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Why Gender Equality is Not Enough | Avis Jones DeWeever | TEDxWilmingtonWomen


my mother often

my mother often a story about a day in her childhood

a story about a day in her childhood

a story about a day in her childhood that quite literally changed the very

that quite literally changed the very

that quite literally changed the very trajectory of her life it started out as

trajectory of her life it started out as

trajectory of her life it started out as a normal day not unlike any other for a

a normal day not unlike any other for a

a normal day not unlike any other for a bright precocious little black girl

bright precocious little black girl

bright precocious little black girl growing up in the Jim Crow South but on

growing up in the Jim Crow South but on

growing up in the Jim Crow South but on this day something different happened

this day something different happened

this day something different happened her father received a very special visit

her father received a very special visit

her father received a very special visit it was a familiar face a white man

it was a familiar face a white man

it was a familiar face a white man someone she’d seen before but on this

someone she’d seen before but on this

someone she’d seen before but on this day it soon became apparent that

day it soon became apparent that

day it soon became apparent that something wasn’t quite right

something wasn’t quite right

something wasn’t quite right the conversation between the two men

the conversation between the two men

the conversation between the two men were shall we say a bit more intense

were shall we say a bit more intense

were shall we say a bit more intense than normal and then she heard it her

than normal and then she heard it her

than normal and then she heard it her father’s voice rose up bold and resolute

father’s voice rose up bold and resolute

father’s voice rose up bold and resolute yet calm and firm when he said quite

yet calm and firm when he said quite

yet calm and firm when he said quite matter-of-factly I didn’t raise any

matter-of-factly I didn’t raise any

matter-of-factly I didn’t raise any daughters to work in a white man’s

daughters to work in a white man’s

daughters to work in a white man’s kitchen with that the two men parted and

kitchen with that the two men parted and

kitchen with that the two men parted and my mother’s path to leadership began you

my mother’s path to leadership began you

my mother’s path to leadership began you know it’s certainly true that as 21st

know it’s certainly true that as 21st

know it’s certainly true that as 21st century black women we have infinitely

century black women we have infinitely

century black women we have infinitely more choices and opportunities than

more choices and opportunities than

more choices and opportunities than those that were commonly conferred to

those that were commonly conferred to

those that were commonly conferred to our mothers and our grandmothers and

our mothers and our grandmothers and

our mothers and our grandmothers and certainly those that came many

certainly those that came many

certainly those that came many generations before but as much as things

generations before but as much as things

generations before but as much as things have changed

have changed

have changed so many other things have remained

so many other things have remained

so many other things have remained stubbornly the same and if there is one

stubbornly the same and if there is one

stubbornly the same and if there is one thing that has been absolutely

thing that has been absolutely

thing that has been absolutely consistent throughout the black woman’s

consistent throughout the black woman’s

consistent throughout the black woman’s experience in America it is this black

experience in America it is this black

experience in America it is this black women work it didn’t take a woman’s

women work it didn’t take a woman’s

women work it didn’t take a woman’s movement to infuse us into America’s

movement to infuse us into America’s

movement to infuse us into America’s labor market we’ve been here all along

labor market we’ve been here all along

labor market we’ve been here all along and it’s here we remain to this very day

and it’s here we remain to this very day

and it’s here we remain to this very day we are still more likely than any other

we are still more likely than any other

we are still more likely than any other women in America to work but despite our

women in America to work but despite our

women in America to work but despite our drive despite our determination despite

drive despite our determination despite

drive despite our determination despite our loyalty to America’s labor market

our loyalty to America’s labor market

our loyalty to America’s labor market the fact remains that our ability to

the fact remains that our ability to

the fact remains that our ability to ascend to official spaces of Lee

ascend to official spaces of Lee

ascend to official spaces of Lee ship are exceedingly rare and it’s not

ship are exceedingly rare and it’s not

ship are exceedingly rare and it’s not because at some place that we don’t want

because at some place that we don’t want

because at some place that we don’t want to be according to McKinsey and company

to be according to McKinsey and company

to be according to McKinsey and company and others quite frankly black women are

and others quite frankly black women are

and others quite frankly black women are the most ambitious demographic group in

the most ambitious demographic group in

the most ambitious demographic group in the nation way more than anyone else we

the nation way more than anyone else we

the nation way more than anyone else we want that next promotion and we’re

want that next promotion and we’re

want that next promotion and we’re willing to do whatever it takes to earn

willing to do whatever it takes to earn

willing to do whatever it takes to earn it so our problem isn’t that we’re not

it so our problem isn’t that we’re not

it so our problem isn’t that we’re not leaning in our problem is that we’re

leaning in our problem is that we’re

leaning in our problem is that we’re being shut out according to the Center

being shut out according to the Center

being shut out according to the Center on talent innovation black women enter

on talent innovation black women enter

on talent innovation black women enter the workforce

the workforce

the workforce already as experienced leaders we are

already as experienced leaders we are

already as experienced leaders we are some twice as likely as our white female

some twice as likely as our white female

some twice as likely as our white female counterparts to have already had

counterparts to have already had

counterparts to have already had experience leading in our communities

experience leading in our communities

experience leading in our communities doing things like starting youth

doing things like starting youth

doing things like starting youth initiatives like leading school boards

initiatives like leading school boards

initiatives like leading school boards like heading community service

like heading community service

like heading community service organizations and of course we know we

organizations and of course we know we

organizations and of course we know we come from an entire history that spans

come from an entire history that spans

come from an entire history that spans until this very day

until this very day

until this very day of leading movements that are quite

of leading movements that are quite

of leading movements that are quite literally changed the world so yes we

literally changed the world so yes we

literally changed the world so yes we know how to lead but in spite of our

know how to lead but in spite of our

know how to lead but in spite of our experiences both inside and outside of

experiences both inside and outside of

experiences both inside and outside of the professional sphere and no matter

the professional sphere and no matter

the professional sphere and no matter our credentials and our professional

our credentials and our professional

our credentials and our professional abilities what we found is that black

abilities what we found is that black

abilities what we found is that black women are also more likely than anyone

women are also more likely than anyone

women are also more likely than anyone else to say that we’ve never received

else to say that we’ve never received

else to say that we’ve never received any assistance from any senior level

any assistance from any senior level

any assistance from any senior level colleagues at work when it comes to

colleagues at work when it comes to

colleagues at work when it comes to helping us pierce through an earn and

helping us pierce through an earn and

helping us pierce through an earn and leadership position it’s as if we’ve

leadership position it’s as if we’ve

leadership position it’s as if we’ve been professionally abandoned left to

been professionally abandoned left to

been professionally abandoned left to sink or swim on our own and what

sink or swim on our own and what

sink or swim on our own and what sometimes might feel like shark infested

sometimes might feel like shark infested

sometimes might feel like shark infested professional waters so what does this

professional waters so what does this

professional waters so what does this all mean it means that for black women

all mean it means that for black women

all mean it means that for black women especially we’re likely to experience

especially we’re likely to experience

especially we’re likely to experience situations in which our aspirations and

situations in which our aspirations and

situations in which our aspirations and our abilities fail to align with

our abilities fail to align with

our abilities fail to align with opportunity as it stands today nearly

opportunity as it stands today nearly

opportunity as it stands today nearly three times as many black women aspire

three times as many black women aspire

three times as many black women aspire to leadership then is the case among

to leadership then is the case among

to leadership then is the case among white women but when we see who actually

white women but when we see who actually

white women but when we see who actually acquires those position

acquires those position

acquires those position two very different realities emerge as

two very different realities emerge as

two very different realities emerge as it stands right now nearly a quarter of

it stands right now nearly a quarter of

it stands right now nearly a quarter of white women actually acquire senior

white women actually acquire senior

white women actually acquire senior executive positions even though just

executive positions even though just

executive positions even though just eight percent say that’s ultimately

eight percent say that’s ultimately

eight percent say that’s ultimately where they aspire to be now when we

where they aspire to be now when we

where they aspire to be now when we compare that to the situation

compare that to the situation

compare that to the situation experienced by black women we see that

experienced by black women we see that

experienced by black women we see that only two percent acquire executive

only two percent acquire executive

only two percent acquire executive leadership positions even though 22

leadership positions even though 22

leadership positions even though 22 percent say that’s ultimately where we

percent say that’s ultimately where we

percent say that’s ultimately where we want to land now I’m not gonna sit here

want to land now I’m not gonna sit here

want to land now I’m not gonna sit here today and make the argument that

today and make the argument that

today and make the argument that necessarily 22 percent of black women

necessarily 22 percent of black women

necessarily 22 percent of black women should be an executive leadership but

should be an executive leadership but

should be an executive leadership but what I will say with confidence is

what I will say with confidence is

what I will say with confidence is something is horribly wrong with this

something is horribly wrong with this

something is horribly wrong with this picture

picture

picture America is leaving significant levels of

America is leaving significant levels of

America is leaving significant levels of talent and ability and brilliance

talent and ability and brilliance

talent and ability and brilliance completely untapped so when we look at

completely untapped so when we look at

completely untapped so when we look at the very top of the leadership realm we

the very top of the leadership realm we

the very top of the leadership realm we find that this problem is magnified we

find that this problem is magnified we

find that this problem is magnified we know that as recently as the year 2000

know that as recently as the year 2000

know that as recently as the year 2000 only for white women held a position of

only for white women held a position of

only for white women held a position of CEO of a fortune 500 company

CEO of a fortune 500 company

CEO of a fortune 500 company but by September of 2016 that number had

but by September of 2016 that number had

but by September of 2016 that number had grown more than fivefold to 22 now I

grown more than fivefold to 22 now I

grown more than fivefold to 22 now I would certainly be the first to say that

would certainly be the first to say that

would certainly be the first to say that even 22 isn’t enough right when you

even 22 isn’t enough right when you

even 22 isn’t enough right when you compare that to the hundreds of white

compare that to the hundreds of white

compare that to the hundreds of white men who hold those positions that number

men who hold those positions that number

men who hold those positions that number really is quite minuscule however we’re

really is quite minuscule however we’re

really is quite minuscule however we’re at least moving in the right direction

at least moving in the right direction

at least moving in the right direction when you look at the trend of the number

when you look at the trend of the number

when you look at the trend of the number of white women who hold these positions

of white women who hold these positions

of white women who hold these positions it’s actually been going up in recent

it’s actually been going up in recent

it’s actually been going up in recent years but as it relates to CEOs of color

years but as it relates to CEOs of color

years but as it relates to CEOs of color that number has actually been trending

that number has actually been trending

that number has actually been trending down so much so that as it stands today

down so much so that as it stands today

down so much so that as it stands today the number of black CEOs has actually

the number of black CEOs has actually

the number of black CEOs has actually fallen from 12 to now only five for

fallen from 12 to now only five for

fallen from 12 to now only five for Latinos it’s dropped from a high of 13

Latinos it’s dropped from a high of 13

Latinos it’s dropped from a high of 13 to now only 9 for asian-americans it’s

to now only 9 for asian-americans it’s

to now only 9 for asian-americans it’s fallen from a high of 15 to now just 10

fallen from a high of 15 to now just 10

fallen from a high of 15 to now just 10 in fact the realities experienced by

in fact the realities experienced by

in fact the realities experienced by these two groups are so divergent but as

these two groups are so divergent but as

these two groups are so divergent but as it stands today the number of white

it stands today the number of white

it stands today the number of white women who are

women who are

women who are cos actually nearly equals that of the

cos actually nearly equals that of the

cos actually nearly equals that of the number of all people of color of both

number of all people of color of both

number of all people of color of both genders combined now when we look at

genders combined now when we look at

genders combined now when we look at specifically the situation experienced

specifically the situation experienced

specifically the situation experienced by women of color we see that just to

by women of color we see that just to

by women of color we see that just to hold the position of CEO of a fortune

hold the position of CEO of a fortune

hold the position of CEO of a fortune 500 company and as two black women just

500 company and as two black women just

500 company and as two black women just one the example of Ursula burns is the

one the example of Ursula burns is the

one the example of Ursula burns is the only black woman who has ever held that

only black woman who has ever held that

only black woman who has ever held that position in the entire 60-year history

position in the entire 60-year history

position in the entire 60-year history of this list and even her stellar

of this list and even her stellar

of this list and even her stellar example is set to come to an end by the

example is set to come to an end by the

example is set to come to an end by the end of this year as her company

end of this year as her company

end of this year as her company restructures and she is scheduled to be

restructures and she is scheduled to be

restructures and she is scheduled to be replaced by a white man now what I find

replaced by a white man now what I find

replaced by a white man now what I find particularly intriguing about this

particularly intriguing about this

particularly intriguing about this situation is quite frankly we know

situation is quite frankly we know

situation is quite frankly we know better we know that diversity is good

better we know that diversity is good

better we know that diversity is good for business

for business

for business we know that it leads things to things

we know that it leads things to things

we know that it leads things to things like better innovation more creativity

like better innovation more creativity

like better innovation more creativity higher profits and overall better

higher profits and overall better

higher profits and overall better outcomes for companies we know this to

outcomes for companies we know this to

outcomes for companies we know this to be the case but in terms of how it is

be the case but in terms of how it is

be the case but in terms of how it is actually practice we find that companies

actually practice we find that companies

actually practice we find that companies ultimately tend to privilege gender

ultimately tend to privilege gender

ultimately tend to privilege gender diversity over racial diversity even

diversity over racial diversity even

diversity over racial diversity even though they’re both critically important

though they’re both critically important

though they’re both critically important and what’s especially intriguing and

and what’s especially intriguing and

and what’s especially intriguing and interesting and quite frankly ironic

interesting and quite frankly ironic

interesting and quite frankly ironic about this situation is that as we are

about this situation is that as we are

about this situation is that as we are here today this nation is undergoing a

here today this nation is undergoing a

here today this nation is undergoing a tremendous demographic shift so much so

tremendous demographic shift so much so

tremendous demographic shift so much so that the majority of babies born in

that the majority of babies born in

that the majority of babies born in America right now babies of color and so

America right now babies of color and so

America right now babies of color and so as this nation is becoming browner and

as this nation is becoming browner and

as this nation is becoming browner and browner the reality is that the

browner the reality is that the

browner the reality is that the leadership structures within this nation

leadership structures within this nation

leadership structures within this nation is becoming wider and wider even if

is becoming wider and wider even if

is becoming wider and wider even if those leadership structures are now more

those leadership structures are now more

those leadership structures are now more inclusive of women and 2015 the working

inclusive of women and 2015 the working

inclusive of women and 2015 the working mothers Research Institute released a

mothers Research Institute released a

mothers Research Institute released a report that found in part that white

report that found in part that white

report that found in part that white women really didn’t believe they had an

women really didn’t believe they had an

women really didn’t believe they had an interest and helping women of color

interest and helping women of color

interest and helping women of color close the leadership gap so if you

close the leadership gap so if you

close the leadership gap so if you happen to be wondering why you should

happen to be wondering why you should

happen to be wondering why you should even care about the professional

even care about the professional

even care about the professional advancement

advancement

advancement women who look like me then let me

women who look like me then let me

women who look like me then let me remind you your future is intricately

remind you your future is intricately

remind you your future is intricately linked with our future our perspectives

linked with our future our perspectives

linked with our future our perspectives our professional abilities our loyalty

our professional abilities our loyalty

our professional abilities our loyalty and yes our diversity is absolutely

and yes our diversity is absolutely

and yes our diversity is absolutely essential to making sure that the

essential to making sure that the

essential to making sure that the employers of today and tomorrow have an

employers of today and tomorrow have an

employers of today and tomorrow have an authentic understanding of the shifting

authentic understanding of the shifting

authentic understanding of the shifting needs and desires of a changing customer

needs and desires of a changing customer

needs and desires of a changing customer base that we are experiencing and today

base that we are experiencing and today

base that we are experiencing and today and throughout the future and so in that

and throughout the future and so in that

and throughout the future and so in that way your professional stability and

way your professional stability and

way your professional stability and growth is directly linked to the degree

growth is directly linked to the degree

growth is directly linked to the degree to which the voices the perspectives and

to which the voices the perspectives and

to which the voices the perspectives and yes the leadership of women of color is

yes the leadership of women of color is

yes the leadership of women of color is activated respected and acted upon but

activated respected and acted upon but

activated respected and acted upon but beyond that very real dollars and cents

beyond that very real dollars and cents

beyond that very real dollars and cents implication let me also remind you that

implication let me also remind you that

implication let me also remind you that none of us are free unless all of us are

none of us are free unless all of us are

none of us are free unless all of us are free if you consider yourself to be

free if you consider yourself to be

free if you consider yourself to be among those who is in favor of the full

among those who is in favor of the full

among those who is in favor of the full liberation of women a type of liberation

liberation of women a type of liberation

liberation of women a type of liberation that frees us from discrimination and

that frees us from discrimination and

that frees us from discrimination and oppression in any and all fours

oppression in any and all fours

oppression in any and all fours then you must reject the comfort of the

then you must reject the comfort of the

then you must reject the comfort of the familiar in the seduction of

familiar in the seduction of

familiar in the seduction of self-interest none of us should be

self-interest none of us should be

self-interest none of us should be satisfied with images like this one

satisfied with images like this one

satisfied with images like this one shared with the world by an editor who

shared with the world by an editor who

shared with the world by an editor who was very satisfied and happy and proud

was very satisfied and happy and proud

was very satisfied and happy and proud that her entire team was made up of

that her entire team was made up of

that her entire team was made up of women but apparently oblivious to the

women but apparently oblivious to the

women but apparently oblivious to the fact that it was completely devoid of

fact that it was completely devoid of

fact that it was completely devoid of women of color we must all recognize

women of color we must all recognize

women of color we must all recognize that all women are not white women and

that all women are not white women and

that all women are not white women and because of that diversity among women is

because of that diversity among women is

because of that diversity among women is just as critical just as necessary just

just as critical just as necessary just

just as critical just as necessary just as vital and imperative as gender

as vital and imperative as gender

as vital and imperative as gender diversity is in the broader context if

diversity is in the broader context if

diversity is in the broader context if your gender equality does not include

your gender equality does not include

your gender equality does not include women who look like me then let me tell

women who look like me then let me tell

women who look like me then let me tell you that’s not true gender equality at

you that’s not true gender equality at

you that’s not true gender equality at all thank you

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