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join me it’s three o’clock in the

join me it’s three o’clock in the morning it is dark as dark can be I’m on

morning it is dark as dark can be I’m on

morning it is dark as dark can be I’m on a deserted Beach called Vasant Bay it’s

a deserted Beach called Vasant Bay it’s

a deserted Beach called Vasant Bay it’s in Normandy France I just I ended up on

in Normandy France I just I ended up on

in Normandy France I just I ended up on the beach because I had just finished

the beach because I had just finished

the beach because I had just finished swimming the English Channel there are

swimming the English Channel there are

swimming the English Channel there are 1800 some people in history who have

1800 some people in history who have

1800 some people in history who have done that by comparison 5000 and some

done that by comparison 5000 and some

done that by comparison 5000 and some have summited Mount Everest and 50,000

have summited Mount Everest and 50,000

have summited Mount Everest and 50,000 people have done an Ironman distance

people have done an Ironman distance

people have done an Ironman distance triathlon this year the English Channel

triathlon this year the English Channel

triathlon this year the English Channel is 21 miles straight across but nobody

is 21 miles straight across but nobody

is 21 miles straight across but nobody can swim straight across because of

can swim straight across because of

can swim straight across because of tides and currents our path took us

tides and currents our path took us

tides and currents our path took us almost 30 miles the the the swim took us

almost 30 miles the the the swim took us

almost 30 miles the the the swim took us about 14 and a half hours that was

about 14 and a half hours that was

about 14 and a half hours that was roughly divided equally between this

roughly divided equally between this

roughly divided equally between this infinity of darkness and being

infinity of darkness and being

infinity of darkness and being brutalized by five-foot waves oh and it

brutalized by five-foot waves oh and it

brutalized by five-foot waves oh and it was cold the water had been 62 degrees

was cold the water had been 62 degrees

was cold the water had been 62 degrees the whole way which was good because

the whole way which was good because

the whole way which was good because that’s about as warm as the English

that’s about as warm as the English

that’s about as warm as the English channel gets but the real problem was

channel gets but the real problem was

channel gets but the real problem was the air temperature after midnight it

the air temperature after midnight it

the air temperature after midnight it had cooled way down and while I was

had cooled way down and while I was

had cooled way down and while I was standing on the beach it was 47 degrees

standing on the beach it was 47 degrees

standing on the beach it was 47 degrees I couldn’t see anything but I could sure

I couldn’t see anything but I could sure

I couldn’t see anything but I could sure see my breath in front of me the you

see my breath in front of me the you

see my breath in front of me the you would think that standing there dripping

would think that standing there dripping

would think that standing there dripping wet in a speedo a swim cap and goggles

wet in a speedo a swim cap and goggles

wet in a speedo a swim cap and goggles that I would feel all alone but nothing

that I would feel all alone but nothing

that I would feel all alone but nothing could be further from the truth just 200

could be further from the truth just 200

could be further from the truth just 200 yards off the beach was a boat and the

yards off the beach was a boat and the

yards off the beach was a boat and the boat had been my escort across the

boat had been my escort across the

boat had been my escort across the English Channel obviously the whole way

English Channel obviously the whole way

English Channel obviously the whole way and on that boat was my team and the

and on that boat was my team and the

and on that boat was my team and the team was led by my wife Susan our kids

team was led by my wife Susan our kids

team was led by my wife Susan our kids and a couple of friends who had devoted

and a couple of friends who had devoted

and a couple of friends who had devoted themselves to this crazy idea in the

themselves to this crazy idea in the

themselves to this crazy idea in the first place the I happened to be the

first place the I happened to be the

first place the I happened to be the team mate who staggered up the beach but

team mate who staggered up the beach but

team mate who staggered up the beach but this was really a success that everyone

this was really a success that everyone

this was really a success that everyone shared and and I couldn’t wait to sort

shared and and I couldn’t wait to sort

shared and and I couldn’t wait to sort of share it with them so then I had to

of share it with them so then I had to

of share it with them so then I had to sort of suffer the final indignity

sort of suffer the final indignity

sort of suffer the final indignity that every English Channel swimmer has

that every English Channel swimmer has

that every English Channel swimmer has to and that is you have to get back in

to and that is you have to get back in

to and that is you have to get back in the cold water and swim out to the boat

the cold water and swim out to the boat

the cold water and swim out to the boat so I did and when I got to the boat

so I did and when I got to the boat

so I did and when I got to the boat there were no brass bands or anything

there were no brass bands or anything

there were no brass bands or anything like that there was a there was a warm

like that there was a there was a warm

like that there was a there was a warm towel and some congratulatory hugs there

towel and some congratulatory hugs there

towel and some congratulatory hugs there were a few tears but mostly just a

were a few tears but mostly just a

were a few tears but mostly just a satisfied and relieved sense of everyone

satisfied and relieved sense of everyone

satisfied and relieved sense of everyone on the team because we had accomplished

on the team because we had accomplished

on the team because we had accomplished our goal now the as the boat then took

our goal now the as the boat then took

our goal now the as the boat then took us back to Dover England where we had

us back to Dover England where we had

us back to Dover England where we had started the kids were exhausted had been

started the kids were exhausted had been

started the kids were exhausted had been a long night they found bunks on the

a long night they found bunks on the

a long night they found bunks on the boat and just conked out Susan and I

boat and just conked out Susan and I

boat and just conked out Susan and I after I warmed up a little bit were able

after I warmed up a little bit were able

after I warmed up a little bit were able to enjoy the the best cup of hot tea

to enjoy the the best cup of hot tea

to enjoy the the best cup of hot tea ever

ever

ever I didn’t swim the English Channel just

I didn’t swim the English Channel just

I didn’t swim the English Channel just to lose a few pounds I swam the English

to lose a few pounds I swam the English

to lose a few pounds I swam the English Channel to raise money and awareness for

Channel to raise money and awareness for

Channel to raise money and awareness for ALS which is also known as Lou Gehrig’s

ALS which is also known as Lou Gehrig’s

ALS which is also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease we would have no idea of knowing

disease we would have no idea of knowing

disease we would have no idea of knowing this but while we were having our cup of

this but while we were having our cup of

this but while we were having our cup of tea on that boat even bigger news came

tea on that boat even bigger news came

tea on that boat even bigger news came out that was the day that the ALS

out that was the day that the ALS

out that was the day that the ALS researchers at Northwestern University

researchers at Northwestern University

researchers at Northwestern University here in Chicago announced that they had

here in Chicago announced that they had

here in Chicago announced that they had found the common cause of this disease

found the common cause of this disease

found the common cause of this disease not the cure just the cause and they had

not the cure just the cause and they had

not the cure just the cause and they had been looking just for that for years

been looking just for that for years

been looking just for that for years imagine the same day we staggered up the

imagine the same day we staggered up the

imagine the same day we staggered up the beach was the day they made this

beach was the day they made this

beach was the day they made this announcement there were people who said

announcement there were people who said

announcement there were people who said this was the biggest announcement in ALS

this was the biggest announcement in ALS

this was the biggest announcement in ALS since Lou Gehrig himself had died 70

since Lou Gehrig himself had died 70

since Lou Gehrig himself had died 70 years earlier now my family has an

years earlier now my family has an

years earlier now my family has an unfortunate relationship with ALS

unfortunate relationship with ALS

unfortunate relationship with ALS started many years ago shortly after one

started many years ago shortly after one

started many years ago shortly after one of our kids was born my father came to

of our kids was born my father came to

of our kids was born my father came to us and told us that he had been

us and told us that he had been

us and told us that he had been diagnosed with this disease he had had

diagnosed with this disease he had had

diagnosed with this disease he had had some weird neurological symptoms for a

some weird neurological symptoms for a

some weird neurological symptoms for a couple of years he was very candid about

couple of years he was very candid about

couple of years he was very candid about it and he said look actuarially in three

it and he said look actuarially in three

it and he said look actuarially in three to five years

to five years

to five years I either suffocate or starve to death it

I either suffocate or starve to death it

I either suffocate or starve to death it hit us like a ton of bricks we knew

hit us like a ton of bricks we knew

hit us like a ton of bricks we knew nothing about ALS at the time we learned

nothing about ALS at the time we learned

nothing about ALS at the time we learned quickly though which came in handy as

quickly though which came in handy as

quickly though which came in handy as other members of our family have been

other members of our family have been

other members of our family have been diagnosed since then als is a shipwreck

diagnosed since then als is a shipwreck

diagnosed since then als is a shipwreck it’s a it’s a slow-motion ship

it’s a it’s a slow-motion ship

it’s a it’s a slow-motion ship it is a neurodegenerative disease that

it is a neurodegenerative disease that

it is a neurodegenerative disease that slowly robs the patient of their ability

slowly robs the patient of their ability

slowly robs the patient of their ability to use their muscles

to use their muscles

to use their muscles sadly my father’s characterization about

sadly my father’s characterization about

sadly my father’s characterization about suffocating or starving to death was

suffocating or starving to death was

suffocating or starving to death was pretty accurate the perhaps the worst

pretty accurate the perhaps the worst

pretty accurate the perhaps the worst part of it is that there are no ALS

part of it is that there are no ALS

part of it is that there are no ALS survivors so when you hear that news

survivors so when you hear that news

survivors so when you hear that news whether it’s a patient or someone who

whether it’s a patient or someone who

whether it’s a patient or someone who loves them it is there is it there goes

loves them it is there is it there goes

loves them it is there is it there goes with that an overwhelming feeling of

with that an overwhelming feeling of

with that an overwhelming feeling of powerlessness and that feeling of

powerlessness and that feeling of

powerlessness and that feeling of powerlessness made us want to do

powerlessness made us want to do

powerlessness made us want to do something we met with the researchers

something we met with the researchers

something we met with the researchers the ALS researchers and learned very

the ALS researchers and learned very

the ALS researchers and learned very quickly that we couldn’t help with their

quickly that we couldn’t help with their

quickly that we couldn’t help with their science that are brilliant they’re doing

science that are brilliant they’re doing

science that are brilliant they’re doing their for their fabulous job but the

their for their fabulous job but the

their for their fabulous job but the other thing we learned from those

other thing we learned from those

other thing we learned from those researchers was that the kid that the

researchers was that the kid that the

researchers was that the kid that the path to the cure would be paved with

path to the cure would be paved with

path to the cure would be paved with dollar bills and raising money is

dollar bills and raising money is

dollar bills and raising money is something we could do so we set about to

something we could do so we set about to

something we could do so we set about to do that in a creative way and what we

do that in a creative way and what we

do that in a creative way and what we came up with was swimming and what we

came up with was swimming and what we

came up with was swimming and what we what we what we figured was that

what we what we figured was that

what we what we figured was that swimming was the perfect contrast with

swimming was the perfect contrast with

swimming was the perfect contrast with ALS just as the ALS patient gradually

ALS just as the ALS patient gradually

ALS just as the ALS patient gradually loses their ability to use their muscles

loses their ability to use their muscles

loses their ability to use their muscles the swimmer has to use them all all the

the swimmer has to use them all all the

the swimmer has to use them all all the time so we had a good we had a good

time so we had a good we had a good

time so we had a good we had a good contrast with that swimming was also

contrast with that swimming was also

contrast with that swimming was also logical because I’ve been a competitive

logical because I’ve been a competitive

logical because I’ve been a competitive swimmer most of my life actually more

swimmer most of my life actually more

swimmer most of my life actually more than 50 years I started as a seven year

than 50 years I started as a seven year

than 50 years I started as a seven year old in a in a Park District summer

old in a in a Park District summer

old in a in a Park District summer league team at a time not because I was

league team at a time not because I was

league team at a time not because I was a good swimmer I couldn’t even swim the

a good swimmer I couldn’t even swim the

a good swimmer I couldn’t even swim the length of a pool but because I have two

length of a pool but because I have two

length of a pool but because I have two older sisters who were gifted swimmers

older sisters who were gifted swimmers

older sisters who were gifted swimmers and really having a lot of fun so I

and really having a lot of fun so I

and really having a lot of fun so I tagged along and I very quickly realized

tagged along and I very quickly realized

tagged along and I very quickly realized that I love the competition and I loved

that I love the competition and I loved

that I love the competition and I loved the team culture our town didn’t have an

the team culture our town didn’t have an

the team culture our town didn’t have an indoor pool so the only way to swim

indoor pool so the only way to swim

indoor pool so the only way to swim year-round was to go to a YMCA that was

year-round was to go to a YMCA that was

year-round was to go to a YMCA that was several miles away by the time I got

several miles away by the time I got

several miles away by the time I got through high school I was attractive to

through high school I was attractive to

through high school I was attractive to exactly zero college recruiters and but

exactly zero college recruiters and but

exactly zero college recruiters and but I still wanted to I still wanted to

I still wanted to I still wanted to

I still wanted to I still wanted to compete I still wanted to be involved in

compete I still wanted to be involved in

compete I still wanted to be involved in a team and so I was a walk-on

a team and so I was a walk-on

a team and so I was a walk-on at for the men’s swimming team at the

at for the men’s swimming team at the

at for the men’s swimming team at the University of Illinois in the mid-1970s

University of Illinois in the mid-1970s

University of Illinois in the mid-1970s I had one goal and that was to make the

I had one goal and that was to make the

I had one goal and that was to make the team not to be cut and after I achieved

team not to be cut and after I achieved

team not to be cut and after I achieved that I was very fortunate I swam for

that I was very fortunate I swam for

that I was very fortunate I swam for Illinois for four years and was honored

Illinois for four years and was honored

Illinois for four years and was honored two of those years to be named most

two of those years to be named most

two of those years to be named most valuable swimmer and my senior year I

valuable swimmer and my senior year I

valuable swimmer and my senior year I was the team captain I had one other

was the team captain I had one other

was the team captain I had one other goal while I swam at Illinois and that

goal while I swam at Illinois and that

goal while I swam at Illinois and that was to be an all-american now in

was to be an all-american now in

was to be an all-american now in swimming to be an all-american you have

swimming to be an all-american you have

swimming to be an all-american you have to place in the top 16 places at the

to place in the top 16 places at the

to place in the top 16 places at the NCAA meet at the end of the season I

NCAA meet at the end of the season I

NCAA meet at the end of the season I fell short on that goal

fell short on that goal

fell short on that goal I was 18th in the country as a senior in

I was 18th in the country as a senior in

I was 18th in the country as a senior in college and the margin between 18th

college and the margin between 18th

college and the margin between 18th place and all-american status was seven

place and all-american status was seven

place and all-american status was seven one hundredths of a second

one hundredths of a second

one hundredths of a second it’s hardly more than a blink of an eye

it’s hardly more than a blink of an eye

it’s hardly more than a blink of an eye I carried that 7/100 of a second like

I carried that 7/100 of a second like

I carried that 7/100 of a second like luggage for 33 years the good news is I

luggage for 33 years the good news is I

luggage for 33 years the good news is I left that luggage on that same cold

left that luggage on that same cold

left that luggage on that same cold beach in V Sante when I realized that

beach in V Sante when I realized that

beach in V Sante when I realized that all 17 of those guys who beat me weren’t

all 17 of those guys who beat me weren’t

all 17 of those guys who beat me weren’t there anymore but that was all pool

there anymore but that was all pool

there anymore but that was all pool swimming and open water swimming is very

swimming and open water swimming is very

swimming and open water swimming is very different so in open water swimming you

different so in open water swimming you

different so in open water swimming you really don’t know where you’re going

really don’t know where you’re going

really don’t know where you’re going yeah and it reintroduces all of the

yeah and it reintroduces all of the

yeah and it reintroduces all of the variables that the pool takes away so

variables that the pool takes away so

variables that the pool takes away so you’ve already heard about the cold in

you’ve already heard about the cold in

you’ve already heard about the cold in the dark but there’s wind and there’s

the dark but there’s wind and there’s

the dark but there’s wind and there’s waves and there’s wildlife now wildlife

waves and there’s wildlife now wildlife

waves and there’s wildlife now wildlife imagine swimming through the living room

imagine swimming through the living room

imagine swimming through the living room of the shark family or the jellyfish

of the shark family or the jellyfish

of the shark family or the jellyfish family it you realize pretty quickly in

family it you realize pretty quickly in

family it you realize pretty quickly in this sport you are not at the top of the

this sport you are not at the top of the

this sport you are not at the top of the food chain so as we as we started to

food chain so as we as we started to

food chain so as we as we started to talk about supporting ALS and trying to

talk about supporting ALS and trying to

talk about supporting ALS and trying to use swimming and so forth I started to

use swimming and so forth I started to

use swimming and so forth I started to do some some short open water swims the

do some some short open water swims the

do some some short open water swims the lakes around here and and so forth and

lakes around here and and so forth and

lakes around here and and so forth and had a lot of fun it was a good excuse to

had a lot of fun it was a good excuse to

had a lot of fun it was a good excuse to stay training and I always loved that

stay training and I always loved that

stay training and I always loved that part one thing led to another that did

part one thing led to another that did

part one thing led to another that did the swims got a little longer they were

the swims got a little longer they were

the swims got a little longer they were a little farther from home and we were

a little farther from home and we were

a little farther from home and we were having a lot of fun one night Susan and

having a lot of fun one night Susan and

having a lot of fun one night Susan and a couple of other couples and we were

a couple of other couples and we were

a couple of other couples and we were together drinking wine and the subject

together drinking wine and the subject

together drinking wine and the subject of the English Channel came up and the

of the English Channel came up and the

of the English Channel came up and the more wine we drank the better it’s out

more wine we drank the better it’s out

more wine we drank the better it’s out by the end of the evening we were

by the end of the evening we were

by the end of the evening we were convinced that we were headed to we were

convinced that we were headed to we were

convinced that we were headed to we were headed to England

headed to England

headed to England well a day later a more important

well a day later a more important

well a day later a more important conversation took place and that was

conversation took place and that was

conversation took place and that was with Susan where I said look this the

with Susan where I said look this the

with Susan where I said look this the English Channel stuff this is crazy

English Channel stuff this is crazy

English Channel stuff this is crazy there this is huge undertaking I have no

there this is huge undertaking I have no

there this is huge undertaking I have no idea how much how much training time is

idea how much how much training time is

idea how much how much training time is going to take this could be a big

going to take this could be a big

going to take this could be a big sacrifice to our family it’s not that

sacrifice to our family it’s not that

sacrifice to our family it’s not that big of a deal to me if you think we

big of a deal to me if you think we

big of a deal to me if you think we should pass then we’ll do something else

should pass then we’ll do something else

should pass then we’ll do something else now Susan who is not a swimmer she does

now Susan who is not a swimmer she does

now Susan who is not a swimmer she does have a unique ability though to make

have a unique ability though to make

have a unique ability though to make crazy ideas come true said no if you

crazy ideas come true said no if you

crazy ideas come true said no if you want to swim this and you think you can

want to swim this and you think you can

want to swim this and you think you can you probably ought to go do it as for

you probably ought to go do it as for

you probably ought to go do it as for the sacrifice to our family let’s turn

the sacrifice to our family let’s turn

the sacrifice to our family let’s turn it around you’re gonna need a team we

it around you’re gonna need a team we

it around you’re gonna need a team we have all these kids and we’ve got two

have all these kids and we’ve got two

have all these kids and we’ve got two years to prepare we can figure this out

years to prepare we can figure this out

years to prepare we can figure this out so without being a swimmer in one

so without being a swimmer in one

so without being a swimmer in one thought she capsulated if she

thought she capsulated if she

thought she capsulated if she encapsulated all of marathon swimming

encapsulated all of marathon swimming

encapsulated all of marathon swimming it’s a team sport we had the team and we

it’s a team sport we had the team and we

it’s a team sport we had the team and we could figure it out so that’s really

could figure it out so that’s really

could figure it out so that’s really what this is about it’s this is all

what this is about it’s this is all

what this is about it’s this is all about teamwork and it doesn’t matter if

about teamwork and it doesn’t matter if

about teamwork and it doesn’t matter if you’re trying to swim the English

you’re trying to swim the English

you’re trying to swim the English Channel or you’re trying to finish an

Channel or you’re trying to finish an

Channel or you’re trying to finish an investment banking transaction or you’re

investment banking transaction or you’re

investment banking transaction or you’re trying to find the the the cure for ALS

trying to find the the the cure for ALS

trying to find the the the cure for ALS it’s a team sport and there are ways to

it’s a team sport and there are ways to

it’s a team sport and there are ways to put together a team and lessons to be

put together a team and lessons to be

put together a team and lessons to be learned from all of them that are

learned from all of them that are

learned from all of them that are applicable to the other so we started to

applicable to the other so we started to

applicable to the other so we started to we started to do our training and

we started to do our training and

we started to do our training and building our team we called our little

building our team we called our little

building our team we called our little team a long swim we borrowed the acronym

team a long swim we borrowed the acronym

team a long swim we borrowed the acronym from ALS and and we were off to the

from ALS and and we were off to the

from ALS and and we were off to the races now we’ve already talked a little

races now we’ve already talked a little

races now we’ve already talked a little bit about the the English Channel swim

bit about the the English Channel swim

bit about the the English Channel swim and we’ll talk some more but our little

and we’ll talk some more but our little

and we’ll talk some more but our little team that started out being clueless and

team that started out being clueless and

team that started out being clueless and newbies and so on is now among the most

newbies and so on is now among the most

newbies and so on is now among the most experienced marathons

experienced marathons

experienced marathons when teams in the world in addition to

when teams in the world in addition to

when teams in the world in addition to the English Channel we’ve been 21 miles

the English Channel we’ve been 21 miles

the English Channel we’ve been 21 miles across the Catalina channel in

across the Catalina channel in

across the Catalina channel in California 24 miles the length of Tampa

California 24 miles the length of Tampa

California 24 miles the length of Tampa Bay in Florida 29 miles the loop around

Bay in Florida 29 miles the loop around

Bay in Florida 29 miles the loop around Manhattan Island in New York and last

Manhattan Island in New York and last

Manhattan Island in New York and last summer we were a half a mile short of a

summer we were a half a mile short of a

summer we were a half a mile short of a 32-mile channel called the KETV channel

32-mile channel called the KETV channel

32-mile channel called the KETV channel between molokai and oahu I’m telling you

between molokai and oahu I’m telling you

between molokai and oahu I’m telling you this is one of the best teams in the

this is one of the best teams in the

this is one of the best teams in the world in the process of doing all of

world in the process of doing all of

world in the process of doing all of that we still had our goal of raising

that we still had our goal of raising

that we still had our goal of raising money for ALS research and I will say

money for ALS research and I will say

money for ALS research and I will say immodestly that we have been

immodestly that we have been

immodestly that we have been extraordinarily successful at that to to

extraordinarily successful at that to to

extraordinarily successful at that to to date we’ve raised more than four hundred

date we’ve raised more than four hundred

date we’ve raised more than four hundred thousand dollars for this disease and

thousand dollars for this disease and

thousand dollars for this disease and the pace of discovery is accelerating

the pace of discovery is accelerating

the pace of discovery is accelerating all the time

all the time

all the time it’s been very rewarding as we formed

it’s been very rewarding as we formed

it’s been very rewarding as we formed our team we realized that there were

our team we realized that there were

our team we realized that there were rules that we had to adhere to just like

rules that we had to adhere to just like

rules that we had to adhere to just like you would in business or in in medical

you would in business or in in medical

you would in business or in in medical research or anything else and in

research or anything else and in

research or anything else and in marathon swimming the others pages and

marathon swimming the others pages and

marathon swimming the others pages and pages of rules but they can all be sort

pages of rules but they can all be sort

pages of rules but they can all be sort of distilled down to three big ones rule

of distilled down to three big ones rule

of distilled down to three big ones rule number one is what you can wear as the

number one is what you can wear as the

number one is what you can wear as the Brits call it your costume

Brits call it your costume

Brits call it your costume it is a speedo a swim cap and goggles

it is a speedo a swim cap and goggles

it is a speedo a swim cap and goggles anything that would make you warm fast

anything that would make you warm fast

anything that would make you warm fast or buoyant is off-limits

or buoyant is off-limits

or buoyant is off-limits so no wetsuits allowed rule number two

so no wetsuits allowed rule number two

so no wetsuits allowed rule number two all swims begin and end on dry land so

all swims begin and end on dry land so

all swims begin and end on dry land so this is an obscure sport admittedly but

this is an obscure sport admittedly but

this is an obscure sport admittedly but if you can walk in swim across and walk

if you can walk in swim across and walk

if you can walk in swim across and walk out that makes a good day in marathon

out that makes a good day in marathon

out that makes a good day in marathon swimming rule number three every swim

swimming rule number three every swim

swimming rule number three every swim needs to be escorted by a boat for

needs to be escorted by a boat for

needs to be escorted by a boat for safety reasons obviously however the

safety reasons obviously however the

safety reasons obviously however the swimmer may not touch the boat or

swimmer may not touch the boat or

swimmer may not touch the boat or anybody on the boat and/or it’s an

anybody on the boat and/or it’s an

anybody on the boat and/or it’s an immediate disqualification so when they

immediate disqualification so when they

immediate disqualification so when they say unassisted they mean unassisted so

say unassisted they mean unassisted so

say unassisted they mean unassisted so in light of those rules we started to

in light of those rules we started to

in light of those rules we started to practice and train together learn from

practice and train together learn from

practice and train together learn from each other and and so on and a couple of

each other and and so on and a couple of

each other and and so on and a couple of illustrations about how that worked one

illustrations about how that worked one

illustrations about how that worked one was

was

was one evening at a team meeting we also

one evening at a team meeting we also

one evening at a team meeting we also call it family dinner at our house my

call it family dinner at our house my

call it family dinner at our house my son Billy was concerned about our

son Billy was concerned about our

son Billy was concerned about our training process and it really had to do

training process and it really had to do

training process and it really had to do with with how we were going through our

with with how we were going through our

with with how we were going through our training at the time you know this was

training at the time you know this was

training at the time you know this was at a point where I was logging a lot of

at a point where I was logging a lot of

at a point where I was logging a lot of miles and the lakes around here and the

miles and the lakes around here and the

miles and the lakes around here and the boys were escorting me in an old canoe

boys were escorting me in an old canoe

boys were escorting me in an old canoe leftover from my folks in the 1960s and

leftover from my folks in the 1960s and

leftover from my folks in the 1960s and Billy was worried about the canoe and he

Billy was worried about the canoe and he

Billy was worried about the canoe and he said what we really need is a kayak

said what we really need is a kayak

said what we really need is a kayak because it only takes one guy to paddle

because it only takes one guy to paddle

because it only takes one guy to paddle it you’ll still be safe and at the end

it you’ll still be safe and at the end

it you’ll still be safe and at the end of the swim it’ll be a lot easier to get

of the swim it’ll be a lot easier to get

of the swim it’ll be a lot easier to get up on top of the car so I said all right

up on top of the car so I said all right

up on top of the car so I said all right well you know where do we where should

well you know where do we where should

well you know where do we where should we get a kayak he said we shouldn’t get

we get a kayak he said we shouldn’t get

we get a kayak he said we shouldn’t get a kayak we should make a kayak he said

a kayak we should make a kayak he said

a kayak we should make a kayak he said I’ve been doing the research he said in

I’ve been doing the research he said in

I’ve been doing the research he said in the Internet you can see plans and kits

the Internet you can see plans and kits

the Internet you can see plans and kits blueprints the whole show he said this

blueprints the whole show he said this

blueprints the whole show he said this is totally something we can do right in

is totally something we can do right in

is totally something we can do right in our own garage we’ll get everybody

our own garage we’ll get everybody

our own garage we’ll get everybody involved he said it’ll be a lot of fun

involved he said it’ll be a lot of fun

involved he said it’ll be a lot of fun we’ll spend the winter making a kayak so

we’ll spend the winter making a kayak so

we’ll spend the winter making a kayak so for Christmas that year Billy got

for Christmas that year Billy got

for Christmas that year Billy got blueprints and mahogany plywood and and

blueprints and mahogany plywood and and

blueprints and mahogany plywood and and son of a gun if he didn’t do exactly

son of a gun if he didn’t do exactly

son of a gun if he didn’t do exactly that he quarterback the whole process

that he quarterback the whole process

that he quarterback the whole process this is our dirty garage and he

this is our dirty garage and he

this is our dirty garage and he quarterback the whole process he roped

quarterback the whole process he roped

quarterback the whole process he roped everybody into it his brothers and

everybody into it his brothers and

everybody into it his brothers and sisters and I will cherish until I no

sisters and I will cherish until I no

sisters and I will cherish until I no longer can cherish the hours that we

longer can cherish the hours that we

longer can cherish the hours that we spent in the garage together now think

spent in the garage together now think

spent in the garage together now think about it from a teamwork standpoint

about it from a teamwork standpoint

about it from a teamwork standpoint though here was a teammate who had

though here was a teammate who had

though here was a teammate who had identified a potential problem nothing

identified a potential problem nothing

identified a potential problem nothing that had happened yet but a potential

that had happened yet but a potential

that had happened yet but a potential problem and he had come up with a

problem and he had come up with a

problem and he had come up with a solution he researched the solution and

solution he researched the solution and

solution he researched the solution and then he pitched the solution to the rest

then he pitched the solution to the rest

then he pitched the solution to the rest of the group and lo and behold this was

of the group and lo and behold this was

of the group and lo and behold this was exactly the right answer and and and the

exactly the right answer and and and the

exactly the right answer and and and the best part of it is that every time we

best part of it is that every time we

best part of it is that every time we put this kayak in the water now it gets

put this kayak in the water now it gets

put this kayak in the water now it gets oohs and ahhs every time we do because

oohs and ahhs every time we do because

oohs and ahhs every time we do because it’s simply a beautiful boat another

it’s simply a beautiful boat another

it’s simply a beautiful boat another attribute that a lot of teams look for

attribute that a lot of teams look for

attribute that a lot of teams look for is endurance lately that’s been popular

is endurance lately that’s been popular

is endurance lately that’s been popular to call it grit now

to call it grit now

to call it grit now we loosely defined it is the willingness

we loosely defined it is the willingness

we loosely defined it is the willingness of the team and the teammates to stay

of the team and the teammates to stay

of the team and the teammates to stay enthusiastic as something goes haywire

enthusiastic as something goes haywire

enthusiastic as something goes haywire everybody’s been part of a deal that

everybody’s been part of a deal that

everybody’s been part of a deal that should be six weeks and goes to six

should be six weeks and goes to six

should be six weeks and goes to six months

months

months I won’t even start with you on the

I won’t even start with you on the

I won’t even start with you on the number of years that the and that the

number of years that the and that the

number of years that the and that the ALS researchers have to endure to make

ALS researchers have to endure to make

ALS researchers have to endure to make it to their finish line but but

it to their finish line but but

it to their finish line but but endurance and grit is critically

endurance and grit is critically

endurance and grit is critically important

important

important my son Gordie has grit he knows every

my son Gordie has grit he knows every

my son Gordie has grit he knows every job on the boat he’s cross trained to do

job on the boat he’s cross trained to do

job on the boat he’s cross trained to do everything his brothers call him the

everything his brothers call him the

everything his brothers call him the Swiss Army knife of the crew but the

Swiss Army knife of the crew but the

Swiss Army knife of the crew but the best best attribute about Gordie is he

best best attribute about Gordie is he

best best attribute about Gordie is he does not get sick at sea

does not get sick at sea

does not get sick at sea now we imagine being on this escort boat

now we imagine being on this escort boat

now we imagine being on this escort boat it is dreadful it only moves as fast as

it is dreadful it only moves as fast as

it is dreadful it only moves as fast as the swimmer and I can only swim two and

the swimmer and I can only swim two and

the swimmer and I can only swim two and a half miles an hour so as the boat is

a half miles an hour so as the boat is

a half miles an hour so as the boat is inching along its pitching back and

inching along its pitching back and

inching along its pitching back and forth in big waves and then you mix in

forth in big waves and then you mix in

forth in big waves and then you mix in something like diesel exhaust just for

something like diesel exhaust just for

something like diesel exhaust just for sweetener in fact on our English Channel

sweetener in fact on our English Channel

sweetener in fact on our English Channel swim during the first seven hours the

swim during the first seven hours the

swim during the first seven hours the water was so rough that the crew

water was so rough that the crew

water was so rough that the crew couldn’t even walk across the deck of

couldn’t even walk across the deck of

couldn’t even walk across the deck of the of the of the boat because of the

the of the of the boat because of the

the of the of the boat because of the water was so rough they had to crawl so

water was so rough they had to crawl so

water was so rough they had to crawl so one by one all the crew members fell

one by one all the crew members fell

one by one all the crew members fell away as they as they became more and

away as they as they became more and

away as they as they became more and more sick which meant that Gordie picked

more sick which meant that Gordie picked

more sick which meant that Gordie picked up more of the slack he just picked up

up more of the slack he just picked up

up more of the slack he just picked up more of those jobs and as the as the day

more of those jobs and as the as the day

more of those jobs and as the as the day turned into the darkest night ever the I

turned into the darkest night ever the I

turned into the darkest night ever the I was a little wigged out swimming in

was a little wigged out swimming in

was a little wigged out swimming in pitch black is a new experience and and

pitch black is a new experience and and

pitch black is a new experience and and I could see that I could see the escort

I could see that I could see the escort

I could see that I could see the escort boat but I couldn’t see anybody on the

boat but I couldn’t see anybody on the

boat but I couldn’t see anybody on the escort boat just shapes and in people

escort boat just shapes and in people

escort boat just shapes and in people moving around the one silhouette though

moving around the one silhouette though

moving around the one silhouette though that I remember was Gordie as he stood

that I remember was Gordie as he stood

that I remember was Gordie as he stood on that rail with his arms locked

on that rail with his arms locked

on that rail with his arms locked watching me the entire time seven hours

watching me the entire time seven hours

watching me the entire time seven hours in the pitch black and I don’t think

in the pitch black and I don’t think

in the pitch black and I don’t think Gordie moved a muscle now your mind

Gordie moved a muscle now your mind

Gordie moved a muscle now your mind begins to play tricks on you in the dark

begins to play tricks on you in the dark

begins to play tricks on you in the dark like that and mine certainly did and I

like that and mine certainly did and I

like that and mine certainly did and I would have these elaborate Congress

would have these elaborate Congress

would have these elaborate Congress in my own head with Gordy while I was

in my own head with Gordy while I was

in my own head with Gordy while I was swimming and each of those each of those

swimming and each of those each of those

swimming and each of those each of those conversations ended the same way where

conversations ended the same way where

conversations ended the same way where he would reassure me that he was going

he would reassure me that he was going

he would reassure me that he was going to do everything that he could to make

to do everything that he could to make

to do everything that he could to make sure that we made it to France and

sure that we made it to France and

sure that we made it to France and whatever got in it got in our way he was

whatever got in it got in our way he was

whatever got in it got in our way he was gonna take care of it

gonna take care of it

gonna take care of it to make sure that he did his job and we

to make sure that he did his job and we

to make sure that he did his job and we could achieve our goal well as you know

could achieve our goal well as you know

could achieve our goal well as you know we made it to France we achieved our

we made it to France we achieved our

we made it to France we achieved our goal and Gordy was the lock selection

goal and Gordy was the lock selection

goal and Gordy was the lock selection for most valuable player on the a long

for most valuable player on the a long

for most valuable player on the a long swim team for the English Channel swim

swim team for the English Channel swim

swim team for the English Channel swim now every team needs to celebrate you

now every team needs to celebrate you

now every team needs to celebrate you have a win you close a deal you have a

have a win you close a deal you have a

have a win you close a deal you have a dinner even if it’s a beer party what

dinner even if it’s a beer party what

dinner even if it’s a beer party what you really want to do is acknowledge and

you really want to do is acknowledge and

you really want to do is acknowledge and recognize the people who maybe don’t get

recognize the people who maybe don’t get

recognize the people who maybe don’t get their name in the paper or make the big

their name in the paper or make the big

their name in the paper or make the big bonus but have had such a big impact and

bonus but have had such a big impact and

bonus but have had such a big impact and such an important impact on the on the

such an important impact on the on the

such an important impact on the on the success of the team for English Channel

success of the team for English Channel

success of the team for English Channel swimmers there’s a perfect perfect

swimmers there’s a perfect perfect

swimmers there’s a perfect perfect opportunity to celebrate and it’s at a

opportunity to celebrate and it’s at a

opportunity to celebrate and it’s at a place called the white horse now the

place called the white horse now the

place called the white horse now the white horse is a 700 year old pub in

white horse is a 700 year old pub in

white horse is a 700 year old pub in Dover England and it is covered if it

Dover England and it is covered if it

Dover England and it is covered if it invites channel swimmers to come and

invites channel swimmers to come and

invites channel swimmers to come and write their names on the walls and the

write their names on the walls and the

write their names on the walls and the ceilings and places to the point where

ceilings and places to the point where

ceilings and places to the point where it’s just it’s covered with all these

it’s just it’s covered with all these

it’s just it’s covered with all these signature and so we went to the white

signature and so we went to the white

signature and so we went to the white horse we were on our way to the white

horse we were on our way to the white

horse we were on our way to the white horse and I told the kids that you know

horse and I told the kids that you know

horse and I told the kids that you know typically you really don’t want to have

typically you really don’t want to have

typically you really don’t want to have your name written on the wall of a

your name written on the wall of a

your name written on the wall of a tavern someplace but but in this case we

tavern someplace but but in this case we

tavern someplace but but in this case we were gonna make an exception we got to

were gonna make an exception we got to

were gonna make an exception we got to the white horse and and we’re really

the white horse and and we’re really

the white horse and and we’re really overwhelmed here I think it was that’s

overwhelmed here I think it was that’s

overwhelmed here I think it was that’s when the enormity of what we had done

when the enormity of what we had done

when the enormity of what we had done started to sink in

started to sink in

started to sink in you see these names of people you

you see these names of people you

you see these names of people you respect so much icons in marathon

respect so much icons in marathon

respect so much icons in marathon swimming and to imagine that we could

swimming and to imagine that we could

swimming and to imagine that we could put our names up there with them so we

put our names up there with them so we

put our names up there with them so we found an empty corner I was able to put

found an empty corner I was able to put

found an empty corner I was able to put up all the names of our teammates and

up all the names of our teammates and

up all the names of our teammates and our team and the day we swam and how

our team and the day we swam and how

our team and the day we swam and how long it took us and I was able to put a

long it took us and I was able to put a

long it took us and I was able to put a little star by Gordy’s name

little star by Gordy’s name

little star by Gordy’s name as the most valuable player there it is

as the most valuable player there it is

as the most valuable player there it is now after all that we had been through

now after all that we had been through

now after all that we had been through and witnessing the shipwreck of ALS

and witnessing the shipwreck of ALS

and witnessing the shipwreck of ALS building our team training some setbacks

building our team training some setbacks

building our team training some setbacks a lot of good luck it was really

a lot of good luck it was really

a lot of good luck it was really rewarding to be able to put that star up

rewarding to be able to put that star up

rewarding to be able to put that star up there I also remember thinking about how

there I also remember thinking about how

there I also remember thinking about how my father would have you dad where he

my father would have you dad where he

my father would have you dad where he would have gotten a big kick out of it

would have gotten a big kick out of it

would have gotten a big kick out of it first he would have had a big tall beer

first he would have had a big tall beer

first he would have had a big tall beer in front of him if he had been at the

in front of him if he had been at the

in front of him if he had been at the White Horse but I think he would have

White Horse but I think he would have

White Horse but I think he would have had a big grin when he knew his grandson

had a big grin when he knew his grandson

had a big grin when he knew his grandson had that that that star by his name now

had that that that star by his name now

had that that that star by his name now I told you when my father had come to us

I told you when my father had come to us

I told you when my father had come to us and had had told us that he’d been

and had had told us that he’d been

and had had told us that he’d been diagnosed with ALS one of our one of our

diagnosed with ALS one of our one of our

diagnosed with ALS one of our one of our kids had just been born well that was

kids had just been born well that was

kids had just been born well that was Gordon so to come fast forward full

Gordon so to come fast forward full

Gordon so to come fast forward full circle with that and now have that star

circle with that and now have that star

circle with that and now have that star by Gordy’s name

by Gordy’s name

by Gordy’s name I hope it’s there for another seven

I hope it’s there for another seven

I hope it’s there for another seven hundred years I plan to swim for the

hundred years I plan to swim for the

hundred years I plan to swim for the rest of my life I’ve been really lucky I

rest of my life I’ve been really lucky I

rest of my life I’ve been really lucky I haven’t been injured we’re never gonna

haven’t been injured we’re never gonna

haven’t been injured we’re never gonna run out of channels to swim but moreover

run out of channels to swim but moreover

run out of channels to swim but moreover our team is going to keep swimming

our team is going to keep swimming

our team is going to keep swimming our little a long swim team which is our

our little a long swim team which is our

our little a long swim team which is our family our friends it’s our ALS

family our friends it’s our ALS

family our friends it’s our ALS researchers that we support it’s 2,000

researchers that we support it’s 2,000

researchers that we support it’s 2,000 donors who have sent money in for this

donors who have sent money in for this

donors who have sent money in for this disease we’re going to keep swimming –

disease we’re going to keep swimming –

disease we’re going to keep swimming – and in that case it’s just going to be

and in that case it’s just going to be

and in that case it’s just going to be one hand in front of the other until we

one hand in front of the other until we

one hand in front of the other until we get to some far shore I don’t know where

get to some far shore I don’t know where

get to some far shore I don’t know where that Shore is I don’t know when we’ll

that Shore is I don’t know when we’ll

that Shore is I don’t know when we’ll get there but I know we’re not going to

get there but I know we’re not going to

get there but I know we’re not going to stop until the person who greets us is

stop until the person who greets us is

stop until the person who greets us is an als survivor thanks for joining

an als survivor thanks for joining

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