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The predictive power of children’s games | Birgit Peeters | TEDxCarouge


I believe that being truthful to

I believe that being truthful to yourself brings good to the world every

yourself brings good to the world every

yourself brings good to the world every person has the right to be unique and

person has the right to be unique and

person has the right to be unique and yet we fail to be ourselves we fail to

yet we fail to be ourselves we fail to

yet we fail to be ourselves we fail to let our children be who they are this is

let our children be who they are this is

let our children be who they are this is a journey to inspire you how to get

a journey to inspire you how to get

a journey to inspire you how to get closer to yourself in order to fully

closer to yourself in order to fully

closer to yourself in order to fully live and play your role in this life and

live and play your role in this life and

live and play your role in this life and let me be clear the button set has been

let me be clear the button set has been

let me be clear the button set has been switched on since you were a child

switched on since you were a child

switched on since you were a child childhood is very short especially if

childhood is very short especially if

childhood is very short especially if you want to live to 100 like I do well

you want to live to 100 like I do well

you want to live to 100 like I do well I’m not sure if other around me would

I’m not sure if other around me would

I’m not sure if other around me would agree with that

agree with that

agree with that who else wants to live to a hundred

who else wants to live to a hundred

who else wants to live to a hundred okay well medicine and technology are

okay well medicine and technology are

okay well medicine and technology are allowing us today to live to a hundred

allowing us today to live to a hundred

allowing us today to live to a hundred years but reaching a hundred is not

years but reaching a hundred is not

years but reaching a hundred is not enough

enough

enough who wants a great life well yes this is

who wants a great life well yes this is

who wants a great life well yes this is how I explain childhood to my children

how I explain childhood to my children

how I explain childhood to my children hundred years are like ten fingers every

hundred years are like ten fingers every

hundred years are like ten fingers every finger represents a decade childhood

finger represents a decade childhood

finger represents a decade childhood means one and an half finger this is a

means one and an half finger this is a

means one and an half finger this is a very short period we are allowed to be

very short period we are allowed to be

very short period we are allowed to be children well you still have the second

children well you still have the second

children well you still have the second half of the second other half of the

half of the second other half of the

half of the second other half of the second finger but then you’re a kind of

second finger but then you’re a kind of

second finger but then you’re a kind of a hybrid especially too old for this

a hybrid especially too old for this

a hybrid especially too old for this kind of finger explanation well eight

kind of finger explanation well eight

kind of finger explanation well eight years and a half of adulthood and yet

years and a half of adulthood and yet

years and a half of adulthood and yet our full essence is concentrated in the

our full essence is concentrated in the

our full essence is concentrated in the one and an half finger full essence is

one and an half finger full essence is

one and an half finger full essence is there in our childhood and what we love

there in our childhood and what we love

there in our childhood and what we love to play as a child as a child I loved to

to play as a child as a child I loved to

to play as a child as a child I loved to play theater so much I wanted to go to

play theater so much I wanted to go to

play theater so much I wanted to go to drama school

drama school

drama school I knew what I wanted playing theater was

I knew what I wanted playing theater was

I knew what I wanted playing theater was entirely me and it was what I loved most

entirely me and it was what I loved most

entirely me and it was what I loved most do you see this head well surely you

do you see this head well surely you

do you see this head well surely you cannot look inside but my head stood in

cannot look inside but my head stood in

cannot look inside but my head stood in the way

the way

the way curious girl smart student she’s gonna

curious girl smart student she’s gonna

curious girl smart student she’s gonna become a lawyer what happened to me is

become a lawyer what happened to me is

become a lawyer what happened to me is rather banal it happens to a lot of us I

rather banal it happens to a lot of us I

rather banal it happens to a lot of us I chose to choose what was expected of me

chose to choose what was expected of me

chose to choose what was expected of me the young woman listening to the child

the young woman listening to the child

the young woman listening to the child in her was not being hurt at 28 I became

in her was not being hurt at 28 I became

in her was not being hurt at 28 I became a general manager well I told you brainy

a general manager well I told you brainy

a general manager well I told you brainy stuff inside well real adulthood status

stuff inside well real adulthood status

stuff inside well real adulthood status I was sure competent and making things

I was sure competent and making things

I was sure competent and making things better but is this it was the main

better but is this it was the main

better but is this it was the main feeling I had it felt a bit like playing

feeling I had it felt a bit like playing

feeling I had it felt a bit like playing the role of a general manager well

the role of a general manager well

the role of a general manager well wasn’t that what I wanted Parenthood two

wasn’t that what I wanted Parenthood two

wasn’t that what I wanted Parenthood two baby girls one born on Atherton of

baby girls one born on Atherton of

baby girls one born on Atherton of January and another one born on the 14th

January and another one born on the 14th

January and another one born on the 14th of January I will let you figure out how

of January I will let you figure out how

of January I will let you figure out how that is possible a typical female

that is possible a typical female

that is possible a typical female dilemma arises how was I going to be a

dilemma arises how was I going to be a

dilemma arises how was I going to be a great mom and a great professional well

great mom and a great professional well

great mom and a great professional well banal again men seem to be less bothered

banal again men seem to be less bothered

banal again men seem to be less bothered by this but are they really Superman

by this but are they really Superman

by this but are they really Superman well this superwoman chose to opt out of

well this superwoman chose to opt out of

well this superwoman chose to opt out of the traditional working world what could

the traditional working world what could

the traditional working world what could I do to organize work in a more creative

I do to organize work in a more creative

I do to organize work in a more creative way I labeled myself as an inventor of

way I labeled myself as an inventor of

way I labeled myself as an inventor of other ways of working and set up my own

other ways of working and set up my own

other ways of working and set up my own company we say that the greatest things

company we say that the greatest things

company we say that the greatest things are born out of personal frustration and

are born out of personal frustration and

are born out of personal frustration and I agree but there is more to it my tree

I agree but there is more to it my tree

I agree but there is more to it my tree strong natural born challenge her

strong natural born challenge her

strong natural born challenge her creativity were at work

creativity were at work

creativity were at work but I didn’t know it at a time when you

but I didn’t know it at a time when you

but I didn’t know it at a time when you were a child did your parents tell you

were a child did your parents tell you

were a child did your parents tell you what to play or were you free to cut the

what to play or were you free to cut the

what to play or were you free to cut the hair of your favorite baby doll and make

hair of your favorite baby doll and make

hair of your favorite baby doll and make it tent under the Christmas dining table

it tent under the Christmas dining table

it tent under the Christmas dining table well who those who are parents do you

well who those who are parents do you

well who those who are parents do you oblige your children to play with the

oblige your children to play with the

oblige your children to play with the games you chose normally we adults we do

games you chose normally we adults we do

games you chose normally we adults we do not force our children to play with the

not force our children to play with the

not force our children to play with the games we chose does it sound scary well

games we chose does it sound scary well

games we chose does it sound scary well it is what we do years later as our

it is what we do years later as our

it is what we do years later as our children grow older we influence we

children grow older we influence we

children grow older we influence we guide them towards a future of roleplay

guide them towards a future of roleplay

guide them towards a future of roleplay we think we know better but we do not

we think we know better but we do not

we think we know better but we do not listen to their emotions we guide them

listen to their emotions we guide them

listen to their emotions we guide them towards diplomas for the sake of

towards diplomas for the sake of

towards diplomas for the sake of security status and money we did not

security status and money we did not

security status and money we did not tell our little children what to play we

tell our little children what to play we

tell our little children what to play we shouldn’t tell them what role to play in

shouldn’t tell them what role to play in

shouldn’t tell them what role to play in life because too many times it ends up

life because too many times it ends up

life because too many times it ends up in roleplay well society and the school

in roleplay well society and the school

in roleplay well society and the school system they kind of guide us towards

system they kind of guide us towards

system they kind of guide us towards being competent and maybe competent and

being competent and maybe competent and

being competent and maybe competent and happy too many of us put ourselves

happy too many of us put ourselves

happy too many of us put ourselves between brackets because we are taught

between brackets because we are taught

between brackets because we are taught to be competent and thus maybe roleplay

to be competent and thus maybe roleplay

to be competent and thus maybe roleplay well maybe there is another way there is

well maybe there is another way there is

well maybe there is another way there is a solution

a solution

a solution remember to one and a half finger a

remember to one and a half finger a

remember to one and a half finger a child is pure and natural a playing

child is pure and natural a playing

child is pure and natural a playing child is where it wants to be where it

child is where it wants to be where it

child is where it wants to be where it needs to be where it chooses to be the

needs to be where it chooses to be the

needs to be where it chooses to be the games you play are an expression of who

games you play are an expression of who

games you play are an expression of who you are

energy vitamin is the nickname I got

energy vitamin is the nickname I got when I was a student I can tell you that

when I was a student I can tell you that

when I was a student I can tell you that two years ago the energetic and playful

two years ago the energetic and playful

two years ago the energetic and playful person I normally am was not feeling

person I normally am was not feeling

person I normally am was not feeling like a playing child well do you have

like a playing child well do you have

like a playing child well do you have that sometimes too like you feel that

that sometimes too like you feel that

that sometimes too like you feel that something is wrong but you cannot really

something is wrong but you cannot really

something is wrong but you cannot really pinpoint what exactly well besides being

pinpoint what exactly well besides being

pinpoint what exactly well besides being too much in my head being the

too much in my head being the

too much in my head being the trustworthy consultant I was not fully

trustworthy consultant I was not fully

trustworthy consultant I was not fully expressing my thirteen strong

expressing my thirteen strong

expressing my thirteen strong natural-born talents everything is

natural-born talents everything is

natural-born talents everything is already there everything is in the

already there everything is in the

already there everything is in the one-and-a-half inger and yet we fail to

one-and-a-half inger and yet we fail to

one-and-a-half inger and yet we fail to recognize it we fail to mate make the

recognize it we fail to mate make the

recognize it we fail to mate make the ten the intangible tangible so my

ten the intangible tangible so my

ten the intangible tangible so my intuition just told me follow the guide

intuition just told me follow the guide

intuition just told me follow the guide of being a child and play and playing

of being a child and play and playing

of being a child and play and playing games because you will get out of your

games because you will get out of your

games because you will get out of your zone of discomfort by this so let me

zone of discomfort by this so let me

zone of discomfort by this so let me share a bit of that experience with you

share a bit of that experience with you

share a bit of that experience with you take one the two baby girls well they’re

take one the two baby girls well they’re

take one the two baby girls well they’re grown up almost grown-up adults they’re

grown up almost grown-up adults they’re

grown up almost grown-up adults they’re teenagers today childish ones I’m not

teenagers today childish ones I’m not

teenagers today childish ones I’m not supposed to tell you this mirror mirror

supposed to tell you this mirror mirror

supposed to tell you this mirror mirror on the wall why are children worse and

on the wall why are children worse and

on the wall why are children worse and Snow White stepmother why do children

Snow White stepmother why do children

Snow White stepmother why do children confront us so much with ourselves

confront us so much with ourselves

confront us so much with ourselves because they know where they have to be

because they know where they have to be

because they know where they have to be because they just are it is the purest

because they just are it is the purest

because they just are it is the purest form of humanity take two as an adult

form of humanity take two as an adult

form of humanity take two as an adult make space to let the child and you come

make space to let the child and you come

make space to let the child and you come out on a cold Saturday I found a perfect

out on a cold Saturday I found a perfect

out on a cold Saturday I found a perfect excuse to play like a child

excuse to play like a child

excuse to play like a child reverse day our children played that

reverse day our children played that

reverse day our children played that they were the parents they were washing

they were the parents they were washing

they were the parents they were washing our dirty pile of clothes they were even

our dirty pile of clothes they were even

our dirty pile of clothes they were even irony and cooking spaghetti that was

irony and cooking spaghetti that was

irony and cooking spaghetti that was the easy one after four hours they gave

the easy one after four hours they gave

the easy one after four hours they gave up role-playing parent was a nice to try

up role-playing parent was a nice to try

up role-playing parent was a nice to try but not funny me and my husband didn’t

but not funny me and my husband didn’t

but not funny me and my husband didn’t ask to stop you know we were really

ask to stop you know we were really

ask to stop you know we were really enjoying playing like children

enjoying playing like children

enjoying playing like children so really roleplay like role-playing a

so really roleplay like role-playing a

so really roleplay like role-playing a child is a great experience adults love

child is a great experience adults love

child is a great experience adults love it

it

it children a little bit less but don’t

children a little bit less but don’t

children a little bit less but don’t tell them just check it out

tell them just check it out

tell them just check it out so children empower me when I play like

so children empower me when I play like

so children empower me when I play like a child I’m empowered but what about

a child I’m empowered but what about

a child I’m empowered but what about that little girl I was and that loved to

that little girl I was and that loved to

that little girl I was and that loved to play with so many games take tree hi my

play with so many games take tree hi my

play with so many games take tree hi my name is Bridget Peters I want an

name is Bridget Peters I want an

name is Bridget Peters I want an analysis of my natural-born talents and

analysis of my natural-born talents and

analysis of my natural-born talents and I want to become an analyst myself why

I want to become an analyst myself why

I want to become an analyst myself why am i standing here today in front of you

am i standing here today in front of you

am i standing here today in front of you because I believe that being truthful to

because I believe that being truthful to

because I believe that being truthful to yourself brings good to the world the

yourself brings good to the world the

yourself brings good to the world the impact of the analysis is standing in

impact of the analysis is standing in

impact of the analysis is standing in front of you tree strong natural born

front of you tree strong natural born

front of you tree strong natural born challenge links to expressing myself are

challenge links to expressing myself are

challenge links to expressing myself are at play and I’m enjoying it this amazing

at play and I’m enjoying it this amazing

at play and I’m enjoying it this amazing person called Danielle found it there is

person called Danielle found it there is

person called Danielle found it there is a clear link between what you love to

a clear link between what you love to

a clear link between what you love to play as a child and what makes you happy

play as a child and what makes you happy

play as a child and what makes you happy as an adult 25 years of hard empiric

as an adult 25 years of hard empiric

as an adult 25 years of hard empiric evidence made the intangible tangible I

evidence made the intangible tangible I

evidence made the intangible tangible I believe in intrinsic motivation whether

believe in intrinsic motivation whether

believe in intrinsic motivation whether you’re motivated or whether you’re not

you’re motivated or whether you’re not

you’re motivated or whether you’re not do you know about a person that is half

do you know about a person that is half

do you know about a person that is half motivated that’s maybe called comfort

motivated that’s maybe called comfort

motivated that’s maybe called comfort zone I also believe in clarity and

zone I also believe in clarity and

zone I also believe in clarity and sometimes our competencies meaning what

sometimes our competencies meaning what

sometimes our competencies meaning what you have learned at school or by

you have learned at school or by

you have learned at school or by experience they hide away the clarity we

experience they hide away the clarity we

experience they hide away the clarity we already have inside of us so let me ask

already have inside of us so let me ask

already have inside of us so let me ask you to close your eyes for a few seconds

you to close your eyes for a few seconds

you to close your eyes for a few seconds please we’re going back in time

please we’re going back in time

please we’re going back in time you’re eight years old maybe nine or ten

you’re eight years old maybe nine or ten

you’re eight years old maybe nine or ten what are you playing

what are you playing

what are you playing are you inside are you outside or maybe

are you inside are you outside or maybe

are you inside are you outside or maybe maybe your boat what toy do you hold in

maybe your boat what toy do you hold in

maybe your boat what toy do you hold in your hand who is with you do you hear

your hand who is with you do you hear

your hand who is with you do you hear yourself laughing doing it again feel

yourself laughing doing it again feel

yourself laughing doing it again feel the joy of that kid you were because

the joy of that kid you were because

the joy of that kid you were because this is where your energy life this is

this is where your energy life this is

this is where your energy life this is who you are please let me ask you to

who you are please let me ask you to

who you are please let me ask you to come back people fear change we need to

come back people fear change we need to

come back people fear change we need to pay bills what if you could pay more pay

pay bills what if you could pay more pay

pay bills what if you could pay more pay more bills or even more expensive bills

more bills or even more expensive bills

more bills or even more expensive bills because you stopped working you start

because you stopped working you start

because you stopped working you start playing now future is very unpredictable

playing now future is very unpredictable

playing now future is very unpredictable soon we will have to collaborate with

soon we will have to collaborate with

soon we will have to collaborate with robots and a robot might be as competent

robots and a robot might be as competent

robots and a robot might be as competent as you are our future is unpredictable

as you are our future is unpredictable

as you are our future is unpredictable but our past say something about

but our past say something about

but our past say something about predictability the difference between

predictability the difference between

predictability the difference between you and the robot is your personality

you and the robot is your personality

you and the robot is your personality proudly human means being entirely

proudly human means being entirely

proudly human means being entirely yourself being truthful to yourself play

yourself being truthful to yourself play

yourself being truthful to yourself play teaches us a lot about who we are and

teaches us a lot about who we are and

teaches us a lot about who we are and what good we can bring to the world it

what good we can bring to the world it

what good we can bring to the world it is never too late to live a happy

is never too late to live a happy

is never too late to live a happy childhood

childhood

childhood [Applause]

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