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The Punk Rock Hijabi | Sara Salmani | TEDxTurku


imagine a 17 year old girl dressed in

imagine a 17 year old girl dressed in black from head to toe converse shoes

black from head to toe converse shoes

black from head to toe converse shoes red tie on with green day blasting

red tie on with green day blasting

red tie on with green day blasting through her Walkman you might be

through her Walkman you might be

through her Walkman you might be imagining a cute punk rocker but there’s

imagining a cute punk rocker but there’s

imagining a cute punk rocker but there’s something different about this girl

something different about this girl

something different about this girl instead of a mohawk this girl is wearing

instead of a mohawk this girl is wearing

instead of a mohawk this girl is wearing a hijab this girl was not just any girl

a hijab this girl was not just any girl

a hijab this girl was not just any girl this girl was me without even being

this girl was me without even being

this girl was me without even being consciously aware with my religion and

consciously aware with my religion and

consciously aware with my religion and my taste in music was breaking

my taste in music was breaking

my taste in music was breaking stereotypes from all angles they said I

stereotypes from all angles they said I

stereotypes from all angles they said I was a walking contradiction but really I

was a walking contradiction but really I

was a walking contradiction but really I was just being Sara a Muslim girl who

was just being Sara a Muslim girl who

was just being Sara a Muslim girl who happens to like punk rock I was born and

happens to like punk rock I was born and

happens to like punk rock I was born and lastly to finish mother and an Iranian

lastly to finish mother and an Iranian

lastly to finish mother and an Iranian father with two older brothers and a

father with two older brothers and a

father with two older brothers and a younger sister I actually never went to

younger sister I actually never went to

younger sister I actually never went to finish speaking school I went to an

finish speaking school I went to an

finish speaking school I went to an international one

international one

international one growing up in an international

growing up in an international

growing up in an international surrounding helped break down my ideas

surrounding helped break down my ideas

surrounding helped break down my ideas of stereotypes from a very young age we

of stereotypes from a very young age we

of stereotypes from a very young age we came from all corners of the world and

came from all corners of the world and

came from all corners of the world and perceived each other through our actions

perceived each other through our actions

perceived each other through our actions not your ethnic or religious background

not your ethnic or religious background

not your ethnic or religious background this ideology has played an important

this ideology has played an important

this ideology has played an important role in shaping up my identity as the

role in shaping up my identity as the

role in shaping up my identity as the woman I am today I began wearing the

woman I am today I began wearing the

woman I am today I began wearing the hijab at the age of 10 out of my own

hijab at the age of 10 out of my own

hijab at the age of 10 out of my own will my parents actually said I was way

will my parents actually said I was way

will my parents actually said I was way too young but I reveled and insisted and

too young but I reveled and insisted and

too young but I reveled and insisted and said this was my choice and although my

said this was my choice and although my

said this was my choice and although my hijab has went through various different

hijab has went through various different

hijab has went through various different styles throughout the years I’ve never

styles throughout the years I’ve never

styles throughout the years I’ve never taken it off since I was

taken it off since I was

taken it off since I was the typical kid with typical problems

the typical kid with typical problems

the typical kid with typical problems until 9/11 overnight from a kid I had to

until 9/11 overnight from a kid I had to

until 9/11 overnight from a kid I had to become an expert my Muslim identity was

become an expert my Muslim identity was

become an expert my Muslim identity was being questioned every day by the news

being questioned every day by the news

being questioned every day by the news by Hollywood movies

by Hollywood movies

by Hollywood movies the scared neighbors and sometimes even

the scared neighbors and sometimes even

the scared neighbors and sometimes even my own relatives the nature of questions

my own relatives the nature of questions

my own relatives the nature of questions changed from naive curiosity of do you

changed from naive curiosity of do you

changed from naive curiosity of do you shower with your hijab on you blame and

shower with your hijab on you blame and

shower with your hijab on you blame and accusations don’t you know that you are

accusations don’t you know that you are

accusations don’t you know that you are being oppressed answering these

being oppressed answering these

being oppressed answering these questions on daily basis for a teenager

questions on daily basis for a teenager

questions on daily basis for a teenager was hard it still can be all of a sudden

was hard it still can be all of a sudden

was hard it still can be all of a sudden I was supposed to be a master of

I was supposed to be a master of

I was supposed to be a master of theology and an expert in the laws of

theology and an expert in the laws of

theology and an expert in the laws of Sharia at the age of 16 I was

Sharia at the age of 16 I was

Sharia at the age of 16 I was interviewed for a TV show asking me

interviewed for a TV show asking me

interviewed for a TV show asking me about beheadings happening somewhere in

about beheadings happening somewhere in

about beheadings happening somewhere in the Middle East and to give my

the Middle East and to give my

the Middle East and to give my interpretations of Quranic scriptures I

interpretations of Quranic scriptures I

interpretations of Quranic scriptures I was 16 and I had never lived in the

was 16 and I had never lived in the

was 16 and I had never lived in the Middle East and yet there I was having

Middle East and yet there I was having

Middle East and yet there I was having to explain it I was asked to defend

to explain it I was asked to defend

to explain it I was asked to defend women’s hijab will showing me borkus I

women’s hijab will showing me borkus I

women’s hijab will showing me borkus I had never worn a broker in my life and

had never worn a broker in my life and

had never worn a broker in my life and yet there I was having to explain it

yet there I was having to explain it

yet there I was having to explain it instead of going on with my mundane

instead of going on with my mundane

instead of going on with my mundane teenage life I was forced to defend my

teenage life I was forced to defend my

teenage life I was forced to defend my existential right what’s the first word

existential right what’s the first word

existential right what’s the first word that comes to mind when I say Muslim

that comes to mind when I say Muslim

that comes to mind when I say Muslim let’s be honest terrorists an image of

let’s be honest terrorists an image of

let’s be honest terrorists an image of me was being sold that I couldn’t

me was being sold that I couldn’t

me was being sold that I couldn’t identify with the media kept telling me

identify with the media kept telling me

identify with the media kept telling me that I was oppressed that I was an

that I was oppressed that I was an

that I was oppressed that I was an extremist an Islamist a terrorist so at

extremist an Islamist a terrorist so at

extremist an Islamist a terrorist so at the age of 17 I began to go through an

the age of 17 I began to go through an

the age of 17 I began to go through an identity crisis that lasted throughout

identity crisis that lasted throughout

identity crisis that lasted throughout some years for a moment in my life

some years for a moment in my life

some years for a moment in my life stop thinking about my religion I never

stop thinking about my religion I never

stop thinking about my religion I never stopped believing but I just didn’t want

stopped believing but I just didn’t want

stopped believing but I just didn’t want to think about it anymore and in

to think about it anymore and in

to think about it anymore and in retrospect that was one of the most

retrospect that was one of the most

retrospect that was one of the most challenging periods of my life because

challenging periods of my life because

challenging periods of my life because my religion had always been something

my religion had always been something

my religion had always been something that I was extremely proud of but the

that I was extremely proud of but the

that I was extremely proud of but the constant defense mode just wanted to

constant defense mode just wanted to

constant defense mode just wanted to make me swept it all under the carpet

make me swept it all under the carpet

make me swept it all under the carpet but the truth was and is that this is my

but the truth was and is that this is my

but the truth was and is that this is my identity it is Who I am

identity it is Who I am

identity it is Who I am and without it I began to feel empty the

and without it I began to feel empty the

and without it I began to feel empty the stereotypes being shoved in my face had

stereotypes being shoved in my face had

stereotypes being shoved in my face had become so strong that they pushed me

become so strong that they pushed me

become so strong that they pushed me away from my true self and for a period

away from my true self and for a period

away from my true self and for a period in my life I closed up about it but as

in my life I closed up about it but as

in my life I closed up about it but as they say it takes darkness to see the

they say it takes darkness to see the

they say it takes darkness to see the light in the 70s

light in the 70s

light in the 70s my mother was studying in London where

my mother was studying in London where

my mother was studying in London where she met my father one day she simply

she met my father one day she simply

she met my father one day she simply picked up the phone called a prayer mom

picked up the phone called a prayer mom

picked up the phone called a prayer mom told her that she had become a Muslim

told her that she had become a Muslim

told her that she had become a Muslim and was now married fast forward a bit

and was now married fast forward a bit

and was now married fast forward a bit she then moved to Iran for 10 years

she then moved to Iran for 10 years

she then moved to Iran for 10 years during the iran-iraq war which my father

during the iran-iraq war which my father

during the iran-iraq war which my father was filming it must have been a

was filming it must have been a

was filming it must have been a challenging time for her and her family

challenging time for her and her family

challenging time for her and her family but my mom had made up her mind and she

but my mom had made up her mind and she

but my mom had made up her mind and she would not but this passion and belief

would not but this passion and belief

would not but this passion and belief has been an inspiration for me until

has been an inspiration for me until

has been an inspiration for me until this this day this is the Muslim woman

this this day this is the Muslim woman

this this day this is the Muslim woman that I have learned to know the

that I have learned to know the

that I have learned to know the strong-willed passionate and sometimes

strong-willed passionate and sometimes

strong-willed passionate and sometimes stubborn and this is the Muslim woman

stubborn and this is the Muslim woman

stubborn and this is the Muslim woman who I was I just spend my days sitting

who I was I just spend my days sitting

who I was I just spend my days sitting at home being oppressed I spent my days

at home being oppressed I spent my days

at home being oppressed I spent my days going to concerts hanging out with

going to concerts hanging out with

going to concerts hanging out with friends studying working enjoying good

friends studying working enjoying good

friends studying working enjoying good food with good company super normal

food with good company super normal

food with good company super normal sometimes even boring things that just

sometimes even boring things that just

sometimes even boring things that just seem to be a myth when it comes down to

seem to be a myth when it comes down to

seem to be a myth when it comes down to the Muslim image in the mainstream I

the Muslim image in the mainstream I

the Muslim image in the mainstream I knew that I had to be true to myself and

knew that I had to be true to myself and

knew that I had to be true to myself and if I wanted to change the Muslim image

if I wanted to change the Muslim image

if I wanted to change the Muslim image in the

in the

in the stream I had to become more vocal we are

stream I had to become more vocal we are

stream I had to become more vocal we are not oppressed we are strong and

not oppressed we are strong and

not oppressed we are strong and determined we are free spirits

determined we are free spirits

determined we are free spirits intelligent enough to acquire our own

intelligent enough to acquire our own

intelligent enough to acquire our own knowledge and make our own decisions so

knowledge and make our own decisions so

knowledge and make our own decisions so I began to fight these three types and

I began to fight these three types and

I began to fight these three types and the only way that I was able to do this

the only way that I was able to do this

the only way that I was able to do this was by staying true to myself and taking

was by staying true to myself and taking

was by staying true to myself and taking action one of the main reasons to why I

action one of the main reasons to why I

action one of the main reasons to why I faced an identity crisis was for the

faced an identity crisis was for the

faced an identity crisis was for the fact that I never really had any role

fact that I never really had any role

fact that I never really had any role models in the mainstream that I could

models in the mainstream that I could

models in the mainstream that I could relate to I never saw another hijab’

relate to I never saw another hijab’

relate to I never saw another hijab’ rocking the guitar on MTV does that mean

rocking the guitar on MTV does that mean

rocking the guitar on MTV does that mean that we don’t exist we do exist we just

that we don’t exist we do exist we just

that we don’t exist we do exist we just needed to be more vocal about it and

needed to be more vocal about it and

needed to be more vocal about it and instead of letting others speak on our

instead of letting others speak on our

instead of letting others speak on our behalf we had to take a hold of the

behalf we had to take a hold of the

behalf we had to take a hold of the narrative and share our stories I found

narrative and share our stories I found

narrative and share our stories I found out that the best way that I could

out that the best way that I could

out that the best way that I could approach this to help break down

approach this to help break down

approach this to help break down stereotypes was for others to start

stereotypes was for others to start

stereotypes was for others to start seeing Muslims as consumers okay hold on

seeing Muslims as consumers okay hold on

seeing Muslims as consumers okay hold on consumers let me explain

Muslims stereotypes of Muslims have

Muslims stereotypes of Muslims have become so black and white that we even

become so black and white that we even

become so black and white that we even need to fight for our right to be seen

need to fight for our right to be seen

need to fight for our right to be seen as consumers as ordinary people who

as consumers as ordinary people who

as consumers as ordinary people who enjoy we see hundreds of ads on a daily

enjoy we see hundreds of ads on a daily

enjoy we see hundreds of ads on a daily basis and I realized that none of them

basis and I realized that none of them

basis and I realized that none of them had ever spoken to me directly and I

had ever spoken to me directly and I

had ever spoken to me directly and I wanted to change that because

wanted to change that because

wanted to change that because recognition in the ad and marketing

recognition in the ad and marketing

recognition in the ad and marketing world initiates acceptance and speaks or

world initiates acceptance and speaks or

world initiates acceptance and speaks or coexistence and we as well are included

coexistence and we as well are included

coexistence and we as well are included and have a place in this society that’s

and have a place in this society that’s

and have a place in this society that’s me

me

me inside of shopping center it is creating

inside of shopping center it is creating

inside of shopping center it is creating the first Ramadan and Eid campaign in

the first Ramadan and Eid campaign in

the first Ramadan and Eid campaign in Finland the campaign ended with a Big

Finland the campaign ended with a Big

Finland the campaign ended with a Big East celebration commemorating the end

East celebration commemorating the end

East celebration commemorating the end of Ramadan which is a holy fasting month

of Ramadan which is a holy fasting month

of Ramadan which is a holy fasting month for Muslims it was the first time that a

for Muslims it was the first time that a

for Muslims it was the first time that a major company took a stand and

major company took a stand and

major company took a stand and recognized Muslims as consumers and

recognized Muslims as consumers and

recognized Muslims as consumers and although it was a commercial opportunity

although it was a commercial opportunity

although it was a commercial opportunity at first it really had an impact that we

at first it really had an impact that we

at first it really had an impact that we did not see coming when we first started

did not see coming when we first started

did not see coming when we first started there were protests lasting for months

there were protests lasting for months

there were protests lasting for months calling for the stop of Islamization but

calling for the stop of Islamization but

calling for the stop of Islamization but there are also thousands of people

there are also thousands of people

there are also thousands of people positively impacted because they finally

positively impacted because they finally

positively impacted because they finally felt like they belong it served as a

felt like they belong it served as a

felt like they belong it served as a meeting point for for people from all

meeting point for for people from all

meeting point for for people from all backgrounds join together simply to

backgrounds join together simply to

backgrounds join together simply to celebrate this was more than about

celebrate this was more than about

celebrate this was more than about consumption or a campaign I’ll never

consumption or a campaign I’ll never

consumption or a campaign I’ll never forget that 15 year old boy who came up

forget that 15 year old boy who came up

forget that 15 year old boy who came up to me he had lived his whole life in

to me he had lived his whole life in

to me he had lived his whole life in Finland he came up to me and said it

Finland he came up to me and said it

Finland he came up to me and said it feels like Eid for the first time in my

feels like Eid for the first time in my

feels like Eid for the first time in my life imagine someone coming up to you

life imagine someone coming up to you

life imagine someone coming up to you and saying it feels like Christmas for

and saying it feels like Christmas for

and saying it feels like Christmas for the first time this is Halima Aden she

the first time this is Halima Aden she

the first time this is Halima Aden she is the first a job’ model to walk the

is the first a job’ model to walk the

is the first a job’ model to walk the New York Fashion Week runway this is

New York Fashion Week runway this is

New York Fashion Week runway this is empty Haj Mohammed she is an Olympic

empty Haj Mohammed she is an Olympic

empty Haj Mohammed she is an Olympic bronze medal winner for fencing this is

bronze medal winner for fencing this is

bronze medal winner for fencing this is Yuna known for recording with superstars

Yuna known for recording with superstars

Yuna known for recording with superstars like Usher and this is Malala winning

like Usher and this is Malala winning

like Usher and this is Malala winning the Nobel Peace Prize at the age of 17

the Nobel Peace Prize at the age of 17

the Nobel Peace Prize at the age of 17 these are only handful of the millions

these are only handful of the millions

these are only handful of the millions of Muslim women who are changing the

of Muslim women who are changing the

of Muslim women who are changing the game breaking stereotypes and being role

game breaking stereotypes and being role

game breaking stereotypes and being role models for young Muslim girls and this

models for young Muslim girls and this

models for young Muslim girls and this here is Nike announcing the launch of

here is Nike announcing the launch of

here is Nike announcing the launch of pro hitch up sportswear designed for

pro hitch up sportswear designed for

pro hitch up sportswear designed for most

most

most women this is only one brand of the many

women this is only one brand of the many

women this is only one brand of the many currently aspiring to recognize Muslims

currently aspiring to recognize Muslims

currently aspiring to recognize Muslims as consumers and I can say it’s all

as consumers and I can say it’s all

as consumers and I can say it’s all thanks to the hard work of Muslim women

thanks to the hard work of Muslim women

thanks to the hard work of Muslim women themselves for taking hold of the

themselves for taking hold of the

themselves for taking hold of the narrative it hasn’t been an easy road

narrative it hasn’t been an easy road

narrative it hasn’t been an easy road and we still have a long way to go but I

and we still have a long way to go but I

and we still have a long way to go but I say it with confidence that the future

say it with confidence that the future

say it with confidence that the future looks bright I may have grown up in my

looks bright I may have grown up in my

looks bright I may have grown up in my teens without a role model in the

teens without a role model in the

teens without a role model in the mainstream but I had a role model that

mainstream but I had a role model that

mainstream but I had a role model that nurtured me from the start my role model

nurtured me from the start my role model

nurtured me from the start my role model was and still is my mother and like my

was and still is my mother and like my

was and still is my mother and like my mother was to me I know that I’ll be a

mother was to me I know that I’ll be a

mother was to me I know that I’ll be a role model to my daughter and I know

role model to my daughter and I know

role model to my daughter and I know that by staying true to herself she will

that by staying true to herself she will

that by staying true to herself she will break down every stereotype that comes

break down every stereotype that comes

break down every stereotype that comes down her path and when my time comes I

down her path and when my time comes I

down her path and when my time comes I will rest in peace knowing that a hijabi

will rest in peace knowing that a hijabi

will rest in peace knowing that a hijabi punk-rock girl is no longer breaking

punk-rock girl is no longer breaking

punk-rock girl is no longer breaking stereotypes but she’s just a girl with

stereotypes but she’s just a girl with

stereotypes but she’s just a girl with great taste in music

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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