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[Music] so just two words in Hebrew before we

so just two words in Hebrew before we

so just two words in Hebrew before we get going with the presentation lilsalt

get going with the presentation lilsalt

get going with the presentation lilsalt layer is layer Marilla oof very nice at

layer is layer Marilla oof very nice at

layer is layer Marilla oof very nice at voley Mejia Shubham like shovelin

voley Mejia Shubham like shovelin

voley Mejia Shubham like shovelin so totem Bella so totem besides him

so totem Bella so totem besides him

so totem Bella so totem besides him so for me at the end of the day it all

so for me at the end of the day it all

so for me at the end of the day it all comes back to where we begin from I was

comes back to where we begin from I was

comes back to where we begin from I was born forty-three and two months or years

born forty-three and two months or years

born forty-three and two months or years ago in England and I grew up in the

ago in England and I grew up in the

ago in England and I grew up in the South of France I grew up in Monte Carlo

South of France I grew up in Monte Carlo

South of France I grew up in Monte Carlo a very typical childhood that is

a very typical childhood that is

a very typical childhood that is absolutely nothing you think of and

absolutely nothing you think of and

absolutely nothing you think of and everything you can’t imagine it’s early

everything you can’t imagine it’s early

everything you can’t imagine it’s early memories of mine and this was a very

memories of mine and this was a very

memories of mine and this was a very fond moment in my life is going wanting

fond moment in my life is going wanting

fond moment in my life is going wanting to go out on a bicycle all of us ride

to go out on a bicycle all of us ride

to go out on a bicycle all of us ride our bikes it’s a symbol of freedom it’s

our bikes it’s a symbol of freedom it’s

our bikes it’s a symbol of freedom it’s a symbol of childhood for me riding my

a symbol of childhood for me riding my

a symbol of childhood for me riding my bike meant taking my bicycle from the

bike meant taking my bicycle from the

bike meant taking my bicycle from the back of the apartment and going down in

back of the apartment and going down in

back of the apartment and going down in the service elevator crossing the street

the service elevator crossing the street

the service elevator crossing the street delicately at the zebra crossing going

delicately at the zebra crossing going

delicately at the zebra crossing going down the marble elevator shaft crossing

down the marble elevator shaft crossing

down the marble elevator shaft crossing the tunnel coming out of the other side

the tunnel coming out of the other side

the tunnel coming out of the other side going down the hill all this of course

going down the hill all this of course

going down the hill all this of course with a guidance and then coming to this

with a guidance and then coming to this

with a guidance and then coming to this round circular after about 25 minutes

round circular after about 25 minutes

round circular after about 25 minutes walk where I was allowed to ride my bike

walk where I was allowed to ride my bike

walk where I was allowed to ride my bike when I finished riding my bicycle and

when I finished riding my bicycle and

when I finished riding my bicycle and had a nice cold drink I then walk my

had a nice cold drink I then walk my

had a nice cold drink I then walk my bicycle back now to some of us that’s a

bicycle back now to some of us that’s a

bicycle back now to some of us that’s a very strange situation because that is

very strange situation because that is

very strange situation because that is ultimately a box we all live and start

ultimately a box we all live and start

ultimately a box we all live and start our lives in confined it’s different

our lives in confined it’s different

our lives in confined it’s different kinds of confines it’s different

kinds of confines it’s different

kinds of confines it’s different boundaries everyone views them

boundaries everyone views them

boundaries everyone views them differently but what’s important to

differently but what’s important to

differently but what’s important to understand we all come from different

understand we all come from different

understand we all come from different confines in our life these are comfort

confines in our life these are comfort

confines in our life these are comfort zones these are what we believe in this

zones these are what we believe in this

zones these are what we believe in this is what we lean on as we spend our days

is what we lean on as we spend our days

is what we lean on as we spend our days and go through our life but what about

and go through our life but what about

and go through our life but what about those that want to come out of these

those that want to come out of these

those that want to come out of these confines

confines

confines and break the box that is the moment in

and break the box that is the moment in

and break the box that is the moment in life when you are actually starting to

life when you are actually starting to

life when you are actually starting to dare a box is a comfort zone a box is

dare a box is a comfort zone a box is

dare a box is a comfort zone a box is guidelines a box is what we know but at

guidelines a box is what we know but at

guidelines a box is what we know but at the end of the day it’s about daring and

the end of the day it’s about daring and

the end of the day it’s about daring and taking opportunities to go to the next

taking opportunities to go to the next

taking opportunities to go to the next level so as I mentioned I had this

level so as I mentioned I had this

level so as I mentioned I had this unique childhood I loved my childhood

unique childhood I loved my childhood

unique childhood I loved my childhood just don’t get me wrong it definitely

just don’t get me wrong it definitely

just don’t get me wrong it definitely defined a lot of my character but I

defined a lot of my character but I

defined a lot of my character but I remember a very special moment when I

remember a very special moment when I

remember a very special moment when I was 8 years old when I was 8 years old I

was 8 years old when I was 8 years old I

was 8 years old when I was 8 years old I knew what I wanted I wanted to try

knew what I wanted I wanted to try

knew what I wanted I wanted to try something new and I wanted to go to

something new and I wanted to go to

something new and I wanted to go to boarding school too many of us that

boarding school too many of us that

boarding school too many of us that sounds pretty crazy why does an

sounds pretty crazy why does an

sounds pretty crazy why does an eight-year-old want to make such a

eight-year-old want to make such a

eight-year-old want to make such a difference but I wanted to try something

difference but I wanted to try something

difference but I wanted to try something new

new

new my confine had been too narrow for me so

my confine had been too narrow for me so

my confine had been too narrow for me so I wanted to do something else what is

I wanted to do something else what is

I wanted to do something else what is important with wanting before you dare

important with wanting before you dare

important with wanting before you dare is knowing what you want because you

is knowing what you want because you

is knowing what you want because you have to have a clear idea in mind if you

have to have a clear idea in mind if you

have to have a clear idea in mind if you want something new if you want something

want something new if you want something

want something new if you want something different that is fine but that is an

different that is fine but that is an

different that is fine but that is an understanding that you are embarking

understanding that you are embarking

understanding that you are embarking upon something that he’s gonna take you

upon something that he’s gonna take you

upon something that he’s gonna take you out of your box so at 8 years old I went

out of your box so at 8 years old I went

out of your box so at 8 years old I went to but child to boarding school for a

to but child to boarding school for a

to but child to boarding school for a year and that was an amazing experience

year and that was an amazing experience

year and that was an amazing experience in itself for those of you that have

in itself for those of you that have

in itself for those of you that have read Harry Potter it wasn’t quite like

read Harry Potter it wasn’t quite like

read Harry Potter it wasn’t quite like that but it did have many similarities

that but it did have many similarities

that but it did have many similarities but if we press forward a little bit

but if we press forward a little bit

but if we press forward a little bit with my life when I was 20 I did another

with my life when I was 20 I did another

with my life when I was 20 I did another stage in my career and I had finished

stage in my career and I had finished

stage in my career and I had finished the army which is something you do

the army which is something you do

the army which is something you do naturally here in Israel and I had been

naturally here in Israel and I had been

naturally here in Israel and I had been interviewing to be a an executive

interviewing to be a an executive

interviewing to be a an executive assistant remember I’m 20 years old I’ve

assistant remember I’m 20 years old I’ve

assistant remember I’m 20 years old I’ve not yet started my life and as part of

not yet started my life and as part of

not yet started my life and as part of the interview this great gentleman came

the interview this great gentleman came

the interview this great gentleman came up to me with a piece of paper and that

up to me with a piece of paper and that

up to me with a piece of paper and that piece of paper was all in Hebrew and the

piece of paper was all in Hebrew and the

piece of paper was all in Hebrew and the first test that I was given was

first test that I was given was

first test that I was given was translate this please fine I don’t know

translate this please fine I don’t know

translate this please fine I don’t know if any of you of you and being yet in

if any of you of you and being yet in

if any of you of you and being yet in administrative roles it’s a natural role

administrative roles it’s a natural role

administrative roles it’s a natural role that first test in the job and I spent

that first test in the job and I spent

that first test in the job and I spent the next 15 minutes

the next 15 minutes

the next 15 minutes manually remember I’m a little bit older

manually remember I’m a little bit older

manually remember I’m a little bit older than some of

than some of

than some of manually translating the document this

manually translating the document this

manually translating the document this gentleman comes back into the room with

gentleman comes back into the room with

gentleman comes back into the room with a felt-tip pen at the end to test me and

a felt-tip pen at the end to test me and

a felt-tip pen at the end to test me and of course everything was ticked

of course everything was ticked

of course everything was ticked perfectly because I’m a natural English

perfectly because I’m a natural English

perfectly because I’m a natural English speaker but then when he nodded his head

speaker but then when he nodded his head

speaker but then when he nodded his head I took the pen from him and I said if I

I took the pen from him and I said if I

I took the pen from him and I said if I may be so bold I would do this

may be so bold I would do this

may be so bold I would do this differently I’m 20 remember I’ve been a

differently I’m 20 remember I’ve been a

differently I’m 20 remember I’ve been a week in my career and I rewrote his

week in my career and I rewrote his

week in my career and I rewrote his document I said that should be the

document I said that should be the

document I said that should be the heading that should be the footer and to

heading that should be the footer and to

heading that should be the footer and to be quite honest this is a bit boring

be quite honest this is a bit boring

be quite honest this is a bit boring I would snazzy this up now I remember

I would snazzy this up now I remember

I would snazzy this up now I remember that his only comment to me was but I

that his only comment to me was but I

that his only comment to me was but I have a Harvard MBA and I turned around

have a Harvard MBA and I turned around

have a Harvard MBA and I turned around to him and I just smiled because I

to him and I just smiled because I

to him and I just smiled because I didn’t know differently I was trying to

didn’t know differently I was trying to

didn’t know differently I was trying to make a difference

make a difference

make a difference well fast forwards a week I of course

well fast forwards a week I of course

well fast forwards a week I of course had the job but what I’m trying to get

had the job but what I’m trying to get

had the job but what I’m trying to get at here with you is when you’re given an

at here with you is when you’re given an

at here with you is when you’re given an opportunity every step of your life is

opportunity every step of your life is

opportunity every step of your life is ultimately an opportunity so grasp it

ultimately an opportunity so grasp it

ultimately an opportunity so grasp it six months later I already had a

six months later I already had a

six months later I already had a different boss and I remember he gave me

different boss and I remember he gave me

different boss and I remember he gave me this document and I had typed it all up

this document and I had typed it all up

this document and I had typed it all up nicely for him in English a little bit

nicely for him in English a little bit

nicely for him in English a little bit of linguistic Corrections a bit of

of linguistic Corrections a bit of

of linguistic Corrections a bit of grammar and I came to him and I gave him

grammar and I came to him and I gave him

grammar and I came to him and I gave him his document back and he nodded and he

his document back and he nodded and he

his document back and he nodded and he was very happy with the document but

was very happy with the document but

was very happy with the document but then I went like this and I gave him a

then I went like this and I gave him a

then I went like this and I gave him a second document and I said your document

second document and I said your document

second document and I said your document is fantastic but this is how I would

is fantastic but this is how I would

is fantastic but this is how I would have done it what’s changed whereas

have done it what’s changed whereas

have done it what’s changed whereas before I was recommending now I’m being

before I was recommending now I’m being

before I was recommending now I’m being proactive I’m taking the initiative and

proactive I’m taking the initiative and

proactive I’m taking the initiative and I am in essence creating my own future

I am in essence creating my own future

I am in essence creating my own future what is important to understand from all

what is important to understand from all

what is important to understand from all of this is that everything that you are

of this is that everything that you are

of this is that everything that you are going to do in life is actually going to

going to do in life is actually going to

going to do in life is actually going to be an opportunity a few years forward I

be an opportunity a few years forward I

be an opportunity a few years forward I was on maternity leave I have two

was on maternity leave I have two

was on maternity leave I have two fantastic children and I was came into

fantastic children and I was came into

fantastic children and I was came into the office as many of us do as mothers

the office as many of us do as mothers

the office as many of us do as mothers to show off our children to our peers by

to show off our children to our peers by

to show off our children to our peers by now I think I was already more senior in

now I think I was already more senior in

now I think I was already more senior in the investment world and the CEO called

the investment world and the CEO called

the investment world and the CEO called me into the room and said to me I want

me into the room and said to me I want

me into the room and said to me I want to promote you to be vice president when

to promote you to be vice president when

to promote you to be vice president when you come back when you’re more than

you come back when you’re more than

you come back when you’re more than ready you will be a vice president

ready you will be a vice president

ready you will be a vice president our firm and I want to give you a new

our firm and I want to give you a new

our firm and I want to give you a new position now there’s a lot of great

position now there’s a lot of great

position now there’s a lot of great stories behind that in itself but the

stories behind that in itself but the

stories behind that in itself but the basic point was is I needed to go home

basic point was is I needed to go home

basic point was is I needed to go home and decide how to take control of my

and decide how to take control of my

and decide how to take control of my future because at the end of the day

future because at the end of the day

future because at the end of the day when you’re on maternity leave you are

when you’re on maternity leave you are

when you’re on maternity leave you are this form of intersection and I took

this form of intersection and I took

this form of intersection and I took that position not only that I also went

that position not only that I also went

that position not only that I also went on and did my MBA at night while during

on and did my MBA at night while during

on and did my MBA at night while during the day to continuing my job so that’s

the day to continuing my job so that’s

the day to continuing my job so that’s another point I’d like to be taken away

another point I’d like to be taken away

another point I’d like to be taken away here is along the way you’re gonna reach

here is along the way you’re gonna reach

here is along the way you’re gonna reach many junctions that your mind and your

many junctions that your mind and your

many junctions that your mind and your heart are going to speak in totally

heart are going to speak in totally

heart are going to speak in totally contradicting fashion I personally am a

contradicting fashion I personally am a

contradicting fashion I personally am a huge believer that your instinct is

huge believer that your instinct is

huge believer that your instinct is always right your first decision with

always right your first decision with

always right your first decision with regards to any step of the road you’re

regards to any step of the road you’re

regards to any step of the road you’re gonna take along the way is actually

gonna take along the way is actually

gonna take along the way is actually probably gonna be the most correct one

probably gonna be the most correct one

probably gonna be the most correct one and if it’s not you can change no

and if it’s not you can change no

and if it’s not you can change no decision is not reversible especially in

decision is not reversible especially in

decision is not reversible especially in today’s society it’s a world of

today’s society it’s a world of

today’s society it’s a world of opportunities so you need to grasp it to

opportunities so you need to grasp it to

opportunities so you need to grasp it to the maximum today I love talking about

the maximum today I love talking about

the maximum today I love talking about sawing because at the end of the day

sawing because at the end of the day

sawing because at the end of the day it’s about enjoying what you’re doing

it’s about enjoying what you’re doing

it’s about enjoying what you’re doing it’s about taking that initiative

it’s about taking that initiative

it’s about taking that initiative following it through and when you’re not

following it through and when you’re not

following it through and when you’re not feeling you’re riding high then that is

feeling you’re riding high then that is

feeling you’re riding high then that is the exact moment that you need to move

the exact moment that you need to move

the exact moment that you need to move on but what is the most important part

on but what is the most important part

on but what is the most important part of sowing it’s the people you saw with

of sowing it’s the people you saw with

of sowing it’s the people you saw with as you move up to your path in life you

as you move up to your path in life you

as you move up to your path in life you are going to be surrounded by people at

are going to be surrounded by people at

are going to be surrounded by people at the end of the day it’s about the people

the end of the day it’s about the people

the end of the day it’s about the people that you ride with and chooses your

that you ride with and chooses your

that you ride with and chooses your running mates they’re gonna define a

running mates they’re gonna define a

running mates they’re gonna define a large part of what you’re going to

large part of what you’re going to

large part of what you’re going to become they’re gonna define who you’re

become they’re gonna define who you’re

become they’re gonna define who you’re gonna be and they’re going to define

gonna be and they’re going to define

gonna be and they’re going to define your success when you start a position

your success when you start a position

your success when you start a position in life you have a business card the

in life you have a business card the

in life you have a business card the business card has a title upon it the

business card has a title upon it the

business card has a title upon it the more you’ve changed the boundaries of

more you’ve changed the boundaries of

more you’ve changed the boundaries of that role expand and grow it then you

that role expand and grow it then you

that role expand and grow it then you will become even more but an even more

will become even more but an even more

will become even more but an even more important point which comes now to

important point which comes now to

important point which comes now to solving is every time you meet someone

solving is every time you meet someone

solving is every time you meet someone take a moment and think what can I do

take a moment and think what can I do

take a moment and think what can I do for that person

for that person

for that person instead of moving forward with your hand

instead of moving forward with your hand

instead of moving forward with your hand and saying what can I take from him if

and saying what can I take from him if

and saying what can I take from him if you move into a relationship a new

you move into a relationship a new

you move into a relationship a new interaction or new contact from the

interaction or new contact from the

interaction or new contact from the place of I want to be part of this I

place of I want to be part of this I

place of I want to be part of this I want to help you but when that person in

want to help you but when that person in

want to help you but when that person in years to come

years to come

years to come needs to reach back out and you need to

needs to reach back out and you need to

needs to reach back out and you need to ask him something he will always want to

ask him something he will always want to

ask him something he will always want to help it is always better to someone to

help it is always better to someone to

help it is always better to someone to be indebted to you rather than you being

be indebted to you rather than you being

be indebted to you rather than you being indebted to someone so at the end of the

indebted to someone so at the end of the

indebted to someone so at the end of the day choose some amazing running mates

day choose some amazing running mates

day choose some amazing running mates even some funny ones on this visual

even some funny ones on this visual

even some funny ones on this visual there my dear friend Lily pulled

there my dear friend Lily pulled

there my dear friend Lily pulled together for me and the running mates

together for me and the running mates

together for me and the running mates are those that are gonna make you the

are those that are gonna make you the

are those that are gonna make you the success you aim to be I love this

success you aim to be I love this

success you aim to be I love this picture because this is the picture of

picture because this is the picture of

picture because this is the picture of some entrepreneurs around a bout of an

some entrepreneurs around a bout of an

some entrepreneurs around a bout of an event that we recently hosted all these

event that we recently hosted all these

event that we recently hosted all these people decided to make a decision they

people decided to make a decision they

people decided to make a decision they came out the box they decided what they

came out the box they decided what they

came out the box they decided what they wanted they dared coming out of that

wanted they dared coming out of that

wanted they dared coming out of that comfort zone they most probably failed

comfort zone they most probably failed

comfort zone they most probably failed they came back into their comfort zone

they came back into their comfort zone

they came back into their comfort zone and started the whole cycle again and

and started the whole cycle again and

and started the whole cycle again and they are on their way to becoming some

they are on their way to becoming some

they are on their way to becoming some of the most dynamic entrepreneurs out

of the most dynamic entrepreneurs out

of the most dynamic entrepreneurs out there an entrepreneur is not someone in

there an entrepreneur is not someone in

there an entrepreneur is not someone in a box

a box

a box it’s someone that pushed his way out of

it’s someone that pushed his way out of

it’s someone that pushed his way out of it and is leading a future and as I said

it and is leading a future and as I said

it and is leading a future and as I said it’s also about the team you build

it’s also about the team you build

it’s also about the team you build around you it’s about the people to work

around you it’s about the people to work

around you it’s about the people to work together on the way to helping you go so

together on the way to helping you go so

together on the way to helping you go so thank you

thank you

thank you you

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