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hi I’m Cassidy and this is Allison we

hi I’m Cassidy and this is Allison we believe it is time for women to remember

believe it is time for women to remember

believe it is time for women to remember it’s time for us to remember who we are

it’s time for us to remember who we are

it’s time for us to remember who we are and where we came from time to reclaim

and where we came from time to reclaim

and where we came from time to reclaim the legacy and the lineage in the

the legacy and the lineage in the

the legacy and the lineage in the history that could only ever be ours

history that could only ever be ours

history that could only ever be ours because it is important to know that

because it is important to know that

because it is important to know that feminism is memory and just so we’re all

feminism is memory and just so we’re all

feminism is memory and just so we’re all on the same page feminism simply defined

on the same page feminism simply defined

on the same page feminism simply defined is just the belief in the social

is just the belief in the social

is just the belief in the social political and economic equality of the

political and economic equality of the

political and economic equality of the sexes the reason why we have the term

sexes the reason why we have the term

sexes the reason why we have the term feminism is because presently we have

feminism is because presently we have

feminism is because presently we have not achieved this equality not in a

not achieved this equality not in a

not achieved this equality not in a single country in the world and when it

single country in the world and when it

single country in the world and when it comes to equality of the sexes there are

comes to equality of the sexes there are

comes to equality of the sexes there are two raining schools of thought one is

two raining schools of thought one is

two raining schools of thought one is that it’s an impossible feat and it will

that it’s an impossible feat and it will

that it’s an impossible feat and it will never be accomplished and the other is

never be accomplished and the other is

never be accomplished and the other is that it’s this distant dream something

that it’s this distant dream something

that it’s this distant dream something that we might experience one day in the

that we might experience one day in the

that we might experience one day in the future but what we are saying is that

future but what we are saying is that

future but what we are saying is that it’s not just wishful thinking it is

it’s not just wishful thinking it is

it’s not just wishful thinking it is something that has been accomplished and

something that has been accomplished and

something that has been accomplished and achieved in our past in our human

achieved in our past in our human

achieved in our past in our human history and because it has been done

history and because it has been done

history and because it has been done before it can be done again this

before it can be done again this

before it can be done again this expression feminism is memory is a truth

expression feminism is memory is a truth

expression feminism is memory is a truth that women are Native Heritage have long

that women are Native Heritage have long

that women are Native Heritage have long tried Hassan because as Native American

tried Hassan because as Native American

tried Hassan because as Native American writer and poet and activist polyp gun

writer and poet and activist polyp gun

writer and poet and activist polyp gun Allen once said the root of oppression

Allen once said the root of oppression

Allen once said the root of oppression is the loss of memory you know feminism

is the loss of memory you know feminism

is the loss of memory you know feminism has been around as long as women have

has been around as long as women have

has been around as long as women have been around we have known civilizations

been around we have known civilizations

been around we have known civilizations that have championed the inherent power

that have championed the inherent power

that have championed the inherent power of women and included that power within

of women and included that power within

of women and included that power within the structures and rules and regulations

the structures and rules and regulations

the structures and rules and regulations of their society despite our history

of their society despite our history

of their society despite our history books telling us something different or

books telling us something different or

books telling us something different or leaving the story out altogether yeah

leaving the story out altogether yeah

leaving the story out altogether yeah this is important to us because we are

this is important to us because we are

this is important to us because we are the founders of a feminist media company

the founders of a feminist media company

the founders of a feminist media company and we have spent the last two years

and we have spent the last two years

and we have spent the last two years traveling the world documenting young

traveling the world documenting young

traveling the world documenting young female revolutionaries leaders and

female revolutionaries leaders and

female revolutionaries leaders and activists and we can tell you firsthand

activists and we can tell you firsthand

activists and we can tell you firsthand the fight prepare

the fight prepare

the fight prepare can be very frustrating and one of the

can be very frustrating and one of the

can be very frustrating and one of the best examples of this frustration that’s

best examples of this frustration that’s

best examples of this frustration that’s how the young woman that we documented

how the young woman that we documented

how the young woman that we documented would share with us how their mothers or

would share with us how their mothers or

would share with us how their mothers or the women who came before them had

the women who came before them had

the women who came before them had better lives and they did they had more

better lives and they did they had more

better lives and they did they had more freedom and more liberties than they do

freedom and more liberties than they do

freedom and more liberties than they do now and we question how can this be so

now and we question how can this be so

now and we question how can this be so if we look at other human liberation

if we look at other human liberation

if we look at other human liberation movements we can recognize linear

movements we can recognize linear

movements we can recognize linear progress decade by decade laws and

progress decade by decade laws and

progress decade by decade laws and rights and proving why the social

rights and proving why the social

rights and proving why the social consciousness evolves but with the

consciousness evolves but with the

consciousness evolves but with the women’s rights movement it’s the one

women’s rights movement it’s the one

women’s rights movement it’s the one that stands alone and it’s cyclical

that stands alone and it’s cyclical

that stands alone and it’s cyclical nature of progress and why is it that we

nature of progress and why is it that we

nature of progress and why is it that we haven’t been able to consistently move

haven’t been able to consistently move

haven’t been able to consistently move the needle forward for women because

the needle forward for women because

the needle forward for women because patriarchy it’s the system that

patriarchy it’s the system that

patriarchy it’s the system that champions toxic masculinity while

champions toxic masculinity while

champions toxic masculinity while diminishing all that’s female and not

diminishing all that’s female and not

diminishing all that’s female and not only does this system seek to diminish

only does this system seek to diminish

only does this system seek to diminish the female experience it aims to remove

the female experience it aims to remove

the female experience it aims to remove it from our collective memory patriarchy

it from our collective memory patriarchy

it from our collective memory patriarchy knows no loyalty whether you be

knows no loyalty whether you be

knows no loyalty whether you be conservative or liberal Muslim or

conservative or liberal Muslim or

conservative or liberal Muslim or Christian spiritual or atheist from the

Christian spiritual or atheist from the

Christian spiritual or atheist from the east or the west it doesn’t matter

east or the west it doesn’t matter

east or the west it doesn’t matter because we’re all operating within this

because we’re all operating within this

because we’re all operating within this system of course we recognize that some

system of course we recognize that some

system of course we recognize that some countries and regions are more

countries and regions are more

countries and regions are more progressive and other shut out to

progressive and other shut out to

progressive and other shut out to Scandinavia or Canada but we are all

Scandinavia or Canada but we are all

Scandinavia or Canada but we are all still in this fight and to be clear we

still in this fight and to be clear we

still in this fight and to be clear we are not saying that it is men against

are not saying that it is men against

are not saying that it is men against women rather we are saying it is hyper

women rather we are saying it is hyper

women rather we are saying it is hyper masculinity pinned against femininity

masculinity pinned against femininity

masculinity pinned against femininity and both women and men suffer within the

and both women and men suffer within the

and both women and men suffer within the confines of this system but for women

confines of this system but for women

confines of this system but for women depression does go much further it’s our

depression does go much further it’s our

depression does go much further it’s our very femaleness that is hated our bodies

very femaleness that is hated our bodies

very femaleness that is hated our bodies our appearance our nature and even our

our appearance our nature and even our

our appearance our nature and even our souls have been under massive attack

souls have been under massive attack

souls have been under massive attack across the globe to various standards

across the globe to various standards

across the globe to various standards and degrees women’s bodies are

and degrees women’s bodies are

and degrees women’s bodies are commoditized and thought to be the

commoditized and thought to be the

commoditized and thought to be the property of others from daily instances

property of others from daily instances

property of others from daily instances a sexual assault to rape to the lack of

a sexual assault to rape to the lack of

a sexual assault to rape to the lack of access to education to being paid an

access to education to being paid an

access to education to being paid an unequal wage for equal work to only be

unequal wage for equal work to only be

unequal wage for equal work to only be in value

in value

in value you’d as wives and mothers that many

you’d as wives and mothers that many

you’d as wives and mothers that many countries not even being able to choose

countries not even being able to choose

countries not even being able to choose when we want to be mothers not to

when we want to be mothers not to

when we want to be mothers not to mention femicide I mean how incredulous

mention femicide I mean how incredulous

mention femicide I mean how incredulous is it that we have a term in our

is it that we have a term in our

is it that we have a term in our modern-day lexicon to help explain the

modern-day lexicon to help explain the

modern-day lexicon to help explain the mass killing of women for souley being

mass killing of women for souley being

mass killing of women for souley being women this is an epidemic that Alison

women this is an epidemic that Alison

women this is an epidemic that Alison and I have reported on and documented

and I have reported on and documented

and I have reported on and documented from Brazil to Turkey for example in

from Brazil to Turkey for example in

from Brazil to Turkey for example in Brazil woman dies every 15 minutes the

Brazil woman dies every 15 minutes the

Brazil woman dies every 15 minutes the hands of her domestic partner in Turkey

hands of her domestic partner in Turkey

hands of her domestic partner in Turkey around 1100 women have died too at the

around 1100 women have died too at the

around 1100 women have died too at the hands of men in the past five years I

hands of men in the past five years I

hands of men in the past five years I mean how infuriating is this it

mean how infuriating is this it

mean how infuriating is this it literally makes my blood boil and on

literally makes my blood boil and on

literally makes my blood boil and on that note something else we’d like to

that note something else we’d like to

that note something else we’d like to address is that another thing patriarchy

address is that another thing patriarchy

address is that another thing patriarchy would love for women to forget is that

would love for women to forget is that

would love for women to forget is that we are fully entitled to the entire

we are fully entitled to the entire

we are fully entitled to the entire spectrum of human emotion so to our

spectrum of human emotion so to our

spectrum of human emotion so to our women let us say this if you are angry

women let us say this if you are angry

women let us say this if you are angry go ahead and be angry into the men who

go ahead and be angry into the men who

go ahead and be angry into the men who love women if you’re pissed be pissed

love women if you’re pissed be pissed

love women if you’re pissed be pissed because the appropriate emotional

because the appropriate emotional

because the appropriate emotional response to the atrocities that women

response to the atrocities that women

response to the atrocities that women have been enduring for as long as we can

have been enduring for as long as we can

have been enduring for as long as we can remember is anger it’s righteous anger

remember is anger it’s righteous anger

remember is anger it’s righteous anger yeah and we acknowledge that anger and

yeah and we acknowledge that anger and

yeah and we acknowledge that anger and protest and actually have long existed

protest and actually have long existed

protest and actually have long existed and still exist take these photos women

and still exist take these photos women

and still exist take these photos women protesting in the 1920s and 30s women

protesting in the 1920s and 30s women

protesting in the 1920s and 30s women protesting in the 70s and women

protesting in the 70s and women

protesting in the 70s and women protesting just last month you know all

protesting just last month you know all

protesting just last month you know all these photos that we source our from

these photos that we source our from

these photos that we source our from around the world and it’s sad to see the

around the world and it’s sad to see the

around the world and it’s sad to see the similarities amongst them from decade to

similarities amongst them from decade to

similarities amongst them from decade to decade to decade it is our hope and it

decade to decade it is our hope and it

decade to decade it is our hope and it is our belief that if we can share the

is our belief that if we can share the

is our belief that if we can share the knowledge that feminism is memory it

knowledge that feminism is memory it

knowledge that feminism is memory it will help us build upon our successes it

will help us build upon our successes it

will help us build upon our successes it will help us keep us from fighting the

will help us keep us from fighting the

will help us keep us from fighting the same fight generation after generation

same fight generation after generation

same fight generation after generation because it is our desire to see a time

because it is our desire to see a time

because it is our desire to see a time when our daughters don’t have the same

when our daughters don’t have the same

when our daughters don’t have the same protest photos another way that we can

protest photos another way that we can

protest photos another way that we can really ensure that

really ensure that

really ensure that progress moves forward is to fully owned

progress moves forward is to fully owned

progress moves forward is to fully owned that we do not have to wait until

that we do not have to wait until

that we do not have to wait until everyone is comfortable with our

everyone is comfortable with our

everyone is comfortable with our activism before we take action think

activism before we take action think

activism before we take action think about it this way imagine any other

about it this way imagine any other

about it this way imagine any other marginalized people group who’ve

marginalized people group who’ve

marginalized people group who’ve experienced depression would they wait

experienced depression would they wait

experienced depression would they wait until the repressor felt comfortable

until the repressor felt comfortable

until the repressor felt comfortable before they move forward no it doesn’t

before they move forward no it doesn’t

before they move forward no it doesn’t work that way the oppressor should feel

work that way the oppressor should feel

work that way the oppressor should feel uncomfortable because they are wrong the

uncomfortable because they are wrong the

uncomfortable because they are wrong the oppressed should feel vindicated and

oppressed should feel vindicated and

oppressed should feel vindicated and validated we women don’t need permission

validated we women don’t need permission

validated we women don’t need permission because we are standing on the shoulders

because we are standing on the shoulders

because we are standing on the shoulders of the women who came before us a new

of the women who came before us a new

of the women who came before us a new fault for us we are supported and we are

fault for us we are supported and we are

fault for us we are supported and we are surrounded we need to keep this at the

surrounded we need to keep this at the

surrounded we need to keep this at the forefront of our memories yes one of the

forefront of our memories yes one of the

forefront of our memories yes one of the great feminist psychologists of our time

great feminist psychologists of our time

great feminist psychologists of our time said something to this point her name is

said something to this point her name is

said something to this point her name is Clarissa pink Ola SDS and she said when

Clarissa pink Ola SDS and she said when

Clarissa pink Ola SDS and she said when a woman is exhorting to be compliant

a woman is exhorting to be compliant

a woman is exhorting to be compliant cooperative and quiet to not make upset

cooperative and quiet to not make upset

cooperative and quiet to not make upset and go against the old guard she is

and go against the old guard she is

and go against the old guard she is pressed into living a most unnatural

pressed into living a most unnatural

pressed into living a most unnatural life the worldwide issue for women is

life the worldwide issue for women is

life the worldwide issue for women is that under such conditions they are not

that under such conditions they are not

that under such conditions they are not only silenced they are put to sleep

only silenced they are put to sleep

only silenced they are put to sleep another way of understanding that is

another way of understanding that is

another way of understanding that is that their memory is erased as women we

that their memory is erased as women we

that their memory is erased as women we cannot wake up to who we are until we

cannot wake up to who we are until we

cannot wake up to who we are until we remember who we are it is this

remember who we are it is this

remember who we are it is this remembering that is the alarm clock and

remembering that is the alarm clock and

remembering that is the alarm clock and this alarm is firing for all of us right

this alarm is firing for all of us right

this alarm is firing for all of us right now in this very moment and we

now in this very moment and we

now in this very moment and we acknowledge it is not easy to wake up

acknowledge it is not easy to wake up

acknowledge it is not easy to wake up often for women who do they have to

often for women who do they have to

often for women who do they have to challenge the romantic relationship that

challenge the romantic relationship that

challenge the romantic relationship that they’re in the god they praised to or

they’re in the god they praised to or

they’re in the god they praised to or the government that they adhere to the

the government that they adhere to the

the government that they adhere to the system touches almost everything and

system touches almost everything and

system touches almost everything and it’s very difficult to step outside of

it’s very difficult to step outside of

it’s very difficult to step outside of it but the great news is is that waking

it but the great news is is that waking

it but the great news is is that waking up is a total game changer there is this

up is a total game changer there is this

up is a total game changer there is this proverb that declares be sure and know

proverb that declares be sure and know

proverb that declares be sure and know the truth will find you out that’s the

the truth will find you out that’s the

the truth will find you out that’s the proverb or you can borrow from what

proverb or you can borrow from what

proverb or you can borrow from what Gloria Steinem said which is the truth

Gloria Steinem said which is the truth

Gloria Steinem said which is the truth will set you free but first it will piss

will set you free but first it will piss

will set you free but first it will piss you off

you off

you off let the resonance of this just linger in

let the resonance of this just linger in

let the resonance of this just linger in your being for a moment because what

your being for a moment because what

your being for a moment because what this is saying is that what is true

this is saying is that what is true

this is saying is that what is true indeed can never be permanently unknown

indeed can never be permanently unknown

indeed can never be permanently unknown so what that is saying is that the truth

so what that is saying is that the truth

so what that is saying is that the truth about women can be unleashed you know

about women can be unleashed you know

about women can be unleashed you know the same only the strong will survive

the same only the strong will survive

the same only the strong will survive how often do we hear this it is it is a

how often do we hear this it is it is a

how often do we hear this it is it is a statement that speaks to the resilience

statement that speaks to the resilience

statement that speaks to the resilience the power of resilience tenacity and

the power of resilience tenacity and

the power of resilience tenacity and endurance we women of the here and now

endurance we women of the here and now

endurance we women of the here and now we are the impossibly strong we are the

we are the impossibly strong we are the

we are the impossibly strong we are the revolutionary daughters of women who

revolutionary daughters of women who

revolutionary daughters of women who have survived thousands of years of

have survived thousands of years of

have survived thousands of years of systemic shutdown thousands of years of

systemic shutdown thousands of years of

systemic shutdown thousands of years of patriarchy trying to not only keep them

patriarchy trying to not only keep them

patriarchy trying to not only keep them silent but keep them asleep women are

silent but keep them asleep women are

silent but keep them asleep women are people whose time has come it is time

people whose time has come it is time

people whose time has come it is time for us to be seen as equal there’s time

for us to be seen as equal there’s time

for us to be seen as equal there’s time for us to be recognized as a powerful

for us to be recognized as a powerful

for us to be recognized as a powerful and dynamic beans that we are and it is

and dynamic beans that we are and it is

and dynamic beans that we are and it is absolutely our time to be remembered

absolutely our time to be remembered

absolutely our time to be remembered thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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