What you don’t know about adolescent loneliness | Gerine Lodder | TEDxGroningen

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So feeling the feeling of loneliness the

feeling that you are lexan tinghir socialife

quality and quantity is something you

all know maybe i also remember it from

high school with them from different

period in your life in a relationship

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now before and tell you more about my

research and first wanna tell you about

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loneliness misconception number one

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for kids between 12 and twenty-five

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connect and just like the can not

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and the lot of lonely chronically

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and social media

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load and up to 15 years and i do not feel i

see that so

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kohl’s or loneliness and young people or

that social media hard pedestals or

loneliness and young people work and the

is that stink its use social media and ow

death note healthy for them

so that a mechanisms the colony

offline as a player role

online now my research is a thesis

courses for loneliness offline and

looking desserts not a single process

very many different courses for

loneliness what ‘s down to the main

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social support from the press

so kids but politically something weird like that

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excluded

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they can reach their peers

you if there is not flat turn social skills

then feather in basically so in viedo

social skills ranging from basic

conversation skills to very complex

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skills

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teen satisfactory relations and then the

rest sun kids

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and their social and violent negatively

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quality affairs and friends donkre

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classmates and others is so in the wd

perceived to social world

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social environment social skills and how

the perceived that my experience

you can imagine that it was like the

franchise or crassus for loneliness

theory if not very different

solutions that no one size fits all ‘

solution for loneliness

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and that’s quite difficult

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place and believe me i am now it’s

difficult

the talk about loneliness he started that

start when you were about to keep count

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and still feel and cruel that you’re my jimmy

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remaining this to pay kilo things

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come to was there was problems

so who does not talk about it and also

how you do not the eyes them about their

loneliness and should be a mustache

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health so that you can keep it if I hold it

doing what specifically as them have you

do what your fans that stand and feel that

others and more to do in your animal

sometimes i wish i had more people to

talk to you as which questions which can

get behind loneliness in her kids

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someone between the ages of hot and

twenty five frazier them the vino summer

oh wow so almost everyone but this

wonderful that’s really great

I really urge you please to up

to those kids

week as you can make a difference in the

skatalites

thank you

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