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[Music] when I was ten in Trinidad and Tobago in

when I was ten in Trinidad and Tobago in

when I was ten in Trinidad and Tobago in a primary school on a playground

a primary school on a playground

a primary school on a playground four words gripped my heart and set me

four words gripped my heart and set me

four words gripped my heart and set me on a course to look for social justice

on a course to look for social justice

on a course to look for social justice and those four words came to me because

and those four words came to me because

and those four words came to me because among 200 to 300 children every day was

among 200 to 300 children every day was

among 200 to 300 children every day was one one individual whose hair was never

one one individual whose hair was never

one one individual whose hair was never cold whose shirt was never as white and

cold whose shirt was never as white and

cold whose shirt was never as white and as crisp as mine whose skirt was never

as crisp as mine whose skirt was never

as crisp as mine whose skirt was never as pressed and as pleated as mine and

as pressed and as pleated as mine and

as pressed and as pleated as mine and who never wore a decent pair of shoes

who never wore a decent pair of shoes

who never wore a decent pair of shoes and you know we were in that playground

and you know we were in that playground

and you know we were in that playground day in and day out and then one day I

day in and day out and then one day I

day in and day out and then one day I looked at that child and I saw her I saw

looked at that child and I saw her I saw

looked at that child and I saw her I saw her as a human being and it touched me

her as a human being and it touched me

her as a human being and it touched me and the only thing I can do is go home

and the only thing I can do is go home

and the only thing I can do is go home and say mummy how is it possible how is

and say mummy how is it possible how is

and say mummy how is it possible how is it possible that a child could be in a

it possible that a child could be in a

it possible that a child could be in a playground among all of us and no one do

playground among all of us and no one do

playground among all of us and no one do anything to change her circumstance what

anything to change her circumstance what

anything to change her circumstance what can we do and be in the humanitarian

can we do and be in the humanitarian

can we do and be in the humanitarian that my mom was she came in and she

that my mom was she came in and she

that my mom was she came in and she discovered what was happening as it

discovered what was happening as it

discovered what was happening as it turned out this young lady was actually

turned out this young lady was actually

turned out this young lady was actually living in an abandoned bus with her

living in an abandoned bus with her

living in an abandoned bus with her mother and siblings and therefore she

mother and siblings and therefore she

mother and siblings and therefore she could not show up to school as I did

could not show up to school as I did

could not show up to school as I did well that question that I asked at that

well that question that I asked at that

well that question that I asked at that point in my life when I was 10 years old

point in my life when I was 10 years old

point in my life when I was 10 years old what can I do it led to this young lady

what can I do it led to this young lady

what can I do it led to this young lady having a chance an opportunity to win

having a chance an opportunity to win

having a chance an opportunity to win fast forward about a decade I know I’m

fast forward about a decade I know I’m

fast forward about a decade I know I’m about 21 in New York City and against

about 21 in New York City and against

about 21 in New York City and against all odds I am determined to earn a

all odds I am determined to earn a

all odds I am determined to earn a degree in Communication Arts and

degree in Communication Arts and

degree in Communication Arts and thankfully enough my parents were able

thankfully enough my parents were able

thankfully enough my parents were able to cover that cost but they were not

to cover that cost but they were not

to cover that cost but they were not able to cover my living expenses and so

able to cover my living expenses and so

able to cover my living expenses and so I needed to work and so I head out

I needed to work and so I head out

I needed to work and so I head out looking for work and of all jobs that

looking for work and of all jobs that

looking for work and of all jobs that fall into my lap it’s a teaching gig I

fall into my lap it’s a teaching gig I

fall into my lap it’s a teaching gig I know if you had asked me if I was going

know if you had asked me if I was going

know if you had asked me if I was going to be a teacher I would have said no I

to be a teacher I would have said no I

to be a teacher I would have said no I was the worst student that existed I

was the worst student that existed I

was the worst student that existed I gave the teachers the most trouble in my

gave the teachers the most trouble in my

gave the teachers the most trouble in my school and therefore I was never going

school and therefore I was never going

school and therefore I was never going to be a teacher because I know God was

to be a teacher because I know God was

to be a teacher because I know God was wide awake yeah so nevertheless I needed

wide awake yeah so nevertheless I needed

wide awake yeah so nevertheless I needed to work and this is what came and that

to work and this is what came and that

to work and this is what came and that became my passion when in my early days

became my passion when in my early days

became my passion when in my early days of teaching I was running a video

of teaching I was running a video

of teaching I was running a video production class doing some video work

production class doing some video work

production class doing some video work with some young children about 20 of

with some young children about 20 of

with some young children about 20 of them and a little one comes into my room

them and a little one comes into my room

them and a little one comes into my room and she’s sprightly she’s colorful she

and she’s sprightly she’s colorful she

and she’s sprightly she’s colorful she has two different colored socks things

has two different colored socks things

has two different colored socks things in her hair she’s very busy but very

in her hair she’s very busy but very

in her hair she’s very busy but very very very friendly and she comes into my

very very friendly and she comes into my

very very friendly and she comes into my space and she’s looking at me and I said

space and she’s looking at me and I said

space and she’s looking at me and I said oh yes can I help you and she says I

oh yes can I help you and she says I

oh yes can I help you and she says I want to be here I said but you don’t

want to be here I said but you don’t

want to be here I said but you don’t have this class on your schedule so she

have this class on your schedule so she

have this class on your schedule so she says yes but I want to be here I said

says yes but I want to be here I said

says yes but I want to be here I said you don’t belong here she says miss

you don’t belong here she says miss

you don’t belong here she says miss Thompson you are wrong I belong here I

Thompson you are wrong I belong here I

Thompson you are wrong I belong here I said well why don’t you go to the office

said well why don’t you go to the office

said well why don’t you go to the office get it changed and come back and I will

get it changed and come back and I will

get it changed and come back and I will bring you in so she goes to the office

bring you in so she goes to the office

bring you in so she goes to the office gets a chance and she comes back and she

gets a chance and she comes back and she

gets a chance and she comes back and she comes back with such a passion to be the

comes back with such a passion to be the

comes back with such a passion to be the best performer that she can be that I

best performer that she can be that I

best performer that she can be that I hooked into that spirit and I used it as

hooked into that spirit and I used it as

hooked into that spirit and I used it as inspiration to be the best teacher that

inspiration to be the best teacher that

inspiration to be the best teacher that I could be

and then something happened a 14-year

and then something happened a 14-year old boy was shot dead on Madison Avenue

old boy was shot dead on Madison Avenue

old boy was shot dead on Madison Avenue and that question that question came

and that question that question came

and that question that question came back into my heart what can I do was i

back into my heart what can I do was i

back into my heart what can I do was i doing enough the answer to that question

doing enough the answer to that question

doing enough the answer to that question brought life to necessary arts and we

brought life to necessary arts and we

brought life to necessary arts and we ran programs in drama and dance to any

ran programs in drama and dance to any

ran programs in drama and dance to any child who would come off the street from

child who would come off the street from

child who would come off the street from 6:00 to 8:00 in the evening and then

6:00 to 8:00 in the evening and then

6:00 to 8:00 in the evening and then life happened and I had to return to

life happened and I had to return to

life happened and I had to return to Trinidad and Tobago and when I got to

Trinidad and Tobago and when I got to

Trinidad and Tobago and when I got to Trinidad and Tobago I questioned again

Trinidad and Tobago I questioned again

Trinidad and Tobago I questioned again what can I do what are the children of

what can I do what are the children of

what can I do what are the children of my country gaining through the Arts and

my country gaining through the Arts and

my country gaining through the Arts and I decided to register necessary arts as

I decided to register necessary arts as

I decided to register necessary arts as an NGO in Trinidad and Tobago while

an NGO in Trinidad and Tobago while

an NGO in Trinidad and Tobago while working a full-time job and using my

working a full-time job and using my

working a full-time job and using my salary to subsidize the cost of the

salary to subsidize the cost of the

salary to subsidize the cost of the program because I had to do something

program because I had to do something

program because I had to do something and there was a mandate that I said that

and there was a mandate that I said that

and there was a mandate that I said that necessary arts will bring in 10% of its

necessary arts will bring in 10% of its

necessary arts will bring in 10% of its participants as at-risk children any

participants as at-risk children any

participants as at-risk children any at-risk child who wanted to come into

at-risk child who wanted to come into

at-risk child who wanted to come into our program necessary arts found a way

our program necessary arts found a way

our program necessary arts found a way for them to be there and they were to

for them to be there and they were to

for them to be there and they were to make up 10% of our population and we

make up 10% of our population and we

make up 10% of our population and we were able to do that for good seven

were able to do that for good seven

were able to do that for good seven years four years into that something

years four years into that something

years four years into that something happened my mom was diagnosed with

happened my mom was diagnosed with

happened my mom was diagnosed with cancer and three years later she passed

cancer and three years later she passed

cancer and three years later she passed and when she passed I made a life

and when she passed I made a life

and when she passed I made a life decision

decision

decision and the question came up again am i

and the question came up again am i

and the question came up again am i doing enough what can I do well then I

doing enough what can I do well then I

doing enough what can I do well then I decided to travel halfway across the

decided to travel halfway across the

decided to travel halfway across the world and I ended up in the Middle East

world and I ended up in the Middle East

world and I ended up in the Middle East I ended up in Far East Asia Southeast

I ended up in Far East Asia Southeast

I ended up in Far East Asia Southeast Asia and now I’m back in the Middle East

Asia and now I’m back in the Middle East

Asia and now I’m back in the Middle East Dubai and I have a fabulous job in Dubai

Dubai and I have a fabulous job in Dubai

Dubai and I have a fabulous job in Dubai and I am teaching and I clock out at

and I am teaching and I clock out at

and I am teaching and I clock out at 3:30 and I go home and then the question

3:30 and I go home and then the question

3:30 and I go home and then the question starts to come back up Naima what can

starts to come back up Naima what can

starts to come back up Naima what can you do what can you do what can you do

you do what can you do what can you do

you do what can you do what can you do well while I am in this region it makes

well while I am in this region it makes

well while I am in this region it makes complete sense to me to get to the

complete sense to me to get to the

complete sense to me to get to the communities within this region with

communities within this region with

communities within this region with necessary arts and so I register

necessary arts and so I register

necessary arts and so I register necessary yards as a branch here in

necessary yards as a branch here in

necessary yards as a branch here in Dubai and I get on a plane and I travel

Dubai and I get on a plane and I travel

Dubai and I get on a plane and I travel to Kenya now I don’t know anybody in

to Kenya now I don’t know anybody in

to Kenya now I don’t know anybody in Kenya but I want to do something I want

Kenya but I want to do something I want

Kenya but I want to do something I want to feel as if my existence and my talent

to feel as if my existence and my talent

to feel as if my existence and my talent and my gifts are specifically to change

and my gifts are specifically to change

and my gifts are specifically to change people’s lives so I get on that plane

people’s lives so I get on that plane

people’s lives so I get on that plane and I get to Kenya and I tell the travel

and I get to Kenya and I tell the travel

and I get to Kenya and I tell the travel agent listen I don’t want a safari I

agent listen I don’t want a safari I

agent listen I don’t want a safari I don’t want to go jumping up and down

don’t want to go jumping up and down

don’t want to go jumping up and down with the Maasai I want children

with the Maasai I want children

with the Maasai I want children take me to children and we formed the

take me to children and we formed the

take me to children and we formed the program called reach the unreachable and

program called reach the unreachable and

program called reach the unreachable and we covered five areas across Kenya

we covered five areas across Kenya

we covered five areas across Kenya region up to a hundred children per

region up to a hundred children per

region up to a hundred children per location and throughout that year and a

location and throughout that year and a

location and throughout that year and a half of taken reach the unreachable to

half of taken reach the unreachable to

half of taken reach the unreachable to Kenya something happened I was diagnosed

Kenya something happened I was diagnosed

Kenya something happened I was diagnosed with cancer

I thought well what kind of God is this

I thought well what kind of God is this that is going to look at his daughter

that is going to look at his daughter

that is going to look at his daughter and inflict her with this disease and of

and inflict her with this disease and of

and inflict her with this disease and of course my mom had passed and saw the

course my mom had passed and saw the

course my mom had passed and saw the panic in my heart that I will not be

panic in my heart that I will not be

panic in my heart that I will not be able to fulfill what I knew my purpose

able to fulfill what I knew my purpose

able to fulfill what I knew my purpose would be and I laid many nights in so

would be and I laid many nights in so

would be and I laid many nights in so much pain deep in my bones so much pain

much pain deep in my bones so much pain

much pain deep in my bones so much pain from that chemotherapy and I had to ask

from that chemotherapy and I had to ask

from that chemotherapy and I had to ask Naima are you going to let this cancer

Naima are you going to let this cancer

Naima are you going to let this cancer suck the power out of you and take the

suck the power out of you and take the

suck the power out of you and take the opportunities that you have given to

opportunities that you have given to

opportunities that you have given to these children in Kenya away what can I

these children in Kenya away what can I

these children in Kenya away what can I do I asked myself in that pain and the

do I asked myself in that pain and the

do I asked myself in that pain and the answer that came was inspire other

answer that came was inspire other

answer that came was inspire other teachers to go to Kenya and so I

teachers to go to Kenya and so I

teachers to go to Kenya and so I inspired like-minded educators to go to

inspired like-minded educators to go to

inspired like-minded educators to go to Kenya and take reach the unreachable to

Kenya and take reach the unreachable to

Kenya and take reach the unreachable to the children and they did well I

the children and they did well I

the children and they did well I survived cancer and I am completely

survived cancer and I am completely

survived cancer and I am completely cancer-free thank you ah so the question

cancer-free thank you ah so the question

cancer-free thank you ah so the question comes up again in my life and now that

comes up again in my life and now that

comes up again in my life and now that you’re cancer-free what are you gonna do

you’re cancer-free what are you gonna do

you’re cancer-free what are you gonna do I find myself in a country in the Middle

I find myself in a country in the Middle

I find myself in a country in the Middle East standing among almost 40 children

East standing among almost 40 children

East standing among almost 40 children who have survived crisis and conflict

who have survived crisis and conflict

who have survived crisis and conflict and some of the worst atrocities and I

and some of the worst atrocities and I

and some of the worst atrocities and I am standing amidst these children and I

am standing amidst these children and I

am standing amidst these children and I realize I am so inadequate I am in

realize I am so inadequate I am in

realize I am so inadequate I am in adequate there is no way I can help

adequate there is no way I can help

adequate there is no way I can help these kids with everything that I have

these kids with everything that I have

these kids with everything that I have all the talent that I have I cannot help

all the talent that I have I cannot help

all the talent that I have I cannot help them and so the question comes up again

them and so the question comes up again

them and so the question comes up again what can I do and so I go and I have a

what can I do and so I go and I have a

what can I do and so I go and I have a meeting with some psychologists

meeting with some psychologists

meeting with some psychologists who share with me that they too were

who share with me that they too were

who share with me that they too were feeling inadequate and that conventional

feeling inadequate and that conventional

feeling inadequate and that conventional psychiatric methods were no longer

psychiatric methods were no longer

psychiatric methods were no longer enough to work with traumatized children

enough to work with traumatized children

enough to work with traumatized children and that they indeed had to become

and that they indeed had to become

and that they indeed had to become creative and innovative and risk takers

creative and innovative and risk takers

creative and innovative and risk takers and that it would be a good idea to

and that it would be a good idea to

and that it would be a good idea to collaborate with artists to try to find

collaborate with artists to try to find

collaborate with artists to try to find a middle ground where we can reach these

a middle ground where we can reach these

a middle ground where we can reach these children and in that process it occurred

children and in that process it occurred

children and in that process it occurred to me that I could pursue drama therapy

to me that I could pursue drama therapy

to me that I could pursue drama therapy and so the answer to my question what

and so the answer to my question what

and so the answer to my question what can I do was do some research find out

can I do was do some research find out

can I do was do some research find out more about drama therapy and pursue it

more about drama therapy and pursue it

more about drama therapy and pursue it and so I did and so now I am an intern

and so I did and so now I am an intern

and so I did and so now I am an intern drama therapist registered with the

drama therapist registered with the

drama therapist registered with the North American drama therapy Association

North American drama therapy Association

North American drama therapy Association in San Francisco and I am in the middle

in San Francisco and I am in the middle

in San Francisco and I am in the middle of studies to earn that certification

well in my quest to understand drama

well in my quest to understand drama therapy I wanted to try it out with a

therapy I wanted to try it out with a

therapy I wanted to try it out with a with a very specific program so I took

with a very specific program so I took

with a very specific program so I took myself to Tobago and with a team of us

myself to Tobago and with a team of us

myself to Tobago and with a team of us and we went to work with about 20 young

and we went to work with about 20 young

and we went to work with about 20 young people and it was there that I met a

people and it was there that I met a

people and it was there that I met a young man named diamond we set out to

young man named diamond we set out to

young man named diamond we set out to tell their stories we set out to have

tell their stories we set out to have

tell their stories we set out to have them be the protagonists in their own

them be the protagonists in their own

them be the protagonists in their own stories as we role-played their

stories as we role-played their

stories as we role-played their real-life stories and diamond story had

real-life stories and diamond story had

real-life stories and diamond story had to do with being an athlete diamond was

to do with being an athlete diamond was

to do with being an athlete diamond was representing Trinidad and Tobago as a

representing Trinidad and Tobago as a

representing Trinidad and Tobago as a track star and he took the block and

track star and he took the block and

track star and he took the block and before the gun could go off he went off

before the gun could go off he went off

before the gun could go off he went off and he held that failure that false

and he held that failure that false

and he held that failure that false start and it broke him and when he

start and it broke him and when he

start and it broke him and when he looked to his community for support they

looked to his community for support they

looked to his community for support they crushed him in the roleplay we rewind

crushed him in the roleplay we rewind

crushed him in the roleplay we rewind the story he takes the block again and

the story he takes the block again and

the story he takes the block again and before he can go off before the gun

before he can go off before the gun

before he can go off before the gun could go off he goes off and again he

could go off he goes off and again he

could go off he goes off and again he feels that failure but this time in the

feels that failure but this time in the

feels that failure but this time in the roleplay his community lifts him up and

roleplay his community lifts him up and

roleplay his community lifts him up and in that moment Dimon experiences what we

in that moment Dimon experiences what we

in that moment Dimon experiences what we call catharsis such a significant change

call catharsis such a significant change

call catharsis such a significant change in emotion that brought him to tears and

in emotion that brought him to tears and

in emotion that brought him to tears and to the realization that he can succeed

to the realization that he can succeed

to the realization that he can succeed and in that moment I realized that I had

and in that moment I realized that I had

and in that moment I realized that I had made the right choice and that pursuing

made the right choice and that pursuing

made the right choice and that pursuing drama therapy was absolutely the way to

drama therapy was absolutely the way to

drama therapy was absolutely the way to go the question what can I do when I was

go the question what can I do when I was

go the question what can I do when I was 10 years old in a playground has stayed

10 years old in a playground has stayed

10 years old in a playground has stayed with me my entire life and it drives me

with me my entire life and it drives me

with me my entire life and it drives me and guides me to do the best that I can

and guides me to do the best that I can

and guides me to do the best that I can do for Humanity and so the question is

do for Humanity and so the question is

do for Humanity and so the question is what can you do

can I urge you to dig deep for the power

can I urge you to dig deep for the power of you to ask the question what can I do

of you to ask the question what can I do

of you to ask the question what can I do might I make a suggestion that perhaps

might I make a suggestion that perhaps

might I make a suggestion that perhaps the next time you take a walk in the

the next time you take a walk in the

the next time you take a walk in the mall that you look for the hired help

mall that you look for the hired help

mall that you look for the hired help who is walking behind the privileged and

who is walking behind the privileged and

who is walking behind the privileged and let your eyes meet theirs look above

let your eyes meet theirs look above

let your eyes meet theirs look above their foreheads and see the words I have

their foreheads and see the words I have

their foreheads and see the words I have value and offer up a smile to that

value and offer up a smile to that

value and offer up a smile to that person or might I ask you on your next

person or might I ask you on your next

person or might I ask you on your next vacation if you are traveling for about

vacation if you are traveling for about

vacation if you are traveling for about ten days to take two of those days and

ten days to take two of those days and

ten days to take two of those days and go to a remote village in a developing

go to a remote village in a developing

go to a remote village in a developing nation and sit with a child with a book

nation and sit with a child with a book

nation and sit with a child with a book and read and see the images and the

and read and see the images and the

and read and see the images and the words come off of that page through your

words come off of that page through your

words come off of that page through your voice and touch a child that’s what I

voice and touch a child that’s what I

voice and touch a child that’s what I could suggest I don’t know what you

could suggest I don’t know what you

could suggest I don’t know what you would do but might I please add you to

would do but might I please add you to

would do but might I please add you to dig deep and recognize the power of you

dig deep and recognize the power of you

dig deep and recognize the power of you and act upon it by asking what can I do

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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