today’s conversation is going to be about roommates okay when we talk about
about roommates okay when we talk about
about roommates okay when we talk about what a roommate is and how a roommate
what a roommate is and how a roommate
what a roommate is and how a roommate goes about his life it’s somebody who
goes about his life it’s somebody who
goes about his life it’s somebody who shares a common space so it’s about
shares a common space so it’s about
shares a common space so it’s about sharing initially what I believe firmly
sharing initially what I believe firmly
sharing initially what I believe firmly is that we grew up in this community
is that we grew up in this community
is that we grew up in this community understanding what sharing is but within
understanding what sharing is but within
understanding what sharing is but within our own context so for example back in
our own context so for example back in
our own context so for example back in the 80s I’m from the 80s back in the 80s
the 80s I’m from the 80s back in the 80s
the 80s I’m from the 80s back in the 80s the first things we shared was the
the first things we shared was the
the first things we shared was the airwaves was the entertainment industry
airwaves was the entertainment industry
airwaves was the entertainment industry we grew up as kids and we shared at
we grew up as kids and we shared at
we grew up as kids and we shared at chavo del ocho and chose from Mexico but
chavo del ocho and chose from Mexico but
chavo del ocho and chose from Mexico but locally specifically those of us who
locally specifically those of us who
locally specifically those of us who were more on the eastern part of the
were more on the eastern part of the
were more on the eastern part of the city we grew up and we got KPBS right we
city we grew up and we got KPBS right we
city we grew up and we got KPBS right we saw reading rainbow and levar burton we
saw reading rainbow and levar burton we
saw reading rainbow and levar burton we saw mr. rogers who taught us how to wet
saw mr. rogers who taught us how to wet
saw mr. rogers who taught us how to wet her cardigan and everybody knows big
her cardigan and everybody knows big
her cardigan and everybody knows big bird the first thing we’ve got with this
bird the first thing we’ve got with this
bird the first thing we’ve got with this piece of sharing was to understand what
piece of sharing was to understand what
piece of sharing was to understand what did we understand at the beginning we
did we understand at the beginning we
did we understand at the beginning we understood words first we started
understood words first we started
understood words first we started understanding words from another
understanding words from another
understanding words from another language then came sentences and
language then came sentences and
language then came sentences and eventually words sentences became
eventually words sentences became
eventually words sentences became complete culture appropriation so we
complete culture appropriation so we
complete culture appropriation so we understood what it meant to be a kid in
understood what it meant to be a kid in
understood what it meant to be a kid in San Diego right we understood what it
San Diego right we understood what it
San Diego right we understood what it meant to grow up read a book obviously
meant to grow up read a book obviously
meant to grow up read a book obviously go out play as if we were part of that
go out play as if we were part of that
go out play as if we were part of that same community y cuando nosotros estamos
same community y cuando nosotros estamos
same community y cuando nosotros estamos de jovenes creciendo tambien en esta
de jovenes creciendo tambien en esta
de jovenes creciendo tambien en esta comunidad nuestra segun interaction
comunidad nuestra segun interaction
comunidad nuestra segun interaction principal era con nuestra Reggie own era
principal era con nuestra Reggie own era
principal era con nuestra Reggie own era saliendo era paseando era viajando
saliendo era paseando era viajando
saliendo era paseando era viajando tenemos una frontera de los que se
tenemos una frontera de los que se
tenemos una frontera de los que se acuerda de a– que podemos kaminari
acuerda de a– que podemos kaminari
acuerda de a– que podemos kaminari transit our libra meant bennion nuestros
transit our libra meant bennion nuestros
transit our libra meant bennion nuestros amigos nova nuestras visitas de estados
amigos nova nuestras visitas de estados
amigos nova nuestras visitas de estados unidos y ven en ensenada lagu fedora
unidos y ven en ensenada lagu fedora
unidos y ven en ensenada lagu fedora venir a san felipe de vacaciones en
venir a san felipe de vacaciones en
venir a san felipe de vacaciones en semana santa savannah camp are y
semana santa savannah camp are y
semana santa savannah camp are y nosotros NOS o to screw sabemos en la
nosotros NOS o to screw sabemos en la
nosotros NOS o to screw sabemos en la mañana y mo SI vamos con us los papas
mañana y mo SI vamos con us los papas
mañana y mo SI vamos con us los papas hacer compras a pasear es un para me
hacer compras a pasear es un para me
hacer compras a pasear es un para me recuerdo muy grotto k my Papa Mia Baba
recuerdo muy grotto k my Papa Mia Baba
recuerdo muy grotto k my Papa Mia Baba in chula vista de un cine que ya no esta
in chula vista de un cine que ya no esta
in chula vista de un cine que ya no esta pero me Ababa me else in el ok miss Pope
pero me Ababa me else in el ok miss Pope
pero me Ababa me else in el ok miss Pope Mamma Mia bolitas en compras y de no
Mamma Mia bolitas en compras y de no
Mamma Mia bolitas en compras y de no gmos a comer hamburguesa salable photo a
gmos a comer hamburguesa salable photo a
gmos a comer hamburguesa salable photo a course in si vamos a park a jugar era
course in si vamos a park a jugar era
course in si vamos a park a jugar era parte de mi dia dia para militant era
parte de mi dia dia para militant era
parte de mi dia dia para militant era como tal un lugar donde me de tenia era
como tal un lugar donde me de tenia era
como tal un lugar donde me de tenia era algo que incluye ZN to partay
algo que incluye ZN to partay
algo que incluye ZN to partay to commute poder cruzar la Frontera
to commute poder cruzar la Frontera
to commute poder cruzar la Frontera tonces realmente SI NOS podemos a pensar
tonces realmente SI NOS podemos a pensar
tonces realmente SI NOS podemos a pensar lo que yo comparten ese momento lo que
lo que yo comparten ese momento lo que
lo que yo comparten ese momento lo que pase a aprender VAR respite Aras
pase a aprender VAR respite Aras
pase a aprender VAR respite Aras accompanied add a respetar que yo me
accompanied add a respetar que yo me
accompanied add a respetar que yo me enamore de sus lugar SE que yo quería
enamore de sus lugar SE que yo quería
enamore de sus lugar SE que yo quería irse de ellos y Karen parte de mi dia
irse de ellos y Karen parte de mi dia
irse de ellos y Karen parte de mi dia dia nosotros a veces no tomamos en
dia nosotros a veces no tomamos en
dia nosotros a veces no tomamos en cuenta como ninos es la diferencia que
cuenta como ninos es la diferencia que
cuenta como ninos es la diferencia que VA de los países simple men take Russa
VA de los países simple men take Russa
VA de los países simple men take Russa bamos la frontera y llega vamos a donde
bamos la frontera y llega vamos a donde
bamos la frontera y llega vamos a donde kuriyama sear the face of our border
kuriyama sear the face of our border
kuriyama sear the face of our border hebbs change recently so the reason the
hebbs change recently so the reason the
hebbs change recently so the reason the face of our border his change is for
face of our border his change is for
face of our border his change is for many reasons right the first reason is
many reasons right the first reason is
many reasons right the first reason is technology that helps us get people
technology that helps us get people
technology that helps us get people goods services across easier but also
goods services across easier but also
goods services across easier but also because of security right I mean we’ve
because of security right I mean we’ve
because of security right I mean we’ve all seen the news if it’s tunnels
all seen the news if it’s tunnels
all seen the news if it’s tunnels ladders and drones o my people find a
ladders and drones o my people find a
ladders and drones o my people find a way to get things over the border right
way to get things over the border right
way to get things over the border right be them legal or not but for those of us
be them legal or not but for those of us
be them legal or not but for those of us who do for those of us who do it legally
who do for those of us who do it legally
who do for those of us who do it legally for those of it we do it every day and
for those of it we do it every day and
for those of it we do it every day and do it for business it gains a new type
do it for business it gains a new type
do it for business it gains a new type of context for example when we share
of context for example when we share
of context for example when we share this border we share our community the
this border we share our community the
this border we share our community the second thing I started to learn about
second thing I started to learn about
second thing I started to learn about respect is the people who do this border
respect is the people who do this border
respect is the people who do this border so if you see the image you feel you see
so if you see the image you feel you see
so if you see the image you feel you see on the top left corner you see the
on the top left corner you see the
on the top left corner you see the people the cars right there’s a hundred
people the cars right there’s a hundred
people the cars right there’s a hundred and seventy thousand of us daily who
and seventy thousand of us daily who
and seventy thousand of us daily who cross and I’m talking about myself
cross and I’m talking about myself
cross and I’m talking about myself because I do it on a daily basis so if
because I do it on a daily basis so if
because I do it on a daily basis so if you take the cars away if you take every
you take the cars away if you take every
you take the cars away if you take every single car away what’s left you’ve got
single car away what’s left you’ve got
single car away what’s left you’ve got teachers you got nurses you got doctors
teachers you got nurses you got doctors
teachers you got nurses you got doctors engineers students crossing the border
engineers students crossing the border
engineers students crossing the border you’ve got people who every day
you’ve got people who every day
you’ve got people who every day sacrifice two hours of their life in the
sacrifice two hours of their life in the
sacrifice two hours of their life in the commute to go and serve the community in
commute to go and serve the community in
commute to go and serve the community in San Diego to provide a better life for
San Diego to provide a better life for
San Diego to provide a better life for their families in Mexico anybody who
their families in Mexico anybody who
their families in Mexico anybody who initially starts off their day with a
initially starts off their day with a
initially starts off their day with a two or three hour commute I can respect
two or three hour commute I can respect
two or three hour commute I can respect that but that’s part of our day-to-day
that but that’s part of our day-to-day
that but that’s part of our day-to-day lives many people in other parts of the
lives many people in other parts of the
lives many people in other parts of the world don’t understand that when you
world don’t understand that when you
world don’t understand that when you look at the border and you see the
look at the border and you see the
look at the border and you see the community you see people shopping there
community you see people shopping there
community you see people shopping there you see people having breakfast reading
you see people having breakfast reading
you see people having breakfast reading the news kids doing homework somebody
the news kids doing homework somebody
the news kids doing homework somebody taking a power nap somebody women
taking a power nap somebody women
taking a power nap somebody women getting their makeup on you see so many
getting their makeup on you see so many
getting their makeup on you see so many women getting their makeup on in the
women getting their makeup on in the
women getting their makeup on in the morning in the border it’s just
morning in the border it’s just
morning in the border it’s just ridiculous connivance ahmo’s ESO los
ridiculous connivance ahmo’s ESO los
ridiculous connivance ahmo’s ESO los jovenes empresarios jovenes
jovenes empresarios jovenes
jovenes empresarios jovenes professionista jimenez comprend adores
professionista jimenez comprend adores
professionista jimenez comprend adores que tenemos esta región que lo siente
que tenemos esta región que lo siente
que tenemos esta región que lo siente que compartimos compartimos das
que compartimos compartimos das
que compartimos compartimos das oportunidad
oportunidad
oportunidad sir negocio para hacer negocios ambos
sir negocio para hacer negocios ambos
sir negocio para hacer negocios ambos dados de la frontera lo que primero
dados de la frontera lo que primero
dados de la frontera lo que primero necesitamos es nuestra contra parte que
necesitamos es nuestra contra parte que
necesitamos es nuestra contra parte que nada you dar del otro lado los que
nada you dar del otro lado los que
nada you dar del otro lado los que trabajamos en estimate own azi nacional
trabajamos en estimate own azi nacional
trabajamos en estimate own azi nacional los que somos abogados los que somos
los que somos abogados los que somos
los que somos abogados los que somos Contador’s los que somos ingenieros que
Contador’s los que somos ingenieros que
Contador’s los que somos ingenieros que somos cualquier tipo de información
somos cualquier tipo de información
somos cualquier tipo de información profession un Combray SI antes alguien
profession un Combray SI antes alguien
profession un Combray SI antes alguien como mi cunado k install a stereos es un
como mi cunado k install a stereos es un
como mi cunado k install a stereos es un excelente empresario depende de los dos
excelente empresario depende de los dos
excelente empresario depende de los dos lados encuentran ce que tiene que se
lados encuentran ce que tiene que se
lados encuentran ce que tiene que se marat raisa relacion y NOS damos cuenta
marat raisa relacion y NOS damos cuenta
marat raisa relacion y NOS damos cuenta que Cena Poyer knows alguien del otro
que Cena Poyer knows alguien del otro
que Cena Poyer knows alguien del otro lado y hace del Norte sudo su hermano lo
lado y hace del Norte sudo su hermano lo
lado y hace del Norte sudo su hermano lo vamos a lograr que pasa con empezamos
vamos a lograr que pasa con empezamos
vamos a lograr que pasa con empezamos entender des apoyo empezamos apoyo todo
entender des apoyo empezamos apoyo todo
entender des apoyo empezamos apoyo todo local empezamos a boy I Ernesto
local empezamos a boy I Ernesto
local empezamos a boy I Ernesto restaurant A’s nuestros chefs nuestros
restaurant A’s nuestros chefs nuestros
restaurant A’s nuestros chefs nuestros equipos yo soy de Tijuana yo le voy a
equipos yo soy de Tijuana yo le voy a
equipos yo soy de Tijuana yo le voy a los charros como lo a los cholos le voy
los charros como lo a los cholos le voy
los charros como lo a los cholos le voy de los padres como la voy a los toros de
de los padres como la voy a los toros de
de los padres como la voy a los toros de squamous donkeys esm equipo locales la
squamous donkeys esm equipo locales la
squamous donkeys esm equipo locales la gente de aqui lo que nosotros apoyo y
gente de aqui lo que nosotros apoyo y
gente de aqui lo que nosotros apoyo y ambos y entre nosotros ave SE NOS
ambos y entre nosotros ave SE NOS
ambos y entre nosotros ave SE NOS podemos quedar que NOS los equipos noses
podemos quedar que NOS los equipos noses
podemos quedar que NOS los equipos noses no poquito de fissile apoyo Arlo’s a
no poquito de fissile apoyo Arlo’s a
no poquito de fissile apoyo Arlo’s a veces pero que nadie venga de fuera
veces pero que nadie venga de fuera
veces pero que nadie venga de fuera decir nose algo de nuestros equipos
decir nose algo de nuestros equipos
decir nose algo de nuestros equipos porque NOS dejamos es apoyo salgo
porque NOS dejamos es apoyo salgo
porque NOS dejamos es apoyo salgo substantial que NOS permit a desiree our
substantial que NOS permit a desiree our
substantial que NOS permit a desiree our nose local meant a nose permit a
nose local meant a nose permit a
nose local meant a nose permit a claramente tener éxito know Cal meant a
claramente tener éxito know Cal meant a
claramente tener éxito know Cal meant a when we talk about the roomie wreck we
when we talk about the roomie wreck we
when we talk about the roomie wreck we meant yes I’m making reference to HEV
meant yes I’m making reference to HEV
meant yes I’m making reference to HEV show called The Big Bang Theory so
show called The Big Bang Theory so
show called The Big Bang Theory so everybody knows Leonard and Sheldon and
everybody knows Leonard and Sheldon and
everybody knows Leonard and Sheldon and what you’re seeing right now is that
what you’re seeing right now is that
what you’re seeing right now is that specific moment when they meet for the
specific moment when they meet for the
specific moment when they meet for the first time and Sheldon comes out with a
first time and Sheldon comes out with a
first time and Sheldon comes out with a roommate agreement it’s this thick and
roommate agreement it’s this thick and
roommate agreement it’s this thick and it starts explaining multiple rules and
it starts explaining multiple rules and
it starts explaining multiple rules and the rules are so crazy and colorful and
the rules are so crazy and colorful and
the rules are so crazy and colorful and weird and lovely and they’ve got a robot
weird and lovely and they’ve got a robot
weird and lovely and they’ve got a robot rule and they’ve got a Godzilla rule and
rule and they’ve got a Godzilla rule and
rule and they’ve got a Godzilla rule and a dairy room my favorite rule is a
a dairy room my favorite rule is a
a dairy room my favorite rule is a time-travel rule they say at that
time-travel rule they say at that
time-travel rule they say at that episode that if they find a way to
episode that if they find a way to
episode that if they find a way to travel in time they will tribal back to
travel in time they will tribal back to
travel in time they will tribal back to that exact moment and then greet
that exact moment and then greet
that exact moment and then greet themselves again so they pause for a
themselves again so they pause for a
themselves again so they pause for a second they look around and they’re like
second they look around and they’re like
second they look around and they’re like super discipline is like okay let’s
super discipline is like okay let’s
super discipline is like okay let’s check that off the list not as different
check that off the list not as different
check that off the list not as different from san diego and tijuana i can compare
from san diego and tijuana i can compare
from san diego and tijuana i can compare us to Leonard and Sheldon brilliant
us to Leonard and Sheldon brilliant
us to Leonard and Sheldon brilliant unique really weird sometimes to each
unique really weird sometimes to each
unique really weird sometimes to each other and socially awkward we understand
other and socially awkward we understand
other and socially awkward we understand each other and we can work together but
each other and we can work together but
each other and we can work together but when we talk about getting together with
when we talk about getting together with
when we talk about getting together with other parts of the country that’s where
other parts of the country that’s where
other parts of the country that’s where it gets a little
it gets a little
it gets a little sticky right we are socially impaired we
sticky right we are socially impaired we
sticky right we are socially impaired we know how things work here so why a
know how things work here so why a
know how things work here so why a roommate and not a neighbor because you
roommate and not a neighbor because you
roommate and not a neighbor because you hear both terms roommates and neighbors
hear both terms roommates and neighbors
hear both terms roommates and neighbors right a neighbor and my wife who’s here
right a neighbor and my wife who’s here
right a neighbor and my wife who’s here can attest that we’ve lived both sides
can attest that we’ve lived both sides
can attest that we’ve lived both sides of the border and we’ve lived in
of the border and we’ve lived in
of the border and we’ve lived in multiple places and we have all types of
multiple places and we have all types of
multiple places and we have all types of neighbors right so you got really good
neighbors right so you got really good
neighbors right so you got really good neighbors that you find a way to make
neighbors that you find a way to make
neighbors that you find a way to make things work but sometimes that’s there’s
things work but sometimes that’s there’s
things work but sometimes that’s there’s a neighbor that you just can’t stand so
a neighbor that you just can’t stand so
a neighbor that you just can’t stand so when you get a really weird neighbor
when you get a really weird neighbor
when you get a really weird neighbor somebody you can’t really work with
somebody you can’t really work with
somebody you can’t really work with you’ve got two options as far as I see
you’ve got two options as far as I see
you’ve got two options as far as I see you can either move and leave but I
you can either move and leave but I
you can either move and leave but I can’t pick up back alley for them and
can’t pick up back alley for them and
can’t pick up back alley for them and just drop it like somewhere in the
just drop it like somewhere in the
just drop it like somewhere in the Middle East right your second option and
Middle East right your second option and
Middle East right your second option and the one that’s a go to you build a wall
the one that’s a go to you build a wall
the one that’s a go to you build a wall and I’ve known be we’ve been having a
and I’ve known be we’ve been having a
and I’ve known be we’ve been having a lot of wall conversations recently so my
lot of wall conversations recently so my
lot of wall conversations recently so my wall the one that they talk about is a
wall the one that they talk about is a
wall the one that they talk about is a border but I don’t go to my wall and
border but I don’t go to my wall and
border but I don’t go to my wall and feel that I get stopped at the border
feel that I get stopped at the border
feel that I get stopped at the border like a wall with the neighbors now what
like a wall with the neighbors now what
like a wall with the neighbors now what will the neighbors is to keep people out
will the neighbors is to keep people out
will the neighbors is to keep people out and keep stuff in right I’m go to my
and keep stuff in right I’m go to my
and keep stuff in right I’m go to my border to get admitted not to get
border to get admitted not to get
border to get admitted not to get stopped at okay so as roommates we all
stopped at okay so as roommates we all
stopped at okay so as roommates we all have our room we have our privacy we
have our room we have our privacy we
have our room we have our privacy we sleep in separate bedrooms but once we
sleep in separate bedrooms but once we
sleep in separate bedrooms but once we walk out the door everything else is
walk out the door everything else is
walk out the door everything else is shared right we share the living room we
shared right we share the living room we
shared right we share the living room we share the closet we share the TV and yes
share the closet we share the TV and yes
share the closet we share the TV and yes we fight over to that seat in the sofa
we fight over to that seat in the sofa
we fight over to that seat in the sofa that’s fine but once we understand that
that’s fine but once we understand that
that’s fine but once we understand that since we were young we get the
since we were young we get the
since we were young we get the opportunity to understand ourselves
opportunity to understand ourselves
opportunity to understand ourselves respect ourselves and support ourselves
respect ourselves and support ourselves
respect ourselves and support ourselves that’s really the way to have success
that’s really the way to have success
that’s really the way to have success now why to me this is important as
now why to me this is important as
now why to me this is important as neighbors and as roommates whichever you
neighbors and as roommates whichever you
neighbors and as roommates whichever you choose as long as you understand it to
choose as long as you understand it to
choose as long as you understand it to me with my roommate if we can sit down
me with my roommate if we can sit down
me with my roommate if we can sit down and have the right conversations if we
and have the right conversations if we
and have the right conversations if we can sit down and build the right
can sit down and build the right
can sit down and build the right relationships we are the people who are
relationships we are the people who are
relationships we are the people who are going to tell our own stories we’re
going to tell our own stories we’re
going to tell our own stories we’re going to tell our stories of success of
going to tell our stories of success of
going to tell our stories of success of understanding each other our stories of
understanding each other our stories of
understanding each other our stories of success of respecting each other and our
success of respecting each other and our
success of respecting each other and our stories of success of supporting each
stories of success of supporting each
stories of success of supporting each other and we can be a model we can be an
other and we can be a model we can be an
other and we can be a model we can be an example for other border parts in the
example for other border parts in the
example for other border parts in the world that go through something so
world that go through something so
world that go through something so similar to us but we’ve got it figured
similar to us but we’ve got it figured
similar to us but we’ve got it figured out okay so that’s my main takeaway so
out okay so that’s my main takeaway so
out okay so that’s my main takeaway so um by the way if you didn’t understand
um by the way if you didn’t understand
um by the way if you didn’t understand half of what I said you’re probably not
half of what I said you’re probably not
half of what I said you’re probably not from around here thank you very much
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