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truth how you define who you are what

truth how you define who you are what you want to be the impact you want to

you want to be the impact you want to

you want to be the impact you want to have on the world and why is it so

have on the world and why is it so

have on the world and why is it so important it’s important to understand

important it’s important to understand

important it’s important to understand your truth because to live a fulfilled

your truth because to live a fulfilled

your truth because to live a fulfilled life to maximize your full potential to

life to maximize your full potential to

life to maximize your full potential to make the impact that only you can make

make the impact that only you can make

make the impact that only you can make with your singularly designed DNA you

with your singularly designed DNA you

with your singularly designed DNA you need to know who you are so that the

need to know who you are so that the

need to know who you are so that the choices in your life’s journey resonates

choices in your life’s journey resonates

choices in your life’s journey resonates with what’s inside so what is my truth

with what’s inside so what is my truth

with what’s inside so what is my truth my personal story is filled with many

my personal story is filled with many

my personal story is filled with many life defining moments my life has been a

life defining moments my life has been a

life defining moments my life has been a journey of breaking barriers challenging

journey of breaking barriers challenging

journey of breaking barriers challenging the status quo succeeded by achieving

the status quo succeeded by achieving

the status quo succeeded by achieving excellence in many areas both personally

excellence in many areas both personally

excellence in many areas both personally and professionally I’m a Nigerian girl

and professionally I’m a Nigerian girl

and professionally I’m a Nigerian girl bunch of parents foreign educated who

bunch of parents foreign educated who

bunch of parents foreign educated who instilled in my two sisters and I a very

instilled in my two sisters and I a very

instilled in my two sisters and I a very strong sense of self and single-minded

strong sense of self and single-minded

strong sense of self and single-minded independence and aside from running

independence and aside from running

independence and aside from running marathons completing three half Iron

marathons completing three half Iron

marathons completing three half Iron Man’s and finishing one full Ironman and

Man’s and finishing one full Ironman and

Man’s and finishing one full Ironman and raising money for charities I’ve also

raising money for charities I’ve also

raising money for charities I’ve also lived and worked across Nigeria the UK

lived and worked across Nigeria the UK

lived and worked across Nigeria the UK Northern Ireland the u.s. Malaysia

Northern Ireland the u.s. Malaysia

Northern Ireland the u.s. Malaysia Singapore Dubai China Thailand Hong Kong

Singapore Dubai China Thailand Hong Kong

Singapore Dubai China Thailand Hong Kong and I have experience doing business in

and I have experience doing business in

and I have experience doing business in a few African countries I finished a

a few African countries I finished a

a few African countries I finished a master’s in mechanical engineering the

master’s in mechanical engineering the

master’s in mechanical engineering the only girl in my class and I fought

only girl in my class and I fought

only girl in my class and I fought through finding out that I was being

through finding out that I was being

through finding out that I was being paid 25% less than guys I worked with at

paid 25% less than guys I worked with at

paid 25% less than guys I worked with at some point in my career and aside from

some point in my career and aside from

some point in my career and aside from being and

being and

being and negative in the oil and gas services

negative in the oil and gas services

negative in the oil and gas services industry today I also launched a

industry today I also launched a

industry today I also launched a nonprofit to get more women into CEO and

nonprofit to get more women into CEO and

nonprofit to get more women into CEO and c-suite roles in the NGO industry

c-suite roles in the NGO industry

c-suite roles in the NGO industry because there is a gap and we need to

because there is a gap and we need to

because there is a gap and we need to fix that gap and I’m also working on

fix that gap and I’m also working on

fix that gap and I’m also working on raising a scholarship for my alma mater

raising a scholarship for my alma mater

raising a scholarship for my alma mater you see from a very young age I had a

you see from a very young age I had a

you see from a very young age I had a very strong sense of who I am and who

very strong sense of who I am and who

very strong sense of who I am and who I’m called to be I knew I wanted to lead

I’m called to be I knew I wanted to lead

I’m called to be I knew I wanted to lead people and make lives better I I knew I

people and make lives better I I knew I

people and make lives better I I knew I wanted to lead businesses and an

wanted to lead businesses and an

wanted to lead businesses and an influential levels that I can contribute

influential levels that I can contribute

influential levels that I can contribute to economic advancement I knew that I

to economic advancement I knew that I

to economic advancement I knew that I wanted to design and build and create

wanted to design and build and create

wanted to design and build and create technology so that I contribute to

technology so that I contribute to

technology so that I contribute to moving mankind further I also wanted to

moving mankind further I also wanted to

moving mankind further I also wanted to mentor people and invest in ideas so

mentor people and invest in ideas so

mentor people and invest in ideas so that I can help other people achieve

that I can help other people achieve

that I can help other people achieve their full potential I wanted to support

their full potential I wanted to support

their full potential I wanted to support women in maximizing their talents I also

women in maximizing their talents I also

women in maximizing their talents I also had my own natural curiosity for for

had my own natural curiosity for for

had my own natural curiosity for for people for the world for different

people for the world for different

people for the world for different cultures for just the way things are

cultures for just the way things are

cultures for just the way things are done and I’m aware that not everybody

done and I’m aware that not everybody

done and I’m aware that not everybody has this strong sense of self or this

has this strong sense of self or this

has this strong sense of self or this strong sense of calling which is why

strong sense of calling which is why

strong sense of calling which is why we’re having this talk today so I ask

we’re having this talk today so I ask

we’re having this talk today so I ask you what is your truth how do you find

you what is your truth how do you find

you what is your truth how do you find it and how do you live it you see I want

it and how do you live it you see I want

it and how do you live it you see I want to think of us today as being in four

to think of us today as being in four

to think of us today as being in four groups first of all those who have found

groups first of all those who have found

groups first of all those who have found their truth and are living it well this

their truth and are living it well this

their truth and are living it well this message is to reinforce you and those

message is to reinforce you and those

message is to reinforce you and those who have found their truth and feel that

who have found their truth and feel that

who have found their truth and feel that they’re still searching for parts of it

they’re still searching for parts of it

they’re still searching for parts of it that are missing for this truth this

that are missing for this truth this

that are missing for this truth this this message today is to help you with

this message today is to help you with

this message today is to help you with your search and those of us who feel

your search and those of us who feel

your search and those of us who feel that we found the truth but it changes

that we found the truth but it changes

that we found the truth but it changes with the seasons of life well this

with the seasons of life well this

with the seasons of life well this message today is to help you understand

message today is to help you understand

message today is to help you understand that your truth is very different from

that your truth is very different from

that your truth is very different from your direction and lastly for the

your direction and lastly for the

your direction and lastly for the seekers for those too trying to conjure

seekers for those too trying to conjure

seekers for those too trying to conjure up a definition of their truth those who

up a definition of their truth those who

up a definition of their truth those who are asking questions that feel they

are asking questions that feel they

are asking questions that feel they should be doing something bigger

should be doing something bigger

should be doing something bigger impacting the walls in a greater way but

impacting the walls in a greater way but

impacting the walls in a greater way but just don’t know how

just don’t know how

just don’t know how find the road to that journey or how to

find the road to that journey or how to

find the road to that journey or how to live that journey well welcome

live that journey well welcome

live that journey well welcome I hope this talk helps you find your way

I hope this talk helps you find your way

I hope this talk helps you find your way so no matter what group you are

so no matter what group you are

so no matter what group you are identified with at the end this message

identified with at the end this message

identified with at the end this message is supposed to leave all of us with some

is supposed to leave all of us with some

is supposed to leave all of us with some tools to being able to describe our

tools to being able to describe our

tools to being able to describe our truth to find it and to live it and the

truth to find it and to live it and the

truth to find it and to live it and the tools are the same for all of us whether

tools are the same for all of us whether

tools are the same for all of us whether you’re about to graduate and you’re

you’re about to graduate and you’re

you’re about to graduate and you’re wondering what to do with your career or

wondering what to do with your career or

wondering what to do with your career or you need to make decisions about life

you need to make decisions about life

you need to make decisions about life and love and family and relationships or

and love and family and relationships or

and love and family and relationships or you’re in a career wondering what should

you’re in a career wondering what should

you’re in a career wondering what should I do next and those of you who

I do next and those of you who

I do next and those of you who entrepreneurs and seeking that next step

entrepreneurs and seeking that next step

entrepreneurs and seeking that next step or those who want to jump into

or those who want to jump into

or those who want to jump into entrepreneurship and if you’re just

entrepreneurship and if you’re just

entrepreneurship and if you’re just assessing life in general and wondering

assessing life in general and wondering

assessing life in general and wondering what you should be doing with yourself

what you should be doing with yourself

what you should be doing with yourself if you’re truly living a life that is

if you’re truly living a life that is

if you’re truly living a life that is authentic to you well I can tell you

authentic to you well I can tell you

authentic to you well I can tell you that finding and living our truth is a

that finding and living our truth is a

that finding and living our truth is a universal constant to all of us so how

universal constant to all of us so how

universal constant to all of us so how do you find your truth I like to kind of

do you find your truth I like to kind of

do you find your truth I like to kind of describe it as our truth is found in

describe it as our truth is found in

describe it as our truth is found in collecting all of our life’s little

collecting all of our life’s little

collecting all of our life’s little treasures and putting them together to

treasures and putting them together to

treasures and putting them together to one day a picture forms before us where

one day a picture forms before us where

one day a picture forms before us where we can grasp at a definitive description

we can grasp at a definitive description

we can grasp at a definitive description of who we are but let me say that again

of who we are but let me say that again

of who we are but let me say that again our truth is found by collecting all of

our truth is found by collecting all of

our truth is found by collecting all of our life’s little treasures and putting

our life’s little treasures and putting

our life’s little treasures and putting them together so we can come up with a

them together so we can come up with a

them together so we can come up with a definitive description of ourselves and

definitive description of ourselves and

definitive description of ourselves and you see this journey starts from

you see this journey starts from

you see this journey starts from childhood it’s all of your life little

childhood it’s all of your life little

childhood it’s all of your life little treasures that are moments of your life

treasures that are moments of your life

treasures that are moments of your life experiences the lessons that you take

experiences the lessons that you take

experiences the lessons that you take out of events the things that have

out of events the things that have

out of events the things that have piqued your interest and your curiosity

piqued your interest and your curiosity

piqued your interest and your curiosity the imprints of conviction that I’ve

the imprints of conviction that I’ve

the imprints of conviction that I’ve been left on your heart from a young age

been left on your heart from a young age

been left on your heart from a young age which is overlaid on your traits and

which is overlaid on your traits and

which is overlaid on your traits and your personal temperament and sometimes

your personal temperament and sometimes

your personal temperament and sometimes our treasures we’ve done of the stories

our treasures we’ve done of the stories

our treasures we’ve done of the stories of our parents and generations before us

of our parents and generations before us

of our parents and generations before us let me give you an illustration of what

let me give you an illustration of what

let me give you an illustration of what I mean by that I come from a line of

I mean by that I come from a line of

I mean by that I come from a line of grandmothers on both sides who wear

grandmothers on both sides who wear

grandmothers on both sides who wear self-starters risk-takers and business

self-starters risk-takers and business

self-starters risk-takers and business owners who

owners who

owners who in a time where education was favored

in a time where education was favored

in a time where education was favored for boys and not girls and I often

for boys and not girls and I often

for boys and not girls and I often wondered what they could have become

wondered what they could have become

wondered what they could have become what they could have achieved with their

what they could have achieved with their

what they could have achieved with their talents and I can tell you that that

talents and I can tell you that that

talents and I can tell you that that little treasure from me imprinted on my

little treasure from me imprinted on my

little treasure from me imprinted on my young mind that I was going to cherish

young mind that I was going to cherish

young mind that I was going to cherish my education and support other people to

my education and support other people to

my education and support other people to do the same that I was going to work

do the same that I was going to work

do the same that I was going to work hard to maximize my talents but I will

hard to maximize my talents but I will

hard to maximize my talents but I will also help other women achieve their full

also help other women achieve their full

also help other women achieve their full potential

potential

potential now here’s another treasure I can share

now here’s another treasure I can share

now here’s another treasure I can share with you when I was about eight years

with you when I was about eight years

with you when I was about eight years old at the end of the school day I would

old at the end of the school day I would

old at the end of the school day I would go pick up my baby sister from her class

go pick up my baby sister from her class

go pick up my baby sister from her class now one day I arrived and she was crying

now one day I arrived and she was crying

now one day I arrived and she was crying and I asked her what happened I probably

and I asked her what happened I probably

and I asked her what happened I probably had teacher had spanked her know before

had teacher had spanked her know before

had teacher had spanked her know before you all get carried away you could spank

you all get carried away you could spank

you all get carried away you could spank kids in Nigeria with you know without

kids in Nigeria with you know without

kids in Nigeria with you know without having any problems now what happened

having any problems now what happened

having any problems now what happened was it was nap time and apparently she

was it was nap time and apparently she

was it was nap time and apparently she was talking with a friend of hers

was talking with a friend of hers

was talking with a friend of hers because she wasn’t sleepy so I remember

because she wasn’t sleepy so I remember

because she wasn’t sleepy so I remember going home that evening and thinking oh

going home that evening and thinking oh

going home that evening and thinking oh this isn’t really fair so I took a long

this isn’t really fair so I took a long

this isn’t really fair so I took a long piece of paper and I wrote my sister’s

piece of paper and I wrote my sister’s

piece of paper and I wrote my sister’s teacher a letter and in this letter I

teacher a letter and in this letter I

teacher a letter and in this letter I gave her my personal suggestion for how

gave her my personal suggestion for how

gave her my personal suggestion for how I thought she should run her nap times

I thought she should run her nap times

I thought she should run her nap times if everybody doesn’t want to sleep then

if everybody doesn’t want to sleep then

if everybody doesn’t want to sleep then some kids should be allowed to play or

some kids should be allowed to play or

some kids should be allowed to play or read quietly so the next morning I took

read quietly so the next morning I took

read quietly so the next morning I took my sister back to a class and I marched

my sister back to a class and I marched

my sister back to a class and I marched up I said to the lady good morning and I

up I said to the lady good morning and I

up I said to the lady good morning and I gave her my letter now needless to say I

gave her my letter now needless to say I

gave her my letter now needless to say I became pretty popular for this letter my

became pretty popular for this letter my

became pretty popular for this letter my mom host called to school but the best

mom host called to school but the best

mom host called to school but the best part about is the teacher actually came

part about is the teacher actually came

part about is the teacher actually came to adore me and my sister but you know

to adore me and my sister but you know

to adore me and my sister but you know what I will tell you is that Who I am

what I will tell you is that Who I am

what I will tell you is that Who I am and who I’ve become lays in the treasure

and who I’ve become lays in the treasure

and who I’ve become lays in the treasure of that story that I share with you of

of that story that I share with you of

of that story that I share with you of the eighth year ago who wrote it a

the eighth year ago who wrote it a

the eighth year ago who wrote it a letter to her baby sister’s teacher and

letter to her baby sister’s teacher and

letter to her baby sister’s teacher and so in the end how you define your truth

so in the end how you define your truth

so in the end how you define your truth truly comes from collecting your

truly comes from collecting your

truly comes from collecting your treasures they’re about your stories

treasures they’re about your stories

treasures they’re about your stories that the things that you like and don’t

that the things that you like and don’t

that the things that you like and don’t like

like

like they’re about your opinions that you

they’re about your opinions that you

they’re about your opinions that you have formed through things that you’ve

have formed through things that you’ve

have formed through things that you’ve been through they’re oftentimes things

been through they’re oftentimes things

been through they’re oftentimes things that have inspired you in other people

that have inspired you in other people

that have inspired you in other people sometimes they’re the challenges that

sometimes they’re the challenges that

sometimes they’re the challenges that have been created inside of you that

have been created inside of you that

have been created inside of you that made you resolve to do a certain thing

made you resolve to do a certain thing

made you resolve to do a certain thing and at the same time this can also come

and at the same time this can also come

and at the same time this can also come from a yearning of things you didn’t

from a yearning of things you didn’t

from a yearning of things you didn’t have or experiences you didn’t have or

have or experiences you didn’t have or

have or experiences you didn’t have or something you wish would have been done

something you wish would have been done

something you wish would have been done a different way and usually this

a different way and usually this

a different way and usually this template is set from a very young age

template is set from a very young age

template is set from a very young age now the definition of your truth matures

now the definition of your truth matures

now the definition of your truth matures with age so for example eight year of me

with age so for example eight year of me

with age so for example eight year of me would have said I want to change the

would have said I want to change the

would have said I want to change the world and 15 year old me will say well

world and 15 year old me will say well

world and 15 year old me will say well I’m gonna go change the world because

I’m gonna go change the world because

I’m gonna go change the world because when I become an engineer I’m gonna

when I become an engineer I’m gonna

when I become an engineer I’m gonna design things to make the world a better

design things to make the world a better

design things to make the world a better place and here I stand today telling you

place and here I stand today telling you

place and here I stand today telling you as a much grown woman that I want to

as a much grown woman that I want to

as a much grown woman that I want to change the world by helping more women

change the world by helping more women

change the world by helping more women attain senior positions in the industry

attain senior positions in the industry

attain senior positions in the industry now if you notice my truth hasn’t

now if you notice my truth hasn’t

now if you notice my truth hasn’t changed the core of Who I am has

changed the core of Who I am has

changed the core of Who I am has remained the same now my definition has

remained the same now my definition has

remained the same now my definition has matured over time and the message has

matured over time and the message has

matured over time and the message has matured over time so I invite all of you

matured over time so I invite all of you

matured over time so I invite all of you to spend some time collecting your

to spend some time collecting your

to spend some time collecting your treasures trace your stories back and be

treasures trace your stories back and be

treasures trace your stories back and be brave enough to affirm who you know you

brave enough to affirm who you know you

brave enough to affirm who you know you are now let’s talk about how you live

are now let’s talk about how you live

are now let’s talk about how you live your truth living your truth is about

your truth living your truth is about

your truth living your truth is about remaining authentic to yourself living

remaining authentic to yourself living

remaining authentic to yourself living your truth is the navigational aspect of

your truth is the navigational aspect of

your truth is the navigational aspect of life it’s very different from the

life it’s very different from the

life it’s very different from the definition of your truth and I think

definition of your truth and I think

definition of your truth and I think this is where a lot of people get stuck

this is where a lot of people get stuck

this is where a lot of people get stuck how many times have we all said I feel

how many times have we all said I feel

how many times have we all said I feel lost I bet you if I did a show of hands

lost I bet you if I did a show of hands

lost I bet you if I did a show of hands everyone’s hand will go up there you go

everyone’s hand will go up there you go

everyone’s hand will go up there you go how many times have we all said in life

how many times have we all said in life

how many times have we all said in life I just don’t know what I’m doing anymore

I just don’t know what I’m doing anymore

I just don’t know what I’m doing anymore I really can’t figure this out and I

I really can’t figure this out and I

I really can’t figure this out and I think part of the challenge there is

think part of the challenge there is

think part of the challenge there is that we need to get to a point where we

that we need to get to a point where we

that we need to get to a point where we can separate the definition of our truth

can separate the definition of our truth

can separate the definition of our truth which is our goals and our dreams and

which is our goals and our dreams and

which is our goals and our dreams and that doesn’t change it matures with time

that doesn’t change it matures with time

that doesn’t change it matures with time yes but the journey that we take through

yes but the journey that we take through

yes but the journey that we take through life the paths that we have to take now

life the paths that we have to take now

life the paths that we have to take now life presents us with challenges so we

life presents us with challenges so we

life presents us with challenges so we adapt living our truth is really just

adapt living our truth is really just

adapt living our truth is really just about the decisions and the sacrifices

about the decisions and the sacrifices

about the decisions and the sacrifices that we have to make so that we can get

that we have to make so that we can get

that we have to make so that we can get through life so we can conquer the

through life so we can conquer the

through life so we can conquer the different phases of our life and

different phases of our life and

different phases of our life and sometimes that journey just doesn’t look

sometimes that journey just doesn’t look

sometimes that journey just doesn’t look like what we thought

like what we thought

like what we thought for those of you who are in here who are

for those of you who are in here who are

for those of you who are in here who are locking a life has turned out exactly

locking a life has turned out exactly

locking a life has turned out exactly how you planned can you meet me at the

how you planned can you meet me at the

how you planned can you meet me at the end please and share your secret with me

end please and share your secret with me

end please and share your secret with me because truly the rest of us are just

because truly the rest of us are just

because truly the rest of us are just trying to live our life and I arrived at

trying to live our life and I arrived at

trying to live our life and I arrived at the definition of our goals in our

the definition of our goals in our

the definition of our goals in our dreams by taking different paths and

dreams by taking different paths and

dreams by taking different paths and being flexible with life and what I can

being flexible with life and what I can

being flexible with life and what I can tell you is that while living your truth

tell you is that while living your truth

tell you is that while living your truth on these different paths actually lies

on these different paths actually lies

on these different paths actually lies your opportunity for you to keep

your opportunity for you to keep

your opportunity for you to keep searching to keep seeking and keep

searching to keep seeking and keep

searching to keep seeking and keep digging deeper to continue to find more

digging deeper to continue to find more

digging deeper to continue to find more within yourself and define yourself it’s

within yourself and define yourself it’s

within yourself and define yourself it’s the same if you research any famous

the same if you research any famous

the same if you research any famous person or you pick one of your heroes

person or you pick one of your heroes

person or you pick one of your heroes and and you think oh wow this person has

and and you think oh wow this person has

and and you think oh wow this person has it figured out they’ve accomplished so

it figured out they’ve accomplished so

it figured out they’ve accomplished so much they’ve achieved so much if you

much they’ve achieved so much if you

much they’ve achieved so much if you ever listen to any of the

ever listen to any of the

ever listen to any of the autobiographies or you read their books

autobiographies or you read their books

autobiographies or you read their books they always start off by telling stories

they always start off by telling stories

they always start off by telling stories from their childhood the reason why they

from their childhood the reason why they

from their childhood the reason why they decided to be a certain way or not be a

decided to be a certain way or not be a

decided to be a certain way or not be a certain way what inspired them what

certain way what inspired them what

certain way what inspired them what caught their interest and for me that

caught their interest and for me that

caught their interest and for me that person is Oprah Winfrey I could tell you

person is Oprah Winfrey I could tell you

person is Oprah Winfrey I could tell you that because every time she talks very

that because every time she talks very

that because every time she talks very clearly about her childhood she shares

clearly about her childhood she shares

clearly about her childhood she shares her challenges her opportunities in her

her challenges her opportunities in her

her challenges her opportunities in her childhood but also growing up through

childhood but also growing up through

childhood but also growing up through life she speaks very clearly about how

life she speaks very clearly about how

life she speaks very clearly about how she decided to become who she is today

she decided to become who she is today

she decided to become who she is today when she found out she had a big voice

when she found out she had a big voice

when she found out she had a big voice and she wanted to share that with the

and she wanted to share that with the

and she wanted to share that with the world but what I love most about her is

world but what I love most about her is

world but what I love most about her is that she uses that platform to help

that she uses that platform to help

that she uses that platform to help other people but she always talks about

other people but she always talks about

other people but she always talks about living her truth and being authentic to

living her truth and being authentic to

living her truth and being authentic to herself so to be effective at living

herself so to be effective at living

herself so to be effective at living your truth is very simple for every step

your truth is very simple for every step

your truth is very simple for every step that you take continue to assess am i

that you take continue to assess am i

that you take continue to assess am i doing what resonates with me am i doing

doing what resonates with me am i doing

doing what resonates with me am i doing what resonates with my truth what I feel

what resonates with my truth what I feel

what resonates with my truth what I feel comfortable with on the inside and is

comfortable with on the inside and is

comfortable with on the inside and is what I’m doing the way I’m living is it

what I’m doing the way I’m living is it

what I’m doing the way I’m living is it gonna help me get to my goals now I know

gonna help me get to my goals now I know

gonna help me get to my goals now I know there are more questions okay so you

there are more questions okay so you

there are more questions okay so you find your truth you live it but if you

find your truth you live it but if you

find your truth you live it but if you like any of us we all get a little bit

like any of us we all get a little bit

like any of us we all get a little bit confused once in a while

confused once in a while

confused once in a while and the question is how do we deal with

and the question is how do we deal with

and the question is how do we deal with that what happens when we get scared or

that what happens when we get scared or

that what happens when we get scared or what do we do with that fear and what if

what do we do with that fear and what if

what do we do with that fear and what if life just doesn’t give you the lucky

life just doesn’t give you the lucky

life just doesn’t give you the lucky lottery what happens if you don’t have

lottery what happens if you don’t have

lottery what happens if you don’t have the resources and the tools to live your

the resources and the tools to live your

the resources and the tools to live your truth or you live in a part of the world

truth or you live in a part of the world

truth or you live in a part of the world where your truth this challenge or a

where your truth this challenge or a

where your truth this challenge or a part of your challenge is that your

part of your challenge is that your

part of your challenge is that your truth really is in conflict with other

truth really is in conflict with other

truth really is in conflict with other parts of yourself now I could tell you

parts of yourself now I could tell you

parts of yourself now I could tell you that on my way to this talk I’m actually

that on my way to this talk I’m actually

that on my way to this talk I’m actually going through a big life decision I was

going through a big life decision I was

going through a big life decision I was thinking to myself gosh I really wish I

thinking to myself gosh I really wish I

thinking to myself gosh I really wish I was in the audience and someone was

was in the audience and someone was

was in the audience and someone was giving me this talk but since I’m up

giving me this talk but since I’m up

giving me this talk but since I’m up here I said hey how would I actually

here I said hey how would I actually

here I said hey how would I actually deal with these challenges well my

deal with these challenges well my

deal with these challenges well my guidance to you is simply this the first

guidance to you is simply this the first

guidance to you is simply this the first thing I’ve done at every point when I

thing I’ve done at every point when I

thing I’ve done at every point when I face the challenges I’ve overcome I

face the challenges I’ve overcome I

face the challenges I’ve overcome I assess I think to myself how can i

assess I think to myself how can i

assess I think to myself how can i balance and compromise and then I seek

balance and compromise and then I seek

balance and compromise and then I seek advice there is power in asking guys but

advice there is power in asking guys but

advice there is power in asking guys but when you ask remember to enter into an

when you ask remember to enter into an

when you ask remember to enter into an offering of asking and giving because

offering of asking and giving because

offering of asking and giving because there are people who have come before us

there are people who have come before us

there are people who have come before us who’ve lived this journey who may have

who’ve lived this journey who may have

who’ve lived this journey who may have answers or things that we haven’t

answers or things that we haven’t

answers or things that we haven’t considered and then I act and when I act

considered and then I act and when I act

considered and then I act and when I act I do with courage and without cynicism I

I do with courage and without cynicism I

I do with courage and without cynicism I jump because I believe life will catch

jump because I believe life will catch

jump because I believe life will catch me and you know if it doesn’t really

me and you know if it doesn’t really

me and you know if it doesn’t really work out or I find out that I was wrong

work out or I find out that I was wrong

work out or I find out that I was wrong I am really willing to say hey I did it

I am really willing to say hey I did it

I am really willing to say hey I did it wrong I’m not shy to change direction

wrong I’m not shy to change direction

wrong I’m not shy to change direction and try something else we also got to be

and try something else we also got to be

and try something else we also got to be willing to take risks in trying

willing to take risks in trying

willing to take risks in trying something else sometimes you gotta seek

something else sometimes you gotta seek

something else sometimes you gotta seek new opportunities and just really push

new opportunities and just really push

new opportunities and just really push your boundaries but most of all

your boundaries but most of all

your boundaries but most of all personally I could tell you that all

personally I could tell you that all

personally I could tell you that all those countries I named and all the

those countries I named and all the

those countries I named and all the things I shared with you that I’ve done

things I shared with you that I’ve done

things I shared with you that I’ve done truly just came out of the fact that I

truly just came out of the fact that I

truly just came out of the fact that I genuinely trust life and I have blind

genuinely trust life and I have blind

genuinely trust life and I have blind faith but I believe that somehow the

faith but I believe that somehow the

faith but I believe that somehow the universe is aligned to help all of us

universe is aligned to help all of us

universe is aligned to help all of us achieve who we are called to be and to

achieve who we are called to be and to

achieve who we are called to be and to achieve our goals and I think you should

achieve our goals and I think you should

achieve our goals and I think you should believe that too well at the start I

believe that too well at the start I

believe that too well at the start I promise to leave all of us with

promise to leave all of us with

promise to leave all of us with a set of tools for how to really figure

a set of tools for how to really figure

a set of tools for how to really figure this thing out so here we go

this thing out so here we go

this thing out so here we go here are my three points first remember

here are my three points first remember

here are my three points first remember to collect your truths put them together

to collect your truths put them together

to collect your truths put them together and define yourself secondly don’t

and define yourself secondly don’t

and define yourself secondly don’t forget the power of asking for help for

forget the power of asking for help for

forget the power of asking for help for support for advice and even listening

support for advice and even listening

support for advice and even listening and lastly be an angel but be open to

and lastly be an angel but be open to

and lastly be an angel but be open to accepting the Angels in your life

accepting the Angels in your life

accepting the Angels in your life because I can tell you that oftentimes

because I can tell you that oftentimes

because I can tell you that oftentimes on this journey of asking and receiving

on this journey of asking and receiving

on this journey of asking and receiving help it’s when we actually discover the

help it’s when we actually discover the

help it’s when we actually discover the answers that we’re looking for and

answers that we’re looking for and

answers that we’re looking for and lastly what has come up is something

lastly what has come up is something

lastly what has come up is something that I wrote specially for today which I

that I wrote specially for today which I

that I wrote specially for today which I truly feel and Compass’s everything that

truly feel and Compass’s everything that

truly feel and Compass’s everything that we’ve talked about and it’s something

we’ve talked about and it’s something

we’ve talked about and it’s something that I want to share with all of you

that I want to share with all of you

that I want to share with all of you remember to listening to the whispering

remember to listening to the whispering

remember to listening to the whispering voice inside that calls out to you to

voice inside that calls out to you to

voice inside that calls out to you to achieve greatness enjoy your journey

achieve greatness enjoy your journey

achieve greatness enjoy your journey through life have fun doing life be open

through life have fun doing life be open

through life have fun doing life be open to life without any cynicism in your

to life without any cynicism in your

to life without any cynicism in your heart accept new opportunities and

heart accept new opportunities and

heart accept new opportunities and experiences with an immeasurable

experiences with an immeasurable

experiences with an immeasurable innocence be naive enough to be creative

innocence be naive enough to be creative

innocence be naive enough to be creative and do what no one else will contribute

and do what no one else will contribute

and do what no one else will contribute to move in mankind further have the

to move in mankind further have the

to move in mankind further have the wisdom to remain prudent be courageous

wisdom to remain prudent be courageous

wisdom to remain prudent be courageous enough to remain humble accepting and

enough to remain humble accepting and

enough to remain humble accepting and forgiving but most of all have the

forgiving but most of all have the

forgiving but most of all have the audacity to be daring to be authentic

audacity to be daring to be authentic

audacity to be daring to be authentic and leave a positive impact on the world

and leave a positive impact on the world

and leave a positive impact on the world because only you can leave your mark on

because only you can leave your mark on

because only you can leave your mark on humanity and therein lies your truth

humanity and therein lies your truth

humanity and therein lies your truth thank you very much

thank you very much

thank you very much [Applause]

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