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Time to change, dare to leave your comfort zone | Mathieu de Lophem | TEDxVlerickBusinessSchool


good evening the subject I want to

good evening the subject I want to tackle with you tonight is lighter than

tackle with you tonight is lighter than

tackle with you tonight is lighter than robotic Syria

robotic Syria

robotic Syria it’s actually about you I want us to go

it’s actually about you I want us to go

it’s actually about you I want us to go through the different steps I think

through the different steps I think

through the different steps I think people have to go through when they

people have to go through when they

people have to go through when they consider a change I will relate change

consider a change I will relate change

consider a change I will relate change to a very strong concept the comfort

to a very strong concept the comfort

to a very strong concept the comfort zone

zone

zone what is the comfort zone well there are

what is the comfort zone well there are

what is the comfort zone well there are a lot of definition of comfort zone one

a lot of definition of comfort zone one

a lot of definition of comfort zone one maybe would be that a comfort zone is of

maybe would be that a comfort zone is of

maybe would be that a comfort zone is of we’re working while you don’t have a lot

we’re working while you don’t have a lot

we’re working while you don’t have a lot to do to gain small results and weak

to do to gain small results and weak

to do to gain small results and weak satisfaction I can promise you now I’m

satisfaction I can promise you now I’m

satisfaction I can promise you now I’m far away from my comfort zone right now

far away from my comfort zone right now

far away from my comfort zone right now it’s quite new for me

it’s quite new for me

it’s quite new for me but is it fun it is am i winning

but is it fun it is am i winning

but is it fun it is am i winning something tomorrow on LinkedIn I’ll add

something tomorrow on LinkedIn I’ll add

something tomorrow on LinkedIn I’ll add I’m a conference I’m winning right now

I’m a conference I’m winning right now

I’m a conference I’m winning right now something ok what I want to do is really

something ok what I want to do is really

something ok what I want to do is really go through different steps of change and

go through different steps of change and

go through different steps of change and try to illustrate that with what I’ve

try to illustrate that with what I’ve

try to illustrate that with what I’ve done in my short career but quite varied

done in my short career but quite varied

done in my short career but quite varied career it’s who I moved from consultancy

career it’s who I moved from consultancy

career it’s who I moved from consultancy to investment bank – no – entrepreneur

to investment bank – no – entrepreneur

to investment bank – no – entrepreneur of ownership at the liberal which are

of ownership at the liberal which are

of ownership at the liberal which are according to me the 3 steps is one you

according to me the 3 steps is one you

according to me the 3 steps is one you need to think when do I have to change

need to think when do I have to change

need to think when do I have to change secondly how do I have to change and the

secondly how do I have to change and the

secondly how do I have to change and the last point is we jump there to change so

last point is we jump there to change so

last point is we jump there to change so as I said the comfort zone is the zone

as I said the comfort zone is the zone

as I said the comfort zone is the zone you are in when you’re comfortable as

you are in when you’re comfortable as

you are in when you’re comfortable as it’s indicating the name your work gives

it’s indicating the name your work gives

it’s indicating the name your work gives you small satisfaction and at a certain

you small satisfaction and at a certain

you small satisfaction and at a certain point you need to realize something you

point you need to realize something you

point you need to realize something you need to be able to ask yourself a couple

need to be able to ask yourself a couple

need to be able to ask yourself a couple of questions do I still learn and I’m

of questions do I still learn and I’m

of questions do I still learn and I’m not speaking to early young people that

not speaking to early young people that

not speaking to early young people that have an early career young career

have an early career young career

have an early career young career am I still learning how steep is my

am I still learning how steep is my

am I still learning how steep is my learning curve when I joined the company

learning curve when I joined the company

learning curve when I joined the company I’m not working for am I still working

I’m not working for am I still working

I’m not working for am I still working towards the goals I have you never you

towards the goals I have you never you

towards the goals I have you never you don’t only have you to change your

don’t only have you to change your

don’t only have you to change your career too

career too

career too from conversion you can also enlarge it

from conversion you can also enlarge it

from conversion you can also enlarge it take other responsibilities and I think

take other responsibilities and I think

take other responsibilities and I think people are not often do not often have

people are not often do not often have

people are not often do not often have the time do not often take the time to

the time do not often take the time to

the time do not often take the time to question themselves am I still really in

question themselves am I still really in

question themselves am I still really in a position where I can grow and I think

a position where I can grow and I think

a position where I can grow and I think that really that something’s very

that really that something’s very

that really that something’s very important I used to work at Deloitte I

important I used to work at Deloitte I

important I used to work at Deloitte I worked there for three years the last

worked there for three years the last

worked there for three years the last six months I was working at the European

six months I was working at the European

six months I was working at the European Commission well middle of the financial

Commission well middle of the financial

Commission well middle of the financial crisis so there was awesome on almost

crisis so there was awesome on almost

crisis so there was awesome on almost nothing as a development possible I was

nothing as a development possible I was

nothing as a development possible I was I lost the will to go the extra mile I

I lost the will to go the extra mile I

I lost the will to go the extra mile I could really realize was something wrong

could really realize was something wrong

could really realize was something wrong and I started questioning myself and my

and I started questioning myself and my

and I started questioning myself and my actually still learning something when a

actually still learning something when a

actually still learning something when a question too often actually became no I

question too often actually became no I

question too often actually became no I considered change what I did is actually

considered change what I did is actually

considered change what I did is actually I decided to change completely to go to

I decided to change completely to go to

I decided to change completely to go to finance to go to Investment Banking to

finance to go to Investment Banking to

finance to go to Investment Banking to go to London and make our finance we to

go to London and make our finance we to

go to London and make our finance we to change lifestyle to work very hard to

change lifestyle to work very hard to

change lifestyle to work very hard to become a specialist to go to see people

become a specialist to go to see people

become a specialist to go to see people it allowed me to work with the brightest

it allowed me to work with the brightest

it allowed me to work with the brightest people but was the good choice I’ll tell

people but was the good choice I’ll tell

people but was the good choice I’ll tell you later but at least I thought of it

you later but at least I thought of it

you later but at least I thought of it the second part is about I’ve now I’m

the second part is about I’ve now I’m

the second part is about I’ve now I’m now confident I need to change now how

now confident I need to change now how

now confident I need to change now how am I going to change the person on that

am I going to change the person on that

am I going to change the person on that picture is Kenny Bailey a Belgian

picture is Kenny Bailey a Belgian

picture is Kenny Bailey a Belgian athlete Red Bull athlete six times trial

athlete Red Bull athlete six times trial

athlete Red Bull athlete six times trial biking world champion that I had the

biking world champion that I had the

biking world champion that I had the opportunity to meet at the livery

opportunity to meet at the livery

opportunity to meet at the livery because we did a little marketing stunt

because we did a little marketing stunt

because we did a little marketing stunt with him and he did a movie about

with him and he did a movie about

with him and he did a movie about balance and he says in the movie in

balance and he says in the movie in

balance and he says in the movie in order to achieve new things before

order to achieve new things before

order to achieve new things before succeeding you need to find the perfect

succeeding you need to find the perfect

succeeding you need to find the perfect balance and I think that in your

balance and I think that in your

balance and I think that in your reflection of how what do I want to

reflection of how what do I want to

reflection of how what do I want to change you need to keep that balance

change you need to keep that balance

change you need to keep that balance side in your head on different aspects

side in your head on different aspects

side in your head on different aspects balance the pros and cons of changing am

balance the pros and cons of changing am

balance the pros and cons of changing am I going to change also for something

I going to change also for something

I going to change also for something really better or am I just just

really better or am I just just

really better or am I just just convincing myself it will be better

balancing all the options I have several

balancing all the options I have several options in front of me which one am I

options in front of me which one am I

options in front of me which one am I going to choose

going to choose

going to choose even balancing your own ecosystem and

even balancing your own ecosystem and

even balancing your own ecosystem and that’s a mistake I maybe I’ve maybe done

that’s a mistake I maybe I’ve maybe done

that’s a mistake I maybe I’ve maybe done with investment banking I was so

with investment banking I was so

with investment banking I was so thrilled to change to succeed to change

thrilled to change to succeed to change

thrilled to change to succeed to change I had so much energy that actually I

I had so much energy that actually I

I had so much energy that actually I forgot that besides work there was some

forgot that besides work there was some

forgot that besides work there was some other stuff I lost sight of my friends I

other stuff I lost sight of my friends I

other stuff I lost sight of my friends I could barely see my son to become wife

could barely see my son to become wife

could barely see my son to become wife because I was working 20 hours a day and

because I was working 20 hours a day and

because I was working 20 hours a day and that’s something I lost and at a certain

that’s something I lost and at a certain

that’s something I lost and at a certain price point luckily thanks to them I

price point luckily thanks to them I

price point luckily thanks to them I could realize that I was missing

could realize that I was missing

could realize that I was missing something and I started to consider my

something and I started to consider my

something and I started to consider my options how do I did I do that Network

options how do I did I do that Network

options how do I did I do that Network you need to use your network question

you need to use your network question

you need to use your network question people talk to people and thanks to that

people talk to people and thanks to that

people talk to people and thanks to that I realize that private equity was

I realize that private equity was

I realize that private equity was actually a very nice option finance

actually a very nice option finance

actually a very nice option finance management really steep learning curve

management really steep learning curve

management really steep learning curve but fantastic and I did the move last

but fantastic and I did the move last

but fantastic and I did the move last step that you have to consider is the

step that you have to consider is the

step that you have to consider is the jump you know decided I’m going to

jump you know decided I’m going to

jump you know decided I’m going to change you decided what you are going to

change you decided what you are going to

change you decided what you are going to do you talk to people everybody agrees

do you talk to people everybody agrees

do you talk to people everybody agrees with you it’s a great idea but then you

with you it’s a great idea but then you

with you it’s a great idea but then you have to do it and now you’re alone like

have to do it and now you’re alone like

have to do it and now you’re alone like Felix there on its little space shuttle

Felix there on its little space shuttle

Felix there on its little space shuttle you have to jump the other okay do I do

you have to jump the other okay do I do

you have to jump the other okay do I do it or don’t I do it it’s a very very

it or don’t I do it it’s a very very

it or don’t I do it it’s a very very strong feeling of doing that I think

strong feeling of doing that I think

strong feeling of doing that I think that people that already designed know

that people that already designed know

that people that already designed know what I’m talking about it’s a mixed

what I’m talking about it’s a mixed

what I’m talking about it’s a mixed feeling you’re happy very happy but

feeling you’re happy very happy but

feeling you’re happy very happy but you’re afraid you feel light I’m going

you’re afraid you feel light I’m going

you’re afraid you feel light I’m going to change what am I going to disappoint

to change what am I going to disappoint

to change what am I going to disappoint my formal team it’s very very difficult

my formal team it’s very very difficult

my formal team it’s very very difficult to be able to know advance is the

to be able to know advance is the

to be able to know advance is the goodness you know people will do mistake

goodness you know people will do mistake

goodness you know people will do mistake you’ll do mistake I did mistakes as long

you’ll do mistake I did mistakes as long

you’ll do mistake I did mistakes as long as we learned from it it’s not a mistake

as we learned from it it’s not a mistake

as we learned from it it’s not a mistake anyway there you are there and you need

anyway there you are there and you need

anyway there you are there and you need to jump the biggest job I had to do

to jump the biggest job I had to do

to jump the biggest job I had to do myself was deliver as I told you I was

myself was deliver as I told you I was

myself was deliver as I told you I was having a very nice card in private

having a very nice card in private

having a very nice card in private equity working decent hours I love the

equity working decent hours I love the

equity working decent hours I love the topic love the subject finance very

topic love the subject finance very

topic love the subject finance very action-oriented very nice and on Tuesday

action-oriented very nice and on Tuesday

action-oriented very nice and on Tuesday evening I go on Facebook and as your

evening I go on Facebook and as your

evening I go on Facebook and as your friend posting on Facebook hey I’m

friend posting on Facebook hey I’m

friend posting on Facebook hey I’m looking for some a to become Jay

looking for some a to become Jay

looking for some a to become Jay of a very nice stuff that we are

of a very nice stuff that we are

of a very nice stuff that we are financing he was working at Index

financing he was working at Index

financing he was working at Index Ventures is somebody interested from my

Ventures is somebody interested from my

Ventures is somebody interested from my network I’m looking consultancy I

network I’m looking consultancy I

network I’m looking consultancy I investment banking type of profile I

investment banking type of profile I

investment banking type of profile I reached out to him I say ok I have this

reached out to him I say ok I have this

reached out to him I say ok I have this friend would just fit stopped his

friend would just fit stopped his

friend would just fit stopped his startup he’s looking for job so consider

startup he’s looking for job so consider

startup he’s looking for job so consider him he might be a good fit he has the

him he might be a good fit he has the

him he might be a good fit he has the experience of a startup wants to work in

experience of a startup wants to work in

experience of a startup wants to work in Belgium might be a good fit but just of

Belgium might be a good fit but just of

Belgium might be a good fit but just of curiosity

curiosity

curiosity send me the jobs back I love to read job

send me the jobs back I love to read job

send me the jobs back I love to read job specs it’s always interesting and I read

specs it’s always interesting and I read

specs it’s always interesting and I read that the moment I read it I knew

that the moment I read it I knew

that the moment I read it I knew something was happening promise then

something was happening promise then

something was happening promise then you’re like ok but I love my job

you’re like ok but I love my job

you’re like ok but I love my job it seems interesting let’s go for it I

it seems interesting let’s go for it I

it seems interesting let’s go for it I sending a CV is never a mistake and it’s

sending a CV is never a mistake and it’s

sending a CV is never a mistake and it’s never too much of a commitment send my

never too much of a commitment send my

never too much of a commitment send my CV what happens is they reach out to me

CV what happens is they reach out to me

CV what happens is they reach out to me and I have a couple of interviews with

and I have a couple of interviews with

and I have a couple of interviews with them with delivery two weeks later I

them with delivery two weeks later I

them with delivery two weeks later I meet the CEO will I go to learn I meet

meet the CEO will I go to learn I meet

meet the CEO will I go to learn I meet him bright guy super guy love his vision

him bright guy super guy love his vision

him bright guy super guy love his vision love the comes I love everything from

love the comes I love everything from

love the comes I love everything from the company would be a fantastic

the company would be a fantastic

the company would be a fantastic opportunity for me or the learning curve

opportunity for me or the learning curve

opportunity for me or the learning curve through the roof imagine a dream and

through the roof imagine a dream and

through the roof imagine a dream and they make an offer

they make an offer

they make an offer damn it now I have to choose am I going

damn it now I have to choose am I going

damn it now I have to choose am I going to change okay I have stability

to change okay I have stability

to change okay I have stability I still have potential I have a lot of

I still have potential I have a lot of

I still have potential I have a lot of good thing I have distant awesome to

good thing I have distant awesome to

good thing I have distant awesome to change something completely new startup

change something completely new startup

change something completely new startup so by definition something that is a bit

so by definition something that is a bit

so by definition something that is a bit Wibbly I will have to create my team ok

Wibbly I will have to create my team ok

Wibbly I will have to create my team ok completely new for me I’m not going to

completely new for me I’m not going to

completely new for me I’m not going to do that so I listen will I’m really hung

do that so I listen will I’m really hung

do that so I listen will I’m really hung out by the offer let me take a week to

out by the offer let me take a week to

out by the offer let me take a week to think I says that’s the issue we have a

think I says that’s the issue we have a

think I says that’s the issue we have a bit on a tight schedule I need an answer

bit on a tight schedule I need an answer

bit on a tight schedule I need an answer by Wednesday we were Monday I called my

by Wednesday we were Monday I called my

by Wednesday we were Monday I called my wife that I think you need to book your

wife that I think you need to book your

wife that I think you need to book your Tuesday night because we might have to

Tuesday night because we might have to

Tuesday night because we might have to choose to make you choose together what

choose to make you choose together what

choose to make you choose together what will be my biggest decision yet on a

will be my biggest decision yet on a

will be my biggest decision yet on a professional basis in one night now

professional basis in one night now

professional basis in one night now afterwards

afterwards

afterwards honestly it’s something I’m using now in

honestly it’s something I’m using now in

honestly it’s something I’m using now in my team because

my team because

my team because convinced that in two nights you take

convinced that in two nights you take

convinced that in two nights you take the same decision as he has in 15 days

the same decision as he has in 15 days

the same decision as he has in 15 days the only thing he goes faster so and we

the only thing he goes faster so and we

the only thing he goes faster so and we sat together and we took the decision

sat together and we took the decision

sat together and we took the decision and as everybody does when you have to

and as everybody does when you have to

and as everybody does when you have to do a take a big decision you always

do a take a big decision you always

do a take a big decision you always start with the negative point why

start with the negative point why

start with the negative point why shouldn’t I do it love the industry I’m

shouldn’t I do it love the industry I’m

shouldn’t I do it love the industry I’m a foodie I think people can say that

a foodie I think people can say that

a foodie I think people can say that love the guys love the team then it’s

love the guys love the team then it’s

love the guys love the team then it’s okay long working hours after Investment

okay long working hours after Investment

okay long working hours after Investment Banking so I know how to manage that

Banking so I know how to manage that

Banking so I know how to manage that okay let’s do it and I decided to launch

okay let’s do it and I decided to launch

okay let’s do it and I decided to launch the river in Brussels do I regret what I

the river in Brussels do I regret what I

the river in Brussels do I regret what I the choice I did never deliver in

the choice I did never deliver in

the choice I did never deliver in Belgium is now two cities a great team

Belgium is now two cities a great team

Belgium is now two cities a great team of 21 people apart this year in the

of 21 people apart this year in the

of 21 people apart this year in the rooms which makes it easy for me to give

rooms which makes it easy for me to give

rooms which makes it easy for me to give them some compliments we have 400 bikers

them some compliments we have 400 bikers

them some compliments we have 400 bikers in Belgium 400 250 restaurant that are

in Belgium 400 250 restaurant that are

in Belgium 400 250 restaurant that are working with us a growth that is also

working with us a growth that is also

working with us a growth that is also going through the roof it’s a fantastic

going through the roof it’s a fantastic

going through the roof it’s a fantastic experience really so I was lucky to be

experience really so I was lucky to be

experience really so I was lucky to be at the exact time on a Tuesday evening

at the exact time on a Tuesday evening

at the exact time on a Tuesday evening on Facebook to see that I took the jump

on Facebook to see that I took the jump

on Facebook to see that I took the jump and for the moment I don’t regret it so

and for the moment I don’t regret it so

and for the moment I don’t regret it so just to summarize what I said and I hope

just to summarize what I said and I hope

just to summarize what I said and I hope that’s the key message I want to pass

that’s the key message I want to pass

that’s the key message I want to pass especially to the young people do ask

especially to the young people do ask

especially to the young people do ask you some questions yourself be

you some questions yourself be

you some questions yourself be self-critical every now and then every

self-critical every now and then every

self-critical every now and then every six month be able to ask yourself am I

six month be able to ask yourself am I

six month be able to ask yourself am I still moving forward am i still moving

still moving forward am i still moving

still moving forward am i still moving the right direction and once the answer

the right direction and once the answer

the right direction and once the answer will be now please consider balance the

will be now please consider balance the

will be now please consider balance the options and lastly do take the jump

options and lastly do take the jump

options and lastly do take the jump because I’m convinced that here in the

because I’m convinced that here in the

because I’m convinced that here in the room so at least for so many at least it

room so at least for so many at least it

room so at least for so many at least it might be the time the time to change

might be the time the time to change

might be the time the time to change pilgrimage

pilgrimage

pilgrimage [Applause]

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