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The Stigma of Mental Illness | Sam Cohen | TEDxYouth@SRDS


you would never say to someone with a

you would never say to someone with a broken bone – just ignore their pain

broken bone – just ignore their pain

broken bone – just ignore their pain that’ll just pass one day you would

that’ll just pass one day you would

that’ll just pass one day you would never say about someone who has cancer

never say about someone who has cancer

never say about someone who has cancer that they’re just faking it it’s just

that they’re just faking it it’s just

that they’re just faking it it’s just all for attention you would never say to

all for attention you would never say to

all for attention you would never say to someone in a wheelchair just stand up

someone in a wheelchair just stand up

someone in a wheelchair just stand up it’s all in your head you would

it’s all in your head you would

it’s all in your head you would obviously never say that and any of

obviously never say that and any of

obviously never say that and any of these kinds of people because they

these kinds of people because they

these kinds of people because they didn’t ask for it in their life it’s not

didn’t ask for it in their life it’s not

didn’t ask for it in their life it’s not like they chose to put in their life

like they chose to put in their life

like they chose to put in their life should be the same for any other

should be the same for any other

should be the same for any other sickness or disability no one asks to

sickness or disability no one asks to

sickness or disability no one asks to put this into their life so they can’t

put this into their life so they can’t

put this into their life so they can’t just snap out of it unfortunately many

just snap out of it unfortunately many

just snap out of it unfortunately many people with mental illness companies

people with mental illness companies

people with mental illness companies hold at least once in their life just

hold at least once in their life just

hold at least once in their life just snap out of it trust me if I could snap

snap out of it trust me if I could snap

snap out of it trust me if I could snap out of my anxiety and my depression I

out of my anxiety and my depression I

out of my anxiety and my depression I would have done it long before anybody

would have done it long before anybody

would have done it long before anybody had to tell me my illness isn’t

had to tell me my illness isn’t

had to tell me my illness isn’t physically visible to you you can’t look

physically visible to you you can’t look

physically visible to you you can’t look at me and tell that I’ve been diagnosed

at me and tell that I’ve been diagnosed

at me and tell that I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety and depression I mean you

with anxiety and depression I mean you

with anxiety and depression I mean you can’t really tell anyone who’s mentally

can’t really tell anyone who’s mentally

can’t really tell anyone who’s mentally sick and that’s why it’s kind of doubted

sick and that’s why it’s kind of doubted

sick and that’s why it’s kind of doubted in our society because you just can’t

in our society because you just can’t

in our society because you just can’t see it the only people who can feel it

see it the only people who can feel it

see it the only people who can feel it are the people who have it they can feel

are the people who have it they can feel

are the people who have it they can feel the battle inside them I try not to

the battle inside them I try not to

the battle inside them I try not to blame myself for my anxiety and

blame myself for my anxiety and

blame myself for my anxiety and depression I mean as I said before I

depression I mean as I said before I

depression I mean as I said before I didn’t put it in my life I didn’t ask

didn’t put it in my life I didn’t ask

didn’t put it in my life I didn’t ask for it it’s just a result of the neurons

for it it’s just a result of the neurons

for it it’s just a result of the neurons in my brain working kind of abnormally

in my brain working kind of abnormally

in my brain working kind of abnormally many people have it because of a

many people have it because of a

many people have it because of a childhood trauma or just it runs through

childhood trauma or just it runs through

childhood trauma or just it runs through genetics he runs to my family a family

genetics he runs to my family a family

genetics he runs to my family a family member of mine has also been diagnosed

member of mine has also been diagnosed

member of mine has also been diagnosed with anxiety and depression she also had

with anxiety and depression she also had

with anxiety and depression she also had postpartum depression after having her

postpartum depression after having her

postpartum depression after having her children she was fine for a little bit

children she was fine for a little bit

children she was fine for a little bit but almost 10 years after having her

but almost 10 years after having her

but almost 10 years after having her last child she admitted herself into a

last child she admitted herself into a

last child she admitted herself into a mental hospital for suicidal thoughts

mental hospital for suicidal thoughts

mental hospital for suicidal thoughts she made to be on correct decision to go

she made to be on correct decision to go

she made to be on correct decision to go get help I hope when I say mental

get help I hope when I say mental

get help I hope when I say mental hospital you don’t picture this because

hospital you don’t picture this because

hospital you don’t picture this because in movies and stuff it looks more like a

in movies and stuff it looks more like a

in movies and stuff it looks more like a jail like a torture chamber where

jail like a torture chamber where

jail like a torture chamber where patients look more like prisoners even

patients look more like prisoners even

patients look more like prisoners even when I was looking up pictures for my

when I was looking up pictures for my

when I was looking up pictures for my slides I could barely find a picture of

slides I could barely find a picture of

slides I could barely find a picture of what a mental hospital actually looks

what a mental hospital actually looks

what a mental hospital actually looks like and it doesn’t look much different

like and it doesn’t look much different

like and it doesn’t look much different then

then

then and any other Hospital it’s light and

and any other Hospital it’s light and

and any other Hospital it’s light and bright and a lot of patients really do

bright and a lot of patients really do

bright and a lot of patients really do you get better my family member she

you get better my family member she

you get better my family member she would send her it’s coloring pages she

would send her it’s coloring pages she

would send her it’s coloring pages she would call us and tell us how much

would call us and tell us how much

would call us and tell us how much better she was doing now that she had

better she was doing now that she had

better she was doing now that she had full-on access to a therapist it’s been

full-on access to a therapist it’s been

full-on access to a therapist it’s been almost a year and a half since she’s

almost a year and a half since she’s

almost a year and a half since she’s been released from the hospital and

been released from the hospital and

been released from the hospital and she’s doing better she owns her own

she’s doing better she owns her own

she’s doing better she owns her own business for a while she is doing great

business for a while she is doing great

business for a while she is doing great and a new job and she’s a family that

and a new job and she’s a family that

and a new job and she’s a family that loves and cares for her she is one of

loves and cares for her she is one of

loves and cares for her she is one of the greatest people I know she’s strong

the greatest people I know she’s strong

the greatest people I know she’s strong and I look up to her every single day my

and I look up to her every single day my

and I look up to her every single day my relative was lucky to get the treatment

relative was lucky to get the treatment

relative was lucky to get the treatment that she got in our society our society

that she got in our society our society

that she got in our society our society is very judgmental when it comes to

is very judgmental when it comes to

is very judgmental when it comes to mentally sick Society tends to ostracize

mentally sick Society tends to ostracize

mentally sick Society tends to ostracize those who say that they’re sick by

those who say that they’re sick by

those who say that they’re sick by calling them just crazy or overreacting

calling them just crazy or overreacting

calling them just crazy or overreacting so that makes people who are sick tend

so that makes people who are sick tend

so that makes people who are sick tend to want to hide themselves I’ve always

to want to hide themselves I’ve always

to want to hide themselves I’ve always stayed quiet and so was everyone else’s

stayed quiet and so was everyone else’s

stayed quiet and so was everyone else’s my family but I don’t want to be quiet

my family but I don’t want to be quiet

my family but I don’t want to be quiet about my illness anymore I shouldn’t be

about my illness anymore I shouldn’t be

about my illness anymore I shouldn’t be afraid to tell Who I am

afraid to tell Who I am

afraid to tell Who I am so as I said before I’ve got anxiety and

so as I said before I’ve got anxiety and

so as I said before I’ve got anxiety and depression I was diagnosed with anxiety

depression I was diagnosed with anxiety

depression I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was in third grade I would kind

when I was in third grade I would kind

when I was in third grade I would kind of just cry like all the time for no

of just cry like all the time for no

of just cry like all the time for no reason or at least no reason that seemed

reason or at least no reason that seemed

reason or at least no reason that seemed rational so I spend a lot of hours in

rational so I spend a lot of hours in

rational so I spend a lot of hours in the guidance counselor and then I

the guidance counselor and then I

the guidance counselor and then I finally went to therapy and it’s been

finally went to therapy and it’s been

finally went to therapy and it’s been great I love therapy I mean who doesn’t

great I love therapy I mean who doesn’t

great I love therapy I mean who doesn’t want to sit in a room for an hour to

want to sit in a room for an hour to

want to sit in a room for an hour to someone who has to listen to you talk

someone who has to listen to you talk

someone who has to listen to you talk it’s helped me so much I mean therapy

it’s helped me so much I mean therapy

it’s helped me so much I mean therapy hasn’t really gotten rid of my

hasn’t really gotten rid of my

hasn’t really gotten rid of my depression in exactly but more taught me

depression in exactly but more taught me

depression in exactly but more taught me how to beat it how to cope with it for

how to beat it how to cope with it for

how to beat it how to cope with it for example in my late middle school years

example in my late middle school years

example in my late middle school years and my early years as a freshman in high

and my early years as a freshman in high

and my early years as a freshman in high school I have a lot of depression I was

school I have a lot of depression I was

school I have a lot of depression I was kind of just not really sad but more

kind of just not really sad but more

kind of just not really sad but more felt nothing felt worthless and I kept

felt nothing felt worthless and I kept

felt nothing felt worthless and I kept going to therapy therapy and my

going to therapy therapy and my

going to therapy therapy and my therapist taught me you can deal with it

therapist taught me you can deal with it

therapist taught me you can deal with it your mental illness is just an

your mental illness is just an

your mental illness is just an old-fashioned supervillain and your

old-fashioned supervillain and your

old-fashioned supervillain and your superhero you can beat it to the ground

superhero you can beat it to the ground

superhero you can beat it to the ground so that’s how therapy have helped me

so that’s how therapy have helped me

so that’s how therapy have helped me unfortunately society hasn’t just Ignat

unfortunately society hasn’t just Ignat

unfortunately society hasn’t just Ignat I

I

I therapy but it’s also stigmatized mental

therapy but it’s also stigmatized mental

therapy but it’s also stigmatized mental illness it’s so common to hear people

illness it’s so common to hear people

illness it’s so common to hear people say wow I’m so CD because that thing

say wow I’m so CD because that thing

say wow I’m so CD because that thing just like isn’t lined up properly or wow

just like isn’t lined up properly or wow

just like isn’t lined up properly or wow like that’s so retarded people shouldn’t

like that’s so retarded people shouldn’t

like that’s so retarded people shouldn’t be saying these if you’ve never had

be saying these if you’ve never had

be saying these if you’ve never had anxiety you don’t know what it feels

anxiety you don’t know what it feels

anxiety you don’t know what it feels like the house the entire world crashing

like the house the entire world crashing

like the house the entire world crashing around you for basically nothing if

around you for basically nothing if

around you for basically nothing if you’ve never had depression you don’t

you’ve never had depression you don’t

you’ve never had depression you don’t know what it feels like to feel

know what it feels like to feel

know what it feels like to feel worthless so don’t make a joke about it

worthless so don’t make a joke about it

worthless so don’t make a joke about it in a world for 1 in 5 adults have a

in a world for 1 in 5 adults have a

in a world for 1 in 5 adults have a mental illness don’t say how depressed

mental illness don’t say how depressed

mental illness don’t say how depressed you are because your favorite TV show

you are because your favorite TV show

you are because your favorite TV show ends in and don’t say you’re going to

ends in and don’t say you’re going to

ends in and don’t say you’re going to kill yourself and make tapes because

kill yourself and make tapes because

kill yourself and make tapes because your Starbucks barista didn’t get your

your Starbucks barista didn’t get your

your Starbucks barista didn’t get your order correctly it’s not appropriate to

order correctly it’s not appropriate to

order correctly it’s not appropriate to take these anymore

Ted is all about ideas we’re share

Ted is all about ideas we’re share sharing any idea I want to share with

sharing any idea I want to share with

sharing any idea I want to share with you all today is be nicer to people I

you all today is be nicer to people I

you all today is be nicer to people I mean it seems like such a basic message

mean it seems like such a basic message

mean it seems like such a basic message but you never know what’s going out on

but you never know what’s going out on

but you never know what’s going out on in someone else’s head so just be nicer

in someone else’s head so just be nicer

in someone else’s head so just be nicer and make sure if you know someone with a

and make sure if you know someone with a

and make sure if you know someone with a mental illness that they know you’re not

mental illness that they know you’re not

mental illness that they know you’re not judging them because of their mental

judging them because of their mental

judging them because of their mental illness when I wrote this talk I thought

illness when I wrote this talk I thought

illness when I wrote this talk I thought how much should I share about myself

how much should I share about myself

how much should I share about myself should I just say I’ve got anxiety

should I just say I’ve got anxiety

should I just say I’ve got anxiety should I just say I’ve got depression

should I just say I’ve got depression

should I just say I’ve got depression it’s all been really personal my entire

it’s all been really personal my entire

it’s all been really personal my entire life but then I realized that’s why I

life but then I realized that’s why I

life but then I realized that’s why I wrote it I shouldn’t have to hide Who I

wrote it I shouldn’t have to hide Who I

wrote it I shouldn’t have to hide Who I am anymore

am anymore

am anymore it’s hard enough working with this

it’s hard enough working with this

it’s hard enough working with this mental illness itself so I should be

mental illness itself so I should be

mental illness itself so I should be comfortable in my own skin and so should

comfortable in my own skin and so should

comfortable in my own skin and so should anyone else thank you

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