The Universal Mature Human | Dr. Nadim Koleilat | TEDxBismarck

thank you very much peace be upon you

thank you very much peace be upon you all in the journey of life every

all in the journey of life every

all in the journey of life every individual experiences be it positive or

individual experiences be it positive or

individual experiences be it positive or negative shape the views and form the

negative shape the views and form the

negative shape the views and form the personality in general every person is a

personality in general every person is a

personality in general every person is a prisoner of his own culture and to break

prisoner of his own culture and to break

prisoner of his own culture and to break through it takes well effort energy and

through it takes well effort energy and

through it takes well effort energy and struggle to pollinate and get pollen

struggle to pollinate and get pollen

struggle to pollinate and get pollen eyes but that will forge a strong

eyes but that will forge a strong

eyes but that will forge a strong Alliance toward achieving a mature

Alliance toward achieving a mature

Alliance toward achieving a mature universal human culture well I have to

universal human culture well I have to

universal human culture well I have to start somewhere so there is nothing

start somewhere so there is nothing

start somewhere so there is nothing better than the motto of paw patrol no

better than the motto of paw patrol no

better than the motto of paw patrol no job is too big no pup is too small like

job is too big no pup is too small like

job is too big no pup is too small like any person who goes through life you go

any person who goes through life you go

any person who goes through life you go through different phases wandering

through different phases wandering

through different phases wandering facing realities realizing your process

facing realities realizing your process

facing realities realizing your process and evaluating your outcome to me

and evaluating your outcome to me

and evaluating your outcome to me looking through humanity throughout

looking through humanity throughout

looking through humanity throughout times people’s obsession with investment

times people’s obsession with investment

times people’s obsession with investment in money fame and glory has been

in money fame and glory has been

in money fame and glory has been limitless if we look at the pyramids we

limitless if we look at the pyramids we

limitless if we look at the pyramids we look at them with awe we look at the

look at them with awe we look at the

look at them with awe we look at the structure it’s one of the wonders of the

structure it’s one of the wonders of the

structure it’s one of the wonders of the world we look at the structure the

world we look at the structure the

world we look at the structure the geometry the way they were built the

geometry the way they were built the

geometry the way they were built the accomplishments of the Pharaohs but we

accomplishments of the Pharaohs but we

accomplishments of the Pharaohs but we turn a blind eye to the slaves to

turn a blind eye to the slaves to

turn a blind eye to the slaves to destitution poverty oppression

destitution poverty oppression

destitution poverty oppression aggression to those who perished under

aggression to those who perished under

aggression to those who perished under the boulders building these pyramids and

the boulders building these pyramids and

the boulders building these pyramids and who should really be given the credit or

who should really be given the credit or

who should really be given the credit or recent history is about moguls boasting

recent history is about moguls boasting

recent history is about moguls boasting about their real estate buildings how

about their real estate buildings how

about their real estate buildings how tall they are but we hear stories about

tall they are but we hear stories about

tall they are but we hear stories about employees being shipped back foreign

employees being shipped back foreign

employees being shipped back foreign workers being shipped back to their

workers being shipped back to their

workers being shipped back to their countries if they get sick

countries if they get sick

countries if they get sick or in body bags if they die on the job

or in body bags if they die on the job

or in body bags if they die on the job it is the veil of limitless and

it is the veil of limitless and

it is the veil of limitless and awareness what has plagued humanity

awareness what has plagued humanity

awareness what has plagued humanity throughout history and times as a

throughout history and times as a

throughout history and times as a culture of arrogance and or ignorance

culture of arrogance and or ignorance

culture of arrogance and or ignorance well I have to do something I have to

well I have to do something I have to

well I have to do something I have to start somewhere how can I improve myself

start somewhere how can I improve myself

start somewhere how can I improve myself and work with others to attain that

and work with others to attain that

and work with others to attain that mature universal human but there is

mature universal human but there is

mature universal human but there is better than there is nothing better than

better than there is nothing better than

better than there is nothing better than reviewing yourself taking time off your

reviewing yourself taking time off your

reviewing yourself taking time off your busy schedule taking time to sit and

busy schedule taking time to sit and

busy schedule taking time to sit and ponder about life your purpose of

ponder about life your purpose of

ponder about life your purpose of existence your reason to be here in this

existence your reason to be here in this

existence your reason to be here in this time it’s not only to fulfill your

time it’s not only to fulfill your

time it’s not only to fulfill your material needs but to raise your

material needs but to raise your

material needs but to raise your awareness and then work and emphasize on

awareness and then work and emphasize on

awareness and then work and emphasize on the qualities of others to achieve that

the qualities of others to achieve that

the qualities of others to achieve that Universal harmony well imagine yourself

Universal harmony well imagine yourself

Universal harmony well imagine yourself in an orchard of fruit trees and fruit

in an orchard of fruit trees and fruit

in an orchard of fruit trees and fruit trees are so generous there should be no

trees are so generous there should be no

trees are so generous there should be no famine in the world if one tree gives

famine in the world if one tree gives

famine in the world if one tree gives you hundreds of fruits so imagine

you hundreds of fruits so imagine

you hundreds of fruits so imagine yourself in an orchard of fruit trees

yourself in an orchard of fruit trees

yourself in an orchard of fruit trees where every fruit represents a quality

where every fruit represents a quality

where every fruit represents a quality of welcome gratitude fellowship comfort

of welcome gratitude fellowship comfort

of welcome gratitude fellowship comfort tranquility where we could contribute by

tranquility where we could contribute by

tranquility where we could contribute by planting one with your own hands water

planting one with your own hands water

planting one with your own hands water it with knowledge care for it till

it with knowledge care for it till

it with knowledge care for it till maturity and reap the fruits and seeds

maturity and reap the fruits and seeds

maturity and reap the fruits and seeds of purity or taking a promenade in a

of purity or taking a promenade in a

of purity or taking a promenade in a garden of flowers where all the

garden of flowers where all the

garden of flowers where all the different colors and aromatic aliy a

different colors and aromatic aliy a

different colors and aromatic aliy a sense of transcendence in toward a level

sense of transcendence in toward a level

sense of transcendence in toward a level of selflessness and melting and molding

of selflessness and melting and molding

of selflessness and melting and molding of the soul but what’s better than

of the soul but what’s better than

of the soul but what’s better than witnessing an Universal festival these

witnessing an Universal festival these

witnessing an Universal festival these are not stars in a galaxy rotating on a

are not stars in a galaxy rotating on a

are not stars in a galaxy rotating on a trajectory these are people from all

trajectory these are people from all

trajectory these are people from all walks of life see waves of humans men

walks of life see waves of humans men

walks of life see waves of humans men and women shoulder to shoulder in humble

and women shoulder to shoulder in humble

and women shoulder to shoulder in humble dress moving in one direction toward

dress moving in one direction toward

dress moving in one direction toward universal harmony do not hurt a plant an

universal harmony do not hurt a plant an

universal harmony do not hurt a plant an animal or a fellow human so

animal or a fellow human so

animal or a fellow human so I realized that my stock is the human

I realized that my stock is the human

I realized that my stock is the human being which I hold to maturity and my

being which I hold to maturity and my

being which I hold to maturity and my return on investment is an immersion in

return on investment is an immersion in

return on investment is an immersion in limitless understanding of ideas and

limitless understanding of ideas and

limitless understanding of ideas and cultures or cross-fertilization but

cultures or cross-fertilization but

cultures or cross-fertilization but there are realities in life some of them

there are realities in life some of them

there are realities in life some of them may be harsh painful others are bright

may be harsh painful others are bright

may be harsh painful others are bright and every person goes through the

and every person goes through the

and every person goes through the realities I remember when I was a

realities I remember when I was a

realities I remember when I was a resident training long time ago

resident training long time ago

resident training long time ago the patient was a case was a number we

the patient was a case was a number we

the patient was a case was a number we used to be happy because we used to

used to be happy because we used to

used to be happy because we used to operate right down the case fill up your

operate right down the case fill up your

operate right down the case fill up your cards meet you kotas ramp up your

cards meet you kotas ramp up your

cards meet you kotas ramp up your numbers but that created a limitless

numbers but that created a limitless

numbers but that created a limitless numbness towards behind-the-scene or the

numbness towards behind-the-scene or the

numbness towards behind-the-scene or the other side of the fence of suffering

other side of the fence of suffering

other side of the fence of suffering fear doubt insecurity and I even

fear doubt insecurity and I even

fear doubt insecurity and I even experienced that myself when my wife was

experienced that myself when my wife was

experienced that myself when my wife was pregnant with our third child we were

pregnant with our third child we were

pregnant with our third child we were told and we realized later that that was

told and we realized later that that was

told and we realized later that that was wrong because of ultrasound

wrong because of ultrasound

wrong because of ultrasound miscalculations that she has done

miscalculations that she has done

miscalculations that she has done undergo amniocentesis or study of the

undergo amniocentesis or study of the

undergo amniocentesis or study of the genetics of the fluid it took 40 days at

genetics of the fluid it took 40 days at

genetics of the fluid it took 40 days at that time of fear and insecurity and we

that time of fear and insecurity and we

that time of fear and insecurity and we do know what’s going to happen

do know what’s going to happen

do know what’s going to happen some people are pushing to abort abort

some people are pushing to abort abort

some people are pushing to abort abort what the only thing we can now board is

what the only thing we can now board is

what the only thing we can now board is that idea of aborting 40 days till we

that idea of aborting 40 days till we

that idea of aborting 40 days till we got the glad tidings of a beautiful baby

got the glad tidings of a beautiful baby

got the glad tidings of a beautiful baby girl and what makes things worse is the

girl and what makes things worse is the

girl and what makes things worse is the specialized jargon every specialty job

specialized jargon every specialty job

specialized jargon every specialty job trade etc use to give big names to small

trade etc use to give big names to small

trade etc use to give big names to small things diseases symptoms etc and this is

things diseases symptoms etc and this is

things diseases symptoms etc and this is widespread

widespread

widespread it seems very current familiarity with

it seems very current familiarity with

it seems very current familiarity with the scene creates or entails a limitless

the scene creates or entails a limitless

the scene creates or entails a limitless numbness to a situation and reminds me

numbness to a situation and reminds me

numbness to a situation and reminds me of the cartoon where the character

of the cartoon where the character

of the cartoon where the character sweeps the dirt under the rug out of

sweeps the dirt under the rug out of

sweeps the dirt under the rug out of mind out of sight and it becomes a

mind out of sight and it becomes a

mind out of sight and it becomes a familiar scene what you don’t see does

familiar scene what you don’t see does

familiar scene what you don’t see does not exist but there’s a bright side to

not exist but there’s a bright side to

not exist but there’s a bright side to the story do not belittle any action one

the story do not belittle any action one

the story do not belittle any action one small unseen unadvertised action

small unseen unadvertised action

small unseen unadvertised action has limitless power the person who comes

has limitless power the person who comes

has limitless power the person who comes forward to donate an organ to a person

forward to donate an organ to a person

forward to donate an organ to a person he never met or never seen the mother of

he never met or never seen the mother of

he never met or never seen the mother of a child with special needs

a child with special needs

a child with special needs caring cherishing feeding the son or a

caring cherishing feeding the son or a

caring cherishing feeding the son or a daughter to take time off from another

daughter to take time off from another

daughter to take time off from another of work from another state and come to

of work from another state and come to

of work from another state and come to care for an elder the smiles on the

care for an elder the smiles on the

care for an elder the smiles on the faces of a family receiving positive

faces of a family receiving positive

faces of a family receiving positive outcome or the sorrow in the hearts of

outcome or the sorrow in the hearts of

outcome or the sorrow in the hearts of friends gaining failing news and I even

friends gaining failing news and I even

friends gaining failing news and I even learned from children before being

learned from children before being

learned from children before being extent by societal prejudice when my

extent by societal prejudice when my

extent by societal prejudice when my daughter was in sixth grade she decided

daughter was in sixth grade she decided

daughter was in sixth grade she decided to wear the hijab or the headdress for

to wear the hijab or the headdress for

to wear the hijab or the headdress for women in Islam my wife was worried about

women in Islam my wife was worried about

women in Islam my wife was worried about repercussions so as usual she took her

repercussions so as usual she took her

repercussions so as usual she took her to school the first day and once my

to school the first day and once my

to school the first day and once my daughter hit the grounds of the school

daughter hit the grounds of the school

daughter hit the grounds of the school of friends called for her Allah let’s go

of friends called for her Allah let’s go

of friends called for her Allah let’s go and play they didn’t even notice her

and play they didn’t even notice her

and play they didn’t even notice her appearance they looked into her heart so

appearance they looked into her heart so

appearance they looked into her heart so I realized that I have one mouth and two

I realized that I have one mouth and two

I realized that I have one mouth and two ears so I could listen more than I speak

ears so I could listen more than I speak

ears so I could listen more than I speak that I’m better than nobody else but we

that I’m better than nobody else but we

that I’m better than nobody else but we strive for perfection and excellence and

strive for perfection and excellence and

strive for perfection and excellence and I remembered what la Fontaine who’s a

I remembered what la Fontaine who’s a

I remembered what la Fontaine who’s a French fabulist of the 17th century

French fabulist of the 17th century

French fabulist of the 17th century Inari I recommend people to read his

Inari I recommend people to read his

Inari I recommend people to read his fables that he said the human being is

fables that he said the human being is

fables that he said the human being is born with two pouches one he carries in

born with two pouches one he carries in

born with two pouches one he carries in the front his qualities and one he

the front his qualities and one he

the front his qualities and one he carries on his back his shortcomings so

carries on his back his shortcomings so

carries on his back his shortcomings so he sees his qualities and the

he sees his qualities and the

he sees his qualities and the shortcomings of others so I decided to

shortcomings of others so I decided to

shortcomings of others so I decided to follow the rule of three work on my

follow the rule of three work on my

follow the rule of three work on my shortcomings and how many there are

shortcomings and how many there are

shortcomings and how many there are focus on my duties not just run after my

focus on my duties not just run after my

focus on my duties not just run after my rights and appreciate the qualities of

rights and appreciate the qualities of

rights and appreciate the qualities of other so we could build value over time

other so we could build value over time

other so we could build value over time through engagement and perseverance the

through engagement and perseverance the

through engagement and perseverance the arrow keeps on going up we could have

arrow keeps on going up we could have

arrow keeps on going up we could have setbacks that’s normal but the arrow

setbacks that’s normal but the arrow

setbacks that’s normal but the arrow keeps on going up raising the bar high

keeps on going up raising the bar high

keeps on going up raising the bar high not toward the job a degree or authority

not toward the job a degree or authority

not toward the job a degree or authority but toward a limitless

but toward a limitless

but toward a limitless divot II to feelings hopes fears and

divot II to feelings hopes fears and

divot II to feelings hopes fears and needs if you get into an elevator and go

needs if you get into an elevator and go

needs if you get into an elevator and go up to the rooftop or the top floor sent

up to the rooftop or the top floor sent

up to the rooftop or the top floor sent it down or go down and bring people up

it down or go down and bring people up

it down or go down and bring people up with you but words without actions are

with you but words without actions are

with you but words without actions are like a hollow structure where sounds and

like a hollow structure where sounds and

like a hollow structure where sounds and echoes are emanated with no meanings

echoes are emanated with no meanings

echoes are emanated with no meanings some people are like a mirror the only

some people are like a mirror the only

some people are like a mirror the only thing they see is themselves and light

thing they see is themselves and light

thing they see is themselves and light is reflected others are like a rock

is reflected others are like a rock

is reflected others are like a rock light is absorbed but the energy is kept

light is absorbed but the energy is kept

light is absorbed but the energy is kept and preserved I would like to be like a

and preserved I would like to be like a

and preserved I would like to be like a prism where light is refracted and

prism where light is refracted and

prism where light is refracted and transmits a spectrum of colors

transmits a spectrum of colors

transmits a spectrum of colors encompassing a limitless rainbow effect

encompassing a limitless rainbow effect

encompassing a limitless rainbow effect of mature human qualities but nothing is

of mature human qualities but nothing is

of mature human qualities but nothing is that is without evaluation all of us get

that is without evaluation all of us get

that is without evaluation all of us get job evaluation job performance

job evaluation job performance

job evaluation job performance evaluation at the end of the year but

evaluation at the end of the year but

evaluation at the end of the year but this is an accountability and job

this is an accountability and job

this is an accountability and job performance evaluation in the field of

performance evaluation in the field of

performance evaluation in the field of life is today better than yesterday

life is today better than yesterday

life is today better than yesterday would tomorrow be better than today what

would tomorrow be better than today what

would tomorrow be better than today what did I achieve what did I accomplish how

did I achieve what did I accomplish how

did I achieve what did I accomplish how can I do more for that melting and

can I do more for that melting and

can I do more for that melting and molding of the soul so at how it propose

molding of the soul so at how it propose

molding of the soul so at how it propose is the universal human wheel where you

is the universal human wheel where you

is the universal human wheel where you are at the helm of the wheel where the

are at the helm of the wheel where the

are at the helm of the wheel where the bases are set in engagement empathy

bases are set in engagement empathy

bases are set in engagement empathy evaluation and enactment where you could

evaluation and enactment where you could

evaluation and enactment where you could install vectors both toward the center

install vectors both toward the center

install vectors both toward the center with a centripetal force where maturity

with a centripetal force where maturity

with a centripetal force where maturity resides to unleash limitless potential

resides to unleash limitless potential

resides to unleash limitless potential and as Buzz Lightyear said in Toy Story

and as Buzz Lightyear said in Toy Story

and as Buzz Lightyear said in Toy Story to infinity and beyond thank you very

to infinity and beyond thank you very

to infinity and beyond thank you very much

much

much [Applause]

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