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The Year That Changed My Life | Juha Peralampi | TEDxQatarUniversity


ladies and gentlemen is my great honor

ladies and gentlemen is my great honor and pleasure to be here at TEDx tonight

and pleasure to be here at TEDx tonight

and pleasure to be here at TEDx tonight my name is sue hopper a lumpy I am the

my name is sue hopper a lumpy I am the

my name is sue hopper a lumpy I am the manager of the business incubator at

manager of the business incubator at

manager of the business incubator at Carter University where we have a center

Carter University where we have a center

Carter University where we have a center for entrepreneurship and we serve our

for entrepreneurship and we serve our

for entrepreneurship and we serve our aspiring entrepreneurs and startup

aspiring entrepreneurs and startup

aspiring entrepreneurs and startup companies later on tonight there’s gonna

companies later on tonight there’s gonna

companies later on tonight there’s gonna be one baby of ours called Arvixe and

be one baby of ours called Arvixe and

be one baby of ours called Arvixe and they will be presenting their case

they will be presenting their case

they will be presenting their case before we go any further I would like to

before we go any further I would like to

before we go any further I would like to ask you a question and please raise your

ask you a question and please raise your

ask you a question and please raise your hands how many of you have actually

hands how many of you have actually

hands how many of you have actually lived abroad for more than one year

lived abroad for more than one year

lived abroad for more than one year please raise your hands I see almost 50%

please raise your hands I see almost 50%

please raise your hands I see almost 50% which I’m not surprised here in Qatar B

which I’m not surprised here in Qatar B

which I’m not surprised here in Qatar B is such an international place tonight I

is such an international place tonight I

is such an international place tonight I will talk about the year that changed my

will talk about the year that changed my

will talk about the year that changed my life my personal experiences included

life my personal experiences included

life my personal experiences included some scientific data and how it all has

some scientific data and how it all has

some scientific data and how it all has impacted me first of all I’m from a

impacted me first of all I’m from a

impacted me first of all I’m from a country called Finland which is up in

country called Finland which is up in

country called Finland which is up in the northern part of Europe its very

the northern part of Europe its very

the northern part of Europe its very nature oriented and innovation based

nature oriented and innovation based

nature oriented and innovation based country I definitely enjoyed my

country I definitely enjoyed my

country I definitely enjoyed my childhood growing up in the beautiful

childhood growing up in the beautiful

childhood growing up in the beautiful nature enjoying a warm summer’s and

nature enjoying a warm summer’s and

nature enjoying a warm summer’s and cooler winters I had a ball I had a good

cooler winters I had a ball I had a good

cooler winters I had a ball I had a good time

time

time being with my family my friends playing

being with my family my friends playing

being with my family my friends playing sports Finland is a very safe and secure

sports Finland is a very safe and secure

sports Finland is a very safe and secure place to be brought up in in 1943

place to be brought up in in 1943

place to be brought up in in 1943 psychologist Abraham Maslow made

psychologist Abraham Maslow made

psychologist Abraham Maslow made extensive survey on people’s innate

extensive survey on people’s innate

extensive survey on people’s innate curiosity and motivation and what he

curiosity and motivation and what he

curiosity and motivation and what he found out is that we human beings have a

found out is that we human beings have a

found out is that we human beings have a need to go up in the ladder and called

need to go up in the ladder and called

need to go up in the ladder and called Maslow’s hierarchy so once I er once our

Maslow’s hierarchy so once I er once our

Maslow’s hierarchy so once I er once our basic needs are met we tend to go

basic needs are met we tend to go

basic needs are met we tend to go towards self-actualization by

towards self-actualization by

towards self-actualization by self-actualization

self-actualization

self-actualization States we mean that we can become who we

States we mean that we can become who we

States we mean that we can become who we really are supposed to be and we can

really are supposed to be and we can

really are supposed to be and we can reach whatever is there to be reached

reach whatever is there to be reached

reach whatever is there to be reached for us being a very lucky person I had

for us being a very lucky person I had

for us being a very lucky person I had my basic needs met early on in my life

at this point of time I had a big dream

at this point of time I had a big dream I wanted to become an ambassador and by

I wanted to become an ambassador and by

I wanted to become an ambassador and by him being an ambassador I being a

him being an ambassador I being a

him being an ambassador I being a representative of my country of Finland

representative of my country of Finland

representative of my country of Finland marketing the brand and living abroad

marketing the brand and living abroad

marketing the brand and living abroad and whenever you say something like that

and whenever you say something like that

and whenever you say something like that out loud especially to your bierce

out loud especially to your bierce

out loud especially to your bierce Pearce in Finland it’s an outrageous

Pearce in Finland it’s an outrageous

Pearce in Finland it’s an outrageous statement Finland still of a country of

statement Finland still of a country of

statement Finland still of a country of trying to fit into society so dreaming

trying to fit into society so dreaming

trying to fit into society so dreaming big having huge dreams especially

big having huge dreams especially

big having huge dreams especially stating them out is more of an American

stating them out is more of an American

stating them out is more of an American style than Finnish style and of course

style than Finnish style and of course

style than Finnish style and of course Iraq Iraq Don it whenever I talked about

Iraq Iraq Don it whenever I talked about

Iraq Iraq Don it whenever I talked about it to my peers however even if we’re guy

it to my peers however even if we’re guy

it to my peers however even if we’re guy wrecked on it I did not want to give up

wrecked on it I did not want to give up

wrecked on it I did not want to give up on my dream I kept it I had it and I

on my dream I kept it I had it and I

on my dream I kept it I had it and I kept going at the age of 13 I already

kept going at the age of 13 I already

kept going at the age of 13 I already started travelling on my own to visit my

started travelling on my own to visit my

started travelling on my own to visit my relatives down in Marbella Spain it’s a

relatives down in Marbella Spain it’s a

relatives down in Marbella Spain it’s a beautiful place I also started meeting

beautiful place I also started meeting

beautiful place I also started meeting international people and speak in

international people and speak in

international people and speak in English and at that time I wasn’t really

English and at that time I wasn’t really

English and at that time I wasn’t really that good at it because my country is

that good at it because my country is

that good at it because my country is bilingual but we speak Finnish and

bilingual but we speak Finnish and

bilingual but we speak Finnish and Swedish as our mother tongues then at

Swedish as our mother tongues then at

Swedish as our mother tongues then at the age of 17 I was chosen and had a

the age of 17 I was chosen and had a

the age of 17 I was chosen and had a chance to travel for one year preceding

chance to travel for one year preceding

chance to travel for one year preceding high school through rotary exchange

high school through rotary exchange

high school through rotary exchange program to spend a year in Miami Florida

program to spend a year in Miami Florida

program to spend a year in Miami Florida a beautiful place and I was of course

a beautiful place and I was of course

a beautiful place and I was of course ecstatic about it being able to have the

ecstatic about it being able to have the

ecstatic about it being able to have the heat and yes I actually loved the heat

heat and yes I actually loved the heat

heat and yes I actually loved the heat even here in Doha because I’m from a

even here in Doha because I’m from a

even here in Doha because I’m from a cold place and no social media to

cold place and no social media to

cold place and no social media to distract me from acts

distract me from acts

distract me from acts my social life back then and everything

my social life back then and everything

my social life back then and everything was very different euphoric almost

was very different euphoric almost

was very different euphoric almost however during that year I did go

however during that year I did go

however during that year I did go through severe culture shocks and also

through severe culture shocks and also

through severe culture shocks and also acculturation for example not having my

acculturation for example not having my

acculturation for example not having my parents around me my comfort zone for

parents around me my comfort zone for

parents around me my comfort zone for the first time in life to have a curfew

the first time in life to have a curfew

the first time in life to have a curfew I did not even know what a curfew is

I did not even know what a curfew is

I did not even know what a curfew is living in a place in North America where

living in a place in North America where

living in a place in North America where actually Spanish was more spoken than

actually Spanish was more spoken than

actually Spanish was more spoken than English for the sake that 70% of the

English for the sake that 70% of the

English for the sake that 70% of the population in Miami is actually off

population in Miami is actually off

population in Miami is actually off Latin American American background

Latin American American background

Latin American American background however this year totally changed me

however this year totally changed me

however this year totally changed me even though there was a lot of ups and

even though there was a lot of ups and

even though there was a lot of ups and downs during this year next we could

downs during this year next we could

downs during this year next we could have a look at this graph it’s called

have a look at this graph it’s called

have a look at this graph it’s called cross-cultural communication of foreign

cross-cultural communication of foreign

cross-cultural communication of foreign visitors acculturation curve this moving

visitors acculturation curve this moving

visitors acculturation curve this moving can be a serious process if it’s

can be a serious process if it’s

can be a serious process if it’s unmanaged we can definitely go through

unmanaged we can definitely go through

unmanaged we can definitely go through some very serious psychological stress

some very serious psychological stress

some very serious psychological stress if managed and cherished it can really

if managed and cherished it can really

if managed and cherished it can really enrich our lives mentally emotionally

enrich our lives mentally emotionally

enrich our lives mentally emotionally and also financially oftentimes when we

and also financially oftentimes when we

and also financially oftentimes when we go and live abroad and this is usually

go and live abroad and this is usually

go and live abroad and this is usually one-year period of time in the beginning

one-year period of time in the beginning

one-year period of time in the beginning we go through euphoria we leave our past

we go through euphoria we leave our past

we go through euphoria we leave our past our comfort zone behind and we’re

our comfort zone behind and we’re

our comfort zone behind and we’re ecstatic we’re very happy the next stage

ecstatic we’re very happy the next stage

ecstatic we’re very happy the next stage is called culture shock the reality hits

is called culture shock the reality hits

is called culture shock the reality hits you you actually start digging deeper

you you actually start digging deeper

you you actually start digging deeper into a culture understanding not

into a culture understanding not

into a culture understanding not everything is so perfect and a lot of

everything is so perfect and a lot of

everything is so perfect and a lot of things back home were really really good

things back home were really really good

things back home were really really good then moving on to the face of

then moving on to the face of

then moving on to the face of acculturation and finally usually about

acculturation and finally usually about

acculturation and finally usually about after one year a more stable state and

after one year a more stable state and

after one year a more stable state and the outcome can be we’ve gone native we

the outcome can be we’ve gone native we

the outcome can be we’ve gone native we have become by culturally adapted or

have become by culturally adapted or

have become by culturally adapted or even negative emotions if a person is

even negative emotions if a person is

even negative emotions if a person is bound to experience still very negative

bound to experience still very negative

bound to experience still very negative emotions after one year of time he or

emotions after one year of time he or

emotions after one year of time he or she is bound to go back home or at least

she is bound to go back home or at least

she is bound to go back home or at least leave the

leave the

leave the the place next I want to show you a

the place next I want to show you a

the place next I want to show you a couple of graphs we can have a look at

couple of graphs we can have a look at

couple of graphs we can have a look at GERD Hofstede’s which is a Dutch based

GERD Hofstede’s which is a Dutch based

GERD Hofstede’s which is a Dutch based professor and his value dimension graphs

professor and his value dimension graphs

professor and his value dimension graphs what this study actually tells is first

what this study actually tells is first

what this study actually tells is first of all he studied on over a hundred

of all he studied on over a hundred

of all he studied on over a hundred thousand people world over and he has

thousand people world over and he has

thousand people world over and he has compared different countries and

compared different countries and

compared different countries and cultures and their similarities and

cultures and their similarities and

cultures and their similarities and differences he’s based on value

differences he’s based on value

differences he’s based on value dimensions there’s six major ones but I

dimensions there’s six major ones but I

dimensions there’s six major ones but I want to focus on two of them first power

want to focus on two of them first power

want to focus on two of them first power distance so what do we mean by power

distance so what do we mean by power

distance so what do we mean by power distance we mean the acceptance of less

distance we mean the acceptance of less

distance we mean the acceptance of less fortunate people in society how well

fortunate people in society how well

fortunate people in society how well they accept and expect that there is

they accept and expect that there is

they accept and expect that there is actually an inequality in any in terms

actually an inequality in any in terms

actually an inequality in any in terms of wealth or power and as you can tell

of wealth or power and as you can tell

of wealth or power and as you can tell Finland is very low on this figure which

Finland is very low on this figure which

Finland is very low on this figure which means that Finnish people do not accept

means that Finnish people do not accept

means that Finnish people do not accept on equality we’re very very bad with

on equality we’re very very bad with

on equality we’re very very bad with hierarchy for example we don’t like the

hierarchy for example we don’t like the

hierarchy for example we don’t like the fact that there’s someone above us

fact that there’s someone above us

fact that there’s someone above us everything has to be equal even wealth

everything has to be equal even wealth

everything has to be equal even wealth distribution on the other hand locally

distribution on the other hand locally

distribution on the other hand locally here in the region is very high and the

here in the region is very high and the

here in the region is very high and the reason why I’m actually using the UAE or

reason why I’m actually using the UAE or

reason why I’m actually using the UAE or United Arab Emirates instead of Qatar is

United Arab Emirates instead of Qatar is

United Arab Emirates instead of Qatar is there was no data found on Qatar

there was no data found on Qatar

there was no data found on Qatar unfortunately however we can see that

unfortunately however we can see that

unfortunately however we can see that locally high hierarchy and power

locally high hierarchy and power

locally high hierarchy and power distance is very accepted and expected

distance is very accepted and expected

distance is very accepted and expected the next value dimension I want to tap

the next value dimension I want to tap

the next value dimension I want to tap on is masculinity or femininity and by

on is masculinity or femininity and by

on is masculinity or femininity and by mask evil masculinity when we talk about

mask evil masculinity when we talk about

mask evil masculinity when we talk about we talk about values in society that are

we talk about values in society that are

we talk about values in society that are more masculine assertive we heroic will

more masculine assertive we heroic will

more masculine assertive we heroic will look for financially works as an example

look for financially works as an example

look for financially works as an example and once again Finland is very low that

and once again Finland is very low that

and once again Finland is very low that means that in our society a lot of

means that in our society a lot of

means that in our society a lot of emphasis and also finance is put into

emphasis and also finance is put into

emphasis and also finance is put into nurturing into education

nurturing into education

nurturing into education we’re asked for example in the United

we’re asked for example in the United

we’re asked for example in the United States the figure is much higher and US

States the figure is much higher and US

States the figure is much higher and US is a lot more competition based society

is a lot more competition based society

is a lot more competition based society as a person who’s lived all in all three

as a person who’s lived all in all three

as a person who’s lived all in all three these three societies and gone through

these three societies and gone through

these three societies and gone through culture shocks and Valor dimensions I

culture shocks and Valor dimensions I

culture shocks and Valor dimensions I can pretty much that it has all changed

can pretty much that it has all changed

can pretty much that it has all changed me and hopefully for a better person if

me and hopefully for a better person if

me and hopefully for a better person if it originally for a pretty better

it originally for a pretty better

it originally for a pretty better student mentor and a person and it’s

student mentor and a person and it’s

student mentor and a person and it’s actually enhanced my creative thinking

actually enhanced my creative thinking

actually enhanced my creative thinking and becoming a more entrepreneurial

and becoming a more entrepreneurial

and becoming a more entrepreneurial person the bottom line with this slide

person the bottom line with this slide

person the bottom line with this slide is that the culture shock that I had the

is that the culture shock that I had the

is that the culture shock that I had the first time I moved away from Finland to

first time I moved away from Finland to

first time I moved away from Finland to Miami

Miami

Miami even if cultural these countries are

even if cultural these countries are

even if cultural these countries are closer by was very high because I I did

closer by was very high because I I did

closer by was very high because I I did it for the first time the next time

it for the first time the next time

it for the first time the next time around and the third time that I

around and the third time that I

around and the third time that I actually moved to Qatar there was

actually moved to Qatar there was

actually moved to Qatar there was basically no culture shock even if

basically no culture shock even if

basically no culture shock even if culturally Finland and Qatar are much

culturally Finland and Qatar are much

culturally Finland and Qatar are much further away then there’s another study

further away then there’s another study

further away then there’s another study called cultural borders and mental

called cultural borders and mental

called cultural borders and mental barriers the relationship between living

barriers the relationship between living

barriers the relationship between living abroad and creativity and what this

abroad and creativity and what this

abroad and creativity and what this study found out is that people who’ve

study found out is that people who’ve

study found out is that people who’ve lived abroad are about to be a lot more

lived abroad are about to be a lot more

lived abroad are about to be a lot more creative and innovative and it’s based

creative and innovative and it’s based

creative and innovative and it’s based on the factor that once we leave our

on the factor that once we leave our

on the factor that once we leave our comfort zone we need to be able to adapt

comfort zone we need to be able to adapt

comfort zone we need to be able to adapt simple as that so once you are pushed

simple as that so once you are pushed

simple as that so once you are pushed out of it there’s no way but to learn

out of it there’s no way but to learn

out of it there’s no way but to learn how to swim if you don’t know how to

how to swim if you don’t know how to

how to swim if you don’t know how to swim until then as an example there are

swim until then as an example there are

swim until then as an example there are universities in Switzerland that tap on

universities in Switzerland that tap on

universities in Switzerland that tap on this creativity factor what they do is

this creativity factor what they do is

this creativity factor what they do is they send out some of their teams

they send out some of their teams

they send out some of their teams anywhere in the world they give them a

anywhere in the world they give them a

anywhere in the world they give them a hundred thousand US dollars and let them

hundred thousand US dollars and let them

hundred thousand US dollars and let them just travel just to explore because they

just travel just to explore because they

just travel just to explore because they know that once these teams come back to

know that once these teams come back to

know that once these teams come back to Switzerland they are bound to start up

Switzerland they are bound to start up

Switzerland they are bound to start up innovation based startups

coming back to my own life so after the

coming back to my own life so after the culmination point the great year in

culmination point the great year in

culmination point the great year in Miami I went back to Finland and things

Miami I went back to Finland and things

Miami I went back to Finland and things were naturally comfortable it’s good to

were naturally comfortable it’s good to

were naturally comfortable it’s good to go back home see your family your

go back home see your family your

go back home see your family your friends just to be there but things get

friends just to be there but things get

friends just to be there but things get very routine like often and that’s what

very routine like often and that’s what

very routine like often and that’s what I experienced so I felt like it’s good

I experienced so I felt like it’s good

I experienced so I felt like it’s good to be home however I had it C feet or I

to be home however I had it C feet or I

to be home however I had it C feet or I hired that fire in the belly and I still

hired that fire in the belly and I still

hired that fire in the belly and I still wanted to explore so what I did I

wanted to explore so what I did I

wanted to explore so what I did I applied for a study place in another in

applied for a study place in another in

applied for a study place in another in a neighboring country called Sweden and

a neighboring country called Sweden and

a neighboring country called Sweden and a university called learned I got

a university called learned I got

a university called learned I got accepted and I moved there however no

accepted and I moved there however no

accepted and I moved there however no matter how beautiful the place or being

matter how beautiful the place or being

matter how beautiful the place or being the best university in Scandinavian

the best university in Scandinavian

the best university in Scandinavian countries I did not have the drive for

countries I did not have the drive for

countries I did not have the drive for the sake of there’s no cultural

the sake of there’s no cultural

the sake of there’s no cultural difference whatsoever because Finland

difference whatsoever because Finland

difference whatsoever because Finland and Sweden are culturally so close by it

and Sweden are culturally so close by it

and Sweden are culturally so close by it didn’t it it did not feed my soul nor my

didn’t it it did not feed my soul nor my

didn’t it it did not feed my soul nor my thirst for learning eventually

thirst for learning eventually

thirst for learning eventually eventually I then went back to actually

eventually I then went back to actually

eventually I then went back to actually Miami and I stayed in Miami for another

Miami and I stayed in Miami for another

Miami and I stayed in Miami for another couple years but even if the first time

couple years but even if the first time

couple years but even if the first time it was so precious the second time

it was so precious the second time

it was so precious the second time around was different I had gone through

around was different I had gone through

around was different I had gone through all those culture shocks those tricks

all those culture shocks those tricks

all those culture shocks those tricks already so it did not feed me either

already so it did not feed me either

already so it did not feed me either eventually I went back to Finland and

eventually I went back to Finland and

eventually I went back to Finland and finished my studies in international

finished my studies in international

finished my studies in international business and entrepreneurship then later

business and entrepreneurship then later

business and entrepreneurship then later on in my career I came here to Qatar

on in my career I came here to Qatar

on in my career I came here to Qatar Doha for a conference I met some people

Doha for a conference I met some people

Doha for a conference I met some people and eventually got an offer from Qatar

and eventually got an offer from Qatar

and eventually got an offer from Qatar University I felt like wow this success

University I felt like wow this success

University I felt like wow this success this is definitely exciting that would

this is definitely exciting that would

this is definitely exciting that would be an experience

be an experience

be an experience also my wife received an offer from

also my wife received an offer from

also my wife received an offer from Qatar University as well

Qatar University as well

Qatar University as well we had steady jobs and comfortable lives

we had steady jobs and comfortable lives

we had steady jobs and comfortable lives back in Finland however we decided to

back in Finland however we decided to

back in Finland however we decided to talk to our employers and they

talk to our employers and they

talk to our employers and they encouraged us to take upon the challenge

encouraged us to take upon the challenge

encouraged us to take upon the challenge and back then jump into the unknown

and back then jump into the unknown

and back then jump into the unknown soon it has been four years here and

soon it has been four years here and

soon it has been four years here and Doha has become another home for us then

Doha has become another home for us then

Doha has become another home for us then seven months ago another big dream of

seven months ago another big dream of

seven months ago another big dream of mine came true

mine came true

mine came true my baby girl Karolina or Carolina was

my baby girl Karolina or Carolina was

my baby girl Karolina or Carolina was born here at the Cuban hospital she is

born here at the Cuban hospital she is

born here at the Cuban hospital she is the apple of my eye and already one of

the apple of my eye and already one of

the apple of my eye and already one of those big accomplishments of my life

those big accomplishments of my life

those big accomplishments of my life [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] my message here is through my personal

my message here is through my personal

my message here is through my personal experiences is for you to dream big

experiences is for you to dream big

experiences is for you to dream big don’t ever let anyone tell you that you

don’t ever let anyone tell you that you

don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t do something my initial dream was

can’t do something my initial dream was

can’t do something my initial dream was to become an ambassador even if I never

to become an ambassador even if I never

to become an ambassador even if I never became one I feel that that dream that I

became one I feel that that dream that I

became one I feel that that dream that I had made me leave the comfort zone that

had made me leave the comfort zone that

had made me leave the comfort zone that I was in it gave me courage to move

I was in it gave me courage to move

I was in it gave me courage to move forward and eventually I did become an

forward and eventually I did become an

forward and eventually I did become an ambassador even if in the area of

ambassador even if in the area of

ambassador even if in the area of business

business

business thus I feel I become more innovative a

thus I feel I become more innovative a

thus I feel I become more innovative a more creative and more entrepreneurial

more creative and more entrepreneurial

more creative and more entrepreneurial thanks to this whole ride that I’ve

thanks to this whole ride that I’ve

thanks to this whole ride that I’ve taken so I have leveraged the ripple

taken so I have leveraged the ripple

taken so I have leveraged the ripple effects please do go global if you have

effects please do go global if you have

effects please do go global if you have a possibility with your family or

a possibility with your family or

a possibility with your family or without your family for the sake of is

without your family for the sake of is

without your family for the sake of is the starting point of this old track

the starting point of this old track

the starting point of this old track that we talked about being creative

that we talked about being creative

that we talked about being creative being innovative and being

being innovative and being

being innovative and being entrepreneurial through this what you

entrepreneurial through this what you

entrepreneurial through this what you will also be able to understand your

will also be able to understand your

will also be able to understand your yourself better and people around you it

yourself better and people around you it

yourself better and people around you it has been my great privilege to be here

has been my great privilege to be here

has been my great privilege to be here tonight should you have any further

tonight should you have any further

tonight should you have any further questions feel free to contact me thank

questions feel free to contact me thank

questions feel free to contact me thank you very much

you very much

you very much [Applause]

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