I present gilles shoulders when he
was baby poland and all cute
and received complained of having of his
parents it’s a child fully
blossomed a year and a half and laugh at
at least 200 times a day and they were brimming
home and at two years he discovered
something sensational the couch
it’s a bit of pollution then paul
young people have to jump on the couch he
was having a lot of fun but at the same time
when her mom arrived and she has
saw that paul was jumping on couch n was
not very happy
paul we do not jump on the couch paul
I tell you that we did not jump on the
leather sofa is right now
the less you are his best to do in
so that paul respects his couch and
what she did not know yet at this
time there his mom already knows that the
brain of a child he can not handle
The negotiation
it’s like I’m telling you do not think
not a pink elephant
what are you thinking about and
and then it’s hard to actually
ask a human being who is
having fun doing something he loves
to stop without offering him any
something else exciting then she
continued louder paul
now you stop right away
jump on couch i’m going to count
up to 3 and 6 to 3
did not come down from the Tuvalu couch or
what 2-2 and a half and three years when she
went to the corner was furious
screamed and the mom she got
upset even more at two years old ju
it is this same discovery
sensational couch cleverly the
see and she ‘ll tell him this and gilles
I see you love to jump, so that’s
to show how it’s going at the
home to be able to jump his mom she
went to get a cushion and she
dropped on the floor she started to
jump on it quite cunningly and
the jump with paul and are all
two good fun the next day I
shoulders he remembered that it
had fun jumping but
remember also the reaction of his
mom and so he said to himself I’m going
wait for mom to come out of the living room for
go jump on the couch so soon
that the parties he went back on his
couch been put back to skip her mom
in fact she heard noises
weird
so when she got back into the
living room she saw what paul is doing
to do she punished him he shouted and
she got upset
the next day
gilles also he had again very
want to jump from the blow he was going
look for his cushion he laid on the ground
well go get her mom they have
both jumped on the cushion
bedded down and they are well
amused at 5 years old nipple nor jules
wanted more in case of call paul he
was more on the couch for fear of
retaliation from his mother
he was no longer the couch because he
had associated in his head
joy game with jumping on the
cushion on the floor at 5 paul and jules
they both have an experience a
little bit hard
their best friends by jealousy has
started making fun of them in front of them
all the class shoulders and jus they have
both had the same reaction
without going to see their best friends there
asked them
they asked them to stop elmer
friends and continue more and more of the
blow paul and jules sense could more they
punched the figure
from the best to my best friend was
started to cry
they were going to see the mistress when
Paul’s dad came to look at
school and that he learned that his son
had punched in the head
of his ex best friend
he told her that steals that it’s
unacceptable
you can do anything you want but
we do not type and to be sure that
Paul is well understood the lesson
he deprived her of exit during a
week paul he was furious
not only was he humiliated
by his best friend but in addition to
why are you being punished during
one week
he sought only one thing to know it
how were they going to get revenge
as daddy tulle came to look at
the school breathe it
and at home when they got home
he played with jules at the big game
wise that is to say that his mother and him
he was arguing
they asked a little bit saw he
had disguised as a big living room with a
beard and au to find solutions
to solve their quarrel
then he found three additions and they
have played this game every night
during one week
the week after paul and jules have
both lent one of their toys
to a friend is played he had very
want to recover but the boyfriend
they wanted to do them it paul
was furious they were going to ask again
are played to his boyfriend and ask again
he did not want the rank of the shot he’s
went to get a toy from friends and he
broke it to show him what it was
makes me more to see without playing at home
him he proposed to his friend
choose between three solutions
the first to return her toy
because he really wanted to and that
it was the second of him traded
are played against another but play
provided that this other toy is
great owl and the third it was
to buy him his toy his boyfriend he
chose the second solution and there is
loaned without favorite toy to 11 years
pale and jules he loved to play games
video in their video game they
could knock bad guys
could pass from the world is world and
to feel super strong then when their
asked to do their homework knew
no more want when paul’s mom
became aware of this situation
she started by explaining to paul
how important it was to
do his homework to be able to have a
good diploma
later a good job a good status
social but it did not work with paul
he had a more urgent mission to
so suddenly she needs to
his property and prohibited him from playing
video games paul he was furious he
started to let his
business all over the house express
he started insulting his parents
and to botch her homework the mother of
jules when she became aware of the
situation
she spent an entire evening at
find out about the trades we
could do around video games and
especially how could we
connect these trades to the subjects
school that jules needed
to learn and the oil mum she has
took three appointments by appointment
with a game contest organizer
video another one with a designer of
video games and a third with a
publisher of a video game magazine
that she was going to see a draw and he
said it’s so gilles I want first game
video who knows if you want later
can do your job I know of
people who make it their job
will that tell you who explains you
how and make a living from
that the day of the appointment the mom jean
is the break and subtly
questions to the three people who
had a job in video games
so that jules can him even connected
the trades that inspire him with these
school subjects
both moms spent full
of energy in this theme
two months later paul
and is still punished his parents he does not
could more and the numbers I read and
it was different to motivate
do his homework and he thought of less
in less actually playing games
video when I started to educate
my son I looked a lot more
to parents mall cop aaron hill i
did the best I could and I
reproduced a lot actually the
educational techniques that I saw
around me and one day I took
awareness of what punishments
could generate in a child
the envy of revenge the fact of
ask how to hide these acts
next time integrating
the belief that he is unable to be
up to the expectations of its
parents that day I decided to
change and become every day a little
more like the parents of young people
when I’m not doing 80% stress
Educational at 80% educational pleasure
I chose to convey this message
today I accompanied more than ten
thousand a year on this theme and
I regularly have tears of
gratitude
when they tell me the beautiful
transformations that they had the
tips that will find to overcome
their difficulties with their children
the parents of the little jules they are
inspired by their testimonials
the message I want to deliver
today is that many voices
soprano
so yes the parents jill it’s a
best-of but it’s a best-of that
beyond see it asks us
to train us to reconnect to
our inner child to stimulate
our creativity
but on the last day of our life with
what is it that we want to leave
and if we go further
what kind of humanity do you want to
to leave behind is what it is
a humanity that solves its problems
by the force that suffers his life rather
than to create another way is
possible
and it starts in our homes thank you
[Applause]
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