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We Can All Be Philanthropists | Adenike Oyetunde | TEDxGbagada


in 2015 a very dear friend of mine

in 2015 a very dear friend of mine topper she called me and I remember

topper she called me and I remember

topper she called me and I remember clearly talk wise telephone call I was

clearly talk wise telephone call I was

clearly talk wise telephone call I was scared and equally surprised cause she

scared and equally surprised cause she

scared and equally surprised cause she sent me this picture so you can imagine

sent me this picture so you can imagine

sent me this picture so you can imagine the horror you can imagine the fear I

the horror you can imagine the fear I

the horror you can imagine the fear I didn’t understand what the picture meant

didn’t understand what the picture meant

didn’t understand what the picture meant this was after she had told me that she

this was after she had told me that she

this was after she had told me that she was going to hang up and send me a

was going to hang up and send me a

was going to hang up and send me a message on whatsapp so top.i sends this

message on whatsapp so top.i sends this

message on whatsapp so top.i sends this first picture and I asked her what the

first picture and I asked her what the

first picture and I asked her what the picture meant and talked I told me the

picture meant and talked I told me the

picture meant and talked I told me the then few day old baby was born with

then few day old baby was born with

then few day old baby was born with cancer in his eyes clearly Shinya would

cancer in his eyes clearly Shinya would

cancer in his eyes clearly Shinya would relate to this story because I also

relate to this story because I also

relate to this story because I also survived cancer 11 years ago the moment

survived cancer 11 years ago the moment

survived cancer 11 years ago the moment I saw the picture his name by the way is

I saw the picture his name by the way is

I saw the picture his name by the way is Victor and he was in pains without a

Victor and he was in pains without a

Victor and he was in pains without a doubt he was born this way like

doubt he was born this way like

doubt he was born this way like literally I told her to give me a few

literally I told her to give me a few

literally I told her to give me a few minutes which eventually turned into

minutes which eventually turned into

minutes which eventually turned into hours I was the solution I couldn’t come

hours I was the solution I couldn’t come

hours I was the solution I couldn’t come up with the money

up with the money

up with the money three million era where was I supposed

three million era where was I supposed

three million era where was I supposed to get three million era from not for me

to get three million era from not for me

to get three million era from not for me not for my immediate environment not

not for my immediate environment not

not for my immediate environment not from anyone around me and about three

from anyone around me and about three

from anyone around me and about three hours later I remember going through my

hours later I remember going through my

hours later I remember going through my phone and checking contacts then it

phone and checking contacts then it

phone and checking contacts then it occurred to me that I need someone who

occurred to me that I need someone who

occurred to me that I need someone who what to do lego State Ministry of Health

what to do lego State Ministry of Health

what to do lego State Ministry of Health then I called the person and then a

then I called the person and then a

then I called the person and then a person said send me a picture I send

person said send me a picture I send

person said send me a picture I send this first picture and he immediately

this first picture and he immediately

this first picture and he immediately calls me back and tells me ask the

calls me back and tells me ask the

calls me back and tells me ask the family to immediately submit a letter to

family to immediately submit a letter to

family to immediately submit a letter to the commission of Health’s office with

the commission of Health’s office with

the commission of Health’s office with all the evidences that he has thankfully

all the evidences that he has thankfully

all the evidences that he has thankfully the family was currently at the Lagos

the family was currently at the Lagos

the family was currently at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital and

State University Teaching Hospital and

State University Teaching Hospital and because it’s run by the Lagos State

because it’s run by the Lagos State

because it’s run by the Lagos State government

government

government I figured it would have been easier for

I figured it would have been easier for

I figured it would have been easier for the llegaste comment to come on board in

the llegaste comment to come on board in

the llegaste comment to come on board in three days mr. Amano Victor’s father

three days mr. Amano Victor’s father

three days mr. Amano Victor’s father called me and sends me this picture he

called me and sends me this picture he

called me and sends me this picture he had successfully undergone the surgery

had successfully undergone the surgery

had successfully undergone the surgery and thankfully enough the Lagos State

and thankfully enough the Lagos State

and thankfully enough the Lagos State government had not only agreed and

government had not only agreed and

government had not only agreed and accepted that they will pay for the

accepted that they will pay for the

accepted that they will pay for the surgery but also that he’ll pay for his

surgery but also that he’ll pay for his

surgery but also that he’ll pay for his post-surgery expenses I was in shock

post-surgery expenses I was in shock

post-surgery expenses I was in shock all I did was pick up my phone and then

all I did was pick up my phone and then

all I did was pick up my phone and then make that one call the power of network

make that one call the power of network

make that one call the power of network I’m a recipient of goodwill I have so

I’m a recipient of goodwill I have so

I’m a recipient of goodwill I have so many stories to share but I’ll share

many stories to share but I’ll share

many stories to share but I’ll share this one story when eventually had

this one story when eventually had

this one story when eventually had arrived at the University College

arrived at the University College

arrived at the University College Hospital in Thibodaux during the whole

Hospital in Thibodaux during the whole

Hospital in Thibodaux during the whole journey of cancer I remember so clearly

journey of cancer I remember so clearly

journey of cancer I remember so clearly that the doctors were by my bedside and

that the doctors were by my bedside and

that the doctors were by my bedside and I just told me that I needed blood

I just told me that I needed blood

I just told me that I needed blood transfusion there was nobody to give me

transfusion there was nobody to give me

transfusion there was nobody to give me blood I’m an only child of both my

blood I’m an only child of both my

blood I’m an only child of both my parents so my father had been with me my

parents so my father had been with me my

parents so my father had been with me my mother had severe you know out of the

mother had severe you know out of the

mother had severe you know out of the hospital so on had to work for the money

hospital so on had to work for the money

hospital so on had to work for the money to pay for the medical expenses and a

to pay for the medical expenses and a

to pay for the medical expenses and a few minutes before the doctors arrived a

few minutes before the doctors arrived a

few minutes before the doctors arrived a friend of mine and a whole meet had

friend of mine and a whole meet had

friend of mine and a whole meet had called me to tell me that he had a

called me to tell me that he had a

called me to tell me that he had a friend in news eh who was a student

friend in news eh who was a student

friend in news eh who was a student doctor at that time and incidentally dr.

doctor at that time and incidentally dr.

doctor at that time and incidentally dr. Londo Advani was by my bedside when my

Londo Advani was by my bedside when my

Londo Advani was by my bedside when my orthopedic surgeon was telling me young

orthopedic surgeon was telling me young

orthopedic surgeon was telling me young lady you need three pints of blood

lady you need three pints of blood

lady you need three pints of blood you know what to get blood from I

you know what to get blood from I

you know what to get blood from I remember making a call and the first

remember making a call and the first

remember making a call and the first first thing I thought to call didn’t

first thing I thought to call didn’t

first thing I thought to call didn’t even bother to think about it just went

even bother to think about it just went

even bother to think about it just went oh I’m sorry I can’t do any blood my

oh I’m sorry I can’t do any blood my

oh I’m sorry I can’t do any blood my walls literally almost ended dr. Lowrey

walls literally almost ended dr. Lowrey

walls literally almost ended dr. Lowrey wali noticed that I was bewildered and

wali noticed that I was bewildered and

wali noticed that I was bewildered and then he immediately said to me oh great

then he immediately said to me oh great

then he immediately said to me oh great I’ll donate blood for you I’m like huh

I’ll donate blood for you I’m like huh

I’ll donate blood for you I’m like huh and then he didn’t stop there he went I

and then he didn’t stop there he went I

and then he didn’t stop there he went I had to say I’ll donate blood for you and

had to say I’ll donate blood for you and

had to say I’ll donate blood for you and also get my friends to donate blood for

also get my friends to donate blood for

also get my friends to donate blood for you this was the first time I was ever

you this was the first time I was ever

you this was the first time I was ever meeting dr. addy Wally

meeting dr. addy Wally

meeting dr. addy Wally we had barely spoken for over five 10

we had barely spoken for over five 10

we had barely spoken for over five 10 minutes if my memories

minutes if my memories

minutes if my memories my rights and this stranger decides to

my rights and this stranger decides to

my rights and this stranger decides to donate blood for this one person who was

donate blood for this one person who was

donate blood for this one person who was in a fight for their life fighting

in a fight for their life fighting

in a fight for their life fighting against cancer so when I tell you that I

against cancer so when I tell you that I

against cancer so when I tell you that I know what goodwill means I think you

know what goodwill means I think you

know what goodwill means I think you should take it from me I then also

should take it from me I then also

should take it from me I then also remember the story of a friend so this

remember the story of a friend so this

remember the story of a friend so this friend of mine had told me about her

friend of mine had told me about her

friend of mine had told me about her Sakura school friend of hers whose

Sakura school friend of hers whose

Sakura school friend of hers whose cousin lived in Abuja with his family

cousin lived in Abuja with his family

cousin lived in Abuja with his family and surprisingly not everything had to

and surprisingly not everything had to

and surprisingly not everything had to do with cancer in that season of my life

do with cancer in that season of my life

do with cancer in that season of my life and I she sent me this picture three

and I she sent me this picture three

and I she sent me this picture three year old Angela unfortunately did not

year old Angela unfortunately did not

year old Angela unfortunately did not win his fight against cancer but was

win his fight against cancer but was

win his fight against cancer but was anything that stood out the most – not

anything that stood out the most – not

anything that stood out the most – not just me but to the family as a fact that

just me but to the family as a fact that

just me but to the family as a fact that a community of people were breathitt

a community of people were breathitt

a community of people were breathitt from that boy’s story I remember very

from that boy’s story I remember very

from that boy’s story I remember very well telling the family that I don’t

well telling the family that I don’t

well telling the family that I don’t have four millionaire that you’re

have four millionaire that you’re

have four millionaire that you’re looking for but I have a platform

looking for but I have a platform

looking for but I have a platform because I walk on radio and I need that

because I walk on radio and I need that

because I walk on radio and I need that in order not to inundate my listeners

in order not to inundate my listeners

in order not to inundate my listeners because of the myriad of stories every

because of the myriad of stories every

because of the myriad of stories every weekly we hear asking for one help or

weekly we hear asking for one help or

weekly we hear asking for one help or the other I knew this one story was a

the other I knew this one story was a

the other I knew this one story was a story I needed to share to my listeners

story I needed to share to my listeners

story I needed to share to my listeners and in two days till date it still beats

and in two days till date it still beats

and in two days till date it still beats me we were able to raise over 4 million

me we were able to raise over 4 million

me we were able to raise over 4 million lire for annular to fight cancer Anana

lire for annular to fight cancer Anana

lire for annular to fight cancer Anana unfortunately passed on after weeks and

unfortunately passed on after weeks and

unfortunately passed on after weeks and weeks of treatment his body was too

weeks of treatment his body was too

weeks of treatment his body was too fragile for the radiotherapy and

fragile for the radiotherapy and

fragile for the radiotherapy and chemotherapy and all the exposure and

chemotherapy and all the exposure and

chemotherapy and all the exposure and the toxins that he had been exposed to

the toxins that he had been exposed to

the toxins that he had been exposed to well I remember that meeting the family

well I remember that meeting the family

well I remember that meeting the family for the first time in our scene abuja

for the first time in our scene abuja

for the first time in our scene abuja wandering that struck me the most that

wandering that struck me the most that

wandering that struck me the most that the family shared with me was would ever

the family shared with me was would ever

the family shared with me was would ever remain grateful primarily not because of

remain grateful primarily not because of

remain grateful primarily not because of the money or the funds that were raised

the money or the funds that were raised

the money or the funds that were raised but because of the community of people

but because of the community of people

but because of the community of people that continue to exist or in general a

that continue to exist or in general a

that continue to exist or in general a story every now and then these

story every now and then these

story every now and then these individuals still reach out to the

individuals still reach out to the

individuals still reach out to the family to ask them how they are doing

family to ask them how they are doing

family to ask them how they are doing this individuals call the family these

this individuals call the family these

this individuals call the family these individuals leave messages on social

individuals leave messages on social

individuals leave messages on social media some individuals have gone as far

media some individuals have gone as far

media some individuals have gone as far as calling me and asking for the

as calling me and asking for the

as calling me and asking for the telephone number for his father

telephone number for his father

telephone number for his father this is two years after in your last

this is two years after in your last

this is two years after in your last test without a doubt and I’d wonder why

test without a doubt and I’d wonder why

test without a doubt and I’d wonder why the rhetoric you said every time I’m

the rhetoric you said every time I’m

the rhetoric you said every time I’m quite often we hear given everybody

quite often we hear given everybody

quite often we hear given everybody thinks I’m partying this morning and

thinks I’m partying this morning and

thinks I’m partying this morning and Victor’s story Victor is alive today he

Victor’s story Victor is alive today he

Victor’s story Victor is alive today he just clocked – and this is Victor his

just clocked – and this is Victor his

just clocked – and this is Victor his father mother and his younger sister the

father mother and his younger sister the

father mother and his younger sister the only reason because standing and alive

only reason because standing and alive

only reason because standing and alive today is primarily based on the power of

today is primarily based on the power of

today is primarily based on the power of the network that I had on my mobile

the network that I had on my mobile

the network that I had on my mobile phone and I decided to use it oh is it

phone and I decided to use it oh is it

phone and I decided to use it oh is it me who’s sitting here there has doctor

me who’s sitting here there has doctor

me who’s sitting here there has doctor at the wall his blood flowing through me

at the wall his blood flowing through me

at the wall his blood flowing through me and his friends I remember once I looked

and his friends I remember once I looked

and his friends I remember once I looked for his job when he looked at me as a

for his job when he looked at me as a

for his job when he looked at me as a please return my blood I’m like yeah I’m

please return my blood I’m like yeah I’m

please return my blood I’m like yeah I’m sitting here because these strangers

sitting here because these strangers

sitting here because these strangers understood the power of giving that he

understood the power of giving that he

understood the power of giving that he transcended not just money was it with

transcended not just money was it with

transcended not just money was it with any other story and how the community of

any other story and how the community of

any other story and how the community of individuals was created for this family

individuals was created for this family

individuals was created for this family not just the family interestingly enough

not just the family interestingly enough

not just the family interestingly enough but for their friends their neighbors

but for their friends their neighbors

but for their friends their neighbors his father’s co-workers and every single

his father’s co-workers and every single

his father’s co-workers and every single individual that had the story the next

individual that had the story the next

individual that had the story the next time someone tells you to give these to

time someone tells you to give these to

time someone tells you to give these to me people to not think about how much

me people to not think about how much

me people to not think about how much you have in your pockets or how much

you have in your pockets or how much

you have in your pockets or how much you’re worth your bank accounts lets

you’re worth your bank accounts lets

you’re worth your bank accounts lets humanity come first I recently heard

humanity come first I recently heard

humanity come first I recently heard someone saying that no culture is older

someone saying that no culture is older

someone saying that no culture is older that being human I have seen Nigerians

that being human I have seen Nigerians

that being human I have seen Nigerians be human to one another so please let’s

be human to one another so please let’s

be human to one another so please let’s remember humanity first thank you

remember humanity first thank you

remember humanity first thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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