ladies and gentlemen I would like to invite you to look at relationships like
invite you to look at relationships like
invite you to look at relationships like a cup of coffee it’s 2016 and with so
a cup of coffee it’s 2016 and with so
a cup of coffee it’s 2016 and with so much information at our fingers up today
much information at our fingers up today
much information at our fingers up today and technology and Internet is well then
and technology and Internet is well then
and technology and Internet is well then our reach I couldn’t help but wonder how
our reach I couldn’t help but wonder how
our reach I couldn’t help but wonder how is it possible there was such wealth and
is it possible there was such wealth and
is it possible there was such wealth and knowledge that our relationships are
knowledge that our relationships are
knowledge that our relationships are still failing today how is it possible
still failing today how is it possible
still failing today how is it possible that with this wealth and abundance of
that with this wealth and abundance of
that with this wealth and abundance of knowledge that divorce rates are
knowledge that divorce rates are
knowledge that divorce rates are increasing in this country and beyond as
increasing in this country and beyond as
increasing in this country and beyond as a professional in my field in order for
a professional in my field in order for
a professional in my field in order for me to solve such a problem I must ask an
me to solve such a problem I must ask an
me to solve such a problem I must ask an even more empowering question so I asked
even more empowering question so I asked
even more empowering question so I asked what are the core reasons that create
what are the core reasons that create
what are the core reasons that create and contribute to creating divorce rates
and contribute to creating divorce rates
and contribute to creating divorce rates as well as we fail equations in my six
as well as we fail equations in my six
as well as we fail equations in my six years of experience and over 700 hours
years of experience and over 700 hours
years of experience and over 700 hours of coaching redesigning relationships
of coaching redesigning relationships
of coaching redesigning relationships I’ve made to profound discoveries that
I’ve made to profound discoveries that
I’ve made to profound discoveries that changed my perspective around relations
changed my perspective around relations
changed my perspective around relations forever the first discovery was that our
forever the first discovery was that our
forever the first discovery was that our understanding of relationships is
understanding of relationships is
understanding of relationships is outdated and does not apply to our world
outdated and does not apply to our world
outdated and does not apply to our world today the second discovery is that
today the second discovery is that
today the second discovery is that because of this understanding couples
because of this understanding couples
because of this understanding couples today in marriages are making crucial
today in marriages are making crucial
today in marriages are making crucial mistakes that are detrimental to the
mistakes that are detrimental to the
mistakes that are detrimental to the relationship so I’m sure you’re
relationship so I’m sure you’re
relationship so I’m sure you’re wondering what are those mistakes the
wondering what are those mistakes the
wondering what are those mistakes the first mistake is that those couples have
first mistake is that those couples have
first mistake is that those couples have no clue who they are on an individual
no clue who they are on an individual
no clue who they are on an individual and collective level and the
and collective level and the
and collective level and the relationship they have no clear sense of
relationship they have no clear sense of
relationship they have no clear sense of identity what does this mean it means
identity what does this mean it means
identity what does this mean it means that they have not been able to answer
that they have not been able to answer
that they have not been able to answer the following questions Who am I as a
the following questions Who am I as a
the following questions Who am I as a man or a woman in a relationship what do
man or a woman in a relationship what do
man or a woman in a relationship what do I want in a relationship what are my
I want in a relationship what are my
I want in a relationship what are my values and where is this relationship
values and where is this relationship
values and where is this relationship going or why now where am I going in
going or why now where am I going in
going or why now where am I going in life when you have two people practicing
life when you have two people practicing
life when you have two people practicing this level of lack of clarity you get a
this level of lack of clarity you get a
this level of lack of clarity you get a couple living in uncertainty
couple living in uncertainty
couple living in uncertainty which brings us to our next mistake the
which brings us to our next mistake the
which brings us to our next mistake the next mistake they are practicing over
next mistake they are practicing over
next mistake they are practicing over and over again is that one couples are
and over again is that one couples are
and over again is that one couples are living in uncertainty they are
living in uncertainty they are
living in uncertainty they are immediately living in fear see it’s our
immediately living in fear see it’s our
immediately living in fear see it’s our natural tendency and it has been proven
natural tendency and it has been proven
natural tendency and it has been proven in psychology that when we live in so
in psychology that when we live in so
in psychology that when we live in so much fear the easiest thing for us to do
much fear the easiest thing for us to do
much fear the easiest thing for us to do is to live our past in the relationship
is to live our past in the relationship
is to live our past in the relationship it’s to go back in time in our memories
it’s to go back in time in our memories
it’s to go back in time in our memories and live an access our hurt and
and live an access our hurt and
and live an access our hurt and reference point so that we can prove
reference point so that we can prove
reference point so that we can prove something to ourselves we think it’s
something to ourselves we think it’s
something to ourselves we think it’s comfortable but it’s not because of that
comfortable but it’s not because of that
comfortable but it’s not because of that I have one word to describe it it’s
I have one word to describe it it’s
I have one word to describe it it’s called package now surprise surprise
called package now surprise surprise
called package now surprise surprise ladies and gentlemen as much as we have
ladies and gentlemen as much as we have
ladies and gentlemen as much as we have this topic it’s a hot topic and
this topic it’s a hot topic and
this topic it’s a hot topic and relationships baggage all of us have
relationships baggage all of us have
relationships baggage all of us have baggage the difference however is that
baggage the difference however is that
baggage the difference however is that some couples walk in with this big bag
some couples walk in with this big bag
some couples walk in with this big bag of problems and issues from the past and
of problems and issues from the past and
of problems and issues from the past and others just walking with the suitcase
others just walking with the suitcase
others just walking with the suitcase and third relationship when I’ve noticed
and third relationship when I’ve noticed
and third relationship when I’ve noticed however unfortunately is that those
however unfortunately is that those
however unfortunately is that those couples come in with their whole
couples come in with their whole
couples come in with their whole backyard to the relationship with so
backyard to the relationship with so
backyard to the relationship with so much overwhelm was so much lack of
much overwhelm was so much lack of
much overwhelm was so much lack of clarity and fear it brings us to our
clarity and fear it brings us to our
clarity and fear it brings us to our third mistake when you live in so much
third mistake when you live in so much
third mistake when you live in so much fear and lack of clarity you stop
fear and lack of clarity you stop
fear and lack of clarity you stop communicating you stop talking to one
communicating you stop talking to one
communicating you stop talking to one another you stop expressing that’s why
another you stop expressing that’s why
another you stop expressing that’s why those couples will take way too long to
those couples will take way too long to
those couples will take way too long to clear the air between one another see I
clear the air between one another see I
clear the air between one another see I believe that in a relationship in order
believe that in a relationship in order
believe that in a relationship in order for you to thrive and succeed you have
for you to thrive and succeed you have
for you to thrive and succeed you have to create an open space of intimacy and
to create an open space of intimacy and
to create an open space of intimacy and connection and growth and safety but
connection and growth and safety but
connection and growth and safety but when you don’t practice that kind of
when you don’t practice that kind of
when you don’t practice that kind of conversation every single day you know
conversation every single day you know
conversation every single day you know how the story ends which brings me to
how the story ends which brings me to
how the story ends which brings me to our fourth mistake the fourth mistake is
our fourth mistake the fourth mistake is
our fourth mistake the fourth mistake is that those couples have a deep silent
that those couples have a deep silent
that those couples have a deep silent fear of intimacy what is intimacy ladies
fear of intimacy what is intimacy ladies
fear of intimacy what is intimacy ladies and gentlemen intimacy is the ability
and gentlemen intimacy is the ability
and gentlemen intimacy is the ability for us to look at ourselves and tell
for us to look at ourselves and tell
for us to look at ourselves and tell ourselves
ourselves
ourselves I love you I appreciate you and explore
I love you I appreciate you and explore
I love you I appreciate you and explore our world and then step into that other
our world and then step into that other
our world and then step into that other person’s world and do the same and then
person’s world and do the same and then
person’s world and do the same and then allow them to do the same for us but
allow them to do the same for us but
allow them to do the same for us but what creates intimacy in our
what creates intimacy in our
what creates intimacy in our relationship what creates intimacy is
relationship what creates intimacy is
relationship what creates intimacy is the ability for us to be kings and
the ability for us to be kings and
the ability for us to be kings and queens and our relationships which means
queens and our relationships which means
queens and our relationships which means we have two energies inside of us the
we have two energies inside of us the
we have two energies inside of us the masculine and the feminine all of us
masculine and the feminine all of us
masculine and the feminine all of us whether you’re a male or a female we
whether you’re a male or a female we
whether you’re a male or a female we have masculine feminine or masculine the
have masculine feminine or masculine the
have masculine feminine or masculine the clear directive assertive kind of energy
clear directive assertive kind of energy
clear directive assertive kind of energy and the feminine the nurturing the
and the feminine the nurturing the
and the feminine the nurturing the collaborative flowing kind of energy all
collaborative flowing kind of energy all
collaborative flowing kind of energy all of us happen today in order to have a
of us happen today in order to have a
of us happen today in order to have a queen who was empathic and open has a
queen who was empathic and open has a
queen who was empathic and open has a mission for his kingdom we must have a
mission for his kingdom we must have a
mission for his kingdom we must have a queen the kind of queen who was able to
queen the kind of queen who was able to
queen the kind of queen who was able to provide her wisdom for her king so that
provide her wisdom for her king so that
provide her wisdom for her king so that both of them can call leave that
both of them can call leave that
both of them can call leave that relationship that Kingdom properly but
relationship that Kingdom properly but
relationship that Kingdom properly but today what do we find enlarges at best
today what do we find enlarges at best
today what do we find enlarges at best at best we get a prince in a princess
at best we get a prince in a princess
at best we get a prince in a princess living a love story it’s okay to laugh
living a love story it’s okay to laugh
living a love story it’s okay to laugh good this is a reality so I’m sure
good this is a reality so I’m sure
good this is a reality so I’m sure you’re wondering now that we know the
you’re wondering now that we know the
you’re wondering now that we know the problem what is the solution what do we
problem what is the solution what do we
problem what is the solution what do we do I have a solution I would invite you
do I have a solution I would invite you
do I have a solution I would invite you to close your eyes and we’ve done of
to close your eyes and we’ve done of
to close your eyes and we’ve done of this a lot today but it’s great to look
this a lot today but it’s great to look
this a lot today but it’s great to look inside so I invite you to look inside
inside so I invite you to look inside
inside so I invite you to look inside close your eyes and go back in time
close your eyes and go back in time
close your eyes and go back in time maybe 20 to 30 years ago when things
maybe 20 to 30 years ago when things
maybe 20 to 30 years ago when things were a lot simpler the internet was not
were a lot simpler the internet was not
were a lot simpler the internet was not available to us things were calmer
available to us things were calmer
available to us things were calmer between people there were no
between people there were no
between people there were no distractions we loved one another go
distractions we loved one another go
distractions we loved one another go down one of your neighborhoods back in
down one of your neighborhoods back in
down one of your neighborhoods back in time and witness how people used to
time and witness how people used to
time and witness how people used to connect with one another communities
connect with one another communities
connect with one another communities were smaller people allowed themselves
were smaller people allowed themselves
were smaller people allowed themselves to connect and converse name
to connect and converse name
to connect and converse name hoods neighbors knew one another there
hoods neighbors knew one another there
hoods neighbors knew one another there was a model of religion that was unique
was a model of religion that was unique
was a model of religion that was unique to that time is that if I gave something
to that time is that if I gave something
to that time is that if I gave something to you I knew that you would give
to you I knew that you would give
to you I knew that you would give something to me promises were kept trust
something to me promises were kept trust
something to me promises were kept trust was there please open your eyes we’re
was there please open your eyes we’re
was there please open your eyes we’re still in 2016 the world has changed
there are distractions we are living in
there are distractions we are living in the world of disruption the internet
the world of disruption the internet
the world of disruption the internet takes our attention away all the time so
takes our attention away all the time so
takes our attention away all the time so what do we do this is the model that
what do we do this is the model that
what do we do this is the model that they apply back then so if we apply to
they apply back then so if we apply to
they apply back then so if we apply to husbands and wives today because it’s
husbands and wives today because it’s
husbands and wives today because it’s directly focused at the person you get
directly focused at the person you get
directly focused at the person you get blame you get guilt you get disrespect
blame you get guilt you get disrespect
blame you get guilt you get disrespect if one of them stops doing something the
if one of them stops doing something the
if one of them stops doing something the other either overcompensates or stops
other either overcompensates or stops
other either overcompensates or stops doing something at all or calls it quits
doing something at all or calls it quits
doing something at all or calls it quits what do we do I would invite you again
what do we do I would invite you again
what do we do I would invite you again to close your eyes and this time slow
to close your eyes and this time slow
to close your eyes and this time slow things down a whole lot more and imagine
things down a whole lot more and imagine
things down a whole lot more and imagine your new partner your husband or wife or
your new partner your husband or wife or
your new partner your husband or wife or even future desired partner by both of
even future desired partner by both of
even future desired partner by both of you holding a cup of coffee that has two
you holding a cup of coffee that has two
you holding a cup of coffee that has two handles that cup that coffee was created
handles that cup that coffee was created
handles that cup that coffee was created by both of you you invested in those
by both of you you invested in those
by both of you you invested in those ingredients and you added them into the
ingredients and you added them into the
ingredients and you added them into the cup now take a sip of that cup smell the
cup now take a sip of that cup smell the
cup now take a sip of that cup smell the coffee allow yourself to be mesmerised
coffee allow yourself to be mesmerised
coffee allow yourself to be mesmerised by the experience of the coffee where is
by the experience of the coffee where is
by the experience of the coffee where is the texture like what is the experience
the texture like what is the experience
the texture like what is the experience of drinking that coffee like now pay
of drinking that coffee like now pay
of drinking that coffee like now pay attention to the ingredients that you
attention to the ingredients that you
attention to the ingredients that you added into that coffee you individually
added into that coffee you individually
added into that coffee you individually and how it affected the taste please
and how it affected the taste please
and how it affected the taste please open your eyes
open your eyes
open your eyes let’s all agree on something now
let’s all agree on something now
let’s all agree on something now whatever your experience was drinking
whatever your experience was drinking
whatever your experience was drinking that coffee awaken your senses ladies
that coffee awaken your senses ladies
that coffee awaken your senses ladies and gentlemen the cup of coffee is their
and gentlemen the cup of coffee is their
and gentlemen the cup of coffee is their relationship the cup of coffee is a
relationship the cup of coffee is a
relationship the cup of coffee is a separate entity on its own why because
separate entity on its own why because
separate entity on its own why because because of this world that we’re in
because of this world that we’re in
because of this world that we’re in right now individuality which means me
right now individuality which means me
right now individuality which means me understanding myself and working on
understanding myself and working on
understanding myself and working on myself has been primed it has been
myself has been primed it has been
myself has been primed it has been primed so much the people are focusing
primed so much the people are focusing
primed so much the people are focusing on themselves but in order for us to
on themselves but in order for us to
on themselves but in order for us to focus on ourselves and connect to
focus on ourselves and connect to
focus on ourselves and connect to someone we need something extra to
someone we need something extra to
someone we need something extra to believe in a common goal a common
believe in a common goal a common
believe in a common goal a common experience but we can’t go back in time
experience but we can’t go back in time
experience but we can’t go back in time and say this is the experience we’re
and say this is the experience we’re
and say this is the experience we’re going to work on and so I invite you to
going to work on and so I invite you to
going to work on and so I invite you to look at this and the ingredients are
look at this and the ingredients are
look at this and the ingredients are both of people add in this takes the
both of people add in this takes the
both of people add in this takes the blame away from people when I looked
blame away from people when I looked
blame away from people when I looked into my work and the amount of people
into my work and the amount of people
into my work and the amount of people who actually are already practicing this
who actually are already practicing this
who actually are already practicing this i’ve discovered that they are adding
i’ve discovered that they are adding
i’ve discovered that they are adding four different ingredients to create the
four different ingredients to create the
four different ingredients to create the successful relationship for bass ones
successful relationship for bass ones
successful relationship for bass ones like creating any cup of coffee the
like creating any cup of coffee the
like creating any cup of coffee the first ingredient those couples are
first ingredient those couples are
first ingredient those couples are adding is deep curiosity the ability for
adding is deep curiosity the ability for
adding is deep curiosity the ability for us to remain completely curious and
us to remain completely curious and
us to remain completely curious and inquisitive about as another person why
inquisitive about as another person why
inquisitive about as another person why do we need deep curiosity this is
do we need deep curiosity this is
do we need deep curiosity this is biochemical ladies and gentlemen we have
biochemical ladies and gentlemen we have
biochemical ladies and gentlemen we have a hormone inside of us that’s called
a hormone inside of us that’s called
a hormone inside of us that’s called dopamine and it is the hormone of
dopamine and it is the hormone of
dopamine and it is the hormone of novelty renewable things in our bodies
novelty renewable things in our bodies
novelty renewable things in our bodies and experiences but most of us today
and experiences but most of us today
and experiences but most of us today what are we doing we’re getting it from
what are we doing we’re getting it from
what are we doing we’re getting it from our phones from social media we’re
our phones from social media we’re
our phones from social media we’re scrolling through our facebook timelines
scrolling through our facebook timelines
scrolling through our facebook timelines thinking we’re going to get something
thinking we’re going to get something
thinking we’re going to get something new but at the end of the day we don’t
new but at the end of the day we don’t
new but at the end of the day we don’t get what we really really want people
get what we really really want people
get what we really really want people think that they’re connecting on a
think that they’re connecting on a
think that they’re connecting on a deeper level with others by going
deeper level with others by going
deeper level with others by going through Facebook and other social media
through Facebook and other social media
through Facebook and other social media platforms but in reality we’re fooling
platforms but in reality we’re fooling
platforms but in reality we’re fooling ourselves with things that we are
ourselves with things that we are
ourselves with things that we are connecting but not really because
connecting but not really because
connecting but not really because there’s another person that’s sitting
there’s another person that’s sitting
there’s another person that’s sitting right here craving are
desiring that kind of love and affection
desiring that kind of love and affection curiosity have gone out and have seen
curiosity have gone out and have seen
curiosity have gone out and have seen people who are going out on dates and
people who are going out on dates and
people who are going out on dates and they’re on their phones where is the
they’re on their phones where is the
they’re on their phones where is the curiosity where is the level of
curiosity where is the level of
curiosity where is the level of affection and depth that we can create
affection and depth that we can create
affection and depth that we can create between one another the second
between one another the second
between one another the second ingredient of the ad is their ability to
ingredient of the ad is their ability to
ingredient of the ad is their ability to look at our relationship like an
look at our relationship like an
look at our relationship like an adventure see I’m a man who believes in
adventure see I’m a man who believes in
adventure see I’m a man who believes in meaning if you tell yourself today that
meaning if you tell yourself today that
meaning if you tell yourself today that you’re a person who says life happens to
you’re a person who says life happens to
you’re a person who says life happens to me my God why does life happen to me you
me my God why does life happen to me you
me my God why does life happen to me you get a certain set of experience and
get a certain set of experience and
get a certain set of experience and behavior but when you tell yourself life
behavior but when you tell yourself life
behavior but when you tell yourself life happens for me you get another
happens for me you get another
happens for me you get another completely different experience it’s the
completely different experience it’s the
completely different experience it’s the same like a relationship if you study
same like a relationship if you study
same like a relationship if you study yourself my god my relationship is
yourself my god my relationship is
yourself my god my relationship is boring it’s a lot of work my partner
boring it’s a lot of work my partner
boring it’s a lot of work my partner does not understand me why did I get
does not understand me why did I get
does not understand me why did I get myself into this what experience are you
myself into this what experience are you
myself into this what experience are you going to get but if we tell yourself it
going to get but if we tell yourself it
going to get but if we tell yourself it is an adventure our relationship is an
is an adventure our relationship is an
is an adventure our relationship is an adventure we’re getting to know things
adventure we’re getting to know things
adventure we’re getting to know things every day by god he took the trash out
every day by god he took the trash out
every day by god he took the trash out today oh I didn’t know he could do that
that level of zest and renewable energy
that level of zest and renewable energy brings a new definition to relationships
brings a new definition to relationships
brings a new definition to relationships that level of awakening like a cup of
that level of awakening like a cup of
that level of awakening like a cup of coffee brings an experience like never
coffee brings an experience like never
coffee brings an experience like never before the third ingredient of the ad is
before the third ingredient of the ad is
before the third ingredient of the ad is their ability to have common activities
their ability to have common activities
their ability to have common activities see a lot of us today sit most of the
see a lot of us today sit most of the
see a lot of us today sit most of the time on our chairs and that reduces our
time on our chairs and that reduces our
time on our chairs and that reduces our energy level our vibration to the world
energy level our vibration to the world
energy level our vibration to the world in order for us to go out there and do
in order for us to go out there and do
in order for us to go out there and do something with the people that we love
something with the people that we love
something with the people that we love we have to be able to think differently
we have to be able to think differently
we have to be able to think differently about our movements we have to create
about our movements we have to create
about our movements we have to create something a bonding and we need a
something a bonding and we need a
something a bonding and we need a hormone for that called oxytocin the
hormone for that called oxytocin the
hormone for that called oxytocin the love hormone but on top of that you need
love hormone but on top of that you need
love hormone but on top of that you need something else you need creativity to
something else you need creativity to
something else you need creativity to allow that relationship to grow and to
allow that relationship to grow and to
allow that relationship to grow and to prosper and to do so much more and
prosper and to do so much more and
prosper and to do so much more and way we can access that level of
way we can access that level of
way we can access that level of creativity is by doing something with
creativity is by doing something with
creativity is by doing something with our body and by doing it with somebody
our body and by doing it with somebody
our body and by doing it with somebody else by going out not what we were
else by going out not what we were
else by going out not what we were thinking that’s the beauty that’s the
thinking that’s the beauty that’s the
thinking that’s the beauty that’s the zest of a relationship that’s the
zest of a relationship that’s the
zest of a relationship that’s the experience we get when we drink a cup of
experience we get when we drink a cup of
experience we get when we drink a cup of coffee the fourth ingredient and the
coffee the fourth ingredient and the
coffee the fourth ingredient and the most visible one today that we find
most visible one today that we find
most visible one today that we find people don’t practice openly his
people don’t practice openly his
people don’t practice openly his acceptance acceptance acceptance is the
acceptance acceptance acceptance is the
acceptance acceptance acceptance is the ability for me to tell you thank you I
ability for me to tell you thank you I
ability for me to tell you thank you I appreciate you for who you are it’s that
appreciate you for who you are it’s that
appreciate you for who you are it’s that moment when I tell you I love you or
moment when I tell you I love you or
moment when I tell you I love you or that moans when I say I do but that
that moans when I say I do but that
that moans when I say I do but that moment I got on my knees and say will
moment I got on my knees and say will
moment I got on my knees and say will you marry me but that happens at the
you marry me but that happens at the
you marry me but that happens at the beginning of the relationship only why
beginning of the relationship only why
beginning of the relationship only why it’s because a lot of people today a lot
it’s because a lot of people today a lot
it’s because a lot of people today a lot of couples spend way too much time
of couples spend way too much time
of couples spend way too much time thinking and architecting the person we
thinking and architecting the person we
thinking and architecting the person we try to draw the person up to our needs
try to draw the person up to our needs
try to draw the person up to our needs we try to change the person up to the
we try to change the person up to the
we try to change the person up to the way we want we inoculate we manipulate
way we want we inoculate we manipulate
way we want we inoculate we manipulate the environment in a way that we want
the environment in a way that we want
the environment in a way that we want that person to be exactly how we wanted
that person to be exactly how we wanted
that person to be exactly how we wanted them to be from the moment we got entire
them to be from the moment we got entire
them to be from the moment we got entire leadership with them but what happens
leadership with them but what happens
leadership with them but what happens after the honeymoon phase dude that girl
after the honeymoon phase dude that girl
after the honeymoon phase dude that girl is nothing like what I expected her to
is nothing like what I expected her to
is nothing like what I expected her to be what a letdown instead of spending so
be what a letdown instead of spending so
be what a letdown instead of spending so much time architecting and designed the
much time architecting and designed the
much time architecting and designed the person I can tag the relationship that
person I can tag the relationship that
person I can tag the relationship that cup of coffee spend time on this get
cup of coffee spend time on this get
cup of coffee spend time on this get conscious and very clear and intentional
conscious and very clear and intentional
conscious and very clear and intentional at what we add inside of this get very
at what we add inside of this get very
at what we add inside of this get very curious what did I act today take
curious what did I act today take
curious what did I act today take ownership clear ownership and leadership
ownership clear ownership and leadership
ownership clear ownership and leadership of what ingredients you add in because
of what ingredients you add in because
of what ingredients you add in because whatever you add in affects the taste
whatever you add in affects the taste
whatever you add in affects the taste dramatically and when we take that
dramatically and when we take that
dramatically and when we take that ownership we can’t blame that person we
ownership we can’t blame that person we
ownership we can’t blame that person we can’t look at them and say you don’t
can’t look at them and say you don’t
can’t look at them and say you don’t love me get curious what did I add in
love me get curious what did I add in
love me get curious what did I add in that relation to creative this
that relation to creative this
that relation to creative this listen just one this is what I call a
listen just one this is what I call a
listen just one this is what I call a love action plan couples today don’t
love action plan couples today don’t
love action plan couples today don’t have a love action plan at all when you
have a love action plan at all when you
have a love action plan at all when you have that love action plan you bring
have that love action plan you bring
have that love action plan you bring that awakening to life you being that
that awakening to life you being that
that awakening to life you being that zest and excitement to our relationship
zest and excitement to our relationship
zest and excitement to our relationship much like a story i’m going to share
much like a story i’m going to share
much like a story i’m going to share with you right now the time in 2013 when
with you right now the time in 2013 when
with you right now the time in 2013 when i visited barcelona who here has been to
i visited barcelona who here has been to
i visited barcelona who here has been to Barcelona but beautiful city beautiful
Barcelona but beautiful city beautiful
Barcelona but beautiful city beautiful so filled with creativity and youth and
so filled with creativity and youth and
so filled with creativity and youth and a different experience and vibe I was
a different experience and vibe I was
a different experience and vibe I was walking down the city center with my
walking down the city center with my
walking down the city center with my friends and I found a beautiful shop
friends and I found a beautiful shop
friends and I found a beautiful shop that was having its new grand opening a
that was having its new grand opening a
that was having its new grand opening a tiny in comic shop but it was distinct
tiny in comic shop but it was distinct
tiny in comic shop but it was distinct and design it was a photography and art
and design it was a photography and art
and design it was a photography and art shop vintage style the difference
shop vintage style the difference
shop vintage style the difference however is that this shop was filled
however is that this shop was filled
however is that this shop was filled with mostly glass windows and doors very
with mostly glass windows and doors very
with mostly glass windows and doors very few walls so if you were walking from
few walls so if you were walking from
few walls so if you were walking from the outside you could see what’s
the outside you could see what’s
the outside you could see what’s happening in the inside so me and my
happening in the inside so me and my
happening in the inside so me and my friends walked in out of curiosity and
friends walked in out of curiosity and
friends walked in out of curiosity and then after walking in we discovered wow
then after walking in we discovered wow
then after walking in we discovered wow there’s a lot of people that energy is
there’s a lot of people that energy is
there’s a lot of people that energy is high jazz music is playing everybody’s
high jazz music is playing everybody’s
high jazz music is playing everybody’s networking we had some nibbles and at
networking we had some nibbles and at
networking we had some nibbles and at some point the organizers came in and
some point the organizers came in and
some point the organizers came in and they said respectfully we’d like to ask
they said respectfully we’d like to ask
they said respectfully we’d like to ask you to stand outside there’s an
you to stand outside there’s an
you to stand outside there’s an performer walking in right now Wow a
performer walking in right now Wow a
performer walking in right now Wow a performer it gets better we stood
performer it gets better we stood
performer it gets better we stood outside in curiosity like children
outside in curiosity like children
outside in curiosity like children what’s about to happen in no time a
what’s about to happen in no time a
what’s about to happen in no time a flamenco dancer walked in with four men
flamenco dancer walked in with four men
flamenco dancer walked in with four men behind her with buckets of paint
behind her with buckets of paint
behind her with buckets of paint different colors but 12 color he had
different colors but 12 color he had
different colors but 12 color he had four paint brushes in a cassette player
four paint brushes in a cassette player
four paint brushes in a cassette player very vintage she stood and they looked
very vintage she stood and they looked
very vintage she stood and they looked at us gazed at us acknowledge that our
at us gazed at us acknowledge that our
at us gazed at us acknowledge that our we were present with her she wore her
we were present with her she wore her
we were present with her she wore her paintbrushes she dipped them into the
paintbrushes she dipped them into the
paintbrushes she dipped them into the color and what happened next is exactly
color and what happened next is exactly
color and what happened next is exactly what you thinking about she played the
what you thinking about she played the
what you thinking about she played the music she clapped she tapped her fingers
music she clapped she tapped her fingers
music she clapped she tapped her fingers and feet she dipped her fingers and feet
and feet she dipped her fingers and feet
and feet she dipped her fingers and feet into the color and she started to splash
into the color and she started to splash
into the color and she started to splash all over the place red blue green
all over the place red blue green
all over the place red blue green hello white orange purple black pink
hello white orange purple black pink
hello white orange purple black pink everything we stood there we were in awe
everything we stood there we were in awe
everything we stood there we were in awe and love and out of excitement we
and love and out of excitement we
and love and out of excitement we couldn’t understand but it was amazing
couldn’t understand but it was amazing
couldn’t understand but it was amazing we were awestruck by that amazing
we were awestruck by that amazing
we were awestruck by that amazing performance and I wanted a very quiet
performance and I wanted a very quiet
performance and I wanted a very quiet place in my mind and heart and i said my
place in my mind and heart and i said my
place in my mind and heart and i said my goodness isn’t this what a relationship
goodness isn’t this what a relationship
goodness isn’t this what a relationship is like that level of passion
is like that level of passion
is like that level of passion uncertainty flow direction color and
uncertainty flow direction color and
uncertainty flow direction color and then i asked myself hang on a second
then i asked myself hang on a second
then i asked myself hang on a second isn’t this weather cup of coffee does to
isn’t this weather cup of coffee does to
isn’t this weather cup of coffee does to us it’s almost like having a cup of
us it’s almost like having a cup of
us it’s almost like having a cup of coffee brings awakening freshness
coffee brings awakening freshness
coffee brings awakening freshness creativity to the relationship when you
creativity to the relationship when you
creativity to the relationship when you drink that cup a new experience comes to
drink that cup a new experience comes to
drink that cup a new experience comes to life and so ladies and gentlemen not
life and so ladies and gentlemen not
life and so ladies and gentlemen not here to tell you to become lovers better
here to tell you to become lovers better
here to tell you to become lovers better lovers in a relationship I’m here to
lovers in a relationship I’m here to
lovers in a relationship I’m here to help you find a way so that you can
help you find a way so that you can
help you find a way so that you can become influencers of love ladies and
become influencers of love ladies and
become influencers of love ladies and gentlemen I’m here to tell you wake up
gentlemen I’m here to tell you wake up
gentlemen I’m here to tell you wake up your hearts thank you
your hearts thank you
your hearts thank you [Applause]
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