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why horses make the best coaches horses

why horses make the best coaches horses are the most unbelievable experience if

are the most unbelievable experience if

are the most unbelievable experience if you have the opportunity to be with them

you have the opportunity to be with them

you have the opportunity to be with them or have been with them you’ll understand

or have been with them you’ll understand

or have been with them you’ll understand why they create a sense of joy awareness

why they create a sense of joy awareness

why they create a sense of joy awareness being present in the moment it’s just an

being present in the moment it’s just an

being present in the moment it’s just an amazing opportunity versus have been my

amazing opportunity versus have been my

amazing opportunity versus have been my coaches since day one actually year five

coaches since day one actually year five

coaches since day one actually year five at the age of five I was given a really

at the age of five I was given a really

at the age of five I was given a really amazing opportunity by my parents to

amazing opportunity by my parents to

amazing opportunity by my parents to either choose getting a first pony we’re

either choose getting a first pony we’re

either choose getting a first pony we’re going to Hebrew school so I’m a really

going to Hebrew school so I’m a really

going to Hebrew school so I’m a really smart kid and I chose the pony and I

smart kid and I chose the pony and I

smart kid and I chose the pony and I clearly think that my parents wanted the

clearly think that my parents wanted the

clearly think that my parents wanted the pony as well so a pony it was at age

pony as well so a pony it was at age

pony as well so a pony it was at age five and along with that awesome gift

five and along with that awesome gift

five and along with that awesome gift was a responsibility that came along

was a responsibility that came along

was a responsibility that came along with it a routine that was immediately

with it a routine that was immediately

with it a routine that was immediately established of having to feed this pony

established of having to feed this pony

established of having to feed this pony having to care for the pony having to

having to care for the pony having to

having to care for the pony having to create a relationship with this pony

create a relationship with this pony

create a relationship with this pony getting exercise it was my best friend

getting exercise it was my best friend

getting exercise it was my best friend huff and puff huffy puffy was in my

huff and puff huffy puffy was in my

huff and puff huffy puffy was in my backyard and I had to take care of her

backyard and I had to take care of her

backyard and I had to take care of her so this was the basis of my first

so this was the basis of my first

so this was the basis of my first relationships my best friend’s I didn’t

relationships my best friend’s I didn’t

relationships my best friend’s I didn’t really need the other kids I went off

really need the other kids I went off

really need the other kids I went off into the woods with the pony met some of

into the woods with the pony met some of

into the woods with the pony met some of the other kids who rode but that pony

the other kids who rode but that pony

the other kids who rode but that pony was really who I told my stories to who

was really who I told my stories to who

was really who I told my stories to who understood me and all without language

understood me and all without language

understood me and all without language so it was a really interesting

so it was a really interesting

so it was a really interesting interaction to begin with horses have

interaction to begin with horses have

interaction to begin with horses have been part of my life and then my coaches

been part of my life and then my coaches

been part of my life and then my coaches since that age I rode through high

since that age I rode through high

since that age I rode through high school a young girl in high school

school a young girl in high school

school a young girl in high school usually has a tough time dealing with

usually has a tough time dealing with

usually has a tough time dealing with social situations and body image and and

social situations and body image and and

social situations and body image and and how they feel and the horse never

how they feel and the horse never

how they feel and the horse never represented that to me there was never a

represented that to me there was never a

represented that to me there was never a question there was never a judgment it

question there was never a judgment it

question there was never a judgment it was just who i was at the moment and

was just who i was at the moment and

was just who i was at the moment and that’s how we went on so that was

that’s how we went on so that was

that’s how we went on so that was through my high school years in college

through my high school years in college

through my high school years in college I was presented with a really other

I was presented with a really other

I was presented with a really other great choice and I feel like my life has

great choice and I feel like my life has

great choice and I feel like my life has just been a set of choices and I feel

just been a set of choices and I feel

just been a set of choices and I feel like the horses have helped guide me

like the horses have helped guide me

like the horses have helped guide me into the right choice I went to a school

into the right choice I went to a school

into the right choice I went to a school in New York City and obviously not a lot

in New York City and obviously not a lot

in New York City and obviously not a lot of horses in New York City so what does

of horses in New York City so what does

of horses in New York City so what does someone do who’s had horses in their

someone do who’s had horses in their

someone do who’s had horses in their life the whole time you start an

life the whole time you start an

life the whole time you start an equestrian team so I started an

equestrian team so I started an

equestrian team so I started an equestrian team in New York City so I

equestrian team in New York City so I

equestrian team in New York City so I the best of both worlds I was able to

the best of both worlds I was able to

the best of both worlds I was able to enjoy Manhattan for all of its its

enjoy Manhattan for all of its its

enjoy Manhattan for all of its its excitement and all of its opportunities

excitement and all of its opportunities

excitement and all of its opportunities but several times a week a group of

but several times a week a group of

but several times a week a group of like-minded horse equestrian thusi assts

like-minded horse equestrian thusi assts

like-minded horse equestrian thusi assts would go out and find barnes around the

would go out and find barnes around the

would go out and find barnes around the metropolitan new york city area we we

metropolitan new york city area we we

metropolitan new york city area we we had an equestrian team and that was

had an equestrian team and that was

had an equestrian team and that was great that kept me grounded again when

great that kept me grounded again when

great that kept me grounded again when things got tough and things were

things got tough and things were

things got tough and things were difficult I was able to communicate with

difficult I was able to communicate with

difficult I was able to communicate with that horse next stage in my life when

that horse next stage in my life when

that horse next stage in my life when picking a career I chose social services

picking a career I chose social services

picking a career I chose social services there was something about giving back

there was something about giving back

there was something about giving back and being part of a community and part

and being part of a community and part

and being part of a community and part of understanding someone’s journey in

of understanding someone’s journey in

of understanding someone’s journey in life was really intriguing to me so I

life was really intriguing to me so I

life was really intriguing to me so I pursued social services first in refugee

pursued social services first in refugee

pursued social services first in refugee processing studying Russian language

processing studying Russian language

processing studying Russian language which is really key to being working

which is really key to being working

which is really key to being working with horses but then that just led me

with horses but then that just led me

with horses but then that just led me into understanding social services and

into understanding social services and

into understanding social services and interacting with individuals and a

interacting with individuals and a

interacting with individuals and a career in getting a master’s in social

career in getting a master’s in social

career in getting a master’s in social work and as a social worker I learned

work and as a social worker I learned

work and as a social worker I learned the art of facilitation and coaching and

the art of facilitation and coaching and

the art of facilitation and coaching and again with the horses not really knowing

again with the horses not really knowing

again with the horses not really knowing that they served as my coach I used that

that they served as my coach I used that

that they served as my coach I used that as my guide in my work as a social

as my guide in my work as a social

as my guide in my work as a social worker I was in placed in schools with

worker I was in placed in schools with

worker I was in placed in schools with children with special needs and that was

children with special needs and that was

children with special needs and that was my work for several years at the same

my work for several years at the same

my work for several years at the same time I was married and having children

time I was married and having children

time I was married and having children and in the course of raising my children

and in the course of raising my children

and in the course of raising my children by three beautiful daughters one

by three beautiful daughters one

by three beautiful daughters one presented with very minor special needs

presented with very minor special needs

presented with very minor special needs something called sensory integration

something called sensory integration

something called sensory integration dysfunction and what that really is in a

dysfunction and what that really is in a

dysfunction and what that really is in a nutshell is kind of a lack of ability to

nutshell is kind of a lack of ability to

nutshell is kind of a lack of ability to receive information and stimuli from the

receive information and stimuli from the

receive information and stimuli from the environment in an appropriate way and it

environment in an appropriate way and it

environment in an appropriate way and it can manifest itself in potentially

can manifest itself in potentially

can manifest itself in potentially learning disabilities in social skill

learning disabilities in social skill

learning disabilities in social skill struggles and challenges so we

struggles and challenges so we

struggles and challenges so we immediately sought out because I was in

immediately sought out because I was in

immediately sought out because I was in the biz we sought out different

the biz we sought out different

the biz we sought out different therapies and we did everything we could

therapies and we did everything we could

therapies and we did everything we could for my daughter to make sure that she

for my daughter to make sure that she

for my daughter to make sure that she was on the road to meeting her

was on the road to meeting her

was on the road to meeting her challenges but she flat told with the

challenges but she flat told with the

challenges but she flat told with the traditional therapies the traditional

traditional therapies the traditional

traditional therapies the traditional therapies were really great but she

therapies were really great but she

therapies were really great but she plateaued so in my own research I came

plateaued so in my own research I came

plateaued so in my own research I came across something called therapeutic

across something called therapeutic

across something called therapeutic riding and of course it had horse

riding and of course it had horse

riding and of course it had horse in the title and that was an immediate

in the title and that was an immediate

in the title and that was an immediate draw from me so I got myself certified

draw from me so I got myself certified

draw from me so I got myself certified as a therapeutic riding instructor

as a therapeutic riding instructor

as a therapeutic riding instructor having a background in horseback riding

having a background in horseback riding

having a background in horseback riding and also a degree in social work and

and also a degree in social work and

and also a degree in social work and aside from it being a great next

aside from it being a great next

aside from it being a great next potential step in my career it allowed

potential step in my career it allowed

potential step in my career it allowed me to convince my husband that we could

me to convince my husband that we could

me to convince my husband that we could in fact buy a horse because it was

in fact buy a horse because it was

in fact buy a horse because it was helping our daughter so next good choice

helping our daughter so next good choice

helping our daughter so next good choice in my life was getting a horse finding a

in my life was getting a horse finding a

in my life was getting a horse finding a barn in paramus which is the town we are

barn in paramus which is the town we are

barn in paramus which is the town we are right now and helping my daughter with

right now and helping my daughter with

right now and helping my daughter with her sensory integration dysfunction

her sensory integration dysfunction

her sensory integration dysfunction through being with horses on the back of

through being with horses on the back of

through being with horses on the back of horses and it was transformative for her

horses and it was transformative for her

horses and it was transformative for her and I’ll explain a little bit why in a

and I’ll explain a little bit why in a

and I’ll explain a little bit why in a minute as I go through some of the

minute as I go through some of the

minute as I go through some of the reasons why horses provides such great

reasons why horses provides such great

reasons why horses provides such great coaching opportunities so we went on and

coaching opportunities so we went on and

coaching opportunities so we went on and we tried to work with other students

we tried to work with other students

we tried to work with other students from my private practice and from the

from my private practice and from the

from my private practice and from the schools that we were working in and it

schools that we were working in and it

schools that we were working in and it was unbelievable the effect that horses

was unbelievable the effect that horses

was unbelievable the effect that horses and the farm had on so many with so many

and the farm had on so many with so many

and the farm had on so many with so many different challenges so we went then

different challenges so we went then

different challenges so we went then made the next best decision I think in

made the next best decision I think in

made the next best decision I think in my life was you know I think we can own

my life was you know I think we can own

my life was you know I think we can own a farm and I think if we owned a farm we

a farm and I think if we owned a farm we

a farm and I think if we owned a farm we could set up a program that really could

could set up a program that really could

could set up a program that really could explore why horses make such a

explore why horses make such a

explore why horses make such a difference and why they’re great coaches

difference and why they’re great coaches

difference and why they’re great coaches in individuals lives maybe not just for

in individuals lives maybe not just for

in individuals lives maybe not just for myself or for my daughter but for other

myself or for my daughter but for other

myself or for my daughter but for other people who might be struggling with

people who might be struggling with

people who might be struggling with their challenges as well so we bought a

their challenges as well so we bought a

their challenges as well so we bought a farm and occurrent Lee I live with aside

farm and occurrent Lee I live with aside

farm and occurrent Lee I live with aside from my husband and my three daughters

from my husband and my three daughters

from my husband and my three daughters who are now often college but I live

who are now often college but I live

who are now often college but I live with 21 horses for goats two pigs a cat

with 21 horses for goats two pigs a cat

with 21 horses for goats two pigs a cat three dogs and several tens of thousands

three dogs and several tens of thousands

three dogs and several tens of thousands of bees because we’re beekeepers right

of bees because we’re beekeepers right

of bees because we’re beekeepers right here in Bergen County and it’s a

here in Bergen County and it’s a

here in Bergen County and it’s a wonderful life and that sense of

wonderful life and that sense of

wonderful life and that sense of responsibility and taking care of

responsibility and taking care of

responsibility and taking care of animals and schedule and purpose and

animals and schedule and purpose and

animals and schedule and purpose and being out in nature that it has five

being out in nature that it has five

being out in nature that it has five year old is back in my life now and at

year old is back in my life now and at

year old is back in my life now and at this point we’re seeing probably several

this point we’re seeing probably several

this point we’re seeing probably several hundred people a week on our farm

hundred people a week on our farm

hundred people a week on our farm ranging in age from two and a half up to

ranging in age from two and a half up to

ranging in age from two and a half up to 88 because there really is no better

88 because there really is no better

88 because there really is no better match I think for coaching people to get

match I think for coaching people to get

match I think for coaching people to get to their best level then through horses

to their best level then through horses

to their best level then through horses are being on the farm and here’s why I

are being on the farm and here’s why I

are being on the farm and here’s why I what I’m thinking about as I go through

what I’m thinking about as I go through

what I’m thinking about as I go through this journey basically we have I’m a

this journey basically we have I’m a

this journey basically we have I’m a social worker so you have two adult

social worker so you have two adult

social worker so you have two adult me on this hierarchy of needs which is a

me on this hierarchy of needs which is a

me on this hierarchy of needs which is a pretty readily accepted structure of

pretty readily accepted structure of

pretty readily accepted structure of what humans need in life skills and

what humans need in life skills and

what humans need in life skills and behavior to be successful and you really

behavior to be successful and you really

behavior to be successful and you really need to have that foundation first so

need to have that foundation first so

need to have that foundation first so that bottom foundation that

that bottom foundation that

that bottom foundation that physiological response or needs are

physiological response or needs are

physiological response or needs are basic food water air I can kind of go on

basic food water air I can kind of go on

basic food water air I can kind of go on and be political with the environment

and be political with the environment

and be political with the environment but I’m not going to go there the next

but I’m not going to go there the next

but I’m not going to go there the next level would be safety and awareness and

level would be safety and awareness and

level would be safety and awareness and that represents your your housing your

that represents your your housing your

that represents your your housing your shelter in the horse world represent

shelter in the horse world represent

shelter in the horse world represent fencing to keep horses safe the next

fencing to keep horses safe the next

fencing to keep horses safe the next piece would be kind of belonging to a

piece would be kind of belonging to a

piece would be kind of belonging to a group and humans really need to be part

group and humans really need to be part

group and humans really need to be part of a group whether it’s a family or a

of a group whether it’s a family or a

of a group whether it’s a family or a community or some other group that you

community or some other group that you

community or some other group that you affiliate with and horses exactly need

affiliate with and horses exactly need

affiliate with and horses exactly need the same horses are animals who live in

the same horses are animals who live in

the same horses are animals who live in a herd they don’t do well alone that’s

a herd they don’t do well alone that’s

a herd they don’t do well alone that’s why we have 21 one horse alone would be

why we have 21 one horse alone would be

why we have 21 one horse alone would be very sad and lonely one goat alone would

very sad and lonely one goat alone would

very sad and lonely one goat alone would be very sad and lonely one Pig alone

be very sad and lonely one Pig alone

be very sad and lonely one Pig alone would be very sad and lonely so we live

would be very sad and lonely so we live

would be very sad and lonely so we live in a group and the next level once you

in a group and the next level once you

in a group and the next level once you have that group is then you have to find

have that group is then you have to find

have that group is then you have to find your place in that group your purpose in

your place in that group your purpose in

your place in that group your purpose in the group again humans need a purpose

the group again humans need a purpose

the group again humans need a purpose but the animals need a purpose as well

but the animals need a purpose as well

but the animals need a purpose as well and when we observe our animals on the

and when we observe our animals on the

and when we observe our animals on the farm especially our horses there’s a

farm especially our horses there’s a

farm especially our horses there’s a clear role that each animal plays in

clear role that each animal plays in

clear role that each animal plays in that heard they don’t use language so

that heard they don’t use language so

that heard they don’t use language so you really have to interpret their

you really have to interpret their

you really have to interpret their behaviors they don’t use words that

behaviors they don’t use words that

behaviors they don’t use words that could hurt they don’t judge they don’t

could hurt they don’t judge they don’t

could hurt they don’t judge they don’t understand color of skin they don’t

understand color of skin they don’t

understand color of skin they don’t understand what’s in your bank account

understand what’s in your bank account

understand what’s in your bank account they don’t really care what political

they don’t really care what political

they don’t really care what political party you in you’re in that’s where they

party you in you’re in that’s where they

party you in you’re in that’s where they come at you so they established their

come at you so they established their

come at you so they established their roles in their in their her so there’s a

roles in their in their her so there’s a

roles in their in their her so there’s a dominance there’s someone who’s a

dominance there’s someone who’s a

dominance there’s someone who’s a follower where there’s a caretaker

follower where there’s a caretaker

follower where there’s a caretaker pretty much what you would see in human

pretty much what you would see in human

pretty much what you would see in human behavior and then from that level you

behavior and then from that level you

behavior and then from that level you reach that pinnacle which is really

reach that pinnacle which is really

reach that pinnacle which is really happiness you’ve arrived that’s

happiness you’ve arrived that’s

happiness you’ve arrived that’s self-actualization and I would argue

self-actualization and I would argue

self-actualization and I would argue that the horses demonstrate that as well

that the horses demonstrate that as well

that the horses demonstrate that as well so our hierarchy of needs as humans I

so our hierarchy of needs as humans I

so our hierarchy of needs as humans I would suggest are the same as those for

would suggest are the same as those for

would suggest are the same as those for horses and what a great way to introduce

horses and what a great way to introduce

horses and what a great way to introduce and coach someone especially as a social

and coach someone especially as a social

and coach someone especially as a social worker to what that may look like and

worker to what that may look like and

worker to what that may look like and what that may represent without words

what that may represent without words

what that may represent without words but really from visual from a feeling

but really from visual from a feeling

but really from visual from a feeling and from a being present in the moment

and from a being present in the moment

and from a being present in the moment perspective so that piece again great

perspective so that piece again great

perspective so that piece again great way to be working with someone

way to be working with someone

way to be working with someone to talk about what you really need a

to talk about what you really need a

to talk about what you really need a life and I would argue that those those

life and I would argue that those those

life and I would argue that those those basic needs once they’re met we really

basic needs once they’re met we really

basic needs once they’re met we really don’t need anything else the next piece

don’t need anything else the next piece

don’t need anything else the next piece why I would argue why horses make the

why I would argue why horses make the

why I would argue why horses make the best coaches is this sensory rich diet

best coaches is this sensory rich diet

best coaches is this sensory rich diet that they provide and we share this with

that they provide and we share this with

that they provide and we share this with the horses as well I would probably

the horses as well I would probably

the horses as well I would probably suggest you would share it with others

suggest you would share it with others

suggest you would share it with others but this is my area of expertise so what

but this is my area of expertise so what

but this is my area of expertise so what are our senses most of us really think

are our senses most of us really think

are our senses most of us really think about the five senses which is sight

about the five senses which is sight

about the five senses which is sight sound smell taste touch those are the

sound smell taste touch those are the

sound smell taste touch those are the ones that we pretty much readily think

ones that we pretty much readily think

ones that we pretty much readily think about but there are two others and

about but there are two others and

about but there are two others and they’re called vestibular input and

they’re called vestibular input and

they’re called vestibular input and proprioceptive input and vestibular

proprioceptive input and vestibular

proprioceptive input and vestibular input is really I’m not going to get too

input is really I’m not going to get too

input is really I’m not going to get too technical but the inner ear channels and

technical but the inner ear channels and

technical but the inner ear channels and the fluids and that is what helps you

the fluids and that is what helps you

the fluids and that is what helps you with balance and then the proprioceptive

with balance and then the proprioceptive

with balance and then the proprioceptive input is what helps you with posture and

input is what helps you with posture and

input is what helps you with posture and that’s kind of how your body once you

that’s kind of how your body once you

that’s kind of how your body once you have the balance how you stand up so

have the balance how you stand up so

have the balance how you stand up so there’s these two other senses and I

there’s these two other senses and I

there’s these two other senses and I would argue aside from your hierarchy of

would argue aside from your hierarchy of

would argue aside from your hierarchy of needs when these seven senses are

needs when these seven senses are

needs when these seven senses are fulfilled in an appropriate way

fulfilled in an appropriate way

fulfilled in an appropriate way everything comes together and you can

everything comes together and you can

everything comes together and you can get to that level of self-actualization

get to that level of self-actualization

get to that level of self-actualization so why horses the horses are just an

so why horses the horses are just an

so why horses the horses are just an amazing experience of melding these two

amazing experience of melding these two

amazing experience of melding these two area of needs together you can represent

area of needs together you can represent

area of needs together you can represent and you can see from a from a nonverbal

and you can see from a from a nonverbal

and you can see from a from a nonverbal perspective and interacting with the

perspective and interacting with the

perspective and interacting with the horses how those hierarchy of needs are

horses how those hierarchy of needs are

horses how those hierarchy of needs are met but from the sensory perspective

met but from the sensory perspective

met but from the sensory perspective what an incredible opportunity for

what an incredible opportunity for

what an incredible opportunity for someone who might be struggling with a

someone who might be struggling with a

someone who might be struggling with a communication disorder someone who may

communication disorder someone who may

communication disorder someone who may not be able to articulate words where

not be able to articulate words where

not be able to articulate words where words won’t really matter the horses not

words won’t really matter the horses not

words won’t really matter the horses not judging you on that someone who might be

judging you on that someone who might be

judging you on that someone who might be in a wheelchair some of our

in a wheelchair some of our

in a wheelchair some of our opportunities on the farmer to put

opportunities on the farmer to put

opportunities on the farmer to put someone who may not be able to walk but

someone who may not be able to walk but

someone who may not be able to walk but can ride and the input from the horse

can ride and the input from the horse

can ride and the input from the horse when you’re sitting on the back is the

when you’re sitting on the back is the

when you’re sitting on the back is the same as human gait so imagine for your

same as human gait so imagine for your

same as human gait so imagine for your second imagine for a second the spine of

second imagine for a second the spine of

second imagine for a second the spine of the horse is aligned with the spine and

the horse is aligned with the spine and

the horse is aligned with the spine and the rider with their staff of people

the rider with their staff of people

the rider with their staff of people around them and the horse is moving and

around them and the horse is moving and

around them and the horse is moving and you’re sitting on the back of the horse

you’re sitting on the back of the horse

you’re sitting on the back of the horse and you’re moving the input is exactly

and you’re moving the input is exactly

and you’re moving the input is exactly the same as human Gaiden that’s been

the same as human Gaiden that’s been

the same as human Gaiden that’s been proven scientifically what’s so amazing

proven scientifically what’s so amazing

proven scientifically what’s so amazing is aside from the movement

is aside from the movement

is aside from the movement the visual experience of what you’re

the visual experience of what you’re

the visual experience of what you’re seeing you’re addressing all these other

seeing you’re addressing all these other

seeing you’re addressing all these other senses because your body is moving and

senses because your body is moving and

senses because your body is moving and rocking and getting all of that input so

rocking and getting all of that input so

rocking and getting all of that input so again it’s just incredible experience of

again it’s just incredible experience of

again it’s just incredible experience of movement of being present in the moment

movement of being present in the moment

movement of being present in the moment something that you can achieve through

something that you can achieve through

something that you can achieve through yoga and meditation and some would argue

yoga and meditation and some would argue

yoga and meditation and some would argue for medication and I’m going to suggest

for medication and I’m going to suggest

for medication and I’m going to suggest that at the at the farm whether on a

that at the at the farm whether on a

that at the at the farm whether on a horse or next to a horse you’re going to

horse or next to a horse you’re going to

horse or next to a horse you’re going to achieve the same goals so the benefits

achieve the same goals so the benefits

achieve the same goals so the benefits are endless we cannot find yet all the

are endless we cannot find yet all the

are endless we cannot find yet all the benefits that are happening at the farm

benefits that are happening at the farm

benefits that are happening at the farm and who may benefit I would argue that

and who may benefit I would argue that

and who may benefit I would argue that anyone has the potential to benefit from

anyone has the potential to benefit from

anyone has the potential to benefit from being on the farm being with the horses

being on the farm being with the horses

being on the farm being with the horses in this sensory rich diet especially in

in this sensory rich diet especially in

in this sensory rich diet especially in this day and age where we are so

this day and age where we are so

this day and age where we are so concerned with our politics our race our

concerned with our politics our race our

concerned with our politics our race our religion our economics our clothes our

religion our economics our clothes our

religion our economics our clothes our status the horses don’t care everyone

status the horses don’t care everyone

status the horses don’t care everyone who comes to the farm is on the same

who comes to the farm is on the same

who comes to the farm is on the same playing field you’re coming at the farm

playing field you’re coming at the farm

playing field you’re coming at the farm authentically at that moment with all of

authentically at that moment with all of

authentically at that moment with all of your energy with all of your stuff and

your energy with all of your stuff and

your energy with all of your stuff and the animal is reacting to you as you are

the animal is reacting to you as you are

the animal is reacting to you as you are and what a great opportunity for you to

and what a great opportunity for you to

and what a great opportunity for you to be your authentic self and i would

be your authentic self and i would

be your authentic self and i would suggest as a social worker as a coach

suggest as a social worker as a coach

suggest as a social worker as a coach nothing that i’m going to say is ever

nothing that i’m going to say is ever

nothing that i’m going to say is ever going to change someone but facilitating

going to change someone but facilitating

going to change someone but facilitating experiences through being on the farm

experiences through being on the farm

experiences through being on the farm being next to the horse is going to be

being next to the horse is going to be

being next to the horse is going to be something that is going to potentially

something that is going to potentially

something that is going to potentially be transformative where you can be

be transformative where you can be

be transformative where you can be yourself what better coach is going to

yourself what better coach is going to

yourself what better coach is going to suggest to you that you have to have

suggest to you that you have to have

suggest to you that you have to have balance posture and attention you have

balance posture and attention you have

balance posture and attention you have to be aware you have to try and have joy

to be aware you have to try and have joy

to be aware you have to try and have joy of what you’re doing there’s movement

of what you’re doing there’s movement

of what you’re doing there’s movement there’s forward movement momentum

there’s forward movement momentum

there’s forward movement momentum there’s feeling good about yourself and

there’s feeling good about yourself and

there’s feeling good about yourself and that is why I think horses make the best

that is why I think horses make the best

that is why I think horses make the best coaches thank

coaches thank

coaches thank [Applause]

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