like a man be like a man man up ask yourself what does it mean
man up ask yourself what does it mean
man up ask yourself what does it mean when you hear a father it is – his son
when you hear a father it is – his son
when you hear a father it is – his son is society creating a double standard
is society creating a double standard
is society creating a double standard for the ideology of men is this meaning
for the ideology of men is this meaning
for the ideology of men is this meaning if a boy – something resembling a
if a boy – something resembling a
if a boy – something resembling a stereotypical girl attitude or action
stereotypical girl attitude or action
stereotypical girl attitude or action that they are not considered masculine
that they are not considered masculine
that they are not considered masculine or manly not do these types of questions
or manly not do these types of questions
or manly not do these types of questions infer a divide in society and a divide
infer a divide in society and a divide
infer a divide in society and a divide among gender by simple classifying what
among gender by simple classifying what
among gender by simple classifying what is and is not acceptable in certain
is and is not acceptable in certain
is and is not acceptable in certain aspects of life so in effect this is
aspects of life so in effect this is
aspects of life so in effect this is prohibiting woman’s ability to continue
prohibiting woman’s ability to continue
prohibiting woman’s ability to continue striving for equality based upon these
striving for equality based upon these
striving for equality based upon these classifications of women think about a
classifications of women think about a
classifications of women think about a tomboy or a girl a girl all
tomboy or a girl a girl all
tomboy or a girl a girl all classifications for a certain ideology
classifications for a certain ideology
classifications for a certain ideology of a gender and these very ideologies
of a gender and these very ideologies
of a gender and these very ideologies and classifications is what’s causing a
and classifications is what’s causing a
and classifications is what’s causing a roadblock and women’s continued uphill
roadblock and women’s continued uphill
roadblock and women’s continued uphill battle to achieve Oddie and success and
battle to achieve Oddie and success and
battle to achieve Oddie and success and our society today
now there was working at AI do punch
now there was working at AI do punch children hospital at the time stream of
children hospital at the time stream of
children hospital at the time stream of my father she was a researcher regarding
my father she was a researcher regarding
my father she was a researcher regarding child obesity and at this time she was
child obesity and at this time she was
child obesity and at this time she was obtaining a larger salary than my favor
obtaining a larger salary than my favor
obtaining a larger salary than my favor however once she had my sister and I she
however once she had my sister and I she
however once she had my sister and I she decided to quit her job and become a
decided to quit her job and become a
decided to quit her job and become a full-time stay-at-home mom but the
full-time stay-at-home mom but the
full-time stay-at-home mom but the trade-off my mother was not able to
trade-off my mother was not able to
trade-off my mother was not able to exceed her full potential there’s
exceed her full potential there’s
exceed her full potential there’s something to be said about living in the
something to be said about living in the
something to be said about living in the moment and taking advantage of that
moment and taking advantage of that
moment and taking advantage of that because so many people aren’t able to my
because so many people aren’t able to my
because so many people aren’t able to my mother chose a lifestyle to dedicate
mother chose a lifestyle to dedicate
mother chose a lifestyle to dedicate every second of every day to better
every second of every day to better
every second of every day to better sister Nuys lives and that is beyond
sister Nuys lives and that is beyond
sister Nuys lives and that is beyond extraordinary as the only word to
extraordinary as the only word to
extraordinary as the only word to describe it
describe it
describe it but there’s also something to be said
but there’s also something to be said
but there’s also something to be said about how women have to find this
about how women have to find this
about how women have to find this balance between the professional and
balance between the professional and
balance between the professional and home life on the flip side being someone
home life on the flip side being someone
home life on the flip side being someone like my mother
like my mother
like my mother I can see a missing
I can see a missing
I can see a missing I look in her eyes and I see a vacancy
I look in her eyes and I see a vacancy
I look in her eyes and I see a vacancy it surprises me to hear her laugh it
it surprises me to hear her laugh it
it surprises me to hear her laugh it looks painful sometimes to see her smile
looks painful sometimes to see her smile
looks painful sometimes to see her smile it hurts it’s sad it hurts me it hurts
it hurts it’s sad it hurts me it hurts
it hurts it’s sad it hurts me it hurts my sister and it especially hurts my
my sister and it especially hurts my
my sister and it especially hurts my father her passion and her drive were
father her passion and her drive were
father her passion and her drive were forced to be consolidated due to making
forced to be consolidated due to making
forced to be consolidated due to making such drastic sacrifices for me and my
such drastic sacrifices for me and my
such drastic sacrifices for me and my family her ability of content and
family her ability of content and
family her ability of content and success is so much more difficult now my
success is so much more difficult now my
success is so much more difficult now my grandmother my grandmother is an
grandmother my grandmother is an
grandmother my grandmother is an entrepreneur and is still currently a
entrepreneur and is still currently a
entrepreneur and is still currently a very successful business owner that has
very successful business owner that has
very successful business owner that has transformed into the family business
transformed into the family business
transformed into the family business that my father uncle and father are all
that my father uncle and father are all
that my father uncle and father are all a team member of during my father’s I
a team member of during my father’s I
a team member of during my father’s I lessen years
lessen years
lessen years my grandmother was going through a
my grandmother was going through a
my grandmother was going through a divorce at the same time for the peak
divorce at the same time for the peak
divorce at the same time for the peak transformation of the success of her
transformation of the success of her
transformation of the success of her company
company
company McClure chose the lifestyle to dedicate
McClure chose the lifestyle to dedicate
McClure chose the lifestyle to dedicate her time to have this reassurance of a
her time to have this reassurance of a
her time to have this reassurance of a successful business for her children
successful business for her children
successful business for her children however during my father’s adolescent
however during my father’s adolescent
however during my father’s adolescent years my father had to take time and
years my father had to take time and
years my father had to take time and bring a to his siblings when his mother
bring a to his siblings when his mother
bring a to his siblings when his mother was not present but this is something
was not present but this is something
was not present but this is something that has made my father so admirable in
that has made my father so admirable in
that has made my father so admirable in my eyes now my grandmother was so
my eyes now my grandmother was so
my eyes now my grandmother was so successful but she was able to ascend
successful but she was able to ascend
successful but she was able to ascend her three children to attend a private
her three children to attend a private
her three children to attend a private school in order to education and in
school in order to education and in
school in order to education and in order to go above and beyond the success
order to go above and beyond the success
order to go above and beyond the success that she has already paved the way for
that she has already paved the way for
that she has already paved the way for but the trade-off did you find yourself
but the trade-off did you find yourself
but the trade-off did you find yourself judging her for having to choose her
judging her for having to choose her
judging her for having to choose her work over her children in some
work over her children in some
work over her children in some circumstances do you feel she should
circumstances do you feel she should
circumstances do you feel she should have taken other measures for her
have taken other measures for her
have taken other measures for her children the questions are the issue the
children the questions are the issue the
children the questions are the issue the idea that women and men should other
idea that women and men should other
idea that women and men should other females based upon their attention and
females based upon their attention and
females based upon their attention and dedication to their children as if men
dedication to their children as if men
dedication to their children as if men are not equally responsible we need to
are not equally responsible we need to
are not equally responsible we need to define our own success and ambitions
define our own success and ambitions
define our own success and ambitions through our own means if happiness is
through our own means if happiness is
through our own means if happiness is found through success then we cannot
found through success then we cannot
found through success then we cannot lose sight of that now my aunt my aunt
lose sight of that now my aunt my aunt
lose sight of that now my aunt my aunt is a teacher and has been a teacher in
is a teacher and has been a teacher in
is a teacher and has been a teacher in Delaware for over 20 years although she
Delaware for over 20 years although she
Delaware for over 20 years although she is single she maintains such a close
is single she maintains such a close
is single she maintains such a close relationship with her friends and family
relationship with her friends and family
relationship with her friends and family every time you see her she lines smile
every time you see her she lines smile
every time you see her she lines smile she makes anyone feel so good about
she makes anyone feel so good about
she makes anyone feel so good about themselves her genuine love really does
themselves her genuine love really does
themselves her genuine love really does radiate something not often found in
radiate something not often found in
radiate something not often found in society now I can tell you that my end
society now I can tell you that my end
society now I can tell you that my end of someone who sets standards for
of someone who sets standards for
of someone who sets standards for herself and will not lower her
herself and will not lower her
herself and will not lower her expectations for anything less than she
expectations for anything less than she
expectations for anything less than she deserves as honestly no one should have
deserves as honestly no one should have
deserves as honestly no one should have to your decisions should be made through
to your decisions should be made through
to your decisions should be made through the outcome of happiness if you are not
the outcome of happiness if you are not
the outcome of happiness if you are not happy then there is no value present and
happy then there is no value present and
happy then there is no value present and we must all see that worth in ourselves
we must all see that worth in ourselves
we must all see that worth in ourselves we need to own our worth and create our
we need to own our worth and create our
we need to own our worth and create our happiness but the trade-off just because
happiness but the trade-off just because
happiness but the trade-off just because my aunt did not fit the stereotypical
my aunt did not fit the stereotypical
my aunt did not fit the stereotypical mode of a woman in society today being
mode of a woman in society today being
mode of a woman in society today being able to create a family on her own is
able to create a family on her own is
able to create a family on her own is simply because she has a level of self
simply because she has a level of self
simply because she has a level of self confidence and self respect that I feel
confidence and self respect that I feel
confidence and self respect that I feel every woman should have an own up to but
every woman should have an own up to but
every woman should have an own up to but the truth is hard to swallow that
the truth is hard to swallow that
the truth is hard to swallow that everyone has a vacancy in their heart
everyone has a vacancy in their heart
everyone has a vacancy in their heart everyone has a that is scarred everyone
everyone has a that is scarred everyone
everyone has a that is scarred everyone has their own forms of insecurities and
has their own forms of insecurities and
has their own forms of insecurities and vulnerabilities now the holidays can be
vulnerabilities now the holidays can be
vulnerabilities now the holidays can be a difficult time for families
a difficult time for families
a difficult time for families appreciating one another
appreciating one another
appreciating one another pleasing one another and really being
pleasing one another and really being
pleasing one another and really being thankful for all you have and I see my
thankful for all you have and I see my
thankful for all you have and I see my aunt frequently especially around the
aunt frequently especially around the
aunt frequently especially around the holidays and her face looks paler I can
holidays and her face looks paler I can
holidays and her face looks paler I can look in her eyes and I see that vacancy
look in her eyes and I see that vacancy
look in her eyes and I see that vacancy that Institute that vulnerability that
that Institute that vulnerability that
that Institute that vulnerability that wound that scar you know people we say
wound that scar you know people we say
wound that scar you know people we say no one should have to wake up alone
no one should have to wake up alone
no one should have to wake up alone however I find this so far from the
however I find this so far from the
however I find this so far from the truth no one or woman should wake up
truth no one or woman should wake up
truth no one or woman should wake up knowing they’re living an unsuccessful
knowing they’re living an unsuccessful
knowing they’re living an unsuccessful non influential or unhappy life
non influential or unhappy life
non influential or unhappy life we need to refine our success as women
we need to refine our success as women
we need to refine our success as women and throw these stereotypes and double
and throw these stereotypes and double
and throw these stereotypes and double standards and expectations out the
standards and expectations out the
standards and expectations out the window yes women have a tendency to be
window yes women have a tendency to be
window yes women have a tendency to be wanted we all want to be wanted but if
wanted we all want to be wanted but if
wanted we all want to be wanted but if you cannot happy with yourself how are
you cannot happy with yourself how are
you cannot happy with yourself how are you to be happy with someone else you
you to be happy with someone else you
you to be happy with someone else you can’t now a short story about my father
can’t now a short story about my father
can’t now a short story about my father so one day my mother had a meeting at
so one day my mother had a meeting at
so one day my mother had a meeting at school and she couldn’t cook us dinner
school and she couldn’t cook us dinner
school and she couldn’t cook us dinner now this be one out of two nights that
now this be one out of two nights that
now this be one out of two nights that she hasn’t because my mom is hands down
she hasn’t because my mom is hands down
she hasn’t because my mom is hands down one of the best cooks that I’ve ever met
one of the best cooks that I’ve ever met
one of the best cooks that I’ve ever met so she did what anyone else would do she
so she did what anyone else would do she
so she did what anyone else would do she gave him a list of instructions to
gave him a list of instructions to
gave him a list of instructions to follow it was a really simple dinner to
follow it was a really simple dinner to
follow it was a really simple dinner to keep playing for my dad it was some
keep playing for my dad it was some
keep playing for my dad it was some chicken rice and broccoli all we needed
chicken rice and broccoli all we needed
chicken rice and broccoli all we needed was a stove in the oven top and we were
was a stove in the oven top and we were
was a stove in the oven top and we were ready to go however it did not go as
ready to go however it did not go as
ready to go however it did not go as planned my father couldn’t figure out
planned my father couldn’t figure out
planned my father couldn’t figure out the rice egg or take it out now don’t
the rice egg or take it out now don’t
the rice egg or take it out now don’t get me wrong my father is a pretty
get me wrong my father is a pretty
get me wrong my father is a pretty bright guy cooking not his thing we had
bright guy cooking not his thing we had
bright guy cooking not his thing we had to call our family members to walk us
to call our family members to walk us
to call our family members to walk us through this process we didn’t even
through this process we didn’t even
through this process we didn’t even touch the chicken or broccoli until
touch the chicken or broccoli until
touch the chicken or broccoli until later so you can only imagine how that
later so you can only imagine how that
later so you can only imagine how that turned out but heaven forbid something
turned out but heaven forbid something
turned out but heaven forbid something happened to my mother and she was unable
happened to my mother and she was unable
happened to my mother and she was unable to provide for my family and I how would
to provide for my family and I how would
to provide for my family and I how would we survive and honestly I don’t think we
we survive and honestly I don’t think we
we survive and honestly I don’t think we will make it a day without her
will make it a day without her
will make it a day without her I mean we’re gonna need rice now there’s
I mean we’re gonna need rice now there’s
I mean we’re gonna need rice now there’s a certain double standard in society
a certain double standard in society
a certain double standard in society today and it aims at gender inequality
today and it aims at gender inequality
today and it aims at gender inequality they title it the shirtless man and
they title it the shirtless man and
they title it the shirtless man and basically it describes how women are
basically it describes how women are
basically it describes how women are allowed how men are allowed to walk
allowed how men are allowed to walk
allowed how men are allowed to walk around with no shirts and no shame that
around with no shirts and no shame that
around with no shirts and no shame that they can other muscles or lack thereof
they can other muscles or lack thereof
they can other muscles or lack thereof and this can be a normal occurrence
and this can be a normal occurrence
and this can be a normal occurrence however women have to be so conscious of
however women have to be so conscious of
however women have to be so conscious of what we wear fear of giving men the
what we wear fear of giving men the
what we wear fear of giving men the wrong impression because of how we look
wrong impression because of how we look
wrong impression because of how we look fear of being judged because of our
fear of being judged because of our
fear of being judged because of our natural figure but there comes to a
natural figure but there comes to a
natural figure but there comes to a point we as women need to stand and say
point we as women need to stand and say
point we as women need to stand and say so what and this comes back to owning
so what and this comes back to owning
so what and this comes back to owning our worth creating our happiness because
our worth creating our happiness because
our worth creating our happiness because without that that self-confidence
without that that self-confidence
without that that self-confidence that’s soap respect and that ambition
that’s soap respect and that ambition
that’s soap respect and that ambition what are we what is the point and there
what are we what is the point and there
what are we what is the point and there is none we aim to set standards and not
is none we aim to set standards and not
is none we aim to set standards and not lower our expectations for anything less
lower our expectations for anything less
lower our expectations for anything less than we deserve we aim to not be judged
than we deserve we aim to not be judged
than we deserve we aim to not be judged by lifestyles we choose based upon
by lifestyles we choose based upon
by lifestyles we choose based upon professional or home life we aim to be
professional or home life we aim to be
professional or home life we aim to be valued we aim to be respected we as
valued we aim to be respected we as
valued we aim to be respected we as women and men need to realize that we
women and men need to realize that we
women and men need to realize that we were all looking through the same lens
were all looking through the same lens
were all looking through the same lens that women are still on the way up for
that women are still on the way up for
that women are still on the way up for equality that is evident that this is a
equality that is evident that this is a
equality that is evident that this is a gradual says that we are overcoming
gradual says that we are overcoming
gradual says that we are overcoming however we as women need to realize that
however we as women need to realize that
however we as women need to realize that we hold all of the power in the world we
we hold all of the power in the world we
we hold all of the power in the world we were given the ability from God or
were given the ability from God or
were given the ability from God or science
science
science whichever you believe to create new life
whichever you believe to create new life
whichever you believe to create new life to provide future generations for the
to provide future generations for the
to provide future generations for the world we were born into by our mothers
world we were born into by our mothers
world we were born into by our mothers women so to all of you women out there
women so to all of you women out there
women so to all of you women out there do not be afraid to figuratively take
do not be afraid to figuratively take
do not be afraid to figuratively take off your shirt do not be afraid to own
off your shirt do not be afraid to own
off your shirt do not be afraid to own yourself and know your worth I mean put
yourself and know your worth I mean put
yourself and know your worth I mean put it this way there would be no you
it this way there would be no you
it this way there would be no you without all of this thank you
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