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The Pursuit of Normal | Jehan Daboo | TEDxNUJS


on the day I was born I was not a baby

on the day I was born I was not a baby that was a patient I think for my life

that was a patient I think for my life

that was a patient I think for my life when I didn’t even know what life was I

when I didn’t even know what life was I

when I didn’t even know what life was I was given a line of treatment that went

was given a line of treatment that went

was given a line of treatment that went horribly wrong for me on depo of my

horribly wrong for me on depo of my

horribly wrong for me on depo of my existence I was lying on a hospital bed

existence I was lying on a hospital bed

existence I was lying on a hospital bed in Mumbai

in Mumbai

in Mumbai surrounded by doctors surgeons and

surrounded by doctors surgeons and

surrounded by doctors surgeons and medical staff all waiting for my bottle

medical staff all waiting for my bottle

medical staff all waiting for my bottle to get me some much-needed not required

to get me some much-needed not required

to get me some much-needed not required for my second life-saving transfusion my

for my second life-saving transfusion my

for my second life-saving transfusion my mother tells me I might post three days

mother tells me I might post three days

mother tells me I might post three days of existence I’m almost died in around

of existence I’m almost died in around

of existence I’m almost died in around Peter now give in the back I meant

Peter now give in the back I meant

Peter now give in the back I meant bilirubin levels as shown up to 30 feet

bilirubin levels as shown up to 30 feet

bilirubin levels as shown up to 30 feet the normal up enemy being just 2.5 the

the normal up enemy being just 2.5 the

the normal up enemy being just 2.5 the doctor I told my pear and brain damage

doctor I told my pear and brain damage

doctor I told my pear and brain damage was inevitable a three-month it was

was inevitable a three-month it was

was inevitable a three-month it was confirmed I had a profound going gone

confirmed I had a profound going gone

confirmed I had a profound going gone and I was also diagnosed with new old

and I was also diagnosed with new old

and I was also diagnosed with new old Buffalo pop ping I content me in COBOL

Buffalo pop ping I content me in COBOL

Buffalo pop ping I content me in COBOL with no sound therefore no speed and

with no sound therefore no speed and

with no sound therefore no speed and very limited movement my parents never

very limited movement my parents never

very limited movement my parents never saw it that Pedro as they wanted to meet

saw it that Pedro as they wanted to meet

saw it that Pedro as they wanted to meet later on in life he never ever once look

later on in life he never ever once look

later on in life he never ever once look back at what life would have been they

back at what life would have been they

back at what life would have been they focused their entire mental physical and

focused their entire mental physical and

focused their entire mental physical and emotional energy on the single-minded

emotional energy on the single-minded

emotional energy on the single-minded mission of ensuring that their start

mission of ensuring that their start

mission of ensuring that their start would be indeed a normal iron.most of us

would be indeed a normal iron.most of us

would be indeed a normal iron.most of us was I think normal physical faculties

was I think normal physical faculties

was I think normal physical faculties it’s a given something we take for

it’s a given something we take for

it’s a given something we take for granted advice live in peace for me

granted advice live in peace for me

granted advice live in peace for me however to be normal because of it to be

however to be normal because of it to be

however to be normal because of it to be Norman had begun my parents and later on

Norman had begun my parents and later on

Norman had begun my parents and later on I do did not know how far we would need

I do did not know how far we would need

I do did not know how far we would need to go how long we would need to run for

to go how long we would need to run for

to go how long we would need to run for whether or not we would even reach our

whether or not we would even reach our

whether or not we would even reach our destination all we knew is that the

destination all we knew is that the

destination all we knew is that the forsooth of normalcy we have to learn

forsooth of normalcy we have to learn

forsooth of normalcy we have to learn so mean and just like every other child

so mean and just like every other child

so mean and just like every other child I had on a griddle childhood of food

I had on a griddle childhood of food

I had on a griddle childhood of food homework and playtime defense I was to

homework and playtime defense I was to

homework and playtime defense I was to have a special routine on the TiVo

have a special routine on the TiVo

have a special routine on the TiVo better be the one to listen and speak

better be the one to listen and speak

better be the one to listen and speak neon developmental therapy group

neon developmental therapy group

neon developmental therapy group mobility and strength in my joints and

mobility and strength in my joints and

mobility and strength in my joints and muscles

muscles

muscles I had these sessions actinic one-on-one

I had these sessions actinic one-on-one

I had these sessions actinic one-on-one sessions at home I had joy in eight

sessions at home I had joy in eight

sessions at home I had joy in eight tries everything I had to dance on

tries everything I had to dance on

tries everything I had to dance on ginger here at maintenance of my

ginger here at maintenance of my

ginger here at maintenance of my equipment became a part of my life but

equipment became a part of my life but

equipment became a part of my life but that is not all I started doing things

that is not all I started doing things

that is not all I started doing things showing those would perhaps not dream of

showing those would perhaps not dream of

showing those would perhaps not dream of entering into I started to learn to play

entering into I started to learn to play

entering into I started to learn to play the piano and I started going / speech

the piano and I started going / speech

the piano and I started going / speech and drama plastered I still remember my

and drama plastered I still remember my

and drama plastered I still remember my fourth piano recital at the age of seven

fourth piano recital at the age of seven

fourth piano recital at the age of seven it was with my sister it was in front of

it was with my sister it was in front of

it was with my sister it was in front of an audience and it was an indeed an

an audience and it was an indeed an

an audience and it was an indeed an amazing moment for me I tend to see

amazing moment for me I tend to see

amazing moment for me I tend to see tactical exams in piano and infinity and

tactical exams in piano and infinity and

tactical exams in piano and infinity and to Trinity pure exam and mi possibily

to Trinity pure exam and mi possibily

to Trinity pure exam and mi possibily exam has got a perfect on without a

exam has got a perfect on without a

exam has got a perfect on without a hundred my parents tell that to all of

hundred my parents tell that to all of

hundred my parents tell that to all of this I never once complained about all

this I never once complained about all

this I never once complained about all the things I had to do my mother tells

the things I had to do my mother tells

the things I had to do my mother tells me when I was a few months old

me when I was a few months old

me when I was a few months old I suggest wake up in the middle of the

I suggest wake up in the middle of the

I suggest wake up in the middle of the night suddenly and I would give a big

night suddenly and I would give a big

night suddenly and I would give a big smile and I would want to play in fact

smile and I would want to play in fact

smile and I would want to play in fact these tears that this went on for New

these tears that this went on for New

these tears that this went on for New Year’s

Year’s

Year’s I’ll just wake up in the middle of the

I’ll just wake up in the middle of the

I’ll just wake up in the middle of the night smile and then just fall back to

night smile and then just fall back to

night smile and then just fall back to sleep It was as if something within me

sleep It was as if something within me

sleep It was as if something within me was helping me not only to cope but also

was helping me not only to cope but also

was helping me not only to cope but also just time for more at the age of 70 I

just time for more at the age of 70 I

just time for more at the age of 70 I took the package and slowly but surely

took the package and slowly but surely

took the package and slowly but surely it became a way of life for me I was

it became a way of life for me I was

it became a way of life for me I was part of the prestigious doctor / to come

part of the prestigious doctor / to come

part of the prestigious doctor / to come back into the center in Mumbai and I

back into the center in Mumbai and I

back into the center in Mumbai and I just became a multiple our journey

just became a multiple our journey

just became a multiple our journey sometimes even twice to take a pause

sometimes even twice to take a pause

sometimes even twice to take a pause booth and after school

booth and after school

booth and after school week in and week out badminton is a game

week in and week out badminton is a game

week in and week out badminton is a game of corn coverage speed agility and

of corn coverage speed agility and

of corn coverage speed agility and football by my mobility and strength

football by my mobility and strength

football by my mobility and strength hidden clue I still found it difficult

hidden clue I still found it difficult

hidden clue I still found it difficult given the level I was coaching at

given the level I was coaching at

given the level I was coaching at fortunately I inherited my parents

fortunately I inherited my parents

fortunately I inherited my parents outlook towards life

outlook towards life

outlook towards life don’t look back a borderline could have

don’t look back a borderline could have

don’t look back a borderline could have been rather look ahead at what you

been rather look ahead at what you

been rather look ahead at what you wanted to be I participated in

wanted to be I participated in

wanted to be I participated in tournaments all over the country and I

tournaments all over the country and I

tournaments all over the country and I barely ever made it beyond the initial

barely ever made it beyond the initial

barely ever made it beyond the initial loss every loss was a disappointment for

loss every loss was a disappointment for

loss every loss was a disappointment for me and the losses for many the one thing

me and the losses for many the one thing

me and the losses for many the one thing I never already long was born I kept at

I never already long was born I kept at

I never already long was born I kept at it knowing that someday I was going to

it knowing that someday I was going to

it knowing that someday I was going to go beyond where I wore my force mood for

go beyond where I wore my force mood for

go beyond where I wore my force mood for normalcy was now being to play and I

normalcy was now being to play and I

normalcy was now being to play and I pursued for accident in 2011 I was

pursued for accident in 2011 I was

pursued for accident in 2011 I was called first electrician and a camp to

called first electrician and a camp to

called first electrician and a camp to lockdown to represent India at the world

lockdown to represent India at the world

lockdown to represent India at the world deaf badminton championship having per

deaf badminton championship having per

deaf badminton championship having per year in Lucknow

year in Lucknow

year in Lucknow it was the first time now staying away

it was the first time now staying away

it was the first time now staying away from home away from my family all alone

from home away from my family all alone

from home away from my family all alone our strength staying with strangers

our strength staying with strangers

our strength staying with strangers although who permits anatomy and they

although who permits anatomy and they

although who permits anatomy and they only communicated in sign language I

only communicated in sign language I

only communicated in sign language I didn’t know any sign language I slowly

didn’t know any sign language I slowly

didn’t know any sign language I slowly settle down I learnt a bit of sign

settle down I learnt a bit of sign

settle down I learnt a bit of sign language and I got useful living on my

language and I got useful living on my

language and I got useful living on my own but most importantly I learned to

own but most importantly I learned to

own but most importantly I learned to enjoy myself in I I just the age of 14

enjoy myself in I I just the age of 14

enjoy myself in I I just the age of 14 your first tours in to play first

your first tours in to play first

your first tours in to play first country in Korea I had just got one man

country in Korea I had just got one man

country in Korea I had just got one man but that man spent better than all the

but that man spent better than all the

but that man spent better than all the other matters I had ever won so far I

other matters I had ever won so far I

other matters I had ever won so far I also receive a silver medal for being

also receive a silver medal for being

also receive a silver medal for being the youngest player of the championship

the youngest player of the championship

the youngest player of the championship It was as if there’s enough knowledge

It was as if there’s enough knowledge

It was as if there’s enough knowledge meant of all the effort and the hard

meant of all the effort and the hard

meant of all the effort and the hard work I had put in all throughout my life

work I had put in all throughout my life

work I had put in all throughout my life now standing Europe when I look back at

now standing Europe when I look back at

now standing Europe when I look back at that moment I realize how important it

that moment I realize how important it

that moment I realize how important it is to recognize not just the treatment

is to recognize not just the treatment

is to recognize not just the treatment but also effort in 2015 is the highest

but also effort in 2015 is the highest

but also effort in 2015 is the highest point of my career I won the bronze

point of my career I won the bronze

point of my career I won the bronze medal for me

medal for me

medal for me hood in men’s fingers at the world deaf

hood in men’s fingers at the world deaf

hood in men’s fingers at the world deaf youth badminton championship standing on

youth badminton championship standing on

youth badminton championship standing on that podium was an amazing achievement

that podium was an amazing achievement

that podium was an amazing achievement for me and it made me appreciate things

for me and it made me appreciate things

for me and it made me appreciate things it reminded me of my sacrifice and the

it reminded me of my sacrifice and the

it reminded me of my sacrifice and the sacrifice of my family have got me there

sacrifice of my family have got me there

sacrifice of my family have got me there they ship this city’s it in schools and

they ship this city’s it in schools and

they ship this city’s it in schools and George my sister’s life was uprooted

George my sister’s life was uprooted

George my sister’s life was uprooted when we shifted to Mumbai my family ran

when we shifted to Mumbai my family ran

when we shifted to Mumbai my family ran around my survival and then the under a

around my survival and then the under a

around my survival and then the under a cloud of Perpetual uncertainty I played

cloud of Perpetual uncertainty I played

cloud of Perpetual uncertainty I played that tournament with any injury or bath

that tournament with any injury or bath

that tournament with any injury or bath and I could do so only because I knew

and I could do so only because I knew

and I could do so only because I knew how to overcome and stop see like I had

how to overcome and stop see like I had

how to overcome and stop see like I had always done right from the moment I was

always done right from the moment I was

always done right from the moment I was born at the end of 2015 I made a

born at the end of 2015 I made a

born at the end of 2015 I made a decision I chose to leave the sport this

decision I chose to leave the sport this

decision I chose to leave the sport this was the cause no matter the stuff said

was the cause no matter the stuff said

was the cause no matter the stuff said on the phone I was not happy in life I

on the phone I was not happy in life I

on the phone I was not happy in life I had lost a lot of my friend you know my

had lost a lot of my friend you know my

had lost a lot of my friend you know my constant focus and attention towards the

constant focus and attention towards the

constant focus and attention towards the sport I had a lot of feeling in living

sport I had a lot of feeling in living

sport I had a lot of feeling in living I was simply done and this time I

I was simply done and this time I

I was simply done and this time I stopped him and asked lowly walked back

stopped him and asked lowly walked back

stopped him and asked lowly walked back with the living your life as sometimes

with the living your life as sometimes

with the living your life as sometimes you must be the things he loved in order

you must be the things he loved in order

you must be the things he loved in order to move ahead in life I chose to pursue

to move ahead in life I chose to pursue

to move ahead in life I chose to pursue long and I took no Instagram and I

long and I took no Instagram and I

long and I took no Instagram and I landed up an esper got off one of the

landed up an esper got off one of the

landed up an esper got off one of the best lawyer universities in the country

best lawyer universities in the country

best lawyer universities in the country at this university I interacted with a

at this university I interacted with a

at this university I interacted with a variety of people and they never ever

variety of people and they never ever

variety of people and they never ever saw any difference even company made

saw any difference even company made

saw any difference even company made sure I was okay especially my classmate

sure I was okay especially my classmate

sure I was okay especially my classmate who understood i acquirements in

who understood i acquirements in

who understood i acquirements in specially me when it came to my steering

specially me when it came to my steering

specially me when it came to my steering unfortunately in the postmaster

unfortunately in the postmaster

unfortunately in the postmaster I felt incredibly sick and I had lost my

I felt incredibly sick and I had lost my

I felt incredibly sick and I had lost my way in the ball while recuperating back

way in the ball while recuperating back

way in the ball while recuperating back at momentum by a Yola

at momentum by a Yola

at momentum by a Yola that law is in port

that law is in port

that law is in port passionate about and I chose to talk

passionate about and I chose to talk

passionate about and I chose to talk about after that I had six to seven

about after that I had six to seven

about after that I had six to seven months of doing nothing

months of doing nothing

months of doing nothing especially awkward and depend for me in

especially awkward and depend for me in

especially awkward and depend for me in the beginning because all my life I had

the beginning because all my life I had

the beginning because all my life I had something to do I was constantly focus

something to do I was constantly focus

something to do I was constantly focus of concentrating on something or the

of concentrating on something or the

of concentrating on something or the other right from the time I was three

other right from the time I was three

other right from the time I was three months old oddity verbal therapy neon

months old oddity verbal therapy neon

months old oddity verbal therapy neon developmental therapy speech and drama

developmental therapy speech and drama

developmental therapy speech and drama piano fashion school it was a relentless

piano fashion school it was a relentless

piano fashion school it was a relentless theme of overcoming things one by one by

theme of overcoming things one by one by

theme of overcoming things one by one by one by one it was a tragedy and I was so

one by one it was a tragedy and I was so

one by one it was a tragedy and I was so startled I realized but I could use this

startled I realized but I could use this

startled I realized but I could use this opportunity while I took a bit of time

opportunity while I took a bit of time

opportunity while I took a bit of time to relax and reflect on myself it was

to relax and reflect on myself it was

to relax and reflect on myself it was the first time in the 19 years of my

the first time in the 19 years of my

the first time in the 19 years of my existence there you only think of

existence there you only think of

existence there you only think of measure of my life and what I was

measure of my life and what I was

measure of my life and what I was passionate about it’s not the time I was

passionate about it’s not the time I was

passionate about it’s not the time I was essential to me as I could do the simple

essential to me as I could do the simple

essential to me as I could do the simple things

things

things whenever you’re ready good before and

whenever you’re ready good before and

whenever you’re ready good before and enjoy them going out for dinner with

enjoy them going out for dinner with

enjoy them going out for dinner with friends going to the movies with friends

friends going to the movies with friends

friends going to the movies with friends going out Monday night Drive spending

going out Monday night Drive spending

going out Monday night Drive spending time with family all of these things

time with family all of these things

time with family all of these things became very important to me it made me

became very important to me it made me

became very important to me it made me appreciate things other than the sword

appreciate things other than the sword

appreciate things other than the sword forces of Normandy and the pursuit of

forces of Normandy and the pursuit of

forces of Normandy and the pursuit of excellence when the time came to move

excellence when the time came to move

excellence when the time came to move ahead I realized what I was passionate

ahead I realized what I was passionate

ahead I realized what I was passionate about and I chose that path I also went

about and I chose that path I also went

about and I chose that path I also went back to play mackleton

back to play mackleton

back to play mackleton but this time for this your enjoyment

but this time for this your enjoyment

but this time for this your enjoyment and pleasure of playing the sport I

and pleasure of playing the sport I

and pleasure of playing the sport I think a to death national championship

think a to death national championship

think a to death national championship last and I want Google and abroad in

last and I want Google and abroad in

last and I want Google and abroad in each of them I also played at the

each of them I also played at the

each of them I also played at the Deaflympics

Deaflympics

Deaflympics into Alaska for India ping then we have

into Alaska for India ping then we have

into Alaska for India ping then we have in hand at the beginning from the

in hand at the beginning from the

in hand at the beginning from the support of various people my family and

support of various people my family and

support of various people my family and their institution I overcame throughout

their institution I overcame throughout

their institution I overcame throughout my life I have come across the most

my life I have come across the most

my life I have come across the most beautiful

beautiful

beautiful people who have helped me along my

people who have helped me along my

people who have helped me along my parents my sister my family my teachers

parents my sister my family my teachers

parents my sister my family my teachers coaches doctors surgeons help and

coaches doctors surgeons help and

coaches doctors surgeons help and friends have all conspired to help me

friends have all conspired to help me

friends have all conspired to help me make me what I am today in all our life

make me what I am today in all our life

make me what I am today in all our life there are so many people who silently

there are so many people who silently

there are so many people who silently contribute to up to our West and to

contribute to up to our West and to

contribute to up to our West and to aware me in the same way we do

aware me in the same way we do

aware me in the same way we do contribute to other day by creating a

contribute to other day by creating a

contribute to other day by creating a virtuous cycle of positivity and

virtuous cycle of positivity and

virtuous cycle of positivity and gratitude it is not only people we know

gratitude it is not only people we know

gratitude it is not only people we know but for pets angels who enter our life

but for pets angels who enter our life

but for pets angels who enter our life of eating moments but leave huge impacts

of eating moments but leave huge impacts

of eating moments but leave huge impacts for example on the blind I’m about to

for example on the blind I’m about to

for example on the blind I’m about to Mumbai and I was just furious over I

Mumbai and I was just furious over I

Mumbai and I was just furious over I almost died

almost died

almost died ah swatting at the mouth but a mind

ah swatting at the mouth but a mind

ah swatting at the mouth but a mind doctor on the plane attended to me and

doctor on the plane attended to me and

doctor on the plane attended to me and Steve my life my dad does I mean he went

Steve my life my dad does I mean he went

Steve my life my dad does I mean he went to get blood from the bank they did not

to get blood from the bank they did not

to get blood from the bank they did not have any ice to keep it chilled for the

have any ice to keep it chilled for the

have any ice to keep it chilled for the local train ride he was sitting back to

local train ride he was sitting back to

local train ride he was sitting back to the hospital so he went to a local sugar

the hospital so he went to a local sugar

the hospital so he went to a local sugar cane juice vendor and beg for some eyes

cane juice vendor and beg for some eyes

cane juice vendor and beg for some eyes the man they’re dealing appliance even

the man they’re dealing appliance even

the man they’re dealing appliance even though my dad the Carmichael something

though my dad the Carmichael something

though my dad the Carmichael something good I got some fine I think in my case

good I got some fine I think in my case

good I got some fine I think in my case to life I struggle to eat normally but

to life I struggle to eat normally but

to life I struggle to eat normally but when I got there I stroke of all I truly

when I got there I stroke of all I truly

when I got there I stroke of all I truly believe that I have to eat somewhere in

believe that I have to eat somewhere in

believe that I have to eat somewhere in life there’s so much more I want to do

life there’s so much more I want to do

life there’s so much more I want to do and so much more I want to achieve I’m

and so much more I want to achieve I’m

and so much more I want to achieve I’m going to go ahead just gave me as I

going to go ahead just gave me as I

going to go ahead just gave me as I always have

always have

always have just smile on my face and a belief and

just smile on my face and a belief and

just smile on my face and a belief and the spread that anything is possible

the spread that anything is possible

the spread that anything is possible from a kid who couldn’t walk properly

from a kid who couldn’t walk properly

from a kid who couldn’t walk properly and have to wear thin finish shoes oh

and have to wear thin finish shoes oh

and have to wear thin finish shoes oh man

represent with the country six times

represent with the country six times including in – definitely

including in – definitely

including in – definitely and one of God’s mother’s first

and one of God’s mother’s first

and one of God’s mother’s first countries at the world kept you from a

countries at the world kept you from a

countries at the world kept you from a kid who couldn’t stop properly I have to

kid who couldn’t stop properly I have to

kid who couldn’t stop properly I have to learn me listen and speak

learn me listen and speak

learn me listen and speak oh man who’s standing you right in front

oh man who’s standing you right in front

oh man who’s standing you right in front of you giving this book I am eternally

of you giving this book I am eternally

of you giving this book I am eternally grateful

grateful

grateful it has been an awesome journey

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