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I had two daughters his mesh and nínawa

sum already the married one is passionate music

passionate about music

although he studied psychology he did many

things is dedicated to singing and I was

producing his third disc

Nínawa died almost six years ago

as it was already presented on your twitter it was

Catholic journalist lawyer shined in

the media for their

values for their ethics for their

convictions with only 31 years and 89

years of career the media made it clear

that ethics and values ​​in the

communication and in human life were

fundamental and acts accordingly

I give you an example they gave you to read in

the news some news that was not

truthful that she knew that she did not have a

truthful source and did not accept to read it and the

suspended several times and stayed

without working and every time I called her

l’express told them if they come back to me

do read something that they know is not

I’m not going to be an accomplice and I do not know

I’m going to read and I’m going back because everyone

we know that the spectators

lie at the feet of those who

are on the other side of the TV and I

I have to be responsible with them in

another opportunity in a program that

I had an amazing raite because

there were two large channels of the

TV

They wanted to show a magazine with Christ

in the brothel and she warned him

your well-known journalist partner

that if he did it he would get up live and

I left him alone of course not

they believed and when they came from the guideline

advertising raised the magazine and she

he warned me ahead of me

nobody lacks respect for Jesus and he

I raise

I did was this kind of attitude of

courage or as they called in the church

and in the media almost

heroics of ninawa there are many

examples like it was at home at home was

a little person of 45 kilos not very big

short and very cheerful very entertaining me

I told him he was a goblin because he was going

everywhere in the house sometimes

bothering if one was concentrated

working and she turned off the light to

that one leaves the concentration and

come and so that the lord does not

he was puckered and said mom there are things

important in life you can not be

with his head like that working all the

time to think about other things

try to live differently when

passed away

we did a mass for the 40 days and the

Canal wanted to pay homage to

after the mass and he called me

the attention the amount of people that

it was until they had to close the street

we did the mass in the cathedral of san

Maron the cathedral is great

full and the patio the stairs and

they had to close the paraguay street

for the amount of people and I did not see

a lot but when they told me

I noticed also that one

it’s in the media but it was a

journalist in general people do not follow

So much so when they did the

homage a posteriori of the mass followed

in the next room

church people writers

journalists talked about what she

he had made references of institutions

non-governmental and governmental

Dedicated to go solidarity

to the social commitment to help those who

most needed were talking about

everything she had done and I

I did not know

I did not know is that I started especially

arm myself with how can it be that I do not

I knew all that and I started putting together

puzzle of the life of ninawa

after that she was not together with

his papers and what his fans said

who put together a blog with every word that

he said and the they publish the photos what

who said on facebook on twitter in

the media as sat

background of his convictions and

he defended how he talked about having values

the value of the family the value of

social commitment the value of being a

good citizen

the value of not doing philanthropy but

collaborate to modify the means that

generate the needs and so that

need not to repeat

all that caught my attention

very much and I started reading and seeing that

it did not match what I knew it did not

I knew nothing eye because I knew her

very well and had very good

communication with her but I did not know

so much because in addition she had a

very low profile and was very modest

the owner of the channel in the tribute

after working nine years with him

she found out that she was a lawyer she never

had learned that the lawyer because in

the profile did not show was what

it mattered was human relationships

get along well ask what happens to the

another interest and help will go

running to do things for others and

I was not thinking about showing linden trees

let’s say of life that agrees with being

a certain professional nor

with the fame he had acquired in the

means I started to think that one sometimes

look at your children from 1 with all the

story that one has the experiences

what what he lived as a boy with that

look at his children but it turns out that

children are more than that look he

we put the children have a

life that is of them for forward not

only for your future

also forwards in relation to

others what I saw is that the

others knew

very much

things about her that I did not know

looking at them from this side my

look came to her but did not give

the return and I thought maybe we

we would have to take more calmly the

communication and life and the upbringing of

our children not so fast as to

can look

on the other side of them and see how they are

seen by others and what life they are

projecting not only with the idea that

we have of them I give them a

example I got sick with cancer

116 years or so and I had

a lot of operations and when I came back

of the sanatorium

a few days later she went away

I think father and I thought how is he going

of travel and I have just come to operate

it can not be that it goes away or is it taken

wrong and thought I said okay is good

I would have tired of so much time

hospitalization and went on a trip when

he searched among his things among what

left written after he died

I read that he had gone on a trip lisieux

because she was very devoted to santa teresita

and he went to ask for my health and santa

Teresa

she writes and that Saint Teresa is

appeared and told him about the health of your

Mom I take care of you, take care of yourself

spread my work and she comes back and what

I see is that he spends his time looking for

stamps of santa teresa distribute by

all the world

speak in the media

about santa teresita it wants to be

it seems to me that it is being misplaced in

savaglio this was what I saw from

from this side and she what was

doing was to fulfill his promise to

ensure that your mother is well and I

be well when I invited him to

help me with domestic chores

I said mom, you’re already not

quite that there is a lot and I am

helping a lot so I asked my

sister we were lending because I

I’m also pretty strong my

convictions and

I considered that he had to help me and

she jumped with these arguments that I

he took them as an escape to collaborate

with me

he was really telling me things that

there were many valuable things

important

you will see that with time you will give

mind that I help you and yes to know

what are you going to realize that helps you

When he’s not there, he told me

Of course that day I was enraged

more because he said her argument

increasingly difficult not to help

another example on the subject of

solidarity

I told him what you spend your salary

I ask me do I answer

I wonder what you spend it on I say

but I do not see I do not see anything of your salary yes

but you do not have to see it in the

homage about five or six

institutions the patronage of the

childhood the dining rooms for the elderly

of street children and so on

going to talk about her help and we

we learned with time when we

They call us to ask us

if we are going to continue collaborating

there we learned about the years in

that she donated her salary to help

this type of institutions that

they needed things

Last of the examples, the legacy

That the others

the fans called the legacy and I was

I pasted it and found that really

there was a legacy sat on his skin

his bedroom closed and he sat

writing we could not interrupt and

Of course it did not go much

the everyday but he wrote and

wrote and left two books written

four more books of letters to

jesus chapters that were published

after his death

united nations regarding rights

humans

the contents of the campaigns of

delivery of equipment and technology to

responsible use

he had called the ministry of

education and so on a lot of things

plus

and I said as when he writes them

me and together we reconstruct that the

he wrote when he did not let anyone

interrupt

between those things a time after

He died this could not bear the pain

pain was too great and not to

He died going to buy my gift of

birthday the night my birthday and not

went back

I the ceem what is done with this

pain is unbearable is an energy

so strong that one does not know where to put it

nor what to do with it and I was afraid

even to go crazy with that strength and

I did not know what to do with it

reading his things near end of this

year

I found a writing of the letters to

Jesus that tells you why I wrote it to

jesus also secret photos for me

Jesus today I got up very badly and very

anguished

I do not know what to do, I do not know if I will be able to

spend this day with this anguish that

I have and at the end of the day write Jesus

thank you for helping me to have passed the

day and feel also because I

You taught a lesson helping

someone who needed something to a

neighbor smiling doing something for that

boy whom I help today I left all

the anguish and sincerely I thought

Here is a lesson here for

me so I do with this pain

I make the foundation that they are

asking you to do we continue with that

legacy and we work on the path that

she wanted to have a healthy youth

because I was very worried very

worried about our youth very

worried about the future of our

very nation and I was always

challenging to see what could be that

could I say in the media to

modify these things and we take it to

legacy and we are working on the

education in the media the

social responsibility within the

foundation that bears his name is called

Ibaba Gallagher Foundation for a Life

worthy and as a last reflection I want

say

what happened to me and I talked a lot

with her she talked a lot and had a lot

communication and we also fight

of course like any father with

his children taught me to make a

more effort to know them an effort

more that is to say although we believe that we are

doing everything we have to do

let’s take another turn of the nut without being

intrusive or get into your life

private because they grow and one has them

to respect without prejudice and

convinced that they can teach us

let’s try to listen to them from the other side of

our look and we are trying to

that this happens with his magic so that

let’s be alert 2 this time thanks

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