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Where Are You From? | Rana Elling-Hwang | TEDxYouth@HPA


I refer to myself as a citizen of the

I refer to myself as a citizen of the world I don’t know where I’m from

world I don’t know where I’m from

world I don’t know where I’m from because some of the places that are in

because some of the places that are in

because some of the places that are in my blood

my blood

my blood I’ve never been to so I’m even allowed

I’ve never been to so I’m even allowed

I’ve never been to so I’m even allowed to say I’m from there I’ve traveled to

to say I’m from there I’ve traveled to

to say I’m from there I’ve traveled to more than 40 countries and this means I

more than 40 countries and this means I

more than 40 countries and this means I have had to introduce myself to a fair

have had to introduce myself to a fair

have had to introduce myself to a fair number of people and there’s always one

number of people and there’s always one

number of people and there’s always one question there is impossible to avoid

question there is impossible to avoid

question there is impossible to avoid where are you from this question has

where are you from this question has

where are you from this question has raised many different answers and for

raised many different answers and for

raised many different answers and for everyone it has a different meaning for

everyone it has a different meaning for

everyone it has a different meaning for some people it could mean what’s your

some people it could mean what’s your

some people it could mean what’s your ethnicity and for others it could be

ethnicity and for others it could be

ethnicity and for others it could be where do you feel is home however for me

where do you feel is home however for me

where do you feel is home however for me the question is also no long awkward

the question is also no long awkward

the question is also no long awkward poles and me eventually saying that I’m

poles and me eventually saying that I’m

poles and me eventually saying that I’m from everywhere or saying that I’m from

from everywhere or saying that I’m from

from everywhere or saying that I’m from London but that’s not what they want to

London but that’s not what they want to

London but that’s not what they want to hear because I don’t look like a

hear because I don’t look like a

hear because I don’t look like a stereotypical London City girl so if I

stereotypical London City girl so if I

stereotypical London City girl so if I say I’m from London the person perceives

say I’m from London the person perceives

say I’m from London the person perceives to expand on the question and say no

to expand on the question and say no

to expand on the question and say no where are you really from this now turns

where are you really from this now turns

where are you really from this now turns into a whole different answer which

into a whole different answer which

into a whole different answer which requires a different and more

requires a different and more

requires a different and more complicated answer and goes into what is

complicated answer and goes into what is

complicated answer and goes into what is your ethnicity for me this is also long

your ethnicity for me this is also long

your ethnicity for me this is also long and hard to answer

and hard to answer

and hard to answer so I say my mother’s from Pakistan

so I say my mother’s from Pakistan

so I say my mother’s from Pakistan Malaysia Indonesia Denmark we grew up in

Malaysia Indonesia Denmark we grew up in

Malaysia Indonesia Denmark we grew up in Hong Kong and my father is from Taiwan

Hong Kong and my father is from Taiwan

Hong Kong and my father is from Taiwan after I say this I think in a response

after I say this I think in a response

after I say this I think in a response like wow you’re so exotic or it’s one of

like wow you’re so exotic or it’s one of

like wow you’re so exotic or it’s one of my good friends once referred to me as a

my good friends once referred to me as a

my good friends once referred to me as a mutt now I can make things even more

mutt now I can make things even more

mutt now I can make things even more complicated and tell people that I can

complicated and tell people that I can

complicated and tell people that I can speak French and that I took a year off

speak French and that I took a year off

speak French and that I took a year off school to travel around China and I’ve

school to travel around China and I’ve

school to travel around China and I’ve lived in London France Singapore Monaco

lived in London France Singapore Monaco

lived in London France Singapore Monaco and now Hawaii but then that isn’t

and now Hawaii but then that isn’t

and now Hawaii but then that isn’t answering the question where are you

answering the question where are you

answering the question where are you from anymore it becomes time constantly

from anymore it becomes time constantly

from anymore it becomes time constantly having to answer the same question so

having to answer the same question so

having to answer the same question so over the years I’ve decided to have fun

over the years I’ve decided to have fun

over the years I’ve decided to have fun with it I can tell people I’m from the

with it I can tell people I’m from the

with it I can tell people I’m from the Philippines or I’m from Hawaii and they

Philippines or I’m from Hawaii and they

Philippines or I’m from Hawaii and they won’t question anything because I have a

won’t question anything because I have a

won’t question anything because I have a slightly darker skin tone but then they

slightly darker skin tone but then they

slightly darker skin tone but then they detect my accent and it just gets

detect my accent and it just gets

detect my accent and it just gets difficult again sure if you are you

difficult again sure if you are you

difficult again sure if you are you consider yourself a hundred percent from

consider yourself a hundred percent from

consider yourself a hundred percent from a country then the question where you’re

a country then the question where you’re

a country then the question where you’re from is a no-brainer and you can still

from is a no-brainer and you can still

from is a no-brainer and you can still move on to other topics but if you

move on to other topics but if you

move on to other topics but if you aren’t or don’t consider yourself a

aren’t or don’t consider yourself a

aren’t or don’t consider yourself a hundred percent for my country and for

hundred percent for my country and for

hundred percent for my country and for you it can be a struggle to answer I

you it can be a struggle to answer I

you it can be a struggle to answer I conducted a survey on how many people

conducted a survey on how many people

conducted a survey on how many people could truly answer the question where

could truly answer the question where

could truly answer the question where are you from and last as many people as

are you from and last as many people as

are you from and last as many people as I could from my school and my other

I could from my school and my other

I could from my school and my other friends back home based on the answer I

friends back home based on the answer I

friends back home based on the answer I gave the based on the answer that I

gave the based on the answer that I

gave the based on the answer that I received I categorize the individuals

received I categorize the individuals

received I categorize the individuals into one of two groups hesitant and

into one of two groups hesitant and

into one of two groups hesitant and clear answer the people who would ask

clear answer the people who would ask

clear answer the people who would ask what do you mean or do you mean where my

what do you mean or do you mean where my

what do you mean or do you mean where my parents

parents

parents from we’re putting the answer hesitant

from we’re putting the answer hesitant

from we’re putting the answer hesitant putting the category headstone and the

putting the category headstone and the

putting the category headstone and the people who may be answered and didn’t

people who may be answered and didn’t

people who may be answered and didn’t change the answer were put into the

change the answer were put into the

change the answer were put into the clear answer category here are my

clear answer category here are my

clear answer category here are my results as you can see the number of

results as you can see the number of

results as you can see the number of people who were hesitant in answering

people who were hesitant in answering

people who were hesitant in answering the question is far greater than the

the question is far greater than the

the question is far greater than the people who had a direct answer honestly

people who had a direct answer honestly

people who had a direct answer honestly I think the reason the numbers differed

I think the reason the numbers differed

I think the reason the numbers differed so much was because I have grown up in a

so much was because I have grown up in a

so much was because I have grown up in a very diverse community and I am

very diverse community and I am

very diverse community and I am constantly surrounded by third cultured

constantly surrounded by third cultured

constantly surrounded by third cultured people the company Mohan dough did a

people the company Mohan dough did a

people the company Mohan dough did a similar survey

similar survey

similar survey however they lot went a lot further in

however they lot went a lot further in

however they lot went a lot further in detail they got a handful of

detail they got a handful of

detail they got a handful of participants and awesome where they were

participants and awesome where they were

participants and awesome where they were from and a lot of them had a clear

from and a lot of them had a clear

from and a lot of them had a clear answer then they asked him if there were

answer then they asked him if there were

answer then they asked him if there were any countries and nationalities they

any countries and nationalities they

any countries and nationalities they felt like they didn’t get along with

felt like they didn’t get along with

felt like they didn’t get along with after collecting their DNA they brought

after collecting their DNA they brought

after collecting their DNA they brought back to the results to the participants

back to the results to the participants

back to the results to the participants and it was shocking the participants was

and it was shocking the participants was

and it was shocking the participants was so surprised because the surveyors gave

so surprised because the surveyors gave

so surprised because the surveyors gave them answers that they were not

them answers that they were not

them answers that they were not expecting some of the participants were

expecting some of the participants were

expecting some of the participants were from the places that they said they

from the places that they said they

from the places that they said they didn’t get along with and it was an

didn’t get along with and it was an

didn’t get along with and it was an eye-opening experience for them and the

eye-opening experience for them and the

eye-opening experience for them and the audience because it goes to show that

audience because it goes to show that

audience because it goes to show that most of us simply don’t know it doesn’t

most of us simply don’t know it doesn’t

most of us simply don’t know it doesn’t surprise me that most of us don’t know

surprise me that most of us don’t know

surprise me that most of us don’t know what countries line our blood because

what countries line our blood because

what countries line our blood because our world has changed so much and it’s

our world has changed so much and it’s

our world has changed so much and it’s constant developing there are so many

constant developing there are so many

constant developing there are so many people born every day and each of them

people born every day and each of them

people born every day and each of them have a different story and our world

have a different story and our world

have a different story and our world population is expanding where are you

population is expanding where are you

population is expanding where are you from is also linked to your culture if

from is also linked to your culture if

from is also linked to your culture if you grew up learning specific things

you grew up learning specific things

you grew up learning specific things from one culture then you might

from one culture then you might

from one culture then you might recognize yourself as being from there

recognize yourself as being from there

recognize yourself as being from there and you can share that culture with

and you can share that culture with

and you can share that culture with other people leaving them to question

other people leaving them to question

other people leaving them to question where they come from

where they come from

where they come from you all answered a question at the door

you all answered a question at the door

you all answered a question at the door I asked this question because I wanted

I asked this question because I wanted

I asked this question because I wanted to demonstrate that even in this room

to demonstrate that even in this room

to demonstrate that even in this room migration plays a huge part in our lives

migration plays a huge part in our lives

migration plays a huge part in our lives it is often said that America is a

it is often said that America is a

it is often said that America is a country of immigrants and it is this

country of immigrants and it is this

country of immigrants and it is this historical migration that helped

historical migration that helped

historical migration that helped increase cultural racial and ethnic

increase cultural racial and ethnic

increase cultural racial and ethnic diversity within the country when you

diversity within the country when you

diversity within the country when you move from one place to another

move from one place to another

move from one place to another you obviously grow as a person and take

you obviously grow as a person and take

you obviously grow as a person and take in aspects of the local culture

in aspects of the local culture

in aspects of the local culture similarly with globalization increased

similarly with globalization increased

similarly with globalization increased communication between different

communication between different

communication between different countries cultural values are more

countries cultural values are more

countries cultural values are more easily shared across borders personally

easily shared across borders personally

easily shared across borders personally I grew up in England and France where my

I grew up in England and France where my

I grew up in England and France where my friends and I used to watch American TV

friends and I used to watch American TV

friends and I used to watch American TV read American books and listen to

read American books and listen to

read American books and listen to American music this portrays how

American music this portrays how

American music this portrays how globalization plays out in action we

globalization plays out in action we

globalization plays out in action we gather our cultural influences from many

gather our cultural influences from many

gather our cultural influences from many different places and therefore our

different places and therefore our

different places and therefore our personal identities a blurred I know I’m

personal identities a blurred I know I’m

personal identities a blurred I know I’m not the only one who thinks this

not the only one who thinks this

not the only one who thinks this question is daunting I think asking why

question is daunting I think asking why

question is daunting I think asking why are you from is also

are you from is also

are you from is also closely related to your looks like a

closely related to your looks like a

closely related to your looks like a previous said your accent for example if

previous said your accent for example if

previous said your accent for example if you look slightly Asian that people

you look slightly Asian that people

you look slightly Asian that people typically assume that you come from Asia

typically assume that you come from Asia

typically assume that you come from Asia however someone who looks more Asian

however someone who looks more Asian

however someone who looks more Asian might not concern themselves in their I

might not concern themselves in their I

might not concern themselves in their I catch by himself as British or American

catch by himself as British or American

catch by himself as British or American or any other nationality also if you

or any other nationality also if you

or any other nationality also if you have an accent the people will or can

have an accent the people will or can

have an accent the people will or can assume that you come from that specific

assume that you come from that specific

assume that you come from that specific specific area but you are not but you

specific area but you are not but you

specific area but you are not but you might not be and you might have just

might not be and you might have just

might not be and you might have just lived there for a while or your whole

lived there for a while or your whole

lived there for a while or your whole life so I think the question where are

life so I think the question where are

life so I think the question where are you from is asked and answered to clear

you from is asked and answered to clear

you from is asked and answered to clear unwanted or ambiguous assumptions why do

unwanted or ambiguous assumptions why do

unwanted or ambiguous assumptions why do we ask this question at the end of the

we ask this question at the end of the

we ask this question at the end of the day no one should really care what we

day no one should really care what we

day no one should really care what we come from do we ask it because it has

come from do we ask it because it has

come from do we ask it because it has become something to say when you’re

become something to say when you’re

become something to say when you’re meeting someone for the first time may I

meeting someone for the first time may I

meeting someone for the first time may I propose some alternatives next time you

propose some alternatives next time you

propose some alternatives next time you meet someone awesome how their day was

meet someone awesome how their day was

meet someone awesome how their day was ask them about the weather or ask them

ask them about the weather or ask them

ask them about the weather or ask them what their favorite colors are some

what their favorite colors are some

what their favorite colors are some questions they have answered too if

questions they have answered too if

questions they have answered too if you’re still curious about where they

you’re still curious about where they

you’re still curious about where they come from pause and think to yourself

come from pause and think to yourself

come from pause and think to yourself could I answer this question myself

could I answer this question myself

could I answer this question myself maybe the answer to this question is

maybe the answer to this question is

maybe the answer to this question is simply earth we come from Earth thank

simply earth we come from Earth thank

simply earth we come from Earth thank you

you

you [Applause]

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