

they advised us to be fully engaged in the game to pursue our objectives

the game to pursue our objectives

the game to pursue our objectives fierceful e to play by the rules

fierceful e to play by the rules

fierceful e to play by the rules diligently to meet our obstacles

diligently to meet our obstacles

diligently to meet our obstacles courageously because ultimately we will

courageously because ultimately we will

courageously because ultimately we will play the game anyway even though we are

play the game anyway even though we are

play the game anyway even though we are able to recognize it as a game because

able to recognize it as a game because

able to recognize it as a game because it’s not about the objectives it’s about

it’s not about the objectives it’s about

it’s not about the objectives it’s about the journey

the journey

the journey and these objectives these rules these

and these objectives these rules these

and these objectives these rules these obstacles this competition

obstacles this competition

obstacles this competition they provide the framework for this

they provide the framework for this

they provide the framework for this journey for this experience for this

journey for this experience for this

journey for this experience for this adventure called life that we are all

adventure called life that we are all

adventure called life that we are all going on together to play the game of

going on together to play the game of

going on together to play the game of life means to recognize that we are all

life means to recognize that we are all

life means to recognize that we are all playing a role and that others are

playing a role and that others are

playing a role and that others are playing roles too and we can play these

playing roles too and we can play these

playing roles too and we can play these roles very seriously within the world of

roles very seriously within the world of

roles very seriously within the world of this game while recognizing that

this game while recognizing that

this game while recognizing that underneath of this mask there we are a

underneath of this mask there we are a

underneath of this mask there we are a part of something so much bigger than

part of something so much bigger than

part of something so much bigger than just this role the most beautiful part

just this role the most beautiful part

just this role the most beautiful part of any game comes at the very end when

of any game comes at the very end when

of any game comes at the very end when the two opposing sides come together and

the two opposing sides come together and

the two opposing sides come together and meet in the middle

meet in the middle

meet in the middle for handshake and this ritual symbolizes

for handshake and this ritual symbolizes

for handshake and this ritual symbolizes that the competition existed only within

that the competition existed only within

that the competition existed only within the world of the game and that

the world of the game and that

the world of the game and that regardless of who won or who lost we are

regardless of who won or who lost we are

regardless of who won or who lost we are really all equals and that we are really

really all equals and that we are really

really all equals and that we are really in this together we all want genuine

in this together we all want genuine

in this together we all want genuine connections with other human beings and

connections with other human beings and

connections with other human beings and there really is so much love radiating

there really is so much love radiating

there really is so much love radiating between all of us but so often we let

between all of us but so often we let

between all of us but so often we let the games that we play get in the way

the games that we play get in the way

the games that we play get in the way identifying with these roles we play

identifying with these roles we play

identifying with these roles we play separates us taking this competition too

separates us taking this competition too

separates us taking this competition too seriously it blinds us to play life as a

seriously it blinds us to play life as a

seriously it blinds us to play life as a game needs to see through the veil to

game needs to see through the veil to

game needs to see through the veil to see

see

see the illusions and to recognize that we

the illusions and to recognize that we

the illusions and to recognize that we are really in this together thank

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