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“What Do You Want to Be As You Grow Up?” | Courtney Butterworth | TEDxStThomasAquinasHS


I want to start off today by asking you

I want to start off today by asking you all one question what do you want when

all one question what do you want when

all one question what do you want when you grow up that’s a question that I’ve

you grow up that’s a question that I’ve

you grow up that’s a question that I’ve been asked over and over throughout my

been asked over and over throughout my

been asked over and over throughout my life since childhood but it’s a question

life since childhood but it’s a question

life since childhood but it’s a question that I didn’t begin to question the

that I didn’t begin to question the

that I didn’t begin to question the meaning of until I began working the

meaning of until I began working the

meaning of until I began working the summer after my freshman year of high

summer after my freshman year of high

summer after my freshman year of high school naturally I had always answered

school naturally I had always answered

school naturally I had always answered the question of what I wanted to be when

the question of what I wanted to be when

the question of what I wanted to be when I grow up with an attorney because I saw

I grow up with an attorney because I saw

I grow up with an attorney because I saw that as a way to give a voice to people

that as a way to give a voice to people

that as a way to give a voice to people who I felt were underrepresented so the

who I felt were underrepresented so the

who I felt were underrepresented so the summer after my freshman year I began

summer after my freshman year I began

summer after my freshman year I began looking for work at a law firm but I

looking for work at a law firm but I

looking for work at a law firm but I kept hearing no either because I didn’t

kept hearing no either because I didn’t

kept hearing no either because I didn’t have a law degree or because I didn’t

have a law degree or because I didn’t

have a law degree or because I didn’t have a college degree or because I was

have a college degree or because I was

have a college degree or because I was simply too young but eventually I came

simply too young but eventually I came

simply too young but eventually I came into contact with a woman who gave me

into contact with a woman who gave me

into contact with a woman who gave me some advice she told me that while she

some advice she told me that while she

some advice she told me that while she couldn’t hire me because I was just too

couldn’t hire me because I was just too

couldn’t hire me because I was just too young she had a friend who worked for

young she had a friend who worked for

young she had a friend who worked for legal aid of Broward County legal aid is

legal aid of Broward County legal aid is

legal aid of Broward County legal aid is a nonprofit law firm that seeks to give

a nonprofit law firm that seeks to give

a nonprofit law firm that seeks to give free legal counsel to people who would

free legal counsel to people who would

free legal counsel to people who would otherwise be unable to afford it and

otherwise be unable to afford it and

otherwise be unable to afford it and they were in great need of volunteers so

they were in great need of volunteers so

they were in great need of volunteers so she gave me the contact information for

she gave me the contact information for

she gave me the contact information for a friend and three weeks later I was

a friend and three weeks later I was

a friend and three weeks later I was preparing for my first day at legal aid

preparing for my first day at legal aid

preparing for my first day at legal aid and I started to think about aged

and I started to think about aged

and I started to think about aged representation as I was laying out what

representation as I was laying out what

representation as I was laying out what I would wear for my first day of work as

I would wear for my first day of work as

I would wear for my first day of work as I was looking at the suit I would wear I

I was looking at the suit I would wear I

I was looking at the suit I would wear I started to think about how young I might

started to think about how young I might

started to think about how young I might be compared to everyone else in the

be compared to everyone else in the

be compared to everyone else in the office because that suit I would be

office because that suit I would be

office because that suit I would be wearing for my first day was a suit that

wearing for my first day was a suit that

wearing for my first day was a suit that I had gotten from the kids section of

I had gotten from the kids section of

I had gotten from the kids section of Kohl’s and I figured everybody else

Kohl’s and I figured everybody else

Kohl’s and I figured everybody else working there probably was not shopping

working there probably was not shopping

working there probably was not shopping in the kids section and on my first day

in the kids section and on my first day

in the kids section and on my first day I was proved correct people kept asking

I was proved correct people kept asking

I was proved correct people kept asking me where I went to school I think

me where I went to school I think

me where I went to school I think because they were trying to figure out

because they were trying to figure out

because they were trying to figure out how young I real

how young I real

how young I real was and I kept answering st. Thomas

was and I kept answering st. Thomas

was and I kept answering st. Thomas thinking that then they would make the

thinking that then they would make the

thinking that then they would make the connection of okay she goes to high

connection of okay she goes to high

connection of okay she goes to high school but then I kept having to field

school but then I kept having to field

school but then I kept having to field other questions like what my major was

other questions like what my major was

other questions like what my major was or when I was taking the bar exam

or when I was taking the bar exam

or when I was taking the bar exam because when I was saying st. Thomas

because when I was saying st. Thomas

because when I was saying st. Thomas they were assuming I meant st. Thomas

they were assuming I meant st. Thomas

they were assuming I meant st. Thomas University or st. Thomas Law School

University or st. Thomas Law School

University or st. Thomas Law School another thing I learned at my first day

another thing I learned at my first day

another thing I learned at my first day at legal aid was where exactly I would

at legal aid was where exactly I would

at legal aid was where exactly I would be working I would be assisting in the

be working I would be assisting in the

be working I would be assisting in the Broward lawyers care department of legal

Broward lawyers care department of legal

Broward lawyers care department of legal aid Broward lawyers care houses legal

aid Broward lawyers care houses legal

aid Broward lawyers care houses legal aids telephone advice hotline so

aids telephone advice hotline so

aids telephone advice hotline so potential clients call when they can’t

potential clients call when they can’t

potential clients call when they can’t afford an attorney for a legal crisis

afford an attorney for a legal crisis

afford an attorney for a legal crisis they leave a message and that message is

they leave a message and that message is

they leave a message and that message is then returned by a volunteer that

then returned by a volunteer that

then returned by a volunteer that volunteer then ask questions performs an

volunteer then ask questions performs an

volunteer then ask questions performs an intake interview and basically creates

intake interview and basically creates

intake interview and basically creates an entire case file that is then given

an entire case file that is then given

an entire case file that is then given to a pro bono attorney who calls that

to a pro bono attorney who calls that

to a pro bono attorney who calls that client back and advises them on how to

client back and advises them on how to

client back and advises them on how to best solve their issue independently on

best solve their issue independently on

best solve their issue independently on their own and they give that advice for

their own and they give that advice for

their own and they give that advice for free but I definitely wouldn’t be

free but I definitely wouldn’t be

free but I definitely wouldn’t be starting working on the hotline because

starting working on the hotline because

starting working on the hotline because that had only been done by college and

that had only been done by college and

that had only been done by college and law school interns instead I would be

law school interns instead I would be

law school interns instead I would be doing paperwork and timekeeping but my

doing paperwork and timekeeping but my

doing paperwork and timekeeping but my desk was right next to the hotline so I

desk was right next to the hotline so I

desk was right next to the hotline so I was always listening to the way those

was always listening to the way those

was always listening to the way those college and law school interns answered

college and law school interns answered

college and law school interns answered the calls and asked questions and one

the calls and asked questions and one

the calls and asked questions and one day there was an intern on the phone who

day there was an intern on the phone who

day there was an intern on the phone who was new and he was having some

was new and he was having some

was new and he was having some difficulties asking questions and

difficulties asking questions and

difficulties asking questions and figuring out what was important in the

figuring out what was important in the

figuring out what was important in the case so he posed a question to the

case so he posed a question to the

case so he posed a question to the office of what he should ask the client

office of what he should ask the client

office of what he should ask the client next and I told him what I thought he

next and I told him what I thought he

next and I told him what I thought he should do because I had heard the

should do because I had heard the

should do because I had heard the interns asking the same questions over

interns asking the same questions over

interns asking the same questions over and over but the day after I had told

and over but the day after I had told

and over but the day after I had told him what he should ask my supervisor

him what he should ask my supervisor

him what he should ask my supervisor told me it was time for me to start

told me it was time for me to start

told me it was time for me to start taking calls on the hotline myself and

taking calls on the hotline myself and

taking calls on the hotline myself and fast forward three years to today I’m

fast forward three years to today I’m

fast forward three years to today I’m still in valen the Broward lawyers care

still in valen the Broward lawyers care

still in valen the Broward lawyers care department of legal aid except now

department of legal aid except now

department of legal aid except now instead of listening to those college

instead of listening to those college

instead of listening to those college and law school interns I once sat next

and law school interns I once sat next

and law school interns I once sat next to

to

to I’ve assisted in their training when I

I’ve assisted in their training when I

I’ve assisted in their training when I was asked what I wanted to be when I

was asked what I wanted to be when I

was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up I knew I wanted to do something

grew up I knew I wanted to do something

grew up I knew I wanted to do something with law but I assumed that I couldn’t

with law but I assumed that I couldn’t

with law but I assumed that I couldn’t start to be anything with regards to law

start to be anything with regards to law

start to be anything with regards to law until I had graduated law school but at

until I had graduated law school but at

until I had graduated law school but at legal aid I had started to be something

legal aid I had started to be something

legal aid I had started to be something but in order to really understand how I

but in order to really understand how I

but in order to really understand how I started viewing this question we need to

started viewing this question we need to

started viewing this question we need to rewind back three years to when I was

rewind back three years to when I was

rewind back three years to when I was starting at legal aid because at that

starting at legal aid because at that

starting at legal aid because at that time I was also realizing something

time I was also realizing something

time I was also realizing something about my community I’m from Hollywood

about my community I’m from Hollywood

about my community I’m from Hollywood Florida and in Hollywood we have a paper

Florida and in Hollywood we have a paper

Florida and in Hollywood we have a paper called the Hollywood Gazette which is a

called the Hollywood Gazette which is a

called the Hollywood Gazette which is a free community newspaper that’s

free community newspaper that’s

free community newspaper that’s distributed throughout the city and I’m

distributed throughout the city and I’m

distributed throughout the city and I’m very proud of my city and I’m very

very proud of my city and I’m very

very proud of my city and I’m very interested in what’s going on so I was

interested in what’s going on so I was

interested in what’s going on so I was always reading the paper but I started

always reading the paper but I started

always reading the paper but I started to realize that I felt my voice wasn’t

to realize that I felt my voice wasn’t

to realize that I felt my voice wasn’t present in the paper they weren’t

present in the paper they weren’t

present in the paper they weren’t writing about teens they weren’t

writing about teens they weren’t

writing about teens they weren’t appealing to teens so I wrote to the

appealing to teens so I wrote to the

appealing to teens so I wrote to the publisher asking her if I could write an

publisher asking her if I could write an

publisher asking her if I could write an article about something that protean

article about something that protean

article about something that protean pertained to teens in Hollywood she was

pertained to teens in Hollywood she was

pertained to teens in Hollywood she was actually very enthusiastic and she

actually very enthusiastic and she

actually very enthusiastic and she agreed with the idea so what started as

agreed with the idea so what started as

agreed with the idea so what started as one single article became a series of

one single article became a series of

one single article became a series of articles written by myself the teen

articles written by myself the teen

articles written by myself the teen correspondent but what I was doing

correspondent but what I was doing

correspondent but what I was doing actually isn’t that uncommon for our age

actually isn’t that uncommon for our age

actually isn’t that uncommon for our age group according to the American press

group according to the American press

group according to the American press Institute there’s something unique about

Institute there’s something unique about

Institute there’s something unique about the way teens view the news when people

the way teens view the news when people

the way teens view the news when people in the teen age group see a problem in

in the teen age group see a problem in

in the teen age group see a problem in their community say a problem they read

their community say a problem they read

their community say a problem they read in a community newspaper they’re the

in a community newspaper they’re the

in a community newspaper they’re the most likely to go to multiple news

most likely to go to multiple news

most likely to go to multiple news sources to try to learn about the root

sources to try to learn about the root

sources to try to learn about the root of the problem it seems that teens love

of the problem it seems that teens love

of the problem it seems that teens love for drama pertains to the way that they

for drama pertains to the way that they

for drama pertains to the way that they view the news when we see a problem we

view the news when we see a problem we

view the news when we see a problem we tend to go to the most news sources

tend to go to the most news sources

tend to go to the most news sources because we want to see what’s causing

because we want to see what’s causing

because we want to see what’s causing the problem we want to know everything

the problem we want to know everything

the problem we want to know everything about it we would call this digging

about it we would call this digging

about it we would call this digging deeper and that’s exactly what I decided

deeper and that’s exactly what I decided

deeper and that’s exactly what I decided to do when I noticed a bridge between

to do when I noticed a bridge between

to do when I noticed a bridge between the work I was doing at legal aid and

the work I was doing at legal aid and

the work I was doing at legal aid and the work I was doing at the Hollywood

the work I was doing at the Hollywood

the work I was doing at the Hollywood Gazette at legal aid on the telephone

Gazette at legal aid on the telephone

Gazette at legal aid on the telephone advice hotline I realized we kept

advice hotline I realized we kept

advice hotline I realized we kept getting calls about people experiencing

getting calls about people experiencing

getting calls about people experiencing homelessness trying to apply for section

homelessness trying to apply for section

homelessness trying to apply for section 8

8

8 housing but a lot of those people were

housing but a lot of those people were

housing but a lot of those people were from my city of Hollywood so I asked the

from my city of Hollywood so I asked the

from my city of Hollywood so I asked the publisher of The Hollywood Gazette if I

publisher of The Hollywood Gazette if I

publisher of The Hollywood Gazette if I could write a series of informative

could write a series of informative

could write a series of informative articles about the issue of homelessness

articles about the issue of homelessness

articles about the issue of homelessness and everything that I was learning about

and everything that I was learning about

and everything that I was learning about it because I wanted to share that

it because I wanted to share that

it because I wanted to share that information with my community she

information with my community she

information with my community she actually agreed and I sought out to talk

actually agreed and I sought out to talk

actually agreed and I sought out to talk to everyone in my community I could who

to everyone in my community I could who

to everyone in my community I could who was affected by the problem or knew

was affected by the problem or knew

was affected by the problem or knew something about it was trying to help

something about it was trying to help

something about it was trying to help people so I spoke with a social worker

people so I spoke with a social worker

people so I spoke with a social worker who worked for the Howe Police

who worked for the Howe Police

who worked for the Howe Police Department I spoke with the supervisor

Department I spoke with the supervisor

Department I spoke with the supervisor of the Broward Outreach Center one of

of the Broward Outreach Center one of

of the Broward Outreach Center one of the largest homeless shelters in my area

the largest homeless shelters in my area

the largest homeless shelters in my area who had once been homeless himself and I

who had once been homeless himself and I

who had once been homeless himself and I spoke to the Broward outreach centers

spoke to the Broward outreach centers

spoke to the Broward outreach centers alumni group people who had been

alumni group people who had been

alumni group people who had been homeless for years two months but we’re

homeless for years two months but we’re

homeless for years two months but we’re now out of the cycle and would meet

now out of the cycle and would meet

now out of the cycle and would meet together to encourage each other and to

together to encourage each other and to

together to encourage each other and to become an advocate for people still in

become an advocate for people still in

become an advocate for people still in the cycle and when I was speaking with

the cycle and when I was speaking with

the cycle and when I was speaking with these people I was learning so much

these people I was learning so much

these people I was learning so much about the problem but there was

about the problem but there was

about the problem but there was something I wanted to do I wanted to do

something I wanted to do I wanted to do

something I wanted to do I wanted to do something more so I reached out to every

something more so I reached out to every

something more so I reached out to every person running for mayor of Hollywood

person running for mayor of Hollywood

person running for mayor of Hollywood and asked them to draft a plan on what

and asked them to draft a plan on what

and asked them to draft a plan on what they would do to help people

they would do to help people

they would do to help people experiencing homelessness if they were

experiencing homelessness if they were

experiencing homelessness if they were elected and they actually all responded

elected and they actually all responded

elected and they actually all responded their plans went online on the Hollywood

their plans went online on the Hollywood

their plans went online on the Hollywood Gazette website and in the print version

Gazette website and in the print version

Gazette website and in the print version of The Hollywood Gazette right before

of The Hollywood Gazette right before

of The Hollywood Gazette right before the local election so people could

the local election so people could

the local election so people could really make an informed decision about

really make an informed decision about

really make an informed decision about who they wanted leading their city those

who they wanted leading their city those

who they wanted leading their city those plans now allow whoever’s elected to be

plans now allow whoever’s elected to be

plans now allow whoever’s elected to be held accountable to what they said they

held accountable to what they said they

held accountable to what they said they would be doing this was me when I

would be doing this was me when I

would be doing this was me when I started to realize that I should be

started to realize that I should be

started to realize that I should be asking myself a different question I had

asking myself a different question I had

asking myself a different question I had only been asking myself what I wanted to

only been asking myself what I wanted to

only been asking myself what I wanted to be when I grew up but I started asking

be when I grew up but I started asking

be when I grew up but I started asking myself what I wanted to be doing

myself what I wanted to be doing

myself what I wanted to be doing currently I realized that I didn’t need

currently I realized that I didn’t need

currently I realized that I didn’t need to make excuses for why I couldn’t start

to make excuses for why I couldn’t start

to make excuses for why I couldn’t start making a positive impact on my community

making a positive impact on my community

making a positive impact on my community now I didn’t need to wait until I got a

now I didn’t need to wait until I got a

now I didn’t need to wait until I got a college degree I didn’t need to wait

college degree I didn’t need to wait

college degree I didn’t need to wait till I got a law degree I could start

till I got a law degree I could start

till I got a law degree I could start doing things right now to reach those

doing things right now to reach those

doing things right now to reach those goals that I’d once only set for the

goals that I’d once only set for the

goals that I’d once only set for the future but it would be naive of me to

future but it would be naive of me to

future but it would be naive of me to that I was able to do all of these

that I was able to do all of these

that I was able to do all of these things on my own a big part of why I was

things on my own a big part of why I was

things on my own a big part of why I was able to accomplish these things was

able to accomplish these things was

able to accomplish these things was because people viewed me not as a 15

because people viewed me not as a 15

because people viewed me not as a 15 year old but as someone who was capable

year old but as someone who was capable

year old but as someone who was capable of making change unfortunately not

of making change unfortunately not

of making change unfortunately not everyone shares that mindset according

everyone shares that mindset according

everyone shares that mindset according to the University of nevada-reno after

to the University of nevada-reno after

to the University of nevada-reno after interviewing American adults and

interviewing American adults and

interviewing American adults and American teens sixty-one percent of

American teens sixty-one percent of

American teens sixty-one percent of American adults do not believe teens can

American adults do not believe teens can

American adults do not believe teens can be trusted think they’re disrespectful

be trusted think they’re disrespectful

be trusted think they’re disrespectful and don’t think that they should be

and don’t think that they should be

and don’t think that they should be trusted in regards to any occupation and

trusted in regards to any occupation and

trusted in regards to any occupation and although they may think that teens have

although they may think that teens have

although they may think that teens have their headphones in and aren’t really

their headphones in and aren’t really

their headphones in and aren’t really listening to them they are because only

listening to them they are because only

listening to them they are because only 20 percent of teens interviewed said

20 percent of teens interviewed said

20 percent of teens interviewed said that they felt adults in their community

that they felt adults in their community

that they felt adults in their community valued them in the impact they could

valued them in the impact they could

valued them in the impact they could make and this is really frightening when

make and this is really frightening when

make and this is really frightening when we look at just how much of an impact

we look at just how much of an impact

we look at just how much of an impact teens can make on their community

teens can make on their community

teens can make on their community they’re giving hours on hours to their

they’re giving hours on hours to their

they’re giving hours on hours to their community and they’re providing age

community and they’re providing age

community and they’re providing age representation diverse viewpoints that

representation diverse viewpoints that

representation diverse viewpoints that doesn’t mean that companies need to high

doesn’t mean that companies need to high

doesn’t mean that companies need to high fire all the old people working for them

fire all the old people working for them

fire all the old people working for them and only hire young people it just means

and only hire young people it just means

and only hire young people it just means that they might want to look to another

that they might want to look to another

that they might want to look to another viewpoint because teens who are working

viewpoint because teens who are working

viewpoint because teens who are working are learning responsibility they’re

are learning responsibility they’re

are learning responsibility they’re learning to be held accountable for

learning to be held accountable for

learning to be held accountable for their own actions and teens volunteering

their own actions and teens volunteering

their own actions and teens volunteering in their community are more likely to

in their community are more likely to

in their community are more likely to graduate from high school and they’re

graduate from high school and they’re

graduate from high school and they’re more likely to continue to help their

more likely to continue to help their

more likely to continue to help their community as time goes on and I know it

community as time goes on and I know it

community as time goes on and I know it seems really simple to stand up here and

seems really simple to stand up here and

seems really simple to stand up here and say that just you should just start

say that just you should just start

say that just you should just start letting more teens do more work but it

letting more teens do more work but it

letting more teens do more work but it actually is just that simple

actually is just that simple

actually is just that simple and it goes all the way back to a single

and it goes all the way back to a single

and it goes all the way back to a single question the question that I began by

question the question that I began by

question the question that I began by asking all of you today

asking all of you today

asking all of you today what do you want to be when you grow up

what do you want to be when you grow up

what do you want to be when you grow up when you ask someone what they want to

when you ask someone what they want to

when you ask someone what they want to be when they grow up you’re insinuating

be when they grow up you’re insinuating

be when they grow up you’re insinuating that they can’t be anything until

that they can’t be anything until

that they can’t be anything until they’ve grown up they can’t make an

they’ve grown up they can’t make an

they’ve grown up they can’t make an impact on their community till they have

impact on their community till they have

impact on their community till they have a college degree or a graduate degree or

a college degree or a graduate degree or

a college degree or a graduate degree or they have a serious career but that’s

they have a serious career but that’s

they have a serious career but that’s simply not true what that question is

simply not true what that question is

simply not true what that question is having an impact on teens according to

having an impact on teens according to

having an impact on teens according to the US Department of Education Center

the US Department of Education Center

the US Department of Education Center for national education stitch

for national education stitch

for national education stitch there was a study conducted on teens who

there was a study conducted on teens who

there was a study conducted on teens who were asked to volunteer and teens who

were asked to volunteer and teens who

were asked to volunteer and teens who were never asked to volunteer of the

were never asked to volunteer of the

were never asked to volunteer of the teens who were asked to volunteer 93

teens who were asked to volunteer 93

teens who were asked to volunteer 93 percent did of teens who were never

percent did of teens who were never

percent did of teens who were never asked to volunteer only 24 percent did

asked to volunteer only 24 percent did

asked to volunteer only 24 percent did this makes everything seem really simple

this makes everything seem really simple

this makes everything seem really simple it all comes down to asking a question

it all comes down to asking a question

it all comes down to asking a question so in conclusion we need to stop asking

so in conclusion we need to stop asking

so in conclusion we need to stop asking people especially young people what they

people especially young people what they

people especially young people what they want to be when they grow up and start

want to be when they grow up and start

want to be when they grow up and start asking them what they want to be now

asking them what they want to be now

asking them what they want to be now what they want to be as they grow up

what they want to be as they grow up

what they want to be as they grow up thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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