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at nine years old she was raped and

at nine years old she was raped and bought off with an ice-cream cone to

bought off with an ice-cream cone to

bought off with an ice-cream cone to keep it quiet that she had been alone

keep it quiet that she had been alone

keep it quiet that she had been alone with her cousin she was pregnant by 14

with her cousin she was pregnant by 14

with her cousin she was pregnant by 14 she gave birth to a chance to redeem

she gave birth to a chance to redeem

she gave birth to a chance to redeem herself from all the pain she had seen

herself from all the pain she had seen

herself from all the pain she had seen in the span of a decade but two weeks

in the span of a decade but two weeks

in the span of a decade but two weeks later that chance passed away along with

later that chance passed away along with

later that chance passed away along with their hopes of making something out of

their hopes of making something out of

their hopes of making something out of nothing to recover from her shame her

nothing to recover from her shame her

nothing to recover from her shame her name is Oprah Winfrey when he was two

name is Oprah Winfrey when he was two

name is Oprah Winfrey when he was two years old he was estranged by his dad

years old he was estranged by his dad

years old he was estranged by his dad with whom he shared the same name and he

with whom he shared the same name and he

with whom he shared the same name and he could never avoid the insults at school

could never avoid the insults at school

could never avoid the insults at school because the color of his skin and the

because the color of his skin and the

because the color of his skin and the size of his ears weren’t considered cool

size of his ears weren’t considered cool

size of his ears weren’t considered cool and when he looked at himself they did

and when he looked at himself they did

and when he looked at himself they did not seem to get any clearer but there

not seem to get any clearer but there

not seem to get any clearer but there was something wrong with the man that he

was something wrong with the man that he

was something wrong with the man that he saw in the mirror but Barack Obama is

saw in the mirror but Barack Obama is

saw in the mirror but Barack Obama is his name when you look all these times

his name when you look all these times

his name when you look all these times that have shown that nothing is ever

that have shown that nothing is ever

that have shown that nothing is ever really set in stone it’s hard not to

really set in stone it’s hard not to

really set in stone it’s hard not to wonder who ever thought that our past

wonder who ever thought that our past

wonder who ever thought that our past has to show any indication of her future

has to show any indication of her future

has to show any indication of her future because then Obama never would have

because then Obama never would have

because then Obama never would have become a side for change and Oprah might

become a side for change and Oprah might

become a side for change and Oprah might still be hanging her head in shame and I

still be hanging her head in shame and I

still be hanging her head in shame and I probably would not be up here today I

was a shy kid growing up and I had stage

was a shy kid growing up and I had stage fright it’s kind of ironic isn’t it but

fright it’s kind of ironic isn’t it but

fright it’s kind of ironic isn’t it but from kindergarten my words were trapped

from kindergarten my words were trapped

from kindergarten my words were trapped inside my mouth handcuffed by thoughts

inside my mouth handcuffed by thoughts

inside my mouth handcuffed by thoughts that convicted me of a reality of

that convicted me of a reality of

that convicted me of a reality of mediocrity I had formed the illusion

mediocrity I had formed the illusion

mediocrity I had formed the illusion inside my head that the things I said we

inside my head that the things I said we

inside my head that the things I said we run exciting at most I was not ready to

run exciting at most I was not ready to

run exciting at most I was not ready to step out of my comfort zone it was my

step out of my comfort zone it was my

step out of my comfort zone it was my home the one place I knew I could always

home the one place I knew I could always

home the one place I knew I could always count on to keep me safe because forget

count on to keep me safe because forget

count on to keep me safe because forget sticks and stones

sticks and stones

sticks and stones it’s can crush our dreams you can try

it’s can crush our dreams you can try

it’s can crush our dreams you can try put a band-aid over the bruise what the

put a band-aid over the bruise what the

put a band-aid over the bruise what the blood will just strip through the seams

blood will just strip through the seams

blood will just strip through the seams nobody wants to hear that they can’t

nobody wants to hear that they can’t

nobody wants to hear that they can’t defy gravity nobody wants to hear that

defy gravity nobody wants to hear that

defy gravity nobody wants to hear that they don’t have the key but they don’t

they don’t have the key but they don’t

they don’t have the key but they don’t got what it takes and even though our

got what it takes and even though our

got what it takes and even though our backgrounds create a collage of

backgrounds create a collage of

backgrounds create a collage of different shapes and sizes and

different shapes and sizes and

different shapes and sizes and compromises our imperfections and

compromises our imperfections and

compromises our imperfections and rejections leave us all trapped in the

rejections leave us all trapped in the

rejections leave us all trapped in the same box labeled inadequate my comfort

same box labeled inadequate my comfort

same box labeled inadequate my comfort zone was my home the place I knew I

zone was my home the place I knew I

zone was my home the place I knew I could go to avoid all the titles and

could go to avoid all the titles and

could go to avoid all the titles and labels so I locked my voice into a box

labels so I locked my voice into a box

labels so I locked my voice into a box that meant only I you’d have to find the

that meant only I you’d have to find the

that meant only I you’d have to find the key so I didn’t have to hear the

key so I didn’t have to hear the

key so I didn’t have to hear the multitudes of ways people use their

multitudes of ways people use their

multitudes of ways people use their voice to define mine because sometimes

voice to define mine because sometimes

voice to define mine because sometimes when we take a step out of the comforts

when we take a step out of the comforts

when we take a step out of the comforts of our own home we step into a war zone

of our own home we step into a war zone

of our own home we step into a war zone of judgment put downs and opinions and

of judgment put downs and opinions and

of judgment put downs and opinions and sometimes we’ll get shot straight in the

sometimes we’ll get shot straight in the

sometimes we’ll get shot straight in the chest and people will leave us with

chest and people will leave us with

chest and people will leave us with bruises and excuses as to why we could

bruises and excuses as to why we could

bruises and excuses as to why we could never be good enough and most times we

never be good enough and most times we

never be good enough and most times we can try and escape but our confidence is

can try and escape but our confidence is

can try and escape but our confidence is not in good enough shape to fight off

not in good enough shape to fight off

not in good enough shape to fight off all the words that stick in our brains

unable unmotivated subpar my comfort

unable unmotivated subpar my comfort zone was my home and a lot of the time

zone was my home and a lot of the time

zone was my home and a lot of the time it just kind of went that way because

it just kind of went that way because

it just kind of went that way because there are so many aspirations that have

there are so many aspirations that have

there are so many aspirations that have been broken and thousands of dreams that

been broken and thousands of dreams that

been broken and thousands of dreams that people have left unspoken because flames

people have left unspoken because flames

people have left unspoken because flames of enthusiasm were put out with a splash

of enthusiasm were put out with a splash

of enthusiasm were put out with a splash of ridicule and I never wanted to be the

of ridicule and I never wanted to be the

of ridicule and I never wanted to be the same but when I think of Oprah and how

same but when I think of Oprah and how

same but when I think of Oprah and how she recovered from her shame and I think

she recovered from her shame and I think

she recovered from her shame and I think of Obama and all that he became I have

of Obama and all that he became I have

of Obama and all that he became I have to ask

we are all fighting on this battleground

we are all fighting on this battleground trying to defend ourselves from bullets

trying to defend ourselves from bullets

trying to defend ourselves from bullets aimed at our confidence dying to live to

aimed at our confidence dying to live to

aimed at our confidence dying to live to attack some people who shoot daggers

attack some people who shoot daggers

attack some people who shoot daggers into our aspirations people who leave us

into our aspirations people who leave us

into our aspirations people who leave us surrendering to standards and

surrendering to standards and

surrendering to standards and expectations people who doubt that we

expectations people who doubt that we

expectations people who doubt that we will ever see it through people who we

will ever see it through people who we

will ever see it through people who we will never hear say the words I believe

will never hear say the words I believe

will never hear say the words I believe in you

there are so many aspirations that have

there are so many aspirations that have been broken and thousands of dreams that

been broken and thousands of dreams that

been broken and thousands of dreams that people have left unspoken because people

people have left unspoken because people

people have left unspoken because people measure our capacities by what they’ve

measure our capacities by what they’ve

measure our capacities by what they’ve seen in the past by our failures for

seen in the past by our failures for

seen in the past by our failures for what they don’t see is a time as we get

what they don’t see is a time as we get

what they don’t see is a time as we get up early to push ourselves a little

up early to push ourselves a little

up early to push ourselves a little further and what they don’t see is a

further and what they don’t see is a

further and what they don’t see is a time sweet down the inside when they

time sweet down the inside when they

time sweet down the inside when they tell us to try a little harder and what

tell us to try a little harder and what

tell us to try a little harder and what they don’t see is a fire that burns

they don’t see is a fire that burns

they don’t see is a fire that burns inside of us to show that we are good

inside of us to show that we are good

inside of us to show that we are good enough so prove them wrong we are all

enough so prove them wrong we are all

enough so prove them wrong we are all fighting on this battleground trying to

fighting on this battleground trying to

fighting on this battleground trying to defend ourselves and bullets aimed at

defend ourselves and bullets aimed at

defend ourselves and bullets aimed at our confidence trying not to give in to

our confidence trying not to give in to

our confidence trying not to give in to the notions in our head that convinced

the notions in our head that convinced

the notions in our head that convinced us to give up instead of pushing through

us to give up instead of pushing through

us to give up instead of pushing through to the end trying not to give in to the

to the end trying not to give in to the

to the end trying not to give in to the impression that because we have tried

impression that because we have tried

impression that because we have tried and failed and cried and broken down

and failed and cried and broken down

and failed and cried and broken down that our breakdowns indicate defeat and

that our breakdowns indicate defeat and

that our breakdowns indicate defeat and defeat indicates a treat but retreat

defeat indicates a treat but retreat

defeat indicates a treat but retreat leads us down a path to a destination

leads us down a path to a destination

leads us down a path to a destination where we know we are not supposed to be

where we know we are not supposed to be

where we know we are not supposed to be so prove them wrong

we are all fighting on this battleground

we are all fighting on this battleground trying to defend ourselves from bullets

trying to defend ourselves from bullets

trying to defend ourselves from bullets aimed at our confidence but taking a hit

aimed at our confidence but taking a hit

aimed at our confidence but taking a hit does not mean that it is over because

does not mean that it is over because

does not mean that it is over because our battle scars are just bits and

our battle scars are just bits and

our battle scars are just bits and pieces of the masterpiece that all our

pieces of the masterpiece that all our

pieces of the masterpiece that all our fears our history and our struggles will

fears our history and our struggles will

fears our history and our struggles will one day create and it is going to be so

one day create and it is going to be so

one day create and it is going to be so great when we can look back and realize

great when we can look back and realize

great when we can look back and realize that there really was something in us

that there really was something in us

that there really was something in us that no artist could ever paint and no

that no artist could ever paint and no

that no artist could ever paint and no sculptor could ever make but we have got

sculptor could ever make but we have got

sculptor could ever make but we have got to be willing to try and that’s

to be willing to try and that’s

to be willing to try and that’s something that took me 14 years to

something that took me 14 years to

something that took me 14 years to realize we can’t stay inside our comfort

realize we can’t stay inside our comfort

realize we can’t stay inside our comfort zones and hide that we have to have that

zones and hide that we have to have that

zones and hide that we have to have that drive we have to know that ambition is

drive we have to know that ambition is

drive we have to know that ambition is going to be a lonely road that will

going to be a lonely road that will

going to be a lonely road that will always look like it’s leading us to

always look like it’s leading us to

always look like it’s leading us to nowhere and we have to know that we will

nowhere and we have to know that we will

nowhere and we have to know that we will meet people along the way that will

meet people along the way that will

meet people along the way that will convince us to turn back because the end

convince us to turn back because the end

convince us to turn back because the end of the road is just pitch black and that

of the road is just pitch black and that

of the road is just pitch black and that we are bound to drown in a sea of

we are bound to drown in a sea of

we are bound to drown in a sea of ordinary we’ve got to believe that

ordinary we’ve got to believe that

ordinary we’ve got to believe that there’s something in us that cause us to

there’s something in us that cause us to

there’s something in us that cause us to go down that path in the first place but

go down that path in the first place but

go down that path in the first place but there’s something in us that nobody

there’s something in us that nobody

there’s something in us that nobody could ever erase that there is something

could ever erase that there is something

could ever erase that there is something in us that is so much more than just our

in us that is so much more than just our

in us that is so much more than just our circumstances that is so much more than

circumstances that is so much more than

circumstances that is so much more than our failures that is so much more than

our failures that is so much more than

our failures that is so much more than other people’s opinions of us that is so

other people’s opinions of us that is so

other people’s opinions of us that is so much more than our terror than our

much more than our terror than our

much more than our terror than our fright than the things that never ever

fright than the things that never ever

fright than the things that never ever seemed to go right we are so much more

Winfrey has gone through so much more

Winfrey has gone through so much more than the average human she was raped

than the average human she was raped

than the average human she was raped repeatedly molested by family members

repeatedly molested by family members

repeatedly molested by family members she had a baby lost her baby lost her

she had a baby lost her baby lost her

she had a baby lost her baby lost her brother to AIDS and lost her job for

brother to AIDS and lost her job for

brother to AIDS and lost her job for being too emotional yet today she is

being too emotional yet today she is

being too emotional yet today she is considered one of the most influential

considered one of the most influential

considered one of the most influential woman of our time and then there’s Obama

woman of our time and then there’s Obama

woman of our time and then there’s Obama Obama went looking in a mirror and

Obama went looking in a mirror and

Obama went looking in a mirror and wondering if there was something wrong

wondering if there was something wrong

wondering if there was something wrong with the man he would see suspending

with the man he would see suspending

with the man he would see suspending eight years of his life reading a

eight years of his life reading a

eight years of his life reading a country so what about you what’s

country so what about you what’s

country so what about you what’s stopping you I cannot stress enough that

stopping you I cannot stress enough that

stopping you I cannot stress enough that there are too many aspirations that have

there are too many aspirations that have

there are too many aspirations that have been broken and millions of dreams that

been broken and millions of dreams that

been broken and millions of dreams that people leave unspoken but we cannot be

people leave unspoken but we cannot be

people leave unspoken but we cannot be the same because we are so much more and

the same because we are so much more and

the same because we are so much more and it’s our responsibility to go after what

it’s our responsibility to go after what

it’s our responsibility to go after what we want so when the day comes for us to

we want so when the day comes for us to

we want so when the day comes for us to leave this earth we will be able to look

leave this earth we will be able to look

leave this earth we will be able to look back and be satisfied so get better push

back and be satisfied so get better push

back and be satisfied so get better push further fight longer do all that you can

further fight longer do all that you can

further fight longer do all that you can to break down your walls and do all that

to break down your walls and do all that

to break down your walls and do all that you can to show those people who made

you can to show those people who made

you can to show those people who made you feel small because our failures will

you feel small because our failures will

you feel small because our failures will never overtake us if our drive to

never overtake us if our drive to

never overtake us if our drive to succeed is strong enough and our valleys

succeed is strong enough and our valleys

succeed is strong enough and our valleys will never be too deep if the mountain

will never be too deep if the mountain

will never be too deep if the mountain we want to climb is high enough but most

we want to climb is high enough but most

we want to climb is high enough but most importantly our race will never seem to

importantly our race will never seem to

importantly our race will never seem to long if the destination is worthy enough

long if the destination is worthy enough

long if the destination is worthy enough and as we go along we will encounter

and as we go along we will encounter

and as we go along we will encounter obstacle after obstacle and defeat after

obstacle after obstacle and defeat after

obstacle after obstacle and defeat after defeat if we push hard enough if we

defeat if we push hard enough if we

defeat if we push hard enough if we fight long enough

fight long enough

fight long enough and if we work hard enough then we will

and if we work hard enough then we will

and if we work hard enough then we will never ever be defeated thank you

never ever be defeated thank you

never ever be defeated thank you [Applause]

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