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nasty woman go back to the kitchen

nasty woman go back to the kitchen see these are just some of the many

see these are just some of the many

see these are just some of the many words that haunt women like me who dare

words that haunt women like me who dare

words that haunt women like me who dare to stand up for ourselves and our gender

to stand up for ourselves and our gender

to stand up for ourselves and our gender in short these words are often used to

in short these words are often used to

in short these words are often used to describe feminists so what is feminism

describe feminists so what is feminism

describe feminists so what is feminism feminism according to the dictionary is

feminism according to the dictionary is

feminism according to the dictionary is the theory of the political economic and

the theory of the political economic and

the theory of the political economic and social equality of the sexes and that

social equality of the sexes and that

social equality of the sexes and that sounds like a pretty reasonable thing

sounds like a pretty reasonable thing

sounds like a pretty reasonable thing doesn’t it you know equality but

doesn’t it you know equality but

doesn’t it you know equality but unfortunately many people have you

unfortunately many people have you

unfortunately many people have you feminists as women who just want

feminists as women who just want

feminists as women who just want attention or women making up issues that

attention or women making up issues that

attention or women making up issues that don’t really exist this is not true

don’t really exist this is not true

don’t really exist this is not true first of all you don’t have to be a

first of all you don’t have to be a

first of all you don’t have to be a woman to be feminist take for example

woman to be feminist take for example

woman to be feminist take for example Barack Obama who defines himself as a

Barack Obama who defines himself as a

Barack Obama who defines himself as a feminist and treats his wife and

feminist and treats his wife and

feminist and treats his wife and daughters with the utmost respect second

daughters with the utmost respect second

daughters with the utmost respect second these issues are real driving the wage

these issues are real driving the wage

these issues are real driving the wage gap and many other things are huge

gap and many other things are huge

gap and many other things are huge inequalities globally and even a serious

inequalities globally and even a serious

inequalities globally and even a serious and awful problem like rape is still

and awful problem like rape is still

and awful problem like rape is still happening according to in some countries

happening according to in some countries

happening according to in some countries such as Saudi Arabia women aren’t

such as Saudi Arabia women aren’t

such as Saudi Arabia women aren’t allowed to drive on property or even

allowed to drive on property or even

allowed to drive on property or even uncover their faces and in Yemen women

uncover their faces and in Yemen women

uncover their faces and in Yemen women only count as half of a witness before

only count as half of a witness before

only count as half of a witness before the court according to the National

the court according to the National

the court according to the National Partnership for women and families as of

Partnership for women and families as of

Partnership for women and families as of October 2016 women earned 80 cents for

October 2016 women earned 80 cents for

October 2016 women earned 80 cents for every dollar man earned and rape caused

every dollar man earned and rape caused

every dollar man earned and rape caused two million injuries in 1,200 deaths per

two million injuries in 1,200 deaths per

two million injuries in 1,200 deaths per year among women in the US alone

year among women in the US alone

year among women in the US alone according to UN Women org two thirds of

according to UN Women org two thirds of

according to UN Women org two thirds of the illiterate population is female

the illiterate population is female

the illiterate population is female which brings me to a perpetuating

which brings me to a perpetuating

which brings me to a perpetuating standard the standard of it could always

standard the standard of it could always

standard the standard of it could always be worse first world feminists in

be worse first world feminists in

be worse first world feminists in countries like America and the UK are

countries like America and the UK are

countries like America and the UK are told that they don’t need to fight

told that they don’t need to fight

told that they don’t need to fight because because at least they don’t live

because because at least they don’t live

because because at least they don’t live in Iraq women in Iraq who who are not

in Iraq women in Iraq who who are not

in Iraq women in Iraq who who are not allowed to be out in public without

allowed to be out in public without

allowed to be out in public without hijab or head covering are told that

hijab or head covering are told that

hijab or head covering are told that they don’t need to fight because at

they don’t need to fight because at

they don’t need to fight because at least they don’t live in a country like

least they don’t live in a country like

least they don’t live in a country like Saudi Arabia women in urban areas of

Saudi Arabia women in urban areas of

Saudi Arabia women in urban areas of Saudi Arabia who legally cannot drive

Saudi Arabia who legally cannot drive

Saudi Arabia who legally cannot drive are told to feel lucky that they don’t

are told to feel lucky that they don’t

are told to feel lucky that they don’t live in a rural area women

live in a rural area women

live in a rural area women in these rural areas who are punished

in these rural areas who are punished

in these rural areas who are punished because they were raped

because they were raped

because they were raped we’re told that they don’t need to fight

we’re told that they don’t need to fight

we’re told that they don’t need to fight because at least they’re not a part of

because at least they’re not a part of

because at least they’re not a part of neighboring family who killed a daughter

neighboring family who killed a daughter

neighboring family who killed a daughter because she looked at a man just because

because she looked at a man just because

because she looked at a man just because someone hasn’t worse than you do doesn’t

someone hasn’t worse than you do doesn’t

someone hasn’t worse than you do doesn’t mean that you should be content when I

mean that you should be content when I

mean that you should be content when I turned 16 yes I will be lucky enough to

turned 16 yes I will be lucky enough to

turned 16 yes I will be lucky enough to be able to drive but I might be unlucky

be able to drive but I might be unlucky

be able to drive but I might be unlucky and only make 80 cents for every dollar

and only make 80 cents for every dollar

and only make 80 cents for every dollar that my male classmates earn when you

that my male classmates earn when you

that my male classmates earn when you have a say at home dad stays at home

have a say at home dad stays at home

have a say at home dad stays at home with his kids while the mother works

with his kids while the mother works

with his kids while the mother works Society says that this is unusual and

Society says that this is unusual and

Society says that this is unusual and provides him with extra help and extra

provides him with extra help and extra

provides him with extra help and extra praise from the community when a woman

praise from the community when a woman

praise from the community when a woman does the same thing she gets no help no

does the same thing she gets no help no

does the same thing she gets no help no praise and she is seen as you know just

praise and she is seen as you know just

praise and she is seen as you know just a regular stay-at-home mom

a regular stay-at-home mom

a regular stay-at-home mom the idea of stay-at-home fathers with

the idea of stay-at-home fathers with

the idea of stay-at-home fathers with working mothers needs to be normalized

working mothers needs to be normalized

working mothers needs to be normalized why because if we can normalize that

why because if we can normalize that

why because if we can normalize that then women can start to have more

then women can start to have more

then women can start to have more high-powered jobs and be recognized for

high-powered jobs and be recognized for

high-powered jobs and be recognized for the mark they make on this ever turning

the mark they make on this ever turning

the mark they make on this ever turning world just as men are recognized from a

world just as men are recognized from a

world just as men are recognized from a young age I have been aware of very

young age I have been aware of very

young age I have been aware of very strong female role models in my life

strong female role models in my life

strong female role models in my life take for example my mother who worked in

take for example my mother who worked in

take for example my mother who worked in a nonprofit organization called girls

a nonprofit organization called girls

a nonprofit organization called girls Inc which worked to empower young girls

Inc which worked to empower young girls

Inc which worked to empower young girls and provide them with opportunities

and provide them with opportunities

and provide them with opportunities within their communities or her mother

within their communities or her mother

within their communities or her mother who is who is part of one of the first

who is who is part of one of the first

who is who is part of one of the first graduates graduating classes to include

graduates graduating classes to include

graduates graduating classes to include women at Harvard Law and was one of five

women at Harvard Law and was one of five

women at Harvard Law and was one of five women in her class for my paternal

women in her class for my paternal

women in her class for my paternal grandmother who taught at Yale in the

grandmother who taught at Yale in the

grandmother who taught at Yale in the literature Department because no matter

literature Department because no matter

literature Department because no matter how qualified she was women were not

how qualified she was women were not

how qualified she was women were not allowed to teach science at Yale at that

allowed to teach science at Yale at that

allowed to teach science at Yale at that time at the camp that I’ve been going to

time at the camp that I’ve been going to

time at the camp that I’ve been going to since I was 10 we learned the value of

since I was 10 we learned the value of

since I was 10 we learned the value of the female gender in our community and

the female gender in our community and

the female gender in our community and how to maximize our potential as women

how to maximize our potential as women

how to maximize our potential as women in January I drove five hours to

in January I drove five hours to

in January I drove five hours to Washington DC to participate in the

Washington DC to participate in the

Washington DC to participate in the women’s march on Washington I was

women’s march on Washington I was

women’s march on Washington I was inspired by the crowds I saw I was

inspired by the crowds I saw I was

inspired by the crowds I saw I was uplifted by the chanting I heard and I

uplifted by the chanting I heard and I

uplifted by the chanting I heard and I saw amazing

saw amazing

saw amazing with amazing messages held by wonderful

with amazing messages held by wonderful

with amazing messages held by wonderful people because our cause will not be

people because our cause will not be

people because our cause will not be sent to the ground when you follow me in

sent to the ground when you follow me in

sent to the ground when you follow me in the halls and say feminism to see if

the halls and say feminism to see if

the halls and say feminism to see if I’ll turn around I’m insulted but I’m

I’ll turn around I’m insulted but I’m

I’ll turn around I’m insulted but I’m also empowered I’m empowered so that I

also empowered I’m empowered so that I

also empowered I’m empowered so that I can create a world where feminists

can create a world where feminists

can create a world where feminists aren’t crazy mean nasty women and where

aren’t crazy mean nasty women and where

aren’t crazy mean nasty women and where women can have any job they want and be

women can have any job they want and be

women can have any job they want and be welcomed with open arms into whatever

welcomed with open arms into whatever

welcomed with open arms into whatever field they choose because it’s not weird

field they choose because it’s not weird

field they choose because it’s not weird or strange for women to have that job so

or strange for women to have that job so

or strange for women to have that job so what is in the future the first thing

what is in the future the first thing

what is in the future the first thing that needs to happen is the dissolving

that needs to happen is the dissolving

that needs to happen is the dissolving of the belief that feminism is the

of the belief that feminism is the

of the belief that feminism is the belief that women are better than men

belief that women are better than men

belief that women are better than men because that’s not what feminism is the

because that’s not what feminism is the

because that’s not what feminism is the belief that women are better than men is

belief that women are better than men is

belief that women are better than men is called misandry

called misandry

called misandry I believe that with hard work we can

I believe that with hard work we can

I believe that with hard work we can change the world and we have the power

change the world and we have the power

change the world and we have the power to do it so this is the message that I

to do it so this is the message that I

to do it so this is the message that I want you to leave this room with today

want you to leave this room with today

want you to leave this room with today for women don’t stand up to

for women don’t stand up to

for women don’t stand up to discrimination go out and take that non

discrimination go out and take that non

discrimination go out and take that non feminine class that you weren’t going to

feminine class that you weren’t going to

feminine class that you weren’t going to take because it’s not girlie enough

take because it’s not girlie enough

take because it’s not girlie enough though because none of your friends are

though because none of your friends are

though because none of your friends are in it get that job and you don’t have to

in it get that job and you don’t have to

in it get that job and you don’t have to conform to X victim of

conform to X victim of

conform to X victim of have a higher paying job as you’re part

have a higher paying job as you’re part

have a higher paying job as you’re part have a higher paying job than your

have a higher paying job than your

have a higher paying job than your partner you can choose accept your

partner you can choose accept your

partner you can choose accept your freedom as a woman to choose and for

freedom as a woman to choose and for

freedom as a woman to choose and for everyone

everyone

everyone hire women for jobs done only by men in

hire women for jobs done only by men in

hire women for jobs done only by men in the past they have kids they don’t have

the past they have kids they don’t have

the past they have kids they don’t have kids

kids

kids don’t let that matter and don’t worry

don’t let that matter and don’t worry

don’t let that matter and don’t worry about tearing the social fabric because

about tearing the social fabric because

about tearing the social fabric because if you do you can just stitch it up with

if you do you can just stitch it up with

if you do you can just stitch it up with thread made of equality and justice so

thread made of equality and justice so

thread made of equality and justice so can this world be changed no not unless

can this world be changed no not unless

can this world be changed no not unless people like us rise up and recognize

people like us rise up and recognize

people like us rise up and recognize women’s rights as human rights not

women’s rights as human rights not

women’s rights as human rights not unless we are willing to not just be

unless we are willing to not just be

unless we are willing to not just be indifferent to this cause but join it

indifferent to this cause but join it

indifferent to this cause but join it support it because I’m angry I’m angry

support it because I’m angry I’m angry

support it because I’m angry I’m angry at

at

at in this country and at this world for

in this country and at this world for

in this country and at this world for standing by as the rights of women are

standing by as the rights of women are

standing by as the rights of women are taken away everywhere and if it’s what I

taken away everywhere and if it’s what I

taken away everywhere and if it’s what I need to do so that you will recognize my

need to do so that you will recognize my

need to do so that you will recognize my anger then I will proudly call myself a

anger then I will proudly call myself a

anger then I will proudly call myself a nasty woman

nasty woman

nasty woman [Applause]

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