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The Support of a Single Mother | Rebecca Simeon | TEDxERMurrowHigh


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[Applause] hi guys um so I hope everyone can hear

hi guys um so I hope everyone can hear

hi guys um so I hope everyone can hear me and I hope everybody’s having a good

me and I hope everybody’s having a good

me and I hope everybody’s having a good time and I share my story with you

time and I share my story with you

time and I share my story with you experiences in my life

experiences in my life

experiences in my life have constantly changed Who I am and my

have constantly changed Who I am and my

have constantly changed Who I am and my views my roles and my opinions how I see

views my roles and my opinions how I see

views my roles and my opinions how I see myself in the world is ever-changing

myself in the world is ever-changing

myself in the world is ever-changing my family my friends and even characters

my family my friends and even characters

my family my friends and even characters in my favorite books continue to shape

in my favorite books continue to shape

in my favorite books continue to shape who I am and who I want to be during my

who I am and who I want to be during my

who I am and who I want to be during my childhood there was an apart there was a

childhood there was an apart there was a

childhood there was an apart there was a fill of fire in my apartment building

fill of fire in my apartment building

fill of fire in my apartment building however no one was severely injured but

however no one was severely injured but

however no one was severely injured but many people were displaced me and my

many people were displaced me and my

many people were displaced me and my sister and I and my mother of three of

sister and I and my mother of three of

sister and I and my mother of three of them even though the fire happened very

them even though the fire happened very

them even though the fire happened very unexpectedly we had no place to go so we

unexpectedly we had no place to go so we

unexpectedly we had no place to go so we were forced to move into a shelter we

were forced to move into a shelter we

were forced to move into a shelter we lived in that shelter for over a year

lived in that shelter for over a year

lived in that shelter for over a year where our living room our bedroom in our

where our living room our bedroom in our

where our living room our bedroom in our kitchen was one small room I often

kitchen was one small room I often

kitchen was one small room I often remember and think back to that time

remember and think back to that time

remember and think back to that time where I wondered how Santa came to us

where I wondered how Santa came to us

where I wondered how Santa came to us even though we had no chimney and I

even though we had no chimney and I

even though we had no chimney and I wondered how we could possibly be in

wondered how we could possibly be in

wondered how we could possibly be in this situation but still feel so much

this situation but still feel so much

this situation but still feel so much love in the air because we were

love in the air because we were

love in the air because we were constantly supporting each other we

constantly supporting each other we

constantly supporting each other we lived in this shelter for over a year

lived in this shelter for over a year

lived in this shelter for over a year however we had to move out but we still

however we had to move out but we still

however we had to move out but we still had no place to go

had no place to go

had no place to go we lived with multiple family members

we lived with multiple family members

we lived with multiple family members which I am forever grateful for yet we

which I am forever grateful for yet we

which I am forever grateful for yet we never really had our home our own home

never really had our home our own home

never really had our home our own home um and at the beginning of my freshman

um and at the beginning of my freshman

um and at the beginning of my freshman year we moved into another room

year we moved into another room

year we moved into another room basically where my mom and my sister

basically where my mom and my sister

basically where my mom and my sister shared their bed together and I had my

shared their bed together and I had my

shared their bed together and I had my own separate small twin bed and it was

own separate small twin bed and it was

own separate small twin bed and it was often kind of strange because

often kind of strange because

often kind of strange because considering how tall I am my legs would

considering how tall I am my legs would

considering how tall I am my legs would hang off the bed and it was very

hang off the bed and it was very

hang off the bed and it was very difficult because when my mom came home

difficult because when my mom came home

difficult because when my mom came home with groceries we’d have to pack them

with groceries we’d have to pack them

with groceries we’d have to pack them away in our mini fridge and that um pots

away in our mini fridge and that um pots

away in our mini fridge and that um pots and pans

and pans

and pans were covered under a large fold-out

were covered under a large fold-out

were covered under a large fold-out table where I often did my homework and

table where I often did my homework and

table where I often did my homework and my mom packed her own lunches for the

my mom packed her own lunches for the

my mom packed her own lunches for the next day living there was very tough

next day living there was very tough

next day living there was very tough because I never had any alone time

because I never had any alone time

because I never had any alone time I found myself getting frustrated with

I found myself getting frustrated with

I found myself getting frustrated with how many people were living with us

how many people were living with us

how many people were living with us because we lived with five other people

because we lived with five other people

because we lived with five other people considering how we only had a one room

considering how we only had a one room

considering how we only had a one room and I never felt I never complained

and I never felt I never complained

and I never felt I never complained though because I saw the struggle and I

though because I saw the struggle and I

though because I saw the struggle and I saw I saw how hard it was for my mother

saw I saw how hard it was for my mother

saw I saw how hard it was for my mother to live here and have have me my sister

to live here and have have me my sister

to live here and have have me my sister live here and I did I tried try very

live here and I did I tried try very

live here and I did I tried try very hard not to complain but often if me and

hard not to complain but often if me and

hard not to complain but often if me and my sister fought I couldn’t just storm

my sister fought I couldn’t just storm

my sister fought I couldn’t just storm out and leave the room because this room

out and leave the room because this room

out and leave the room because this room was our room this is where we lived and

was our room this is where we lived and

was our room this is where we lived and grieved and shared our space constantly

grieved and shared our space constantly

grieved and shared our space constantly and we just had to accept it that this

and we just had to accept it that this

and we just had to accept it that this was our life however in my junior year

was our life however in my junior year

was our life however in my junior year we moved into our own co-op and my mom

we moved into our own co-op and my mom

we moved into our own co-op and my mom bought it all by herself and she now

bought it all by herself and she now

bought it all by herself and she now owns that co-op and it’s two bedrooms in

owns that co-op and it’s two bedrooms in

owns that co-op and it’s two bedrooms in our big living room and big kitchen and

our big living room and big kitchen and

our big living room and big kitchen and I love that room and I love my room and

I love that room and I love my room and

I love that room and I love my room and I love my mom’s room I loved everything

I love my mom’s room I loved everything

I love my mom’s room I loved everything about it and I’m just very proud of my

about it and I’m just very proud of my

about it and I’m just very proud of my my own mother she continued to fight for

my own mother she continued to fight for

my own mother she continued to fight for us even though there’s many people who

us even though there’s many people who

us even though there’s many people who don’t have mothers who will fight for

don’t have mothers who will fight for

don’t have mothers who will fight for them and I’m so proud of her and I just

them and I’m so proud of her and I just

them and I’m so proud of her and I just I never had to ask for anything because

I never had to ask for anything because

I never had to ask for anything because she always gave us enough she always she

she always gave us enough she always she

she always gave us enough she always she woke up and that was just enough for me

woke up and that was just enough for me

woke up and that was just enough for me her being there her me going to my mom

her being there her me going to my mom

her being there her me going to my mom that was always enough and that’s why I

that was always enough and that’s why I

that was always enough and that’s why I want to become a social worker social

want to become a social worker social

want to become a social worker social workers are equipped with the right

workers are equipped with the right

workers are equipped with the right tools to help people in situations that

tools to help people in situations that

tools to help people in situations that I was in and make sure that they can

I was in and make sure that they can

I was in and make sure that they can improve their lives on their own they

improve their lives on their own they

improve their lives on their own they are able to build honest and reliable

are able to build honest and reliable

are able to build honest and reliable ation ship reliable relationships with

ation ship reliable relationships with

ation ship reliable relationships with their patients and clients and make sure

their patients and clients and make sure

their patients and clients and make sure that they can improve their lives

social workers resolve challenges in

social workers resolve challenges in creative ways and make sure that people

creative ways and make sure that people

creative ways and make sure that people in vulnerable situations take action to

in vulnerable situations take action to

in vulnerable situations take action to improve their lives often there are no

improve their lives often there are no

improve their lives often there are no clear answers but social workers assist

clear answers but social workers assist

clear answers but social workers assist people in need and make sure that they

people in need and make sure that they

people in need and make sure that they have someone willing to fight for them

have someone willing to fight for them

have someone willing to fight for them make their voices heard and advocate for

make their voices heard and advocate for

make their voices heard and advocate for change

change

change no two cases are ever the same which

no two cases are ever the same which

no two cases are ever the same which means social workers must constantly

means social workers must constantly

means social workers must constantly solve problems and use their skills and

solve problems and use their skills and

solve problems and use their skills and experiences to help people in innovative

experiences to help people in innovative

experiences to help people in innovative ways I would like to become a social

ways I would like to become a social

ways I would like to become a social worker because I never want to see

worker because I never want to see

worker because I never want to see someone in the situation that I was in

someone in the situation that I was in

someone in the situation that I was in and even if they are I want to make sure

and even if they are I want to make sure

and even if they are I want to make sure that they never feel ashamed to talk

that they never feel ashamed to talk

that they never feel ashamed to talk about it and that they have the proper

about it and that they have the proper

about it and that they have the proper tools to save their own life with the

tools to save their own life with the

tools to save their own life with the help of mine it’s not just me helping

help of mine it’s not just me helping

help of mine it’s not just me helping other people it’s these people helping

other people it’s these people helping

other people it’s these people helping themselves and helping the people around

themselves and helping the people around

themselves and helping the people around them it’s a circle of support social

them it’s a circle of support social

them it’s a circle of support social group is make sure that people never

group is make sure that people never

group is make sure that people never feel alone that they have the support

feel alone that they have the support

feel alone that they have the support they need and the structure and their

they need and the structure and their

they need and the structure and their make the structure within this person’s

make the structure within this person’s

make the structure within this person’s life to change their life because no one

life to change their life because no one

life to change their life because no one should ever feel ashamed or no one

should ever feel ashamed or no one

should ever feel ashamed or no one should ever feel as if they have to stay

should ever feel as if they have to stay

should ever feel as if they have to stay silent about their own internal struggle

silent about their own internal struggle

silent about their own internal struggle because everyone is going through their

because everyone is going through their

because everyone is going through their own unique struggle and on this planet

own unique struggle and on this planet

own unique struggle and on this planet Earth we have to make sure that we’re

Earth we have to make sure that we’re

Earth we have to make sure that we’re helping everyone in any possible way

helping everyone in any possible way

helping everyone in any possible way because people tend to forget that this

because people tend to forget that this

because people tend to forget that this world you can’t survive on your own you

world you can’t survive on your own you

world you can’t survive on your own you always always need a helping hand

always always need a helping hand

always always need a helping hand whether it’s from your mother or from

whether it’s from your mother or from

whether it’s from your mother or from the person you sit next to in your own

the person you sit next to in your own

the person you sit next to in your own art class you always need someone to

art class you always need someone to

art class you always need someone to help you and social workers are the

help you and social workers are the

help you and social workers are the first step

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