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Untame Innate Talent | Melissa Freigang | TEDxOgden


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[Music] [Applause]

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[Applause] we’re gonna start with a short activity

we’re gonna start with a short activity

we’re gonna start with a short activity I’d like everybody to close your eyes

I’d like everybody to close your eyes

I’d like everybody to close your eyes and I want you to imagine an important

and I want you to imagine an important

and I want you to imagine an important child in your life it can be a son or a

child in your life it can be a son or a

child in your life it can be a son or a daughter a grandchild a niece or a

daughter a grandchild a niece or a

daughter a grandchild a niece or a nephew in your mind’s eye you can hear

nephew in your mind’s eye you can hear

nephew in your mind’s eye you can hear them talking about who they want to be

them talking about who they want to be

them talking about who they want to be when they grow up now fast forward 15

when they grow up now fast forward 15

when they grow up now fast forward 15 years later where are they now what are

years later where are they now what are

years later where are they now what are they doing okay you can open your eyes

they doing okay you can open your eyes

they doing okay you can open your eyes now

now

now let’s collectively imagine a community

let’s collectively imagine a community

let’s collectively imagine a community where every person can decide who they

where every person can decide who they

where every person can decide who they want to be when they grow up a doctor a

want to be when they grow up a doctor a

want to be when they grow up a doctor a lawyer chef welder entrepreneur what

lawyer chef welder entrepreneur what

lawyer chef welder entrepreneur what would it look like if every child in our

would it look like if every child in our

would it look like if every child in our community had the power of

community had the power of

community had the power of self-determination pretty good right and

self-determination pretty good right and

self-determination pretty good right and the best part of that vision is that we

the best part of that vision is that we

the best part of that vision is that we can make it a reality

can make it a reality

can make it a reality it may not be easy

it may not be easy

it may not be easy but we can make it simple so how do we

but we can make it simple so how do we

but we can make it simple so how do we get there some people would say that

get there some people would say that

get there some people would say that with enough motivation you can achieve

with enough motivation you can achieve

with enough motivation you can achieve anything you want in life regardless of

anything you want in life regardless of

anything you want in life regardless of socioeconomic status your disability

socioeconomic status your disability

socioeconomic status your disability race or even lack of talent and while it

race or even lack of talent and while it

race or even lack of talent and while it is true that motivation is critical it

is true that motivation is critical it

is true that motivation is critical it alone does not solve our social problems

alone does not solve our social problems

alone does not solve our social problems of poverty crime obesity substance abuse

of poverty crime obesity substance abuse

of poverty crime obesity substance abuse so let’s start with motivation what is

so let’s start with motivation what is

so let’s start with motivation what is it

it

it it’s a process that starts with a

it’s a process that starts with a

it’s a process that starts with a physiological or a psychological need

physiological or a psychological need

physiological or a psychological need that activates a behavior or a drive

that activates a behavior or a drive

that activates a behavior or a drive toward a goal so that makes sense a

toward a goal so that makes sense a

toward a goal so that makes sense a physiological need like thirst or hunger

physiological need like thirst or hunger

physiological need like thirst or hunger motivates us to get water or food pretty

motivates us to get water or food pretty

motivates us to get water or food pretty standard so let’s ask ourselves are

standard so let’s ask ourselves are

standard so let’s ask ourselves are there standard psychological needs the

there standard psychological needs the

there standard psychological needs the answer is yes there are three Universal

answer is yes there are three Universal

answer is yes there are three Universal psychological needs the need to gain

psychological needs the need to gain

psychological needs the need to gain mastery of tasks and learn skills which

mastery of tasks and learn skills which

mastery of tasks and learn skills which is known as competency the need to be a

is known as competency the need to be a

is known as competency the need to be a part of a tribe to fill a sense of

part of a tribe to fill a sense of

part of a tribe to fill a sense of purpose and attachment to a group this

purpose and attachment to a group this

purpose and attachment to a group this is belonging and the third need is to

is belonging and the third need is to

is belonging and the third need is to feel in control of your behaviors and

feel in control of your behaviors and

feel in control of your behaviors and your goals autonomy the theory of

your goals autonomy the theory of

your goals autonomy the theory of motivation that have this premise is

motivation that have this premise is

motivation that have this premise is that there are innate tendencies towards

that there are innate tendencies towards

that there are innate tendencies towards personal growth and vitality that are

personal growth and vitality that are

personal growth and vitality that are either satisfied or thwarted by your

either satisfied or thwarted by your

either satisfied or thwarted by your immediate environment when competency

immediate environment when competency

immediate environment when competency belonging and autonomy are fostered in

belonging and autonomy are fostered in

belonging and autonomy are fostered in our homes our neighborhoods our sporting

our homes our neighborhoods our sporting

our homes our neighborhoods our sporting teams our schools and our churches

teams our schools and our churches

teams our schools and our churches children flourish these factors of

children flourish these factors of

children flourish these factors of self-determination during a child’s

self-determination during a child’s

self-determination during a child’s development ultimately lead to the

development ultimately lead to the

development ultimately lead to the successful transition into adult life

successful transition into adult life

successful transition into adult life did you know that 10% of the children in

did you know that 10% of the children in

did you know that 10% of the children in our community are living in

our community are living in

our community are living in intergenerational poverty that’s over

intergenerational poverty that’s over

intergenerational poverty that’s over 7,000 children think about the social

7,000 children think about the social

7,000 children think about the social and the economic costs if we don’t come

and the economic costs if we don’t come

and the economic costs if we don’t come together collectively to break the cycle

together collectively to break the cycle

together collectively to break the cycle of poverty those of us who are working

of poverty those of us who are working

of poverty those of us who are working on intergenerational poverty believe

on intergenerational poverty believe

on intergenerational poverty believe that we can impact policy and

that we can impact policy and

that we can impact policy and programming through four key critical

programming through four key critical

programming through four key critical factors health and wellness equal access

factors health and wellness equal access

factors health and wellness equal access resiliency and dignity through social

resiliency and dignity through social

resiliency and dignity through social connectedness mentors and role models

connectedness mentors and role models

connectedness mentors and role models when children have competency are a part

when children have competency are a part

when children have competency are a part of the tribe and the bosses of

of the tribe and the bosses of

of the tribe and the bosses of themselves they thrive you don’t have to

themselves they thrive you don’t have to

themselves they thrive you don’t have to travel to a foreign country to see

travel to a foreign country to see

travel to a foreign country to see poverty you can make a difference here

poverty you can make a difference here

poverty you can make a difference here in your community children living in

in your community children living in

in your community children living in intergenerational poverty deserve the

intergenerational poverty deserve the

intergenerational poverty deserve the best efforts of our entire community so

when you receive the calling to become a

when you receive the calling to become a mentor to volunteer for the Boys and

mentor to volunteer for the Boys and

mentor to volunteer for the Boys and Girls Club or to coach a youth sport

Girls Club or to coach a youth sport

Girls Club or to coach a youth sport team take that opportunity knowing that

team take that opportunity knowing that

team take that opportunity knowing that you’re a difference maker you are a

you’re a difference maker you are a

you’re a difference maker you are a champion for our children and you are

champion for our children and you are

champion for our children and you are giving them a sense of

giving them a sense of

giving them a sense of self-determination it does take a

self-determination it does take a

self-determination it does take a village become a part of our tribe thank

village become a part of our tribe thank

village become a part of our tribe thank you

you

you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] you

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