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When Miracles Happen | Rod Ziolkowski | TEDxWhitneyHigh


thank you friend isn’t tonight a great

thank you friend isn’t tonight a great opportunity for to hear student voice

opportunity for to hear student voice

opportunity for to hear student voice and thought just a great applause for

and thought just a great applause for

and thought just a great applause for all of our speakers this story happened

all of our speakers this story happened

all of our speakers this story happened about 30 years ago and it changed me the

about 30 years ago and it changed me the

about 30 years ago and it changed me the pastor of the church I was attending

pastor of the church I was attending

pastor of the church I was attending called me at home and said I’m going on

called me at home and said I’m going on

called me at home and said I’m going on vacation in a couple of weeks and I’d

vacation in a couple of weeks and I’d

vacation in a couple of weeks and I’d like you to fill in for me

like you to fill in for me

like you to fill in for me I said I don’t think I’m ready for that

I said I don’t think I’m ready for that

I said I don’t think I’m ready for that he said oh I think you’re more ready

he said oh I think you’re more ready

he said oh I think you’re more ready than you think you are I said okay I’ll

than you think you are I said okay I’ll

than you think you are I said okay I’ll do it and that’s the last we talked

do it and that’s the last we talked

do it and that’s the last we talked about it so over the next two weeks I

about it so over the next two weeks I

about it so over the next two weeks I wrote a sermon and picked out songs and

wrote a sermon and picked out songs and

wrote a sermon and picked out songs and and practiced I got to the church a

and practiced I got to the church a

and practiced I got to the church a couple hours early and went through it a

couple hours early and went through it a

couple hours early and went through it a couple of times by myself when the time

couple of times by myself when the time

couple of times by myself when the time finally came everything went smooth the

finally came everything went smooth the

finally came everything went smooth the congregation was really nice and

congregation was really nice and

congregation was really nice and supportive it was a really fun thing and

supportive it was a really fun thing and

supportive it was a really fun thing and I walked out of there feeling pretty

I walked out of there feeling pretty

I walked out of there feeling pretty darn good went home took off my suit

darn good went home took off my suit

darn good went home took off my suit settled down for an afternoon watching

settled down for an afternoon watching

settled down for an afternoon watching the football in the afternoon the phone

the football in the afternoon the phone

the football in the afternoon the phone rang it was zeti one of the older

rang it was zeti one of the older

rang it was zeti one of the older members of our congregation late 60s

members of our congregation late 60s

members of our congregation late 60s early 70s he had never called me before

early 70s he had never called me before

early 70s he had never called me before zeti said one of his oldest friends and

zeti said one of his oldest friends and

zeti said one of his oldest friends and his wife had flown to Long Beach to

his wife had flown to Long Beach to

his wife had flown to Long Beach to spend a few days with zeti the two men

spend a few days with zeti the two men

spend a few days with zeti the two men had served together on a ship in the

had served together on a ship in the

had served together on a ship in the Pacific during World War two and they’ve

Pacific during World War two and they’ve

Pacific during World War two and they’ve been best friends ever since

during the visit his friend had had a

during the visit his friend had had a massive heart attack and was in the

massive heart attack and was in the

massive heart attack and was in the hospital in intensive care just clinging

hospital in intensive care just clinging

hospital in intensive care just clinging to life the man’s wife wanted her pastor

to life the man’s wife wanted her pastor

to life the man’s wife wanted her pastor but of course her pastor was hundreds of

but of course her pastor was hundreds of

but of course her pastor was hundreds of miles away so zeti said I called the

miles away so zeti said I called the

miles away so zeti said I called the church and the church secretary said

church and the church secretary said

church and the church secretary said that you or answering the pastor’s calls

that you or answering the pastor’s calls

that you or answering the pastor’s calls could you come to the hospital he’s my

could you come to the hospital he’s my

could you come to the hospital he’s my oldest friend

oldest friend

oldest friend nope

nope

nope I said sure I’ll be there as fast as I

I said sure I’ll be there as fast as I

I said sure I’ll be there as fast as I can get there so I put on my suit and

can get there so I put on my suit and

can get there so I put on my suit and was thinking what am I supposed to do

was thinking what am I supposed to do

was thinking what am I supposed to do what do I say at the hospital are they

what do I say at the hospital are they

what do I say at the hospital are they gonna know that I’m not a pastor I

better get a prop I went back inside got

better get a prop I went back inside got a Bible off the shelf dusted it off put

a Bible off the shelf dusted it off put

a Bible off the shelf dusted it off put it under my arm drove to the hospital

it under my arm drove to the hospital

it under my arm drove to the hospital when I got to the hospital I went up to

when I got to the hospital I went up to

when I got to the hospital I went up to the intensive care unit approached the

the intensive care unit approached the

the intensive care unit approached the nurse’s station but my shoulders back

nurse’s station but my shoulders back

nurse’s station but my shoulders back and said clergy for mister I actually

and said clergy for mister I actually

and said clergy for mister I actually don’t remember his name anymore and the

don’t remember his name anymore and the

don’t remember his name anymore and the nurse said oh right down the hall there

nurse said oh right down the hall there

nurse said oh right down the hall there Jordan right I was in

so I walked down and I look in the room

so I walked down and I look in the room and there I see is that he anguish just

and there I see is that he anguish just

and there I see is that he anguish just written all over his face I stepped into

written all over his face I stepped into

written all over his face I stepped into the room and when I walked in the man’s

the room and when I walked in the man’s

the room and when I walked in the man’s wife turned and saw me and she got up

wife turned and saw me and she got up

wife turned and saw me and she got up and she said pastor pastor it’s so great

and she said pastor pastor it’s so great

and she said pastor pastor it’s so great of you to come and I reached out my arms

of you to come and I reached out my arms

of you to come and I reached out my arms to give her a hug and as I did she

to give her a hug and as I did she

to give her a hug and as I did she started to cry and then she started to

started to cry and then she started to

started to cry and then she started to sob and her whole body just shook as she

sob and her whole body just shook as she

sob and her whole body just shook as she cried and I just held her

and eventually she stopped crying and

and eventually she stopped crying and she looked up to me and she said pastor

she looked up to me and she said pastor

she looked up to me and she said pastor would you would it be alright if you sat

would you would it be alright if you sat

would you would it be alright if you sat with me for a while so we sat together

and I reached out and held her hand and

and I reached out and held her hand and then I noticed that she took her other

then I noticed that she took her other

then I noticed that she took her other hand and grabbed my wrist too and we sat

hand and grabbed my wrist too and we sat

hand and grabbed my wrist too and we sat there quietly for many many minutes I

there quietly for many many minutes I

there quietly for many many minutes I will never forget the look of her

will never forget the look of her

will never forget the look of her husband he was unconscious his the color

husband he was unconscious his the color

husband he was unconscious his the color of his skin was a light grey his skin

of his skin was a light grey his skin

of his skin was a light grey his skin looks so thin and transparent it looked

looks so thin and transparent it looked

looks so thin and transparent it looked like you could see right through it

after about a half an hour she turned to

after about a half an hour she turned to me and she said pastor what do you say a

me and she said pastor what do you say a

me and she said pastor what do you say a prayer prayer right should have thought

prayer prayer right should have thought

prayer prayer right should have thought of that so I got up and I put my hand on

of that so I got up and I put my hand on

of that so I got up and I put my hand on the man’s forehead and with my other

the man’s forehead and with my other

the man’s forehead and with my other hand I held his wife let us pray

and I realized I didn’t know anything

and I realized I didn’t know anything about this couple I knew he was in the

about this couple I knew he was in the

about this couple I knew he was in the Navy and had had a massive heart attack

Navy and had had a massive heart attack

Navy and had had a massive heart attack and she was grieving and in pain I don’t

and she was grieving and in pain I don’t

and she was grieving and in pain I don’t really remember much of what I said I

really remember much of what I said I

really remember much of what I said I know I said I hope that you feel the

know I said I hope that you feel the

know I said I hope that you feel the presence of God in this room if if these

presence of God in this room if if these

presence of God in this room if if these are to be your last hours or days may

are to be your last hours or days may

are to be your last hours or days may they be without pain and may you feel

they be without pain and may you feel

they be without pain and may you feel this outpouring of love in this room but

this outpouring of love in this room but

this outpouring of love in this room but if it’s possible to see your way out of

if it’s possible to see your way out of

if it’s possible to see your way out of these troubled waters let’s pray for the

these troubled waters let’s pray for the

these troubled waters let’s pray for the compassion and wisdom of your nurses and

compassion and wisdom of your nurses and

compassion and wisdom of your nurses and doctors that they are able to give you

doctors that they are able to give you

doctors that they are able to give you the very best of care you two have been

the very best of care you two have been

the very best of care you two have been through hard times before every couple

through hard times before every couple

through hard times before every couple has

I pray that your faith will bring you

I pray that your faith will bring you through this hard time as well when it

through this hard time as well when it

through this hard time as well when it was time for me to leave the woman did

was time for me to leave the woman did

was time for me to leave the woman did not want to let go of my hands

not want to let go of my hands

not want to let go of my hands she kept saying thank you pastor thank

she kept saying thank you pastor thank

she kept saying thank you pastor thank you you don’t know what this means to me

you you don’t know what this means to me

you you don’t know what this means to me thank you pastor thank you I never told

thank you pastor thank you I never told

thank you pastor thank you I never told her that I wasn’t a pastor and I walked

her that I wasn’t a pastor and I walked

her that I wasn’t a pastor and I walked to my car completely drained

later that night the phone rang and it

later that night the phone rang and it was Eddie it’s a miracle he said just

was Eddie it’s a miracle he said just

was Eddie it’s a miracle he said just after you left the room he opened his

after you left the room he opened his

after you left the room he opened his eyes an hour later he was talking I just

eyes an hour later he was talking I just

eyes an hour later he was talking I just left the hospital but when I left the

left the hospital but when I left the

left the hospital but when I left the room she was sitting on the edge of his

room she was sitting on the edge of his

room she was sitting on the edge of his bed and they were holding hands and they

bed and they were holding hands and they

bed and they were holding hands and they were talking like they had just fallen

were talking like they had just fallen

were talking like they had just fallen in love it’s a miracle

so the topic of this talk is when

so the topic of this talk is when miracles happen and it’s taken me quite

miracles happen and it’s taken me quite

miracles happen and it’s taken me quite a while to get to the point and I bet

a while to get to the point and I bet

a while to get to the point and I bet you think that the miracle that I’m

you think that the miracle that I’m

you think that the miracle that I’m talking about is the man regaining

talking about is the man regaining

talking about is the man regaining consciousness it isn’t they were blessed

consciousness it isn’t they were blessed

consciousness it isn’t they were blessed with a few precious hours together they

with a few precious hours together they

with a few precious hours together they had the chance to say the things to each

had the chance to say the things to each

had the chance to say the things to each other that they hadn’t said before he

other that they hadn’t said before he

other that they hadn’t said before he had his sudden heart attack but the man

had his sudden heart attack but the man

had his sudden heart attack but the man soon tired and a few hours later he died

I’ve come to find out that these short

I’ve come to find out that these short lived deathbed revivals they’re actually

lived deathbed revivals they’re actually

lived deathbed revivals they’re actually not that uncommon I experienced it again

not that uncommon I experienced it again

not that uncommon I experienced it again myself just three years ago when my

myself just three years ago when my

myself just three years ago when my father-in-law was dying but something

father-in-law was dying but something

father-in-law was dying but something did happen in that hotel I never tell

did happen in that hotel I never tell

did happen in that hotel I never tell something did happen in that hospital

something did happen in that hospital

something did happen in that hospital room and that’s what I want to talk to

room and that’s what I want to talk to

room and that’s what I want to talk to you about

I realized that we can’t wait till we

I realized that we can’t wait till we think we’re ready before we take on new

think we’re ready before we take on new

think we’re ready before we take on new challenges we never think we’re ready

challenges we never think we’re ready

challenges we never think we’re ready and opportunities they just pass you by

and opportunities they just pass you by

and opportunities they just pass you by and pretty soon they stop coming so many

and pretty soon they stop coming so many

and pretty soon they stop coming so many of the things that I am most proud of in

of the things that I am most proud of in

of the things that I am most proud of in my life so many of the things in the

my life so many of the things in the

my life so many of the things in the last 30 years are things that I

last 30 years are things that I

last 30 years are things that I committed to long before I knew I was

committed to long before I knew I was

committed to long before I knew I was ready so a little advice from an old man

ready so a little advice from an old man

ready so a little advice from an old man commit before you think you’re ready and

commit before you think you’re ready and

commit before you think you’re ready and then get to the heart work of preparing

then get to the heart work of preparing

then get to the heart work of preparing that’s how it’s done

secondly I sensed that the woman

secondly I sensed that the woman invested a great deal of power in me

invested a great deal of power in me

invested a great deal of power in me because of what I represented she

because of what I represented she

because of what I represented she thought I was a pastor and she gave that

thought I was a pastor and she gave that

thought I was a pastor and she gave that role an enormous amount of power and

role an enormous amount of power and

role an enormous amount of power and authority in her life I think about that

authority in her life I think about that

authority in her life I think about that now in every job I do it’s not a it’s

now in every job I do it’s not a it’s

now in every job I do it’s not a it’s not just about me it’s about the job I

not just about me it’s about the job I

not just about me it’s about the job I represent – I’m a teacher I could wear

represent – I’m a teacher I could wear

represent – I’m a teacher I could wear short pants and a t-shirt to work and

short pants and a t-shirt to work and

short pants and a t-shirt to work and deliver exactly the same lessons but I

deliver exactly the same lessons but I

deliver exactly the same lessons but I don’t I wear dress slacks in a tie every

don’t I wear dress slacks in a tie every

don’t I wear dress slacks in a tie every day because I want people to see me as a

day because I want people to see me as a

day because I want people to see me as a professional I want people to think

professional I want people to think

professional I want people to think that’s what a teacher is a professional

when I work for a major oil company my

when I work for a major oil company my boss told me you represent the company

boss told me you represent the company

boss told me you represent the company first what our clients think about you

first what our clients think about you

first what our clients think about you that’s what they think about the company

it’s good advice because when you

it’s good advice because when you realize that you represent more than

realize that you represent more than

realize that you represent more than just yourself

it elevates what you do sometimes you’re

it elevates what you do sometimes you’re going to represent your profession or

going to represent your profession or

going to represent your profession or your job or your school sometimes you

your job or your school sometimes you

your job or your school sometimes you will represent your parents or your

will represent your parents or your

will represent your parents or your culture you’ll represent your city or

culture you’ll represent your city or

culture you’ll represent your city or your state whenever I travel I always

your state whenever I travel I always

your state whenever I travel I always believe I represent my country and I

believe I represent my country and I

believe I represent my country and I want the people that see me to think

want the people that see me to think

want the people that see me to think that’s an American and that’s good so

that’s an American and that’s good so

that’s an American and that’s good so here’s the big idea because I’ve been

here’s the big idea because I’ve been

here’s the big idea because I’ve been willing to commit the things before I

willing to commit the things before I

willing to commit the things before I thought I was ready and I’ve prepared to

thought I was ready and I’ve prepared to

thought I was ready and I’ve prepared to represent more than just me I have been

represent more than just me I have been

represent more than just me I have been blessed with a rich life crammed full of

blessed with a rich life crammed full of

blessed with a rich life crammed full of amazing experiences I have known meaning

and purpose and connection and that my

and purpose and connection and that my friends that is where the miracles

friends that is where the miracles

friends that is where the miracles happened a life of meaning and purpose

happened a life of meaning and purpose

happened a life of meaning and purpose and connection that is what I wish for

and connection that is what I wish for

and connection that is what I wish for you thank you my friend

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