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We Decide Who We Are | Sean Murphy | TEDxYouth@PickeringValley


so my genre began about a destructor so

so my genre began about a destructor so I teach kids how to dance how to their

I teach kids how to dance how to their

I teach kids how to dance how to their bodies and if they really listen to me

bodies and if they really listen to me

bodies and if they really listen to me for a long period time generally takes

for a long period time generally takes

for a long period time generally takes about 7 to 8 years they listen to really

about 7 to 8 years they listen to really

about 7 to 8 years they listen to really work and really trying to apply

work and really trying to apply

work and really trying to apply themselves I tell them I actually teach

themselves I tell them I actually teach

themselves I tell them I actually teach them how to squat because dance is a art

them how to squat because dance is a art

them how to squat because dance is a art form and the sport and activity that you

form and the sport and activity that you

form and the sport and activity that you do where you are involving muscles in

do where you are involving muscles in

do where you are involving muscles in your body that most athletes and other

your body that most athletes and other

your body that most athletes and other sports other gymnastics no one uses

sports other gymnastics no one uses

sports other gymnastics no one uses these muscles than a lot of dancers use

these muscles than a lot of dancers use

these muscles than a lot of dancers use so I teach you how to use those muscles

so I teach you how to use those muscles

so I teach you how to use those muscles to enable you to jump in the air to look

to enable you to jump in the air to look

to enable you to jump in the air to look like your fly okay so everyone knows but

like your fly okay so everyone knows but

like your fly okay so everyone knows but gravity is there keeps you down to the

gravity is there keeps you down to the

gravity is there keeps you down to the ground

ground

ground yeah so gravity is something that you’re

yeah so gravity is something that you’re

yeah so gravity is something that you’re finding all the time it’s there just

finding all the time it’s there just

finding all the time it’s there just keeps us grounded what we learn to do

keeps us grounded what we learn to do

keeps us grounded what we learn to do things to make us look like birds on the

things to make us look like birds on the

things to make us look like birds on the moon gravity and that’s by losing height

moon gravity and that’s by losing height

moon gravity and that’s by losing height of this floor and jumping and jumping

of this floor and jumping and jumping

of this floor and jumping and jumping and it’s landing now let me ask by show

and it’s landing now let me ask by show

and it’s landing now let me ask by show of hands how many how many dancers do we

of hands how many how many dancers do we

of hands how many how many dancers do we have good ghost good girls right couple

have good ghost good girls right couple

have good ghost good girls right couple boys do now me being a boy good job but

boys do now me being a boy good job but

boys do now me being a boy good job but it was a little bit difficult when I

it was a little bit difficult when I

it was a little bit difficult when I started dancing I actually didn’t start

started dancing I actually didn’t start

started dancing I actually didn’t start dancing

dancing

dancing eighteen years old and people said there

eighteen years old and people said there

eighteen years old and people said there is no way that you could become a

is no way that you could become a

is no way that you could become a professional dancer starting to age of

professional dancer starting to age of

professional dancer starting to age of eighteen years old I don’t look through

eighteen years old I don’t look through

eighteen years old I don’t look through this info I know in my mind what I have

this info I know in my mind what I have

this info I know in my mind what I have to do so I’m going to work my first and

to do so I’m going to work my first and

to do so I’m going to work my first and see what happens within four years of

see what happens within four years of

see what happens within four years of training but as a classical dancer I

training but as a classical dancer I

training but as a classical dancer I made it into one of the top ballet

made it into one of the top ballet

made it into one of the top ballet companies in the world and that’s

companies in the world and that’s

companies in the world and that’s located in New York students on the

located in New York students on the

located in New York students on the American Ballet Theatre so four years of

American Ballet Theatre so four years of

American Ballet Theatre so four years of training when I see training I have

training when I see training I have

training when I see training I have training from 9:00 in the morning until

training from 9:00 in the morning until

training from 9:00 in the morning until 9:00 at night almost every single day

9:00 at night almost every single day

9:00 at night almost every single day because that was my passion

because that was my passion

because that was my passion I used to love being on stage acting

I used to love being on stage acting

I used to love being on stage acting singing dude musicals but I found ballet

singing dude musicals but I found ballet

singing dude musicals but I found ballet which wasn’t until much later obviously

which wasn’t until much later obviously

which wasn’t until much later obviously a team that took all the sports I ever

a team that took all the sports I ever

a team that took all the sports I ever did I played football I did that’s the

did I played football I did that’s the

did I played football I did that’s the light in baseball I’ve invested swimming

light in baseball I’ve invested swimming

light in baseball I’ve invested swimming test everything it was all fun but I

test everything it was all fun but I

test everything it was all fun but I also love possible music and I fell in

also love possible music and I fell in

also love possible music and I fell in love with being on stage and entertained

love with being on stage and entertained

love with being on stage and entertained I wasn’t very social in school and I

I wasn’t very social in school and I

I wasn’t very social in school and I moved to a different location where I

moved to a different location where I

moved to a different location where I didn’t know anybody

didn’t know anybody

didn’t know anybody and when to me and so this is the way I

and when to me and so this is the way I

and when to me and so this is the way I did I just press myself being on stage

did I just press myself being on stage

did I just press myself being on stage taking to be another character it was

taking to be another character it was

taking to be another character it was always easy to talk in a different

always easy to talk in a different

always easy to talk in a different accent and pretend I was doing something

accent and pretend I was doing something

accent and pretend I was doing something that no one had any idea what I was yeah

that no one had any idea what I was yeah

that no one had any idea what I was yeah so it was a lot of fun but but I when I

so it was a lot of fun but but I when I

so it was a lot of fun but but I when I found that let it combine both of those

found that let it combine both of those

found that let it combine both of those love in athletic and also being onstage

love in athletic and also being onstage

love in athletic and also being onstage combined together and it was a great

combined together and it was a great

combined together and it was a great experience smell bad and they will be

experience smell bad and they will be

experience smell bad and they will be after doing American our theater in New

after doing American our theater in New

after doing American our theater in New York something I really did

York something I really did

York something I really did I was able to travel the world I was

I was able to travel the world I was

I was able to travel the world I was taken to different countries who

taken to different countries who

taken to different countries who reported theatres and they were from

reported theatres and they were from

reported theatres and they were from London two priests to complicated and

London two priests to complicated and

London two priests to complicated and even the Far East we were in Japan

even the Far East we were in Japan

even the Far East we were in Japan performed in Singapore saliva see the

performed in Singapore saliva see the

performed in Singapore saliva see the world

world

world Buenos Aires in Argentina there’s some

Buenos Aires in Argentina there’s some

Buenos Aires in Argentina there’s some of the pictures there that and it was a

of the pictures there that and it was a

of the pictures there that and it was a lot of fun we had a great time there’s a

lot of fun we had a great time there’s a

lot of fun we had a great time there’s a lot of work involved but it was really

lot of work involved but it was really

lot of work involved but it was really the passion that I found to do that was

the passion that I found to do that was

the passion that I found to do that was weight greater than the effects a lot of

weight greater than the effects a lot of

weight greater than the effects a lot of it so the effects in that the dancer any

it so the effects in that the dancer any

it so the effects in that the dancer any top after baseball football our injuries

top after baseball football our injuries

top after baseball football our injuries a lot of injuries I think all together I

a lot of injuries I think all together I

a lot of injuries I think all together I had probably seven or eight ankle

had probably seven or eight ankle

had probably seven or eight ankle injuries were at that surgery so in fact

injuries were at that surgery so in fact

injuries were at that surgery so in fact my career-ending injury and grip the

my career-ending injury and grip the

my career-ending injury and grip the hamstring which is the back muscle and

hamstring which is the back muscle and

hamstring which is the back muscle and then I ripped another muscle and that

then I ripped another muscle and that

then I ripped another muscle and that stopped me from Nancy but even in that

stopped me from Nancy but even in that

stopped me from Nancy but even in that point I said I’m not done I didn’t I

point I said I’m not done I didn’t I

point I said I’m not done I didn’t I didn’t listen to the doctors on your

didn’t listen to the doctors on your

didn’t listen to the doctors on your liver and I knew I wanted Antonette well

liver and I knew I wanted Antonette well

liver and I knew I wanted Antonette well I got almost there and then another

I got almost there and then another

I got almost there and then another little accident happened where I broke

little accident happened where I broke

little accident happened where I broke my ankle to the last time and at that

my ankle to the last time and at that

my ankle to the last time and at that point the screws to hold it up so I

point the screws to hold it up so I

point the screws to hold it up so I teach ballet I can point ones like the

teach ballet I can point ones like the

teach ballet I can point ones like the other foot I always have to explain has

other foot I always have to explain has

other foot I always have to explain has screws in it so I can’t dance but the

screws in it so I can’t dance but the

screws in it so I can’t dance but the passion is still there

passion is still there

passion is still there I can still teach when I teach the kids

I can still teach when I teach the kids

I can still teach when I teach the kids around your age generally starts around

around your age generally starts around

around your age generally starts around nine ten oh it is I explain my foot but

nine ten oh it is I explain my foot but

nine ten oh it is I explain my foot but I’m still able to do things it’s doing

I’m still able to do things it’s doing

I’m still able to do things it’s doing with my leg and show that the things

with my leg and show that the things

with my leg and show that the things that I used to do and teach them how to

that I used to do and teach them how to

that I used to do and teach them how to fly and they always think

fly and they always think

fly and they always think God it would not see if he’d hit that

God it would not see if he’d hit that

God it would not see if he’d hit that ability to jump in the air and stay in

ability to jump in the air and stay in

ability to jump in the air and stay in the air and then jump leader again it

the air and then jump leader again it

the air and then jump leader again it just makes everything worth it’s really

just makes everything worth it’s really

just makes everything worth it’s really important time now we go back a little

important time now we go back a little

important time now we go back a little bit of my history of trying to overcome

bit of my history of trying to overcome

bit of my history of trying to overcome bigger obstacles when I first with us to

bigger obstacles when I first with us to

bigger obstacles when I first with us to do this I was told that I go on through

do this I was told that I go on through

do this I was told that I go on through many a persons in my life at first

many a persons in my life at first

many a persons in my life at first everyone no adversity difficulties

everyone no adversity difficulties

everyone no adversity difficulties things that happen yes I didn’t know if

things that happen yes I didn’t know if

things that happen yes I didn’t know if that really met so I have searched my

that really met so I have searched my

that really met so I have searched my head I think it well planned really

head I think it well planned really

head I think it well planned really happy I know a lot of people who did but

happy I know a lot of people who did but

happy I know a lot of people who did but when I started thinking and back of my

when I started thinking and back of my

when I started thinking and back of my life I really didn’t like this to be

life I really didn’t like this to be

life I really didn’t like this to be good did I

good did I

good did I I was say a little bit my childhood us

I was say a little bit my childhood us

I was say a little bit my childhood us at 3 years old my parents separated at 9

at 3 years old my parents separated at 9

at 3 years old my parents separated at 9 years old my mother passed away and then

years old my mother passed away and then

years old my mother passed away and then at 12 years old my dad had moved back in

at 12 years old my dad had moved back in

at 12 years old my dad had moved back in with us he decided to back out again so

with us he decided to back out again so

with us he decided to back out again so for kids I told her brother’s an older

for kids I told her brother’s an older

for kids I told her brother’s an older sister we’re left to live in her house

sister we’re left to live in her house

sister we’re left to live in her house by ourselves so 1784 873 as I was 13 42

by ourselves so 1784 873 as I was 13 42

by ourselves so 1784 873 as I was 13 42 I could sing yes all of that sounds

I could sing yes all of that sounds

I could sing yes all of that sounds great little parents telling you to

great little parents telling you to

great little parents telling you to clean your room or make your bed and do

clean your room or make your bed and do

clean your room or make your bed and do the dishes or or fix you feeling it come

the dishes or or fix you feeling it come

the dishes or or fix you feeling it come to dinner and all that it’s fun for

to dinner and all that it’s fun for

to dinner and all that it’s fun for maybe a week leave me like I’m going to

maybe a week leave me like I’m going to

maybe a week leave me like I’m going to do that for you I mean you started

do that for you I mean you started

do that for you I mean you started thinking well no one’s going to do that

thinking well no one’s going to do that

thinking well no one’s going to do that moving an app start doing it myself so

moving an app start doing it myself so

moving an app start doing it myself so in that learning experience through all

in that learning experience through all

in that learning experience through all the hardships and the difficulties of

the hardships and the difficulties of

the hardships and the difficulties of going through just what I thought was

going through just what I thought was

going through just what I thought was normal I guess people would say we’re

normal I guess people would say we’re

normal I guess people would say we’re different

different

different so once I got into move I moved in with

so once I got into move I moved in with

so once I got into move I moved in with my grandmother went to high school close

my grandmother went to high school close

my grandmother went to high school close to Washington DC and there I met someone

to Washington DC and there I met someone

to Washington DC and there I met someone because I really wanted to come up with

because I really wanted to come up with

because I really wanted to come up with she was a girl it was really pretty

she was a girl it was really pretty

she was a girl it was really pretty interesting Oh what I really want to go

interesting Oh what I really want to go

interesting Oh what I really want to go up she would not be able to be at a time

up she would not be able to be at a time

up she would not be able to be at a time of it but she said oh I have to go to

of it but she said oh I have to go to

of it but she said oh I have to go to ballet class oh I have to go to value

ballet class oh I have to go to value

ballet class oh I have to go to value look this is my class reasons so one

look this is my class reasons so one

look this is my class reasons so one nation was really upset that each was

nation was really upset that each was

nation was really upset that each was yelling at her because she did not turn

yelling at her because she did not turn

yelling at her because she did not turn out

out

out we just let’s turn out well she did her

we just let’s turn out well she did her

we just let’s turn out well she did her leg your leg that I did my leg my leg

leg your leg that I did my leg my leg

leg your leg that I did my leg my leg with twice as much as hers additionally

with twice as much as hers additionally

with twice as much as hers additionally I have to come in and do ballet

I have to come in and do ballet

I have to come in and do ballet well what do I have to I get in there

well what do I have to I get in there

well what do I have to I get in there what do I have to do I have to lift

what do I have to do I have to lift

what do I have to do I have to lift girls this is a parking hey you know of

girls this is a parking hey you know of

girls this is a parking hey you know of anxiety and this is the Millea ballets

anxiety and this is the Millea ballets

anxiety and this is the Millea ballets doing Swan Lake

so that probably wouldn’t stuff I get to

so that probably wouldn’t stuff I get to do now this time here with someone that

do now this time here with someone that

do now this time here with someone that I could relate to depends it was me this

I could relate to depends it was me this

I could relate to depends it was me this right here is the stage so I’m actually

right here is the stage so I’m actually

right here is the stage so I’m actually jumping in the air probably five to six

jumping in the air probably five to six

jumping in the air probably five to six feet up and that’s why I’ve experienced

feet up and that’s why I’ve experienced

feet up and that’s why I’ve experienced I did that and it was the most fun thing

I did that and it was the most fun thing

I did that and it was the most fun thing you could possibly do to sword in the

you could possibly do to sword in the

you could possibly do to sword in the air and land and go back up again or was

air and land and go back up again or was

air and land and go back up again or was also fun lifting a girl throwing her in

also fun lifting a girl throwing her in

also fun lifting a girl throwing her in the air

the air

the air and then catch you or throw up the

and then catch you or throw up the

and then catch you or throw up the spinner couple times and I’m catching it

spinner couple times and I’m catching it

spinner couple times and I’m catching it was a lot of fun I really loved it and

was a lot of fun I really loved it and

was a lot of fun I really loved it and like I said earlier I got to see the

like I said earlier I got to see the

like I said earlier I got to see the entire world and performing great places

entire world and performing great places

entire world and performing great places but one thing about the careers of an

but one thing about the careers of an

but one thing about the careers of an answer like oh you maybe get to go to

answer like oh you maybe get to go to

answer like oh you maybe get to go to college and do all that well

college and do all that well

college and do all that well unfortunately the dancer if you’re not

unfortunately the dancer if you’re not

unfortunately the dancer if you’re not in a company as a professional dancer by

in a company as a professional dancer by

in a company as a professional dancer by the age of 18 you don’t you are not

the age of 18 you don’t you are not

the age of 18 you don’t you are not going to become a dancer so that was

going to become a dancer so that was

going to become a dancer so that was another added thing that I was told and

another added thing that I was told and

another added thing that I was told and I had a teacher or an instructor in my

I had a teacher or an instructor in my

I had a teacher or an instructor in my studio who is not a really nice guy he

studio who is not a really nice guy he

studio who is not a really nice guy he was a great teacher

was a great teacher

was a great teacher many many professional dancers but it is

many many professional dancers but it is

many many professional dancers but it is a little mean and especially needed to

a little mean and especially needed to

a little mean and especially needed to be for some reason I’m not quite sure

be for some reason I’m not quite sure

be for some reason I’m not quite sure why but he would often did come by and

why but he would often did come by and

why but he would often did come by and slap and hit didn’t call names and I I’m

slap and hit didn’t call names and I I’m

slap and hit didn’t call names and I I’m not really sure you know to this day

not really sure you know to this day

not really sure you know to this day really why that happened but one time he

really why that happened but one time he

really why that happened but one time he hit me so hard while I’m standing here

hit me so hard while I’m standing here

hit me so hard while I’m standing here balancing my stomach because of a little

balancing my stomach because of a little

balancing my stomach because of a little kind of sweating and stuff like that it

kind of sweating and stuff like that it

kind of sweating and stuff like that it made the loudest noise

made the loudest noise

made the loudest noise and everyone stopped in the room the

and everyone stopped in the room the

and everyone stopped in the room the girls were completely freaked out there

girls were completely freaked out there

girls were completely freaked out there being a piano player who’s playing he

being a piano player who’s playing he

being a piano player who’s playing he stopped so that time it hit bearish the

stopped so that time it hit bearish the

stopped so that time it hit bearish the teacher a little bit I was didn’t her

teacher a little bit I was didn’t her

teacher a little bit I was didn’t her just made a lot of boys so soon after

just made a lot of boys so soon after

just made a lot of boys so soon after that I was used to all that again some

that I was used to all that again some

that I was used to all that again some things the the girls actually lit in and

things the the girls actually lit in and

things the the girls actually lit in and told the owners in the studio that it

told the owners in the studio that it

told the owners in the studio that it wasn’t be nicely and because of that he

wasn’t be nicely and because of that he

wasn’t be nicely and because of that he actually was let go from that school got

actually was let go from that school got

actually was let go from that school got a fire yeah it was unfortunate because

a fire yeah it was unfortunate because

a fire yeah it was unfortunate because it was such a great teacher but he

it was such a great teacher but he

it was such a great teacher but he didn’t know how to teach the right way

didn’t know how to teach the right way

didn’t know how to teach the right way most of the time so my goal as a teacher

most of the time so my goal as a teacher

most of the time so my goal as a teacher is to be able to teach you the same

is to be able to teach you the same

is to be able to teach you the same perfection and singing I just don’t see

perfection and singing I just don’t see

perfection and singing I just don’t see the right thing all the time you know

the right thing all the time you know

the right thing all the time you know your knees are bent or whatever I’ll

your knees are bent or whatever I’ll

your knees are bent or whatever I’ll tell you what I think that I’m not going

tell you what I think that I’m not going

tell you what I think that I’m not going to make you feel bad

to make you feel bad

to make you feel bad that’s one thing that I really don’t

that’s one thing that I really don’t

that’s one thing that I really don’t want to I want to teach you how to fly

want to I want to teach you how to fly

want to I want to teach you how to fly [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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