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tell me what is it you plan to do with

tell me what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life this is

your one wild and precious life this is

your one wild and precious life this is a line from a poem by world-renowned

a line from a poem by world-renowned

a line from a poem by world-renowned American poet Mary Oliver speaking of

American poet Mary Oliver speaking of

American poet Mary Oliver speaking of poetry and writing my husband once asked

poetry and writing my husband once asked

poetry and writing my husband once asked me if I were forced to choose between

me if I were forced to choose between

me if I were forced to choose between him and writing which one would I choose

him and writing which one would I choose

him and writing which one would I choose before I got the chance to answer him

before I got the chance to answer him

before I got the chance to answer him he told me he already knew what I was

he told me he already knew what I was

he told me he already knew what I was going to say so of course I didn’t

going to say so of course I didn’t

going to say so of course I didn’t disappoint him I told him I would choose

disappoint him I told him I would choose

disappoint him I told him I would choose writing over him and that’s when he

writing over him and that’s when he

writing over him and that’s when he asked for a divorce and that was the end

asked for a divorce and that was the end

asked for a divorce and that was the end of that I’m just kidding what actually

of that I’m just kidding what actually

of that I’m just kidding what actually happened was that he looked at me and he

happened was that he looked at me and he

happened was that he looked at me and he smiled and nodded at my expected answer

smiled and nodded at my expected answer

smiled and nodded at my expected answer and the point is is that he understood

and the point is is that he understood

and the point is is that he understood that writing was something that I could

that writing was something that I could

that writing was something that I could not live without that it was so a part

not live without that it was so a part

not live without that it was so a part of who I am and who I was that not

of who I am and who I was that not

of who I am and who I was that not writing would be like I was consciously

writing would be like I was consciously

writing would be like I was consciously choosing to go against my nature he also

choosing to go against my nature he also

choosing to go against my nature he also understood and he told me this that I

understood and he told me this that I

understood and he told me this that I was lucky to have found my calling most

was lucky to have found my calling most

was lucky to have found my calling most people didn’t or don’t and they end up

people didn’t or don’t and they end up

people didn’t or don’t and they end up in situations or places where for the

in situations or places where for the

in situations or places where for the most part they had little to do with it

most part they had little to do with it

most part they had little to do with it wasn’t always the case though what I

wasn’t always the case though what I

wasn’t always the case though what I mean to say is that it wasn’t always the

mean to say is that it wasn’t always the

mean to say is that it wasn’t always the case that I knew that I wanted to become

case that I knew that I wanted to become

case that I knew that I wanted to become a writer it was not a realistic option

a writer it was not a realistic option

a writer it was not a realistic option while I was growing up you see other

while I was growing up you see other

while I was growing up you see other people did that other people published

people did that other people published

people did that other people published poetry and books other people wrote

poetry and books other people wrote

poetry and books other people wrote plays and acted in them and composed

plays and acted in them and composed

plays and acted in them and composed music and albums and fashion labels and

music and albums and fashion labels and

music and albums and fashion labels and art other people created things

art other people created things

art other people created things platforms initiatives spaces I was

platforms initiatives spaces I was

platforms initiatives spaces I was merely a passive recipient or a mediator

merely a passive recipient or a mediator

merely a passive recipient or a mediator of sorts I was able to discover this

of sorts I was able to discover this

of sorts I was able to discover this passion this calling so to speak as an

passion this calling so to speak as an

passion this calling so to speak as an adult only in the past decade and a half

adult only in the past decade and a half

adult only in the past decade and a half thanks to a series of experiences along

thanks to a series of experiences along

thanks to a series of experiences along the way experiences that had iris

the way experiences that had iris

the way experiences that had iris I would not be the person I am today

I would not be the person I am today

I would not be the person I am today experiences which I allowed to take me

experiences which I allowed to take me

experiences which I allowed to take me by the hand and lead me in the darkest

by the hand and lead me in the darkest

by the hand and lead me in the darkest of fog into another kind of future or

of fog into another kind of future or

of fog into another kind of future or three what I had originally planned for

three what I had originally planned for

three what I had originally planned for my one wild and precious life was to

my one wild and precious life was to

my one wild and precious life was to become a high school English teacher

become a high school English teacher

become a high school English teacher thanks to my undergrad degree in English

thanks to my undergrad degree in English

thanks to my undergrad degree in English literature as well as my teaching

literature as well as my teaching

literature as well as my teaching diploma for that exact purpose this was

diploma for that exact purpose this was

diploma for that exact purpose this was my life plan I thought at the time a

my life plan I thought at the time a

my life plan I thought at the time a path my parents thought was good for me

path my parents thought was good for me

path my parents thought was good for me as a woman in general and as an Arab

as a woman in general and as an Arab

as a woman in general and as an Arab woman in particular my mother a biology

woman in particular my mother a biology

woman in particular my mother a biology teacher herself thought that

teacher herself thought that

teacher herself thought that schoolteachers had the best vacation

schoolteachers had the best vacation

schoolteachers had the best vacation opportunities you see they took off

opportunities you see they took off

opportunities you see they took off during the school holidays and they had

during the school holidays and they had

during the school holidays and they had the whole summer to themselves to spend

the whole summer to themselves to spend

the whole summer to themselves to spend with their families as wives and mothers

with their families as wives and mothers

with their families as wives and mothers Thank You King patriarchy for the fixed

Thank You King patriarchy for the fixed

Thank You King patriarchy for the fixed and preconceived roles for each gender

and preconceived roles for each gender

and preconceived roles for each gender with a whole set of expectations in

with a whole set of expectations in

with a whole set of expectations in other words limitations but not to get

other words limitations but not to get

other words limitations but not to get too detailed I did teach as a high

too detailed I did teach as a high

too detailed I did teach as a high school English teacher for a while in

school English teacher for a while in

school English teacher for a while in Lebanon but then life took me to other

Lebanon but then life took me to other

Lebanon but then life took me to other countries and other places and the key

countries and other places and the key

countries and other places and the key thing is in retrospect is that I did not

thing is in retrospect is that I did not

thing is in retrospect is that I did not resist

resist

resist for instance life took me to the United

for instance life took me to the United

for instance life took me to the United States where I lived in Iowa City for a

States where I lived in Iowa City for a

States where I lived in Iowa City for a while and I still kind of held on to the

while and I still kind of held on to the

while and I still kind of held on to the belief that I would teach English at

belief that I would teach English at

belief that I would teach English at American schools nevermind the irony

American schools nevermind the irony

American schools nevermind the irony that one of my friends joked and said

that one of my friends joked and said

that one of my friends joked and said wait you mean you an Arab are gonna go

wait you mean you an Arab are gonna go

wait you mean you an Arab are gonna go and teach English to people whose first

and teach English to people whose first

and teach English to people whose first language is English yeah but it did not

language is English yeah but it did not

language is English yeah but it did not quite work out the way I had in mind

quite work out the way I had in mind

quite work out the way I had in mind because I soon found out that there was

because I soon found out that there was

because I soon found out that there was a whole set of rules and regulations and

a whole set of rules and regulations and

a whole set of rules and regulations and coursework that I needed to consider in

coursework that I needed to consider in

coursework that I needed to consider in order to be certified as a teacher in

order to be certified as a teacher in

order to be certified as a teacher in the state in which I lived and this was

the state in which I lived and this was

the state in which I lived and this was because I was foreign educated so during

because I was foreign educated so during

because I was foreign educated so during the time that I was supposedly seeking

the time that I was supposedly seeking

the time that I was supposedly seeking to be certified as a teacher I worked in

to be certified as a teacher I worked in

to be certified as a teacher I worked in various other fields jobs that I never

various other fields jobs that I never

various other fields jobs that I never considered with my degree but I did them

considered with my degree but I did them

considered with my degree but I did them anyway

anyway

anyway for instance I folded clothes as a sales

for instance I folded clothes as a sales

for instance I folded clothes as a sales associate and I practice my smile even

associate and I practice my smile even

associate and I practice my smile even and especially with despicable customers

and especially with despicable customers

and especially with despicable customers thanks to that job I try not to be that

thanks to that job I try not to be that

thanks to that job I try not to be that despicable customer myself I also had my

despicable customer myself I also had my

despicable customer myself I also had my bag investigated as a sales associate at

bag investigated as a sales associate at

bag investigated as a sales associate at the end of my shift

the end of my shift

the end of my shift each time I checked out at the end of my

each time I checked out at the end of my

each time I checked out at the end of my shift this was standard protocol I was

shift this was standard protocol I was

shift this was standard protocol I was told and I shouldn’t have taken it

told and I shouldn’t have taken it

told and I shouldn’t have taken it personally but I did I couldn’t help it

personally but I did I couldn’t help it

personally but I did I couldn’t help it I couldn’t help feeling hurt and

I couldn’t help feeling hurt and

I couldn’t help feeling hurt and offended by the so called standard

offended by the so called standard

offended by the so called standard protocol I folded bras and underwear at

protocol I folded bras and underwear at

protocol I folded bras and underwear at a famous American lingerie outlet that

a famous American lingerie outlet that

a famous American lingerie outlet that lasted about two days before I said

lasted about two days before I said

lasted about two days before I said thanks but no thanks I also worked as a

thanks but no thanks I also worked as a

thanks but no thanks I also worked as a bookseller at a famous American

bookseller at a famous American

bookseller at a famous American bookstore and I loved every minute of

bookstore and I loved every minute of

bookstore and I loved every minute of that being surrounded by people and

that being surrounded by people and

that being surrounded by people and books and people who loved books and

books and people who loved books and

books and people who loved books and reading as much as I knew that I did for

reading as much as I knew that I did for

reading as much as I knew that I did for some reason no one investigated my bag

some reason no one investigated my bag

some reason no one investigated my bag at the end of that shift because really

at the end of that shift because really

at the end of that shift because really who would steal a book it’s not The

who would steal a book it’s not The

who would steal a book it’s not The Consumerist capital of the world

Consumerist capital of the world

Consumerist capital of the world but all the while I wrote long emails

but all the while I wrote long emails

but all the while I wrote long emails back home to family and friends long

back home to family and friends long

back home to family and friends long intricate carefully constructed emails

intricate carefully constructed emails

intricate carefully constructed emails about my life in that Midwestern setting

about my life in that Midwestern setting

about my life in that Midwestern setting I wrote about my longing for my homeland

I wrote about my longing for my homeland

I wrote about my longing for my homeland and I wrote about my perception of the

and I wrote about my perception of the

and I wrote about my perception of the world around me as a woman as a

world around me as a woman as a

world around me as a woman as a foreigner and as a post 9/11 immigrant

foreigner and as a post 9/11 immigrant

foreigner and as a post 9/11 immigrant in the United States and with time

in the United States and with time

in the United States and with time people my friends and my family and

people my friends and my family and

people my friends and my family and friends of friends who might never met

friends of friends who might never met

friends of friends who might never met who had somehow received my emails began

who had somehow received my emails began

who had somehow received my emails began began to write back to me and tell me

began to write back to me and tell me

began to write back to me and tell me how much they enjoyed my stories and

how much they enjoyed my stories and

how much they enjoyed my stories and that they were looking forward to more

that they were looking forward to more

that they were looking forward to more it became obvious that something was

it became obvious that something was

it became obvious that something was happening people other than my mother

happening people other than my mother

happening people other than my mother actually wanted to read my crap it also

actually wanted to read my crap it also

actually wanted to read my crap it also became obvious how much time and energy

became obvious how much time and energy

became obvious how much time and energy I was investing in composing these

I was investing in composing these

I was investing in composing these stories and I began to realize that

stories and I began to realize that

stories and I began to realize that really I wanted nothing more but to

really I wanted nothing more but to

really I wanted nothing more but to spend the rest of my time doing just

spend the rest of my time doing just

spend the rest of my time doing just that to write this was a scary thought

that to write this was a scary thought

that to write this was a scary thought because this was not part of the

because this was not part of the

because this was not part of the original plan of becoming a high school

original plan of becoming a high school

original plan of becoming a high school teacher so I took that scary thought and

teacher so I took that scary thought and

teacher so I took that scary thought and I went with it and I applied for a

I went with it and I applied for a

I went with it and I applied for a Master of Fine Arts degree in creative

Master of Fine Arts degree in creative

Master of Fine Arts degree in creative writing at one of the top schools in the

writing at one of the top schools in the

writing at one of the top schools in the city when I asked about the application

city when I asked about the application

city when I asked about the application process I told I was told that I needed

process I told I was told that I needed

process I told I was told that I needed to be published first that’s when it

to be published first that’s when it

to be published first that’s when it struck me me published as an I do the

struck me me published as an I do the

struck me me published as an I do the work and someone likes it enough to make

work and someone likes it enough to make

work and someone likes it enough to make it public on beautifully bound sheets of

it public on beautifully bound sheets of

it public on beautifully bound sheets of paper to me it felt impossible but I

paper to me it felt impossible but I

paper to me it felt impossible but I kept at it I kept at the writing and

kept at it I kept at the writing and

kept at it I kept at the writing and some time later and various jobs and

some time later and various jobs and

some time later and various jobs and years later I reapplied for an MFA in

years later I reapplied for an MFA in

years later I reapplied for an MFA in creative writing and I got accepted into

creative writing and I got accepted into

creative writing and I got accepted into the University of Missouri st. Louis

the University of Missouri st. Louis

the University of Missouri st. Louis that’s when a whole new world opened up

that’s when a whole new world opened up

that’s when a whole new world opened up around me my being the only Arab in the

around me my being the only Arab in the

around me my being the only Arab in the English department was irrelevant I was

English department was irrelevant I was

English department was irrelevant I was surrounded by people who loved and

surrounded by people who loved and

surrounded by people who loved and appreciated words and language and

appreciated words and language and

appreciated words and language and writing as much as I did

writing as much as I did

writing as much as I did and it was a natural expectation to

and it was a natural expectation to

and it was a natural expectation to produce work that had the potential of

produce work that had the potential of

produce work that had the potential of being published during that time I also

being published during that time I also

being published during that time I also got introduced to poetry journals and

got introduced to poetry journals and

got introduced to poetry journals and magazines and poetry and literary

magazines and poetry and literary

magazines and poetry and literary readings where people would stand up in

readings where people would stand up in

readings where people would stand up in front of an audience and they would

front of an audience and they would

front of an audience and they would share their art they would share their

share their art they would share their

share their art they would share their work and no one in the room thought this

work and no one in the room thought this

work and no one in the room thought this was a complete waste of everyone’s time

was a complete waste of everyone’s time

was a complete waste of everyone’s time I felt at home not only was it not a

I felt at home not only was it not a

I felt at home not only was it not a complete waste of everyone’s time

complete waste of everyone’s time

complete waste of everyone’s time but people including myself felt

but people including myself felt

but people including myself felt something their words mattered words

something their words mattered words

something their words mattered words could change people perceptions life

could change people perceptions life

could change people perceptions life paths it was a powerful tool I knew how

paths it was a powerful tool I knew how

paths it was a powerful tool I knew how much it had changed me as a lover of

much it had changed me as a lover of

much it had changed me as a lover of books and readings but I never thought

books and readings but I never thought

books and readings but I never thought that one day I would possibly become a

that one day I would possibly become a

that one day I would possibly become a producer or a creator of books and

producer or a creator of books and

producer or a creator of books and reading myself with time I began sending

reading myself with time I began sending

reading myself with time I began sending my work out to be published in various

my work out to be published in various

my work out to be published in various literary magazines and I got a zillion

literary magazines and I got a zillion

literary magazines and I got a zillion rejection letters before I even got a

rejection letters before I even got a

rejection letters before I even got a glimpse of publication so during my time

glimpse of publication so during my time

glimpse of publication so during my time in the u.s. I was not only a potential

in the u.s. I was not only a potential

in the u.s. I was not only a potential thief

thief

thief remember the sales associate protocol I

remember the sales associate protocol I

remember the sales associate protocol I was also someone whose voice would

was also someone whose voice would

was also someone whose voice would easily be dismissed or muffled

easily be dismissed or muffled

easily be dismissed or muffled intentionally or not intentionally and I

intentionally or not intentionally and I

intentionally or not intentionally and I don’t mean my literal voice I mean my

don’t mean my literal voice I mean my

don’t mean my literal voice I mean my voice of being you see not many people

voice of being you see not many people

voice of being you see not many people whom I met at work or at school really

whom I met at work or at school really

whom I met at work or at school really knew where Lebanon was on the map and

knew where Lebanon was on the map and

knew where Lebanon was on the map and very few people seemed to care where I

very few people seemed to care where I

very few people seemed to care where I was really from and then later on when I

was really from and then later on when I

was really from and then later on when I got naturalized as an American citizen I

got naturalized as an American citizen I

got naturalized as an American citizen I was actually told on more than one

was actually told on more than one

was actually told on more than one occasion to no longer say that I was

occasion to no longer say that I was

occasion to no longer say that I was Lebanese I was expected to become fully

Lebanese I was expected to become fully

Lebanese I was expected to become fully American it did not sit well with me now

American it did not sit well with me now

American it did not sit well with me now maybe I’m a difficult person but I felt

maybe I’m a difficult person but I felt

maybe I’m a difficult person but I felt boxed in and trivialized into a an

boxed in and trivialized into a an

boxed in and trivialized into a an identity so immediately without warning

identity so immediately without warning

identity so immediately without warning or clarification

or clarification

or clarification so I decided to take my voice back even

so I decided to take my voice back even

so I decided to take my voice back even in the smallest of ways so for instance

in the smallest of ways so for instance

in the smallest of ways so for instance during my master’s program by writing

during my master’s program by writing

during my master’s program by writing did not include characters whose names

did not include characters whose names

did not include characters whose names are Jack and Jennifer and Donald

are Jack and Jennifer and Donald

are Jack and Jennifer and Donald definitely not Donald

definitely not Donald

definitely not Donald they included common Arabic names like

they included common Arabic names like

they included common Arabic names like Laila and Selma and Ziad they included

Laila and Selma and Ziad they included

Laila and Selma and Ziad they included flavors from my kitchen

flavors from my kitchen

flavors from my kitchen the weather and Beirut street names and

the weather and Beirut street names and

the weather and Beirut street names and jargon from my ancestors in or in other

jargon from my ancestors in or in other

jargon from my ancestors in or in other words they included things that I cared

words they included things that I cared

words they included things that I cared about politically and socially and

about politically and socially and

about politically and socially and intimately and ironically the more I did

intimately and ironically the more I did

intimately and ironically the more I did this the more I felt like I belonged and

this the more I felt like I belonged and

this the more I felt like I belonged and st. Louis began to feel like a second

st. Louis began to feel like a second

st. Louis began to feel like a second home to me during my newly discovered

home to me during my newly discovered

home to me during my newly discovered life in the u.s. I felt that something

life in the u.s. I felt that something

life in the u.s. I felt that something was missing I felt that something

was missing I felt that something

was missing I felt that something related to my identity as an Arab

related to my identity as an Arab

related to my identity as an Arab Anglophone writer was dismissed most of

Anglophone writer was dismissed most of

Anglophone writer was dismissed most of the magazines and journals that I had

the magazines and journals that I had

the magazines and journals that I had become familiar with and had published

become familiar with and had published

become familiar with and had published in were produced by older white men or

in were produced by older white men or

in were produced by older white men or whites men in general or white women or

whites men in general or white women or

whites men in general or white women or people of color but who were mostly

people of color but who were mostly

people of color but who were mostly produced in the West nothing that

produced in the West nothing that

produced in the West nothing that represented me as an Arab Anglophone

represented me as an Arab Anglophone

represented me as an Arab Anglophone writer was produced in the Arab region

writer was produced in the Arab region

writer was produced in the Arab region by an Arab person so one morning over

by an Arab person so one morning over

by an Arab person so one morning over coffee and a cigarette I decided you

coffee and a cigarette I decided you

coffee and a cigarette I decided you know what why don’t I do this myself why

know what why don’t I do this myself why

know what why don’t I do this myself why don’t I start something that I feel

don’t I start something that I feel

don’t I start something that I feel would fill a gap in the Anglophone

would fill a gap in the Anglophone

would fill a gap in the Anglophone literary narrative this idea was born a

literary narrative this idea was born a

literary narrative this idea was born a while before I actually made it happen

while before I actually made it happen

while before I actually made it happen as is the natural case with a lot of

as is the natural case with a lot of

as is the natural case with a lot of ideas that we come up with fear has a

ideas that we come up with fear has a

ideas that we come up with fear has a lot to do with that delay

lot to do with that delay

lot to do with that delay but finally when I moved back closer to

but finally when I moved back closer to

but finally when I moved back closer to the region I finally made it happen

the region I finally made it happen

the region I finally made it happen thanks to several things thanks to

thanks to several things thanks to

thanks to several things thanks to technology and thanks to WordPress and a

technology and thanks to WordPress and a

technology and thanks to WordPress and a little bit of perseverance and common

little bit of perseverance and common

little bit of perseverance and common sense and a whole lot of negative

sense and a whole lot of negative

sense and a whole lot of negative opinions which I chose to ignore I found

opinions which I chose to ignore I found

opinions which I chose to ignore I found it

it

it sukoon magazine an Arab seemed a

sukoon magazine an Arab seemed a

sukoon magazine an Arab seemed a literary magazine that publishes art and

literary magazine that publishes art and

literary magazine that publishes art and literature in English and I can’t tell

literature in English and I can’t tell

literature in English and I can’t tell you how grateful I am for all the

you how grateful I am for all the

you how grateful I am for all the positive feedback that I got since then

positive feedback that I got since then

positive feedback that I got since then from writers and from readers for

from writers and from readers for

from writers and from readers for starting this platform for filling up a

starting this platform for filling up a

starting this platform for filling up a much needed gap for shedding light on

much needed gap for shedding light on

much needed gap for shedding light on marginalized voices in a scarred and

marginalized voices in a scarred and

marginalized voices in a scarred and underrepresented region the reward for

underrepresented region the reward for

underrepresented region the reward for this is priceless I also want to say

this is priceless I also want to say

this is priceless I also want to say that when I began participating in the

that when I began participating in the

that when I began participating in the poetry and literary events back in st.

poetry and literary events back in st.

poetry and literary events back in st. Louis I began to have people talk to me

Louis I began to have people talk to me

Louis I began to have people talk to me about my work which represented all that

about my work which represented all that

about my work which represented all that I knew from my life from my home from my

I knew from my life from my home from my

I knew from my life from my home from my angst from a distance or my Wars and

angst from a distance or my Wars and

angst from a distance or my Wars and these people would come up and talk to

these people would come up and talk to

these people would come up and talk to me and tell me how much it kind of made

me and tell me how much it kind of made

me and tell me how much it kind of made them think about their world maybe their

them think about their world maybe their

them think about their world maybe their privileges maybe their distance they’re

privileges maybe their distance they’re

privileges maybe their distance they’re somewhat partial lends to new things to

somewhat partial lends to new things to

somewhat partial lends to new things to unexpected things happen to me while I

unexpected things happen to me while I

unexpected things happen to me while I was in Dubai as well

was in Dubai as well

was in Dubai as well after sukoon I published a I got my

after sukoon I published a I got my

after sukoon I published a I got my nonfiction collection published by a by

nonfiction collection published by a by

nonfiction collection published by a by a publisher and my poetry manuscript was

a publisher and my poetry manuscript was

a publisher and my poetry manuscript was also picked up by another publisher and

also picked up by another publisher and

also picked up by another publisher and turned into a poetry chapbook

turned into a poetry chapbook

turned into a poetry chapbook whole books my words out there in the

whole books my words out there in the

whole books my words out there in the universe I felt nauseous

universe I felt nauseous

universe I felt nauseous and incredible all at once in a nutshell

and incredible all at once in a nutshell

and incredible all at once in a nutshell I just want to say that basically I

I just want to say that basically I

I just want to say that basically I moved from my plan of becoming a high

moved from my plan of becoming a high

moved from my plan of becoming a high school teacher to my discovery of

school teacher to my discovery of

school teacher to my discovery of becoming a poet a creative writer a

becoming a poet a creative writer a

becoming a poet a creative writer a creative copywriter an editor of a

creative copywriter an editor of a

creative copywriter an editor of a literary magazine and an organizer of

literary magazine and an organizer of

literary magazine and an organizer of literary events as well as a university

literary events as well as a university

literary events as well as a university instructor I have learned so much from

instructor I have learned so much from

instructor I have learned so much from each and every step of the way from each

each and every step of the way from each

each and every step of the way from each and every turn of events that came my

and every turn of events that came my

and every turn of events that came my way I don’t think we realize how

way I don’t think we realize how

way I don’t think we realize how important it is to always keep our minds

important it is to always keep our minds

important it is to always keep our minds and eyes open to what might come our way

and eyes open to what might come our way

and eyes open to what might come our way unexpectedly we won’t know what we’re

unexpectedly we won’t know what we’re

unexpectedly we won’t know what we’re truly capable of or what we truly care

truly capable of or what we truly care

truly capable of or what we truly care about if we don’t allow ourselves to let

about if we don’t allow ourselves to let

about if we don’t allow ourselves to let go of rigid belief systems about

go of rigid belief systems about

go of rigid belief systems about ourselves first belief systems which we

ourselves first belief systems which we

ourselves first belief systems which we inherit with or without our permission

inherit with or without our permission

inherit with or without our permission even this teaching opportunity here at

even this teaching opportunity here at

even this teaching opportunity here at Finney State University which I love and

Finney State University which I love and

Finney State University which I love and appreciate came unplanned coincidentally

appreciate came unplanned coincidentally

appreciate came unplanned coincidentally around the same time that I was moving

around the same time that I was moving

around the same time that I was moving back to Lebanon after being away for so

back to Lebanon after being away for so

back to Lebanon after being away for so many years when the opportunity came up

many years when the opportunity came up

many years when the opportunity came up I went with it and I honor this path

I went with it and I honor this path

I went with it and I honor this path trusting that only positive things will

trusting that only positive things will

trusting that only positive things will come out of it so I urge you I urge us

come out of it so I urge you I urge us

come out of it so I urge you I urge us to stop staring at our phones all day as

to stop staring at our phones all day as

to stop staring at our phones all day as we tend to do these days

we tend to do these days

we tend to do these days to stop hiding behind our technology but

to stop hiding behind our technology but

to stop hiding behind our technology but instead create our own progress I urge

instead create our own progress I urge

instead create our own progress I urge you to go out there and do things and

you to go out there and do things and

you to go out there and do things and make mistakes and get angry and get over

make mistakes and get angry and get over

make mistakes and get angry and get over yourself and move forward discover who

yourself and move forward discover who

yourself and move forward discover who you are and if you don’t like that

you are and if you don’t like that

you are and if you don’t like that person it’s fine explore something else

person it’s fine explore something else

person it’s fine explore something else there’s a whole world out there up for

there’s a whole world out there up for

there’s a whole world out there up for the taking and finally if I were to take

the taking and finally if I were to take

the taking and finally if I were to take the obnoxious Liberty for the purpose of

the obnoxious Liberty for the purpose of

the obnoxious Liberty for the purpose of this talk of modifying Mary Oliver’s

this talk of modifying Mary Oliver’s

this talk of modifying Mary Oliver’s perfect line tell me what is it you plan

perfect line tell me what is it you plan

perfect line tell me what is it you plan to do with your one wild and perfect

to do with your one wild and perfect

to do with your one wild and perfect life I would say instead tell me what is

life I would say instead tell me what is

life I would say instead tell me what is it you plan to undo unfold discover

it you plan to undo unfold discover

it you plan to undo unfold discover explore with your one wild and precious

explore with your one wild and precious

explore with your one wild and precious life thank you

life thank you

life thank you [Applause]

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